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The Ever Better Life Podcast

The Ever Better Life Podcast

By Steve & Melissa

Join life coaches Steve and Melissa as they share tips and insights for Improving What it's Like to Be You!

Season one of the podcast will be all about improving your romantic relationships.
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Games People Play

The Ever Better Life PodcastJan 15, 2024

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Games People Play

Games People Play

In this video, we share tips for catching the unconscious games you play that are making your life miserable! If like this video, you'll love Awareness School.

We start Mon Jan 22. https://www.everbetterlifeuniversity.com/awareness-school-Jan2024

Jan 15, 202401:33:29
What Do You Owe Other People? What Do They Owe You?

What Do You Owe Other People? What Do They Owe You?

What Do You Owe Other People? What Do They Owe You?

Oct 20, 202050:40
You Are Not Obligated to Worry
Mar 21, 202001:07:34
Stay Cool, Stay Calm, Get Fit

Stay Cool, Stay Calm, Get Fit

We are breaking from our season one topic of Relationship and shifting into practical things you can do right now to make the best of this very unusual global situation. We think this is our best episode yet!

Mar 17, 202047:33
Bringing Out the Best in Your Partner

Bringing Out the Best in Your Partner

Do you remember when being with your partner brought out the happiest and most fully expressed version of yourself? This is often the case early on in the relationship, but it's not uncommon for this dynamic to change over time. On this episode we discuss how you can get back to making each other shine!

Mar 13, 202039:06
16. Dealing With Infidelity

16. Dealing With Infidelity

Being cheated on can be a shattering experience... but is that the only option? Today we get into the topic of infidelity and explore different ways of thinking and new perspectives.

Mar 09, 202037:38
15. Moving On After a Break Up

15. Moving On After a Break Up

As a follow up to our last episode on breaking up we are talking about moving on! We get into how you feel without suppressing and process without wallowing.

Mar 06, 202036:57
14. Thoughts on Breaking Up

14. Thoughts on Breaking Up

How do you know when it's time to end a relationship? 

Mar 04, 202042:48
13. Listening to Your Partner

13. Listening to Your Partner

Are you listening to your partner? Are you paying attention to the subtle aspects of their communication? Are you able to read between the lines? Today we get into the topic of listening and discuss the nuances of really hearing your partner.

Send topic requests to support@everbetterlife.com

Feb 24, 202046:08
12. Unintentional Duplicity

12. Unintentional Duplicity

Oh do we have a juicy episode for you today! We are talking about Unintentional Duplicity and insincere communication that can lead to all sorts of problems. 

Feb 21, 202039:05
11. Personal Commitment to Resourceful Responding

11. Personal Commitment to Resourceful Responding

We have a bit of a challenge for you this week to commit to responding resourcefully regardless of the invitations you receive from your partner to fall back into old response patterns. Listen in and give it a try!

Feb 17, 202041:34
10. Single On Valentine's Day?

10. Single On Valentine's Day?

Happy Valentine's Day! Today we're talking about singleness and what to do if you're unhappy and dissatisfied with your single status. 

Feb 14, 202032:52
9. Breaking Out of the Push Pull Dynamic

9. Breaking Out of the Push Pull Dynamic

Have you ever felt obsessed with a person after they rejected you or gotten into a dysfunctional pattern of pulling away when they pursue you and vice versa? If so, today's episode will provide you with some new ways to think about your romantic situations and why this pattern may be perpetuating.

Feb 10, 202029:57
8. Vulnerability

8. Vulnerability

Do you want to run for the hills when you start feeling vulnerable with the person you're dating? Today we discuss our take on vulnerability and whether or not it's a good thing.

Feb 07, 202029:54
7. It's Okay to Have Problems

7. It's Okay to Have Problems

Have you ever felt discouraged or disheartened because of recurring problems in your relationship? On this episode we will discuss a new way to think about your problems that will help set you free from feeling bad so you can start using your mind to create new results!

Feb 05, 202029:27
6. Are You Nice to Your Partner?

6. Are You Nice to Your Partner?

On this episode we discuss how not being nice and having ritualistic fights can become normal in your relationship when you are unaware of the patterns and perspectives that are driving these habits.

Jan 14, 202001:02:21
5. Lack of Communication

5. Lack of Communication

Do you feel like communication with your partner is unsatisfying or nonexistent? In this episode, we explore the topic of communication and reasons that communication may seem to be lacking in your relationship. 

Dec 24, 201957:55
4. Asleep at the Wheel

4. Asleep at the Wheel

Are you asleep at the wheel of your relationship? Do your fights follow an eerily similar pattern of back and forth frustrations? Has it been feeling like Groundhogs Day for the last few... years? If so, today's episode is for you. Here we get into how what many people think are "communication issues" are actually an orchestrated part of an even bigger issue.

Dec 17, 201954:17
3. I'm Growing, but My Partner isn't...

3. I'm Growing, but My Partner isn't...

In preparation for this season of the podcast we asked people some of the major relationship issues they deal with and one of the BIG ones was feeling like you are bettering yourself, growing, and evolving, but your partner is not. 

Either they just aren't interested for themselves and that bothers you or they are ridiculing you or holding you back from moving in the direction you want to go.

In this episode, we discuss things you can do right now to begin to become more aware of the role that you're playing in this dynamic and perspective shifts that you may find useful, 

Dec 09, 201901:03:38
2. 7 Patterns for Relationship Success

2. 7 Patterns for Relationship Success

On this episode we are covering our 7 Patterns for Relationship Success. These are high level, over arching principles that you can begin to use in your relationship right away to help improve your interactions with your significant other. 

Dec 02, 201901:09:50
1. Getting to Know You

1. Getting to Know You

Welcome friends! We are re-launching the Ever Better Life Podcast! Our first season is going to be focused on improving your romantic relationships. In this first episode we set the stage for what we will be diving into this season. 

Nov 25, 201951:12