Non-award-winning solo podcast hosted by a midwest raised, middle-aged generation X'er, selectively shy, attention seeking, introvert (but necessarily extroverted), former shock rock radio morning show host now a corporate marketing executive, energetic only child, with daddy issues, slight OCD, and adequately ADHD medicated grown ass man ranting into a microphone, from all over the world (but mostly from Downtown Kansas City, early in the morning daily.
My senior year of high school was exciting and full of drama. A significant football injury changed the course of what I thought my life was supposed to be. College became so depressing and couldn't wait to get out of it but dropping out wasn't the most excellent idea. Entering the adult world was confusing and scary AF. I was quick to learn about bills, cocaine, and how my laziness was now a huge problem.
My life was pretty exciting at 17 years old. I had no idea what I was doing but it was fun with my best friend John Wilhelm. At 17 I also met the first girl I would fall in love with and continue to love into adulthood. Michelle wasn't a girlfriend but a new friend I loved and I knew she loved me too. Just a bunch of crazy teenagers exploring adventures in Kansas.
In this second episode discussing the story of my life, I address the darkest time of my teenage years. Dealing with a close friend committing suicide at 17 years old does send one down a dark and confusing path. If it weren't for the fantastic new friend I would make my junior year in high school, I don't know what would have happened to me. John Wilhelm brought me out of the darkness and changed my life forever.
Whether it's for me for when I get older, my parents or old friends, new friends, or just the people that listen to the Everyone Needs a Little podcast to get to know me better; so I start telling the story of my life in today's episode. It's also a way for me to see how the stories of my life growing up have made me the man I am today. My philosophy is saying things out loud to help one own shit.
I confirmed with myself last night that I have absolutely zero fear of public speaking. Studies say that public speaking is one of humans' biggest fears and I happy with myself that it doesn't affect me but what are the other top fears humans have and do any of those affect me. One of them hits me kind of hard and inspires a future podcast episode.
An article I read 15 years ago sticks with me to this day when dealing with homophobic people. The article highlighted a study that showed a connection between being homophobic and having gay tendencies. The more homophobic you are the more likely you are a closeted homosexual or bisexual. It actually makes a lot of sense. Especially in the town I grew up in.
I will admit that I can be an immature little boy when it comes with not getting my way. Even as a middle-aged man I have to keep checking myself when I respond to things that I don't agree with. Reading an article today with data from the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin really puts this challenge I have in perspective. The article also helps me understand more about content being posted by some people in my network know as "Vaguebooking".
Article referred to in today's episode:
Have you taken the "Love Language" test? It outlines five ways to express and experience love that author of the book "The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate" Gary Chapman calls "love languages": receiving gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch. My love language is "Words of Affirmation," and I hate it. I hate that the way I feel love and appreciation is "using words to build up the other person" according to the definition in the book. I despise for me to feel appreciated is based on nice things said to me. Constantly seeking positive feedback is haunting. It is extremely tough, especially being a middle-aged man working in a male-dominated professional arena. Men don't tend to praise other men.
Kendall Jenner teased on her social media channels last week that she had a huge personal announcement and her fans got very concerned. Was Kendall Jenner going to reveal that she was sick, had her own #MeToo story, or something worse? Nope, Kendall Jenner, and her mom Kris Jenner trolled their fans by announcing something I found hilarious, but their fans did not.
I'm also discussing on the podcast episode today about lack of self-awareness on social media. Thanks to the First Amendment to the US Constitution you can say whatever you want, as long as you're not inciting violence, but you not free from consequences to your words. Some people still cannot grasp that concept.
Cold and Rainy in Los Angeles last couple days with a brief relief of sunshine yesterday afternoon while visiting the Getty Center. I thought the name J. Paul Getty (for whom the Getty Center gets its name) sounded familiar, so I Googled him. Yup, he's the guy who didn't pay the ransom to his grandson's kidnappers back in the '70s.
Also talking first cars, getting hit by a drunk driver, people running into me while walking, and crazy LA weather this weekend.
Had a great time driving around Southern California today but had some surreal moments when passing by the fire devastation that has happened recently. Seeing entire Mountains burned out and many homes destroyed was difficult. Fortunately, I had an amazing personal highlight while on Airforce One. Yes, the POTUS plane.
"It's been a wild ride.
A lot of miles. A road sometimes smooth, sometimes hard and ugly.
And I guess I could tell you that if you look hard enough, that just next door is just as interesting as the other side of the world.
But ... That's not exactly true.
If I do have any advice for anybody, any final thought, if I'm an advocate for anything, it's to move.
As far as you can, as much as you can.
Across the ocean, or simply across the river.
The extent to which you can walk in somebody else's shoes--or at least eat their food--it's a plus for everybody.
Open your mind. Get up off the couch. Move."
- Anthony Bourdain
Heaven is a place man has created to answer one of life's biggest questions, "What happens when you die?" I've had my theory for many years now, and it sounds far-fetched, but I have the chance of being right just as much as the next schmuck. Many holes in my theory but who knows?
My love/hate relationship with social media continues. I feel like I can't unplug from it, but sometimes I want to. Especially when I see posts from people I thought were smart, but they continue to post bullshit stories, facts, and misinformation. I used to call them out or do the research for them showing what they are spreading online is just complete nonsense but feel like it's just not worth the work anymore.
Also, WTF is up with the Trump GOT poster he had laid out on the table during his first cabinet meeting for 2019 and why did zero reports ask him why it was there? I'm mind boggled.
Megan sent me a Facebook post titled "Rules for Sons" and thought it might be a good topic to discuss for the podcast. Right away I noticed a huge change I would make along with a lot of suggested changes throughout the list. Need to title it "Rules for People" not just rules for sons.
RULES FOR SONS:
1. Never shake a man’s hand sitting down.
2. Don’t enter a pool by the stairs.
3. The man at the BBQ Grill is the closest thing to a king.
4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer.
5. Request the late check-out.
6. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
7. Hold your heroes to a higher standard.
8. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.
9. Play with passion or not at all…
10. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look them in the eye.
11. Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
12. If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.
13. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.
14. You marry the girl, you marry her family.
15. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.
16. Experience the serenity of traveling alone.
17. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.
18. Never turn down a breath mint.
19. A sport coat is worth 1000 words.
20. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising.
21. Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.
22. Eat lunch with the new kid.
23. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.
24. Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.
25. Manners maketh the man.
26. Give credit. Take the blame.
27. Stand up to Bullies. Protect those bullied.
28. Write down your dreams.
29. Always protect your siblings (and teammates).
30. Be confident and humble at the same time.
31. Call and visit your parents often. They miss you.
32. The healthiest relationships are those where you’re a team; where you respect, protect, and stand up for each other.
New Year resolutions never worked for me. Too many changes I wanted to make at the beginning of the year stacked on top of each other. No wonder I couldn't complete or finish any of them. This year I'm taking advice from a chapter of Grant Cardone's book "10X". 2019 will be the year of successions for me.
2018 was a good year. This podcast has allowed me to grow more than I ever expected. I'm heading into 2019 with so many positive thoughts and actions. No New Year resolutions for me, but I am going into 2019 with a plan for more happiness and adventure. One part of that plan is learning how to make amazing Gumbo, amongst a lot of other fun things.
After a challenge we had at the hotel in Cumberland, MD Megan said I would be the perfect person in our group to talk with the General Manager to fix the problem. This statement made me curious, and I ask her more about her suggesting me to be the one to handle a lousy customer experience challenge.
And after spending Christmas day with my father, I realized it is me that hasn't changed. I still carry a grudge with him, and that needs to change. Time to forgive and move forward. No more excuses about "daddy issues."
My list of favorite diners for breakfast in America:
Visiting Monticello yesterday had me leaving with a different opinion of Thomas Jefferson. The former POTUS and founding father that was once my favorite historical character have now my brain thinking he was a complete dick that raped a young slave girl named Sally. Sure Jefferson gave some fantastic things to humanity and Americans, like the Declaration of Independence and the University of Virginia, but fathering four children with a slave and then burying the fact is a horrible taste in my mouth. This Jefferson realization has me now thinking of other "celebrities" & "leaders" that have disappointed me after learning of shitty things they have done as well.
Today I woke up 10 minutes away from Thomas Jefferson's home in Charlottesville, VA. Jefferson has been my favorite POTUS my entire life, and I have no idea why. Maybe my visit today to Monticello will help me figure it out.
Megan tells the story of how her parents had challenges with Hello Fresh meals. No fault to Hello Fresh at all, this was entirely user error. And it's hard to believe with all my travels that I finally popped my Airbnb cherry last night in Virginia
When it comes to having a passion for something my new friend Nicholas takes the cake. Nicholas is the absolute frontrunner for knowledge and understanding of the television show Survivor. This 15-year-old had seen every episode of every season at least ten times, even the seasons that were on the air before he was born. Nicholas and discuss his passion and love for the tv show, and I encourage him to take it to the next level. Podcasting has brought me so much joy, so I wanted to give Nicholas suggestion and the basics to get started with his own "Survivor" themed podcast. Great interview with Nicholas, even with the constant distractions from his aunts just wanting to pinch his cheeks in happiness for him figuratively.
As part of my mother's Christmas gift, and because I love her, I attended Christmas Eve Church services with her. I've done this a few times with her in the past couple months and noticed it brings her happiness. But after a night of staying out too late, being lazy all day, and a big dinner it became a challenge to not pass out in the pew at 10 pm Christmas Eve services.
And can we talk about the murder mystery television shows on HLN and MSNBC? I encountered a few episodes during my lazy day yesterday that had me cracking up.
"It is your duty and obligation to find happiness." That quote is continually coming up in my life. But what does that mean and how do you start the journey to find happiness? This question often comes up in real life conversations I have with people that want to be happier. I am a constant work in progress and will continue on the happiness finding journey for my entire life but what was the situation for me that started the journey. Who I was to who I am today in night and day, so what was it that sparked my fire? I still have my down days, but nothing like I used to.
A "holiday" the majority of us know about because of the television show "Seinfeld", but what exactly is Festivus and is it a real thing?
I'm having some interesting conversations with old friends while I'm back in my hometown for the holidays. A lot of them wanting to get out of this town and into a new life. Got me thinking, can you MacGyver your existing life instead of uprooting?
I'm in my hometown of Topeka, KS for the Christmas holiday weekend and staying at my parents'. This morning when I noticed my mother was up early like me I saw the perfect opportunity to sit down and record a podcast episode with her with us drinking coffee sitting at her kitchen table. Using a list of questions I found on the internet titled "50 Questions To Ask Your Mom If You Want To Know Who You Really Are" my mother had a wonderful hour long conversation and I got to know more about myself and her.
Link to the questions mom and I discussed: https://thoughtcatalog.com/holly-riordan/2017/07/50-questions-to-ask-your-mother-if-you-want-to-know-who-you-really-are/
I don't know what has overcome me but I'm feeling the holiday spirit in a positive way. Shit, I even listened to some Christmas music this morning before work. Talking about resolutions today on the podcast and ways I'm going to keep the positive vibes flowing over the holidays and in the new year.
Here's the link to the Buzzfeed quiz in today's episode:
"Answer These Christmas Questions And We'll Give You A New Year's Resolution"
If you haven't seen an episode of Cheers, then you don't know who Cliff Clavin is, but let's say that this mail carrier is the master of knowing all things odd and interesting. This is exactly what this episode is going to do for you, make you the master of knowing all things Christmas that is odd and interesting. You can thank me later after you walk away from your holiday party as the most popular person ever.
Articles referenced in this episode of the podcast:
"10 Weird Conversation Starters for Holiday Parties"
"The 12 Days Of Christmas: A secret code for persecuted Catholics?"
I'm so proud of my buddy Mike and I, and not because we pulled off filming the first video in a new series I'm putting together. I'm proud of us because we got along and didn't bicker like the two middle-aged grumpy, stuck-in-their-ways, stubborn men that we are. We had a great time, and I'm looking forward to editing the video.
Christmas is coming very soon, and for the first time in years, I'm happy and excited for the holiday to come. I'll tell you why in today's podcast episode.
Watched Bo Burnham's movie "Eighth grade" last night and I thought it was a fabulous movie. The film is about Kayla's awkward life in her last week in junior high. A lot of Kayla's situations in the movie brought back my memories of junior high and all of the awkwardness it had. Need to give a quick disclaimer for this podcast episode, it includes the awkward, terrifying but funny telling of my experience of my first orgasm as a 13-year-old in a whirlpool bathtub. Glad I can look back on it now and laugh my butt off.
Articles referenced in today's podcast episode:
Eighth Grade | Official Trailer HD on Youtube:
"8 Things I Know for Sure About (Most) Middle School Kids"
Creative ideas to spark my passion are always coming into my mind. I love making new stuff, whether its videos, recipes or adventures. The challenge I have is that I can go too far down that rabbit hole when doing these projects. Adding more and more ideas to my existing plan and that can burn me out rather fast. This time, as I bring back a creative idea I had seven years ago called Masterpiece Meatloaf (a video series where I film myself preparing original, exciting and unusual meatloaf recipes) I need to keep myself in check and keep it simple. I've made another promise with myself like I did when starting this podcast, to keep it smooth and exciting & not get burned out.
Link to "The Coffee Buzz" podcast hosted by Brad Brumley:
Link to some of the old videos, including the original Masterpiece Meatloaf episodes:
Insecurity is the opposite of motivation. Most, if not all insecurities we have are just bullshit stories we tell ourselves. My insecurity is coming across as a creepy middle-aged bearded man to strangers, especially with women. I know these thoughts and insecurities are all in my head, but with the #MeToo movement, it seems difficult to overcome it.
The article referred to in today's episode:
"10 Things Extremely Creepy People Do (Usually Without Realizing)"
Christmas is for kids and people like my mother so who am I to ruin that from them with my actions in the past as a Scrooge? Even though I'm not a fan of the holidays doesn't mean I can act like an asshole to those that that love this time of year. So, to get me in more of the holiday spirit let's talk about fun interesting facts about Christmas, Hanukkah, and Kwanza in today's episode to see if the Holiday spirit enters my body and pushes me to the point of enjoying the Hallmark Channel's holiday movies (fat chance but you never know.)
The articles used in today's podcast episode:
"50 Random Facts About The Holidays"
"The Man Who Invented Christmas Trailer (2017) Charles Dickens Biopic Movie"
Months ago I promised to address why a lot of people, mostly men, hate Nickelback. I never got around to explaining, but I received a message from Florida cussing me out for never revealing the reason for the massive dislike of Nickelback. Today's episode is the day to put it all out there about Nickelback.
Also addressed in today's podcast episode the unfair dislike by many towards Guy Fieri. That guy is getting a bad rap, but I love that he doesn't seem to give a shit.
Finding personal happiness is extremely hard, especially if we keep listening to the bullshit stories we tell ourselves. I came across a blog today from 2012 that a nurse named Bronnie Ware. For many years Bronnie worked in palliative care. Her patients were those who had gone home to die. She was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives and asked them the hard question, "What do you regret?"
Here is Bronnie Ware's original blog post from 2012:
"REGRETS OF THE DYING"
Something has been wrong in my brain for the past week and instead of talking about it on today's episode let's take a Buzzfeed quiz instead. I'm sure I'll address this weirdness happening with me soon, but I'll instead take the "Are These Things Actually Rude?" quiz and avoid it, at least for now.
There's a man named Ron who has always been in my life, and he is like an uncle to me. When I worked with Ron at my family's construction company back in my teenage years Ron's repetitive nature and personality used to scare me. I didn't want to become repetitive in my own life. I wanted every day in my life as an adult to be different and exciting. I'm 44 years old now, and half of my life is adventurous and exciting, the other half of my life is reclusive and repetitive with zero excitement.
It's hard to look back in 2018 and recognize the fantastic & positive things that have happened because we live in a 24-hour news cycle where negative stories monopolize the headlines. There were so many amazing things that happened, and I point them out in today's podcast episode; Not all the news was about President Trump.
Also in today's episode, I give my simple tip on how you can keep the holidays from stressing you out. It comes down to one word/action: Communication.
The article used in today's podcast episode:
"20 Positive Trends That Will Make You Feel Good About The World In 2018"
Adventure and learning new things is fuel for my soul personally. I always want to try new things and visit many different locations. I've never had a written bucket list but maybe its time to put on together. The act, of putting together a bucket list might also give the opportunity to meet new friends. I found a website online that allows you to network with others while creating and executing a bucket list and I'd for you to join me.
Website to create and network with your bucket list (find & connect with me. My username is "EveryoneNeedsaLittle":
Article about creating a bucket list:
"How to Make a Bucket List: 5 Easy Steps to Create a Great One"
Doctor Emoto's experiment on water can teach us a lot about ourselves. Know it continually reminds me to not be so hard on myself but its hard to stop. I've always claimed to be an asshole, and that thinking is probably affecting me negatively. We're also checking out "19 Things You Know if You're an Asshole" to help me determine if I am genuinely an asshole or at least what percentage of my personality is.
The articles used in today's episode:
"Emoto’s Water Experiment: The Power of Thoughts"
"19 Things You Know If You're An Asshole"
Learning new things every day excites and fuels me, this includes learning the stories of others. Part of my job is interviewing employees at my company for an internal podcast to learn about them. I look forward to sitting down with people with a microphone or video camera recording our conversation. I need more of this in my personal life; broadcasting the loves, passions, and challenges of people in this world.
Link to the "Your Story" videos I did 10 years ago:
Recording the podcast in Irvine, California this morning at my office in southern California. My Southwest flight that got me here yesterday gave me enough points to receive Companion Pass status. That means I can pick someone to fly with me for free for a year with Southwest. That sounds amazing, but it is entirely bittersweet.
The first question to ask yourself is if you want to be happier or are you sabotaging your happiness? The second question is, do you accept that being happy is your duty and obligation? If you're ready to be happy then let us discuss "15 Habits of Incredibly Happy People": https://www.sparringmind.com/be-happy/?fbclid=IwAR3i2PKj1-eZjoi4_BWgjjyigYpbY51Nxrr5AVmazVt01qY8DLMcPlu6wf4
Despite the reason that took me to my hometown over the weekend, my heart was full of joy. I spent Saturday evening with the three guys I consider my brothers having drinks, telling stories, and just loving the fact we were all together living the moment. The joy in my heart continued into Sunday morning when I met my mother at her church. As a non-Christian, this is out of my comfort zone, but I know it brings happiness to her when I join her.
Overall, my weekend had a lot of joy and love.
Warning, here comes the vulnerability again. When people close to me or if public figures die I always take a look at my mortality. In this case, the question of "Who will my Mom contact to be pallbearers at my funeral if I died today" has been on my mind following the death of my friends Mike & Bill's mother and the news of former President Bush passing away last night. I honestly don't know, out of maybe three people who my mom would call on to carry me to the afterlife. My brain is telling me that my challenge of needing most people in this world to like me is keeping me from having more friends. Have my mind telling myself to require people to like me has been a personal challenge my entire life. It's time for a change.
The thought of my opinion on gifts for grown ass men would be so popular with listeners of the podcast is mindblowing. Thank you lady listeners for reaching out and telling me that my gift guide episode for grown ass men is helping and encouraging me to record a part two & part three soon so shopping can start. Thus, by popular demand, here is part two assisting confused women everywhere with shopping for the grown ass man in their lives.
Link to the Everyone Needs a Little Grown Ass Man Gift Suggestions on Amazon: http://a.co/haHljAr
Middle-aged men have been receiving shitty gifts ever since the time of Jesus and the birth of Santa Claus. Today's episode is part of a three-part series to help you put a real smile on the grown ass man in your life's face. It's time to get to know your man and do him a solid this holiday.
The article/list referred to in today's episode:
"70 Best Christmas Gift Ideas for Men"
Every day I get a Facebook alert that Nas Daily has posted a new video, and every day I love watching that video. The videos that Nas Daily put out daily are inspirational, motivational, full of adventure & positivity. The group of friends that travel the world recording and producing these videos seems to be the type of people all of us need in our lives.
Check out & Like the Nas Daily Facebook page here:
More about Nuseir Yassin:
Rake, from Australia, is an excellent series on Netflix currently and in this episode I mention a few more I enjoy. Also in this episode, I address the multitude of opinion journalism articles being spread throughout social media by leftist and right leaning people. It doesn't seem like it's about spreading news anymore, it's about spreading whatever you want to believe and fits one's narrative. Fake news on the internet is an epidemic. Everyone wants to be right, and no one wants to learn or step outside their comfort bubble. Life would be different if we spent more time seeking our happiness passion stimulation instead of artificial stimulation.
Articles referred to in today's episode:
"FACT CHECK: What's Happening On The U.S.-Mexico Border?"
Rake on Netflix
Stuck in North Carolina for 24 hours as I wait for the Kansas City airport to reopen. While in tar heel country I'm reminded of Adam Ruins Everything for absolutely no reason.
Plus Megan is heading to Wichita for her first time. Business travel, because why else would someone go to Wichita?
The articles referred to in today's episode:
"12 Things I Learned On "Adam Ruins Everything" That Made Me Want To Punch A Wall"
The moment I completed accepted that I have been a selfie asshole for the majority of my life has truly metaphorically punched me right in the face this week. A punch so hard that I am going to change that horrible personality trait now, no waiting. I'm tired of being a selfish prick.
Before leaving for vacation I was nervous that I would have to deal with thousands of non-self-aware people getting in my way and being a huge annoyance to me, but now five days into this trip it's becoming aware to me that I'm the asshole. I haven't got in anyone's way but I have stereotyped 3000 people on this cruise ship unfairly. The majority of people on this vacation with us are pretty enjoyable. It's time for me to check myself and become more self-aware instead of worrying about everyone else.
In a recent episode, I talked about why I'm ok not spending Thanksgiving with my family. I hate that my mother thinks I was talking about her, which isn't true. True or not the fact that I have hurt & disappointed my mother makes me incredibly sad. Even though I don't show it, and I probably should more, my mother means the world to me. I need to show her more love and appreciation. I also need to show that love and appreciation to other family members as well, but mom comes first. I never want to disappoint her, I love her way too much.
Spent an entire day on a Jamaican foodie tour in Ocho Rios, Jamaica but the best part of the adventure wasn't the food. The jerk chicken, goat stew, pumpkin rice, rasta pasta, and all of the other dishes I consumed today were fantastic, but it was the chance to meet two Jamaicans that gave me a great perspective to what it was like growing up and living in Jamaica. I took the opportunity to talk with Sashanie on today's podcast episode. Sashanie is born and raised in Jamaica and has never left the island. Not because Sashanie doesn't want to travel outside Jamaica, she doesn't leave because it's just not that easy to get a visa.
Cruising through the Carribean during Thanksgiving week is one of the best adult decisions I've made. As a man who is not a fan of Thanksgiving and Christmas, vacationing during the holidays may end up being a personal tradition. No more Christmas lights, no more awkward conversations with family, no more gift giving anxiety. This idea sounds like heaven .
Its been almost 24 hours we've been on our cruise vacation and we have our pros & cons so far. Spoiler: it has been better than I was expecting and I'm loving it. If you're interested in taking a cruise your pals Megs & Bacon have some great tips, not only for cruising but traveling in general.
I like people but only on my terms, and I believe that makes me an asshole. I hate being an asshole, but it seems that my challenges are ingrained in my personality. Unself-Aware people are my Lex Luther, my Joker, and overall they are my nemesis. Cruise ships and Unself-aware people go together like peanut butter & jelly. Pray for me.
Money can't buy you happiness, but it can make finding your stimulation and passion easier in some situations. But I am 100% sure making excuses to stop yourself from seeking your happiness is the worst thing anyone can do, and in my world, most people I know that give up on finding their joy and stimulation blame it on their kids and family. That breaks my heart. I know there is an excellent middle place in happiness journeys that money or excuses don't have to live. Let's find that place together in today's episode.
I hate going to the grocery store, and I believe I have facts to back up why it is a horrible place. I recognize that most of my points aren't facts but stories I tell myself. Grocery stores bring unwanted anxiety that drives me crazy as I wander around a food store listening to shitty overhead music avoiding as much eye contact as I can.
It's a scenario everyone has thought of, "if I could talk to the younger version of me what, would I tell me?" It's a great exercise to think about your self-awareness enough to want to give your younger version life advice but are we missing something right in front of our face when we imagine talking to our younger version? Are we taking our own advice now? If you think that's deep, wait until you listen to today's episode.
The article referenced in today's episode:
"52 Things I Wish I Could Tell My Younger Self"
Being a man can be tough. Don't get me wrong, being a man is fantastic but some things come with being a man that sucks, especially when it comes to relationships with women. On today's episode, I hope to bridge the gap between men and women by spilling secrets about men that women probably don't know. Not deep into in like discussing masculinism, but just simple things men secretly wish women would understand about the gender with a penis.
The articles referenced in today's podcast episode:
"25 Secrets Men Really Don't Want Women to Know"
"7 Secrets About Men Most Women Don’t Know"
You have to wait 30 minutes before you back to swimming after eating, sugar before bed would keep you up, eating your carrots would make you see better, all examples of lies told to children kids by parents. Those falsehoods shaped many of us, and I don't think many parents knew they were telling bullshit to their kids because it was the same bullshit their parents would lay on them. Let's talk about more of the fun lies we were told as kids.
Articles used in today's episode:
"SIX THINGS YOUR MOM TOLD YOU THAT AREN’T TRUE"
"17 lies your parents told you as a kid (that you still kinda believe)"
Interesting article about author Rachel Hollis, author of the trendy self-help book "Girl, Wash Your Face" has me deep thinking again about the people in my Facebook feed portraying bullshit lives for whatever reason. Men and women both are guilty of this destructive power of marketing themselves falsely online. Why do they do it? Do I do it at some level? Do we all?
The article referenced in today's podcast episode:
"Girl, Wash Your Face” Is A Massive Best-Seller With A Dark Message"
Fun conversation with Lauren, a 13-year-old girl that has been in my life since she was born. Lauren and I talk about the future, popularity, sports, and advice she would give her parents. Plus I teach Lauren one fundamental fact about all middle school kids.
I've been overweight most of my life. Struggling with being fat has just always been in my life. Always worried about others judging me for my size is a constant, even today with all the weight loss I've had recently. Over 400lbs has been my top weight, and to think I wasn't miserable as hell at that size would be a bald-faced lie. But when we are miserable and we accept that misery, we are literally killing ourselves.
The article referenced in today's episode:
"An Imperfect Human's Guide To Body Positivity"
This morning started with me not wanting to record an episode of the podcast, but it quickly turned into the longest solo episode in the history of the show. My passion for creative vs. data type people came out today. This topic sent me down a road of explaining how every single person is different. Labeling and putting people in different metaphoric camps is ridiculous. No two people are the same, but a lot of society is still slapping labels on people that don't deserve them.
I've always sweated a lot. When I work out, there is usually a puddle under me but its when I sweat when I'm not working out that haunts me. Sweating is my true tell/tell sign, and massive anxiety has taken over my body. I can stop it, and trust me I've tried. Sweat pours out of me, and that gives me even more anxiety which makes me sweat more.
I think we grow a lot when someone close to us dies. We either grow, or we die a little ourselves depending on how we cope with the tragedy. MY best bud called me last night to tell me his mother died yesterday. I immediately wanted to step in and start fixing things but recognized I should focus more on providing empathy and also give feedback that I am here to do anything he needs to help with any arrangements. Attempting to work it all out on today's episode and remind myself that it is not about me.
Sometimes I need a reminder of all the excellent advice and best practices I have received from books, videos, and regular conversation from friends and family to help me on my life journey. Putting all that info into a book will be the perfect tool for me and give me the opportunity to share with others.
I also need to send significant kudos to four Southwest Airlines' flight attendants that are merely beautiful, friendly people.
Every 5 or 7 years I tend to reinvent myself, but my reasons for changing in the past was probably for people to accept me more. Had to be someone I thought people wanted me to be. At least the people I thought meant something to me or I desired their friendship and acceptance. Now at 44 years old its time to reinvent again but now for my self-happiness and personal quality of life entirely.
Link to the book Megan mentions in the episode:
"Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life"
Megan and I are talking about micro-adventures poolside in San Diego. Does your location have anything to do with your adventure level? Can an adventure just be going to the park to eat lunch outside or does there need to be more to it? Plus we get into Megan'isms in the episode today discussing the difference between showers verses rinses, and snacks verses meals.
Wikipedia's definition of micro-adventure:
My travels have me broadcasting the podcast from Corona, CA this morning reflexing on all the places and experiences I've had since last Friday. Cleveland, Buffalo, Boston, and now southern California. The amazing advice I've tried to live my life on came from Andrew Zimmern, celebrity chef, business owner and widely known from his television show "Bizzare Foods". I caught his wonderful words, "I try everything twice" and it amazingly changed my life.
Great dinner and conversation with my friend Sara in the North End of Boston. Sara is a motivating person with an inspiring story of moving from the middle east to Boston when she was just 18 years old with no job lined up, no place to live, and couldn't speak English. Our last night dinner conversation was wonderful as we spoke of challenges and successes in our lives, along with how social media has made it easy to appear like one cares but truly does not.
Book referred to in the episode:
"The Power of Your Subconscious Mind: There Are No Limits to the Prosperity, Happiness, and Peace of Mind You Can Achieve Simply by Using the Power of the Subconscious Mind"
Great episode today as I take the podcast with me as we venture to downtown Boston for the Red Sox World Series parade. Talked to two Bostonians about 15 years old straight winning, and I make a promise to myself.
Halloween is an exciting holiday. I love it, but you couldn't tell from today's episode. I think things a lot of things, activities, holidays are fantastic but a minority of people f*ck them up & make them unenjoyable for the rest of us. Halloween is one of those holidays/activities that has been f*cked up for me because of dumb uncreative people.
And on a serious note, can we stop calling women "whores"?!
The article referred to in today's episode:
"Critic's Notebook: 'Frontline' Doc 'The Facebook Dilemma' May Scare You Off Social Media"
Today I turn 44 years old. When I was 20 years old, 44 sounded like an old man. Now I am that "old man," but I feel wonderful. Today is also another special "megs & Bacon" episode where Megan joins me on the podcast before she flys back to North Carolina, and I continue my adventure onto Boston where I will experience the Red Sox World Series Championship parade!
History is made with the first podcast episode being recorded in the car driving. Meg's & Bacon are heading to Buffalo, NY in celebration of Joey's birthday on October 29th. While driving Meg takes the "How Stereotypically White Are You" test. Meg also educates us all on Eris, PA, covered bridges, hot apple cider, and all other white people things Joey and she are about to experience.
Here's the "How Stereotypically White Are You?" quiz:
With all the negativity in the world, it's nice to step back and look at the positives we can create to not only make our lives better but make the lives of others in our world fantastic. Megan joins me again for a special "Megs & Bacon" episode in Cleveland.
The article referenced in today's podcast:
"17 Things To Keep In Mind The Next Time You Get Annoyed With, Uh, Everything"
I love when I can look back on situations and laugh. I'm not sure my mom can do the same because I have truly put her into some embarrassing situations. Including the time I had an extremely attractive lady doctor doing an ultrasound on my testicles.
I begin my 10 day trip around the country today. Starting in Cleveland and ending in San Deigo. Excited to have the podcast on tour again. Plus new episodes of "Megs & Bacon" coming this weekend.
As a middle-aged white dude who is a registered Republican just slightly right of the middle from the midwest a lot of people in the media would like for you to think I'm a Neo-Nazi, racist, woman-hating, fear mongering, white pride Nationalist. I know that I'm not and if you've been listening to this podcast, you know that I'm not, but I have to be very careful about what I say because that label is too easy to stick on people like me even though it's wrong.
People of all cultures need to have more conversations about race & culture. I want to have more conversations about race & culture. I'm going to start with this episode.
The article referenced in the episode:
17-year-old in Independence charged after disturbing Facebook video surfaces
I personally know people that are living lies online through social media sites like Facebook & Instagram. They are putting out personal content for what they want to project to people to see about them. IMO it's 100% for ultimate validation from friends and strangers online because the person lying with their social media content is suffering from extremely low self-esteem, self-love, and/or self-worth. I recognize these people because I used to be that person at the highest level of posting bullshit content online for validation from others.
The opportunity to find something that made me different than everyone else in my childhood was essential to me. At an early age, I recognized that I didn't want to be like everyone else. I found my individualism in becoming a Boston Red Sox fan. Living in Kansas, there were no other Red Sox fans anywhere and picking the MLB team my little league team got it its name from was just a gift from the baseball Gods.
It all started with half-price tickets on LivingSocial for the Junior League Holiday Mart at the Downtown Kansas City Convention Center, aka Bartle Hall. I asked my mom to join me to an event, that turns out to the perfect for women just like my mother. Christmas stuff, wine culture items, lady clothes, jewelry, and snacks everywhere. I know my mom had a wonderful time with me, but I wonder if she knows that I had a fantastic time with her? It was a great day. Time to talk about it.
Websites mentioned in today's episode that you should check out:
Time zones really screw me up. Something simple as a 2-hour change can really screw with me. I woke up after a 10-hour sleep feeling like I had been throw out of a van but what happened at 6:04 am this morning really helped overcome the feeling like hell. It has helped me narrow down thoughts about the 3 things I need in my life currently to improve my happiness. Maybe others need more of the 3 things as well? Let's discuss.
My travels in the past eight years have taken me everywhere but Las Vegas is the city I have experienced more than any other. Today's episode I give the "Joey Little Guide to Visiting Vegas". Its everything you need to know if you want to holiday to the city in the dessert that never sleeps.
The lightbulb went off recently that a lot of my loneliness and sadness the recent years could be from a complete lack of community in my life. After seeing first hand a community group together, I realized how thirsty I am for a sense of belonging that I currently do not have in my life, nor have had for over a decade.
It is now part of my life mission to understand how belonging to a community is essential and need to create that sense of belonging again.
The article(s) referred to in today's episode:
"The Psychology of Communities – 4 Factors that Create a “Sense of Community”"
The podcast is on the Las Vegas strip from the Bellagio Hotel & Casino. Thank you to my friend Alaina for an incredible experience Sunday and introducing me to something different & something I knew nothing about. The experience might be the right direction for me dealing with my disappointment in organized religion and parttime Christian, Jews, and Muslims that try to tell the rest of us how to live our lives.
Today's show also allowed me the platform for expressing one of my great brand new analogies with "Philosophy Buffets."
Plus my Joey Little travel tips on how you can visit Las Vegas exceptionally inexpensively but still have a great time.
Spent a lot of time this week watching lady movies with my friends. These particular friends happen to be beautiful women. Holly and I are a lot closer but it doesn't take away from the fun I have with Lauren. My macho male friends naturally think I should be sleeping with both of them, and can't believe I'm not. But I've learned to love the woman and not the package. It has changed my relationship with women overall. Learning and accepting the friendzone, men don't have to fuck everyone.
It's widely known in the midwest that the West Bottoms in Kansas City has some of the best haunted houses in the country, but I won't find out for myself due to my overactive fight or flight response, also called hyperarousal, or the acute stress response. Fight or Flight is a physiological reaction that occurs in response to a perceived harmful event, attack, or threat to survival.
In other words, if something jumps out and scares me, I will beat the shit out of it.
Articles referenced in today's episode:
"A Man Was Stabbed At A Haunted House After Another Man Handed His Friend A Knife"
"Taming the Fight or Flight Response"
I hate getting gifts for people and it's not because I don't like spending money on people I like & love. To me, gift giving has become lazy, at least my perspective on gift giving. The norms of just "have to grab something" is stupid. I give my philosophy on gift giving in today's episode and tell the funniest story of a gift-giving prank my grandmother played on my grandfather one Christmas.
It is so much easier to make excuses than actually to face accountability for our happiness. But why do we ignore the journey that will change our lives for the better? Why do we think it will be a difficult journey to seek out what mentally stimulates us passionately? What in the f*ck are we so afraid of? Being happy?? It's time to stop making excuses and telling ourselves bullshit stories. Now is the time to start or increase the time spent focusing on the journey to positive mental stimulation and finding our passions.
The article referenced in today's episode:
"Eight ways to find the true passion in life that has eluded you."
Nothing like significant death and tragedy in the news that has me looking at my own life (which seems like a daily thing when watching the news). Death is on my mind every day and some days it's easier to keep the thoughts of my demise under control. I've taught myself to start focusing on discovering my and implementing my passions when the fear of death hits. On the episode this morning distracting myself with the three simple questions to ask yourself to start discovering your passions.
Articles from today's podcast episode:
"20 People Died In A Limo Crash While On Their Way To A Birthday Party"
"The Owner Of The Limo Company Involved In The Deadly New York Crash Was An FBI Informant"
"Eight ways to find the true passion in life that has eluded you"
"5 Ways to Find a Personal Passion That Has Nothing to Do With Your Kids"
It seems like I can't relax and watch a television show or movie without my brain working overtime to find all the challenges with the plot or parts that don't make sense. But after watching the movie Venom or the weekend with friends, I learned something positive about myself and my gift for picking movies and shows apart.
And how many Russians died in World War II?! Whoa.
The article used for stats in today's podcast:
"Research Starters: Worldwide Deaths in World War II"
Alissa and I never got along for the longest time. We are exact opposites when it comes to our personalities and what stimulates us. Alissa is a quiet, go-with-flow, indecisive, introvert that is everything I am not. In the last year, Alissa and I have learned more and more about each other and have become better friends. And even the thought of being on a podcast was extremely uncomfortable for her but we sat down to breakfast and Alissa buried that anxiety the best she could. We have a wonderful conversation to get to know each other's personality better and how we both ticked.
I am a self-admitted attention whore. It's not as bad today as it once was. My challenge is that I want people to like me, I do actually give a shit. Part of that plan to make sure everyone likes me is I want them to find me funny. How can you not like funny people, right? Facebook is way too mainstream for me because I constantly worry who is seeing my stuff and how are they judging me. I'm sure Snapchat will give me anxiety one day but now it's extremely fun! Let's connect on Snapchat, I'm "YouNeedaLittle"!
I've been torn between telling my personal story of sexual assault and continuing to stay quiet as I have been for nearly 30 years. The sexual assault Kavanaugh stories in the news are shaking the world up and creating more tribalism. But when Trump mocked Dr. Ford, one of Kavanaugh's accusers, in front of a massive crowd of his supporters and doubting her because of her "memory," I decided I could not stay quiet any longer.
This episode is one of the hardest things I have ever done. Bare with me.
Fred Rogers was a significant influence on my life, and he'd probably be disappointed with how a lot of us are acting in 2018. I'm becoming more and more frustrated every day with the hardcore Trump supporters and with the over the top entitled leftists. Everyone seems to be a "victim" nowadays. A lot of people are true & real victims, but others have become self-made victims. Today's episode includes "14 Signs Someone Is Always Playing The Victim."
The article referred to the episode:
14 Signs Someone Is Always Playing The Victim
I've got nothing against charities with great marketing to get their cause out to the people, but I do have a problem with companies using those charities to sell more goods & services. I'm referring to the businesses that say; "For every product or service purchased we will donate small dollar amount to the name of the charity here." Why not just donate the money instead of attempting to guilt me into purchasing from you?
Also on the episode today, I brainstorm for the first "Kids Sales Training Conference." It's going to be huge!
October is my birthday month, and every year on October 1st I start getting deep into my head about age and mortality. Turning 44 this has me asking, "Am I where I wanted to be 20 years ago?" There have been some factors in my life that has kept me from actually feeling my age or even being reminded of it, & I think not having kids is one of those factors.
Saw a beautiful movie yesterday I've wanted to see for a while called Black 47'. The film takes place in 1847 Ireland; an Irish Ranger returns from war to find that his mother has died in the famine and his brother is sentenced to death by the British. When his plan to emigrate to America fails, he starts a vendetta against the establishment in Ireland.
Trailer for Black 47': https://youtu.be/q1W1DLwg3lk
A bizarre story in the news this morning about a death in a Jack in the Box drive-thru got my brain triggered again on my biggest fear, dying. Not the actual act of being dead but the moments leading up to it. To fire my wild imagination up some more I'm sharing more unusual, bizarre, and freak death stories in today's episode.
Articles referenced in the today's episode:
Bizarre Jack in the Box drive-thru accident kills a man in St. Louis:
Fatal Freak Accidents That Befell People In The Wrong Place At The Wrong Time:
London Beer Flood:
Did you know there is a theory that says there is a cap on the number of friends you can have an actual real social connection? Discussing the Dunbar Number theory today and if social media has any effect on the method since Facebook wasn't around when anthropologist Robin Dunbar published the approach in the 1990's.
Wikipedia's Dunbar Number description:
There's no doubting that I suffered from FOMO hardcore as a young adult. Anxiety would fill me full of bullshit stories I would tell myself when I thought everyone else was having a glorious time or an excellent & adventurous life in general while I was being left out. Nowadays, thanks to the Internet I can now enjoy the fruits of JOMO in my mature years.
The article referred to in the podcast:
Saying "Kansas" triggers most people from outside the state to think of the Wizard of OZ. Never could go on a vacation where that reference didn't get old telling people where I was from. Who can blame them? What other things are top-of-mind for people when they think of Kansas?
Articles used in today's episode:
18 Signs You're From Kansas
10 signs you were born and raised in Kansas
The show is back in Kansas City after a short North American tour just in time to see Bill Cosby get sentenced for the horrible things he has done. Should they take it easy on him because he's old, blind, and his philanthropy work? I say hell no. And while we're at it, f*ck CNN contributor Jason Miller too.
Articles referred to in today's episode:
Jason Miller article:https://www.thecut.com/2018/09/jason-miller-departs-cnn-abortion-pill-drugging-allegation.html
Bill Cosby: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-45521190
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Meet Megan, Casey, Jill, the man whose name changes throughout the episode along with Joey as they discuss left lane drivers, Orioles games, zombie apocalypse, National Parks, marathon super fans, and more. Last night I tried something outside the normal solo podcast episode you would expect. This episode experiments with five friends sitting around the dinner table in North Carolina having conversation over wine, beer, and Coke Zero.
The Ol' West Wing is a great place for those in Ontario looking for cold beer, hockey on the tube, and tasty chicken wings available in over 50 different sauces, but it's not the place to send a Kansas native when he's looking for a little taste of Canada.
Also discussing the results from the "Do you avoid confrontation?" poll on Facebook.
Ol West Wing website: https://www.olwestwing.com/
Broadcasting from just outside Chicago and made a huge rookie mistake getting here. Hard to swallow for an experienced traveler. 85 Year Irish man doesn't give AF when the place he's chilling in gets robbed, Marco Rubio being a hypocrite, and my issues with Buzzfeed continues to grow. I hate that I'm turning into a grumpy old man.
Articles referenced in today's episode:
Old Irish Man Doesn't Give a Shit: http://www.asiaone.com/world/caught-video-85-year-old-man-ireland-fights-3-armed-robbers
Salt Bae Hugged Venezuelan Leader Nicolas Maduro So Marco Rubio Doxxed Him: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/davidmack/salt-bae-maduro-marco-rubio-doxx?origin=thum
Feel Better About Yourself With BuzzFeed's "Horror Story A Day" Newsletter: https://www.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeedpromotions/horror-story-a-day-newsletter
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Buzzfeed is such a horrible website. Why do I keep going to it for show topics, I need an intervention. With my growing hatred, I searched for a Buzzfeed like website but for Gen X'ers like myself since Buzzfeed is built for Millennials. That search had me stumbling across an interesting article about what the American dream is for different generations. The article showed me there is something Gen X'ers and Baby Boomers can learn from Millennials.
Article about the American dream referenced in today's episode: https://www.businessinsider.com/millennials-baby-boomers-gen-x-define-the-american-dream-2018-7
Early Saturday morning episode from my office in downtown Kansas City because my mom is literally staying across the street at the Marriott with my step-dad in town for a bank convention. Going to meet my mom this morning, take her to breakfast and other fun things in the city today.
Triggered this morning apparently after the "dumb" shit I see in my Facebook Newsfeed almost daily. Facebook can be such a powerful and incredible tool but I keep getting reminded on how it can also be a dangerous tool as well. People see what they want to see, a platform like Facebook gives people the opportunity to experience other perspectives but there's growing number of users that use it to increase tribalism & bullshit fake outrage that just continues to separate us.
Episode 101 starts out smoothly discussing Mark Wahlberg's weird daily schedule he recently posted on Instagram. But as that moves me toward talking about the old saying, "Idle Hands are the Devil's Workshop" I catch myself needing to check myself, and the show goes down a whole different path. My confession about continually making personal disclaimers with people before conversations, my OCD when it comes to text message communication, and admitting to a horrible thing I did when I was dating in my 20's.
Article to Mark Wahlberg's daily schedule: https://www.buzzfeed.com/lyapalater/i-cannot-wrap-my-head-around-mar-wahlbergs-daily
100 episodes was the goal starting this podcast cast back in May. I needed discipline and to finish a personal project that started, for at least once in my life. Today I can say Mission Accomplished. Episode 101 will be coming but changes to the podcast need to be made.
I like my television shows semi-believable if not based on fantasyland. So I'm having a challenge with the show Ozark on Netflix.
Also, another dumb white guy in the news being racist towards four young black men in Florida. The white guy made some entirely wrong choices, but if one thing was different would he have chosen the same actions? What about you?
Article on the incident in Florida: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/briannasacks/famu-students-gun-white-resident
At what age can I start using old people excuses? You know, doing stuff that is completely not ok and getting away with it because one reason and one reason only, you're old. Also on the show today, a valuable lesson from Elon Musk about people, when you think there's nothing but shitty people around you try using this technique I learned from the billionaire.
The article used in the episode: https://www.homehero.org/blog/opinions/9-things-seniors-can-get-away-with
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New location for the recording the show today, welcome to my bedroom on this lazy Sunday morning. This episode I explain why I have to get a new bathroom trash can thanks to one of the listeners of this podcast. Also, start down the road of how my dad became a MAGA man and how the POTUS can do nothing bad in his eyes - why are people talking shit on Elon Musk - and why Nike doesn't give a damn of what you think all of you old people like me.
Last night was supposed just be a Netflix & Chill alone kind of night. Found a Bill Murray movie I had not seen called "The Razor's Edge." I enjoyed this 1984 movie and it had me questioning my own journey in life so far, but when the line "That is your reason, but what is the intention" was said my whole night changed. Currently obsessed with the word "Intention" and how I need to understand it fully.
What's the difference between successions and goals? This podcast needs a succession plan. My friend Kim has a podcast now, inspired by this one. Do you want to start a podcast? I've got your back fam. Plus addressing a listener's request that I give my view on "kids these days."
My visit to the doctor yesterday reveals that I have way too much stress in my life and it is killing me. Changes have to be made or I will die a lot earlier than I currently want. Understanding that my personal life needs to get better and become as important to me as my professional life is not a problem, but my lack of wanting to make friends or leave my place during the week is the huge deterrent.
Read an article, my friend Mabel posted online recently titled, "12 Old-Fashioned Dating Habits We Should Definitely Bring Back". The article did not sit well with me so I told Mabel I would give my response with a podcast episode. Here is that episode. Little fired up today.
Link to the original article: http://www.songhanhphuc.org/12-old-fashioned-dating-habits-we-should-definitely-bring-back/
Just finished "The Keepers" on Netflix & my mind is confused and trying to understand everything I took in watching the series. Physically sick to my stomach learning how the Catholic church in Baltimore handled priests accused of sexually assaulting children.
If I was Catholic I'd be so angry at the leadership of the church. What else in the world is full of lies hidden by old white dudes?
"Quiet Time with Mike": Saturday morning breakfast podcasting time at First Watch with my buddy Silent Mike joining the episode. Two grown miserable men discussing festivals, cookbooks, zoos, loneliness, depression, dementia, and lemon ricotta pancakes.
Giving my view on the Glamour article "50 Things Men Are Afraid to Ask for (but Really Want Super-Duper Badly)" on today's episode. I agree with some but think some are absolutely stupid.
Link to the article: https://www.glamour.com/gallery/50-things-men-are-afraid-to-ask-for-but-really-want-super-badly
Late night has me worried that the listeners might think I'm having a stroke on the show today. Fantastic dinner at my new favorite restaurant in Kansas City last night with friends from my professional world. Also got into a Facebook debate after getting home last night about DUI checkpoints with a stranger online and against the standard Facebook protocol of arguing with strangers on the platform we didn't call each other horrible names. I thought civil debating on Facebook was a myth? Apparently not, and that gives me hope in you people.
And no plans for the coming up Labor Day weekend except adding a few more people to my DTM list.
There isn't a better way to get right down into your soul trying to understand your id and your ego then taking a Buzzfeed.com online 30 question quiz. When you can't afford therapy, just use Buzzfeed quizzes. *Sarcasm* . On today's episode, I take a Buzzfeed quiz to discover how judgemental or pretentious I really am.
Link to the Buzzfeed quiz: https://www.buzzfeed.com/natalyalobanova/pretentious-checklist-quiz?utm_term=.tpb6jqv8W3#.mtVbdzm7Xq
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Overnight backyard camping sleepover at Danny Jacobs house in 1988 (I refer to 1986 in the episode but the correct time was fall of 1988) changed my life entirely in the world of music but also brought on a life of secrecy and hiding that love because of my fear of being judged by white & black people. Hip Hop & Grunge saved me from shitty music.
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I've unfriended, unfollowed, blocked, and I believe about everything I can do to keep my digital sanity up to this moment. Its just been a constant daily bombardment of a thousand opinions of the news, politics & pop culture from people I know and people I do not, it is becoming too much. I believe myself & others are losing empathy. I miss the days where I didn't have to know about my friends & family's inner thoughts. Not knowing what everyone thought all the time about everything was so peaceful. That an old friend is a racist, a cousin being a self-proclaimed victim, a former coworker a liar, or a new friend being bat-shit crazy. Facebook and the Internet, in general, is just dumping way too much information on me. Is it time to unplug, or drain more opinion information on you all, the listeners of the Everyone Needs a Little podcast? :)
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Megan is back on the podcast after flying into Kansas City for a weekend visit. Saturday Morning "Megs & Bacon" special episode gets inside our individual perspectives of the world of MLM, multi-level marketing.
AdvoCare, Amway, Avon, Beachbody, doTerra, Herbalife, Isagenix, Longaberger, LuLaRoe, Mary Kay, Nature's Sunshine, Pampered Chef
Rodan + Fields are just a few mentioned in the episode today. Expecting a lot of middle-aged white women to not be happy with me after this episode. But I'd love to have any MLM advocates on a future episode.
We sure live in the past when it comes to a lot of the things we do for being a technologically advanced progressive society . There are so many old dumb traditional everyday things we do that don't make sense in today's world. Shaking hands, men taking their hats off, yelling "bless you" to someone who just sneezed are a few of the weird things we are programmed to do "to be polite" but have no rhyme or reason behind them.
While we're on that topic, instead of the term "Gentleman" can we substitute it with "decent human being" and drop some of the dumb stuff that has been labeled as "requirements to be a gentleman?"
Is it 2018? I think so.
Today's episode starts out strong with proving my old junior high math teacher completely wrong. We then move into a world of why you should be using Google more, maybe some aha moments in there for you (I fucking hope for my happiness) and how Google Home is one of the most significant amazing purchases I've made.
But then the episode takes a weird turn where I confess that I don't trust any of you, not one bit. But I still love you, want you to have a great day and keep smiling.
Since the beginning of civilization, there have always been people bitching that the current generation and world we know it is going up in flames. As lives progress, while some things change for the better and some change for the worse, loss aversion means that we pay much more attention to the bad stuff. So overall, people think life as we know it is getting worse & they blame it on the current generation. Spouting off about how things were so amazing "back in the day." This way of thinking is called declinism, and it is complete bullshit false "fake news" way of thinking. Complaining about the current generation is tacky AF. If you suffer from declinism chances are you are pumping a low octane fuel into your self-worth tank. Thank God I'm here to save you & myself.
There are a few personalities I don't get along with at all. A lot of time it's me, I'm the asshole. Two of characters I don't do well with clashed right in front of my eyes at the pool area last weekend where I live. The drunk annoying stranger conversation forcer in his late forties who doesn't wear a shirt and entirely should be wearing a shirt while he sits out on his balcony playing annoying classic rocks songs that are great songs but we all don't need a fucking DJ at the "luxury apartment complex" catches a young millennial 22-26 year old fake alpha male with a Napolean complex drinking Michelob Ultra with his two bro friends taking a piss in public at the complex's pool right there on the sidewalk. What would follow in this situation with drunk disrespectful bro poolside & drunk talkative old man balcony-side was hilarity, confusion, and drama.
Everyone Needs a Little Merch is here:
Taking a trip down memory lane this morning with glimpses in my past thoughts & childhood experiences of McDonald birthday parties were back in my day as a kid, the 1980's My mushy adult brain remembers them as excellent, especially when the Kim brothers would show up with a box of Russell Stover candy, but were they really that cool?
Also in today's episode, I give previously unreleased personal tips on what a cool uncle brings as gifts to his nieces' birthday parties AND where you can purchase those gifts, it's entirely genius if you want to be remembered as the fantastic, exciting uncle.
I thought Brandon Kenig and I were complete opposites but after having breakfast with him Saturday morning, I learned that we are a lot alike. We're going through a lot of the same challenges when it comes to our faith in people. Brandon and I have a great discussion about dating, friendship, adventure and may have just created the Everyone Needs a Little Adventure club. Check out the episode for more.
Check out "2 Men in the Middle", the political podcast Brandon co-hosts: https://2meninthemiddle.com/
Maybe my purpose in this world was to bring men and women closer together with this podcast. Could I by airing my dirty laundry and profound dark emotional unstable admissions can help others take a better look at themselves and become more self-aware & increase their self-worth, self-love & self-esteem at the same time? Fuck yeah I can. I'm just trying to change the world one miserable son of a bitch at a time, starting with myself! :) In today's episode, I help women understand men more. We're not all stereotypical Ron Swansons, John Waynes, or Denzel Washingtons. We have some surprises for you.
The article referenced in today's episode: https://thoughtcatalog.com/lorenzo-jensen-iii/2016/11/27-things-women-need-to-know-about-men-but-dont/
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It's no secret that a minority of people will admit that they are addicted to drama, but studies show that so many more are. What is it about drama addiction? I think I have the answer, its all about self-stimulation. What kind of metaphorical fuel do you need for stimulating yourself? Because if you don't know what it is, you will use other bullshit for fuel, like drama. Ride along as we go through the "10 Signs You're Addicted to Drama".
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If you asked my mother or most of my long-term friends they would say I was full of shit if I told you I was an introvert. Being able to fake being an extrovert was, and continues to be very convincing for me to others. What personality do you connect with more? Being an introvert or an extrovert? Have you had to fake it? I've spent 30 years pretending. An honestly it has worn me the fuck down.
Social media is a bittersweet thing. On one hand, we can share amazing things and also learn so much about our friends and other great things. On the other hand, it also gives us a chance to look into the shitty world of people we would never have known about nor known anything about their thoughts. See the garbage in the world, like racist old white people. They used to be shitty in their private world behind closed doors, and now these fuckers are posting their shitty views and opinions online. Today's podcast rant is sparked by a fat old white man from my hometown (that I don't know personally) who thought it was ok to call our former first lady a monkey on Facebook.
Last night I was reminded that I would be turning 44 years old in a few months. I'll now be able to refer to myself as being in my "mid-forties," son-of-a-bitch. Today's episode goes over the life tips everyone in their 40's should know and give a heads up to those of you approaching the "Four-Oh." This episode is for both men and women, and I believe the advice I found online can be for both sexes not separated in the way that I found it in a Google search. Below are the articles:
The men article: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/40-things-that-every-man-should-know-by-the-age-of-40/
The women article: https://bestlifeonline.com/things-women-need-to-know/
I was able to put it off for months but the time came where the state of Missouri said, "Sorry bro, you've got to show up." This state, and probably all states are so screwed up with their processes. Even tagging a vehicle in the state is a chore. So today's episode is nothing but a middle-aged white dude bitching about government. You might want to skip this one.
Learned something significant about the confrontation I had with a whitebread older lady that got caught talking shit on me at the Target Superstore in Topeka, KS. Due to her simple surprised actions and complete awkwardness after being called out on her bullshit, I believe she learned a valuable lesson as well.
As for the reference the "whitebread" people, this what Urban Dictionary describes them as;
Belonging to the class of bland, clean-cut, middle-of-the-road suburbanite breeders. The Cleavers from the old TV show "Leave It To Beaver" are a familiar archetype of whitebread culture. Compare to yuppie.
The term implies profound cultural naïvete, blind consumerism, and an unquestioning "follower" mindset. Common trappings of the whitebread lifestyle include golf, Kenny G and Enya CDs, SUVs, an irrational fixation on lawn care, Golden Retrievers, nominally Christian religious beliefs, Old Navy clothing, moderate to conservative political views, and bad Chardonnay.
Woke up this morning to the news that a 29-year-old airline worker in Seattle steals an Alaskan Airlines airplane and goes on a "joy-ride" before crashing it into the woods killing himself. Before he dies he was recorded telling air traffic controllers he was "just a broken guy" with a "few screws loose". I guarantee that guy did not think, earlier in his life when thinking about how he was going to die, that crashing into the woods in a stolen airplane after "snapping" was going to be the way he would go.
Links to the websites mentioned in this episode:
Story on the stolen plane - https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/passantino/plane-stolen-seattle-airport-crash
15 Killers Who Just "Snapped"- https://www.ranker.com/list/killers-who-snapped/christopher-shultz
IMDB for Falling Down starring Michael Douglas - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0106856/
After not returning a text message from my buddy Randell and having him call me out on it sent me down a spiral of reflection of those that have ghosted me in the past. It's incredibly difficult to ignore personal communication in today's technological world, and it seems as though some people have given up trying to hide the fact they don't want to talk to you.
Link to the "Nail In Forehead" video referenced in today's episode: https://vimeo.com/66776386
After learning that the age I am is also the average age of a man going through a midlife crisis I decided it would be fun and educational to go on a journey discovering the signs of a midlife crisis on today's episode. Only to have that journey take a significant turn and has me testifying to a substantial negative challenge in my life that weighs on my self-worth.
Hope my vulnerability can inspire someone.
Trip down memory lane today thinking about the years 1989 through 1993. Those years would be the time I was in high school. My memories of that time are extraordinarily fuzzy & it feels as though it was all a movie I watched 10 years ago. Sounds confusing but I explain it even worse in today's episode.
And to add another fantastic spoiler to this description of today's episode, I reveal the Netflix hit show Orange is the New Black character I relate with the most in life and in mostly in my head.
I can only laugh about how some of these episodes end up with the topic they do. No idea what pushed me down the rabbit hole to the subject of guys sending unsolicited D pics to women through text or messenger. I do know when the question has come up in face-to-face group conversation the women I know always want to know why some guys think its ok to send pics of their man unit to women that do not want to see it. On today's episode, I give my theory of "The Mind Behind the Unwanted Dick Pic." Sorry guys for breaking bro code but what you're doing is sexual harassment and its not cool. There are other ways to get the stimulation you're needing.
Special "Megs & Bacon" episode of the podcast where my lovely lady Megan joins me in Palm Desert, CA. Talking about the subject of Megan's future possible podcast and does the Everyone Needs a Little podcast need sunglasses & balsa wood airplanes?
As the self-proclaimed most annoying person in anyone's life that knows me, I have some issues with Caroline Hemmingham's article "The 13 most annoying things people do on Facebook." I think the article is a fluff piece that will cause unneeded anxiety to Facebook users and reinforce the feelings that a lot of the self-appointed Facebook police think should not be in their Facebook Newsfeed. Who is the real problem on Facebook?
PLUS, the self-reflecting question for today: "When someone unfriends you on Facebook do you want to know the reason why?"
Link to the article: https://www.hulldailymail.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/annoying-things-people-on-facebook-1343362
Bonus link, the start of my "Best Diners in the US for Breakfast" list: https://www.google.com/maps/placelists/list/1Q7fo5BSaJ-uROF0GEhPDvsxUdug?hl=en
This podcast is making 100% more self-aware & I tested it this weekend while shopping at a high-line outlet shopping mall outside Palm Springs, CA. White people were the absolute minority surrounded by hundreds or Asians, Latino, and middle eastern people. The rudest of the majority was overwhelming, but I realized soon, maybe it's me. They weren't acting the way I thought they should be performing based on the culture I was raised on and currently live within. Because no of them seemed to have a problem with each other, I was the one with a problem.
Side note, the Netflix show referenced in today's episode is called " The Dark Tourist", here a link to the show: www.netflix.com/title/80189791
I hate feeling humiliation, especially public humiliation. This feeling covers me completely on my flight yesterday on my way to southern California. Fight or flight kicks in and I take the fight to Twitter & in person. "You don't get to determine if you've hurt someone's feelings or not" - Mike Patrick, my buddy.
Motivation has always been a struggle in my life but when I decided that 2018 was going to be the year of Joey Little I needed to find solutions. The 2 Minute Rule was so simple but seemed a little too easy, would it work for me? Also on the episode today the story of Nathan Mathis and his daughter's story. A simply heartbreaking story of regret and a man's fight for his daughter.
2 Minute Rule Link: https://jamesclear.com/how-to-stop-procrastinating
Article about Nathan Mathis: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/toritruscheit/nathan-mathis-roy-moore-lgbt-rights-in-the-south
Last minute project has me visiting my hometown for an early morning photo shoot at the racetrack. Messaged an old friend to get dinner with me at a place I considered my "go-to" restaurant in my hometown only to be let down like a virgin on their wedding night. But with any bad service I put the blame on one thing and one thing only. Find out today on the podcast.
Leave it up to my friend JP to knock me down again by sending me a link full of real knowledge bombs to entirely be used for creating a better life for not just me, but everyone. A lot of us want to live better lives. We talk about doing it all the time. Now is the time for action, but most people don't know where to start. How do you eat an apple? One small bite at a time and work your way through it. Small bites people, small bites.
Here's the link JP sent me full of life-changing advice: https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-six-habits-that-will-change-your-life-forever
Looking around my hotel room and thinking about how many people were here before me. Most nice & clean people, but a lot some nasty folks who don't give two cares about grossness. I also discuss the firing of Guardians of the Galaxy Director James Gunn. Rumor has it he said some things on a podcast eight years ago that Disney just found out about this year. Stupid stuff on a podcast you say?! Hmmm...
Took to the internet to get feedback on the Everyone Needs a Little podcast. No idea why I thought it would be a good idea to look for little things I could different to make the show better because I've always stated that this show is for me and my sanity in life. I got tore up in the forum, and apparently, I'm doing the majority of things needed for a prosperous podcast WRONG.
My Facebook memories make me cringe so hard. I was, and maybe still am this person that needed to fill some kind of hole inside him with the validation and attention of others. Sounds sad but that hole is not going to fill itself. People use drugs, sex, and dangerous situations to fill that hole, for me was/is Facebook.
The show is still in the Napa Valley & I still no absolutely nothing about wine, except white/red & dry/sweet. But I do know what white bread people are & we all get educated on what REAL guilty pleasures are.
The link promised in today's show https://thoughtcatalog.com/chelsea-fagan/2013/09/27-people-on-their-most-embarrassing-guilty-pleasure/
Broadcasting the show today in SONOMA, CA not SAMONA, CA. I've been spelling the city I in the wrong for a week now. I have no excuse. "Jesus Christ, it looks so easy, just sound it out, you idiot."," I say to my daily. Today I have an intimate conversation with all you online grammar nazis out there. I know I'm a big dumb bear, you don't need to add to that publically you crappy picture taking a-holes.
Revealing the music that makes me hate the world, but before that, the story of how 6 months of living back home after dropping out of college my mother gave me money and told me to find somewhere else to live. Let's just say my mother was not worried about pushing her baby bird out of the nest. Luckily, I found a garage with no heat/air & running water to live in.
Facebook is the devil. It truly is. Although it has been an amazing technological breakthrough in human communication it is also a thing that can cut your self-esteem right in half. Facebook Memories is one of those sabers slicing through my self-esteem. Why would I want to be reminded of how awkward I was in 2009 begging for people to notice me on Facebook? So in today's podcast, you'll learn how I've taken those awkward posts from the past and have turned them into a self winning positive.
Link to the asshole artist: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/rosebuchanan/world-press-photo-instagram
After the amount of feedback from women who listen to the show giving their suggestions on more life tips for men, I had no choice but to jump back into it. I always can say no but they're women & I need more women friends. So I'm going to go with their direction.
And happy to do my first movie review on the show today. Talking about "Sorry to Bother You," the American science fiction comedy film written and directed by Boots Riley, in his directorial debut. It stars Lakeith Stanfield, Tessa Thompson, Jermaine Fowler, Omari Hardwick, Terry Crews, Patton Oswalt, David Cross, Danny Glover, Steven Yeun, and Armie Hammer.
Today's show was supposed to be a continuation of the Life Tips Every Man Should Know, but thanks to it being early and the pills not kicking in to combat my Adult Attention Deficit Disorder this morning the show goes a whole different direction leading me down a path where I disclose two extremely personal things about myself. So enjoy the sharing while it lasts.
Being creative is something I love that I was born with. Having ideas of crazy and unique projects is not something I think is learned over time, and boy have I had a lot of those ideas. My challenge is keeping those projects and not get burned out. Which is why I'm super excited about this being the 50th episode of the Everyone Needs a Little podcast. My goal is 100, and I'm halfway there. Also on the show today I bitch about my friends and their lack of motivation.
Confused by a spike in listenership to the show in the last 48 hours that throws me off but makes me smile. Today discussing my childhood dreams of what I wanted to be professionally as an adult, a great story of why a became an undercover Maryland Terps football fan, and a from the heart and full of passion pep talk to all of you wanting to start your own podcast but keep telling yourself it would be too hard or difficult.
Welcome the show when my verbal diarrhea sets in and I confess to becoming a hermit and the lack of local friends is starting to weight on me emotionally. At least I'm self-aware about that, right? Speaking of self-awareness, according to my scientific findings 1 out of every 2 of you reading this lack some form of self-awareness. Which is ok if you know this about yourself and try to fix it. But how about politicians who lack self-awareness entirely then seem to be completely surprised when it comes back to kick them in the face.
As promised, here's the article to the story discussed in today's podcast: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/claudiakoerner/republican-candidate-arizona-gun-rights-story
Putting together a list of the life tips I wish I would have received when I was a younger man. Simple things to make life easier. So weird how little things can go so far like owning a plunger for every bathroom at your house/apartment or what it does when you compliment her shoes. Every man should listen to today's episode IMO
I'm here to assist anyone from not going down the same unoriginal path that I went down when it came to "inspiring" people on social media. Maybe people would think I was at the top of my game if I just posted quotes on top of pictures and put them on Instagram. Studies show that a majority of people who see these posts did not think the posts were profound, the majority said they believed the poster was full of bullshit.
Only 50 people on my 6:30 am flight from Baltimore to Kansas City this morning. This allowed most everyone on the plane their own row. I decided to take the opportunity to pull out the podcasting equipment (Apple Mac Air laptop, Yeti Microphone, and my trusty Samsung travel headphones) and record today's episode from high in the sky. I may talk some smack on Southwest on Twitter, but the truth is I'm a huge fan of the airline. Some bad apples have shown themselves over the years, but 90% of my experiences have been excellent.
Giving my thumbs up to the mini-series John Adams and challenge any passionate trolls on both sides of the Donald Trump world of hating him or love him watch the mini-series. Also discussing the old man in Chicago who had no idea that Puerto Rico is apart of America. "Being drunk and stupid is no way to go through life son."
Stumbled upon the fascinating website Top5ofAnything.com. Perfect website for those that want to waste time and educated themselves at the same time. Basically perfect for those of us for when our ADHD meds are kicking in hardcore. Who is Kylie Jenner?
I have two other podcasts I do for work, and in one of those podcasts, I had the opportunity to interview a sales guy named Shawn Hays "Your Car Guy," about the inspiration & motivation he's delivering to car salespeople across the country. Shawn has a fantastic swag & unpolished approach to his motivating videos, and I think its genius. When I asked how these traits helped him his response was golden, "Your imperfections are your perfection." Genius. Let's talk about it on the show today.
An article in the Daily Mail has given me the heebee-jeebees today bring my biggest fears to the forefront of my thinking. Everyone has the things that scare the heck out of them, anything from heights, spiders, snakes, etc. Today I admit that you, yes you, are my biggest fear. Check out the episode and I'll explain.
As promised in the podcast, here's the link to the axe swinging article:
Admitting your challenges is the first step to fixing them and most of my life I have been a bonafide attention whore. When social media was invented I found my playground. Using Social Media to get validation is huge currently. How can you know if you're an attention whore? Its all on the show today.
I took the opportunity to sit down with my 83-year-old paternal grandmother and ask her about her life growing up, how she met my grandfather, what my father was like as a kid, successes in building a business. This experience is something I would suggest everyone to do. After knowing my grandmother for 43 years I found myself learning such fascinating stories about her and what life was like over the years.
Dealing with trolls can be crazy and tiring. Why are they there? And what exactly is a user-generated website? We talk trolling and shitty things on the internet. Everybody hates it but no one can keep themselves from looking when driving by an accident on the highway. We're all being sold on our curiosity of content. If it bleeds it leads.
Sparked by a Facebook post by my young female cousin stating that "Old People Are Rude As Hell" got me to think and eventually spewing those random unproven thoughts into my microphone for today's episode. I'm almost always thinking about getting older and how that affects my brain and decisions. Am I becoming rude and an asshole due to getting older? We also talk about this new thing I've found on YouTube, "Cop Audits".
On this 4th of July episode my friend Mike & I sit down to breakfast at Big Biscuit and have a conversation about his views on civilians thanking veterans for their service. Mike is a former Marine & Army Reserve Iraqi War combat Veteran. He makes a point and the important thing about his point is that it's from his perspective. I think everyone can learn something today from that perspective. You may disagree with his perspective but I believe its important for everyone to at least listen to his perspective.
Getting deep today on the conversation I would have with the junior high version of myself. The things I would say to 1987 Joey. Also discussing the impact on my life when someone I respect told me that I AM MY BIGGEST BULLY. Plus the journey down the road for me to continue to publically address my deep love for old school hip hop even though I think I will be chastised as a culture vulture.
Great way to get a good inside read on other people is to psychoanalyze their content on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. People let too many of their secrets out when posting on these sites. Which one of your friends is a complete sociopath? :) Plus fantasy talk about the Brewster's Millions situation, if you had to spend $30 million in 30 days how would you do it?
Clean sweeping has me giving advice to others about how to just throw shit away and not feel bad. Too many people have attachments to too much stuff. SO I feel nothing to toss it UNLESS it's my Red Sox stuff. That is the moment I turn into a huge hypocrite. And BTW, you are welcome mom.
Today I get on my soapbox and tell people how they're doing things wrong and need to do it the way I think it needs to be done. Ok, maybe not that bluntly but I do make my points on how people give credit for their accomplishments to others but take all the blame when it comes to their downfalls.
This list came together fast because I know what I love. You might disagree with me but you've got to admit that I've got some entertainment on my list. My top 5 are revealed along with numerous honorable mentions. There are some rules to be in my top 5. Let see how our choices stack up.
Once again the podcast about nothing takes a weird turn when the topic of Christmas cards comes up early in the show. I go from discussing how gift cards are a dumb gift you give to someone you don't know anything about but feel obligated to spend money on them to how my father uses a cheesecake analogy for him not knowing if he's a 100% straight man.
First of all big shout out to Jessica who included the Everyone Needs a Little Podcast in her blog post last Friday! Check out the blog here & make sure to subscribe: https://jessicabentleycom.wordpress.com/
Anthony Bourdain was a lot to me and had my dream job. Then he killed himself. When someone is living the life you want to live and then they kill themselves, that can confuse the hell out of anyone.
Celebrating 25 episodes by only doing the podcast but also I also went out on Facebook Live! Got deep today on the reason I'm 43 and have never had children nor have I ever been married (not even engaged either). Plus I vomit more about my adult ADD and the meds I'm on.
Dinner with my dad and stepmom last night had me feeling good this morning. Today on the podcast about nothing I talk about how technology has made life easier but also has made life extremely tough. From buying stuff online, making reservations, dating, and more. Also try to create a formula to continue not being a thirsty creepy motherf*cker on social media.
Facebook has created a world that we get to see the passions are friends and family have. I know that Facebook has shown me that I have friends with some really shitty views on the world and the people in it. You can't change people's passions but just try to understand we're all different unless you're a huge dick. Then you can take your passions and shove them.
I've never hidden the fact that I only do this podcast for personal satisfaction. Some people like hunting or shopping or bowling or gardening. My happiness comes from sitting in a dark room early in the morning talking to myself while recording. I'm surprised I can tie my own shoes. Today I talk about morons in history, no one was a shmuck in their past lives, and TIL on Reddit.
It just dawned on me this morning that all the dumb shit I've been posting to Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Twitter, etc is going to be the shit my ancestors are going to see in their Ancestory.com account when their family tree has me in it. Jesus Christ I have some cleaning up to do...
I decided to start downsizing the physical and material things in my life starting with my vehicle. Today's episode I give the 4 reasons why I downsize my vehicle and why I'm going to downsize other things in my life
Nothing like discussing the new meds you're on with tens upon tens of listeners. And did you know Paula Dean was a straight up diabetic gangster? My book recommendation to you by the late Anthony Bourdain. And I search the Internet for "Top Podcast Topic Ideas!" and the results are killing me.
I continue to try to understand the world of becoming an old man. Funny how things are so different and how my brain is reacting. Also, talking about marketing and advertising when it comes to being on online dating sites AND something you probably didn't know about the pesky boys that send unsolicited D pics to women they don't know and just met online.
We're in Google Play now: http://bit.ly/EveryoneNeedsaLittleOnGooglePlay
Learning your parents are not superheroes can be hard to swallow but learning that they're just awkward schumcks just like you makes it hilarious and comforting. Talking dads today in anticipation of Father's Day this weekend AND I pull out the blackboard to give the listeners the history of Henry Perry, the father of Kansas City Barbecue.
Henry Perry article referred to in this episode: https://martincitytelegraph.com/2018/06/11/kansas-citys-bbq-king-started-the-citys-popular-grilling-tradition-over-a-100-years-ago/
How much has your life changed in 10 years? Do you have mentors? Why do I hate local news reports so much? These are the pressing questions in today's world. North Korea and Donald Trump have nothing on these top-level questions that need answers. Plus celebrating the Everyone Needs a Little podcast is now also on Youtube: http://bit.ly/EveryoneNeedsaLittle
Back from 7 days in Europe and I've put together the reasons why you should not go to Europe (if you have these challenges). Some people travel well and some will struggle. I broke down the four characteristics you should have if you want to travel to Europe or really anywhere.
Megan joins the show from the European Tour of the Podcast. Today/Tonight we're in Paris, France. Megan tells us about second breakfast and how everyone should have 2 lunches in Paris with one being champagne and oysters.
Last show from Kansas City for 9 days as I head on the road to North Carolina to catch some AAA baseball and then off to Europe for the Everyone Needs a Little podcast tour. PLUS who is really upset about hundreds of Sears stores closing around the country?
No caffeine this morning really has me struggling. Are you as hard on yourself as I am on me? Plus we discuss your feedback on "There's a Special Place in Hell" segment, my upcoming trip to Europe, and my fear of being a Culture Vulture.
I've never been married and never really thought why that is. In today's podcast, I psychoanalyze myself and the world of marriage. PLUS Rick is leaving the Walking Dead and a man of God is asking his followers for $54 million to buy a new jet.
Discussing getting older, being a man, and how being manly is a ridiculous thing. Also, a new segment called "Listen to Uncle Joe" that will help single men struggling in the dating world. Plus today's trending stories.
We're a week away from taking the podcast to Europe where my lady will be co-hosting the show. Let's hope to God she does a good job and not ruin the podcast & our relationship. Also talking about how every job has its shitty people, why does Ohio have a 60 mph speed limit on their highways, and the forgotten WWII battle fought on American soil.
I'm in Phoenix, Arizona this morning for the show after flying in from Cleveland last night. Great time to talk about my perspective on the different types of travelers I see at airports across the country.
Plus, why do east coasters order "lean" or "well done" smoked brisket?