The Single People's Podcast

A reminder of what you need to focus on is important. Love yourself gracefully. Life is complex and it's suppose to be, just keep moving and learning. "Being single is a healthy thing."

We have all encountered those who are negative to our accomplishments – or status, and sometimes even ignorance. However, we are not as harsh when it comes to their ignorance - because we are so focused on ours. We are of equal measure when it comes to ignorance, and the ability of the human mind to succeed in ways that seem profound or impossible are possible. People have proven time and time again that greatness lives within us, but persistence is key to all things. Ignore the ignorance. You can't CHANGE THE IGNORANT unless they trust you.

Life is unexpected and as quickly as you retrieved life - it can be taken away, just like that. My uncle passed on 10th (2021). Please help me pray for him. It reminded me to remember being grateful. Being single is a time to appreciate life more than if you had a partner because you have time to focus more, appreciate the love lost but the new one that can be found. And maybe that just means with yourself and not another partner. 

LIfe is complex and it will pass or come back to you. 

You should have saved your money! 

As you get older, you see things differently. You feel things differently, allowing self love and forgiveness to play a role in your life. Your mind and body become one, instead of lost and invincible. This is a reflection of my journey that may help yours. 

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Most people need to stop with the negativity, and accept than people can change. There is a BUT though. How and when? Let me try to answer that for you in the segment. ;) 

Don't settle is a great quote but not realistic for most Americans. 

The past and pain is your friend and facilitator - let it lead you to a better life. 

This segment makes you focus on what you need to focus on and reminds you how wrong it is not to appreciate the present. 

Love is a complex feeling. Time is a complex route. And, honor is a complex option. Listen to three sets of instructions to get you moving. Stop feeling stuck. 

The title is a quote from the movie Ghost of Girlfriend's Past. 

The cold truth is - it’s there in many lives as evidence. However, there are a few cases that it’s not, but why is that? At the end of the day, it depends on who you are and who you marry that makes this ultimately happen as a result of what you need to learn as a human being. We all think that we married the wrong people, when we married the right person to teach us about our self-esteem. We married the right person to teach us about our dependencies and our ignorance or arrogance. Once you separate from that or learn from it, you realize how to be a stronger person / a better person. This is the whole point of living. You suffer, so you don’t have to suffer anymore. Some people have learned this already and avoid the concept all together. Then...once they are complete, they only attract people who are complete - which FINALLY won’t give them these kind of results.

Ultimately, people think I talk about relationships but I speak only about having one with yourself, and then the conversation will resonate with creating healthy relationships with others naturally. 

We all fall short of confidence. No one is an exception to the rule. Some hide it better than others, and that is it. We all know someone who is strong who has cried about failures. Life is complex and we just have to keep building on it.