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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella

By Janice Formichella

Getting over a breakup? Youā€™re in the right place! Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On is a weekly podcast about healing broken hearts, building confidence, and moving forward in an empowered way. It is the perfect balance between science, spirituality, and sass. With a heavy dose of optimism, some laughs, and somber moments, Janice shares what she's learned from personal experience and as a breakup coach to help you through this time! Topics include dating, ghosting, no contact, toxic relationships, communication, attachment styles, and more.
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61. I Have a Broken Picker!

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice FormichellaSep 07, 2021

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šŸ’£Truth bombs for your breakup (196) šŸ’£

šŸ’£Truth bombs for your breakup (196) šŸ’£

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Ready to put your breakup behind you? It may be time to examine your beliefs around your ex, your efforts, relationships, and breakups in general. Itā€™s time to accept some hard truths.Ā 

Hard truths can be confronting - but it is often the things that we find confronting that lead us to the most growth. Todayā€™s episode covers 5 of the most important of these truths.Ā 

Get ready - this might be the episode that finally changes things with your breakup.Ā 

Episodes mentioned:Ā 

163: MY recent breakup lessons

Resources from this episode:Ā 

Thought Catalog: Hate to Break It To You But There is No Such Thing as ā€œThe One.ā€Ā 

Quotes from this episode:Ā 

ā€œHolding fast to ideas about how unfortunate our breakup is and how much we need or want our ex keep us holding on fast to the past.ā€Ā 

ā€œNo relationships end because they are working so well and serving both people. It was imperative that this breakup happen so that you could both go on to happier lives and better relationships in the future.ā€

ā€œYou already have everything that you need to be happy and whole right inside of you.ā€Ā Ā 

ā€œThe idea that there is ā€œthe oneā€ or a ā€œsoulmateā€ for us is destructive. It leads people to make poor decisions and to stay in unhealthy relationships. It prevents people from being their own soulmates and investing in building a life that is rich with or without a partner.ā€

ā€œThe more honest you can be with yourself and the more responsibility you can take over your healing the more success you will have.ā€

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Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Apr 09, 202425:05
News, news, news!

News, news, news!

It's time for a change! Buckle up and get ready!

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 


I wanna hear from you!!!

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Mar 27, 202406:43
šŸ·How to date yourself (195) šŸ·

šŸ·How to date yourself (195) šŸ·

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

This week Julie and I are giving our favorite dating tips. And how do we know they work? Weā€™ve used them - to date ourselves.Ā 

You donā€™t have to wait around for anyone or anything to fall into place to have a vibrant, indulgent life filled with connection with self and new experiences.Ā 

Dating yourself is a lifestyle that may be a learning curve but once you get over the hump there are so many opportunities to create the life you truly desire. In this weekā€™s episode Julie and I discuss:Ā 

-Why more people donā€™t take themselves on dates

-Getting over misgivings or discomfort around dating yourselfĀ 

-The benefits of solitudeĀ 

-What you will gain from dating yourselfĀ 

-Tips for planning a great solo date

-Activites to try

Visit JulieĀ  JulieDemsey.com and on IG at JulieDemsey

šŸ‘‰Get her book, FOUND Swiping right on me to find love on Amazon here.Ā 

Resources mentioned in todayā€™s episode:Ā 

On My Own by Florence FalkĀ 

Solo: Building a Remarkable Life of Your Own by Peter McGraw

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Mar 06, 202401:02:39
šŸŽ¬šŸøHappy hour!! Friends With Benefits (the movie!) (194) šŸŽ¬šŸø

šŸŽ¬šŸøHappy hour!! Friends With Benefits (the movie!) (194) šŸŽ¬šŸø

Pour a drink and get ready to talk shit about a **really** horrible rom-com! If you ever thought friends with benefits seemed impossible to pull off this movie will make you hate the idea, cringe, and think twice about even leaving the house again.Ā 

I think this movie sucks. I am joined by friends Brian and Dessi to chat about what they think as well. Do Justin Timberlake and Mila have good chemistry? Is it permissible to keep socks on during sex? Relieve yourself in front of someone you want to have sex with?Ā 

Weā€™ve got opinions on it all.Ā 

Want to hear the actual truth about friends with benefits? Check out episode 193 - ā€˜Friends with benefits.ā€™

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

What movie would you like me to dish about in a future happy hour episode? DM me and let me know.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Mar 01, 202401:45:41
šŸ‘„ Friends with benefits (193) šŸ‘„

šŸ‘„ Friends with benefits (193) šŸ‘„

Does friends with benefits actually ever work? My new (and FABULOUS) guest co-host says it CAN - and she has the experience to back up her claim. Welcome to the show Laura Grant!Ā 

For our first episode Laura and I will be diving into the ins and outs of a friends benefits situation. We humorously cover:Ā 

-Both our experiences with FWB

-Entering a FWB relationship

-Research around peopleā€™s satisfaction with FWB

-Emotional and physical safety

-Communication

-The changing beast-And more!Ā 

What topics would you like me and Laura to cover in future episodes? DM me on Instagram and let me know!Ā 

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Feb 28, 202401:04:45
šŸ§¼A patriarchy detox - part 2 šŸ§¼

šŸ§¼A patriarchy detox - part 2 šŸ§¼

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

Want to have better sex? Better communication? Better connections? Doing a patriarchy detox may be the answer!Ā 

But what does it mean? Wellā€¦it means decentering men in your life and focusing more on being the authentic YOU.Ā 

Decentering men? What does that mean? Push play and get ready to learn how to completely change the way you operate.Ā 

In part two Brian and I cover:Ā 

-The ways that the patriarchy show up in our lives (for both men and women)-The ways that centering men holds all of us back-How to decenter men in your personal life-How to decenter men in the bedroom-How to decenter men in datingĀ 

And some of Janiceā€™s sorted dating stories.

Resources mentioned in this episode:Ā 

-No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover

Please go show Brian some podcast love. Follow him on IG at mrbriancdunn and TicTok at mrbriancdunn

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Feb 23, 202401:17:06
šŸ§¼A patriarchy detox šŸ§¼

šŸ§¼A patriarchy detox šŸ§¼

This week I am doing something a bit different - I am taking a deep dive into the societal constructs that create unbalanced relationships and hold women back from living the lives of their dreams. Buckle up and get ready for an impactful discussion with return guest co-host Mr. Brian Dunn.Ā 

Note: this is a two-part episode! If you are curious about what it means to de-center men or take a patriarchy detox you are going to love what we have for you this week.Ā 

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

I am so excited for this one! In part one Brian and I will explore:Ā 

-What is the patriarchy? -How men benefit from a patriarchy detox-What a patriarchy detox IS-The real meaning of feminism -Hidden stereotypes about gender roles that rob all genders of their humanity

-AND MORE!

Please go show Brian some podcast love. Follow him on IG at mrbriancdunn and TicTok at mrbriancdunn

Resources mentioned in this episode:Ā 

Episode: Stop victim blaming (125)

Documentary: Victim/Suspect (Netflix)

Book: The Patriarchs: The Origins of Inequality by Angela SainiĀ 

More Janice/Brian episodes:Ā 

-šŸ˜ŸAm I undatable? (183) šŸ˜Ÿ-šŸ‘Øā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ‘ØšŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ’‹ā€šŸ‘ØDifficult conversations - 177 šŸ‘Øā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ‘ØšŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ’‹ā€šŸ‘Ø-šŸ˜¬I feel triggeredā€¦šŸ˜¬(175)- šŸ—£ļø Talking to your kids about your breakup šŸ—£ļø(137)

My favorite quote from this episode: ā€œPatriarchy robs women and men of their humanity.ā€ -Brian Dunn

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Feb 21, 202456:18
šŸ‘»Ghosting vs. Caspering šŸ‘»

šŸ‘»Ghosting vs. Caspering šŸ‘»

Ghosting: the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.

Caspering: Named after the fictional child phantom, itā€™s a friendly alternative to ghosting. Instead of ignoring someone, youā€™re honest about how you feel, and let them down gently before disappearing from their lives.


This week I am joined by wise and beautiful co-host Julie Demsey to talk about various ways of communicating in the early days of dating someone. Will have chemistry with some people and not with others, and that is fine. But there are ways of letting the other person know that are fine and others not so fine. Welcome to the stage ghosting and Caspering!Ā 

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

Today Julie and I cover:Ā 

-What ghosting is and is NOT

-How ghosting impacts the people on the receiving end

-Tips for coping with ā€œbeing ghostedā€

-How Caspering is an alternative to ghostingĀ 

-Ways to Casper

-Responding to CasperingĀ 

Enjoy - and be a part of a trend to communicate better with each other.Ā 

Other helpful episodes:Ā 

-183: Am I datable?

-161: People pleasingĀ 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Feb 14, 202401:16:28
šŸ§˜Affirmations for the early days of a breakup (free meditation track) šŸ§˜

šŸ§˜Affirmations for the early days of a breakup (free meditation track) šŸ§˜

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

The first days and weeks after a breakup are HARD. Affirmations and guided mediations can help.Ā 

I have created this track to help you out and give you a bit of hope on those dark days. If you love it please be in touch and let me know.Ā 

Want to schedule a free intro call with me?Ā 

Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule it now.Ā 

Affirmations for the early days of a breakup:Ā 

I am healing each day.Ā 

I love how healed my heart feels.Ā 

I am amazing and doing so well.

This new chapter oh my life is so magical.Ā 

I am aware of my strength and act with confidence.

I rejoice in the process of creating positive change in my life.

I am capable and worthy of love.

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Feb 07, 202403:34
Ā āœļøJournal prompts for your breakup āœļø

Ā āœļøJournal prompts for your breakup āœļø


Journaling sure is having a moment, isnā€™t it? Want to know how it can actually help with your breakup? In this weekā€™s episode I cover:

-The mental health benefits of journaling

-How writing directly helps with the pain of a breakup

-Ways that I have used journaling in my life and in my breakups

-3 powerful journal prompts to get started

Grab a pen a paper - if youā€™re serious about healing your heart this episode is for you.Ā 

And as promised, hereā€™s how you can schedule a free intro call with me:Ā 

Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.


Resources mentioned in this episode:Ā 

Playlists:Ā 

Breakups: Itā€™s time to kick ass

Breakups: itā€™s okay to grieve

Breakups: self-love

Breakups: Youā€™re going to make it

Journaling: University of Rochesterā€™s Health Encyclopedia

Healthline: 6 Journaling Benefits and How to Start Right Now

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________
Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Feb 01, 202426:07
šŸ§—Iā€™m single. Now what?? šŸ§—(188)

šŸ§—Iā€™m single. Now what?? šŸ§—(188)

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Being single can be a big adjustment. And it can also be a big blessing. But how do you get used to it, much less learn to love it?Ā 

I GOT YOU. In todayā€™s dose of breakup medicine I am covering:Ā 

-Things to keep in mind about your single journey and the concept of being single

-What being single has taught me

-The hard parts about being single and why you should move forward giving yourself grace

-The benefits of being single

-The social lives of singlesĀ 

-Ways to get used to being singleĀ 

-More resources for leaning into your single journeyĀ 

Resources mentioned in todayā€™s episode:Ā 

https://belladepaulo.com/Ā 

Solo: Building a Remarkable Life of Your Own (Dr. Peter McGraw)

Episodes:Ā 

-184: Love addiction with Kate Marlene

-Living a Remarkable Lifeā€¦Solo (Bonus episode)

-176: What does it mean to move on?

170: My breakup story: Emma

166: Your post-breakup vacationĀ 


Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.




Jan 24, 202451:18
 ā‰ļø Why is no contact so hard? (187) ā‰ļø

ā‰ļø Why is no contact so hard? (187) ā‰ļø

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

Youā€™ve heard me say it before: no contact is one of the most effective ways to heal from a bad breakup. But why is it so hard? Lena is back to talk about why we struggle to do something we know in our heads is so good for us.Ā 

Contact Lena at www.lenaehrenberg.com

Weā€™ve both got some pieces of GOLD for you today to get started or stay strong on your no-contact journey.Ā 

We discuss:Ā 

-WHAT no contact really means

-How it has hurt or helped our breakups

-Why it is SO important for your break up healingĀ 

-The false intimacy that maintianing contact with your ex can create

-WHY itā€™s so hard

-The science behind why breakups and no contact hurt so much

-HOW to stop engaging with your ex

-And MORE!Ā 

This is a great chat between coaching and friends about setting yourself free after a breakup. Remember: no contact is a radical form of self-love and it WORKS.

Do it for you.Ā 

More episodes to help:Ā 

164: Breakup healing and routines

167: Talking about your breakup

168: The no-contact rule: 5 tips for success

-And the affirmations track right after -Ā 

173: A tough love alert for your breakup and dating patterns

179: Breakup? Walk it off.Ā 

174: How to cope

172: A letter to your ex

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Jan 17, 202401:12:04
šŸ—£ļøThe hurtful things your ex said (186) šŸ—£ļø

šŸ—£ļøThe hurtful things your ex said (186) šŸ—£ļø

Beat your breakup in THREE hours or less. Click here to get started.Ā 

OUCH words hurt, donā€™t they? What to do? You can get over whatever bullshit your ex said to you during your relationship or breakup. You can put the past in the past. I go you.Ā 

In this weekā€™s episode, I dive into:Ā 

-WHY people say hurtful things during a breakup

-Why you may be holding onto the past

-MY recent lessons about breakups and hurtful words

-Coping with hurtful words in the early days after a breakup

-HealingĀ 

-How to put the past in the past

Episodes mentioned in this episode:Ā 

117: Self-forgiveness and breakups

163: MY recent breakup lessons

167: Talking about your breakupĀ 

172: A letter to your ex

Quotes from this episode:

ā€œDonā€™t get hung up on letting your ex know the impact of their words or actions. It is done with. It is not important to have the last word.ā€

ā€œBlaming yourself keeps you trapped. Learn to forgive yourself. Commit to moving on. Commit to learning from this experience rather than torturing yourself over it.ā€

ā€œRumination causes us to identify with our thoughts. When we ruminate over painful words we start to think that they are true.ā€

ā€œOur thoughts are not our reality. They are just thoughts.ā€

ā€œDo you love yourself enough to set yourself free by releasing this person?ā€

ā€œRepeating words outloud causes us to identify with them more and more and more. The words that were spoken to you were negative and hurtful. Repeating them spreads that negativity. It gives fuel to them. It keeps them in your system rather than allowing them to start to leave your system.ā€

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @janiceformichella

Ā @breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Jan 10, 202433:40
šŸŖ¢BDSM 101, baby (185) šŸŖ¢

šŸŖ¢BDSM 101, baby (185) šŸŖ¢

Get my special holiday support package here.Ā 

Exploring BDSM can be transformative. And it is an often misunderstood practice that can seem to some to be intimidating to begin. Well donā€™t worry, Christina and I have got your back.Ā 

In this weekā€™s episode we are providing a beginning primer into the world of BDSM, as we know it, at least. Buckle up while we explore:Ā 

-Our individual entries into BDSM

-What attracts us to the practice

-The neuro-science of BDSM

-Different ways that people practiceĀ 

-How to get started

-Things to keep in mind and ways to protect yourself

-Aftercare

-And as always, more!Ā 

Referenced in this episode:Ā 

BDSM Test - take it and let me know what you discover!Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @JaniceFormichella

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Dec 20, 202301:14:32
Holiday/New Yearā€™s coaching (special news)

Holiday/New Yearā€™s coaching (special news)

Get my special holiday support package here.Ā 

I am popping in with a quick announcement about my once-a-year support package. I love connecting with my listeners and am here to help make your holiday or new year more powerful and help you feel more supported than ever.Ā 

The package includes:Ā 

-One 75-minute Zoom call (THIS week if you need it)

-Holiday/new year action planĀ 

-30-minute follow up call

-Texting support.Ā 

The bundle is only $250 and available only this week. Get in now!

You can purchase it here. DM or email me privately to discuss sliding scale options.Ā 

I canā€™t wait to connect with you!Ā 

Dec 19, 202304:50
šŸ’”Love addiction (184) šŸ’”

šŸ’”Love addiction (184) šŸ’”

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

We are all told to look for it and even chase after it. But love and the hope of the ā€˜happily ever afterā€™ can hurt and even destroy us in some cases.Ā 

Today friend and narrative therapist Kate Marlene is joining me to share her experience of accepting that she is a love addict and her brave journey to recover and learn from it. This is a vulnerable, courageous chat on the part of Kate and I know you will all get so much out of it.Ā 

We cover:Ā 

-The signs of love addictionĀ 

-Kateā€™s story

-How the media and those around us perpetuate unhealthy dating behaviorsĀ 

-The impacts of love addiction

-Recovering from love addictionĀ 

-Finding and keeping TRUE intimacyĀ 

Resources from todayā€™s episode:Ā 

Codependent No More: Melody Beattie

Codependent No More Workbook: Melody Beattie

The Language of Letting Go Daily MeditationsĀ 

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Lindsay C. Gibson

Facing Love Addiction: Pia MelodyĀ 

**Follow Kateā€™s work and learn about her restorative therapy work. It is great for those healing from a breakup.Ā 

Visit her website here: restoryatherapy.com

And check out her great podcast here: aboutfacepodcast.com

Affirmations from todayā€™s episode:Ā 

  • I take care of myself.

  • I define and enforce healthy boundaries.

  • I am in touch with what is going on right now, including how I feel about it.

  • I accept 100 percent responsibility for my own happiness, security, and other needs (which means I know how to ask for appropriate support).

  • I recognize and celebrate my strengths, while remaining humble about my weaknesses.

Connect with me!

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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Dec 06, 202301:10:59
šŸŒŸLiving a remarkable lifeā€¦solo (BONUS!!) šŸŒŸ

šŸŒŸLiving a remarkable lifeā€¦solo (BONUS!!) šŸŒŸ

My favorite co-hosted episode ever! Want a look inside the solo movement and how an entire community of people are living their best life without the end goal of having a relationship? Push play!Ā 

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

I am honored to drop this cross-dropped episode with someone who is no less than a hero of mine, Dr. Peter McGraw. Dr. McGraw is a thought leader and one of the people paving the way for the solo community.Ā 

Not sure what the solo community is? Tune in an get educated :)Ā 

Go show Peter some podcast love! Check out his website, PeterMcGraw.org

*Please also follow his podcast: Solo: The single personā€™s guide to a remarkable life - wherever you listen to podcasts.Ā 

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____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Nov 30, 202301:17:37
šŸ˜ŸAm I undatable? (183) šŸ˜Ÿ

šŸ˜ŸAm I undatable? (183) šŸ˜Ÿ

Do you feel like you strike out over and over again? Do you feel that there is something about you that makes it hard for you to connec with people? Do you wonder if you are doomed to be alone?Ā 

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Do you feel insecure about your looks? Do you feel insecure about your quirks?

Today Brian Dunn and I are talking about what makes people feel ā€œundatableā€ and what ANYONE who feels this way can to turn this around and get out there with *confidence* and swagger.Ā 

We discuss:Ā 

-What makes some people feel unattractive or undatable -Our personal stories with limiting beliefs-Common limiting beliefs that keep people stuck in dating-Common areas where people feel self-conscious or insecure-Breaking patterns-Geting what you want out of dating-Confidence building tips

Please go show Brian some podcast love. Follow him on IG at mrbriancdunn and TicTok at mrbriancdunn

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Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcast

@JaniceFormichella

Quotes from this episode:Ā 

ā€œWant confidence? Set small goals and keep promises to yourself.ā€ -Brian Dunn

ā€œFeeling secure enough to go out into the wild on your own is a sure-fire way to build confidence.ā€ -Janice Formichella

ā€œSmiling at people not only builds your confidence, it is very magnetic.ā€ -Janice Formichella

ā€œTalking to a stranger and prove to yourself that it didnā€™t blow up in your face.ā€ -Brian Dunn

ā€œIf you donā€™t know what you want, itā€™s easy to keep repeating the same patterns and accepting anything that comes your way.ā€ -Janice Formichella

ā€œAttachment styles are not encoded on us.ā€ -Janice Formichella

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Nov 29, 202301:20:49
182: šŸŽ„Holidays after a breakup šŸŽ„

182: šŸŽ„Holidays after a breakup šŸŽ„

Yikes! The first holidays after a breakup - memories, triggers, hope, not-so-much-hope, and everything in between.Ā 

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

It is also an opportunity to really make your breakup and your no-contact commitment STICK.Ā 

This episode is about how to do it. Iā€™ve got four tips to help you survive this tricky time. In this episode I talk about:Ā 

-What to do about friends and familyĀ 

-What to do if your exā€™s family reaches out to you

-Gifts you meant to give to your ex

-Dealing with memories of your ex

-Avoiding pesky questions from family about your ex

-AND MORE!

Quotes from this episode:Ā 

ā€œAllow yourself the gift of not thinking too much about your ex. The holidays only come once a year. Let yourself enjoy it even if your heart is still healing.ā€

ā€œ Imagine how great it will feel to look back on this holiday season and remember not your ex but all of the things from this year that had nothing to do with them.ā€Ā 

ā€œWhen you put yourself first everything else falls into place.ā€

ā€œWhen we are trying to go no contact or really put our ex behind us it is about creating as much space with the person as we can. Talking with their parents is not creating more space, it is closing the gap.ā€

ā€œDonā€™t let your ex invade your phone by texting with them. Donā€™t let it be used as a source of temptation. Let the holidays be a time when you really make no-contact stick by not having one sliver of contact with this person.ā€Ā Ā 

Want to connect?

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____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Nov 22, 202318:25
šŸŽ”Flings! šŸŽ” (180)

šŸŽ”Flings! šŸŽ” (180)

Flings can be a fun way to get back out there after a breakup, have an adventure, learn about ourselves and create memories. Iā€™ve had some I remember fondly and so has my amazing guest co-host Julie Demsey.Ā 

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Today we are talking about all things flings :) We cover:Ā 

-How/why flings can be GREAT

-Our HOT fling stories

-Ways to avoid catching the feels

-Safety measures to take

Quotes from this episode:Ā 

ā€œFlings help us stay present in the moment.ā€

ā€œWhatā€™s your flavor of fling?ā€

ā€œThereā€™s not wrong way, thereā€™s only your way.ā€Ā 

Visit JulieĀ  JulieDemsey.com and on IG at JulieDemsey

šŸ‘‰Get her book, FOUND Swiping right on me to find love on Amazon here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcast

@JaniceFormichella

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____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Nov 15, 202301:06:29
šŸš¶šŸƒBreakup? Walk it off! (179) šŸš¶šŸƒ

šŸš¶šŸƒBreakup? Walk it off! (179) šŸš¶šŸƒ

Want to know one of the simplest tools for healing that is RIGHT at your fingertips?Ā 

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Itā€™s walking.Ā 

Donā€™t believe me? Push play, baby, and start healing today.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

AND/OR JaniceFormichella

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Nov 08, 202316:39
178: ā˜€ļøMorning affirmations for your breakup ā˜€ļø

178: ā˜€ļøMorning affirmations for your breakup ā˜€ļø

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Breakup? Are the mornings a bit rough for you? One way to make them easier is to select an affirmation or two to set the stage for your day.Ā 

In todayā€™s mini-episode I am sharing a track with 11 of my favorite morning affirmations.Ā 

The more positive you can make your mornings the better your day, week, and month will be.Ā 

Remember - youā€™ve got this. And Iā€™ve got your back.Ā 

Want to connect?

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JaniceFormichella

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____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Nov 01, 202310:01
BONUS šŸ›‘Stop Victim Blaming šŸ›‘

BONUS šŸ›‘Stop Victim Blaming šŸ›‘

TRIGGER WARNING: Victim blaming, sexual assault, domestic violenceĀ 

In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month I am re-dropping a VERY important episode that I did last year with one of my closest friends and fellow survivor Christine Lalonde on the ongoing abuse that is *victim blaming.ā€

Christine is a powerful advocate for survivors and a great content creator. Please go follow her now: fiftyshadesof_bullshit

Victim blaming needs to stop. As part of the Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On commitment to Domestic Violence Awareness Month I am partnering up with my good friend Christine to talk about the victim blaming that we have experienced, the impacts it had on our life, and how YOU can become part of the solution instead of the problem.Ā 

šŸ‘‰Take a stand! Please share this episode on social media this month to help raise awareness about the impacts of victim blaming.Ā 

Please go show Christine some love! Follow her on IG atĀ 

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Main points from this episode:Ā 

-WHAT is victim blaming?

-The impacts of victim blaming - both long term and short term

-Our personal experiences with victim blamingĀ 

-How victim blaming *perpetuates* domestic violence and sexual assaultĀ 

Want to connect?

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IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Oct 31, 202354:44
šŸ›‘ Domestic Violence Awareness w/ Ruth Glenn, NCADV (bonus) šŸ›‘

šŸ›‘ Domestic Violence Awareness w/ Ruth Glenn, NCADV (bonus) šŸ›‘

Trigger warning: gun violence, stalking, partner violence, suicide

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. To begin to close things out I am sharing a conversation I had in 2021 with Ruth Glenn, President of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. Ruth's story is one of survival, inspiration, and information for us all to use and share.Ā 

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Domestic violence is a prevalent and misunderstood issue impacting individuals and families in every community in this country. It is estimated that nearly 20 people per minute are being physically abused in the United States, with life-altering non-physical violence just as common but less recognized.Ā 

Yet as pervasive an issue as it is, there are myths and misunderstandings that make things even less safe for victims and survivors. In this re-drop Ruth and I share:

-Her story of being abused by her husband

-Why ā€œwhy didnā€™t you leave??ā€ misses the point and puts the blame on the abused person

-How you can provide hope and support to someone in your life who may be being abused

-How to recognize abuse in your relationship

-How to be an advocate for victims and survivors

Plus: how to get involved with the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence and join the movement against intimate partner violence.Ā 

The NCADV is 100% reliant on grassroots support and donations, not funded by government grants. Please visit them today at https://ncadv.org/ to learn about the various ways to get involved.Ā 

Want to connect?

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____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Oct 26, 202301:15:40
āŒ Abusive relationship: what I learned āŒ (178)

āŒ Abusive relationship: what I learned āŒ (178)

Trigger warning: domestic violence, family trauma.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence please take note of the following resources:
America: 800-799-3224
Eurpoe: 116 016
Australia: 1800 737 732
Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.
Did you know that October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month? Today, I am going to tell a portion of my story about being in a physically and mentally violent relationship and what I learned from coming out on the other side.
I discuss:

The signs of toxic people and abusive relationships

My story in a nutshell

8 lessons I learned as part of my recovery


Quotes from todayā€™s episode:
ā€œAll stories are as unique as the people who tell them.ā€
ā€œYour relationship may be toxic if itā€™s characterized by behaviors that make you feel unhappy, including disrespect, dishonesty, controlling behaviors, or a lack of support.ā€ -Healthline
ā€œI had very, very limited experience with what a healthy relationship looked like. In many ways, I didnā€™t know any better. I give myself grace for that.ā€
ā€œLove bombing is an emotional manipulation method that often points to the beginning of an unhealthy, toxic, or abusive relationship. Someone who uses this tactic usually does so to quickly gain the favor of a potential partner so they can more quickly and easily control them. Those who love bomb their potential partners often display narcissistic traits.ā€ -WebMD
ā€œThe deeper you get, the harder it iw to think objectively.ā€
ā€œIt is a huge, HUGE red flag when someone pressures you to move in early in the relationship. This demand on the level of commitment so early is not only a red flag but a deal breaker.ā€
ā€œAbusers are sly, sleek, calculated people who ease their way into your life in ways that seem normal and sweet at first.ā€
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." Maya Angelo
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Oct 25, 202340:54
šŸ‘Øā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ‘ØšŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ’‹ā€šŸ‘Ø Difficult conversations - 177 šŸ‘Øā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ‘ØšŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ’‹ā€šŸ‘Ø

šŸ‘Øā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ‘ØšŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ’‹ā€šŸ‘Ø Difficult conversations - 177 šŸ‘Øā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ‘ØšŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ’‹ā€šŸ‘Ø

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Conversations can either be a portal to greater intimacy or a portal to separation and resentment. Today Brian Dunn and I are sharing a method to use in your relationships when difficult issues come up as well as our own stories about learning to communicate better as we date and grow close to our partners.Ā 

We discuss:Ā 

-The ATTUNE method of speaking and listening inside of your relationship

-The difference between intention and impact in conflicts

-How to be an active listener

-Structuring things in your week to connect via conversations

-Journaling exercises to help you uncover the root of your triggers

-And more!Ā 

Please go show Brian some podcast love. Follow him on IG at mrbriancdunn and TicTok at mrbriancdunn

Quotes from todayā€™s episode:

ā€œEmbody and lead by example with more empathy, understanding, and compassion.ā€ -Brian Dunn

ā€œBe a good apologizer.ā€ -Janice Formichella

ā€œAn apology may be a good band-aid for a wound but if you donā€™t address the wound it will keep festering and you can make it worse.ā€ -Brian Dunn

ā€œThink of your last big relationship and three big fights that you had - how did you show up?ā€ -Janice Formichella

Continue to up-level your communication game! Check out these resources:Ā 

What makes love last

Seven Principles for Making Marriage WorkĀ 

Boundary Boss

Nonviolent CommunicationĀ 

Episodes for further learning:Ā 

-156: Nonviolent communication 101

-152: Maslowā€™s hierarchy of needs in dating and relationships

139: past trauma, new relationships

129: Identifying relationship patterns after a breakup

-161: People pleasingĀ 


Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ AND JaniceFormichella - I wanna hang out with you!

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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Oct 20, 202301:16:16
176: šŸš˜What does it mean to move on? šŸš˜

176: šŸš˜What does it mean to move on? šŸš˜

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

How will I know I have moved on? How will I know I am ready to date again? These are questions I hear all of the time. ā€œMoving onā€ is a fairly abstract concept, so today I am giving you som measurable benchmarks to monitor your progress.

I share:Ā 

-Why it is important to know what ā€œmoving onā€ looks like

-How not fully moving on from a breakup prevents us from enjoying the momentĀ 

-My stages of breakup grief

-The importance of acceptance

-What your day will look like once you move on from your breakup

-How to know if youā€™re ready to date again

-Will you still think about your ex after youā€™ve moved on?Ā 

Quotes:Ā 

ā€œWhen you stop dwelling on regret and instead become grateful for the lessons you have reached an important benchmark on the moving on journey.ā€

ā€œYou deserve to enjoy the moment and to let joy grow in your life. When you feel easily triggered by memories of your ex it is very hard to do this.ā€Ā 

ā€œIn my book, the no contact rule includes any space that your ex has in your phone, including pictures, texts, and yes, social media.ā€

ā€œThere is a period of time after a breakup that you will likely find it hard to see into the future. This is okay.ā€

ā€œDating from a place of having ā€œmoved onā€ alsbolutely means not going on dates or chatting with people and comparing them to your ex. Nothing good can come of this and it means you have a strong attachment to the good days of your last relationship still.ā€Ā 

Ā 

ā€œWe all heal at our own pace.ā€

I know you can do it :)Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

@janiceformichella

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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Oct 11, 202336:38
175: šŸ˜¬I feel triggeredā€¦šŸ˜¬

175: šŸ˜¬I feel triggeredā€¦šŸ˜¬

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.
Ah triggersā€¦they come up when we least expect them to, and we often react so quickly that it can cause ruptures in our relationships. Preventing these ruptures is an intentional, ongoing practice.
Inside of a healthy, committed relationship both people can play a part in working through it. But it is our personal responsibility to make that happen.
Welcome back to the show Brian Dunn! This week we are talking about:
-The definition of a ā€œtriggerā€
-What happens when we feel triggered
-How our past relationships affect what we respond to
-What can happen in a relationship when triggers go un-addressed
-The part that each person in a relationship plays in addressing and preventing future rifts that are caused due to past shit
Please go show Brian some podcast love. Follow him on IG at mrbriancdunn and TicTok at mrbriancdunn
Quotes from the episode:
ā€œGet specific. Saying you ā€˜felt triggeredā€™ does not describe your experience.ā€
ā€œIf someone has ā€œtriggersā€ and is not working to resolved them, you do have the option to consider if it is something you want to take on.ā€
ā€œBoth perspectives can be true.ā€
ā€œIt is not about whoā€™s right and whoā€™s wrong. Itā€™s about ā€˜We have this problem. How can we fix it together?ā€™ā€
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Email:
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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.
Oct 04, 202301:06:59
174: šŸ§— How to cope šŸ§—

174: šŸ§— How to cope šŸ§—

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Breakup? Want to know how to cope? Iā€™ve got you.Ā 

Today I am sharing five tips/practices/strategies for coping when your heart is so broken that you can barely think straight.

Remember - it is okay and healthy to set your grief aside while you allow your system to adjust to your new reality. This episode will give you ideas on how to do it.Ā 

Quotes:Ā 

ā€œIt is okay to have bad days and hard moments during a breakup.ā€Ā 

ā€œThere is a crucial grieving process to any breakup, have faith that it is temporary, and donā€™t spiral.ā€

ā€œAs much as we may try to put on a brave face, interactions with others can be really hard when we are hurting so much.ā€

ā€œTime does do a lot to help a person heal. But so does intention and showing up for yourself.ā€

ā€œRemember, it is always, always better to be single than in a relationship that isnā€™t working.ā€

Episodes for more support:Ā 

164: Breakup healing routines

159: How to stop thinking about your ex

157: Breakup? Youā€™ll get through this. Hereā€™s why.Ā 

And please go look between episode 156 and 154 for a bonus affirmations track that you can play on your hard days.Ā 

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IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Sep 27, 202335:00
173: šŸ’ŖA tough love alert for your breakup and dating patterns! šŸ’Ŗ

173: šŸ’ŖA tough love alert for your breakup and dating patterns! šŸ’Ŗ

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Feeling stuck in your breakup or dating journey? It may be time to take a super close look at whatā€™s not working and consider new ways of doing things. This week youā€™ve got two coaches here to lay it all out for you.Ā 

Buckle up!Ā 

We want you to be happy! So weā€™re here to point out your blindspots and help you to uncover where you may be able to make changes and TURN YOUR HEALING and DATING JOURNEY AROUND.Ā 

Mentioned in this episode:Ā 

165: Breakup? Find your happy place

171: The dating app mindset

Show Lena some podcast love! Please go follow her now and ask her about coaching on IG at HaveMoreLove

Quotes from this episode:Ā 

ā€œWhat someone did to hurt you isnā€™t your fault but the pattern is your to take responsibility for.ā€Ā 

ā€œIf your life were a science experiment you would be the only constant.ā€

ā€œDo not compromise yourself for the sake of the relationship.ā€

ā€œMaybe itā€™s not about ā€˜WHO do I date..?ā€ itā€™s about ā€˜HOW do I date?ā€™ā€

ā€œYou donā€™t always get what you deserve but you do often get what you expect.ā€

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Sep 19, 202301:10:46
172: šŸ“§A letter to your exā€¦ šŸ“§

172: šŸ“§A letter to your exā€¦ šŸ“§

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Want to get over your breakup?

Do you have things left unsaid?Ā 

Do you feel angry?Ā 

Are you spinning and staying stuck?Ā 

It may be time to tell your ex how you feel - energetically. Letter writing can help.Ā 

Today I am talking about one of my favorite healing exercises: the handwritten letter to the ex.Ā 

I cover:Ā 

-Why letter writing is therapeutic-Why not sending it is the best way to move on-How writing a letter to your ex helps with closure-The practical aspects of writing a letter to your ex that you will never send-Anger and letter writing

Processing a breakup takes a lot of intention. This exercise can help you to heal and gain closure while leaving your ex out of the equation. You will gain learn to emotionally support yourself and blow off some major steam.Ā 

Episodes for extra learning:

168: 5 tips for no-contact success

165: Breakup? Find your happy place.Ā 

159: How to stop thinking about your exĀ 

29: Rituals for breakupsĀ 

Good luck!

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Sep 12, 202326:21
Want to pay attention to red flags? Slow down! (Holiday re-post)

Want to pay attention to red flags? Slow down! (Holiday re-post)

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.


Today I am re-posting one of my favorite episodes from the first year of the podcast so that I can focus on my long holiday :) I hope you'll learn from and like it.


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____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Sep 05, 202338:46
171: šŸ¤³The dating app mindset šŸ¤³

171: šŸ¤³The dating app mindset šŸ¤³

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Dating apps are a great place to meet people and even find long-lasting love. But as with most things in life, your success depends on your mindset. Todayā€™s roundtable discussion is a powerhouse of coaches and mindfulness experts who are here to help you adjust your thinking and get results on the apps.Ā 

Barry, Julie, and I discuss:Ā 

-How breakups can impact our dating app mindset

-Why the apps are great

-Seven different mindsets to set yourself up for a pleasurable time meeting people onlineĀ 

Connect with Barry and Julie!Ā 

Visit Barry at BarrySelby.com and on IG at TheRealBarrySelby

Visit JulieĀ  JulieDemsey.com and on IG at JulieDemsey

šŸ‘‰Get her book, FOUND Swiping right on me to find love on Amazon here.Ā 


Want support for your breakup?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupsodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Aug 29, 202301:03:33
170: ā¤ļøMy Breakup Story: Emma ā¤ļø

170: ā¤ļøMy Breakup Story: Emma ā¤ļø

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.


Todayā€™s chat is a true inspiration. I am speaking with former client Emma about her journey to leave a toxic cycle she had with a man and to truly come to love herself and use her breakup as a catalyst to create a new beginning in life. This is my goal with all of my clients, to take shit and spin into into gold.Ā 


I want you to pay attention to:Ā 

-Emmaā€™s realization that the pattern she was in with her ex was predictable and far from romantic

-How little emotion she now feels about the person she once sacrificed so much for

-How thankful she is for the lessons she learned from her breakup

-How SEXY her life is now


Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: Breakupspodcast

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Aug 24, 202353:51
169: šŸ¤” Am I ready for a relationship? šŸ¤”

169: šŸ¤” Am I ready for a relationship? šŸ¤”

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

It can be hard to know if you are prepared to have a healthy relationship, especially after a breakup. It can also be hard to know if a relationship is right for you. Today I am chatting with relationship educator Christina Morelli about learning about yourself and the people you are dating before making a commitment. We chat about:Ā 

The neuroscience in the early days of a relationship

Conversations with yourself that will help you determine if you are ready to date

Five key chats to have with someone to determine compatibilityĀ 

How to know if you are over your ex enough to date again

And more!Ā 

Please show Christina some podcast love You can find her at Christine Morelli.com and on all social media platforms:Ā 

Learn more at http://www.christinamorellicoaching.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChristinaMorelliCoaching

FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshipskillsandeducation

Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/christinamorellicoaching/

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/christinamorellicoaching

Episodes mentioned for further learning:Ā 

156: Preventing breakups with Non-Violent CommunicationĀ 

152: Maslowā€™s Hierarchy of Needs in dating and relationships

128: Rediscovering yourself after a breakup

50: Am I ready to date again?Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Aug 22, 202301:01:14
šŸŒŸ No contact affirmations (bonus resource!) šŸŒŸ
Aug 18, 202304:22
168: šŸ“µ The no-contact rule: 5 tips for success šŸ“µ

168: šŸ“µ The no-contact rule: 5 tips for success šŸ“µ

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.
I believe in no-contact! AND I also know how hard it is. It is challenging for almost everyone and for different reasons. Regardless of why you find it difficult, I have FIVE tips to help you make it a success. Get a pen and paper! Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to find ONE thing from todayā€™s episode to apply to your no-contact journey.
More episodes to help:
160: The psychology of breakups
159: How to stop thinking about your ex
115: My ex texted. Should I reply?
Want to connect?
Email:
breakupspodcast@gmail.com
IG: @breakupspodcast
Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.
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Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.
Aug 15, 202327:18
167: šŸ“žTalking about you breakup šŸ“ž

167: šŸ“žTalking about you breakup šŸ“ž

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Yeahā€¦itā€™s bound to come up ā€“ but how do you deal with it? Talking about your breakup can be super tricky. It can also help or hurt. Today I am taking a deep dive into the inā€™s and outā€™s, the doā€™s and donā€™ts, and the how-toā€™s when it comes to communicating about the fact that your relationship has just blown up. And I'm doing it with one of my favorite gal pals. We cover:Ā 

-The reasons people may keep things to themselves

-The differences between talking about being ā€œdumpedā€ compared to being the ā€œbreaker upperā€Ā 

-How to ask for support

-What definitely not to do when talking about your breakup

-How to lean on your friends without leaning too much

-How to talk about your breakup in a way that leaves you feeling that you are WINNING the breakupĀ 

Mentioned on this episode:Ā 

My recent breakup lessons

Talking to your kids about your breakupĀ 

The way you breakup is the way youā€¦

Being the breaker upper


***Show Lena some podcast love! Please go follow her now on IG at HaveMoreLove

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Aug 08, 202301:05:07
166: šŸ—ŗļø Your post-breakup vacation šŸ—ŗļø

166: šŸ—ŗļø Your post-breakup vacation šŸ—ŗļø

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

Solo travel has a TON of benefits, especially after a breakup. Today I am joined by solo travel enthusiast Kelly Saavedra to talk about our recent post-breakup adventures, how it helps with healing a broken heart, and HOW to DO IT. Plus-advice on dealing with the naysayers.Ā 

**Please** go show Kelly some podcast love! Follow her on IG at kellyannexplores

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Aug 01, 202301:01:56
165: šŸ˜ Breakup? Find your happy place šŸ˜

165: šŸ˜ Breakup? Find your happy place šŸ˜

Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation.

A breakup can make us feel so powerless. We feel things that we canā€™t necessarily control. What to do? How about finding your HAPPY PLACE?

Today I discuss:Ā 

-Why the concept of the happy place is useful for breakup healing.Ā 

-The meaning of touchstone/happy place

-The emotional scale

-Ten of my own touchstones/happy places

-How you can discover your happy place to heal from your breakupĀ 

And of course, MORE šŸ™‚

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Jul 26, 202327:03
164: ā°Breakup healing and routines ā°

164: ā°Breakup healing and routines ā°

Breakup? Feeling DISCOMBOBULATED? Breakup brain and grief can cause us to feel so out of sorts, but developing new routines and habits can help turn things around. Plus - it will make you feel like a badass.Ā 

Today I discuss:Ā 

-Why routines are important as tools to recover from breakups

-The general health benefits of routines

-Creating a powerful morning routine that will directly help with your breakup

-And other daily routines and how to stick to them

Bonus: what to do on those hard days when you donā€™t feel like doing anything.Ā 

Iā€™ve got you!Ā 

Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Jul 18, 202331:19
163: šŸ’” MY recent breakup lessons šŸ’”

163: šŸ’” MY recent breakup lessons šŸ’”

Breakups happen to all of us - breakup coaches included. This week I am talking about things I have recently been reminded of about the process of a breakup and what I think you can learn from my heartbreak as well.Ā 


Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Jul 11, 202325:16
162: šŸ’†Sexual aftercare for expanded intimacy šŸ’†

162: šŸ’†Sexual aftercare for expanded intimacy šŸ’†

We all know about sexual foreplay, but what about after-play? This week I am taking a juicy deep-dive into the topic of sexual aftercare with friend and sex educator Steve Oskard. We discuss:Ā 

-Why aftercare is important for couples

-How aftercare can expand intimacy and trust

-Ways to ask for what you desire after sex

-Ideas for sharing aftercare

-The post-sex blues

-And more

šŸ‘‰Want to work with Steve to improve your possibilities for pleasure? Email him directly at steve@theremedyonline.com

You can also find Steve on IG at steve_oskard

Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Jul 05, 202301:53:15
161: šŸ¤·People pleasing šŸ¤·

161: šŸ¤·People pleasing šŸ¤·

Are you living your most joyful life, or adjusting yourself to fit the joyful life of someone else? People pleasing can leave us numb to our desires AND to the things that donā€™t serve us. Weā€™ve been there! Today I welcome back good friend and fellow coach Jessie Maree for a deep dive into people pleasing. We discuss:Ā 

-Our personal histories with people pleasing

-The difference between people pleasing and co-dependence

-How it prevents us from having flourishing relationships

-Signs that we may be people pleasing

-How to start to CHOOSE YOU

Plus a few affirmations and a dash of Mexican food :)Ā 

šŸ‘‰šŸ‘‰Please go show Jessie some Ex-Philes love! Follow her on IG at jessiemareeco

And check out her website https://www.jessiemaree.com/.Ā 

Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Jun 20, 202301:02:37
160: šŸ˜µā€šŸ’« The psychology of breakups šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

160: šŸ˜µā€šŸ’« The psychology of breakups šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

Breakups can really mess with the mind, but why? If you are struggling to put your breakup or ex behind you I want you to know that it is so normal and almost healthy, because the human brain is designed to process it in a way that really sucks. Today I share some of my research on the topic, along with what you can do about it.Ā 

Iā€™ve got you!

Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Mentioned in this episode:Ā 

Episode 157: ā¤ļøā€Breakup? Youā€™ll get through this. Hereā€™s why. ā¤ļøā€

Episode 13: How to ask for help after a breakupĀ 



Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Jun 14, 202324:42
159: šŸ§ How to STOP thinking about your ex šŸ§ 

159: šŸ§ How to STOP thinking about your ex šŸ§ 

A breakup unsettles us. It is a shock to our system that leaves us with racing and obsessive thoughts. But the good news is, we can gain control over our thoughts and use this new skill to change our lives. Today I am joined by certified hypnotherapist and mindset coach Julie Demsey to talk about practical and scientific ways to STOP THINKING ABOUT YOUR EX.Ā 

You got this! And we got you.Ā 

Please go show Julie some podcast love!Ā 

Visit her website to learn about her work at JulieDemsey.com

Get her book, FOUND Swiping right on me to find love on Amazon here.Ā 

Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


Jun 06, 202301:18:50
158: šŸ’‹Foreplay for everyone! šŸ’‹

158: šŸ’‹Foreplay for everyone! šŸ’‹

Todayā€™s episode is HOT, HOT, HOT! Buckle up, but be ready to take notes as well.Ā 

Foreplay is the oft-underappreciated part of sex and intimacy, but Steve and I believe that means we are missing out on SO many opportunities for pleasure, with ourselves and others. Today we discuss:Ā 

-WHAT foreplay is

-How foreplay applies to our self-pleasure routines

-The MANY ways that foreplay benefits couples

-How foreplay builds trust with ourselves and others

-HOW to do itā€¦

šŸ‘‰Want to work with Steve to improve your possibilities for pleasure? Email him directly at steve@theremedyonline.com

You can also find Steve on IG at steve_oskard

Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


May 30, 202301:32:04
157: ā¤ļøā€Breakup? Youā€™ll get through this. Hereā€™s why. ā¤ļøā€

157: ā¤ļøā€Breakup? Youā€™ll get through this. Hereā€™s why. ā¤ļøā€

The pain of a broken heart is temporary. If you are struggling with a broken heart right now, I want you to know that you WILL get through this. From science to things that are probably in your blind spot right now, today I break down all of the proof that I have that brighter days are ahead.Ā 

Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.com

IG: @breakupspodcastĀ 

Love Ex-Philes? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.Ā 

____________________________________________________________________________

The Ex-Philes is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


May 23, 202312:41
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May 18, 202300:57
šŸ“° Very special Ex-Philes news! šŸ“°

šŸ“° Very special Ex-Philes news! šŸ“°

The most important Ex-Philes announcement of the year! Thank you for being here for it!Ā 

Want to schedule a free consultation to discuss my coaching services? Get direct access to my calendar here.Ā 

Want to connect?

Email: exphilespodcast@gmail.com

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The Ex-Philes is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.


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