The EXTRAORDINARY Family Life Podcast

This much-needed episode addresses something we've been concerned about, thinking about, and researching for years regarding ADHD/ADD in adults and children.

Based on our own experience (having at least 3 kids with ADHD, and at least one of us -- Greg 😁) and experience gained by working with thousands of clients -- plus the added perspective of traveling to 50+ countries which provides a look at the way people do things around the world -- we share some unique and paradigm-shifting perspectives on ADHD and what it means for parents, children and families.

We talk about 'labels', diagnoses, 'drugs' and medication, disorders, hunters vs. gatherers' brains and so much more -- in fact, we may end up killing some of your 'sacred cows'.

Of course, we're not doctors and have no letters after our name so we obviously don't know anything. But this will be a fascinating listen nonetheless.

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In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning answer this question:

"Wondering if you have advice for someone who has been trying to pour everything into life/marriage to make it extraordinary but the spouse is not showing up and 'being the man' as Greg has defined. If they try, they relapse or it seems like the bare minimum is done. It has been years of this and it feels like it’s holding us back from an extraordinary life. Wondering your thoughts on handling situations like that when it feels like you have tried everything and given it time."

The truth is an extraordinary marriage requires work. But Greg and Rachel Denning tackle the all too common dilemma: what to do when one spouse is giving their all to make their marriage extraordinary, but the other isn't stepping up.

They delve into the essence of a thriving marriage, emphasizing the power of daily choices and the need for 'extraordinary' effort (and why 'good' is not good enough).

Greg and Rachel stress the importance of utilizing the right tools (in the right way) even if you've 'tried everything' -- and persisting through challenges.

They explain the issue of 'collusion' and destructive, self-sabotaging patterns in relationships and explain how to break free from them.

Rachel highlights the significance of personal accountability and understanding the differences between men and women -- men need respect and women need to feel cherished -- for fostering a healthy partnership.

They urge spouses to 'bring the tide' and become agents of change in their relationships through self-improvement, emphasizing the effect 'bringing the tide' can have on spouses.

Offering practical advice, the Dennings present a roadmap for enhancing marriages even if you're the 'only one' -- with a warning against heeding misguided counsel (like Ruby Franke).

Key Takeaways:

1. Marriage requires continuous effort and dedication.
2. Small choices yield significant results over time.
3. Extraordinary effort is indispensable for exceptional outcomes -- but it's easier than it sounds.
4. Utilize the right tools and continuously expand your skill set.
5. Break free from destructive relationship cycles (collusion) by taking responsibility.
6. Understand and adapt to gender differences for a harmonious relationship.
7. Personal growth can inspire positive changes in your partner.
8. Consistency and unwavering commitment are crucial for marital improvement.

Timestamps:

• 00:00 Marriage is Tough
• 03:00 The Two Paths in Life
• 06:23 Exponential Results of Small Choices
• 10:07 The Need for Extraordinary Effort
• 13:15 Importance of the Right Tools
• 22:21 Being the Change in Your Marriage
• 27:22 Breaking the Cycle of Destruction
• 29:43 Understanding Differences Between Men and Women
• 31:59 Inspiring Change in Your Spouse
• 32:58 Taking Responsibility
• 39:16 Becoming a Catalyst for Change
• 45:32 Formula for Improving Your Marriage
• 50:22 Urgency of Making Changes
• 53:45The Dangers of Listening to the Wrong Advice
• 57:29 Consistency and Obsession

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On Instagram, I saw a reel that stated "Myth: Sex is a need. Fact: Sex is a desire, not a need."

"All of us can live without sex; we cannot live without water, food, or belonging."

I had to disagree and responded: "It depends on how you define 'need'. For survival, no. For connection, bonding, and love -- yes, it's a need. Can you imagine if you're husband said, "You don't NEED me to talk to you. It's just a desire' and then went days, weeks, or months without talking because it's not a 'need'? You would feel pretty neglected. So if you want an extraordinary relationship then sex -- and talking -- are NEEDS.'

While the argument may be true that 'needs' are ONLY things that we can't live without -- water, food, belonging -- it's inaccurate when we're talking about the surviving -- not to mention the THRIVING -- of our marriage relationship.

Yes, people can live without sex. And talking. But an extraordinary marriage cannot.

Of course, there are extremes when sex in marriage is not an option (injury, postpartum, old age). But we're not talking about those rare instances. We're talking about marriages where couples CAN have sex but are NOT having it.

And I get it. As a woman who once *hoped* to find evidence that would convince my husband we never had to have sex again, I know how relieving it can be to believe that his need for sex is not real or is some how wrong or unrealistic.

But it's just not true. Men (and women) want and need intimacy, but for some (usually men) their deepest intimacy takes the form of sex. And that's OK! And when you learn to use both sex and communication together they create an eternal circle of connection between spouses.

Listen to this episode now so you can begin to see sex as an OPPORTUNITY for connection, not a burden or obligation. When you have this paradigm shift then everything changes. And you finally discover the key to building the relationship you've always wanted.

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A member of my 28-Day Challenge coaching program asked:

"I'm curious: what do your kids do for work or how do they learn work ethic? Our oldest is almost 16 and starting a job this summer which is flexible (thank goodness) but as much as she and our family go places we are trying to make sure we're home for part of the summer so she can get hours at that job and earn some money!

I know there are ways to earn outside a typical job: do you have a list of ideas for me? We considered selling some of her crafty works on Etsy and she's done babysitting jobs, but I don't see those online options really "paying off". When we consider doing yard work for others or house cleaning etc, I wonder how safe that is for her to go into homes alone...

...and I feel like our summers will be eaten up soon by our older kids trying to hold down jobs. My spouse feels it's so important for them to learn how to work for someone and they can work during the school year, but it would have to be a REALLY flexible employer. ;) I'd love any insight you (or others!) have."

And...

"Greg said once that his children WILL be wealthy when they grow up. What is it that gives him that kind of confidence (without of course giving them the money!😄)?

What books have you read and are teaching concepts to your kids or having your kids read? I know you guys do things the "non-traditional" way, so maybe there's more there that I don't know about...

It seems that most parents send their kids off into the world and tell them they have to work hard and hope they survive financially. I imagine our kids will struggle at times but that provides good and healthy lessons for them - do you include that part of growth on their own as something they will experience before they reach "wealthy"?

And if they don't go the traditional route with jobs, what are they doing to create that wealth? Wealth isn't everything, but money is a necessary tool in our world and his comment just got me thinking...

Along these lines, what are your thoughts on Dave Ramsey's teachings, like 'The Total Money Makeover'? (It's not on Greg's list under business/money.) Tell me more! :)"

Fantastic and very relevant questions for anyone who is raising children, which we answer in this episode in surprising ways -- such as discouraging our children from getting jobs, encouraging them to BECOME, buy, and acquire assets, and teaching them money psychology, wealth and abundance mindsets, and how to be entrepreneurs and investors.

We also address the potential dangers of youth going into homes alone -- and how to protect against it. PLUS better ways to teach children and teens 'work ethic' and to do hard things.

And we talk about how programs like Dave Ramsey's are geared toward obtaining or maintaining the middle class -- not toward creating generational wealth.

Don't miss this powerful episode that could alter your family's finances for generations to come.

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"I wanted to know what you guys think about screen time... I stopped letting my son (6) watch but then we reintroduced it as my husband said that if it’s in a foreign language it can be beneficial exposure to the language... We limited it to an hour, but I feel like it is too stimulating and it affects his behaviour. It feels like that is all he can think about sometimes. I haven’t read much about it, but I think it’s not good for their brains it’s too addictive."

A fantastic question and concern for all parents. In this episode, we dive into the complicated and real challenges facing us as parents -- and individuals -- as we seek to navigate new territory -- being the first people in the history of the world trying to raise children with so many screens.

So how do we do it --effectively? What dangers are we facing? What opportunities? How young is 'too young' to let kids use screens? How much is 'too much' screen time?

And how do we ensure, as parents and role models, that we are setting a good example of technology use for our children?

We answer all these questions and more to help you teach your kids that screens are 'tools not toys' and that we can maintain mental, emotional, and physical health when we use devices responsibly. Listen now!

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It wasn't too long ago that I would have been hesitant to make such a bold statement -- that wokesim is a dangerous cult.

That's because I have many beliefs that are in line with the underlying viewpoints, such as open-mindedness, acceptance, and tolerance.

But after lots of study, research, and observation over the past year or two, and, being presented with multiple 'case studies' of woke ideology gone wrong...

"I am wondering if I can expect more from my kids than I expect from husband? He has ADHD so he "gets distracted" easily and spends hours a day looking at news stories with his phone.

Can I expect my teens to go on a phone diet [aka device fast] even though my husband is a poor role model? My husband hates nagging, I realized early in our marriage, and we have argued many times in the past about me wanting to expect more of him. Tired of arguing, I got to the point of leaving him alone. However, my kids need to learn good habits so I wonder if I can do work with them despite my husband's negative habits?"

A fantastic question to an all-too-common family problem. Can we expect our children to live to 'higher standards' than one of the parents in the family?

That's what we address in the episode, using an example from our personal life, along with experiences working with clients.

We also touch on why 'ADHD is a label that lies' and what's really going on instead.

AND we give additional strategies that are more effective than nagging to help encourage and inspire your spouse to 'step it up'. This applies to encouraging husbands AND wives.

Don't miss this powerful episode that will inspire you to 'bring the tide' in your family.

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If you're like me, then there's probably been a time when you've felt like this:

"...you're convincing me [to change my life]! And I know I have some development to do, but I start to feel so much lack sometimes when I listen to your episodes! 😉 Like there is so much to do and change that it seems it will take too long and we are starting so late...stuff like that.

I also need to still believe that everyone is on a journey and it is OK if we are far behind the ideal (that's how I feel even though I've come so far)... [And] my husband has a hard time listening to these podcast episodes because he feels that the ideal is pushed so hard that there is no room for grace. But when I spend time with you guys I know that's not how you intend it to come across and not who you are....

I rambled on but I really respect you and your work and how much goodness you're putting out in the world. I'm inspired and depressed by your examples all at the same time 😁😁"

We (Greg and I) can relate to this. We have felt EXACTLY the same way, many times throughout our life as we've pursued our dreams.

That's because being exposed to an IDEAL causes you to feel 'depressed', overwhelmed, and insufficient.

It's the nature of coming face-to-face with a vision of who you could be -- if only you face your fears and pursue your own greatness.

So what do you do when you're filled with both feelings of inspiration and inadequacy?

We walk through it in this episode and explain the approach we have taken -- and are currently taking -- as we continue to pursue bigger and bolder dreams on the journey of creating an extraordinary family life.

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First, let us start by explaining what we're NOT saying in this episode. EVERY family should not homeschool. But *most* families should (we explain what that means).

And NO, homeschooling does not automatically guarantee certain outcomes. There will still be TONS of work and intentional effort involved to produce the desired results.

However, if you have an elevated vision of what you want your family life and legacy (and children's education) to be like:

• deep, connected relationships
• lifelong love of learning
• respect and admiration from your kids into their adulthood
• critical thinking skills
• parent influence over peer influence
• mental and emotional health and well-being
• personal leadership skills (time management, goal setting, project management, etc.)
• social leadership skills (the ability to have a meaningful conversation with anyone, anywhere)
• and much more...

...then homeschooling (or alternative schooling) may be the ONLY way to effectively achieve those extraordinary ends.

The truth is, government (aka public) schooling is NOT getting the job done (for the most part).

As Jordan Peterson recently said,

"The education system -- K-12 and college -- is one of the most corrupt systems on the planet."

It's time to rethink your approach to education especially if you want to create something in your family life that is BETTER than mediocre.... even if you think your current situation is pretty 'good' (we'll explain why good is the enemy of extraordinary).

Listen now to this paradigm-shifting episode.

As we record this we're sitting in an Airbnb in Tangier, Morocco, living yet *another* of our family's dreams -- to road trip from Portugal to Morocco.

Before this trip is over we'll travel from our home base in Portugal to the Sahara Desert in Morocco, having visited Ronda, Grenada, and Cordoba, in Spain, and Tangier, Chefchouen (the Blue City), Fes, Volubilis ancient ruins, Meknes, Casablanca, Marrakesh, Ait Ben Haddou and Zagora.

We'll spend New Year's Eve beneath the stars of the desert with a bonfire and a Berber band, eating tajine and sand bread as we discuss The Alchemist and what it means to 'Live Your Personal Legend.'

But this is just the most recent family dream that we've made come true. Last Christmas we dog sledded in Norway, saw the Northern Lights, took a one-reindeer-open sleigh ride, and visited the Christmas markets before taking a train ride and Christmas cruise from Sweden to Finland. Then we backpacked through 15 countries before reaching Portugal.

Before that, we drove the Pan American Highway (three times), toured Europe for four months, hiked to the Base Camp of Mt. Everest, circled Iceland, and rode horses across the Mongolian steppe... plus much more.

HOW do we do it? How do we make so many dreams come true even with two businesses, homeschooling, and seven children?

That's what we share in this episode. Discover the exact process we've used to make our many family dreams come true.

Get a powerful start to this next year with this actionable episode that provides realistic steps for turning your family dreams into real life.

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Before we had kids, we all had idealized visions of what we *thought* it would be like.

For me, it included images of perfectly dressed and pressed children with clean faces sitting on a picnic blanket in the sunshine, enjoying a perfectly mannered meal together.

But once we become a parent, we soon realize that those ideals are a far cry from reality.

Instead, there are tears, tantrums, and sleepless nights. There are snotty noses and strong opinions. It's no wonder we're not enjoying being a parent as much as we thought we would.

If you've ever felt like this -- and especially if you currently feel like this -- then make sure to listen to this episode.

We'll share some pragmatic principles and practices -- from our experience raising seven children and working with thousands of parents and youth -- that can help you make your parenting journey so much more enjoyable.

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"What would I actually do if I spent more time with my wife and kids? What does that look like?"

"I went on a getaway with my husband and I was bored. I couldn't wait to get back to the kids."

"I've been going on more dates with my husband (because of the 28-Day Challenge) but we're not enjoying them. He doesn't like to do what I do, and I don't like doing what he does."

"My husband and I went away and it was amazing, but I hated returning to the kids who just fight and quarrel every day."

"I waited so long to become a mom and then it finally happened. But now I'm not enjoying it."

We've heard questions like these -- and more -- over the past several weeks.

People understand -- intellectually or philosophically -- that spending time with family is important.

But emotionally, they don't always enjoy it. Or it feels like a chore -- or sometimes even torture.

They would rather be doing something -- anything -- else, by themselves, with friends, at work.

They can't stand the 'unproductivity' of sitting around, playing games, watching movies, or having to do an activity they do NOT want to do.

But is this what 'spending time with family' really has to be like?

Is there a better way?

A way that makes you TRULY WANT to spend time together -- even 24/7/365 (like our family does)?

In this episode, we outline intentional strategies we've used to create a family culture where we actually LOVE spending time together doing things that we LOVE doing.

There's no torture or pain or wishing we could get away.

Instead, there's true enjoyment and delight in being with one another, day after day, week after week.

Let us show you how to make this a reality in YOUR family.

Listen now.

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Would you love to know how to EFFECTIVELY & correctily discipline your kids? (There is a wrong and right way.)

Would you like to be able to discipline without the drama, yelling, punishing, or nagging, AND do it in a way that strengthens your relationship with your child in the short and long term?

Sound too good to be true?

Trust us, it's actually possible.

In this episode, we share not only our personal experience raising and disciplining our 7 children -- but also what we've learned by working with and watching people parent their children on five continents and 50+ countries.

We also share what we've learned by reading dozens of parenting books by experts and how their advice actually plays out in the real-world environment of family life.

Discipline ultimately is about TEACHING, not punishing. And you teach WHO you ARE.

Learn how to stop PUNISHING your children and destroying your relationship in the process and learn how to effectively teach and discipline instead -- while building the lifelong relationships you dream about.

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We cover a LOT of things in this episode as we discuss, examine, and analyze things that have been on our minds during the last week and as we ask each other WHAT'S GOING ON IN THE WORLD??

We're not talking about conspiracy theories... but actual conspiracies.

Stay with us here... these aren't crazy ideas that we've come up with from our imaginations...

...these are actual, proven things that are happening and we're just asking the questions:

• What does that actually mean?
• Where will this actually lead?

Our (optimistic) concern is that it's going to get worse before it gets better... but that's what the fourth turning is all about.

Listen now so you can prepare your family -- because, in the end, it's strong individuals and families that will ultimately change the world!

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If you've been a parent long you know that parenting often feels like a series of problems to solve.

This is accurate. So it only makes sense that if you become a better problem-solver, you will become a better parent.

Continuing on the theme from the last episode about how to create family stability, we explain HOW to improve your problem-solving skills -- and how to do it without damaging relationships or becoming controlling and domineering.

We also explain how to PREDICT and PREVENT problems (including tantrums, meltdowns, and outbursts) -- plus how to solve them for GOOD -- to make family life even smoother and happier.

Plus we'll elucidate on how and why to say 'YES' more often! And expound on specific strategies for getting what you want and need done (in the family and around the house) without nagging or making 'withdrawals' from those 'emotional bank accounts'... and instead do it in a way that actually makes 'deposits' into your relationships.

Listen to this episode now and start applying these strategies today!

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After nine months of traveling outside of the USA (to 17+ countries from Tromsø to Cairo), we return to take care of some things that will help us make a permanent transition to our home base in Portugal...

But as usual, there are things that STAND OUT to us as we visit this country after an extended absence.

In this episode, we share what those things are, and -- in the bigger picture -- why they are significant to our families, the nation, and the world as a whole.

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In this episode, we philosophize (are you surprised?) about observations we've been making for the past decade or more as we've read, studied, and traveled to 50+ countries. It's kind of like putting together a puzzle. You take one piece after another and see where they fit and little by little a picture begins to emerge.

In this case, the picture that's forming shows the current state of the world and the impending disasters that seem to lurk around the bend. We expound on a few of them, get angry about a few others, rant and rave a little, and then share strategies to help protect yourself and your family. We may not be able to stop the avalanche of disaster, but we can get out of the way.

We also open up about our own fears in 'speaking up' or speaking out -- and the necessity for ALL of us to raise our voices. Because all that's required for the triumph of evil is for good men and women to do nothing.

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In this very important episode, Greg and I discuss first-hand knowledge we have about the growing industry of human trafficking. We also talk about sexual abuse, how it happens, and how to protect your kids.

If you think it doesn't happen in your neighborhood, church, or community -- think again! It is a REAL threat and it is EVERYWHERE. It's happened to us, too.

What actions can you take to protect your family? That's what we cover in this episode, along with WHY and HOW human trafficking has become a major world issue and what you can do to fight it.

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"Do you have a podcast episode or advice somewhere where you talk about how you instilled a love of reading in your children?

As parents love reading and have read a lot to our children when they were young. Sometimes we still do now, but no matter which book we suggest, they hate reading, and it breaks my heart."

In this episode, we answer this question from a mom and share specific strategies -- and book recommendations -- for helping children of all ages learn to fall in LOVE with 'reading'.

But we also clarify and define what 'reading' actually means -- identifying the outcome you're actually looking for -- and the non-traditional ways that can still be achieved in today's digital world.

If your kids claim they 'hate' reading -- or you just want them to love it more and develop a life-long habit -- then this episode is for you!

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In Greg's work as a coach, he often hears something like this:

"Yes I agree, but how do I talk to my spouse about that???"

Sometimes we're shocked that a spouse feels like they can't bring up a topic with their 'better half' -- even if it is a sensitive one.

But then we remember that we used to be there too.

And in this episode, we share a personal experience about a topic that was off-limits for about a decade or more... and how we worked through it.

Eventually, we got to the point where we can talk to each other about ANYTHING.

And to have an extraordinary marriage, that's where you want to be.

Yes, it's work. But what's the alternative?

To coast on a plateau or to drift into non-communication?

Learning to discuss difficult topics strengthens your marriage and your bond as a couple.

Learn how to do that in this episode.

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Greg received an email from a friend who said, "My son needs a life coach :)"

His response was, "EVERYONE needs a life coach."

The stigma is that only people with problems or those who 'can't figure it out' need a life coach.

But the truth is, if you want to have a truly EXTRAORDINARY life, you NEED a coach.

You understand this when it comes to learning the violin or tennis -- if you want to be good you get a coach.

Yet somehow too many people don't connect it when it comes to parenting, marriage, or finances.

You NEED a coach in those areas of life, too.

And in fact, that is the ONLY way you'll actually be GREAT in those roles -- if you get some coaching.

But you have to be careful.

Not all life coaches -- or therapists -- are competent to provide advice that works -- even if they are 'certified' or 'qualified'.

In this episode, we dive into WHY you need coaching -- especially if you think you do NOT -- and how to determine if you should actually listen to someone's advice, despite degrees, certifications, and so-called 'qualifications'.

If you want to truly make the MOST of your life -- as a parent, spouse, and individual -- don't miss the strategies in this episode.

No matter if you homeschool or send your kids to public or private school, YOU are responsible for the outcomes of their education.

The first step is for YOU to define what EDUCATION means to you.

Is it academic learning? Grades, tests, and ACT scores? Getting into the 'best' colleges.

Or is it MORE than that?

Does it include their mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, social, and financial development?

If it doesn't, it should.

What about experiences and exposure to people, places, and ideas?

Too many people and students pursue academics at the expense of their mental, emotional, or relational development.

They pursue 'book learning' at the expense of living in and experiencing the world.

They develop negative sleep or eating habits in the pursuit of good grades.

But this has a cost on their life as a HUMAN being -- not to mention their sense of purpose and fulfillment.

If you're interested in helping your children to get an education that will benefit EVERY aspect of their youth and adult life -- not just their academic learning -- and that will help them live happy, fulfilling, purposeful lives...

...then listen to this important episode.

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Do you feel stuck? Or like you're constantly dealing with the same problems -- in your marriage, with your kids, or your finances?

Does it feel like you can never 'afford it' -- no matter what it is? Or that you keep having the same health issues crop up?

Do you feel like "life sucks and then you die"?

Did you realize that you can PREVENT most of these problems before they happen?

Most people think that when things like this arise that it's 'just life'.

But our research, study, and experience have shown us that most problems in life are self-inflicted.

Of course, there are things that happen to you that are outside of your control -- especially as a child.

Some people are victims of abuse, tragedy, and trauma.

But once you become an adult, you have the opportunity and obligation to "Pull the weeds and plant the seeds" of the things you want and don't want in your life.

And you can learn to reframe the past so that it has new meaning and can become a positive force in your life.

Listen now to this episode if you want to learn how to do this -- and to PREPARE for and PREVENT 80% of the problems in your life -- plus acquire the ability to continually 'level up' mentally, emotionally, financially, and in your relationships.

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At work, home, family life, and marriage, it’s easy to blame the circumstances of life or to say ‘That’s just the way things are’…

But the reality is that we’re often participating in, perpetuating, or creating our own chaos in marriage and family life — but that means we also have the power to prevent it with intentional planning and preparation.

Of course, many couples and parents think “I don’t have time to be intentional and strategic like you’re describing. Our life is so crazy busy!”

But if you don’t take the time now to prepare, you’ll be FORCED to take the time later to repair.

There IS a better way. You don’t need to wait until your marriage is in crisis or on the verge of divorce. There are intentional action steps you can take TODAY to make your marriage better now.

And if you already have a good or great marriage, then there are intentional actions and strategic strategies you can use to make it EXTRAORDINARY. 

Listen to this episode now for specific tips, strategies, and tactics we have used ourselves and shared with our clients for the past 22 years to drastically improve your marriage.

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"I'm feeling sooooo burnt out of motherhood... My kids are fighting so much. Last week we did a 'no fighting' challenge for 7 days. They did pretty well and each got a prize.

This week has been a total dumpster fire. I keep circling back to me. Making sure I am good, but I'm just not. I feel so drained at the end of my day after so much fighting. Any advice?"

We get it. Fighting is exhausting -- mentally, emotionally, and physically. It takes away from family and personal productivity and peace. How do we best handle it and put an end to it -- for good? And is it actually possible?

In this episode, we outline the strategies we use from the Pyramid of Peace to 'help things go right' in order to prevent problems and fighting AND how to 'fix what's gone wrong' when fighting actually occurs (which is rare when you spend 80-90% of your time and energy 'helping things go right'.)

We'll show you how to basically eliminate fighting in your family -- for good -- in a realistic approach that focuses on conflict resolution -- because conflicts will arise, but that doesn't mean they have to turn into fights.

If your kids fight at all, then you will want to listen to this insightful episode to understand WHY they are fighting and how to prevent it in a healthy, holistic way.

Resolving conflicts at home and in our families is the beginning of resolving conflicts in the world. Learn how to have more familial peace this week and gain tools for increasing peace in your communities.

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We received a great question from a mom which we answer in today’s episode.

In our work with couples and clients, we often come across marriages that are struggling. One of the MANY reasons this happens (or at least continues as an issue) is because of the husband’s inability or lack of skill in listening to his wife effectively in a way that she needs him to.

Every year on our birthdays and anniversaries we love to reminisce and ask ourselves, "Where were we celebrating last year? I wonder where we'll be next year?"