Many women share with me that most men touch them too early, too hard, and too fast.
One of the best ways to arouse a woman is by using the "hinting touch".
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Internal touch is a powerful healing practice for your yoni. And if you have penetrative sex with your partner, you’ll want to explore your own pleasure with internal stimulation as well. When you have sex with a man, do you want him to just touch you on the outside of your vagina, or do you desire penetration, for him to be inside you? The more you can experience pleasure from internal stimulation on your own, the easier it will be with a partner.
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Sexuality is one of the great misunderstood areas of our lives. It is intimately intertwined with all other areas. Creativity, health and wellness, business, everything.
Read about all the ways in which sexuality affects you life:
You are yearning to open,
yearning to surrender,
yearning to be loved,
and yearning to express your love.
You are yearning to,
but afraid to.
What you are afraid of,
is what you are yearning for.
The man you yearn for will make you feel safe,
but he will also scare you just a little bit.
It’s not that you’re afraid he’s gonna hurt you.
Rather, you know he’s going to see you,
to really SEE you,
to witness all the parts of you that you’ve been hiding and unsure of.
And he’s gonna love all these parts,
and love you as you are,
out of you.
So, you settle.
You settle for the boys.
The boys whom you feel totally safe with.
The nice boys.
The new age boys.
The boys whom you can control and manipulate.
The boys who love your little girl but can’t take your wild, intense, out-of-control woman.
The boys who love your laughter but can’t hold you in your rage, nor in your tears.
The boys who pat you on the back and say “don’t cry”.
The boys who shush you when you are too loud in bed.
The boys who ask you to slow down when you ride them hard because they can’t deal with your juicy energy.
The boys who want it all balanced, fair and harmonious.
The boys who avoid conflict at all costs because it’s “not spiritual”.
The boys who ask for your opinion and guidance while you crave to be led and guided.
The boys who still think you are their mama.
The boys who touch you too early, too fast, too eagerly, and never in the way you really crave.
The boys who make love with you softly, and after a few months or weeks or even days, you get frustrated because sometimes you want to be taken,
you want to be ravished,
you want to be
But try as hard as they can,
they might be making the moves but they don’t have presence,
the depth of being,
and the connection to their wild, warrior, animal self.
Are you tired of the boys?
Is it time to call in a man?
If you want a man, let go of the boys.
The man you yearn for doesn’t need any moves.
He wouldn’t need to do much.
He will look at you and you'll feel deeply seen,
like you’ve never been seen in your whole life,
like you always yearned to be seen.
He will look at you and you will melt,
as you feel how he takes you with his eyes,
how he penetrates you with his presence,
how he fucks you with his love,
how he ravishes you with his deep
He will simply hold you in his arms,
and you will feel held like you’ve never been held
As if the ground disappeared and the world vanished and he’s holding you in
and you are hardly able to keep standing as you’re knees give in.
You might feel overwhelmed.
It might feel like too much.
Let it be too much.
Surrender to the intensity of what this man brings up in you.
This man doesn’t need you.
He is already deeply fulfilled by himself, his mission, and his spiritual practice.
But when you are with him,
you will feel as if you are the first,
and the only woman in the world for him.
He doesn’t need you but he will cherish,
and worship everything about you.
This man will love your laughter,
and adore your tears,
and be touched by your sadness,
and inspired by your anger.
He will appreciate and enjoy your ideas and your intellect,
as well as the smell of your sweat,
and the taste of your skin.
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You say you don’t want to share that in public, that you’re afraid, that you’re not ready, that it’s not the right time, that someone might be triggered, that you might lose something.
I hear you.
But know this:
When you can publicly share what you feel, what you do, what you want, what you believe in…
without worrying about disappointing anyone,
without worrying about losing friends or respect,
without worrying about losing money or reputation,
without worrying if you’re good enough or if what you’re sharing is good enough,
Without caring about rejection or even acceptance…
When you stop hiding,
you will gain a source of joy,
…that will be deeper than anything you’ve experienced in your life.
If you want to be free – stop hiding.
You are beautiful.
You are interesting.
You are enough.
Not just enough.
You are worthy of being seen.
I want to see you.
The world wants to see you.
Don’t wait until you’re ready.
Express something, do something, share something that is slightly outside your comfort zone.
Notice that you are afraid to share, but also that you are yearning to share.
Yearning to be seen for who you really are.
I love you.
If you want to be free - Stop hiding.
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Aren’t you tired of making all the decisions, of having so many responsibilities, of needing to keep it all together?
Wouldn’t you love to be led and guided, at least sometimes?
Aren’t you secretly yearning to surrender to your man?
Maybe you want to surrender.
But you don’t know how to.
Where’s the button you press to surrender?
Perhaps you want to surrender, but you’re afraid.
Afraid to get hurt.
Afraid to get rejected.
Afraid to open your heart and be laughed at.
Afraid to be dissapointed.
Afraid he wouldn’t step up.
Afraid he would mess up.
Afraid to be vulnerable.
I hear you.
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You’re carrying so much stress and tension in your mind and body.
I get it.
Life, relationships, parenthood, money, health, sex, work, study, tasks, projects, responsibilities, errands, promises, practices, to do lists, or just, you know “stuff”.
Can you let all of that go for just one minute?
Know that for one minute, there’s nothing you need to do.
Rather, stop doing.
Let it all go.
Allow your body to soften.
Soften because you are tired of being hard, of controlling and doing and trying to keep it all together.
and just soften.
Even when you’re standing, shift your weight so there’s minimal muscle tension required to keep you upright.
Notice when you tend to contract.
Someone says something.
The phone chimes.
A man looks at you.
A man doesn’t look at you.
Your baby is crying. Again.
An image on TV.
A headline in your browser.
A loud sound.
A strong smell.
An envelope that you know contains a bill that needs to be paid.
A board meeting.
Your mom or dad about to arrive.
Your period is late by a day.
A grey hair.
Your dog growling at a passer-by.
The toilet seat.
The fucken toilet seat…
Notice when you tend to contract.
And just soften.
Notice your mind and its stories, but don’t get into any of that.
In this moment, you don’t need to decide, or know, or understand, or control, or plan, or protect, or remember… Anything…
There’s nothing you need to do right now.
What needs to happen will happen.
What needs to get done will get done.
Soft, slow, relaxed.
Into your belly.
Yes, like that.
Imagine you are lying on a lilo, alone, at sunset, in a large calm pool.
Everything is perfect.
Just let yourself sink into the mattress.
Don’t try to breathe.
Just let the breath come,
Soften your belly.
You have been programmed to breathe into your chest and shoulders.
That just creates more tension and anxiety.
Allow your breath to effortlessly expand your belly.
Soften your face.
Bring awareness to your face and let the tension just fall away.
Soften your eyes.
Soften your forehead.
Soften your scalp.
Soften your mouth.
Soften your jaw.
Let your mouth slightly open.
Let your jaw drop.
If any of this doesn’t make sense, or doesn’t “work”, don’t worry about it.
Soften your body.
Bring awareness to every part of your body, and just soften.
Let your feet and legs soften.
Let your hands open and soften.
Let your arms soften.
Let you belly and chest soften.
Let your genital area soften.
Allow a smile to come to your face, without trying.
Smile to whatever is happening or not happening,
When you breathe, don’t hold the air in.
The moment you inhale, let your breath just fall away.
There’s no effort needed in exhaling.
Like coming back home after a long day and dropping into the couch or a hot bath.
You are safe.
You are enough.
You are beautiful.
You are loved.
Don’t soften because i’m telling you to.
No one can tell you to do anything.
Soften because you choose to soften.
Soften because you yearn to soften.
Your mantra is “soften”.
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I love your body.
I love that scar on your skin.
You are such a perfectly imperfect woman.
I can stare at it for hours.
I love kissing your scar.
I love the feel of your scar on my tongue.
I love your body.
I love the smell of your body in the morning, or after a long day.
I wanna smell you.
I love it.
It turns me on.
It relaxes me.
Don’t shower before you come to make love with me.
I don’t want to smell your deodorant, even if it’s natural and cruelty-free and organic and ethical and made by virgin nuns in the amazons.
It’s YOU that I want to smell.
I love your smell.
I love your body.
I love your belly.
Take that photo of the woman with the 6 pack abs OFF your vision board.
I don’t want that.
I want your soft protruding belly.
Breathe into your belly, let it expand.
You are a woman.
You have a belly.
Let your belly be round, and soft, and relaxed.
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In early-mid 2016 I interviewed Matt Schwenteck of www.uniquetantra.com who is a sexual healer and an educator.
In the interview, we go quite deep into sexual healing, Anal de-armouring. The dynamics of giving and receiving pleasure and Matt also shares some his personal challenges related to this line of work. It is really a deep conversation not just for sexual healers, but for everybody who is interested in sexuality and in growth.
We talked about what his job entails, Liquid Light Transmission, finding deeper pleasure, why men are afraid of de-armoring. We also talked about what in the past that motivates him to be a sexual educator when he actually decided to start charging for his gifts for his sessions, what is a Conscious Lover, and much more.
Find the full transcript at:
Since then, Matt co-founded the school of consent at :
I believe that we all have talents, gifts and power that are part of our life purpose.
In this podcast we're going to talk about:
Sexuality and relationships,
The meeting of creativity, contribution and business,
Lifestyle and wellbeing,
Spirituality and mindfulness,
... as both tools and results of unleashing your full potential.
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