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The Fire Up Podcast

The Fire Up Podcast

By Simon and Madeleine Carrington

The mission of the Fire Up Podcast is to help every person experience the love they have always dreamed of by sharing the Catholic Church’s teaching on authentic love and human sexuality.

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99_Porn is Like a Drug

The Fire Up PodcastDec 18, 2023

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99_Porn is Like a Drug
Dec 18, 202312:07
98_How Bad Is Pornography?

98_How Bad Is Pornography?

Ever wondered why you keep going back to pornography, even though you desire to be free of it more than anything? In this episode, Simon interviews Catholic addiction therapist, Dr. Peter Kleponis, who shares invaluable insights into the real reason we look at porn, as well as advice for singles, dating couples and spouses in relation to pornography. ************ For more, check out : www.peterkleponis.com https://integrityrestored.com/ ************ Would you like access to exclusive online trainings from Simon and Madeleine? How about access to full-length interviews with some of the biggest and best catholic speakers from around the world? Then subscribe to the Fire Up Family today and you will also gain access to our short courses for free, as well as discounts on coaching programs and events. Remember that your support directly helps Simon and Madeleine do this important work full-time, and reach people in need all around the world! Welcome to the Family! ⁠https://fireup.kartra.com/page/LSw125⁠

Dec 14, 202305:01
97_The Shocking Impact of Porn on Your Health & Wellbeing

97_The Shocking Impact of Porn on Your Health & Wellbeing

In this eye-opening episode, Simon unveils the shocking truths about how porn affects your physical and mental health. Don't let it jeopardize your happiness and wellbeing any longer!


If you would like to bring Simon to speak at your parish, school or event on relationships or pornopgraphy, please email ⁠office@fireupministries.com⁠ If you would like to work with Simon 1:1 to break free from pornography, you can apply to join his "Break Free Coaching Program" here: ⁠https://fireup.kartra.com/page/dZs121

Dec 10, 202308:27
96_Is Poverty The Only Holy Path In Marriage?
Dec 07, 202310:45
95_Can I Be In The Wrong Body?

95_Can I Be In The Wrong Body?

How many genders are there? In this episode, Simon interviews Jason Evert on the topic of transgenderism. They discuss if it is possible to be trapped in the wrong body, reasons why someone may experience gender dysphoria, and what life is like after transitioning from the perspective of detransitioners. If you or someone you know experiences struggles with their gender identity, or are just trying to keep up with what is going on around the world on this topic, this interview is for you! *** Resources: https://chastity.com/gender/https://chastity.com/podcasts/ Support Jason: https://chastity.com/donate/


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Would you like access to exclusive online trainings from Simon and Madeleine? How about access to full length interviews with some of the biggest and best catholic speakers from around the world? Then subscribe to the Fire Up Family today and you will also gain access to all of our short courses for free, as well as discounts on coaching packages and events. Not interested in the extra content or discounts? Remember that your support directly helps Simon and Madeleine do this important work full time, and reach people in need all around the world! Welcome to the Family! ⁠⁠⁠https://fireup.kartra.com/page/LSw125⁠

Nov 30, 202307:03
94_The #1 Thing Most People Are Not willing To Do To Break Free From Porn
Nov 27, 202311:06
93_Ways to Strengthen Virginity in Preparation for Marriage

93_Ways to Strengthen Virginity in Preparation for Marriage

What does virginity mean? In this episode, Simon interviews Katrina Zeno on the topic of virginity. Katrina is a Theology of the Body speaker who has a deep love and understanding of the gift of Virginity. She speaks about it in a way I have never heard before and offers hope and freedom to everyone, no matter their past. *** To learn more from Katrina Zeno, check out her website http://katrinazeno.com *** Enjoyed this video but looking for more?  Subscribe to the Fire Up Family for just $10 per month, and gain access to the full length interview, all past interviews, monthly trainings with Simon and Madeleine, free access to all our short courses and major discounts off all our coaching packages.  Your financial support also helps us in spreading the message of chastity and Theology of the Body around the world!  ⁠https://fireup.kartra.com/page/LSw125⁠

Nov 23, 202311:50
92_Checkpoints Before Dating

92_Checkpoints Before Dating

In this episode, Simon interviews Dr Andrew Swafford, husband of the much loved Sarah Swafford, about all things love, dating and relationships. If you have ever wondered if a guy and a girl can be best friends, if there is a such thing as being too picky or even why men can't seem to make up their minds about a girl, then this episode is for you! If you have half as much fun listening to this conversation as I did having it, it'll be your favourite podcast episode of the year! ________________________ Book link: ascensionpress.com/GiftandGrit Press release: Sarah and Andrew Swafford Share The Secrets to a Life of Meaning, Purpose, and Joy-Filled Relationships Facebook: @AscensionPress Twitter: @AscensionPress and @andrew_swafford Instagram: @CatholicFaithFormation Enjoyed this video but looking for more?  Subscribe to the Fire Up Family for just $10 per month, and gain access to the full length interview, all past interviews, monthly trainings with Simon and Madeleine, free access to all our short courses and major discounts off all our coaching packages.  Your financial support also helps us in spreading the message of chastity and Theology of the Body around the world!  ⁠https://fireup.kartra.com/page/LSw125⁠

Nov 13, 202309:60
91_What is Gender?

91_What is Gender?

How many genders are there? In this episode, Simon interviews Jason Evert on the topic of transgenderism. They discuss if it is possible to be trapped in the wrong body, reasons why someone may experience gender dysphoria, and what life is like after transitioning from the perspective of detransitioners. If you or someone you know experiences struggles with their gender identity, or are just trying to keep up with what is going on around the world on this topic, this interview is for you! *** Resources: https://chastity.com/gender/https://chastity.com/podcasts/ Support Jason: https://chastity.com/donate/


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Would you like access to exclusive online trainings from Simon and Madeleine? How about access to full length interviews with some of the biggest and best catholic speakers from around the world? Then subscribe to the Fire Up Family today and you will also gain access to all of our short courses for free, as well as discounts on coaching packages and events. Not interested in the extra content or discounts? Remember that your support directly helps Simon and Madeleine do this important work full time, and reach people in need all around the world! Welcome to the Family! ⁠⁠⁠https://fireup.kartra.com/page/LSw125⁠

Nov 06, 202308:11
90_The Love That We Want
Oct 30, 202319:13
89_I Am Beloved
Oct 23, 202313:08
88_Who Am I?
Oct 16, 202314:15
87_How to Grow In Certainty Before Entering Into a Relationship

87_How to Grow In Certainty Before Entering Into a Relationship

In this episode, Simon interviews Dr Andrew Swafford, husband of the much loved Sarah Swafford, about all things love, dating and relationships. If you have ever wondered if a guy and a girl can be best friends, if there is a such thing as being too picky or even why men can't seem to make up their minds about a girl, then this episode is for you! If you have half as much fun listening to this conversation as I did having it, it'll be your favourite podcast episode of the year! ________________________ Book link: ascensionpress.com/GiftandGrit Press release: Sarah and Andrew Swafford Share The Secrets to a Life of Meaning, Purpose, and Joy-Filled Relationships Facebook: @AscensionPress Twitter: @AscensionPress and @andrew_swafford Instagram: @CatholicFaithFormation Enjoyed this video but looking for more?  Subscribe to the Fire Up Family for just $10 per month, and gain access to the full length interview, all past interviews, monthly trainings with Simon and Madeleine, free access to all our short courses and major discounts off all our coaching packages.  Your financial support also helps us in spreading the message of chastity and Theology of the Body around the world!  ⁠https://fireup.kartra.com/page/LSw125⁠

Oct 09, 202306:03
86_What is Virginity?

86_What is Virginity?

What does virginity mean? In this episode, Simon interviews Katrina Zeno on the topic of virginity. Katrina is a Theology of the Body speaker who has a deep love and understanding of the gift of Virginity. She speaks about it in a way I have never heard before and offers hope and freedom to everyone, no matter their past. *** To learn more from Katrina Zeno, check out her website http://katrinazeno.com *** Enjoyed this video but looking for more?  Subscribe to the Fire Up Family for just $10 per month, and gain access to the full length interview, all past interviews, monthly trainings with Simon and Madeleine, free access to all our short courses and major discounts off all our coaching packages.  Your financial support also helps us in spreading the message of chastity and Theology of the Body around the world!  ⁠https://fireup.kartra.com/page/LSw125⁠

Oct 02, 202332:16
85_What Should I Do if I Get Rejected?
Sep 04, 202334:39
84_How Does a Man Deal With the Fear of Rejection?
Aug 28, 202328:43
83_Overcoming Negative Mindsets to Dating
Aug 21, 202309:23
82_The Importance of Self-worth for Dating

82_The Importance of Self-worth for Dating

What ways of thinking can help you understand your self-worth in order to date? In this episode, Simon interviews Monica Elias on the topic of singleness and dating. She will help us focus on the positive thoughts, to motivate ourselves into getting out of home's comfort to better answer God's call for marriage. *** Have you been blessed by the work of Fire Up Ministries? Please prayerfully consider supporting the important work we do by becoming a member of the Fire Up Family. For a monthly gift of your choice, you help us spread the message of chastity around the world! https://fireup.kartra.com/page/LSw125

Aug 17, 202313:10
81_Can I Divorce My Spouse if They Are Abusive?
Aug 07, 202341:32
80_Can Catholics Use the Withdrawal Method?
Jul 31, 202340:10
77_What If You Become Such a Good Person, That You Never Meet Anyone?

77_What If You Become Such a Good Person, That You Never Meet Anyone?

Is it possible to become such a catch, that you will be left on the shelf because you were too good for everyone? In this episode, Simon will share the importance of having high standards, how as a Christian you are never alone and the importance of living singleness with humility!

May 18, 202320:21
75_How Do I Get My Husband to Initiate More?

75_How Do I Get My Husband to Initiate More?

How do I get my husband to initiate more? In this episode, Simon reveals how Satan is hell-bent on encouraging men to become more passive and women to become more controlling, which is destructive to a healthy marriage. If you are a wife asking this question, find out how you could be a major reason why your husband is failing to initiate and what you can do to encourage him to initiate more!

May 08, 202323:44
74_Mercy Has a Face: Experiencing Mercy in Our Relationships
Apr 17, 202340:12
73_Did Jesus Claim to be God?

73_Did Jesus Claim to be God?

Did Jesus really claim to be God? According to modern biblical scholars, no, he didn't. However, when we read Jesus' words as the Jews would have heard him, it is pretty easy to see that he did. Put on your Jewish glasses as we have ourselves a Bible study that will get you fired up to tell the world that Jesus is Lord!

Apr 11, 202327:59
72_Before You Date Someone, Could You Be Friends?

72_Before You Date Someone, Could You Be Friends?

Sometimes people want to be more than friends before they have even spent time being friends. They launch into an intensely romantic dating relationship before testing whether they would get along if they weren't physically attracted to each other. This is why it is important to spend time getting to know one another as friends before launching a romantic relationship. How do you do this? Here's how!

Do you want to find out more about dating? Check out our short dating course: https://fireup.kartra.com/page/hZs128

Apr 06, 202317:29
71_How Do You Know When You Are Ready to Date?

71_How Do You Know When You Are Ready to Date?

You will only know when you are ready to date when you know the purpose of dating. If you don't know the purpose of dating, you will never know when you're ready to date. Here’s the answer to both these questions!


If you want to find out more about this topic, check out our short dating course: https://fireup.kartra.com/page/hZs128

Mar 27, 202319:47
70_Teaching Your Child to Love Selflessly

70_Teaching Your Child to Love Selflessly

When can I begin sharing the beauty of chastity and the Theology of the Body with my child? In this episode, Simon will share some easy and practical ways to begin sharing the key principles of the Theology of the Body with your child, whether they are a toddler or in their late teens. It is never too early or too late to begin teaching them the importance of self-giving love.

Mar 19, 202331:08
69_My Spouse Is Using Me For Sex, What Do I Do?

69_My Spouse Is Using Me For Sex, What Do I Do?

Is it possible that a husband or wife could use their spouse for sex, even when they are married? The sad truth is yes, it is possible, and more than just possible, it is painfully common. If you are married, in a relationship discerning marriage or even just single and hoping to get married one day, this episode contains possibly the most important teaching on marital chastity there is!

Mar 12, 202320:42
68_The Deepest Desires of The Human Heart

68_The Deepest Desires of The Human Heart

Ever felt like there has to be more to life than the emptiness you are currently experiencing? In this episode, Simon will take you on a journey to the depths of your heart, to uncover the deepest longings for love and intimacy we all crave. Sit back, relax, and get in touch with the unquenchable hunger in your heart for more!

Mar 07, 202322:48
67_Forgetting is Hurtful Too

67_Forgetting is Hurtful Too

"I’m so sorry, I didn’t do it intentionally. I just forgot!"

 Heard this before from your spouse? In this episode, Simon will share how remembering is a sign of care and love, and forgetting shows indifference and carelessness toward your spouse’s heart. Find out why remembering is so important and why forgetting is hurtful too!

Mar 06, 202319:56
66_Don't Forget Your Story

66_Don't Forget Your Story

Doesn't romance and passion die after marriage? Only if you let it I say!  A key to ensuring your love continues to grow after marriage is for the couple to remember their love story. Here is a fun date idea that you can do with your spouse tonight that will inject some romance and passion into your marriage!

Feb 23, 202315:05
65_Raising Fathers

65_Raising Fathers

Do you ever feel like your failing in your fatherhood? Simon certainly does. In this episode, Simon interviews Robert Falzon, Founder of MenAlive, to discuss the importance of fatherhood. As a young dad with 3 children, Simon has felt overwhelmed by the responsibility of fatherhood, as well as disappointed in his many failures to love his children well. Listen in, as Robert shares pearls of wisdom with a young dad who desperately wants to be a great father!

Feb 21, 202357:36
64_How Do I Love Someone I Don't Like?

64_How Do I Love Someone I Don't Like?

Do I really need to love someone that I don't like? In John 15:12 Jesus calls us to love one another as he has loved us. Even those that we really struggle to get along with, or feel don't like us. If there is someone you can't forgive, or just can't stand to be in their presence or hear their name mentioned, this episode is for you!

Feb 15, 202322:37
63_The Rosary - Vain Repetitions?

63_The Rosary - Vain Repetitions?

Why do Catholics pray the rosary when Jesus says in Matt 6:7, “When you pray, do not use vain repetitions as the pagans do?” Is not the repeated Hail Mary's in the rosary a direct and obvious violation of Jesus’ command? In this video, Simon will show with biblical examples what Jesus was really condemning in Matt 6:7, as well as the purpose of the repetitive nature of the rosary. You’ll never pray the rosary the same way again!

Feb 01, 202328:12
62_Fighting For Your Marriage

62_Fighting For Your Marriage

Are you fighting for your marriage? In this episode, Simon interviews Mike Greenwell, a husband, father, devoted Catholic and former alcoholic. In this interview, Mike vulnerably shares his past struggle with alcoholism, and how it almost cost him his marriage. Listen in, as Mike shares how, no matter how dark it may seem, there is also hope to restore your marriage, but you need to be willing to fight like crazy!

Jan 30, 202349:20
61_Love Is Not Give And Take

61_Love Is Not Give And Take

In a relationship, shouldn't love be 50/50? In this episode, Simon shares a powerful encounter with a man named Antoun, who totally challenged his idea of love. Learn the secret that helped Antoun and his wife endure 53 years of faithful, marital love that was full of joys and sufferings.

Jan 24, 202317:20
60_Is It Ok to Use Contraception If You Want to Space Children?
Dec 16, 202253:35
59_Do Catholics Worship Statues?

59_Do Catholics Worship Statues?

Why Do Catholics make statues and images of Mary and the Saints? Doesn’t the Bible forbid the making of these kinds of “graven images?” In this episode, Simon shares how this was a major stumbling block for him in his teen years and what he discovered that helped him not only accept this teaching but experience a deeper intimacy with God, Mary and the Saints as a result.

Dec 09, 202223:01
58_Can Masturbation Harm Your Relationship or Future Marriage?
Dec 02, 202222:38
57_Is It OK to Masturbate Over My Partner?
Nov 24, 202257:12
56_Can I Sleep Around Now and Settle Down Later?

56_Can I Sleep Around Now and Settle Down Later?

What’s wrong with sleeping around until I meet the person I want to settle down with? In this video, Simon comes at this question from four different angles, showing the underlying problem with this mentality, the difference between love and lust, the kind of person you want to be and how your future spouse might feel about this promiscuous lifestyle.

Link to How to Date With Passion and Purpose course: https://fireup.kartra.com/page/Wq199

Nov 18, 202220:07
55_Bright and Cheerful Homes

55_Bright and Cheerful Homes

In this episode, Simon interviews his good friend, Angel Bueno, as they discuss living the Christian life in today's world as a married person. 

Link to the One Soul podcast: https://anchor.fm/onesoulpodcast

Nov 11, 202259:16
54_Can My Parents Force Me to Marry Someone?

54_Can My Parents Force Me to Marry Someone?

Should I be forced into an arranged marriage? Among some cultures, the idea of arranged marriage is still very common. Although we may not see it playing out to the same extent in Australia, the mentality is certainly here. In this video, Simon shares some important points to consider before agreeing to an arranged marriage or from dismissing it as foolish altogether.

Nov 08, 202226:17
53_The Key to Loving Your Spouse Well

53_The Key to Loving Your Spouse Well

Have you ever felt like you and your spouse are just 'missing' each other? No matter how hard you try, every expression of love seems to miss the mark. They don't seem to appreciate it or worse, reject it.

In this episode, Charbel Raish, husband and father of 8, shares the key he discovered seven years into marriage with Christine that transformed their relationship.

Jul 01, 202233:19
52_Cheating in a Relationship

52_Cheating in a Relationship

In this episode, Simon and Tomasz discuss a topic that is vulnerable and raw - cheating in a relationship. Cheating, to his sorrow, was part of Tomasz’s story. If you have ever wondered how to handle cheating in a relationship, this will provide some hard-hitting, yet necessary advice.

Jun 02, 202201:16:25
51_Defining Sex

51_Defining Sex

In this episode, Simon and Madeleine take a slightly different angle than you - and they - are used to. They discuss what makes us male and female, from a purely scientific lens. This podcast will lay some important groundwork for sexual identity, and discussions around transgenderism to come.

May 27, 202235:07
50_God is Beauty

50_God is Beauty

Christopher West who discovered, translated, and published a long-lost treasure from John Paul II's archives, gets fired up to give some of the most enlightening insights into God is Beauty we have ever heard. As students of his for almost fifteen years, this was unlike anything we had even heard! This is truly a beautiful episode!

May 03, 202201:11:18
49_I Will Is Not I Do

49_I Will Is Not I Do

Simon and Maddie team up to discuss the 'marriage prep mindset' for engaged couples. 

Apr 20, 202239:29
48_Same-Sex Attraction and Transgenderism

48_Same-Sex Attraction and Transgenderism

Simon interviews Hudson Byblow who has been on a painful journey with his sexuality and who now shares his story to be a light to others. 

Apr 06, 202201:14:07
047_Misfits in the Church

047_Misfits in the Church

Catholic singles know to hang out at church in order to find a future spouse. But what happens when the singleness drags on into their late twenties, thirties or even forties? They are too old for the youth group, and too old for the seniors Bingo group. They often feel like misfits in the Church who can't connect, because everyone their age is married with children.

In this podcast, Simon offers some words of encouragement and support that will make them feel right at home being active in their church community!

Mar 18, 202234:07