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Flicks Before Dicks Podcast

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Because we've all gotten the 2 am "U Up?" text while binging Julia Roberts' flicks and eating ice cream...Right?

Flicks Before Dicks is a podcast by millennials for millennials about how the rom coms have failed two floating millennials in their own lives.
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Episode 17: Holidate with Alex

Flicks Before Dicks PodcastDec 09, 2020

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Episode 26: Everything, Everywhere, All At Once w/Alex

Episode 26: Everything, Everywhere, All At Once w/Alex

And we're back??? Uploading this on MY BIRTHDAY, so you're welcome. Anyways, we're back to talk all about the new hit flick, Everything, Everywhere, All at Once. We also talk about some toxic mom moments, Alex's vendetta against Snapchat streaks and mine against the #cleangirlies on Tik Tok and more and more on how we like to be perceived by others online. 

Follow Us: HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter:  @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com / Newsletter:  trashburn.substack.com

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Alex's twitter: @nrdyone

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

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Sep 02, 202201:08:15
Episode 25: 13 Going on 30 w/ Dorothy and Alex

Episode 25: 13 Going on 30 w/ Dorothy and Alex

Hey y'all.

Welcome back to Flicks Before Dicks from a short hiatus while I lost my mind over...guess what? ANOTHER MF! Anyways, this episode is all about another one of Kennedy's favorite films, 13 Going on 30, where we are all down bad over Mark Ruffalo and some middle school cringe moments like Kennedy describing how to stuff a bra and Alex breaking down 7 Minutes in Heaven. 

We also dish on how rom-coms, including this one, are always doing its leads dirty by just having them end up with a man and NOTHING ELSE, and the power of shooting your shot!

Follow Us: HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter: @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com / Newsletter: trashburn.substack.com

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Alex's twitter: @nrdyone

Guest: Dorothy's "fun fact": https://www.healthline.com/health/melatonin-overdose (THIS IS NOT A VERIFIED SOURCE)

Dorothy's Podcast: "Curated Thoughts with Dorothy" wherever you listen to podcasts.

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/trashburndiaries

Apr 18, 202101:12:23
Episode 24: My Best Friends' Wedding w/ Alex, Dorothy and Griizzly

Episode 24: My Best Friends' Wedding w/ Alex, Dorothy and Griizzly

Alex, Griizzly and Dorothy hop on the podcast to talk about Kennedy's favorite movie, My Best Friends' Wedding, which is just a fun bundle of toxicity. We chat on  revisiting old romances, grand gestures, scheming in romantic comedies (or in real life if you're Kennedy) and our experiences at weddings/family events.

Follow Us: HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter: @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com / Newsletter: trashburn.substack.com

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Alex's twitter: @nrdyone

Guest: Grizzly's bandcamp:  griizzly.bandcamp.com / Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/DrunkKuma

Guest: Dorothy's reading recommendation: https://bookshop.org/books/stamped-racism-antiracism-and-you-a-remix-of-the-national-book-award-winning-stamped-from-the-beginning/9780316453691 - SHOP LOCAL ! Here is a link to it at a local Chicago bookstore!

Dorothy's Podcast: "Curated Thoughts with Dorothy" wherever you listen to podcasts.

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/trashburndiaries

Mar 03, 202150:34
Episode 23: Always Be My Maybe w/Alex

Episode 23: Always Be My Maybe w/Alex

Alex returns to talk about Netflix's hit rom com, Always Be My Maybe, starring and co-written by Ali Wong and Randall Park. We chat on revisiting old romances, backsliding with exes, and insecurities in relationships that stop us from moving on with our lives. Kennedy also has a few words on Issa Rae's comments on how Black women and Asian men in relationships.

Follow Us: HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter: @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com /

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Alex's twitter: @nrdyone

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/trashburndiaries

Feb 03, 202149:09
Episode 22: High Fidelity w/ Dylan

Episode 22: High Fidelity w/ Dylan

My long-time life partner and best friend, Dylan, comes back to the show to talk about the hit novel, turned film, turned tv show, High Fidelity! He's a bit shy, so its a very heavy episode of me talking, but we dish music, situationships, communication styles, on how our relationship has evolved since the last time he came on.

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter: @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/trashburndiaries

Jan 27, 202157:31
Episode 21: Promising Young Woman w/ Alex

Episode 21: Promising Young Woman w/ Alex

CONTENT WARNING: This episode involves discussions of r*pe, a**ault, and s*icide! This week, Alex and Kennedy, talk about about of the best movies of the year, Promising Young Woman and about how men are trash. We also talk cancel culture, apologies and how to grow. 

Follow Us: HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter: @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com / 

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados 

Guest: Alex's twitter: @nrdyone 

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com 

Support us: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/trashburndiaries

Jan 20, 202157:42
Episode 20: A Silent Voice with Griizzly
Jan 07, 202101:01:44
Episode 19: Easy A w/ Alex

Episode 19: Easy A w/ Alex

This  week, Alex and Kennedy, talk about Easy A.  We also talk about boundaries and shifting dynamics in friendships: does sex change this? is it necessary to set boundaries? to communicate? we also talk about how lowkey scary this movie is for minors.

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter: @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com / 

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Alex's twitter: @nrdyone

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/trashburndiaries

Dec 30, 202001:17:29
Episode 18: Happiest Season w/ Alex

Episode 18: Happiest Season w/ Alex

This week, Alex and Kennedy, talk about Hulu's new queer holiday rom-com, Happiest Season. And its gets messssssyyyyy. We also talk about own own coming out (or lack thereof) experiences, the fear of Kennedy's mom leaving them in a TGI Fridays, how much Kennedy personally HATES Call Me By Your Name and other messy tropes in queer film.

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter: @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Alex's twitter: @nrdyone

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Dec 23, 202001:04:53
Episode 17: Holidate with Alex

Episode 17: Holidate with Alex

This week, Alex and I, talk about the new Netflix holiday rom-com, Holidate, just in time for Christmas! We drop a few hints of wisdom about the do's and don'ts of text message and online intimacy, the concept of being friends with benefits and the signs of a PICK ME person and whether or not we should want them or block them and pretend that they died.

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn / Kennedy's Twitter: @gottabajablastt / Blog: trashburndiaries.blogspot.com

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Alex's twitter: @nrdyone 

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Dec 09, 202052:17
Episode 16: Insecure Season 3 Rundown (Part 2)

Episode 16: Insecure Season 3 Rundown (Part 2)

Athena returns to talk this week about Season 3 of Insecure...AGAIN!

This week we throw down about life milestones: getting married, babies, and all that good stuff. Do we want it? Is there more to life than fucking and going to work? Let’s talk!
Nov 26, 202001:19:45
Episode 16: Insecure Season 3 Rundown (Part 1)

Episode 16: Insecure Season 3 Rundown (Part 1)

Athena returns to talk this week about Season 3 of Insecure!

We talk drawing boundaries, polyamory and having commitment issues, being Black in 2020 and having to educate your YT friends about *gasp* RACISM! Again, we also at some points talk about Insecure, so its there!

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com or follow me for more nonsense!

Nov 18, 202045:20
Episode 15: Insecure Season 2 Rundown with Simone and Joi (Part 3)

Episode 15: Insecure Season 2 Rundown with Simone and Joi (Part 3)

Longtime pals, Simone and Joi RETURN Kennedy for this Rundown of Insecure Season 2....AGAIN!

I promise this is almost over, but I hope you're having a good time listening to us chat more about toxic masculinity, the importance of in-network Black lady therapists, having high expectations in relationships and whether or not that's okay.

 We also at some points talk about Insecure, but, again you know how this podcast works at this point.

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Joi's IG: @thedaintyheart / @thedaintyrug

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Nov 11, 202001:14:39
Episode 15: Insecure Season 2 Rundown with Simone and Joi (Part 2)

Episode 15: Insecure Season 2 Rundown with Simone and Joi (Part 2)

Longtime pals, Simone and Joi RETURN Kennedy for this Rundown of Insecure Season 2!! 

Listen to us chat about why men are such trash, the politics of asking someone to tittyfuck, being Black in America and how it feels to be pulled over by the cops and how we felt about the ending of 2017's Get Out. We also at some points talk about Insecure, but you know how this podcast works at this point.

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Joi's IG: @thedaintyheart / @thedaintyrug

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us at: https://anchor.fm/flicks-before-dicks-podca/support

Nov 04, 202059:28
Episode 15: Insecure Season 2 Rundown with Simone and Joi (Part 1)

Episode 15: Insecure Season 2 Rundown with Simone and Joi (Part 1)

Longtime pals, Simone and Joi join Kennedy for this Rundown of Insecure Season 2. Here we talking about the delusions of being in love, why being a teacher sucks right now and THE CULTURAL IMPACT OF SZA!  There's so much to discuss with Insecure so, we're also going to be breaking this down into parts as well! 

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Joi's IG: @thedaintyheart / @thedaintyrug

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us at: https://anchor.fm/flicks-before-dicks-podca/support

Oct 21, 202053:57
Episode 14: Insecure Season One Rundown with Alex (Part 2)

Episode 14: Insecure Season One Rundown with Alex (Part 2)

For this episode, Kennedy and Alex will be taking you through the lives on Issa, Molly and more in season one of  HBO's Insecure (AGAIN). We touch on so much like friendship, cheating, new  flings and overall the messiness that is being in your 20s. This is PART TWO! So, go listen to the first part and then come back!

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Guest: Alex's Twitter: @TallGayAlex

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us at: https://anchor.fm/flicks-before-dicks-podca/support

Oct 14, 202038:10
Episode 14: Insecure Season One Rundown with Alex (Part 1)

Episode 14: Insecure Season One Rundown with Alex (Part 1)

For this episode, Kennedy and Alex will be taking you through the lives on Issa, Molly and more in season one of HBO's Insecure. We touch on so much like friendship, cheating, new flings and overall the messiness that is being in your 20s. This is PART ONE, as there was so much going on, I had to split it up, but I hope you enjoy!

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us at: https://anchor.fm/flicks-before-dicks-podca/support

Oct 06, 202054:37
Episode 13: Banana Split

Episode 13: Banana Split

Banana Split is the cutest film that no one has ever seen and here, Athena and Kennedy discuss the ins-and-outs of this film and more, including platonic relationships and WHY IS IT SO BAD TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR FRIENDS?

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us at: https://anchor.fm/flicks-before-dicks-podca/support

Aug 16, 202047:27
Episode 12: The Kissing Booth 2

Episode 12: The Kissing Booth 2

And so we return again, with the biggest rom-com sequel of the decade, The Kissing Booth 2.  We delve into the prospects of this flick and other Netflix OG's as well our distaste for colorism, COVID and the Covidiots it has spurned. 

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com 

Support us at: https://anchor.fm/flicks-before-dicks-podca/support

Aug 02, 202052:38
Episode 11: Advicecast with Alex and Elena

Episode 11: Advicecast with Alex and Elena

Another week, another episode of bonus content with Alex.

So, there's no movie this week, but here we ask listeners if they would date me and also, answer romantic advice from them as well!

Follow Us:

HOST: Kennedy's IG: @cancelled.kenn

HOST: Athena's IG: @athenalovesavocados

Drop us an email over at: flicksbeforedickspodcast@gmail.com

Support us at: https://anchor.fm/flicks-before-dicks-podca/support

Apr 17, 202053:37
Episode 10: Athena returns to talk 50 First Dates

Episode 10: Athena returns to talk 50 First Dates

Welcome one and all back to the Flicks Before Dicks podcast. Athena's back to talk about the hit classic, 50 First Dates and while problematic touches on some of the various ways we hold and wish our partners to be. We dish on the current coronavirus pandemic and dating while the world burns and how we stan Chicago's only, Lori Lightfoot.



Apr 10, 202049:03
Episode 9: Sleeping with Other People with Alex

Episode 9: Sleeping with Other People with Alex

Kennedy and long-time friend, Tall Gay Alex, discuss the 2015 hit flick, Sleeping with Other People, and talk about the nuances of the dating world in the gay and straight dating world and moreover, they come to the hot conclusion that men ain't shit in either vicinities. 

Apr 03, 202037:46
Episode 8: The One Where Two Friends Take A Quiz

Episode 8: The One Where Two Friends Take A Quiz

So, this is a random episode. We don't watch a movie. We don't talk about romance, but we do talk about our love for one another. 

Maybe one day this podcast will get back on track? Maybe it won't, but be along for the ride guys.

Oct 04, 201936:38
Episode 7: The Ugly Truth about Kennedy and Dylan

Episode 7: The Ugly Truth about Kennedy and Dylan

Dylan and Kennedy take a dive into the rom-com hit, The Ugly Truth and the innerworkings of their own relationship.
Jul 05, 201938:04
Episode 6: It's Pride Y'all and We Love, Simon! (w/ Griizzly, Charled and Reid)

Episode 6: It's Pride Y'all and We Love, Simon! (w/ Griizzly, Charled and Reid)

Flicks Before Dicks is back from the dead once again!
Jun 23, 201947:33
Episode 5: So You Just Gunna Scroll Down to SXSW Without Saying Howdy?

Episode 5: So You Just Gunna Scroll Down to SXSW Without Saying Howdy?

WELCOME BACK TO FLICKS BEFORE DICKS GANG! Here, we discuss the beauty of SXSW, film and Texas!
Apr 29, 201955:56
Episode 4: Her with Elena and Charles

Episode 4: Her with Elena and Charles

Kennedy, Charles, Elena and Athena return to the cast to report on Spike Jonze's flick, Her.
Mar 15, 201901:29:53
Episode 3: Isn't (The Modern Dating World) Romantic?

Episode 3: Isn't (The Modern Dating World) Romantic?

Kennedy and Athena discuss the 2019 rom-com, Isn't It Romantic, and the ways in which modern dating has let us down.
Feb 28, 201901:00:34
Episode 2: Lady Birdin' with Elena

Episode 2: Lady Birdin' with Elena

Kennedy, Elena and Athena discuss the ins-and-outs of the hit flick, Lady Bird.
Feb 20, 201944:24
Episode 1: To All The Flicks We've Loved Before

Episode 1: To All The Flicks We've Loved Before

An introduction to the madness that is The Flicks Before Dicks Podcast, starring Kennedy and Athena. Here, we sit down and break down what all this is about and moreover, why we've decided to do what we do and all the flicks we've loved in the past that motivate us in ways they shouldn't.

Feb 13, 201946:33