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Frank Friar Fridays

By Fr Patrick Baikauskas OP
Weekly reflections from a Dominican friar.
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What is the greatest gift you have ever received?

Frank Friar Fridays

An interview with a Dominican student brother about his summer in Africa
You won't want to miss my interview with Br. Joseph Cullen Hilliker and his insightful experiences in Kenya.  Part one of two parts.  
August 12, 2022
What is the greatest gift you have ever received?
And would you share that gift with everyone you know?
August 05, 2022
What is going to bring us peace and joy in our lives?
Is it the material things we seek, or something else?
July 29, 2022
Today's reflection begins with one of my favorite humorous anecdotes
Do we need to pray? Do you feel sometimes like God isn't listening?  
July 22, 2022
Are we a Martha or a Mary?
Do we let the busy-ness of your day keep us from what is truly important?  
July 15, 2022
What is truth?
We continue our conversation with Dr. Ann Garrido.  Today we hear Ann talk about how we manage conflict within our lives, with our families and friends and how and where do we find the truth and have those difficult conversations?
July 08, 2022
Does my Catholic faith have. anything to offer me in the day-to-day decisions of life?
We often compartmentalize our lives, thinking our faith is helpful only in spiritual matters.  Catholic writer and teacher Dr. Ann Garido provides some invaluable insights into what thousands of Catholics across the country have to say about the challenges of their daily lives and how our Catholic faith can guide us.  
July 01, 2022
Does your yes mean yes?
The challenges of making commitments. 
June 24, 2022
Why go to church?
Maybe today's reflection provides ONE of the answers.  
June 17, 2022
My summer reading suggestions
These are the books I mention in this episode - IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER: 1. The Lincoln Highway by Amor Towles 2. The Sweetness of Water by Nathan Harris 3. Cloud Cuckoo Land by Anthony Doerr 4. The Reading List by Sara Nisha Adams 5. Deception Cove by Owen Laukkanen 6. Leave the Gun, Take the CAnnoli by Mark Seal 7. The Last Bus to Wisdom by Ivan Doig 8. The Distant Dead by Heather Young 9. Evidence of Things Unseen by Marianne Wiggins 10. Happy Go Lucky by David Sedaris 
June 10, 2022
Reflecting a bit on my trip to Rome and how we are called to be "Church" to one another
Maybe too often we get overwhelmed by the beauty of our churches and fail to recognize what those churches symbolize.  
June 03, 2022
How to we respond when we have lost someone close to us?
The Feast of the Ascension is when we experience Christ's leave-taking from his disiciples.  We experience losses in our own lives all the time - sometimes quite unexpected - like the tragedy of children being murdered.  There is no easy. way - but the way of Jesus can ease those losses?
May 27, 2022
Where is Jesus?
As we approach the Feast of the Ascension next week, we may wonder like the disciples of Jesus, is Jesus still with us?
May 20, 2022
How do we love like Jesus?
It is not easy, but it is not complicated either and yet it is what each of us is called to do, not only with those around us but with anyone we meet.  
May 13, 2022
Mothers - Our Good Shepherds
This Sunday is Good Shepherd Sunday - and it is also Mother's Day.  Let's remember our moms and the sacrifices our parents have made for us.  
May 06, 2022
Do you love me?
Jesus asks Peter three times, "do you love me?"  Why?  What does Jesus' questioning mean for us?
April 29, 2022
This podcast was recorded today from the Basilica of San Clemente in Rome and features an interview with Fr. Vivian Boland, OP - a Dominican Friar, author and teacher
Fr. Vivian Boland wrote a book recently entitled The Spirit of Catholicism.  We talked about this book has to contribute to the ongoing synod of the Church, what the idea of spirituality v. religious means, and what our Church has to say to our 21st Century world.  
April 22, 2022
What does Easter mean for us?
Have you accepted Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior?  I have a different response to that question than you might expect.
April 15, 2022
The Arrest and Trial of Jesus Christ
Today you can hear another dramatic presentation.  This podcast is the arrest and trial of Jesus Christ.  I am rather excited to show case this production.  The actors are alumni of Providence College (the only Dominican college in the country under the direction of the friars).  Fr. Matthew Powell, O.P., is an associate professor emeritus of theatre and is the director.  I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.  
April 08, 2022
Do we let ourselves get consumed by all the "what ifs" in our life?
The message of the gospel this last week before Holy Week is that we have a loving, merciful God that forgives all our sins and wants us to focus on the gift of this day.  Every day!!
April 01, 2022
The prayer for Consecration of Russia and Ukraine
Our Holy Father, Pope Francis, has asked all people to pray this prayer today to consecrate Ukraine and Russia to the Blessed Virgin Mary.  As the Holy Father stated, "This Act of Consecration is meant to be a gesture of the universal Church, which in this dramatic moment lifts up to God, through his Mother and ours, the cry of pain of all those who suffer and implore and end to violence, and to entrust the future of our human family to the Queen of Peace." I dedicate this podcast today to that prayer.
March 25, 2022
Broadcasting from Bayamón, Puerto Rico on a spring break mission trip.
I talk with Br. Peter Lewitzke about our mission trip in Puerto Rico.
March 19, 2022
Are you ready to be transformed?
We leave today for a mission trip to Puerto Rico.  It can be a life-changing experience, but many of the things we do day-to-day can transform us - if we are open to the power of the Holy Spirit.
March 11, 2022
Episode 75
As we begin our Lenten journey, let's think about the temptations we experience in life, and how our loving God has equipped us to overcome them - and the models God has given us.  
March 04, 2022
Is that a splinter in your eye I see?
As we approach Lent, what do we need to see in ourselves - how do we know what to say - how are we called to act?
February 25, 2022
Where in the world is Fr. Patrick?
I’m take a few days off. Relaxing in Key Largo at the home of Jennie Block, a great friend of the Order.
February 18, 2022
Saint Thomas Aquinas can teach us about hope in times of despair
This interview with Professor Christopher Beem of Penn State University looks at how the teachings of Thomas Aquinas on the theological virtues can teach us to have hope in the challenging times we face in our country.  
February 11, 2022
Episode 72 - We hear Jesus calling his disciples to be fishers of men and women.
Does that apply to us too!!!???  What do you think?  Are you called to be holy?  Are you called to be a saint?  Is there a difference?  
February 04, 2022
The readings this weekend call each of us to do something very difficult
It sounds easy - Jesus knew it wasn't.  His neighbors hated what he had to tell them - love your neighbor as yourself.
January 28, 2022
Reflecting on the deaths of my brother David and my cousin Sharon
How do we grieve?  Do we trust in the love of God to help us in accepting our losses?
January 21, 2022
What does the wedding feast of Cana have to say to us in these difficult times?
David Brooks has an op-ed piece in today's New York Times that talks about America coming apart at the seams.  That essay and this weekend's readings spoke to me about how we can be the source of what can provide a stitch or two to prevent our country from splitting apart - it begins with us.  Here's a link to that essay:
January 14, 2022
Books I read in 2021 - and I recommend them all
I got to do more reading than ever in this year of challenges.  Here are some suggestions that came from me by way of my listeners.  
January 07, 2022
As we reflect on the end of the year, how have we changed?
Can we look back on the year and see any changes?  Have there been any epiphanies - moments when we have come to understand something that is very important to us?
December 31, 2021
The Man Born to be King - a radio play by Dorothy L. Sayers
The Dominican brothers perform a radio play written by the acclaimed British mystery writer Dorothy Sayers, author of the Lord Peter Wimsey novels.  Fourteen Dominican brothers participated in this effort.  We perform the first two scenes in her radio play, in the court of King Herod when the kings tell of their journey to find the messiah, and in the shepherd's home when the three kings visit Jesus, Mary, and Joseph.
December 24, 2021
When I met Bob Dole and what that has to do with Advent
Back in 1997, I met Senator Bob Dole for the first time, and it impressed me in ways that stick with me to this day - and yes, it has something to do with Advent.
December 17, 2021
Part two of my interview with author of the Crisis of Bad Preaching - Fr. Josh Whitfield
This is an interview for everyone who preaches and cares about good preaching.  
December 10, 2021
The Crisis of Bad Preaching - an interview with the author - Fr. Josh Whitfield
Former Master of the Dominicans, Fr. Timothy Radcliffe says of Fr. Whitfield's book, "He pulls no punches.  This book offers just the challenge that we need to hear.  It is beautifully written and full of wisdom."  Whether you are a preacher or sitting in the pews, you will want to listen to this podcast.  
December 03, 2021
Episode 62 - Recollections of past Thanksgivings
I share memories of previous Thanksgiving days in my life.  
November 26, 2021
Episode 60 - Carpe diem! How are we at "seizing the day?"
This reflection on the readings for this Sunday - the 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time - can inspire us to examine how are we doing in recognizing that we have this moment to live life to the fullest!  
November 12, 2021
Episode 59 - How do the readings about two widows this Sunday call us to examine our own calls to love one another?
The readings this Sunday and the past two Sundays can be very challenging to us.  What keeps us from truly loving our neighbor as ourselves?
November 05, 2021
Dealing with mental health issues as a Catholic
This interview with Fr. Nick Monco, OP, now a chaplain at the Benedict Institute of Hope College, reflects on a TED Talk that Fr. Nick gave that aired this week on mental health issues and specifically what do our Catholic faith traditions have to offer in dealing with mental health challenges.  (NB -IT LOOKS ON THE SPOTIFY LINKS THAT THIS PODCAST IS OVER 40 MINUTES LONG - IT IS NOT - IT IS ABOUT 23 MINUTES LONG)
October 29, 2021
Interview with missionary doctor working in Haiti
Dr. Ellen Lawson is an emergency room physician who began her career as a religious sister working in Congo.  Dr. Lawson and I both serve on the board of the St Dominique Foundation that administers an orphanage in Titanyen, Haiti founded by a Dominican priest.  Dr. Lawson provides her first-person account of the difficult conditions of serving in Haiti - now!  
October 22, 2021
A review of Sue Monk Kidd's The Book of Longings
Best-selling novelist Sue Monk Kidd provides a creative setting for the life of Jesus - as a married man.  
October 15, 2021
Remembering Charlotte Scarcelli
Sort of a little break from the normal program to remember a devoted parishioner and friend of St. Tom's.  
October 08, 2021
Episode 54
September 30 was the birthday of my mother AND father.  Today's podcast is a reflection on them.  
October 01, 2021
Episode 53
I offer some reflections on the events of September 11, 2001 and the challenges they present.  Here's a link to another podcast I mention in the broadcast.
September 24, 2021
Episode 52
Remembering events on the occasion of my 50th high school reunion.  
September 17, 2021
Episode 51 - the conclusion to my travelogue on Africa
I'm out of quarantine and ready to finish my account of my trip to Africa.  
September 10, 2021
Announcement about my COVID status
I've test positive.  No episode this week.
September 03, 2021
Episode 49 - Into Africa - part one
Hear about my trip to Kenya - my first to Africa - and my safari experiences.  
August 27, 2021
Episode 48 - Part two of our conversation with Jim McElroy
Prayer simply must be a part of our life if we hope to grow spiritually.  There are many forms.  Jim and I talk about that need we all have to take care of ourselves and how prayer is a vital way to do that.  
August 20, 2021
Episode 47 - Part one of two parts - interview with Jim McElroy
Jim McElroy talks about his own experience with centering prayer as an acolyte of Fr. Thomas Keating.  If you're interested in centering prayer or know someone in recovery that might be helped by this ancient form of prayer of the Catholic Church, you won't want to miss this fascinating conversation with Jim McElroy.  
August 13, 2021
Episode 46
The last segment of our three-part interview with nationally syndicated speaker and best-selling author Dr. Walt Larimore.  
August 06, 2021
Episode 45
Part two of this amazing interview with Dr. Walt Larimore who gives us valuable insights on what it means to be truly, totally healthy.  
July 30, 2021
Episode 44
We begin a three-part series with Dr. Walt Larimore, physician and author of more than 40 books, including the best seller Fit Over 50.  Dr. Walt has appeared on many 360 with Anderson Cooper, Good Morning America, and many other news broadcasts based on his medical expertise and engaging conversation.  
July 23, 2021
Episode 43 - Part 3 of our interview with author Gary Schmidt
The conclusion to our interview with award-winning novelist and teacher Gary Schmidt.
July 16, 2021
Episode 42 - Part II of my conversation with award winning author Gary Schmidt
Listen to author Gary Schmidt provide some fascinating insights to his writing, inspiration and motivation.
July 09, 2021
Episode 41 - Part one of interview with Gary Schmidt
Award-winning author - (National Book Award finalist and Newberry prize winner) - former Yankees (now Mets fan) - teacher - medievalist - UofI grad - what more can I say?  A great storyteller.  Listen to the first of our three-part interview with this fascinating man.
July 02, 2021
Episode 40
Listen to part two of our conversation with author, composer, singer, spiritual director, Steve Givens, as he discusses his personal experience with chemotherapy and a usually fatal disease.  
June 25, 2021
Episode 39
I talk with Steve Givens who has written widely on spiritual direction and his own battle with a rare disease.  
June 18, 2021
Episode 38
Stories of best friends.  
June 11, 2021
Episode 37
"We are what we eat." - St. Augustine.  Oh my goodness!!  Do I look like gelato and no one has mentioned it??
June 04, 2021
Episode 36
An interview from Houston where Dominican friar Br. Greg Dunn will profess his solemn vows on May 28.  Hear how this young man, who once aspired to be a shortstop in the major leagues, journeyed to become a vowed religious.  
May 28, 2021
Episode 35
Part two of our conversation with seminarian Mark Hellinger
May 21, 2021
Episode 34
We begin a break from our format and have an interview with seminarian Mark Hellinger
May 14, 2021
Episode 33
More memorable moments from my time at St. Tom's and Purdue.
May 07, 2021
Episode 32
Some of my most memorable moments at St. Tom's - Part I
April 30, 2021
Episode 31
How we began St. Tom's mission trips to Titanyen, Haiti.
April 23, 2021
Episode 30
Mission trips and pilgrimages - unique encounters with our faith.  
April 16, 2021
Episode 29
How do we keep our young people engaged?  The St. Tom's way!!!
April 09, 2021
Episode 28
My first years at St. Tom's and a little of the inspiration.
April 02, 2021
Episode 27
I begin my time at St Tom's with my ordination and then my installation as the pastor.  What a whirlwind experience!  And a blessed one!!
March 26, 2021
Episode 26
The episode that was difficult to get to:  after a lifetime of waiting to answer God's call, my ordination, but not without some bumps in getting there.
March 19, 2021
Episode 25
I have my first experience of ministry at St. Tom's and Purdue (Boiler Up!) and finish up my time and studies in St. Louis.  
March 12, 2021
Episode 24
I begin my studies in Saint Louis and as an outcome of the Boston scandals, we are visited by representatives from the Vatican.
March 05, 2021
Episode 23
My life as a Dominican friar begins in earnest - my first year as a novice in Denver.
February 26, 2021
Episode 22
Chicago - an end to one journey and the beginning of a new one.  
February 19, 2021
Episode 21
My time in Springfield Illinois posed some unique challenges and new opportunities.
February 12, 2021
Episode 20
The beginning of a new journey. 
February 05, 2021
Homily for the Feast of the Presentation
February 02, 2021
Episode 19
"I'm going to Charleston where there's still some grace and charm."  -Rhett Butler
January 29, 2021
Episode 18
My years working for Big Jim Thompson - and the second inauguration of Ronald Reagan - and my last days in DC - at least for a little while.
January 22, 2021
Episode 18
My days working for Big Jim Thompson - the second Reagan inauguration - and my last years in DC - at least for a little while.
January 22, 2021
Episode 17
Further reflections on the events in the U.S. Capitol and I begin my time with working for the State of Illinois in Washington and Governor Jim Thompson.
January 15, 2021
Episode 16
Reflections on this week and my experiences of working in the Capitol and on the Hill.
January 08, 2021
Episode 15
So where were you on January 1, 2000?  It was a big night for me!!
January 01, 2021
Episode 14
The voice of Christmas past and present.  
December 25, 2020
Episode 13
So now you get to hear what the rest of my first trip to Italy was like.
December 18, 2020
Episode 12
Patrick goes to Italy for the first time.  Mamma mia!!
December 11, 2020
Homily from the Feastnof the Immaculate Conception
I gave this homily on December 8, 2020 at the WashU Medical School. It touches on some current issues.
December 10, 2020
Episode 11
Hear about my first full years in Washington DC.  
December 04, 2020
Episode 10
My first full year in Washington DC - a year of many changes - great highs and lows.  
November 27, 2020
Episode 9
When Fr. Patrick makes his podcast singing debut.
November 20, 2020
Episode 8
Some thoughts about the election which provides a nice segue to the beginning of my career in Washington DC.  
November 12, 2020
Episode 7
College comes to an end - and I begin the journey in the "real world"
November 06, 2020
Episode 6
So we continue with my college experiences and a variety of firsts for me.  
October 30, 2020
Episode 5
Another weekly reflection from Fr. Patrick Baikauskas, OP.
October 23, 2020
Episode 4
I talk about the end of my high school life and move on to college.  
October 16, 2020
Episode 3
The Frank Friar has his first experience of being called to the priesthood in junior high school.
October 09, 2020
Episode 2
Further reflections of Fr. Patrick on his early life.
October 02, 2020
My First Podcast! | Sept 25, 2020
As I begin my podcast journey, I decided to speak about something in which I have some expertise - me.  I will spend the first few podcasts giving you a brief biography so that the future reflections will have some context.  How exactly did I get to the place where I am now - a Dominican friar?  
September 23, 2020