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Real with Gardenia - Seasons 2 and 3

Real with Gardenia - Seasons 2 and 3

By "The Real Gardenia" in the Garden

"Straight Up Real with Gardenia" - To Lift Your Spirit - Encouragement, Music, and Inspiration to give you a reason to press forward.
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The Fast That God Ordered - Episode #14

Real with Gardenia - Seasons 2 and 3Jun 19, 2023

God Saves!

God Saves!

With all of the things that leaders ponder over, the one thing that we can be assured of is that God Saves! This Good News will prevail. This is today's nugget. #bulluckg.com

Mar 07, 202405:22
Interview about New Playlist "Stomp and Praise"

Interview about New Playlist "Stomp and Praise"

The "Stomp and Praise" playlist is one of my favorites. It is not just mixture of artists, but it is a collection of work that causes you to reflect. In spite of what you go through, who or what aims to block you, "Stomp through it for your praise!" The genres in this playlist include gospel and contemporary style music. This playlist is a "jumpstart" of more to come.


Dec 23, 202307:53
Part 1 of "I Forbid" Episode #41

Part 1 of "I Forbid" Episode #41

This is a short episode of how leadership can be counter-productive to the action that he/she desires. It is an example of well-being leaders (disciples) who followed Jesus but did not see beyond their physical or mental knowledge. What a teachable moment! Leadership can get it wrong, especially when the goal is out of retribution and not the love of God. Listen and share with us your thoughts.

Don't forget to listen to other episodes and playlists. Sharing and listening is everything. #MorningWaves #GardeniasGardenPodcast

Sep 27, 202307:21
God Has Not Boycotted Florida - Episode#40

God Has Not Boycotted Florida - Episode#40

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This episode is for the believer in this season of political and social mishaps. As an intercessor of prayer, it is a timely message of encouragement. Stand on your faith in the Almighty in this season. #encouragement #wellness #faith #servantleadership

Sep 12, 202324:24
Trailer - The Real Gardenia

Trailer - The Real Gardenia

You have "The Real Gardenia" in the Garden. It is music + talk with Gardenia. Tune in with the real Gardenia for your encouragement for the mindset.

Aug 25, 202300:36
How is Your Rooster - Part 2 Episode#39

How is Your Rooster - Part 2 Episode#39

This is the last episode of the part-three series about "rooster mentality" as it relates to leadership. So far, how is your Cock-a-doodle-doo? Is there too much noise? Are the roosters causing the hens to be unproductive? What is your response? What should be your response? You are responsible for changing your behavior, your response!

Aug 23, 202306:00
How is Your Rooster - Part 1 Episode#38

How is Your Rooster - Part 1 Episode#38

Speaking of roosters! This episode is a part of a three-part series: The Rooster Attack; How is Your Rooster, Part 1 and Part 2. This talk is meant to highlight why "rooster" mentality (attack) resembles humans and leadership. Share this episode and think about the "rooster mentality"among us.

Aug 21, 202313:13
The Rooster Attack - Episode #37

The Rooster Attack - Episode #37

This episode is the beginning tale of our series about roosters. You may have come into contact with roosters unaware. While this is a story about my personal experience with a barnyard rooster, I have learned that roosters exist in other spaces. Yes, the barnyard is not the only place that roosters crow. This episode will lead you to think about their roosters' personalities in different spaces.

Aug 14, 202306:05
Prayer for Your Assignment - Episode #36

Prayer for Your Assignment - Episode #36

This episode is meant to give support according to your purpose and God's will for your assignment. #Servant Leadership is to bring honor and integrity to God. This is meant to bring agreement for your assignment, #servantleaders. #bulluckg.com - a place of support

Aug 03, 202308:00
The Agape Way of Love - Episode #35

The Agape Way of Love - Episode #35

This episode is about love as defined in 1 Corinthians 13. Love is the connecting tissue of leadership designed by God. You cannot be effective in leading without the agape way of love. Listen and share. #agapelove #leadership #servantleadership

Jul 24, 202308:27
Jonah is Trippin' Episode #34

Jonah is Trippin' Episode #34

Leaders make mistakes. When you close your eyes, your heart, to compassion toward others, it will lead to "vomit." Vomit is foul-tasting and foul-smelling. The result will be people who question your service as a leader who is dedicated to God's agenda of healing the wounded. This episode speaks of Jonah, a preacher, who wanted compassion for himself but could not understand why God, who is slow to anger, slowed mercy toward that nation - the people of Nineveh. In other words, "Slow me mercy, God; but not them."

Jul 18, 202310:15
Rise Up Barnabas - Episode #33

Rise Up Barnabas - Episode #33

Barnabas - I need one! Today, I stand with you as a Barnabas. Who was he? What was he about? Listening to this episode, will shed some light as to why I believe he was one of those hidden servants who encourage others to be faithful in life. I am thankful for every Barnabas that has come my way. Share with someone else who needs a Barnabas today.

Jul 12, 202306:12
Reflect - Turn the Page

Reflect - Turn the Page

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This episode is a simple example of how reflective moments can help you gain a new perspective. Because a person does not voice aloud what he/she wants to say, it does not mean nothing is being said. Listen for the unspoken words.

Jul 01, 202308:59
Thank God for Helping Me!

Thank God for Helping Me!

I try to be the #GrandmotherOnline for my grands. Afterall, they are a large part of my legacy. Sometimes their thinking tests me. It was too early in the morning for this test... #NanaPassedThisTest I was bewildered by this one. To hear what happened the second week, listen to episode "Reflect - Turn the Page."

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Jul 01, 202302:46
Reflection that Brings Joy

Reflection that Brings Joy

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In this episode, I share some thoughts about reflection as part of everyday life. I also follow-up with a simple personal example in the episode of "Thank God for Working on Me." Be sure to listen to that episode for a personal reflection of simple things in life. Count it all joy.

Jul 01, 202317:38
Morning Glory Prayer from Gardenia's Garden

Morning Glory Prayer from Gardenia's Garden

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Early in the morning, before the break of day, God has already given us new mercy. Starting the day with prayer is encouragement to the soul. Join in with thanksgiving and joy. Songs for this episode include background music by Dappy T Keys; followed by the late, great Andrae Crouch.

Jun 24, 202314:49
Resume - You Got One - Now What? S2 Episode#1

Resume - You Got One - Now What? S2 Episode#1

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Unlikely leadership - By man's standard - you don't always measure up. Strive for understanding God's standard. Taken from my book, "Servant Leadership NOW - "Stepping Up Your Leadership Call" I share now with you why I encourage His standards over man's. It is an everyday support system and strategy by Him. Only those who know they are weak should apply because you have to lean on Him to make you strong.

Jun 19, 202323:57
Do Not Blame It On Adam - S2 Episode #2

Do Not Blame It On Adam - S2 Episode #2

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Are you mistakenly blaming others for your state in life? In this episode, I share one of the stories from my book, Servant Leadership NOW -"Stepping Up Your Leadership Call."  

Jun 19, 202321:53
Part 1 Trauma, Triggers and Safe Spaces with Stacey - S2, Episode #4

Part 1 Trauma, Triggers and Safe Spaces with Stacey - S2, Episode #4

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I enjoy listening to music while I write, pray and meditate.  It is a way of connecting with myself and listening.  With so much coming at us each day, it is important to create those safe spaces for conversations.  This week I share a portion of my interview with Stacey Hall-McCleod, a certified therapist who views her profession not as a job but a gift for being able to touch the lives of children and families. We ask in this interview explanations of trauma, triggers, and safe spaces. You can hear and learn more from Stacey as a part of ongoing workshops listed on our website at bulluckg.com.  

Jun 19, 202342:00
Part 2 Trauma, Triggers and Safe Spaces with Marie and Melissa - S2, Episode #5

Part 2 Trauma, Triggers and Safe Spaces with Marie and Melissa - S2, Episode #5

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In this episode, Season 2, Episode #5, I continue Part 2 of Trauma, Triggers and Safe Spaces with Dr. Marie Louis and Lady Melissa McRae.  Highlighted in this episode are support programs for youth mental health as a learning tool for educators with a focus on social emotional learning.  The overall agenda is concern for the whole child and personal ownership of one's emotions.  

Disclaimer: We are providing interviews with our guests for informational purposes only.  References to any specific product or entity does not constitute an endorsement or recommendation by me .  The views and opinions are expressions of our guests.

Jun 19, 202327:46
What is the Deal with Safe Spaces? S2 Episode #6

What is the Deal with Safe Spaces? S2 Episode #6

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In this episode of Season 2, Episode #6, I am real with you about why I am learning more about "safe spaces" in these catastrophe times. I open up about its value as it relates to my journey as a family member, caregiver, minister, and Christian author.  I think this episode will support others who desire to develop their leadership skill set while creating a space for listening.  I explain a little as to why my interest in this area is toward young people and why I believe yours should be as well.  My name is Gardenia T. Bulluck and I welcome you to this episode of Gardenia's Garden Podcast where listening is everything. Your episodes in your space and on your time.

Jun 19, 202343:53
Transparency Built on Trust - Episode #8

Transparency Built on Trust - Episode #8

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In this episode, our special guest is questioned about transparency as it relates to trust.  I think this episode will support others who desire to develop and improve relationships of trust and transparency.   My guest, Melissa T. McRae, explains why transparency is important in her personal and business relationships as it relates to conflict resolution and ways to move forward in transparency. My name is Gardenia T. Bulluck and I welcome you to this episode of Gardenia's Garden Podcast where listening is everything.

Jun 19, 202339:21
Prepared to Final - Episode #9

Prepared to Final - Episode #9

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This episode will speak to the very serious runner - not sprinters. I truly enjoyed preparing this episode.  It was a labor of love for my audience; simply because there are times when we feel defeated.  It is those times that we must refocus to finish the race.    This episode is to the runner who is in pursuit of doing things right all the time, even if you fall down, you get up. Why? You are prepared to final. Preparation to win is on the condition of being obedient to the Coach.

Jun 19, 202317:19
The Baby is Alive! - Episode #10

The Baby is Alive! - Episode #10

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In this episode, I share parts of a personal story of what it means that the baby is alive.  I am NOT dead!  Are you?

Jun 19, 202316:57
The Children are Fighting! - Episode #11

The Children are Fighting! - Episode #11

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In this episode, I desire to leave you with several thoughts.  All of us are in a fight.  The difference between winning and losing, maybe the battle. "How does a servant leader fight? Does the servant leader fight in righteousness or to be right?  Who is righteous? Do you want to die by your own hands?" Enjoy this episode.  Listening is everything.

Jun 19, 202322:16
Break the Yoke - Episode #12

Break the Yoke - Episode #12

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In this episode, I am transparent about there are times that servant leaders feel the weight of everyday living.  Living as a servant leader, requires faith.  Having faith in God makes the difference in what we hope for.  

Jun 19, 202317:14
The Fast That God Ordered - Episode #14

The Fast That God Ordered - Episode #14

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Enjoy this episode of a personal experience by the author, seeking solitude for development that will lead to a place of privacy for refreshing. For everything, there is a season.  Fasting is about giving up something of personal value, especially time.  We tend to want more time to service our own needs.  Intrusion, to us, is invasive.  We like to determine what to do with our time.  We cannot add nor subtract the hours and minutes of the day. Time is a gift from God, and He wants some of that time for seasoning us.  Time is different than a season.  In seasons, you expect a harvest time.  It contains a process of development.  It would help if you planted in the right season to produce the desired fruit.  To grow in your season, you must gather the tools for ripening the harvest.  Fasting is one of the tools for ripening the crop. 

Jun 19, 202310:58
Starting with the Man in the Mirror Mindset - Episode #3

Starting with the Man in the Mirror Mindset - Episode #3

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An example of a printed version of "What is Your Mindset" is available on my website bulluckg.com

Our episodes are meant for inspiration, reflection, and meditation.

Jun 19, 202321:40
Keep On Believing - Episode #15

Keep On Believing - Episode #15

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This episode is for those who need to be encouraged on this life journey.  You are human.  Sometimes, it seems as if the billows are crashing into you; the sky is overcast, and the sun refuses to light your way.  It is only temporary.  The words in this episode were written around 1839 by Frank Huston.  The song is a reminder that God answers the prayers of His children.  To be in alignment with what God wants for you is a beautiful thing.  Amid the shadows, He is there.  You are not alone.

Jun 19, 202319:14
"Do You Have Enough Esther in You?" - Episode #16

"Do You Have Enough Esther in You?" - Episode #16

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This episode is a reminder of how my mother-in-law stood in the gap for me at a time when I could not stand for myself. Everyone needs an "Esther" experience in hard times and an intercessor "to boot."  My beautiful mother-in-law left me a legacy that I cherish today.  Her view of Esther continues to inspire me.  "Is there an Esther in you?" she asked.  Forty years later, her view of Esther has made a difference in my life, and I have shared it with others.  I pulled from her strength at a time that I needed it most and God gave me an intercessor - a woman of strength in hard times.  Everyone needs an "Esther" experience in hard times. 

Jun 19, 202319:53
A Place Called These - Episode #17

A Place Called These - Episode #17

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It sounds weird that I call this place "These."  In the last few years, it seems like I have traveled there more and more.  No transportation costs are required. I am a "Frequent Flyer."

Jun 19, 202320:48
Lent - Our Time of Gratitude - Episode #18

Lent - Our Time of Gratitude - Episode #18

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A time of preparation, repentance, reflection, reset, and refreshing

Jun 19, 202328:08
Healing to Be Blessed - Episode #19

Healing to Be Blessed - Episode #19

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Healing hurts.  Healing that calls for forgiveness are beyond our capacity.  We need God to do this for us.  How do you know when you are healed?  Listen to the HEART of the matter.

Jun 19, 202322:06
God is Not My Habit - He is My All - Episode #20

God is Not My Habit - He is My All - Episode #20

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This is not only my testimony but so many.  When you come to a place where God's presence is an everyday need in your life, it is because He is your all.  This personal relationship brings joy that is difficult to express.  It is especially so in times of trouble and distress.  He is your help and strength.  He is your all. 

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Jun 19, 202320:31
Yes - He Saw the Best in Me - Episode #21

Yes - He Saw the Best in Me - Episode #21

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How many times did people count you out?  How many times have people seen only the worst in you?  Renew your mind.  Think about those things above of how God sees you.

Jun 19, 202319:16
What About Perspective? Episode #22

What About Perspective? Episode #22

People seem to have two things: an appetite and an opinion (perspective).  That is an old saying of my grandmother about people in general. She had a viewpoint, a philosophy, and an outlook on people that hold.  What is your perspective about life?  Does it affect your actions? Share your view after listening to this episode on Gardenia's Garden Podcast.

Jun 19, 202308:47
Healing the Ear - Episode #23

Healing the Ear - Episode #23

One of the topics that I discuss in my book is Proverbial Wisdom. It is one of the repeated themes in the book. One of the lessons that I speak about comes from my maternal grandmother. Her sayings were tied to life, like many wise women of her times. So today, I want to share her expression, “Don’t let your ear be a trash can for others.”  In this episode, "heal the ear."

Jun 19, 202310:01
This Day - Episode #24

This Day - Episode #24

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In this episode of Gardenia's Garden Podcast, I desire to speak to God about this day.  Each day is different; each day has its own uniqueness. The load can be so heavy, at times, that you could lose your way.  So, how will we get through those days?  Is it one time at a time? Let's talk about this day.

Jun 19, 202314:10
On the Yard Line - Episode #25

On the Yard Line - Episode #25

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This is the first episode of Season 3 of Gardenia's Garden Podcast.  It highlights the strength of a unified body of mere men who stood on the yard line as the world took a breath for #Damar Hamlin.

Jun 19, 202314:39
The Stench is Unbearable - Episode #26

The Stench is Unbearable - Episode #26

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What is that foul odor?  Handling foul situations is a part of life's transition.  It is part of the growth process of relationships and leadership. Physical, emotional, and spiritual relocation may be what you need.

Jun 19, 202328:03
Ebenezer - The Stone of Help - Episode #27

Ebenezer - The Stone of Help - Episode #27

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How is it that you still have hope in the midst of misery?  What is the content of this type of faith?  In this episode, you are encouraged to rest in your Ebenezer.  Servant leaders must be discerning concerning the battles they face.

Jun 19, 202322:16
Cheer Up! On Your Feet! - Episode #28

Cheer Up! On Your Feet! - Episode #28

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If you are one looking at extreme circumstances and wondering if our world is ok, this episode is for you.  What gives me hope?  God, our Creator, has not changed.  Throwing off the cloak of weight can lead you and others into a place of light. Listen and share. #GardeniasGardenPodcast

Jun 19, 202316:20
A Man Called Simon - Episode #29

A Man Called Simon - Episode #29

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The background of Simon of Cyrene is recorded in the Gospels of Luke, Matthew and Mark. The character was played by Sidney Poitier in The Greatest Story Ever Told. Whether you are a believer or not, this little-known person has a place in history. Your life can change in an instant. On any day, Simon must show up. Simon must take hold of "the cross." It is a significant part of moving forward. The weight of any cross can be lighter with help. You, the servant leader, must be available. #servantleadership

Jun 19, 202318:01
Size Does Not Determine Strength - Episode #30

Size Does Not Determine Strength - Episode #30

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This episode is in remembrance of wise tales from my fraternal and maternal grandmothers. It is relevant today. It is to remind us that size does not determine strength. The giant, in your life, can be defeated! Focus on the strategy and not the giant's size. Focus on Him who is able to see you through.

Jun 19, 202317:19
He Can Take It - Episode #31

He Can Take It - Episode #31

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This episode is dedicated to honor fathers and leading men in our lives. "No matter what the test, whatever comes our way, we're going to make it with Jesus on our side." These words are from the lyrics of "We're Going to Make It" by Myrna Summers and Rev. Timothy Wright. "We're going to make it!" God says, "Bring it on! He can take it. He was bruised for us. You can find your strength in Him. It is by His Spirit that you can be lifted up and know that things will work out. He can take it on for you and He wants to take it on for you!

Jun 17, 202316:34
My Dream, My Journey and My God with Dr. Jamila Jackson - Episode #13

My Dream, My Journey and My God with Dr. Jamila Jackson - Episode #13

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In this episode, Dr. Jamila Jackson shares with us her personal thoughts based on our theme, "My Dream, My Journey and My God.  She is one of God's visionary ministers. Listening to God's call for extraordinary and out-of-the-box , she is on a journey of Graceful Transformations. Listen as she shares how God is leading her in leadership to be sensitive to the call for nurturing, creating and producing. Listen to hear why the words of Unwritten speaks to her spirit: how sometimes your tries are outside the lines. Reach for something in the distance; so close, you can almost taste it; it is Unwritten until you write it.

Sep 29, 202126:52
Gardenia's Garden Podcast Trailer

Gardenia's Garden Podcast Trailer

I am a person who has always loved to learn and explore.  I love connecting to people and listening to music.  It is my hope that you will travel with me through topics and create a special place for inspiring, reflecting, and celebrating as we have conversations and listen to amazing music.  This is a weekly show.  So, let's chat and inspire others along the journey.

Jul 20, 202100:34