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The Gen SeXy Podcast

The Gen SeXy Podcast

By Renee Yvonne
Sex is a topic that we don't talk about enough.

The Gen SeXy Podcast is a podcast that discusses topics related to sex, love, relationships, and everything in between. Each week we'll dive headfirst into conversations around these topics with the goal of providing Gen Xers and Baby Boomers with a shame-free safe place to express their honest thoughts and perspectives around sex and dating.

Join us every week for new episodes where we'll be discussing all things related to Sex and Dating. You won't regret it!

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How Do We Blend Religion and Good Sex
Growing up going to Catholic school taught me that sex was bad. We were told not to masturbate or we would go blind and the boys would grow hair on their palms. Sex was very taboo and when talked about was always fear-based. Don't do it or you'll get pregnant or catch a disease. So it's no wonder that in our 40s, 50s, and up we may be struggling with sex in our relationships. We were encouraged to wait until marriage but no one told us how to have sex or be intimate or even how to talk about what we wanted with our spouse and yet somehow sex was going to magically be great! Well, we are finding out that maybe that isn't true. I have worked with couples who waited and are frustrated about their sex lives, lack of orgasms, or lack of quality sex. They aren't sure what to do especially as Christians. So today I am talking with Dez Wright founder of  Real Raw Righteous: Real talk to get to the Raw truth for Righteous living. The Mission: Help women find resolutions to the challenges of life as they enhance their intimacy with God Facilitate open discussions in safe non-judgmental environments focused on personal development and spiritual growth. Join us Sunday at 7 pm EST to check out this fascinating conversation on The Gen SeXy Podcast! Sign up for Hot Chocolate: A Safe Space for Women of Color to Talk About Sex, Sexuality, and Their Desires! Seats are limited so RSVP now to reserve yours.
January 24, 2022
How to Revive Your Sex Life with Vaginal Rejuvenation
Sex can feel like a chore and you're not always in the mood, but that doesn't mean you need to give it up for good. In this weeks' podcast, we're going to talk about how easy it is to get your groove back with vaginal rejuvenation Hi I'm Renée Yvonne the Gen Sexologist and I want to talk about something very personal - sex. For some people, sex has become more of a chore than anything else, but don't worry there's an easy fix! Vaginal rejuvenation is one of the best ways to revive your sex life without any side effects. This week, La Shon Byrd of The Queen Slayer will join me to tell you all about it and what we'll be covering in this week's podcast. Learn more about La Shon's spa at Text her at 240-554-5566 Sign up for her Valentine's Day Special of $699 for vaginal rejuvenation between 1/21/22- 2/28/22. You can use FSA, HSA, Afterpay
January 15, 2022
The Dating Interview with Eric Legette
Dating has changed a lot since we first started dating in our teens or 20s. Maybe we have been dating this entire time or maybe we are divorced and beginning to date again. Whatever your situation is, this podcast will be great for you. Listen in as we talk with Eric Legette from and he talks about the questions we need to ask in order to find the mate of our dreams.
November 21, 2021
Creating the (Sex) Life that You Want After Divorce
Have you ever found yourself wondering how to get your sex life back on track after divorce? This week my guest Camille Davis will share the most important things that will help you balance dating and finding love again. I'm Renée Yvonne the Gen Sexologist and I know that after a divorce, people often feel like they don't know what's expected of them or just not ready for it yet. But that doesn't mean there isn't anything we can do about it! This week my special guest Camille Davis is going to share some tips on how you can get back into the dating scene and maybe even find someone new without feeling awkward or intimidated by all those apps out there.
November 07, 2021
Pegging Your Man with Ruby Ryder
On this episode of how to peg your man, we're going to go over the basics of pegging. What is it? How do you do it? Where can you find a strap-on dildo and why would someone want one in the first place? We'll also answer some common questions like: Does this make my man gay? Will this bring us closer? How do you become an expert in pegging? And many more of your burning questions will be answered by our special guest expert Ruby Ryder of Pegging Paradise. Join us Sunday, July 18 at 10 am for our final show of Season 1 of the Gen SeXy Podcast. We hope to "see" you there! Websites the Ruby mentions: Pegging without the kink Pegging with kink Cleaning out: Ergoflo Pro Director: Website: Solo Play: Aneros Helix Syn: Njoy Purewand: Sliquid Silk Lube:
July 18, 2021
How Women's Health Issues Affect Their Sex Lives
You know that feeling when you're just not in the mood? When everything is wrong and nothing seems right? No? Lucky you! But if you can relate, then you need to check out this podcast. Hi, my name is Renée Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist and I'm a sexologist who specializes in working with Gen Xers and Baby Boomers. We all know that men have a lot of different sexual dysfunctions but what many people don't realize is that there are also various types of sexually related problems among women such as vaginismus or vulvodynia which can affect their sexuality and intimacy. Join me this week as we talk with Dr. Laurena White about these health issues and more and how they affect our intimacy and what can be done to fix the issue.
June 27, 2021
Surviving the Sexless Relationship
Sexless relationships are a common occurrence, but often difficult to break free from. This week we will talk about how to survive a sexless relationship and get back on track with your partner. My name is Renée Yvonne, The Gen SeXologist, and I'm here today to talk about one of the most common problems in relationships -- having not enough sex. This might sound like an easy problem, but if it's been going on for a while there can be deep-rooted issues that need some attention. In this episode, I'll walk you through what those could be, as well as what you need to do to fix them so both partners feel happy again.
June 06, 2021
Do we really want to be married after 40 or do we just want a companion?
You know the story, two people meet, fall in love and get married. But what if you don't want to be married anymore? What if you just want a companion? In this podcast, we're going to talk about how society changes when we're older and why that might make marriage seem less desirable. Hi everyone! I'm Renée Yvonne, The Gen SeXologist and I've been getting asked a lot of questions about marriage lately.  Some people just don't want to be married anymore and are wondering if it is the right choice for them - but there's more at play than meets the eye. Society has changed over time as well as our expectations of ourselves so let's walk through some important factors that will help us better understand what we really want out of life right now.
June 06, 2021
Tantra: What Is It? How Does It Work and Is It Right for You?
Tantra is a profound and powerful practice that can bring your sexual relationship to the next level. This week we're talking about tantra with Devi Ward Erickson founder of the Institute of Authentic Tantra Education will introduce you to the basics of Tantra, including what it is, how it works, and why more people are using Tantra today than ever before. Connect with Devi and discover the art of using pleasure as medicine!
May 30, 2021
Vaginal Steaming to Help Alleviate Menopausal Symptoms
In this podcast, we're going to talk about how vaginal steaming can help alleviate menopausal symptoms. This week, Rakiya Moore will be talking about natural remedies for menopause. Some of the things that people experience are hot flashes and night sweats which makes it really hard to sleep. Vaginal steaming helps with these symptoms in a safe way without any side effects or chemicals. It's also been known to help regulate hormones as well as reduce cramps, mood swings, anxiety, and more! Let's talk about that this week on The Gen SeXy Podcast!
May 23, 2021
10 Things I Learned When My Husband Had a Girlfriend
Katrina Oliver Thomas was married for almost 25 years. They had beautiful kids, good jobs, were active church members. Life appeared to be going as planned until she found out her husband had a girlfriend. As you might expect, this discovery left her shaken to her core. It was not easy, but through faith and prayer, she survived that traumatic experience. You can see the lessons she learned; lessons that God has placed on her heart to share with you. Join us Sunday at 10 am as we talk with Katrina Oliver Thomas author of 10 Things I Learned When My Husband Had a Girlfriend. We'll discuss how infidelity harms a relationship, what you can learn from the third party, and how to start over with your life after divorce. Get your copy of 10 Things I Learned When My Husband Had a Girlfriend by Katrina Oliver Thomas here.
May 02, 2021
How to Get Started in the Poly Lifestyle
The big question is what was the poly lifestyle? This week our guest Sir Dreaded Prince will give you all of the info on how to get started in the poly relationship with your partner. Whether it's for an open relationship or a threesome, you're going to looooove this podcast so much that you might have trouble not wanting more. He knows all the tricks and tips about having fun without jeopardizing your significant other’s sex life too! Join us to talk about the poly lifestyle. Resources from the show: Books The Ethical Slut Playing Well with Others More Than Two Polyamory and Jealousy Designer Relationships Facebook groups: Black and Poly Poly, Black, and Dating Movie: Monagamish
April 25, 2021
Creating Safe Spaces for Men to Talk About Sex (or whatever they want)
As a sex counselor who works with men's sexuality, I know firsthand how hard it can be to talk about sex especially when you're struggling with thoughts or feelings like depression, anxiety, shame, and guilt. But the truth is that talking about sexual concerns is one of the most powerful things we can do for our mental health. In this week's podcast, we discuss some tips on creating a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings around sex so you feel more empowered in your relationships.
April 18, 2021
Let's Explore Men's Sexual Concerns
This week we'll be discussing Men's Sexual Concerns with Dakim Simon from the Imperfekt Truth Podcast. We'll be talking about the most common sexual problems in men. Included are discussions of erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low sex drive, and more. Join us Sunday, April 11 at 10 am. 
April 11, 2021
The Beginner's Guide to BDSM with guest Galen Fous
Have you ever been interested in BDSM? If so, this Beginner Guide to BDSM is for you. This week's guest, Galen Robert Fous will discuss everything from the basics of what it means to be a submissive or dominant, to how to get started with your first kinky toy purchase. You’ll learn about the different types of bondage and discipline as well as safety tips for beginners. You'll learn how to explore your desires and fantasies in an open-minded way without feeling ashamed or embarrassed. Learn more about BDSM and Galen Robert Fous at Follow me @TheGenSexologist on Instagram and Facebook and on Twitter @gensexologist. Check out my blog at
April 04, 2021
Can CBD Make Your Sex Life Better?
Is your sex life a little lackluster? CBD can help. It’s been shown to reduce anxiety and stress, which are two things that can really get in the way of an enjoyable sexual experience. You don’t have to be stressed out or anxious during sex anymore! Use CBD for better lovemaking. Want to know more about how it works? Check out this week's podcast Can CBD Make Your Sex Life Better?  Shani Hart, co-owner of Hart's Desires and The Noir Leaf joins us today to talk about how CBD can help you with your sex life and life in general. She breaks down the difference between CBD and THC, how CBD will NOT make you high, how to make sure you pass a drug test, and how CBD can help you feel sexy and get you in the mood. If you want some great products, The Noir Leaf sells tinctures and lube infused with CBD oil!  If you have questions about CBD, this is your opportunity to ask. Click on Message and leave one for us. We'll answer in a future episode. And don't forget to follow me on social media @TheGenSeXologist. We're taking next week off for Easter but we'll be back on Sunday, April 11 with special guest Dakim Simon. We'll be discussing Men's Sexual Concerns. You won't want to miss this!
March 28, 2021
CBD and Sexual Pleasure
In the inaugural episode of The Gen SeXy Podcast hosts and best friends Renée Yvonne and Tondra Kinley talk about CBD. What is it? How is it different than weed and how does it make sexual pleasure better? Have questions about using CBD to enhance your pleasure click on the Message button and leave me a message. I'll answer it either on my blog and/or the next podcast. Follow me on social media at TheGenSexologist and check out my weekly blog where I review sex toys and answer questions from viewers at
March 22, 2021
How to Date Online After 40
Want to find the love of your life (or for one night)? Thought about online dating but not sure about how to go about it? Want to learn how to write your profile to attract more like-minded people? Want to figure out the best sites to check out? When should I meet the person? How do I keep myself safe when meeting that new person? We'll answer all of these questions and more on this episode of The Gen SeXy Podcast: The podcast about sex for Gen Xers and Baby Boomers.  Have questions about online dating? Click on the Message button and leave me a message. I'll answer it either on my blog and/or the next podcast. Follow me on social media at TheGenSexologist and check out my weekly blog where I review sex toys and answer questions from viewers at Join us next week on The Gen SeXy Podcast with our guest Shani Hart from Noir Leaf as she discusses the benefits of CBD and sexual pleasure. Have a question you want to ask her? Click on Message and leave me one. We'll answer it on the show.
March 21, 2021