Get It Twogether
By Gregory Harris and Megan Francisco Harris
Get It Twogether is a coming-of-age podcast exploring what it means to grow and work together in your relationships, finances, faith and fun!
Meg and Greg Harris are a millennial married couple navigating the world twogether.
Tune in for weekly episodes serving you an OUNCE OF LAUGHTER, a POUND of LOVE and a TON of REALITY.
Meg and Greg Harris are a millennial married couple navigating the world twogether.
Tune in for weekly episodes serving you an OUNCE OF LAUGHTER, a POUND of LOVE and a TON of REALITY.
Get It TwogetherNov 30, 2022
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40:33
Defeating Suicide: You Can Begin Again with IFBB Pro Santana Francisco
We can all help prevent suicide - talk to someone NOW. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code that will route callers to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).
In this episode, Greg and Meg interview professional body builder and psych nurse Santana Francisco as she shares her battle with suicide and depression after believing she lost all hope in her life. However, she decided to acknowledge her failures and begin to live her life again! This is a story of the true beauty of resiliency! YOUR story must go on - get it twogether!
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Nov 30, 202240:33
(Spotify VIDEO EPISODE) Defeating Suicide: You Can Begin Again with IFBB Pro Santana Francisco
We can all help prevent suicide - talk to someone NOW. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code that will route callers to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).
In this episode, Greg and Meg interview professional body builder and psych nurse Santana Francisco as she shares her battle with suicide and depression after believing she lost all hope in her life. However, she decided to acknowledge her failures and begin to live her life again! This is a story of the true beauty of resiliency! YOUR story must go on - get it twogether!
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Nov 30, 202240:11
Friends First, Marriage Second & Bigger Than Basketball ft. Asja and Rapheal Davis
Greg and Meg discuss the importance of being friends first in marriage with Asja and Rapheal Davis. Asja and Ray are married with two kids and the founders of C.R.E.W Life, an organization focused on using basketball as a vehicle for youth development, community involvement and educating attendees on professions that go beyond the basketball court. Asja and Ray share their story of how they met, and their journey to creating a successful non-profit. Tune in!
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Nov 16, 202248:04
Help! We Have Money Fights Every Day
Is talking about money challenging for you? Do you understand why you handle money the way you do? Is the conversation about money a point of conflict in your marriage? If you answer yes to any of these questions, then this episode was created with you in mind! Greg and Meg have been on a marriage journey to financial peace, and dive into a tough lesson of understanding the foundation of their money stories. The way you handle money has a lot to do with the money classroom that you grew up in! Tune in to this episode to get your money twogether!
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Nov 03, 202244:56
Mastering Commitment and Consistency in Marriage | ft. Ethan and Kaydon Belle
Greg and Meg sit down with Ethan and Kaydon Belle for a real talk about what it takes to be married and committed for 9 years and counting! The Belles share how their relationship began in the Family Dollar parking lot, falling on hard times together, and how they’ve managed to keep the spark alive!
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Oct 26, 202257:02
Loving Each Other Through Changes
The beginning stages of marriage are already hard enough - merging finances, merging your lives and habits, so let's do something crazy and add relocating to a new state, getting brand new jobs, new care insurance, switching careers, starting therapy and chasing your dreams in the mix! Well, that's what Meg and Greg did and they had to learn a new way to love each other during the unclear times. Tune in to learn how they got it Twogether!
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Oct 12, 202254:35
Swiped Right Into Marriage - We're Back!!
GIT fam, we are back and ...somewhat better! We have made it to a full year married and discuss our original meet-cute for the new listeners to the show, then dissect our mindset and the lessons we learned throughout each phase of this relationship - dating in our mid 20s, moving in twogether, figuring out if we had a chance of making it, and what led to the decision to get married!
Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvnn0NRb5TcZauQt3VNvtdA
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Greg IG: https://www.instagram.com/gregkharrisjr/
Oct 05, 202241:33
Unhappy Endings, Kroger Fights, and Failing to Invite Your Wife
How difficult is it to be considerate of your spouses feelings? Sometimes your wife just wants to be invited to be given the opportunity to say no! Greg and Meg work through a common marital dispute in order to reach a happy ending. Tune in and get it twogether!
Jun 08, 202247:29
Sexually Satisfied and Fantasizing About Someone Else
Wanting another sexual experience before getting married? Or are you wondering if you’re the a**hole ? Greg and Meg take a deep dive down the Reddit hole to solve all of the worlds “problems” with humor and uncircumcised love. Tune in and get it twogether!
Jun 01, 202201:14:44
Women Need To Pursue Men
A woman should not be the one to start or initiate the relationship, that's the mans job - is the ideology that has been programmed as truth to most women. Are women allowed to make the first move, ask a man out on a date, or ask for his number? Greg and Meg discuss their experiences in dating and decide if it's appropriate for a woman to pursue a man. Tune in and get yourself twogether!
May 24, 202250:12
When Her Mirror Lies, Intimacy is Deprived
One in every 50 people are affected by body image or body dysmorphia, and those who deal with this issue as a single person realize that all insecurities are heightened and exposed in marriage. Greg and Meg deep dive into the affects that negative body image has on intimacy, self-talk and ultimately how it can attack relationships. Tune in, and get it twogether!
May 17, 202201:11:54
Is your tongue bringing life or death to your relationship?
Your words have the power to create life or death. Are you the person who guards your partners self-esteem like a shepherd dog with a watchful eye? Or...are you the one who constantly points out their weaknesses with words that cut like knives? Greg and Meg dive into their experiences with learning how powerful their words are in relationships, marriage, and with rude family members. Tune in to get your tongue twogether!
May 03, 202201:12:09
Corny Kings and Big Rings
We've all heard the constant debates over the reasons why relationships like Russell Wilson and Ciara work or why people believe that type of "corny" relationship should not work. Greg, our resident corny king, provides insight along with Meg as to why they believe women should search for the "Russells" in their dating life. Tune in, and gain the emotional safety that you need!
Apr 26, 202201:00:26
You Should Fear Losing Me More Than Anything!
Tv shows like The Ultimatum, Put a Ring On It, and Marry Me Now portray scenarios where fear is the common emotion preventing both parties from moving forward in life. Are you fearful of marriage? Do you feel like you have to force your partner to commit to you? Tune in - it’s time to get yourself twogether.
Apr 19, 202201:05:07
The 6 Steps to Remaining Human and Humble
We often hear that money is the root of all evil, but success has also been known to wreak havoc on numerous lives. As long as you continue to strive for your dreams, you will reach inevitable success but how do you remain humble through the process? Greg and Meg provide insight on how to prevent losing your ability to be human while climbing achieving success. Tune in!
Apr 12, 202257:50
Caught Him in the Act
Self-pleasure, widely known as masturbation, is commonly performed when most of us are bored or watching pornography. What happens when you witness your partner in the act? How do you respond? Greg and Meg discuss the affects of masturbation and pornography on relationships. Tune in, now!
Apr 05, 202201:07:08
The Ugly Truth About Living Together Unmarried
Have you heard the rumor that 33% of couples who lived together (or shacked-up) before marriage have a higher chance of divorcing than those who did not? Greg and Meg share the ugly truth about their experience of cohabitating unmarried and how it has affected their lives since the wedding.
Mar 29, 202201:19:07
Adjustment Disorder Almost Ruined Our Marriage Before It Started
Adjustment depression comes when identifiable stressors occur in life, such as, moving, job change, losing your job, divorce or, an unforeseen medical circumstance. Greg and Meg explain how they overcame extreme life adjustments in order to grow and stay together.
Mar 22, 202201:05:56
Welcome to Atlanta
We moved from Houston to Atlanta, and there is no turning back now! Most people have been asking us “why Atlanta” or “how could you leave your families?” Well, here’s your answer to all of those questions! Tune in, right now!
Mar 17, 202201:00:24
2021: The Year of Work, Joy, Pain and the Fireman
We have good news!! Greg FINALLY accomplished his career goal! Meg has a new job! We're moving! 2021 was full of joy and pain, and we thank you for going on this crazy ride with us.
Dec 30, 202101:30:02
We're Married & Spilling the Wedding Tea
These two officially became ONE on October 3, 2021! Mr. and Mrs. Harris are married and spilling all the wedding tea that you could ever drink! They take you on a journey of their wedding weekend full of activities and drama then head into the day of details with stories only these two can tell. To top it off, you know your favorite couple had to keep it real and tell how much this wedding extravaganza cost! Tune in to find out !
Oct 12, 202102:00:18
The Year of Grown & Sexy
What's up with it, GIT family! Greg and Meg discuss the key life lessons they've learned after 28 full years of life. Both hosts are virgos and give details into the compatibility and mindsets of a virgo man and virgo woman then discuss how it relates to them individually and as a couple! If you're a horoscope nerd and enjoy the pearls of life, then tune into this episode and get your life twogether!
Sep 21, 202101:16:03
Being Broke, Struggling to Work Twogether and Crazy Life Changes
We're back and we're better! Greg and Meg are back after an unexpected 2 week hiatus due to difficulties of working together and drastic life changes. This episode is full of details of the brokest things they've ever done in life, the hardships that arise when building a business with your partner and how life has completely shifted for the two of them. Tune in to find out all the juicy details, learn some tools to grow twogether and enjoy a good laugh!
Sep 14, 202101:13:51
I'm a Big Kid Now!
Does your family seriously view you as an actual adult?? Join us this week as Meg and Greg go down a deep worm hole on how they feel mature in their family's eyes. Both have extremely interesting details and facts and the conversation does get SPICY! Man it seems like there are some things they need to say to their peeps....or is it just Greg? Lol y'all be the judges for that.
Aug 24, 202101:20:06
Beast With Seven Backs
Have you ever wondered why using the word "love" is such a scary term to say to someone? Some people have difficulty saying "I love you" to their parents, siblings or even their significant other. Why do we put so much emphasis on three little words? Greg and Meg take us on a journey into their experiences with using this phrase in past relationships, with family members, and Greg tells the story of the first time he said those words to Meg. Unfortunately, Meg hates the first time that Greg said "I love you" as he has the worst timing and can never tell this story to her kids! Tune in for a very transparent treat!
Aug 17, 202101:08:28
One Year in The Game: It's our Podcastversary!
We have officially made it to one year of getting our lives twogether with you all! Yes, you guessed it! It's our podcastversary! In this episode, Greg and Meg discuss the trials, triumphs, likes and dislikes of what it takes to do a podcast. How hard is it to be in business with your significant other? What are the behind the scenes details at play: arguing before a recording, recording 60 minutes of content then realizing the sound was off? Oh yes, they tell it ALL today! Tune in and be ready to be entertained, possibly cry, and leave motivated to conquer the first year of your goals!
Aug 11, 202101:05:37
Inside the Crack and Cellphone Screens
Are you addicted to your smartphone? Do you ever find yourself jealous of your partners phone? Recent studies have been conducted to assess the burden or possibly blessing that smartphones have placed on families and relationships. Greg and Meg have had their own issues in the realm of one partner being upset about the other for being lost in their screen time vs. being engaged in the present time. Your fave friends discuss a range of topics from smartphone jealousy, to MRS. Issa Rae and new updates about Deshawn Watson's scandal. Tune in to stay in the know and get it twogether!
Aug 03, 202159:50
Bezos Luck and Texas Sucks
A lot has been happening within the past week! Space Jam is out and some people are big mad, the Amazon guy went to space and Texas has lost its mind for the one-millionth time! Greg and Meg cover all the hot topics to close out the end of July then dive into a discussion about how long after a break-up should you wait to entertain or date someone! Tune in for a laugh, great insight and transparency from your favorite duo!
Jul 27, 202101:02:02
What Women Want
Greg and Meg discuss the real reasons why women tend to flirt with other men in order to get what they want. Why do you think women flirt to their interests? Do you have a problem with married women asking another man or their dad for help with car trouble, household duties or anything else ? They dive deep into the purpose behind all of this! Tune in!
Jul 20, 202101:19:37
That’s Why I Didn’t Want a Wedding
If you’re looking for reasons why you shouldn’t have a wedding, you came to the right place! Greg and Meg read EVERYONE for wedding filth, today! No one is safe! They discuss the issues with the parents, the family, the annoying requests and how no one is aware of what wedding etiquette is. It’s a real and transparent wedding roast session, and they served all of it! Tune in, now to share your thoughts !
Jul 13, 202101:05:18
Gritty People
Bill Cosby relased from prison, but is he free? Are the Tokyo Olympics sending a hint that they just don't want black people to participate? ANd what are we going to do about Sha'Carri? Greg and Meg dive into the trenches with all of these topics, and lead into a conversation about GRIT and what it takes to be a person who achieves their long term goals ! Tune in! You don't wnat to miss these lessons!
Jul 06, 202101:08:44
Struggling to survive those 20-Somethings?
Greg and Meg are back at it again with some much-needed advice on how to survive those 20-somethings. There is a way you can ruin your twenties and set you up for failure in those thirties! Don't fall into the trap of what society makes you believe your 20-somethings should be! Tune into this episode to hear some gems dropped by your favorite duo.
Jun 29, 202101:04:05
Gold Chains and Engagement Rangs: Best Friends Forever with Davisha Owens
Today's episode is crazy and entertaining. While Meg is out of town, the GIT crew thought it be best if they bring the Best Woman on! Ms. Davisha Owens, Greg's long time best friend and wedding party member, popped in today to share some of her exciting news, how she's going to prepare Greg to marry Meg, and how these two strange individuals became friends in the first place. Get ready to laugh, learn, and cry because these two have been through a lot within their decade of friendship.
Jun 15, 202101:16:54
First Date..Red Flags
Meg and Greg dive in on the worst dates they ever had and also take a look at the red flags to watch out for when it comes to going on a first date yourself. Be sure your'e not setting yourself for a hoodwink of a first date GIT family!
Jun 08, 202159:41
Healthy Body, Tasty Soul with Tia Green, Crowns Plant-Based Icecream
This episode was designed for all of the aspiring small business owners! Greg and Meg interview Tia Green, the owner of Crowns Plant-Based Icecream. Tia Green curated a unique icecream that is not only good for your body, but delicious and tasty to the soul! She is a black business woman on a mission to solving a problem by providing one scoop of plant-based icecream at a time! Tune in to find out more about Crowns and for a ton of laughter!
May 25, 202101:08:58
No Face, No Case: Posting Your Significant Other
In this episode, Greg and Meg discuss the social media dilemma of posting your significant other and the woes that can come from it, along with the praises and benefits you can reap from being open about who you're dating. In our society, most couples fear allowing the internet to see their special somebody or one person could post everything about their person while the other person shows no love. Which side is right? Do you have to post? This couple shares their thoughts on the dilemma and how they have been surving the social media couple dilemma! Tune in, right now!
May 18, 202101:07:58
I Got Your Hat!
From being on the same page, to hopng they're in the same book...Greg and Meg get real about the behind the scenes of creating episodes andd content every week. The couple talks about the authenticity of their Mother's day, the hot topics of what's currently happening in media and all of the shade room drama!
May 11, 202155:03
Coexisting is hard.
Welcome back GIT fam, in this episode Greg and Meg get into a heated discussion about the difficulties that come with learning to coexist with one another. They tell a story of one of the worst "battles" that they've had since living with one another, and the feelings get REAL! Tune into this episode to get the dirty detalis of how they've learned to exist amongst one another.
May 04, 202101:15:14
When are you having kids?
Greg and Meg discuss the dreaded question that's asked 24/7, "when are you guys having a baby?" Meg goes into details about her reasons for waiting, and Greg discusses his reason for having intense baby fever and where those feelings come from. Tune into this episode to get a full ounce of laughter and a pound of real talk!
Apr 27, 202101:08:60
Write Your Blueprint, Don't Be Jealous
Tune into a great conversation focused on perfecting the best things about YOU! Jealousy is a slimy green monster that haunts our lives in many different shapes, identities, forms or personalities. Are you the jealous friend? Do you have people around you praying your downfall? These are questions that we all must ask ourselves at some point in life. Greg and Meg dive into a conversation about their personal struggles with jealousy in many different aspects of life to provide a tool box for themselves and anyone who hears it to create the best game plan to furhter thier lives and aspirations while leaving the jealous spirit behind. Listen in!
Apr 20, 202149:31
It's The Facts
What's Up with it GIT family! Greg and Meg are back with a multitude of topics to discuss. The duo detailes their feelings about the public's response to the unfortunate news of the death of DMX, discuss the ridiculousness of the Derek Chauvin Trial and highlight black excellence moments of the first black-owned Cannabis dispensary in Massachusetts! Tune into this episode to get your update on all the hot topics in this craxy place we called "life!"
Apr 13, 202101:14:38
Hypocrite Chronicles
You already know it's another episode of MANCAVE, and Uncle DingDong is back this week to discuss everything going on in the HYPOCRITE World. Greg and Dom sit in and bring Brotha Derek Jackson to the front of the congregation to chime in on his front seat chronicles, the cheating scandle that has women going crazy, and how this young man had his wife looking "NUMB" during his apology/preaching video. Tune in to the 3rd episode of MANCAVE and tell us what y'all think!
Apr 06, 202101:19:50
#StopAsianHate with Dr. Justin Yeh and Dr. Thu Mai
Hate crimes against Asian-Americans has increased nationwide by nearly 150% in 2020, and 58% of asian adults say it's now more common for people to express racist/racially insensitive views about people who are asian than it was before the COVID-19 outbreak. In this episode, Greg and Meg have a conversation about the nationwide increase in hate crimes against Asian-Americans with Dr. Justin Yeh and Dr. Thu Mai. These two special guests provide insight into what their experiences have been like being children of parents who traveled from Taiwan and Vietnam to make a life in America, and how the #StopAsianHate movement has affected their lives. Tune into this epsiode! You will leave informed, inspired and ready to take action! Get It Twogether is standing in solidarity with the Asian American and Pacific Islander community!
Mar 30, 202101:30:59
The Side Door: Varsity Blues Scandal
Hey GIT fam! Greg and Meg discuss the details behind the huge college scandal that has resurfaced since Netflix just put out the documentary with wire taps from Rick Singers phone and how he let these rich, white parents get their kids through the "side door." Then the couple leads into a conversation about parents living through their kids, and how that has affected their own personal experiences in life!
Mar 23, 202101:01:17
Melodies Cancelled from Heaven
What's up, GIT fam? On this episode of Get It Twogether, Greg dives into story time with a detailed memory of his choir days, discusses highlights of the grammy's, and why Megan thought he was cheating on her due to "acting different." Then, Greg and Meg have an interesting conversation about Cancel culture and the pros and cons of what generation Z has determined for our current society. Tune in to a very entertaining session!
Mar 16, 202101:10:32
Intellectual Decisions
Hey GIT fam! In this episode, Greg gets to the bottom of why he seldom cries or has difficulty with tapping into the emotion of sadness when it comes to death. Meg leads a discussion centered around making an "intellectual decision" to fulfill the needs of the other person and relates it to what a true commitment is in life. These two dropped a lot of gems in this one, so tune it to get your life twogether !
Mar 09, 202101:03:30
Make This Love Feel Relevant
Welcome back GIT family! Greg and Meg are back with the first episode of season 2! Your favorite duo is kicking off the season sharing all of the tea when it comes to the good, bad, and ugly of planning one fo the biggest events of their lives: their happily ever after! The couples reflects on how they have been coping with the process of balancing everyone's wishes while making sure they keep what they desire as a priority, dealing with people who feel entitled to be invited, and figuring out what traditions to keep or throw away ! Greg and Meg are back and ready to keep it real, and get their lives together with you! Tune in!
Mar 02, 202101:15:45
Life Update
Greg and Meg give a quick life update before the official start of season 2! 2021 started with some really high mountains and very low valleys for the both of them, and they share what has been taking them so long to come back! They're looking forward to what the new season has in store for all of you! Tune in to this life update with your favorite couple!
Feb 16, 202133:22
It's a WRAP, Daddy!
GIT fam! This is the last episode of the year! Greg and Meg reflect on everything that has happened personally, mentally, spritiually and worldy in this "beautiful" year of 2020. Greg details his feelings on his growth as a human being while Meg discusses a tweet thread stating "daddy" is a sexulaized term. Y'all know she had A LOT to say about that! Then the coulple states their nominations for GIT Couple Of The Year Awards! They will be back January 12, 2021! So soak up this episode and get your life twogether one more time before the year is up! Issa wrap!
Dec 01, 202001:23:46
You’re NOT All I Need
GIT fam, whats up? This weeks' episode is calling out all of the people who stand by the phrase "I don't need you." We see this theme very common theme in movies where the woman tells her man when asked, "Do you need me? or You act like you don't need me" and she always responds, "No, I don't need you." Meg gives insight into her experience with the many men who have asked her this same question in her life. Then Greg provides FACTs of how Meg responded to his conversation with her (very ealry within their relationship) about "needing someone." Tune into this weeks episode to get your life twogether!
Nov 24, 202001:09:30