Gin & Toxic With Christina And Lily

What a bittersweet episode: season 2 has officially come to a close! With all of you tuning in every week, we have had nothing but laughs, cries, and good times this season, and we cannot thank you enough for supporting us all season long. We love you all so much, and we cannot wait for an epic season 3!

To wrap up this era of Gin & Toxic, we decided to get our fellow toxics involved and ask for your WORST first date stories. Today, we’re reading all these stories and having some good ol’ fun and laughs. We also touch on Lily’s dating bender, from all the good to all the ghosting, and of course, we HAVE to talk about season 6 of Love Is Blind.

We love you all SO SO SO much. See you soon & stay toxic.

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Codependency: something we have both experienced in relationships before (unfortunately). Today, we’re talking all about codependency and how you can overcome these patterns. Codependency in romantic relationships can manifest itself in many different ways, such as insecurity and control issues, and it can stem from relationships with flawed foundations, trust issues & many more. We’re going over what exactly codependency is, all the traits of a codependent person, where the codependency can stem from & how to make sure you are staying true to yourself in a happy, healthy relationship.

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We MAY or may not have some insane relationship updates in this episode from BOTH of us. Get ready because the first half of today’s episode is a roller coaster of love.

Aside from that, we’re talking BOUNDARIES today! Boundaries are essential in both romantic relationships and friendship ones. Today, we’re going over all the different types of boundaries you can set in your relationships, from physical to emotional ones. We’re also touching on WHY we have a hard time keeping up with our weak versus overly strong boundaries and a few pointers to ensure your needs are met.

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Whether you hide your negative emotions from friends or are overly positive to avoid the truth of your feelings, these are all signs that you might be displaying toxic positivity. Today, we're talking all about why toxic positivity is so "toxic," how to know if you are using toxic positivity, the difference between optimism versus toxic positivity, and recognizing how to open up more & stop bottling up your emotions.

We're touching on our own personal experiences with toxic positivity & getting vulnerable about how it affected us in romantic relationships, friendships, and even financially.

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We’re BACK, and we’re talking all about our 2024 hopes and DREAMS, baby! Tune in as we discuss what worked for us last year, what didn’t, and all things life, work & love going into the new year. We’re having conversations about saying NO more, holding ourselves accountable, reflecting on our faults & WAY more.

Also, did you hear the news? BeautyChickee is BACK IN TOWN! Christina made an EPIC return to her “old stomping grounds” this week, AKA YouTube. More BeautyChickee means more Lily & Christina, duh. PLUS- Lily is MOVING! More importantly, she’s moving even closer to where Christina lives. Total win for the girls.

We also chat about Reneé Rap, Jacob Elordi, Mean Girls premiere, Ariana Grande drama, fighting for Stanley cups, Gypsy Rose Blanchard & cars running over Zayn Malik. This is what happens when you miss a month of G&Tea- OOPS.

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The idea of attachment theory has been thrown around for AGES. Most people tend to fall into one of four attachment types: anxious, avoidant, secure, and a new addition to the theory, disorganized. You can categorize yourself into one or a few attachment types based on your romantic relationships, friendships, working relationships & more. Still, the real question is: has attachment theory gone too far?

Today, we are discussing each attachment type and its characteristics and answering the question: how far can one go with blaming their negative actions on their attachment type? And what will it take for these individuals to recognize the faults in their attachment type and learn to improve themselves?

Of course, before we get into the attachment theory chat, we gotta keep the show a little silly and talk about some topics that come to mind, such as shitting, Panera’s deadly charged lemonade, Gag City, cult documentaries, and WAY more.

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… Uh, doesn’t the title of this episode say enough?

This week, we decided to just do some girly girl gossiping with you all & simply blabber about all things relevant these past two weeks of our lives. From Christina hosting a Friendsgiving dinner that turned into one gigantic party foul nightmare to the drama that haunted us for a week straight post-dinner, get ready for all the stories and all the tea. Drinking, drugs, people making out, tables breaking, glasses shattering… what more could’ve happened?

We’re also touching on Mister Diva DOWN, aka George Santos & debating: bad actions or c*nty? Tune in as we chat all things Spotify Wrapped, Golden Bachelor, the word of the year & more.

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Talk about the surprise of a lifetime: Christina successfully surprised Lily with the viral TikTok NYC NPC Harrison Flint on today’s episode! After the perfect setup for chaos, we made it happen, people. 

Harrison is best known for his music and, of course, going viral on TikTok live for playing into the NPC trend where TikTok users can join his live streams, send him gifts, and based on the gift they give him, he will act a certain way or say a catchphrase (much like an NPC, duh). He added his twist on the trend by posing as an average NYC “bro” and live streaming in the heart of Soho, Manhattan. 

After seeing his streams countless times and sending hundreds of screenshots back and forth to each other, we knew we had to have him on the show to talk all things NPC music and get to the bottom of WHO the TikTok NYC NPC TRULY is.

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Boy, oh BOY, do we have an INCREDIBLE episode for you all today! This episode goes out to all our reality TV-loving toxics because TODAY, we are joined by a Netflix star from The Ultimatum: Marry or Move on Season 2, Miss Roxanne Kaiser!

It’s easy to say, watching Season 2, that Roxanne stood out from the other stars due to her REAL as FUCK attitude, her INSANE passion for work, and of course, all her platform boots & runway-worthy style. We were so incredibly excited to be able to sit down and chat with her about all things The Ultimatum, such as her personal experience being a new reality TV star, her relationship with her fiancé post-filming, any difficulties or hardships she faced during her time on the show, and of course, wedding updates (spoiler: she’s finally wearing her ring).

With Roxanne also being the founder of a woman-owned and operated “titty” business, Pasted Nip, we chatted with her about how her brand came to be, from selling cheap pasties by accident to creating the PERFECT nipple pastie & creating a nip-empire.

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We’re changing it up for today’s episode & playing the viral card game We’re Not Really Strangers. Tune in as we answer questions about ourselves and each other & get deeper and deeper with our answers as the game progresses. Imagine it as one of our toxic Q&As, minus the toxic, and add a little trauma in!

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Living in a big city has its perks of fascinating history at every corner, and Nigel Roxbury is the one to share it with the world (or just TikTok, basically the same thing). 

Today, we are joined by one of our most incredible friends, NYC history-aficionado Chris, AKA Nigel Roxbury, to talk all things history, music, mental health, dating & way more (there’s not much we DIDN’T touch on this episode). Join us as we deep dive into Chris’ rise to TikTok fame, from his rap career to traveling up and down NYC to experience some of the city’s history.

We’re also talking a TON about mental health, from growing up with a therapist as a parent to his struggles with Alcohol Use Disorder and the ins and outs of recognizing self-destructive behaviors & being able to talk about them. 

Of course, we HAVE to tap into his dating life also, so tune in as we talk about the cons of intentional dating through dating apps, getting your flirt on, and TONS of weird dating stories (from astrology girlies to girls simply using him to get back at an ex, there’s a story for everything).

Another day, another man being non-committal. This is dating in 2023. 

Or is there that chance of commitment? Today, we’re talking about the signs to look out for to determine whether he is in this for the long run or wants to "toy" you around for a while.

We’re breaking down the signs that he’s ready for commitment with you versus signs he’s just stringing you along and all the questions you should be asking yourself about your connection to get the best read on where it’s heading.

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Today, we are joined by the incredible Leah Gans, Founder and Chief Creative Officer of the notable women owned & run NYC-based clothing line & boutique Les Miss NYC! From painting belts for fun to owning & operating her successful clothing boutique, Leah has created quite the name for herself amongst the “NYC-fashion-girlies” for her unique designs & personable attitude. 

We’re chatting about how she started selling her designs, opening her first storefront in Nolita, NYC, growing her brand from the ground up & more. We also touch on the hardships of starting & running a brand, struggles with imposter syndrome, and more thought-provoking conversations. 

This IS Gin & Toxic, so we couldn’t let her leave the studio without chatting a bit about her dating life, so tune in for stories of dates gone wrong & so much more.

So your partner breaks up with you for another person, or they move on to someone new pretty quickly, or maybe your crush likes someone else, OR MAYBE your partner cheated on you. So many scenarios can lead us to the topic of obsessing over the “other woman.” You stalk their social media pages, wondering, “Why them?” or “What do they have that I don’t?” when the reality is that it’s never really to do with YOU.

Today, we are breaking down the obsession with the person your partner has turned to, from why we feel the need to stalk them to break free of that habit. Join us as we debunk the anxiety behind your partner’s new fling!

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“How do I know if I’m in love?” - is the question we’ve all probably asked ourselves at some point in our lives. Today, we are here to help you decipher between the feelings of like, love, and lust and figure out which emotion you are TRULY feeling towards that special someone. We’re also diving into lust versus obsession, which can easily get mixed up.

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After last week’s episode, where we wouldn’t shut up, we are returning with an episode that ACTUALLY has a topic: navigating your 20s.

There’s so much pressure placed upon us people in our 20s to have it all figured out: the career, the friends, the relationship, the home, and way more, but it’s pretty unrealistic. Most people in their 20s don’t have it together in the slightest or aren’t even figuring out what they want to do until their mid to late twenties.

We might not be able to get your life together fully right now, but we’re talking about a few things you can do to help ease the process of finding yourself in your 20s.

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What was supposed to be a typical episode today turned into the catch-up of a lifetime when we realized we were already an hour deep into recording and hadn’t brought up the actual topic of the episode once, so here you go, another TOXIC CATCH-UP.

Mr. St. Pete RETURNS, other old “friends” return from the past with mercury retrograde, Lily gets CALLED OUT, Christina gets REJECTED by Big Jeans & then plans a new date within minutes, dating therapists, Scooter Braun, old BeautyChickee videos are BACK, going through his phone; what DOESN’T this catch up episode have?!

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Do you believe in psychics? Even if we didn’t already, after this episode, we SURELY do! Today we are joined by one of New York’s most highly rated psychic/mediums, Readings By Catherine, to answer ALL your questions about psychics, how they use their gift, and debunk ALL of the misconceptions about psychics that skeptics may have. 

Of course, we’re gonna be wrapping the episode up with our own personal readings surrounding our work and love lives, and needless to say, we were left SHOCKED. 

Being in a rut is one of the worst, most frustrating feelings. Once you’re in that rut, it takes a lot of time and self-discipline to break free from it! Whether you’ve been in a rut from a shitty relationship, a job loss, or any other outside factors that caused you to not perform at your prime, we’re here to help! Today we’re talking all about getting OUT of that rut, from changing up your space to breaking your perfectionist habits & WAY more.

Successfully break free from that rut? Now let’s get your MOJO back! Your mojo refers to your overall confidence & sex appeal, so let’s get out of that rut and bring back the confidence YOU have through your physical and mental mojo. 

… and no, we aren’t talking about Ken’s mojo dojo casa house.

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Unfortunately, many of us have either heard of or dealt with a toxic relationship or a narcissistic partner we feel can do no good. Today’s episode was inspired by some unsettling information Christina found out over the past week about an ex-boyfriend, and we are here to tell the tale & warn all of you of the signs of a narcissist and toxic relationship patterns. 

We’re going over the signs, discussing if you can fix a toxic relationship and, if you can’t, how to break out of that relationship that serves you no good.

The majority of this episode consists of a storytime from Christina’s recent experience with the topic at hand, which was not easy to discuss, but we are a podcast for the people; therefore, sharing this story seemed necessary to educate on the given topic. 

NOTE FROM CHRISTINA: regardless of what has happened, I wish this person healing and love in their life. I want to heal in peace after this, and I hope one day, they can heal the parts of them that cause the actions they have done. Love and light, always. 

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Being delusional is typically described as “holding false beliefs about external reality that are held despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary” (thanks, Google). However, as we always say, Gin & Toxic is just CNN for dumb bitches, so let us dumb it down for you: being delusional is acting as if everything is exactly as you want it to be (at least that’s how the TikTok girlies describe it). 

Today, we’re feeding into the delulu-movement that’s all the rage right now & talking about the positives and negatives of a delusional mindset, why people prefer you to be realistic, and how to make the perspective shift into a happier, delusional life!

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Breaking up with someone, regardless if you still love them, is one of the hardest things we must do. Obviously, you can’t stay with someone to keep them happy and not yourself! If you’re ready to become selfish before being selfless, listen up because we’re talking about breaking up with your significant other in the “best” way you can. Unfortunately, there is no shortcut to an easy breakup, but we’re here to give you some tips on how to make the entire experience a *bit* smoother.

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We know… it’s quite the title of an episode after taking an accidental two-week hiatus from the show, but it couldn’t be more accurate to our current mental state. You heard us right, it is OFFICIALLY hot girls’ summer, and what better way to kick that off than to announce Christina’s newfound FREEDOM! 

Tune in for the catch-up of a lifetime, from the explanation behind Christina’s breakup to Lily publicly embarrassing herself in front of her boyfriend’s friends, and a WHOLE lot more. We’re talking tan lines, being horny all the time, dinners with strangers, and MUCH more.

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Have you ever wondered how having the paparazzi on your case would feel? Following you everywhere, with flashing lights? Lily would actually know, thanks to today’s guest and paparazzi professional, Kieran Murray.

Kieran Murray, aka the brains behind the viral TikTok sensation, The Paparazzi Boys, spends his days with his best friends, hounding the general public with flashing lights and not-so-personal questions in the streets of NYC. A few months back, we are sure you all remember when Christina hired him to paparazzi Lily when she was going through her breakup, which turned out even better than we could imagine. 

So today, we are joined by Kieran to talk all things paparazzi, from how he got started to the future of the fake paparazzi. Of course, since this IS Gin & Toxic, we are also deep diving into his life, starting back in Australia to how he ended up in NYC and all his dating stories.

Everyone wants to feel that sense of having their shit together. Whether you’re in a slump or just feeling like you lost yourself, this episode is about those “IT” girl habits you can implement into your everyday life to start feeling more like yourself and less like a couch potato. We’re discussing everything from your hobbies to the people you surround yourself with.

& don’t worry- we aren’t going to tell you to work out and lose 10 pounds.

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Ah yes, the most beautiful time of year for judgmental people has arrived: the Met Gala, aka, the Super Bowl for annoying people, such as ourselves! 

With the big event just having passed, today we are joined (again) by our best friend, Jeff, to do a very TOXIC review of all the 2023 Met Gala looks, from the serves to the FLOPS. 

Of course, all these opinions are ours and are subjective to everyone’s taste, so if you disagree, we don’t care.

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As a woman, we all know that there are an unwritten set of rules for female friendships, better known as GIRL CODE. These rules consist of all the dos and don’ts when it comes to supporting other women & overall, simply NOT being a shitty person. Today, we’re going over our personal favorite girl code rules to live by and reacting to YOUR girl code rules submitted via Instagram. 

Remember, it’s not girls supporting girls; it’s being a GIRLS GIRL!

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Odds are, if you’re listening to this, you’re thinking about getting back with your ex. You and your ex broke up for whatever reason, and as time passes and you start to miss them, you might consider rekindling your old flame & starting over again, but is it truly the right thing to do?

Today, let’s talk about the ins and outs of getting back with your ex. From WHY we run back to our exes instead of starting fresh to a plethora of questions you need to ask yourself when considering dating an ex again, we’re reviewing it all with you today to help you answer the question: should I get back with my ex? 

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Honestly, we don’t know why we didn’t do an episode about this sooner because it seems like all of you have been falling in love from afar for a WHILE now! Being the long-distance experts we are (Christina was in a long-distance relationship for 4 YEARS, for crying out loud), we decided it’s time to discuss: can you TRULY make a long-distance relationship work?

We’re talking trust, communication, planning & all the in-betweens that create the rulebook for a successful long-distance relationship. We’re also going deeper into our personal experiences in long-distance relationships, from what worked to what didn’t. 

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Wondering where to find the rich eligible bachelor of your DREAMS? Well, you came to the right place. Today we are joined by a Dating Coach nicknamed the “Manhattan Dating Tour Guide,” Tiff Baira, to discuss ALL things dating & finding your bachelor man.

We’re getting SCHOOLED on why your dating life probably sucks. from the most common struggles people face within dating to confidence & self-image issues; we’re shifting those mindsets so you can truly become THAT BITCH. 

& since Tiff is an expert, we’re talking about where in NYC to FIND the rich eligible bachelor of your dreams, aka, finding the quality man you deserve. Once you find the man, we’re giving the BEST flirting tips, from making the first move to engaging in the conversation.

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We get asked a lot of weird, burning questions in our DMs, so we figure for this week, let’s answer some in a little Q&A! we’re talking sex positions, toxic men, updates on Lily’s insane relationship with work bae & MUCH more. 

We also introduced our new pop culture recap segment, G & TEA! We’re recapping all your favorite pop culture moments from that week, so tune in this week to hear about the kick-off of Taylor Swift's “The Eras Tour” as well as our thoughts on the new Donald Glover film, Swarm.

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This week, we are annoyed. It’s one of those episodes where we just woke up, chose what’s bothering us at the moment, and decided to discuss it. Today, that topic is the impact of TikTok on people’s perception of relationships & dating because, holy shit, TikTok has made a HUGE impact on how people view dating & relationships! Of course, plenty of TikToks promote excellent dating standards & rules within relationships, but where does a TikTok cross that line? Tune in & let’s discuss.

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Does the name “TikTok King” ring a bell with any of you? If it does, then you are in for a TREAT today! We are SO excited to have the one and only TikTok king & East Villain, Codey James, on today’s episode to talk all things East Villains, NYC, Aritzia jackets & much more nonsense.

We’re diving into how the East Villains came to be and doing a very well-needed pyramid ranking of all the East Villain men. We also NEED to discuss how Codey got CANCELLED over an Aritzia jacket scandal; the girlies came AT him for this one.

This episode has everything from TikTok hate to off-topic discussions about childhood YouTubers, so we hope you enjoy the chaos!

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If there is one episode of Gin & Toxic to define this entire podcast, it’s probably this episode. Today we are joined by popular NYC TikTok comedian Benton McClintock to talk about, well, EVERYTHING.

From STD horror stories to FiDi orgys to obsessively dating people, this episode has become one of our most chaotic to date. We’re also diving into how Benton got his start as an NYC TikTok comedian, creating viral videos ripping on people who wait in lines at popular restaurants to making fun of how fashion school students dress. He truly has zero filter.

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WELCOME TO GIN & TOXIC SEASON 2, BABY! We know how much you missed the toxicity in your lives, so we’re back and more toxic than ever. We have a whole new recording studio, a new intro, more engaging video content, new guests, new cover art, NEW EVERYTHING! We hope you are as excited about this new season as we are; we’re just getting started.

We decided for episode one of the new season to have a little shit talk with you all since it’s been a minute, and we have SO much to catch you up on. We’re talking about changes within the new season, Lily’s relationship status (take a wild guess), what it’s like being the CRAZY girl in and out of a relationship, rekindling friendships, and raging vagina issues. Yes, you heard that correctly; raging vagina issues. Never a dull moment here.

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Odds are, you’ve asked yourself this question at some point in your relationship. Whether you were overreacting about an argument you had, or you have genuine concerns about the relationship, we’ve all pondered the question: should I stay or should I go?

Today, we’re breaking down why you may be questioning your relationship and truly figuring out, is it worth the fight? Or is this relationship dead? Tune in for discussions on your partner cheating on you, fights and arguments, life and career differences, what to do when the “spark” isn’t what it once was & WAY more.

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HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL THE TOXICS! With this being our FIRST episode of 2023, we decided to take a trip down memory lane for 2022, aka, a MESSY year. We’re giving you all the DEEP DIVE on stories already told on this show AND sharing UN-TOLD stories that were TOO TOXIC for G&T when they happened. Get ready to hear our wildest, jaw-dropping stories yet. Friendships were ruined, breakups were had, and tons of dick was gained. Welcome to the 2022 TOXIC RECAP!

We’ve all heard or said the following statement: “I CAN FIX HIM!” You meet what seems to be your picture-perfect boyfriend, except you start to realize that some of his dating habits are less than ideal. All women want to believe they will be the woman to “fix” him into a better man, but is that truly even possible?

Today we’re dissecting the statement “I CAN FIX HIM” & asking ourselves; can you truly change a man’s dating habits? We’re talking about why a man would need to change his habits in the first place; when a pattern of bad behavior starts & the telltale signs it won’t stop, signs he IS changing & signs he ISNT changing & you should LEAVE the relationship.

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Whether on a first date or among friends, we’re sure you’ve been asked at one point or another, “what’s your sign”? Today we are joined by Self-Adoration Advisor & Astrologer Ramona Sidlo to answer the question that has become widely popularized as we tap into our most spiritually aligned selves! We’re talking about how astrology can play a massive role in our day-to-day lives, taking a toll on how we think, act & feel throughout our days. We’re doing a Gin & Toxic deep-dive into our charts, talking about our sun, moon and rising signs & WTF it all means.

Of course, this is Gin & Toxic, so we’re spicing it up with some “sexy” astrology talk, aka, what we want in bed based on our astrological charts & how to bring that spice into the bedroom.

Because all of you Gin & Toxic listeners are so hot and sexy, Ramona is giving you all a DISCOUNT if you book a reading with her! Get a 50-minute reading for $125 (originally $200) when you book through the below link.

Nobody likes to hear that DREADED question from their significant other: should we take a break? You tend to listen to the stigma that relationship breaks are BULLSHIT, which IS a stigma for a reason. Newsflash, they usually ARE. But we don’t judge here, so let’s break down “taking a break” from your significant other together & find out, is it TRULY bullshit?

Today we’re discussing what it truly means to want to take a break from your relationship, why people feel the need to take a break, the pros and cons of taking a break, the rules and boundaries set for the break, and overall, does a break ACTUALLY work?

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A year later & we are still giggling at dick jokes & talking about the ways we want to be disrespected in bed. HOW ICONIC! Since we’ve officially hit 1 year of this podcast, we thought we would take you all down memory lane as we review some of our most ICONIC episodes. We’re also discussing how our Halloween weekend went, from Lily dressed up as a BABY to Christina getting CUFFED UP!

Tune in because we’re ALSO doing the ULTIMATE MIDNIGHTS BREAKDOWN; because how would we get through today’s episode without discussing the album of the year?

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Don’t we all love a classic revenge story? Someone does you dirty, and naturally, you seek revenge. But the real question is, is getting revenge ACTUALLY worth it? Today, we’re deep diving into revenge & the actual consequences of it. We’re talking pros and cons of getting revenge, why it is almost NEVER worth it, and sharing some fan-submitted revenge stories.

We also have quite possibly one of the longest weekly debriefs this week. I swear we spent an hour shooting the shit about things happening in our love lives. What else are we good for, tbh.

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Let’s keep it real- we crawled into the G&T bed today without a DAMN clue what to talk about. However, it has been two weeks since we did a solo episode where we get to catch you up on all things dating, sex, relationships & all the other BS in our lives, so we decided to do exactly that in today’s episode. So welcome to the ULTIMATE toxic catch-up sesh; there is TEA to be SPILLED today.

Tune in for updates on when Lily FINALLY met Christina’s kinda-almost boyfriend for the first time, and it got MESSY. Speaking of boyfriends, did we mention that Work Bae FINALLY asked Lily out?! We need to discuss how he did it. Work Bae is also meeting Lily’s parents soon, so we’re talking about that first meeting between your boyfriend and your parents and how awkward it can get.

Christina also had a wild night out a week ago where she ran into Lily’s ex-boyfriend and DOG GUY AND received a rather “interesting” text from Mr. St Pete all within one night out. We’re sharing the story of the forsaken night today.

Oh, and we’re talking about weddings. I don’t know why, but we are. ENJOY!

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Another sexy man in the Gin & Toxic bed for you all. Are we even slightly shocked? Today we are joined by dating & confidence coach and co-host of the Nappi & Jay podcast, Chris Nappi, to talk about all the ins and outs of the male mind during dating, sex, & overall connections. We can’t even begin to put into words the topics we discussed in today’s episode because there’s A LOT. We’re talking about the wife versus hook-up dynamic & if it’s possible to break out of that “hook-up” label, why Chris is prioritizing only quality relationships & not looking for casual sex anymore, getting friends to make change within their shitty relationships, dating to find the one & WAY more insightful conversations.

Now, this IS Gin & Toxic, so we’re also getting down & dirty with conversations about OnlyFans, what men jerk off to, sexting, dirty talk, happy-ending massages & WAY more raunchy topics. This is a fun one.

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Today, we are joined by the one and only legend, our favorite token gay man, JEFF! After talking about him in almost every episode of this show we’ve put out to date, we decided it was time he joined us in the famous Gin & Toxic bed to discuss all things LGBTQ+.

Jeff being on the show this week means we got to discuss all the good, the bad, and the taboo sides of being a gay man living in NYC. We’re talking about his open relationship with his boyfriend, sex and dating within the gay community, the “top & bottom” stereotypes that surround the gay community, and of course, it wouldn’t be an episode of Gin & Toxic if we didn’t round it all out with some hookup stories; more specifically for today, GRINDR stories.

When you start dating someone, you might ask yourself the age-old question: are we moving too fast? Or, on the contrary, are we moving too slowly? We’ve all questioned ourselves in our dating lives about this before, but let’s be honest; does it actually even matter? Whether you want to rush into your relationship or go at turtle-like speeds, let’s debunk the pace at which you move in your relationship & break the bullshit stigma that comes with it.

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The Gen-Z slang of the “situationship” has made its way into our everyday vocabulary, but what exactly IS a situationship & how do you know if you are in one? Today we’re discussing the ins and outs of the SITUATIONSHIP: what makes a situationship different from a relationship, signs you are in a situationship, how to turn that situationship into a real relationship & BREAKING the cycle of non-committal partners.

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Spy a cute guy from across the bar? Want to try and talk to him? It’s time to get your FLIRT ON. Flirting can be sexy and fun & add some needed spice to a date night, BUT it can be incredibly awkward and corny if it’s not done right. We want to ensure your dates end with that butterfly-in-stomach tension and NOT with an ick on your track record. This is FLIRTING 101.

We’re talking about how to flirt in person, on a date, while texting & all the in-betweens. From changing up your body language to perfecting your personal flirting technique, let’s get it right.

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