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The Great Relationships University is an online course on elite communication strategies, social dynamics and relationships management.
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HOW TO DESERVE PRIDE

Great Relationships UniversityJun 02, 2020

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Insecurity In Relationships - How To Create 'Relationship Confidence'

Insecurity In Relationships - How To Create 'Relationship Confidence'

Insecurity In Relationships - How To Create 'Relationship Confidence'

With 'insecurity' being your uncertainty and lack of confidence about something, your insecurity in your relationship is your uncertainty and lack of confidence about its existence.

In other words, you're uncertain about whether it merits its existence.

Merit, remember, is deserving.

For a relationship to 'merit' its existence, all parties involved must feel the relationship deserves its existence.

JUST LIKE when you want something which you don't feel you deserve, you suffer persistently with the fear of losing it to someone who DOES deserve it, it's the same with a relationship.

In the video I mentioned people don't 'work' at friendships since they PRESUME the friendship simply exists because it merits its existence — every one involved in the friendship enjoys each other, otherwise they wouldn't be there since they're not obligated to be.

IT ONLY exists out of merit.

Relationships, most people imagine, is different. They PRESUME it requires work since it cannot merit its existence otherwise!

Now THAT is insane.

So in my relationships, I do ZERO WORK. The 'effort' I put into the communication isn't work, and doesn't feel like work, since it's something I enjoy with someone I enjoy.

To have security in your relationship REQUIRES your enhancing yourself in all those areas so people LOVE being around you!
Jan 13, 202109:59
Should You Have No Expectations In Relationships?

Should You Have No Expectations In Relationships?



Have you been told to have no expectations and you're better off?

Always have expectations - and be able to clearly communicate them.

The important bit is whether your expectations are appropriate or aggrandized.

When it's aggrandized or unsubstantiated, you set yourself up for disappointment.

I hear you saying you'd like to have aggrandized expectations so yoi can be optimistic, to which I say, you can presume the best but set your expectations appropriately. In any case, your "optimism" can be based solely on your self-confidence that however the situation turns out, you'll handle it.

How do you like to manage expectations?
Jan 05, 202109:59
Vikings Finale! and How To Have Great Relationships?

Vikings Finale! and How To Have Great Relationships?

On today's episode:

- What Floki said that'll help you have amazing relationships
- WARNING ⚠ Spoilers ahead for the show Vikings! Do not watch until you've seen it
- The difference between Socrates, Plato and Aristotle
- Where the scientific *Method* begins
- What to understand with relationships

If you've seen @historyvikings, the finale, what do you think?
Jan 04, 202109:57
Polyamory Relationships Explained - Why Open Relationships Are Better

Polyamory Relationships Explained - Why Open Relationships Are Better


In this episode:

- The difference between polyamorous relationships and open relationships
- How you can be polyamorous and not open
- Why YOU'RE polyamorous already
- The 2 things that make the difference
- What does this relationship look like

What's your take on this?
Jan 01, 202103:16
Communication In Marriage - An Amazing Tool for Communicating

Communication In Marriage - An Amazing Tool for Communicating



In the episode:

- What Is Communication
- What is a marriage
- 3 levels you use to communicate
- What is it to presume
- What you should replace
- Introduction to contracts of communication

What's your style of communication?
Dec 31, 202009:59
How To Explain Open Relationships

How To Explain Open Relationships

Have you ever had the challenge of communicating with people about your open relationships and your not knowing exactly how you're going to communicate it with them?


From your experience, when you communicate with other people about open relationships, a lot of people seem to not get it and if they do get it, their challenge is that they don't know how to communicate it with other people.


If you're having that challenge, watch this video as I share with you how I communicate open relationships with anybody and some resources that you will help you a lot in terms of enlightening you so you can communicate it better!

Aug 20, 202021:19
How to be Haply With Who You Are and What You Do

How to be Haply With Who You Are and What You Do

We define what sublime is. The two lies they told you about happiness. The stages of validation. Why you don't need confidence.
Jul 18, 202024:30
ARE RELATIONSHIPS HARD WORK

ARE RELATIONSHIPS HARD WORK

Have you ever been curious why people like to say, "Relationships take work!" It's False - and I'll explain why on today's podcast.

Jul 08, 202033:18
Live-In Partner Responsibilities - Your 2 responsibilities as a live-in Partner

Live-In Partner Responsibilities - Your 2 responsibilities as a live-in Partner

Ever curious what your job is as a partner when you live with someone?

Jul 08, 202023:45
HOW TO HANDLE MANIPULATION

HOW TO HANDLE MANIPULATION

3 Ways To Deal With Manipulation + Bonus: What RULE I Have In My Relationships To Ensure Freedom From Manipulation⁠⁠⁠
Jun 17, 202031:56
HOW TO START YOUR LIFE OVER

HOW TO START YOUR LIFE OVER

The 3 areas of life you need to improve
Jun 09, 202017:35
HOW TO ARGUE INTELLIGENTLY

HOW TO ARGUE INTELLIGENTLY

5 Fundamental tips to argue Intelligently.
Jun 05, 202028:36
HOW TO DESERVE PRIDE

HOW TO DESERVE PRIDE

What is the source of your pride? Pride is earned is deserved. I discuss it here.
Jun 02, 202015:48
How To Get Rid of Disappointment!

How To Get Rid of Disappointment!

After you listen to this, you'll learn how to never be disappointed again.
Jun 01, 202013:48
How To Get Out Of A Codependent Relationship

How To Get Out Of A Codependent Relationship

There's a word I created I refer as the fantastic opposite of a codependent relationship. The word is Co-independency.

Unfortunately, it's more than likely you're in a codependent relationship.

The reason isn't your fault.

It's because that's the way society has built out how relationships should be.
May 24, 202014:08
How To Deal With An Angry Partner

How To Deal With An Angry Partner

Fantastic question brought up on my FB page "How do you have a conversation when your partner's angry?"
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I cover:
✔️ How to deal with your anger
⁠✔️ The source of "anger"
✔️ 3 emotions you're born with
✔️ What to do before a conversation
✔️ When to compromise and when not to
May 21, 202020:52
HIGH QUALITY WOMEN Dates These Kinds Of Men - How To Be A Quality Person

HIGH QUALITY WOMEN Dates These Kinds Of Men - How To Be A Quality Person

High quality people attract high quality people because they CAN (have the ability to) appreciate about others of the same caliber the things they appreciate about themselves.

Note that to 'appreciate' is not 'gratitude'. Appreciating something is to understand the full worth and value of it.

Appreciating another person of the same caliber whether it's professionally, or recognizing their character and self-worth, happens as a projection of one's own self-appreciation.

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@ronejohnofficial

A famous online coach who teaches women how to get rich men, whom for the most part I like even when she propagates the opposite of the things I do, said "high quality women date high quality men".

While I appreciate that sentiment, I would change it.

Changing it in the way I went over in the video has this particular distinction:

It's a matter of "What to do" in order to get a high quality guy

VS.

"How to be" in order to get a quality guy.

The difference being, fleeting seduction Vs. worthiful seduction!

Mar 03, 202007:47
TRUTH ABOUT EMBARRASSMENT - Why You're Embarrassed And How To Fix It
Feb 28, 202007:03
How To Open Relationships - Communicating Polyamory With Others
Feb 27, 202009:40
The MAIN OBJECTIONS AGAINST POLYAMORY, Answered #PolyamoryWeek
Feb 27, 202010:41
How I Practice Polyamory - #PolyamoryWeek
Feb 27, 202010:26
The Truth About Love And Relationships

The Truth About Love And Relationships

There's a profound amount of misconceptions we learn - and every misconception leads to self-suffering.

In fact, ALL suffering is self-inflicted.

Remember - Pain is in the mind. Injury is in the body.

Much of the pain and suffering people feel come overwhelmingly from relationships.

This is the reason 80%+ of murders are caused by jealousy.

And so we explore the truth about these primary and non-obvious HIDDEN misconceptions taught to us without our recognizing them.

They're indeed heinous.

As you enlighten yourself in these areas, you'll find questions arise. You can comment below, or message me, or grab the book, Relationships 101 by Rone John

You'll also find yourself saying, "ALL THESE YEARS I've wasted my time because I didn't know this!"

Feb 27, 202019:39
How & What Is Polyamory

How & What Is Polyamory

For #PolyamoryWeek, we explore polyamory, its philosophies, practicability, psychology, and how I have it in my relationships! To join the online course to increase your relationship intelligence, join at www.greatrelationshipsu.com

Feb 14, 202008:11
Communicate Like A Pro - Managing Projection Psychology

Communicate Like A Pro - Managing Projection Psychology

Join the Great Relationships University online course for mastering your communication and managing your relationships at www.greatrelationshipsu.com

Find me on Instagram @ronejohnofficial and GRU @greatrelationshipsu

Feb 12, 202008:03
Why You Shouldn't Love Everyone

Why You Shouldn't Love Everyone

Share this podcast with everyone you know! For more info on GRU, visit www.greatrelationshipsu.com

Feb 05, 202006:31