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Great Date Guy

By Rob Wang

How to find love even if you're the least social human on earth. Join me in learning how to date out of your league and find success...without needing to be a confident extrovert. Wannabe PUAs and Alpha bros, GTFO. This isn't for you.

This is a living exploration of how to be honest and still get the woman (or man) you want. And what actually matters if you're looking to establish financial independence. Proven tools from the schools of psychology, counseling, neurology, CBT, IFS/partswork, shamanism, and more.

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134 - How I Solved My Marketing Problem As A New Business

Great Date GuyJun 24, 2021

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176 - Asian and Dating: Dating apps different for minorities?

176 - Asian and Dating: Dating apps different for minorities?

Being an ethnic minority can come with extra dating challenges - from unfair stereotypes to plain old prejudice. But are those externally imposed hurdles really the key factor holding you back?

In this episode...

  • Why my race really WASN'T the issue with my dating struggles.
  • The uncomfortable stereotypes Asian men face (and what I did).
  • How to spot if you're blaming race instead of lacking skills.
  • Why I'm grateful for discrimination in dating (controversial).
  • How to accept an imperfect dating world and still date exactly who you want.


Dec 05, 202312:46
175 - These Mind Viruses Are Killing Your Dating Life - Here's How to Cure Them

175 - These Mind Viruses Are Killing Your Dating Life - Here's How to Cure Them

This episode is for anyone still struggling with those stubborn mental blocks to finding the partner they desire and deserve.

  • The 9 mind viruses that made me undatable (and how I cured them)
  • Why you need to stop consuming dating advice.
  • The 5-minute face meditation that removed my anxiety around hot women.
  • How staring at a woman’s photo could save your dating life.
  • Why you secretly believe you don’t belong with attractive women (and how to fix it).
  • Why working relentlessly to find dating success is a huge mistake.
  • The counterintuitive path to massive personal change.

Nov 28, 202320:04
174 - Billie Eilish Is So Wrong It Hurts My Face.

174 - Billie Eilish Is So Wrong It Hurts My Face.

In this episode...

  • The incredibly B.S. Billie Eilish quote about how men don't have to live up to any societal standards about their bodies.
  • What research is revealing about what women ACTUALLY choose when it comes to their romantic partners (it's not dad bods).
  • 3 painfully obvious ways women choose men based on appearances.
  • Why even if Billie was right, this why no one wants her version of "nice".
  • Why we need to stop the Oppression Olympics between genders.
Nov 21, 202312:29
173 - If I had to start dating all over again, this is what I'd do.

173 - If I had to start dating all over again, this is what I'd do.

Candid insights and practical strategies for anyone seeking a fresh perspective on revamping their dating life. Tune in to uncover the secret to a game changing dating reset.


  • The #1 thing I'd do before dating again (hint: most guys don't do this and it's not good)
  • Why social shotgunning is better than Tinder for 80% of men.
  • Why I stopped playing it cool with women
  • The step-by-step way to build social momentum (and attract better options)
  • What to do when dating apps start making you miserable
  • Why reading just 1 book a month leveled up my dating game dramatically
  • How I solved my neediness/urgency problem.


Nov 14, 202319:53
172 - The Billionaire's Guide to Getting Rich

172 - The Billionaire's Guide to Getting Rich

A quick dive into Morgan Housel's Psychology of Money.

  • What it actually takes to start earning billions.
  • How to invest like Warren Buffet (without being a genius investor).
  • The real reason you keep giving up, instead of breaking through.
  • What everyone gets wrong about going viral (or making a LOT of money).
  • The actual secret to beating your fear of failure.
  • 1 simple mistake you need to avoid if you ever want to make it big.
Nov 07, 202314:21
171 - How to stop being unattractive

171 - How to stop being unattractive

  • Where she's actually looking at when she sees you
  • Why you keep getting ghosted
  • How to become 2x more attractive without changing anything about yourself
  • The little known secret that makes men more attractive to single women.
  • The real reason it feels like all the dating advice you're getting contradicts itself
  • How to pick clothes that make you stand out to girls


Nov 01, 202318:55
170 - Signs You're Dating the Wrong Girl (Or Guy)

170 - Signs You're Dating the Wrong Girl (Or Guy)

Not sure you're supposed to be with the person you're dating?

Here are some major signs you need to gtfo.

  • Why it's so hard to leave abusive relationships (and what actually qualifies?)
  • Signs your partner is never going to change (even if they keep promising you that they will)
  • Why liars lie, and how to spot them.
  • The no. 1 trait you DO NOT want your partner to have (it can be tricky to spot)
  • The biggest sign that you've found a keeper
  • How a sneaky part of your personality might be keeping you stuck dating the wrong people


Oct 31, 202315:13
169 - How to stop going on tilt (dating apps)

169 - How to stop going on tilt (dating apps)

This is why you keep getting worse and worse results on that dating app you love/hate. (Hint: it doesn't have shit to do with your rizz)

Been awhile, gang. But we're back.


In this episode...

  1. The real reason why you're still single (and hating it)
  2. The sinister design of dating apps, how that makes it harder to find real connection, and how to beat the system.
  3. Five ways to instantly improve your mood (and massively improve your dating results)
  4. The biggest mistake people make when they start searching for love (and/or sex) online.
  5. How to become the most attractive person in any room.
Oct 30, 202310:42
168 - What I wish I'd been taught about dating [Final Episode For Now]

168 - What I wish I'd been taught about dating [Final Episode For Now]

Thought about just leaving the podcast as it was, but that woulda been wierd.
Leaving without saying goodbye. 

As a special thank you for listening, I thought I'd record a podcast where I taught everything I wish I'd learned the moment I hit 18.

Inside...

  1. The difference between a steamy vs. platonic date
  2. How to stop being so outcome dependent
  3. The one thing you must avoid if you don't want dating to get harder over time
  4. The step by step on how to rewire your brain to become a fearless risk taker
  5. Why most recovering "nice guys" will still get horrible results with women, and what they're doing wrong
  6. And of course, a whole lot more...  
May 19, 202234:15
167 - How to go from Scrub to Seductive

167 - How to go from Scrub to Seductive

In this episode:

1. The no. 1 reason you aren't getting better with women.

2. Why most men get stuck settling for less and how to stop the cycle.

3. How to know if you're thinking like a boy vs. thinking like a man.

4. The biggest thing you need to change today if you're still taking rejection personally.

5. Why self compassion is one of the most, if not THE most important skill you can learn on your dating journey.

6. Two little habits that will immediately improve your dating results.

Apr 28, 202251:24
166 - Blow Her Mind - 5 Rules For Better, Hotter, and MORE Sex

166 - Blow Her Mind - 5 Rules For Better, Hotter, and MORE Sex

In this episode...

  • She wants sex! We talk about how to create conversations and environments that help her have sex with YOU.
  • What to do when sex starts to feel like WORK and STRESS
  • Why your fear of rejection is running the show in the bedroom (in the worst possible way) and how to erase it
  • How to create the kind of juicy emotional intimacy that women crave
  • The ONLY mindset that will consistently give way to the kind of juicy sweaty ravishing sex that you both want
  • Why you need to slow down during sex (95% of men get this wrong and women hate it)
  • Sexual tension - what it is, and how to create it
  • And obviously more...

If you're looking to connect with Scott for coaching, find him at www.scottpagliaccio.com

Apr 14, 202239:26
165 - Ten Commandments For Dating 10s

165 - Ten Commandments For Dating 10s

You want to date out of your league? This is everything I've learned in the past month about attracting and dating gorgeous women. Once you've listened to this podcast you will understand...

  • The optimal way to structure your profile
  • Absolute dos and don'ts when writing your "about me"
  • The types of women to absolutely avoid when you're swiping online
  • How women assess men for dating and relationship worthiness
  • How to cultivate the REQUIRED mindset to date someone very attractive
  • The trick to stopping when you keep obsessing over a girl
  • How to and why you need to build sexual tension
  • Why ONLY using pro photos for your dating shots is a mistake
  • One huge difference between online dating "game" vs. in-person "game"
  • How to stop being your own worst enemy 
  • And a sh*tton more.

This is a solo episode. Scott will be rejoining us next week.
If you want to connect with us, you hit up www.greatdateguy.com
If you want to work with Scott, visit www.scottpagliaccio.com

Don't forget to subscribe and rate us if you got something out of this ep.
This podcast features profanity, strong opinions, and a male narrative.
If you don't like it, GTFO.

Apr 07, 202239:09
164 - This is why she's crap at texting you back

164 - This is why she's crap at texting you back

Welcome to the horror show that is online dating. Today we cover off on why so many women seem to be so damned skittish and unavailable (there's actually a good reason for that. Surprised? I was, too). And maybe more importantly, what we can do about that. If you're tired of feeling rejected, unattractive, or just plain resigned about your online dating experience, dis one for you.

Mar 31, 202226:21
163 - Attractive Leadership - Here's Where Most Men F*ck Up

163 - Attractive Leadership - Here's Where Most Men F*ck Up

By now you've probably had it drilled into your skull that as a man you need to be more dominant in the bedroom, boardroom, and apparently everywhere else you're expected to show up. While dominance is an important thing, most experts never bother explaining that dominance is what naturally happens when someone is an effective leader. People surrender their power to you.

Now there are MANY ways to take this on, but fair warning, many of them are about just trying to force your will on other people through fear and trickery. Fuck that noise. Not only is it unattractive, it will get you in some deep sh*t in the long run. In this ep, Scott and I walk you through what attractive leadership looks like, the skills it requires, how to train those specific skills, and how it looks like to apply them to dating life, business, and beyond.

This is not a Buzzfeed article. This is about setting you up to win the long game, not give you a small fistful of "life hacks" / band-aid solutions that will fall apart at the first sign of challenge.

Mar 24, 202246:26
162 - A Therapist Teaches Us How To Date Better
Mar 17, 202242:57
161 - How to Break up Without Living to Regret It

161 - How to Break up Without Living to Regret It

Today we talk about breaking up with honor. In a world of ghosting and silent resentment, this is how you show up as a goddamn warrior. This is how you break up without living to regret it - AND we'll show you how to do it with the utmost compassion and love for yourself, the other person, and the relationship you shared.

Inside...

  1. What to do when things get too spicy and you're ready to snap?
  2. How to become emotionally bulletproof and non-reactive.
  3. The 5 minute practice anyone can learn to immediately begin quenching reactivity.
  4. How to fully close the door when you keep coming back and getting hurt again and again.
  5. The blueprint to breaking up with honor and examples of how it's done.

For those of you who want a refresher on the VEVOOM method...

  • VOLUME - how loud are my emotions. 1-10?
  • EMOTION - what emotion am I feeling?
  • VIBRATION - where do I feel this emotion?
  • OKAY TO OBSERVE - can I give myself permission to experience this fully?
  • METHOD - what can I use to recover?
Mar 10, 202244:32
160 - Conflict Breaker: A 45 Min Guide On Keeping Your Cool

160 - Conflict Breaker: A 45 Min Guide On Keeping Your Cool

In this episode, we share the exact step by step method to become a conflict breaker. Someone who can halt big ugly fights and confrontation in their tracks - before they cross the point of no return. This is among one of the most attractive skills you can ever learn as a romantic partner.

Today we share…

  • 3 skills that will immediately de-escalate conflict
  • The one thing you absolutely need to avoid during conflict if you want to keep your romantic partner
  • Two practices you can start TODAY to become bulletproof when she starts to bring the heat.

Scott’s VEVOOM system:

VOLUME - how loud are my emotions. 1-10?

EMOTION - what emotion am I feeling?

VIBRATION - where do I feel this emotion?

OKAY TO OBSERVE - can I give myself permission to experience this fully?

METHOD - what can I use to recover?

Mar 03, 202246:18
159 - She Doesn't Actually Want a Badboy, Here's Why...

159 - She Doesn't Actually Want a Badboy, Here's Why...

I think by now, most men have learned that being told they're *nice* is the kiss of death. It's almost worse than being told you aren't tall enough...

But what does it actually mean to be a "nice guy" and is being a bad boy actually any better? As ye olde adage goes, "women love a**holes"...but is that actually even true?

In this episode, we talk about the pros and cons of each approach, how to recover from being a nice guy without turning into an insufferable douche, and how to walk the secret third path of the Laughing Warrior to become instinctively and effortlessly attractive to women.

Feb 24, 202252:10
158 - Men, when life is intent on putting you down...STOP! Do this.

158 - Men, when life is intent on putting you down...STOP! Do this.

This episode is for you if…
Life feels like Groundhog Day. The problems and challenges won’t stop coming, and worst of all, it feels like they’re on repeat. You keep dating the same horrible people. You keep getting steamrolled or taken advantage of at work. You keep trying to start a business and they just keep on failing.

By the time you finish, you’ll get…

  • Two foolproof approaches to breaking the cycle of pain
  • The fastest way to go from thinking like a boy to thinking like a man (and why it matters more than you think)
  • The one and only true key to success (80% of people have got it completely wrong...)
  • Why most people fail when they try to change their life circumstances
  • And how to make yourself insanely attractive with the Warrior Mindset

If you're interested in connecting more with Scott, you can find him at...
https://www.scottpagliaccio.com/
https://www.instagram.com/scottpags/?hl=en

Feb 17, 202241:10
157 - (Interview) Breaking The ‘Nice Guy’ Curse w/ Ashley Cox, founder @NiceGuyReformSchool
Feb 10, 202241:23
156 - Mixed Signals & You: What to do when they're hot and cold?

156 - Mixed Signals & You: What to do when they're hot and cold?

Welcome to the sh*tty part of dating. Where we've built up this story in our head of how things are ending happily ever after, only to be greeted by silence, loss of communication, and pain.

One moment they're in love with us. The next, they won't call us back.

In this episode we discuss exactly what to do..
How to stop the pain..
What causes this behavior..
And what to expect if you continue.

Feb 03, 202259:24
155 - How to chat up your gym crush

155 - How to chat up your gym crush

In this episode, Scott gets interviewed on exactly how he gets so many dates just by talking with strangers. This is a skill that mystifies me, too - so we've got almost an hour of content here for you today on the step by step, how to cultivate the proper mindset, and a few examples of how a good approach would look.

Jan 27, 202250:53
154 - How to stop caring what your haters think about you...

154 - How to stop caring what your haters think about you...

This is a big one for me. Any time I suspect someone might be upset at me it fucks me up in a big way. I’m talking about staying up late, not getting enough sleep, being distracted all day. So in this ep, I’ll be talking about how I got through caring too much what other people think – and by that, I mean everything I learned from having my TEDx talk launch and suddenly start getting hundreds of comments from the internet. Scott & I will be breaking down what’s going on, and the best ways to approach and nullify this pattern in your mind.
Jan 20, 202241:31
153 - Help I'm taking things too personally!

153 - Help I'm taking things too personally!

And this podcast we run through one very simple exercise that will help you stop reacting with anger, hurt, or feelings of rejection when things go wrong. If you've noticed that you've been getting into arguments or very weird head spaces more often than you like, this is the one for you.
Jan 13, 202215:02
152 - The New Years Ritual You Cannot Afford To Ignore

152 - The New Years Ritual You Cannot Afford To Ignore

Clean your space.
Look at the areas in your home and in your life you have been consciously or unconsciously avoiding.
And start feeling everything that comes up.

An important distinction here. What do we mean by feel your feelings?
Emotions always come with a sensation in the body. That's why we call em feelings.
If you want to have emotional mastery, the first place to look is...

Can I just observe the physical sensations of this emotion?
Can I feel them fully without rejecting them?

Once you get good at this skill (doesn't take very long - a few days max), you can begin to deal with some of the reactiveness you experience in life.

Theory:
The more bottled up emotions we have, the more triggered we get.
Most people tend to be defined by 2-3 unpleasant emotions - for me it's guilt or anger.
We keep storing up these emotions and putting them under more and more pressure and control, in order to keep them at bay...
Until eventually they start to leak out - that is where the self sabotage happens.

(Think of anytime you got into a fight with your significant other over something idiotic. Odds are, the process above is exactly what happened)

In order to escape this endless cycle of pain...
It's important to identify which emotions are showing up on repeat, and begin to empty your cup by feeling them without engaging in the thought patterns around them. Stick with how it feels in your body.

Mastering this skill means you get to reach a level bulletproof that most people don't get access to.
And when you have this resilience, it means you stop being afraid of rejection.
It means you stop worrying about whether or not you made the right choice.
It means you stop *needing* that next success, because you're capable of feeling good no matter what happens.

Other important notes:
Most businesses without huge overhead costs fail because the founders simply gave up.
About 50% of businesses fail in 2 years.
About 70-80% fail in 5.
This is largely the reason why - hustle culture tells us to toughen up and just soldier on.
This is a surefire recipe for burnout - it is not sustainable.

High level success requires your ability to effectively manage your emotions - OR they will manage you.

That goes for business, dating, and any other high stakes venture you can think of.

It's also really important to find a way to make each step of whatever you're up to, enjoyable.
If you cannot find the joy in what you're doing, if you do not know how to source your own happiness, you will quit and fail because the task in front of you is too punishing.

Whether you succeed or fail, your emotions are one of the biggest deciding factors.

So clean your f***ing room.
Start sorting through all the muck and sludge that you've been trying to avoid.
You can thank us in 2022.

If you're interested in connecting with Scott, you can find him at:
www.scottpagliaccio.com

For general inquiries, find us at:
www.greatdateguy.com

Dec 30, 202141:17
151 - Introvert Problems: How do I approach attractive women?

151 - Introvert Problems: How do I approach attractive women?

In this episode...

How to rapidly advance your social skills with attractive women
What pitfalls to avoid if you want to learn to be good as quickly as possible
The secret to minimizing your discomfort while maximizing your growth
What I do with my eye contact to completely avoid coming across creepy
And of course, there's more...

Dec 23, 202111:36
150 - This Is How I Annihilated My Social Anxiety Around Women

150 - This Is How I Annihilated My Social Anxiety Around Women

  • How come it's so hard to talk to women I'm really attracted to?
  • How do I stop coming across weird and nervous?
  • How can I get her to chase me, instead of spending all my time trying to convince her that I'm the right choice?
  • How do I stop needing so much social validation from women?

In this bonus episode, I answer all these questions and more.

Dec 21, 202108:53
149 - Here's what everyone gets wrong about making BIG money...

149 - Here's what everyone gets wrong about making BIG money...

In this episode…

  • What mindsets increase your worth? What mindsets are secretly setting you back?
  • Increasing your earning potential through non-neediness and a step by step on how that’s done
  • How to self diagnose (and fix) your money wounds.
  • How much happier does money make us anyway?
  • The real reason why you aren’t making more…
Dec 16, 202135:54
148 - How We Break Addictive Patterns (and How You Can Too)

148 - How We Break Addictive Patterns (and How You Can Too)

Sup brotherhood,


Welcome back to the fold. Today we shed some light on the following:

1. Why our brains get stuck repeating harmful behaviors, even when we know they're bad for us.

2. 3 simple ways to break free the next time you're in a self destructive loop.

3. One thing you absolutely should not avoid when you catch yourself self sabotaging


Here are some resources to help you get re-regulated if you're feeling like everything is going wrong.

Breathwork

https://youtu.be/I578H4VoZiY?t=527


Stress Relief Breathing

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FJJazKtH_9I


Loving-Kindness Meditation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1eLKEuJkggw


Intro to Mirror-Work

https://youtu.be/VZFcN5qB8yM?t=58

Dec 09, 202128:10
147 - We Asked A Woman To Critique Our Flirting

147 - We Asked A Woman To Critique Our Flirting

What is flirting?
When is it okay to simply tell a woman you're attracted to her?
What does good flirting look like?
How can you tell a woman isn't interested in your advances?
When does flirting become creepy?

Today, Scott & I answer all these questions (and more) and Joanne keeps us honest.

Dec 02, 202138:52
146 - I Asked 4 Love Coaches What They're Currently Learning About Dating & Love...

146 - I Asked 4 Love Coaches What They're Currently Learning About Dating & Love...

The Questions:

  1. What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever believed about dating?
  2. What lesson are you currently learning about love?
  3. What's your greatest dating tip?

The Coaches:

Liv Pavlov:
Liv is a sex and intimacy coach who supports men women and couples to have relationships and love that work for them. She’s a tantric healer and is nomadic, so check her Instagram to see her next stop!
https://www.instagram.com/theoliviarules/

Ana Ruiz:
As a Relationship Coach, Ana helps couples and individuals turn relationship pain and frustration into love and connection.
www.anaruiz.life

Macy Matarazzo
Helping smart, single, creative successful women find “unicorn” love. Featured on the New York Times, NBC, and MeetMindful.Com
www.GetSuperLOVED.com

Scott Pagliaccio
Men’s Mentor, transformational coach, and cohost to the greatest podcast on earth.
https://www.instagram.com/scottpags
https://www.scottpagliaccio.com/

Nov 25, 202139:43
145 - Do these 5 things for better conversations with women

145 - Do these 5 things for better conversations with women

For most of my life I was terrible at conversation with women. This is how I fixed that.
Nov 18, 202118:08
144 - Becoming A Sex God - This Will Make Her Into a Dripping Puddle

144 - Becoming A Sex God - This Will Make Her Into a Dripping Puddle

In this unironically longest episode we've ever done, Scott & Rob talk about what it actually takes to become absolutely masterful in bed and how to become to best she's ever had, without having any technique or being hung like a damn horse. We talk about why porn can actually make you worse in bed, giving and receiving the best orgasms either of you has ever had, and how to start building her desire for you until she can't control herself. You're welcome.
Nov 11, 202101:16:05
143 - The 34 Min Guide To Masculinity & Dominance

143 - The 34 Min Guide To Masculinity & Dominance

Masculinity lately is almost a 4 letter word. Triggering to many and with every passing day, the rules feel harder and more complicated to navigate. Who are we as men? How do we reclaim our masculinity powerfully? What does it take to respect women, without losing ourselves in the process. We answer all that and more in this episode.

Nov 04, 202134:49
142 - How to Stop Lashing Out - A 30 Min Guide to Conflict.

142 - How to Stop Lashing Out - A 30 Min Guide to Conflict.

Back from the dead.

I needed to take some time off from this podcast to deal with the other things happening in my life. Among many other things, I was given a chance to deliver a TEDx talk and I took it. That led to some MASSIVE stress and anxiety. With that complete, I've invited my good friend and Men's Coach, Scott Pagliaccio to co-host this podcast with me.

Today we talk about sitting in the fire, and being with what comes up when we're stressed...and how that process hacks the nervous system, and has us show up in a more masculine, confident, and attractive way - no matter what.

Oct 28, 202135:50
141 - How to stop putting her on a pedestal

141 - How to stop putting her on a pedestal

This one's for you if...

You find yourself instinctively, or reflexively avoiding women who are "too attractive"
You find yourself getting shy, robotic, shut down, or trying too hard when you run into someone you're actually interested in dating
You have ever struggled with your worth as a man and have doubts about whether or not an attractive woman would have you
Aug 12, 202111:24
140 - Make Her Laugh - Everything You Were Never Taught About Humor

140 - Make Her Laugh - Everything You Were Never Taught About Humor

In this podcast...

  • Hacking the rule of 5 to effortlessly become funnier
  • How to stop coming across like you're trying too hard
  • When you should NEVER text her
  • And a secret bonus tip that I typically only give to my private coaching clients
Aug 05, 202109:21
139 - Interview: The Magic Of Ghosting👻 (feat Macy Matarazzo of SuperLOVED)
Jul 29, 202138:12
138 - How Psychedelics Made Me A Better Date (And Increased My Income)

138 - How Psychedelics Made Me A Better Date (And Increased My Income)

In this episode I break down what psychedelics and other substances I've tried, how the process looks, what to expect on your first experience, and what each substance can/should be used for. Inside, we cover... Cannabis DMT/Ayahuasca Mushrooms & Acid Kambo And how to use these ingredients to hack and reprogram the way your brain works.
Jul 22, 202132:40
137 - Interview: Exploring Tantra & Four Hour Orgasms (feat. KC Taylor)

137 - Interview: Exploring Tantra & Four Hour Orgasms (feat. KC Taylor)

We've gone ahead and made the least appropriate episode of the podcast, yet. If you want to learn how to have energy orgasms that last for wayyy too long, if you want to learn how to have a happier, more pleasurable experience of life overall, if you just want to have really really great sex, then we gotchu fam. In this episode, I interview veteran coach, and mentor KC Taylor on how he teaches his clients to completely transform the way they see sex, pleasure, and reality. KC Taylor is a personal development coach & mentor based in Austin, TX. Specializing in helping people to move into their greatness and overcome self-limiting beliefs, he utilizes wisdom & insights from his practices on his own path, including Kundalini yoga, insight mediation, energetic & sexual polarity work, quantum physics, and embodiment practices.   Instagram: @kctaylor_coach Website: kctaylor.net
Jul 15, 202138:32
136 - Learning To Erase My Neediness (Advanced)

136 - Learning To Erase My Neediness (Advanced)

<ul>
<li>Neediness is based off a lack of fulfillment of needs (physical / emotional)<br />
</li>
<li>In order to effectively combat neediness we need to notice the signs - nervousness, urgency, treating each interaction like it's going to be our last, etc.<br />
</li>
<li>Understand too that neediness can show up in other areas of life, even if we lack neediness in another area<br />
</li>
<li>For instance, you can be great with client acquisition, but horribly needy when it comes to dating<br />
</li>
<li>In general, the solution is look and see - what emotional payoff do I think I'm going to get, if I'm successful? Will I get to feel sexy? Wanted? Attractive? Manly? Etc.<br />
</li>
<li>From there, look to find ways to create that emotional state for yourself.... WITHOUT needing other people to do it. (exercise in podcast)<br />
</li>
<li>Once you can successfully do that, you don't NEED anything - and at that point, the process of dating, growing your business, etc. will become VERY easy and straightforward.<br />
</li>
</ul>
Jul 08, 202113:04
135 - How To Stop Being Unattractive

135 - How To Stop Being Unattractive

The truth here is that being attractive isn't terribly difficult. But in order to get there you have to understand a few things first. And, if you're an outsider, these are the kinds of things that no one teaches you. In this episode, we talked about what attraction actually is, why anyone can learn to be attractive, and what you can do today to get there.
Jul 01, 202122:22
134 - How I Solved My Marketing Problem As A New Business

134 - How I Solved My Marketing Problem As A New Business

A lot of the marketing information out there isn't terrible, but it is only applies to a very specific part of Business Development. If you're at the wrong stage of business, if you're listening to the wrong Guru talk about the wrong type of marketing for your business, then nothing that you do will work or make sense. In this episode I break down exactly what style of marketing works for me, and the psychology behind why it works.
Jun 24, 202117:37
133 - Flirting: Everything You Weren't Taught About Seduction

133 - Flirting: Everything You Weren't Taught About Seduction

So, first things first, flirting isn't nearly as complicated as some of these experts would have you believe. Today I'm going to break down a very simple system that explains everything about how flirting works and how you can become excellent at it without being that creepy guy. This Theory will explain to you why some people fall out of attraction, how you can keep the spark alive in any long-term relationship, and one inner work exercise you can take on that will dramatically improve your ability to flirt and your overall satisfaction with dating.
Jun 17, 202115:52
132 - Online dating is a clusterf***, here's how I'm gaming the system

132 - Online dating is a clusterf***, here's how I'm gaming the system

If you're not getting the results that you want with online dating, first of all that's completely normal. About 80% of men don't get the experience they wanted out of online dating. In general problems can be broken down into three categories. Problem 1: no matches. Problem 2: ghosting / convo breakdowns. Problem 3: platonic face-to-face interactions. And this episode, I'll teach you everything that I've been learning in my online dating journey to disarm each and every step so that you can get a much better, more desirable experience.
Jun 10, 202126:28
131 - One Business Skill You *Need* To Succeed In 2021

131 - One Business Skill You *Need* To Succeed In 2021

Starting up a new business and making it work is often messy at best So today we're going to be talking about the one skill you need in order to make your business work in 2021. Now this goes double if you're starting from scratch and the product or service that you're offering is essentially just you. The biggest factor in whether you succeed or fail is the emotional state that you carry into your business. That is irrespective of whether you're creating content, trying to land a new client, or negotiating for Angel investment. You'll also find that these same rules apply to dating. Basically any time that someone is saying yes or no to an idea that you propose, your emotions play a critical role in their decision. But I think the bigger question here is, how then do I manage my emotions? There are a few different ways to approach this and inside this episode, will explore my favorites.
Jun 03, 202117:24
130 - Settling in Dating? Here's How to Stop. (No Cold Approach Method)

130 - Settling in Dating? Here's How to Stop. (No Cold Approach Method)

What if the secret to having an epic dating life...and all the success that you can manage... all comes down to just one thing. And what if that one thing, didn't involve pushing yourself to talk to people who scare the sh*t out of you, because they're 'out of your league'. What if the secret this entire time...was just a different approach to spending time alone. In this episode, I put forth a new theory that I'm *convinced* is going to change the way you look at dating and success, forever.
May 27, 202117:54
129 - What to do when you lose someone you love (feat. Katie Strand)
May 20, 202136:44
128 - Guys who don't do this are less attractive and earn less money

128 - Guys who don't do this are less attractive and earn less money

A few years back scientist at MIT ran a study that allowed them to predict how much someone would be offered at an interview to within $1,000 of their actual offer. The same predictor was used to accurately assess which c-suite executive would win a business plan pitch contest in front of a panel of judges. The crazy part? They didn't even need to know what the executives were saying or hear their presentations. If you want to find out what that predictor is, and how you can put that into play in your own life, this is the podcast for you.
May 13, 202112:13
127 - How I Finally Found $$ Success Outside My 9 to 5 (and how you can too)

127 - How I Finally Found $$ Success Outside My 9 to 5 (and how you can too)

There are a few things you need to understand about success, especially when it comes to business. The first piece is understanding that what your brain believes will become the solution to all your problems, is actually just a gateway to new problems. Retiring early won't make you more confident, happier, or make it easier for you to date. Mastering dating, won't fix the patterns that you ran into in every previous relationship that had that relationship stop working. That doesn't make your goal any less important, but I think it's something important to remember. The next pieces to understand that wealth and success are not a function of technique or hard work, or at least they don't have to be. If you want to do things the easy way, letter first you must understand that wealth is all about people. And I don't mean that in the campy Kumbaya kind of way, I mean that in a very literal sense, other people are The Gatekeepers to your success. In this podcast we talk about how to turn that to your advantage.
May 06, 202112:01