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When one's mood is low, it feels as tough this will be the rest of your life and difficult to imagine that it will get better. The thing is, there is always a light source, your job is to look for it.... Listen up!
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What do you do when you're having a bad day?
What happens after an angry outburst?
Mostly we call our friends to vent, perhaps sulk, so many options.
What if there were a way to use the situation to your advantage?
What if you could dissolve the charge and let it create more awareness and greater possibilities for you?
Today, I talk about the 5 questions that can change everything...
Chill out, tune in and listen to today's One Minute Wonder.
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When you stop creating, you stop living. When you stop looking and choosing what you desire to have in your life, you are no longer in creation.
So... what does that mean?
It means that to create your life, you must stop waiting and start moving towards what you desire.
If you desire a great relationship, start looking and choosing, find the person with whom you can make it so.
If you desire a fabulous home, bring the elements of your desire into the home. Start looking for it. Spend time watching shows about it. Read about it. Save for it.
By all means, start small and pull the energy towards you. If you can only afford one fabulous, high quality outfit, save up and get it.
Don't let anything stop you. Most importantly.... stop waiting!
Are you so hooked on perfection that it prevents you actualising your ideas into the world? Could you play with the idea of choosing in 10 second increments?
Making a choice for only 10 seconds takes you out of trying to get it right and making yourself wrong. 10 second increments allow you try out the idea. If it feels light... Fantastic..! Take another step. If it feels heavy... Fantastic..! You don't have to take it any further.
Every 10 seconds you have the freedom to create... destroy.... create... Wow! How does it get any better than that?
No judgement, Just choice = Freedom.
You can believe the untruths told to you about you. You can use your history to lock yourself inside your story..... Or you can let your story propel you to a more rewarding life. Everything in life can be given value. What choose you with your story?
The quote below from Marianne Williamson sums up today's podcast. Nelson Mandela referenced it in his inaugural speech and it matches the deepest fears many of us have about shining our light in the world. We are afraid of being shamed and ridiculed but without allowing ourselves to be seen, heard and even judged by others, we cannot be the contribution we truly be.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
― Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "A Course in Miracles"
According to Brendon Burchard who is regarded as the world's top performance coach, ongoing reviews of where you are, what you're doing with your time, what you want for the future and what you stand for, are essential in not just achieving high performance but in maintaining it. When is the last time you reviewed? #HPXlife
All of our thoughts, feelings, no feelings and emotions, lock us into a particular reality. Is your current reality working for you? The question then is, what else could you choose as a reality if you knew you had a choice?
What are the two words that we must master in order to find success? The two words are 'yes' and 'no'. Listen to the podcast to hear more.... For International Women’s Day – 2pm (est), Fri 8th March – a free online event What would it take to show up in the world, bigger and bolder than you truly feel? Is it time to stop holding back? Join me for a free online discussion that will leave you feeling more empowered and ready to step up and show the uniqueness of you and be the contribution you truly be. See https://www.successisyours.co.uk for more information
In a previous episode, I suggested that when you move towards your purpose, your purpose will move towards you.
That's all good but what if you don't have a clue where to start and what that purpose might be?
Here are a few tips.....
What are your interests?
What is missing from your life?
What activities do you really enjoy?
Which group of people would you like to hang out with?
There may be others looking for the same thing you are seeking, so, what contribution can you be?
Make a commitment to engage with one of your interests in a deeper and more meaningful way. Bring the thing missing from your life so that other people can participate and your purpose may just find you.
Engage in life more than you have so far and you might just end up having more fun than you thought possible and being a contribution to the world just by being you.
Until the next time....Be kind to yourself!
Are you the GOTO person everybody heads to when they have a problem? How much time do you have to do what you, yourself enjoy? When do you anticipate being able to make time for yourself? Life is short...! Yes, life can feel like an eternity if you are going through difficult times...but.... the years do not stand still. What have you consciously chosen in the last few months that gives you a feeling of vibrancy and that you are making a contribution in the world? How are you choosing to show up in the world? Is it time you made your life a priority?
What would happen if you stopped listening to people who do not get what you're about?
How would your life change if you allowed yourself to be the creator of your life, rather than being at the effect of it?
What can you be, that if you would be it, would open up a whole new world of possibilities?
What are you not willing to choose, that if you would choose it, would change your life forever?
What one thing can you do today, to make a start?
What can you do today to begin your journey to greatness?
In order to create a brighter future, you must take a risk now. In choosing to up your game, improve your life, follow your passion, there will always be a risk of some sort but if you do not take the risk now, what will the future hold for you? Are you gonna take the risk of passing away before you've had a chance to truly live full out and knowing you gave it your best?
According to Brendon Burchard, top High Performance Coach, there are certain traits and habits that set high achievers apart from everyone else. Two of those are that they get clear on their vision and that they consistently take positive steps towards their goals, they take action. Do you have the potential to be a high achiever? According to Bernard Burchard, anyone can learn these habits, which means that anyone could become a high achiever. What action are you taking on a consistent basis to bring your vision to life? Is it time to take action and get your life moving?
What you desire will come towards you but only if you take a step in that direction. Why wait? Do one thing today to get you closer to your big dream. Want to get in touch? Feel free to leave a message via the Anchor App.
If someone has a vendetta against you, there may be no changing their mind and sometimes the best defence, is no defence. The harder you work to convince someone of your worth and who you truly are, the more that person will dig into their current point of view. So, leave them with it. You will not be liked by everyone. People close to you may envy you and act out. People can find lots of reasons to make you the reason why their life isn't rockin'. You do not need to buy into any of it. Sometimes the best way to defend yourself, is to not defend and to let the discomfort push you into starting something new. Leave them with their 'stuff' and do you. Can you influence or change the situation to create a better outcome? If you can, go ahead and give it a try but use the situation to propel you into a bigger, better life and into creating and actualising your ideas. How does it get any better than that?
Why wait and wait and wait for something to happen before deciding to move towards creating the big life you want to live. We wait for a sign, for money, for someone to say yes. You don't have to wait anymore. This is your life, so jump in and paint it in your brightest colours. Do not wait. You have so much more to offer, just start with what you already have, right now.
If today were the start of your life, what would you choose? How often do you have a great idea then immediately judge and destroy it? Why not let go of the judgement and give yourself the freedom to make a choice, knowing that you can change your mind and make a different choice at anytime? Does that make you feel lighter? Great! Then lets get started.
From the minute we were born we were entrained to other people's thoughts, feelings and ideas. Those ideas become so much part of our reality that we may not be aware of what is true for us. Becoming aware of what is true for you, also means becoming aware of the thoughts, feelings and ideas that do not belong to you and as they surface, recognizing what is or isnt yours then making a choice instead for what lights up and expands your world. So, who do you truly be? What does light up your world? Which people help to light up your world?