Happily EVEN After

I have been studying narcissism and  I'm a little bit late on the scene being divorced in 2016. 

I honestly thought that my husband had left me because he found someone who suited me better. 

Made sense and it propelled me to work on myself.   

I always thought I can make this marriage work. I can make it work. I'll hang in here! 

However, I'm learning now as I'm reading about narcissism or hearing little blurbs about it here and there. If there's a textbook, it's like I'm reading as I graduated already from college and I'm reading the first-grade manual but it is spot on! 

So I wanted to share some things on here.

Should you forgive the other woman that had an affair with your spouse? 

I know this could be a controversial answer but it worked for me.  

It's what I did and I'm thankful that I did it!  

It is absolutely, positively I think you should forgive her and there are several reasons why...

Smiling can LITERALLY CHANGE YOUR LIFE.   

Here are 10 Benefits of SMILING!  

#1 Smiling helps you LIVE LONGER! 

That is reason enough to watch!  

Check this out and let me know what you think!  

Which one Surprised You the most?

Whatever is happening right now in your life it's okay. 

I want to encourage you to do is relax. 

Easier said than done I know, I've been there.  

Think that the answer is here, the answer is coming, and it's okay. 

If you can get a hold of that in the midst of your chaos in the midst of your hurt, pain, frustration, and anger, it'll change your life. 

I want you to breathe and just think it's okay.  

It's okay.  

It will be okay!

Should you go to counseling after you found out your spouse has had an affair? 

Well, I have a really strong opinion about that.

My husband of 26 years had three affairs that I know of, which he never admitted to any of them. 

And I have done almost everything wrong pertaining to my dealing with him after he was caught having his affairs.   

And so I'm here to help you make progress, to move forward and start the new life that's up ahead.   

It's a really good life. ✨

Today I want to share with you 5 different practical ways that you can practice gratitude.

It radically changed my life that's why I'm sharing this with you. 

I promise you things will change, your life will change, it's amazing! 

Please let me know down below which one you're gonna try first? 

If there's one you already do, tell me about it and share one that you have that I didn't share. 

There's plenty more that I didn't get to. I would love to hear what you do because I always love to improve my gratitude game!

Would you like to know about something that absolutely changed your life?

Because I can tell you! It is amazing, free and it is easy if you make the decision to do it!

Practice this 1 simple habit daily, and you will see a huge difference in your life! 🙏

Have you ever been so heartbroken and devastated that you didn't think you could keep living?

I know I experienced that and it is so brutal.

Amid my heartache, I learned valuable tips and tools to help me get through the pain.

I now help others step out of the pain and into a life they love.

I help people daily Design Their Dream Life.

As a coach, I offer several opportunities to work with me.

I have various levels of courses, check out the link and see which one is right for you!

I remember the desperation, hurt, and heartache that I felt during and after my divorce.

But, I have good news.

Divorce is the end of one relationship but it is the BEGINNING of many, many, many new things.

I held on for way too long to a BAD relationship because I thought I could not ever love another person.

I was WRONG! 

Check out this video to receive hope and good news. ✨

Do you wake up mad? 

Frustrated? 

Thinking about all the problems from yesterday, last week, last month, etc?

If this happens to you, I can help!

Here are helpful hints that will get your day started off right! ☀️

Today, I tell my story about this simple "thing" that changed my life.

It was a transformational journey. 

It is shocking that "this thing" literally changed and transformed my life. 

And, it can change and transform yours as well.  

I can show you how.

In today's episode, I'm going to tell you some things to do to get past that divorce you didn't want.

Have you been married for decades and ended up divorcing? 

You didn't want it and you're now in the middle of a life you didn't ever think that you would be in. 

Thought you'd be married forever and happily ever after?

Do you believe that you create the world you live in? 

Well, I want to share with you something I read just a few minutes ago from the book by Dr. Joe Dispenza breaking the habit of being yourself.

Happy listening! 

Are you experiencing heartbreak?

Have you gone through a hard, awful, or even unbelievable time?

I share a different perspective with you in today's episode.

Today, I'm going to tell you seven ways to move forward after a breakup or a divorce that will help you press on and get on with your life!

Have you experienced betrayal?

Been cheated on?

Is the spouse unfaithful?

There is trauma after the discovery of an affair.

So many feelings, pains, hurts, and wondering what to do next! 

I can help you! 

Let’s chat.

Are you wondering who the narcissist targets? 

Have you been involved with one? 

Well, I'm gonna tell you in today's episode.

Are you with a narcissist and you're wondering what happened?

How did they turn out this way?

Well, I have a few theories to share, one hits home more than the other and so I want to share that with you today.

Do you ask questions over and over hoping for a NEW Answer?

A different answer?

A different outcome?

If you do, listen to today's episode.

I have opinions and thoughts about this!

I share those with you here.

What are your thoughts?

Have you experienced this before?

Do you wonder why things happen for other people and not for you?

Does Jealousy cloud your vision?

How do you respond when other people get what you want?

Listen to hear the good news. If they got it, you can have it too!

Let’s journey together as you walk out and away from the heartbreak of a devastating divorce or long-term relationship into your very best life!

I teach and show people every day how to Design Their Dream Life and Create A Life They Love.

I would love to walk with you and show you how to do the same.

Are you ready to make the Rest of Your Life,  The Best of Your Life?

Every single thing that's happened to you is to bring you right to where you are today. 

You've learned wisdom, you've gained gifts, skills and it all happened for a reason. 

It doesn't make sense, but if you look at it, and ask yourself... what did that situation, problem, or that thing that I didn't like... 

What gift did it bring me? How will it help me to reach my most ambitious goals? I guarantee you... if you look, you will find.

I'm here today to tell you how you can begin to make a change. 

Take a step from where you are, into where you need to be, where you want to be. 

So my questions for you are...are you ready for a change? 

Are you ready to make new goals? 

And are you ready to write a new chapter?

Do you believe that every single thing that's happened to you up to this point has happened for a reason? 

It happened to bring you a gift.

No Regrets.

Regret delivers no good gift.

It is a thief and robber.

Don't let regret rob you of one more moment of your life!

It will do you no good! It is time to let it go! 

I have such a strong opinion on this.

I lived through 3  (yes, stupid, I know)!

I will give you reasons why you do need or don't need the details. 

What do you think?

This is my story! Can you relate? 

Has life turned out like you thought it would?  

I know for me- I could have NEVER imagined what I would go through.  

I have been cheated on, abused, divorced, experienced the death of my 3rd son, and became an empty nester all of a sudden. 

Life surely did not deliver my Happily Ever After. 

But, what I have found out is... there is a life that can be happy EVEN after all these things life throws at you!

Has your marriage fallen apart? 

Did you try to hold on to a dead marriage for YEARS - I did!   

But, once I LET GO and FINALLY divorced, I NOW realize that it was for the BEST. 

That marriage would NEVER be the BEST thing for me.  

He was UNFAITHFUL and had no desire, to be honest, and make things work.  

Now that I am years past - I see how I was holding on to something that was NOT the best for me.  

Now my life is GREAT and I help other people get to the "other side" that there is LIFE AFTER DIVORCE. 

I can show you and help you live your very best life EVEN after you think yours has fallen apart!