Happy 2 Be Here

Happy 2 Be Here

By Kate

"Why are you happy to be here?"

My name's Kate, and I'm the host of the podcast, Happy 2 Be Here: the podcast about being in your 20s during the 2020s. Each episode features a guest and a unique set of topics. We discuss anything and everything from dating to pop culture to astrology to late-stage capitalism. It's the podcast that makes you feel like you're part of the conversation–whether you're listening on your commute, cooking in your kitchen, or distracting yourself from the Sunday Scaries.

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S4E11 Bringing History into Today with Julia Martins

Happy 2 Be Here Feb 23, 2023
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S6E20 What Makes Something Scary?
Apr 17, 202532:42
S6E19 ZINES, ZINES, ZINES! FEAT. MAIRA

S6E19 ZINES, ZINES, ZINES! FEAT. MAIRA

This week on H2BH, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me! They're the host of the podcast, Long Arm Stapler, an artist, a zine maker, and they're happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Maira!


We discuss how Maira got into zines, the favorite zines they've made, how zines are a unique art form, and how they can be a way to organize/spread information. We also discuss podcasting, the importance of community, and how these topics intersect. Tune in!

Apr 03, 202540:51
S6E18 PETE THE CAT FAN CLUB FEAT. CLAIRE B.

S6E18 PETE THE CAT FAN CLUB FEAT. CLAIRE B.

On this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest on the show. She's a Cancer sun, a teen librarian, a light in my life, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Claire!


This week, we're discussing librarianship: working with kids vs. teens, why libraries are important now more than ever, and our role as librarians during this time. We will also rank famous children's book characters in a meme chart ranging from lawful good to chaotic evil. Tune in!

Mar 27, 202551:31
S6E17 THE 4-YEAR ANNIVERSARY EPISODE

S6E17 THE 4-YEAR ANNIVERSARY EPISODE

*Spongebob Narrator Voice*

4 YEARS LATER...


Welcome to the 4-year anniversary episode of my podcast, Happy 2 Be Here! In this episode, I reflect on my journey with the podcast and the growth I've made over the past four years. This episode also features a special segment: Which well-known TV characters would have a good podcast, and would I tune in? I'll go through characters like Sue Sylvester and Phil Dunphy and share my thoughts.


Thank you to all the guests who have been on my show, it's always a pleasure. You have helped make the show what it is! A special thank you to my listeners. You are all so special to me. I am happy to be here with all of you.

Mar 19, 202539:07
S6E16 AND THE OSCAR GOES TO... FEAT. DAVITA JO

S6E16 AND THE OSCAR GOES TO... FEAT. DAVITA JO

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful returning guest on the show with me. She's the host of The Quarter Life Happy Hour podcast, a Virgo, she's one of my besties, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Davita!


This week we're talking all about the Oscars! We share our predictions for who we think will win, some films we feel should have been nominated this year, and our favorite Oscar-nominated films from this year. Tune in!

Feb 27, 202553:21
S6E15 WHY WE SHOULD PARTY MORE FEAT. MACKENZIE

S6E15 WHY WE SHOULD PARTY MORE FEAT. MACKENZIE

For this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest back on the show with me. She's a libra, one of my very best friends, a self-proclaimed certified yapper, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Mackenzie!


In this episode, we're covering a lot of ground. We discuss logging off social media & knowing when to step back, saying fuck you to "body trends" & social media algorithms pushing said "body trends," weight lifting, and why we should party more. We also envision our ideal night out from the pregame to the last bar of the night. Tune in!

Feb 20, 202541:26
S6E14 THE ROM COM EPISODE

S6E14 THE ROM COM EPISODE

This week it's Valentine's Day. So this week it's all about rom coms. I'll be discussing what sets a rom com apart from a comedy movie and a romance movie.

I am avid lover/watcher of rom coms, so I thought I'd put my knowledge up to the test. I will be placing various rom coms into the following categories: lawful good, neutral good, chaotic good, lawful neutral, true neutral, chaotic neutral, lawful evil, neutral evil, and chaotic evil. Join me for an episode of v-day fun!

Feb 13, 202542:55
S6E13 GRAMMYS: WHO WILL WIN? FEAT. RAY

S6E13 GRAMMYS: WHO WILL WIN? FEAT. RAY

This week, I have a wonderful returning guest joining me. They are a consultant, a pop music enthusiast, a true delight, and they're happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Ray!


This episode is all about the Grammys! We will be discussing Grammy snubs in the past, criteria for nominations, and who we think will win. Will Charli go spring breakers? Will there be a Chappell sweep? Tune in to hear what we think!

Jan 30, 202555:38
S6E12 WHY I DELETED TIKTOK

S6E12 WHY I DELETED TIKTOK

On this episode, I am diving into the reasons I decided to delete the app on everybody's mind: TikTok. While my account is still up (as a personal digital archive of my 20s), I decided to remove myself from participating and viewing any more content. From the overload of ads to algorithms, I go on a deep dive into how TikTok's content has changed for me and others.

Since the personal is political, I also discuss the U.S. government's attempts to censor TikTok, limit free speech, and how censorship can be a slippery slope.

Whether you're on the fence about deleting the app or maybe you want to hear about the changes in TikTok since its creation, tune in for a one-on-one with me.

Jan 23, 202535:19
S6E11 THE DOWNFALL OF STARBUCKS FEAT. ALLIE

S6E11 THE DOWNFALL OF STARBUCKS FEAT. ALLIE

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful returning guest! She's a light in my life, a former barista, a law student, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Allie!


For this week, we're talking about the downfall of Starbucks. From spicy refreshers to switching CEOs in a little over a year to attempting boba, Starbucks has been flailing. As former baristas, we have something to say about it! We'll be discussing their flopped drinks, the most underrated drinks, what we think the future of Starbucks holds, and more. Tune in!

Jan 16, 202557:05
S6E10 TOP READS OF 2024 & MORE FEAT. HANNAH

S6E10 TOP READS OF 2024 & MORE FEAT. HANNAH

On this week's episode, I am joined on the show by a lovely new guest. She works with me at the library, she's an avid reader, a true delight, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Hannah!


This week we are discussing our top 5 reads of 2024. We're also sharing books we were disappointed in that came out last year. Looking ahead, we're sharing books we're looking forward to reading this year. Grab your TBR and tune in!

Jan 09, 202547:36
S6E9 MAKE THE YULETIDE GAY FEAT. NATHAN

S6E9 MAKE THE YULETIDE GAY FEAT. NATHAN

On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest joining me on the show. They are full of queer joy, always making me laugh, had a brief stint as a reality TV star, and they're happy to be here! Welcome to the show, Nathan.


We are discussing all things Christmas and Reality TV: Nathan's appearance on a reality TV show, Milf Manor, The Ultimatum, and more! This episode also features a new segment: Gay or Nay. We guess the sexualities of your beloved Christmas characters like the Grinch, Hermey, the conductor from Polar Express, and more. Tune in!

Dec 26, 202449:46
S6E8 A WICKED CHRISTMAS FEAT. DAVITA JO

S6E8 A WICKED CHRISTMAS FEAT. DAVITA JO

On this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest joining me on the pod. She's the host of The Quarter Life Happy Hour, she's a virgo, a pop culture queen, and she's happy to be here! Welcome back to the show, Davita. 


This week we're talking about Wicked: Arianna Grande's performance, who will take home the awards this year, and our overall thoughts. We're also discussing Sabrina Carpenter's Christmas Special, the end of the Eras Tour, and more! Tune in! 

Dec 19, 202439:10
S6E7 HAPPY HOLIGAYS FEAT. PIPER

S6E7 HAPPY HOLIGAYS FEAT. PIPER

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful returning guest back on the show! They’re a Gemini, host of the podcast, Queers These Days, a fellow lesbian, and they’re happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Piper!”


This week we're talking gay holiday movies. Topics discussed include: Is Carol a Christmas movie? Why do Kristen Stewart and Aubrey Plaza not end up together in Happiest Season? This episode also features a live Tarot Card reading from Piper. Tune in!

Dec 12, 202449:22
S6E6 THE BLEAK LANDSCAPE OF POLITICS AND DATING FEAT. FRANCES

S6E6 THE BLEAK LANDSCAPE OF POLITICS AND DATING FEAT. FRANCES

On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest. She works with me at the library, she always makes me laugh, and she's happy to be here! Welcome to the show, Frances!


This week we're discussing the bleak political landscape post election and how we're still holding onto hope. On the other hand, we also discuss the bleak landscape of dating, the absence of casual dating, and more. Tune in!

Dec 05, 202450:39
S6E5 TOP MOVIES OF 2024 WITH MILA LA MORENA

S6E5 TOP MOVIES OF 2024 WITH MILA LA MORENA

On this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest on the show! They're a Sagittarius, full of queer joy, a musical artist, and they're happy to be here! Welcome back to the show, Mila La Lorena.


For this episode, we're talking movies: top movies of 2024, movies we feel should be a part of the queer canon, movies with queer characters we love, and more! Tune in.

Nov 21, 202445:03
S6E4 ICONIC POP STAR FLOP ERAS FEAT. RAY

S6E4 ICONIC POP STAR FLOP ERAS FEAT. RAY

For this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest. They are a consultant, they make me laugh, and they're always ready to talk pop culture. Welcome to the show, Ray!


This week we're discussing iconic pop star flop eras: Pop stars who have had album(s) that didn't quite hit the mark. But that led to some iconic moments. We're talking about everyone from Katy Perry to Jennifer Lopez. Tune in!

Nov 14, 202444:54
S6E3 THE HALLOWEEN EPISODE FEAT. MADELINE

S6E3 THE HALLOWEEN EPISODE FEAT. MADELINE

On this week's spooky episode, we have a brand new guest joining me on the show. They're creative, talented, a bundle of queer joy, and they're happy to be here! Welcome to the show, Madeline.


This week we're discussing The Substance, Barbarian, and other horror movie favs. We also share our worst and best Halloween costumes, from dressing up as a beaver to Shego. Tune in, if you dare.

Oct 31, 202449:31
S6E2 LET'S SWEAT FEAT. KAYLA

S6E2 LET'S SWEAT FEAT. KAYLA

On this week's episode, we have a fan favorite returning to the show. She's a Virgo, a student, never afraid to speak her mind, and she's happy to be here! Welcome back to the show, Kayla!


This week we're discussing the SWEAT TOUR, ranking our favs on Charli's new remix album (and our least favs), why concerts are so expensive (that's lame), and more. Tune in!

Oct 24, 202445:57
S6E1 THE ERA OF THE POP GIRL FEAT. HANNA C.

S6E1 THE ERA OF THE POP GIRL FEAT. HANNA C.

Welcome to Season 6! Starting off this season with a lovely returning guest. She's a gemini, an archivist, and a pop music connoisseur. Welcome back to the show, Hanna!

This week we're discussing the era of the pop girl: how pop stars like Charli XCX and Chappell Roan have risen to mainstream fame so quickly and face higher expectations and standards. We also discuss parasocial relationships, reading at concerts, and more. Tune in!

Oct 17, 202445:23
It's Brat Summer feat. Claire

It's Brat Summer feat. Claire

It's Brat Summer and it's a new special episode of Happy 2 Be Here. . . with a new special guest. She's a Pisces, she's an icon, a good friend of mine for many years, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Claire! Tune in for all things BRAT: Brat explained, favorite tracks, pop culture duos that we think should work it out on the remix, and more.


SEASON 6 COMING THIS FALL

Jul 18, 202445:20
S5E24 "Go Women!" feat. Brie

S5E24 "Go Women!" feat. Brie

On this season finale, I am joined by a wonderful new guest. She's a college student, an athlete, a Taurus, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Brie! Brie shares her experience as a woman in STEM, and we discuss how women are treated differently in sports, STEM, and in life. We also discuss tattoos, moving back in with your parents, and more. Tune in!

Apr 06, 202453:18
S5E23 Be You, Do You with Sam Castle
Mar 30, 202438:52
S5E22 Happy 2 Be Librarians with Claire

S5E22 Happy 2 Be Librarians with Claire

On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest joining me on the show! We went to graduate school together, and she is a lovely children's librarian. She's also a cancer sun sign, a baddie, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Claire!

We discuss transitioning from grad school to full time work, the lack of 3rd spaces, what we love about being children's librarians, shortcomings of capitalism, and more. Tune in!

Mar 16, 202439:05
S5E21 Queer Happy Ever Afters feat. Dana Hawkins
Mar 09, 202440:09
S5E20 Healing Through Seduction with Perle Noire
Mar 02, 202437:49
S5E19 Painting Bold Strokes with Anjl Rodee
Feb 24, 202439:21
S5E18 Having Conversation Hearts with Davita

S5E18 Having Conversation Hearts with Davita

On this week's episode, I am joined by the one and only, Davita Jo. She's an icon, host of the podcast The Quarter Life Happy Hour, a red-haired beauty, the Virgo to my Libra, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Dav! This week we're talking about Valentine's Day: social media posting, straight & queer couples celebrating the holiday, the importance of female friendships, and more. We also discuss Taylor's upcoming album, getting proposed to on holidays (yay or nay), Instagram accounts for babies, and more. Tune in!


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Feb 17, 202444:04
S5E17 Booktalking feat. Hanna

S5E17 Booktalking feat. Hanna

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me. She's an archivist, an avid book reader, a Gemini, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Hanna!

This week we're talking about our top 3 books of 2023, 4 books we're excited for in 2024, romance tropes in novels, and more. Tune in!

Feb 03, 202457:14
S5E16 Regina George is Gay with Piper

S5E16 Regina George is Gay with Piper

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful returning guest on the show with me. They're a Gemini sun, host of the podcast, Queers These Days, a fellow lesbian, and they're happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Piper!

This week we're wearing pink and talking all about Mean Girls (2024): Regina George being a lesbian, intense homoerotic-competitive friendships in cinema, changes in the new movie, and more. We also guess Regina's astrological chart and other main character's charts in the film. Tune in!

Jan 27, 202451:18
S5E15 Hotties and Astrologies with Jules

S5E15 Hotties and Astrologies with Jules

On this week, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me! She's a Virgo sun, a model, an icon, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Jules! This week we're talking all about astrology: how the different element signs interact, which signs have the best & worst pr, underrated signs, getting your palms read, and more. Tune in!

Jan 20, 202450:30
S5E14 Talking Taboo with Gem Campbell
Jan 13, 202443:27
S5E13 Navigating Labels & Your 20s with Mackenzie B.

S5E13 Navigating Labels & Your 20s with Mackenzie B.

On this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest on the show. She's a Virgo, an Insta baddie, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Mackenzie! Mackenzie shares her experience navigating labels and her experience with the label asexuality.

We also discuss changing/growing identities in your 20s, growth, people asking probing questions about your sexuality, fumbling through your 20s, navigating adult life, and more. Tune in!

Jan 06, 202441:43
S5E12 Your 2023 Wrapped feat. Allie

S5E12 Your 2023 Wrapped feat. Allie

On this episode, I have a lovely returning guest on the show with me. She’s a a Taurus, a soon-to-be college grad, a hottie, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome back to the show Allie! This week we’re talking NYE: being in a couple vs. being single, where does it rank among other holidays, is NYE a romantic holiday, and more!

It's time for a 2023 pop culture wrap up! We're talking about celebrity couples this year, Beyoncé, Taylor Swift, Gwyneth Paltrow getting sued, and more. Tune in!

Happy New Year <3

Dec 30, 202338:31
S5E11 Trailblazers and Trendsetters: Queer Icons feat. Cairo Ali
Dec 17, 202301:00:39
S5E10 Spreading the Word with Lexy Silverstein
Dec 09, 202348:54
S5E9 Who's Laughing Now? feat. Davita Jo

S5E9 Who's Laughing Now? feat. Davita Jo

On this week's episode, I am joined by the one and only Davita Jo! She's a Virgo, host of the podcast The Quarter Life Happy Hour/podcast baddie, one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about Matt Rife, punching down comedy, the impact of jokes about yourself vs. jokes about someone else, identity & comedy, and more. Tune in!

Dec 02, 202347:10
S5E8 Queer Creativity feat. Syd
Nov 18, 202345:18
S5E7 Lesbian Love Story feat. Amelia Possanza
Nov 11, 202353:37
S5E6 From Breakups to Situationships to Healing feat. Cely
Nov 04, 202301:12:34
S5E5 In My 100th Episode Era feat. Davita Jo

S5E5 In My 100th Episode Era feat. Davita Jo

It's the 100th episode!!!!!!! Who else would I have on for the 100th episode other than Davita Jo. She's the host of the podcast, The Quarter Life Happy Hour, she's one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. As we reflect on 100 episodes, Davita and I discuss our growth as podcasters and as people. We also discuss our different TS eras and what TS era we're in right now.

Big *HUGE* thank you to everyone who's listened or supported me & my show through the years. I appreciate it more than you know <3

Oct 28, 202352:42
S5E4 Love Bombing & Libra Season feat. Mackenzie

S5E4 Love Bombing & Libra Season feat. Mackenzie

On this week's episode, I have a returning guest on the show. She's a libra, a baddie, one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Mackenzie! This week we're talking relationships, dating, & love bombing: the different signs, financial vs. emotional love bombing, and our experiences with it. Tune in!

Oct 14, 202359:09
S5E3 Exploring Love & Gender with Gustavo David

S5E3 Exploring Love & Gender with Gustavo David

On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest on the show with me. He's an artist, an actor, the host of the podcast The Gustavo David Show, and she's happy to be here! Welcome to the show, David. This week we're talking about gender, liberation, labels: who are they for?, homophobia in the U.S. & Panama, and more. Tune in!

Oct 07, 202348:58
S5E2 The Meaning of Being a Lesbian feat. Piper

S5E2 The Meaning of Being a Lesbian feat. Piper

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful guest returning from S4: They're a lesbian, a Gemini, the host of the podcast Queers These Days, and they're happy to be here! Welcome back to the show, Piper. We're talking all things lesbian: what it means to be a lesbian, early encounters with lesbianism, lesbian visibility, and our picks on our ultimate lesbian playlist. Tune in!

Sep 30, 202356:39
S5E1 Controversial Yet Brave feat. Kayla

S5E1 Controversial Yet Brave feat. Kayla

It's season 5!!!! My name's Kate and I'm truly happy to be back recording for you. For this season premiere, I have a lovely returning guest on the show with me. She's queer, a Virgo, always speaking her mind, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show Kayla! We're here to talk about incels, patriarchy, de-centering men and marriage, women who hate other women, and more. Tune in!

Sep 23, 202355:20
S4E25 The Finale: "With endings come new beginnings"
Jun 22, 202352:37
S4E24 Kate's Korner: Happy to Be Here & Queer

S4E24 Kate's Korner: Happy to Be Here & Queer

This week's episode is another segment of Kate's Korner. On these solo episodes, I talk about topics I don't always get to cover with my guests and I talk about what's on my mind right now. It's pride month, and I wanted to talk about everything happening right now in the LGBTQIA+ community. While I love glitter, rainbows, and gay bars, pride month is also about recognizing queer pain and the struggles we're going through as a community and individually. I discuss the rise of anti-trans and homophobic legislation in the United States and countries like Uganda. I also discuss the importance of queer friendships and being in queer spaces that accept and support you. During pride month, I also find myself reflecting on my past, so I share parts of my coming out journey. Tune in!

Jun 15, 202325:19
S4E23 "The Ultimatum: Queer Love" Ep. 5-8 Recap

S4E23 "The Ultimatum: Queer Love" Ep. 5-8 Recap

Something new is happening this week on HTBH!!! My podcast confidant and the host of the Quarter Life Happy Hour, Davita Jo, collaborated for a special two-part episode recapping Netflix's newest messiest reality dating series, "The Ultimatum: Queer Love." Check out the first episode on Davita's show for a recap of episodes 1-4. On this episode, we'll be discussing the new couples, all the drama that's ensued, who we think will end up with who, guessing each contestant's zodiac sign, and more! We'll also be discussing topics like sapphic dating, gender identity, avoidant personalities, and more.

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Jun 08, 202301:15:37
S4E22 *Just Nonbinary Lesbian Things* with Piper

S4E22 *Just Nonbinary Lesbian Things* with Piper

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me. They're a nonbinary lesbian, a Gemini, the host of the podcast, Queers These Days, and they're happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Piper! Piper shares their journey coming out *twice*, discovering their identities, and more. We also discuss our experiences as nonbinary lesbians, gender presentation, families and coming out, and more. Tune in for an authentic conversation about identity and being your authentic self.

Jun 01, 202348:34
S4E21 Seeing Ourselves and Being Seen with Christina Carlson
May 25, 202347:41