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Figuring Life Out Together, a haven together podcast

Figuring Life Out Together, a haven together podcast

By Tom Anderson

Everyone has a story. We find them and tell them so we can figure this life out together. Visit us at haventogether.com
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Figuring Life Out Together, a haven together podcast Oct 10, 2021

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Overcoming bipolar disorder and depression

Overcoming bipolar disorder and depression

Real life story: coping with and overcoming bipolar disorder and the related depression. Hear how Martina eventually beat bipolar. After a long and difficult struggle, she found what made the difference. Connect: tom@haventogether.com

Nov 25, 202330:32
Finding the one

Finding the one

Is there a one for you? How do you find the one? We investigate the finding of a life partner and the idea that there might be one path for each person. Do we find love or does love find us? How do you talk to someone you might be interested in?What do you think?Connect at haventogether.com

Nov 11, 202325:58
Staying true to the vision

Staying true to the vision

Do you have a vision for your life? Have you drifted from it?
Sep 13, 202304:09
What to do when you’re under an authority you disagree with

What to do when you’re under an authority you disagree with

Encouragement from Exodus chapter 1.
Sep 06, 202304:04
Opinions of others

Opinions of others

Whose opinion matters. How to form correct opinions.
Sep 05, 202303:16
Feel like an outsider?

Feel like an outsider?

When you feel like you don’t belong.
Sep 04, 202307:03
Unexpectedly good news
Aug 28, 202305:06
When you don’t get what you ask for

When you don’t get what you ask for

The power of persistent asking. Daily devotion from Matthew 15:21-28.
Aug 27, 202304:21
When things aren’t as they first appear

When things aren’t as they first appear

If you’ve been tricked. Wisdom for making decisions. Proverbs 14:12-16
Aug 26, 202302:49
How God leads us

How God leads us

Don’t feel like going? Like sharing your faith? Romans 10:5-15
Aug 25, 202304:37
When your dreams feel a long way off

When your dreams feel a long way off

Seeing God’s bigger perspective. Psalm 105
Aug 24, 202304:01
When others do us harm.

When others do us harm.

Why the actions of others may hurt us but do not have the final say in the story. Genesis‬ ‭37‬:‭1‬-‭4‬, ‭12‬-‭28‬ ‭
Aug 23, 202305:50
Rushing in? Or delaying too much?

Rushing in? Or delaying too much?

A reflection on how to balance spontaneity and initiative with commitment to what you know needs to be done.
Aug 22, 202303:33
Supporting someone with a mental illness 🧠

Supporting someone with a mental illness 🧠

Mental illness affects everyone around you and the impact of someone close to you suffering from a mental illness cannot be understated. How do you know if someone has a mental illness? How do you help and support someone struggling with mental health? Caitlin shares her journey with having her father diagnosed with a mental illness fifteen years ago. Say hi by visiting haventogether.com

Aug 22, 202329:12
Wisely choosing who we listen to

Wisely choosing who we listen to

Wisdom from Proverbs 14:1-10
Aug 18, 202302:45
What can you learn from your heritage?

What can you learn from your heritage?

A reflective guide through Romans 9:1-5.
Aug 17, 202303:22
When you’re troubled by what you see in the world

When you’re troubled by what you see in the world

A guided reflection on Psalm 17:1-7, 15.
Aug 16, 202303:37
When everything else is gone, what’s left? An encouragement to keep going.
Aug 15, 202305:32
Interruptions when you just want to be alone. A 4 minute devotional podcast.
Aug 14, 202303:57
Be HAPPY with a simpler life without LIMITATIONS!

Be HAPPY with a simpler life without LIMITATIONS!

Don't be limited by your finances! Learn priceless tips on how be content with little... or much. Kerrie Price shares how the simple life can be attained regardless of your financial situation. See an example of finding happiness in a simple outlook on life. Connect: haventogether.com

Jul 15, 202328:34
New Dreams: finding a new identity after achieving my sporting dream

New Dreams: finding a new identity after achieving my sporting dream

Cricketer Mitchell Weatherhead shares why he identifies with Rusty in the Bluey episode "Cricket". He looks back on his cricket dream now that he's left the game and shares how he is transitioning into a new season with new dreams.

Jun 18, 202330:43
GET THROUGH Cancer.

GET THROUGH Cancer.

Loren shares what got her through a her cancer battle. Newly married, with the best of life ahead of her, this unexpected diagnosis rocked her world. Loren shares what helped her overcome one of the toughest physical, mental and emotional battles anyone can go through. Further encouragement: haventogether.com

May 30, 202327:23
Preview: When our health seems out of our control

Preview: When our health seems out of our control

A preview of our upcoming episode, released a few days later than normal, early next week.

May 25, 202300:22
How I turned my life around - coming back from drug addiction

How I turned my life around - coming back from drug addiction

Ziek shares how he came back from the darkest place, overcame his drug addiction and found a way back to a life with meaning. #drugsipswich #overcomingdrugs #suicideprevention Visit us at haventogether.com

May 13, 202321:41
What to do when you Lose your Job

What to do when you Lose your Job

Lost your job? There is hope. Hear what John did when he lost his job at age 50. Unemployment and being on the dole wasn't the end... rather it was the beginning of amazing new adventures. Connect: haventogether.com

Apr 29, 202329:45
Why I don't despair for the future generations

Why I don't despair for the future generations

The behaviour of young people seems to be getting worse... but Ros has hope, and is doing something about it. Here how an everyday person with a heart of compassion is changing the next generation, one young person at a time.

Apr 15, 202326:56
Still struggling with your past? It's time to move on from your past mistakes

Still struggling with your past? It's time to move on from your past mistakes

Don't let your past mistakes hold you back. Hear Richard's story of how he has been able to overcome his past and turn his life around 180 degrees.

Apr 05, 202322:47
Why reaching your potential is not what you think

Why reaching your potential is not what you think

We all want to be the best version of ourselves that we can be... but the common understanding of what that means is leaving us frustrated, and worse. What is your potential, and how do you know if you've reached it? We talk with Noel Woodward about what it means to really reach your potential, and to help others do the same.

Mar 26, 202337:14
How to make friends with anyone!

How to make friends with anyone!

Make friends with anyone: richer, poorer, older, younger, different beliefs, different gender, your boss... these insights show you how to get along with anyone. See people differently. This is the figuring out life together podcast and in this episode we speak to Portia Risson about what she's learnt about getting along with people through her varied experiences in people-orientated work and hobby environments.

Mar 11, 202334:27
How I escaped drug addiction

How I escaped drug addiction

The very raw story of how I escaped my addiction to hard drugs. I was so broken, but my darkest moment lead to finding hope in an unexpected place.

Nov 20, 202223:13
How could a good God allow so much suffering?

How could a good God allow so much suffering?

Interview with a police chaplain about why he still believes in God after witnessing so much suffering and tragedy.

Nov 05, 202241:57
What people get wrong about forgiveness

What people get wrong about forgiveness

Des shares his personal journey with forgiveness and explains why most people don't understand what forgiveness really is.

Connect with us: haventogether.com


Andrew Corbett's videos on forgiveness (referenced by Des):

 Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KofRQJw_E04 

Part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8CrHeHDbrY 

Part 3: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9eaUZNh-aLU 

Part 4: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0EpEdEGi4A  

Testimonies: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GlYrechFAGc 

Oct 19, 202243:51
Outside the Normal

Outside the Normal

Events outside the normal- Peter tells his story of unusual events that changed his life.  Contact us via www.haventogether.com or email us, havenontheinternet@gmail.com

Sep 17, 202252:38
How to learn from life's experiences

How to learn from life's experiences

How do you learn from your experiences? How do you grow wiser with time? We talk with Darren Bennett, author of The Classroom Called Life about attitudes and activities to help you get the most out of life. Connect at haventogether.com. Watch on YouTube- search from the Haven Together channel. Darren's books are available at darrenbennett.com.au

Aug 20, 202243:05
One skill that will transform your struggling relationships

One skill that will transform your struggling relationships

If you've got a struggling relationship, don't give up! Begin to turn it around by perfecting the number 1 relationship skill.


Connect at haventogether.com

Aug 06, 202220:41
Living life to the full with cerebral palsy.

Living life to the full with cerebral palsy.

Evan has cereal palsy and limited control over the righthand side of his body. Yet this hasn't stopped him from aiming high and overcoming obstacles to achieve what many said he couldn't.

Jul 23, 202227:60
How to get started with exercise

How to get started with exercise

How to get started with exercise with GP Nyree Swan. Learn how to start and stick at an exercise routine you enjoy.

Jul 09, 202226:05
The problem of evil

The problem of evil

An exploration on evil. Defining evil, evidence of evil and how a good God could allow evil. Matt and Tom discuss what evil is and how God could allow suffering?  The figuring out life together podcast. Connect further at www.haventogether.com

Jun 25, 202256:10
Why Sue cares about people in prison

Why Sue cares about people in prison

Sue recently decided to visit people in jail as a prison chaplain. Hear why she does it and consider the question of why we should care about broken people.  Connect further via haventogether.com

Jun 11, 202231:31
When life doesn't go to plan

When life doesn't go to plan

How do we make big life decisions? How do we cope when things don't work out the way we hope? Dee Sanni shares how facing very real challenges have led her to finding peace and fulfilment. 

Connect at haven together.com

Jun 04, 202240:48
Personal Growth - Luke Williams

Personal Growth - Luke Williams

What does it take to grow as people? What holds us back from reaching out potential? We talk with Luke Williams about what he's learnt about living life well. Share your thoughts and questions below!   #personalgrowth #lifechange #reachingmypotential

May 21, 202233:02
How to support someone through a crisis

How to support someone through a crisis

Know someone going through a difficult time and don't know what to do? We talk with Jacqui about how and why she helps others in the community. Be inspired! Connect further at haventogether.com

Apr 24, 202225:20
Discussing the relavence of traditions today

Discussing the relavence of traditions today

Tom interviews Travis about his experiences with digging into traditions from the past and how these have helped Him experience God in a real way. #Easter #Lent

Apr 15, 202228:36
Finding purpose with Stephen Anderson

Finding purpose with Stephen Anderson

What to do when life lacks purpose? Find your purpose even in the everyday. Exploring what gives life meaning.  Connect below in the comments or via www.haventogether.com

Apr 10, 202235:56
Life change with Andrew Antoniolli

Life change with Andrew Antoniolli

See change in your life. In our first episode of the together podcast, we interview Andrew Antoniolli, and discuss purpose in suffering and the appearance of life change verse actual wholeness.

Apr 03, 202231:07
What is misinformation really? And why so dangerous?

What is misinformation really? And why so dangerous?

There's a lot of talk about misinformation at the moment. What is it really and who decides? 

Feb 03, 202218:20
Does God exist?

Does God exist?

Rach and Tom discuss the existence of God and Rach shares why she is 100% certain God does exist.

Dec 12, 202138:26
How to get good at running

How to get good at running

Rach asks Tom about his running and how he got into it. Tom shares how he went from finding it very difficult to loving it. Rach talks about her attempts to go from couch to 5km.

Dec 05, 202133:14
What would happen if we stopped giving gifts at Christmas?

What would happen if we stopped giving gifts at Christmas?

Tom asks Rach about gift giving in a discussion that covers the importance of traditions, showing love through gifts and telling our kids the truth about Santa Claus. 

Nov 28, 202123:18
Considering eternity

Considering eternity

Rach and Tom go deep and discuss how our beliefs about eternity affect our lives today.

Nov 21, 202135:04