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Hey Babe, I'm Queer!?

Hey Babe, I'm Queer!?

By Alison Jamison Coaching

This is a podcast about coming out in a heteronormative (presenting) relationship--even after ten years of marriage. Hi! We're Alison & Tanner and we've known each other for quite a while (14 & 17 when we met, then lived our separate lives before we got back together... we digress). We had been married about a decade before we came out to each other as anything but the CisHet couple we presented to the world--and each other! Come join us for some queer conversation (& laughs) and see how satisfying it is to be authentic with the folks that matter most in your life.
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HBIQ 028 - The Case for Coming Out

Hey Babe, I'm Queer!?Jun 30, 2022

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Jul 07, 202201:25
HBIQ 028 - The Case for Coming Out
Jun 30, 202213:54
HBIQ 027 - How to have Better Conversations
Jun 23, 202216:08
HBIQ 026 Confidently Queer - Conquering Your Imposter Syndrome for PRIDE
Jun 16, 202221:20
May Mini 04 - Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
May 26, 202205:21
May Mini 03 - Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy
May 19, 202204:48
May Mini 02 - Stepping off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life
May 12, 202205:55
HBIQ - May Mini 01 - Untamed
May 05, 202213:44
024 - Go Bananas
Apr 28, 202209:36
HBIQ 024 - The Only Guarantee
Apr 14, 202213:28
HBIQ 023 - Relationship Lessons from a Little Black Dress

HBIQ 023 - Relationship Lessons from a Little Black Dress

Join Alison as she shares the lessons she's learned in her first slow fashion challenge and how failure isn't a moral failing.

To learn more about the 100 day dress challenge you can visit: https://journal.wooland.com/post/2020/5/1/100-day-dress-challenge

If you are ready to embrace your queeriosity and up-level your relationship -  I want to invite you to reach out for a coffee date consultation, where you’re going to get clear on what you want and the steps you need to take to get there.

If we’re a fit and you want help making your relationship dreams a reality - I’ll let you know how I can best support you. It’s risk free.  You’ll either leave with a plan of action or my 1:1 on-going support as you embrace your identity and re-create the relationship of your deepest desires.

Head to: alisonjamison.com/coffeedate

Apr 07, 202210:06
HBIQ 022 - Love Languages
Mar 24, 202232:28
HBIQ 021 - Committing to Decisions
Mar 17, 202231:08
HBIQ 020 - Identity Sufficiency
Mar 10, 202220:07
HBIQ 019 - NRE (New Relationship Energy)
Mar 03, 202219:46
HBIQ 018 - Betrayal
Feb 24, 202217:35
HBIQ 017 - Expectations
Feb 17, 202220:22
HBIQ 016 - Getting Back Into The Groove

HBIQ 016 - Getting Back Into The Groove

This week we're getting back into the groove... of life and podcasting.

Feb 10, 202244:45
HBIQ 015 - We're Back... Well, Almost

HBIQ 015 - We're Back... Well, Almost

A quick update on the hiatus before we get back into regularly scheduled programming.
Feb 03, 202201:16
HBIQ 014 - Life Happens

HBIQ 014 - Life Happens

This week we take some time back for ourselves and our family.
Jan 06, 202203:55
An HBIQ Conversation With... Amanda Ferrat (HBIQ 013)
Dec 30, 202141:54
HBIQ 012 - Gender & Sexuality Galaxies

HBIQ 012 - Gender & Sexuality Galaxies

Why Galaxies? It's not a spectrum.

This week we share our labels, why we chose them, and how to find your own.

Gender & Sexuality Galaxies (PDF from Action Canada for Sexual Health and Rights)

The Kinsey Scale

Dec 23, 202125:56
HBIQ 011 - Finding Community

HBIQ 011 - Finding Community

On this week's episode we discuss how to dive into the queer community, a few reasons why you might want to, and creative ways to get started.
Dec 16, 202127:33
HBIQ 010 - (Bi)Sexual Revolution
Dec 09, 202132:55
HBIQ 009 - Interpretation Trap

HBIQ 009 - Interpretation Trap

This week we travel back in time and revisit our favorite fight and why it was happening. Then, we discuss how to stop falling into the conversational interpretation traps we set for ourselves.
Dec 02, 202132:55
HBIQ 008 - Processing Place

HBIQ 008 - Processing Place

This week we explore the four (4) options for experiencing feelings, why many of us resist emotions, and how to truly feel your feelings.

Nov 25, 202125:43
HBIQ 007 - Conversational Space

HBIQ 007 - Conversational Space

This week we share what Conversational Space is, the difference between listening and deep listening, and the questions that will help you uncover the true meaning of what anyone is saying.
Nov 18, 202121:12
HBIQ 006 - Conversational Safety
Nov 11, 202123:48
HBIQ 005 - Conversational Purpose

HBIQ 005 - Conversational Purpose

This week, we're digging into the PSSP Process, specifically Purpose.
We answer, "What is Conversational Purpose?" "Why is it important?" and "How do you find it?"
Nov 04, 202136:32
HBIQ 004 - Purpose, Safety, Space, Place

HBIQ 004 - Purpose, Safety, Space, Place

Four Ingredients to a "Better" Hard Conversation--Purpose, Safety, Space, and Place--and why those four elements help you craft your coming out conversation.
Oct 28, 202118:51
HBIQ 003 - The Conversation
Oct 21, 202147:54
HBIQ 002 - Our Love Story - Part 2 of 2

HBIQ 002 - Our Love Story - Part 2 of 2

The second part of Alison and Tanner remembering and retelling their love story from meeting in high school to becoming a married couple.

Oct 21, 202129:11
HBIQ 001 - Our Love Story - Part 1 of 2

HBIQ 001 - Our Love Story - Part 1 of 2

The first part of Alison and Tanner remembering and retelling their love story from meeting in high school to becoming a married couple.

Oct 21, 202126:06
HBIQ 000 - Introducing "Hey Babe, I'm Queer!?"

HBIQ 000 - Introducing "Hey Babe, I'm Queer!?"

Episode 1 will drop later this month!
Oct 06, 202101:19