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Healing Soul...with J

Healing Soul...with J

By Jionna Harmon

Healing Soul...with J is a podcast meant for self-reflection. I am a 25 year old black woman from Chicago, full of stories and room for growth. Tune on Wednesdays to hear about how life experiences show us that there are so many lessons to be learned and so much space for healing. I will be discussing some sensitive topics that can apply to everyone and how can you take the necessary steps to heal. Follow me on Instagram @HealingSoulwithJ
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Healing Soul...with JJan 29, 2021

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Unlocking the Ancient Secrets to Healing: Special Guest Gail Lynn

Unlocking the Ancient Secrets to Healing: Special Guest Gail Lynn

In 2007, at the age of 37, Gail Lynn
’s dream of making a difference in
the world was rudely shattered. The accumulated stress of two
challenging relationships and three extremely competitive careers in
the automotive, telecommunications, and film industries had
decimated her physical, emotional, and psychological reserves,
leaving her with a medical diagnosis of severe cardiovascular stress
and on the verge of an instant heart attack.
Determined to restore her health, Gail plunged into the world of
energy medicine. When a series of whole-body light and sound
treatments reversed her diagnosis, she set out to uncover both the
ancient history and modern science behind light and sound as healing
therapies. In this episode we unlock the conversation surrounding other options we have in order to promote healing.
Mar 06, 202438:22
Boundaries will always be there…

Boundaries will always be there…

In this weeks episode I take a dive into setting boundaries. It is not easy, but it is also very necessary in life. Self awareness of what you need to keep yourself safe is a learning curve. Being receptive to what others need can be hard, but to support our friends, family, lovers, and coworkers, it is our role to ensure acceptance of who they are, and who they have yet to become.
Feb 28, 202427:38
Rough Waters : Special Guest Heather Markham

Rough Waters : Special Guest Heather Markham

In this episode, we discuss the journey of standing and surviving. Taking the time to pivot and persevere. Finally, following the path of transfer to thrive. Healing is a part of life for many reasons, and for some, it is a cycle of pain, discomfort, grief, adaptability, acceptance, and growth. You are the driving force for your healing, and even if some things are out of your control, remember, you are not a burden. Let the rough waters pull you into the wave so that you can see there is peace, joy, pride, and strength once the wave breaks free.
Dec 20, 202301:02:11
Claim Your Swagger: Special Guest Jennifer Mrozek Sukalo

Claim Your Swagger: Special Guest Jennifer Mrozek Sukalo

In this episode we dig deeper into the art of owning your journey towards self-worth and developing a quality relationship with yourself. Unleashing your full potential takes time and of course it starts with you. Take this time to learn what SWAGGER really means as well as understanding the power of patience, practice, and perseverance. Remember you are the author to your own story and it is up to you to make your life more unique and purposeful by using your talents and appreciating your core values in order to share your passions with the world around you. Welcome to SWAGGERU where the journey starts with you.
Aug 23, 202353:03
A Cry for Help

A Cry for Help

A cry for help comes in different forms. It is not up to us to decide if someone is okay or not. As friends and good people in this world, it is important that we try our best to support those in need of emotional and mental support. Depression is a storm that can come in many forms and can appear different amongst all people no matter their race or lifestyle. Depression is not a choice or a way of life, it's a curse that affects more people than we know. In this episode, I speak about the need to seek the signs of a cry for help, and how we can self-evaluate for our own sanity.

Mar 29, 202321:38
Pressure

Pressure

The pressure we feel from others never translates well. Is it your choice or their choice to decide your fate? In this episode I discuss ignoring the pressure we feel from others and taking things at our pace. Your life is in your hands and so is your journey. Only you can decide when it's time for a change.
Jan 18, 202316:35
Falling From the Top

Falling From the Top

In this episode, I go into detail about recent trauma and how that can impact one's healing process. As people, we feel the need to have control over everything that has to do with our lives, until that control gets taken away. Healing can be out of the ordinary sometimes but with pain comes recovery. In this episode, I talk about trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel when you've fallen from the top.
Jan 11, 202319:23
Accountability for Thy Self

Accountability for Thy Self

Taking accountability for your own actions and setting those personal standards for yourself can be hard. It is important that that we take the time to make sure we are holding ourselves accountable so we can not only show up for ourselves but for others.
Oct 05, 202217:50
Have You Forgiven Yourself?

Have You Forgiven Yourself?

Self forgiveness sometimes is harder than forgiving someone who hurt you. Its time that you put your past decisions behind you and move forward to the now. Being able to forgive yourself for the wrongs or the traumas you’ve experienced is the key to self healing and peace. Join me as I speak through my journey with self forgiveness and call on to others to do the same.
Sep 21, 202218:30
I Did it For Me

I Did it For Me

In this episode I dive into the importance of taking a mental break. As people we forget about taking those breaks we need to keep going. Taking the time is not always easy but its a necessity.
Sep 07, 202213:57
The Art of Badassery: Unleash Your Mojo with Wisdom of The Dojo

The Art of Badassery: Unleash Your Mojo with Wisdom of The Dojo

Jennifer Cassetta is a nationally recognized keynote speaker, health and empowerment coach, and a 3rd-degree black belt in Hapkido. Jenn took an interest in martial arts training where she learned how to harness the power of mind, body, and spirit. The book is for any woman who's ever felt burned out, beaten down, or needs a reminder of how powerful she is. Jennifer teaches a unique brand of badassery--how to get back up no matter what life throws at you, how to level up your mind, body, and spirit; and how to turn your setbacks into secret weapons. Join me and Jennifer in a conversation about regaining that power and becoming the badass you're meant to be.
Aug 24, 202244:17
What Do You Want?

What Do You Want?

Not knowing what you want can be a hard journey for anyone, but being able to advocate your wants is a skill worth having. Communicating your wants and needs will help to support the self care you may have never experienced. Self love comes in spurts and being able to love yourself unconditionally by focusing on the wants in life you never expected you would have. Join me on this journey to figure out what is the end goal and what do you want in life.
Aug 17, 202212:23
It’s About Time

It’s About Time

Mental health awareness is taken for granted sometimes and its about time that changes. Focusing on getting help and utilizing resources is super important for us all. For those who fear “treatment”, this term is not to scare you from finding your own way. Taking care of your mental health is in your hands and you have the power to make the difference. Never run away from those who try to help you. Don’t fear the unknown and the uncomfortable moments, be brave and tackle those obstacles .
Aug 10, 202211:43
No Perfect Love: Guest Speaker Dr.Alyson Nerenberg

No Perfect Love: Guest Speaker Dr.Alyson Nerenberg

In this episode the conversation is driven by identifying that no perfect love exists. Dr. Alyson Nerenberg high lights that identifying the flaws in your relationship and working to understand yourself and your partner is more significant than trying to build a fairytale that may not actually exist. Her book includes exercises and ways to improve your loving environment and aid in potential relationship success.
Jul 27, 202241:28
In Our Blood: Special Guest Caitlin Billings

In Our Blood: Special Guest Caitlin Billings

Caitlin Billings is a beautiful soul who has shared her experience with not only being a victim of trauma but also being both in and on the other side of the therapist chair. Mental health is a roller coaster but no sign or symptom should go ignored. Asking for help is hard and trusting someone to know your story is even harder. Follow us on this journey as she shares her expertise and experiences.
Jul 20, 202252:15
Let’s Talk About It

Let’s Talk About It

In this episode I challenge you to express yourself and be completely vulnerable. Being able to talk about tour joys and pains is challenging but its worth it. Finding those people that you trust and are willing to listen to you will open up so many doors for accomplishing peace. Be brave and talk about it.
Jul 13, 202214:10
I’m Tired

I’m Tired

In this episode I am encouraging you all to open your mind and be willing to remove the negative parts of life we don’t need. Not ev everyone gets a stress free, problem free environment to thrive in and I am inviting you to create that for yourself. Be open to self-advocation for the optimal healing journey.
Jul 06, 202213:18
Listen to Your Mind and Follow Your Heart

Listen to Your Mind and Follow Your Heart

In this episode, I discuss the difficult battle we all face with using our brains to make decisions or our hearts. This is not to force you to choose what you are most comfortable with but also to choose what fits more in any given situation. The lesson to learn from this is to trust that you will make the best decision for yourself.
Jun 29, 202211:59
Speak Up or No one Will Listen

Speak Up or No one Will Listen

In this episode, I call all of my listeners to think about the importance of advocating for themselves. Speaking up for yourself will turn dreams into realities or hardships into struggles of the past. Speaking up for yourself will give you a new insight into the life and your ability to make your life decisions the way that you want them to be. Be strong in putting your foot down and creating that line of communication with others.
Jun 22, 202213:28
What Does Manifesting Actually Do?

What Does Manifesting Actually Do?

This episode gives you the tools and reasoning for why manifestation is important. Nothing is tangible unless you make it real and therefore dreams are only dreams until we make them a reality. Join me in learning ways that you can manifest in the most healthy way to ensure your goals and dreams are accomplished in a healthy way unique to your own desires.
Jun 15, 202221:14
I Choose Me

I Choose Me

In this episode I will be reflecting on choosing yourself and prioritizing yourself. Over the past year so much has changed and most of this was due to making my own decisions. In Chapter 3 my primary focus will be tapping into the spiritual journey within yourself and being able to focus on true self love and worth. Thank you all for supporting me and joining me on this journey.
Jun 08, 202220:56
There is a Way To Survive

There is a Way To Survive

In this episode I speak with May Saengpraseuth Alirad about assault as well as her guide to healing. This episode contains some very sensitive stories as well as information that can help survivors as well as peers of survivors gain some understanding. Assault is not always talked about openly and it is important to spread awareness and not to ignore those who have been hurt. Everyone’s stories told and untold matters. Listener discretion is advised.
Apr 30, 202143:02
Don’t Let “it” Break You

Don’t Let “it” Break You

In this weeks episode, I had the honor of speaking with Krista Nerestant, the author of “Indestructible: The Hidden Gifts of Trauma”. In this episode, you will hear about her story and her journey to self healing as well as her spiritual journey. Please open up your mind to hearing new ways to heal from pain and heartache.
Apr 23, 202139:00
Kick Until You Can’t Take it Anymore

Kick Until You Can’t Take it Anymore

In this weeks episode I had the pleasure of speaking to Miss Melanie Gibson who has shared her story about her healing journey. This podcast is intended for healing and finding peace within yourself and sharing stories. Vulnerability is one of the first steps to healing and acknowledging that there is so much more to learn about your self is even more significant. It is not easy acknowledging that there is some emotional growth that needs to be done, but moving forward with your own journey shows strength that no one else can give you. Please tune in to this episode to hear a very genuine conversation about Melanie‘s healing journey.
Apr 16, 202130:06
22 in Chapter 2

22 in Chapter 2

In this episode I talk about turning over a new leaf and becoming a new version of self. It is important to take these blessings we call birthday’s and add to the life we already have. Consider life improvements as making you a better you.
Mar 19, 202116:03
Protect your energy

Protect your energy

In this episode I discuss the importance of protecting your energy. It is not easy to go through life when your space is disrupted. Being strong and keeping the bad things out will get you farther than you know.
Feb 26, 202114:11
Why I Do What I Do...

Why I Do What I Do...

This episode is what should have been my introduction. This is the uncut detailed episode about why I started my podcast and what it means to me. This is my thank you to my supporters. Being real with yourself and the people around you can really make a difference so being open and honest in the most public way possible was worth it. Tune in to hear why vulnerability brings peace.
Feb 12, 202114:44
Where are you going?

Where are you going?

This episode is all about finding your way and accepting how you get there. Many people believe that failure is a sign that they will never be successful. Others believe that they will always succeed and never fail. Finding your path is not always easy and you have to be willing to trust yourself, God, the universe, and the support around you. This week we dig deep into the realities of finding our way...

Feb 05, 202112:50
Who hurt you?

Who hurt you?

This episode is all about reflecting on the things that hurt you and working to confront those issues. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, but sometimes what hurts you can hold you back. This episode is all about reflecting and opening up those closed chapters in your life that you have tried to avoid. Internal avoidance is never the answer, it is crucial to deal with things in the best way possible for yourself and never allow past experiences to scare you. Now is the time to be bold and honest with yourself and get rid of those negative demons in your head that tell you it isn't worth it to address those skeletons in your closet... Welcome to Chapter 2!

Jan 29, 202120:27
Forgiveness is hard to give...

Forgiveness is hard to give...

In this week's episode, I'm getting down to why forgiveness can be so difficult sometimes it's painful. Everyone is put in a place where they want to forgive or is in a position where they want to be forgiven. Either way, it is something that weighs heavily on us all in some way throughout our lifetime. Note that if we go our whole lives without being able to forgive our soul can remain forever broken...

Nov 13, 202016:46
Knowing when you need help,,,

Knowing when you need help,,,

This episode is about knowing when you need help. In this present time a lot of people are struggling mentally and not really knowing how to deal with it. In this episode, I highlight knowing when you need help and how to go about receiving it. Don't be afraid to take the initiative to get help when you feel like there are no other options out there for you. Being brave and taking those steps to receive help when mentally you are distressed is one of the best options for healing. 

Oct 30, 202010:18
It's okay to be scared...

It's okay to be scared...

In this episode, I will be discussing a few fears of my own. In life, we aren't always confident, but not dealing with and conquering our fears can be a major setback. In this episode, I provide you with a few examples of what I am afraid of and how I have managed to accept my reality. Although you may not share the same fears, this episode may be very helpful for dealing with your newfound changes that are occurring in your life.

Oct 23, 202016:50
Keep Your Head Up (IC Edition)

Keep Your Head Up (IC Edition)

This week's episode is meant to uplift those going through a hard time, especially with the racial and cultural disputes that have been going on in society. I asked a few of my peers to provide their points of view of how to stay positive, some words of encouragement, to share some personal stories, and express their feelings. In this world, a lot of people are struggling with identity and accepting themselves with all the negativity. Hopefully, this week's episode provides some insight to help those who need a little more positivity in their lives.
Oct 09, 202018:36
The Fight Against Social Media

The Fight Against Social Media

In this episode, I will be touching on my perception of social media and how it affects our mental health and the health of our relationships with others.  There are so many negative effects that social media can have on an individual that I address in this episode. I leave you with a challenge at the end of this episode!

Oct 02, 202015:47
Boosting your self esteem

Boosting your self esteem

In this episode, I will be highlighting a few steps for boosting your self-esteem. It is natural for everyone to doubt themselves some time, or not see what others see in you. In this episode, I will be addressing some of the bad things we do in our thought process and what we should be doing to prevent damaging our self-worth. 

Sep 18, 202017:06
DON'T ALWAYS GIVE YOUR ALL

DON'T ALWAYS GIVE YOUR ALL

This episode is all about identifying the contributions you make in different situations and when you should consider holding off. Life is not always fair and you won't always get the rewards you desire when you give your all. This week is meant for you to think about what is best for you and your efforts. Also opening your mind to think about your current relationships whether it be a friend, significant other, or even your work environment.

Sep 11, 202014:53
Things never stay the same

Things never stay the same

This episode is about the way the world works. Nothing ever stays the same and knowing that it is our duty as individuals to not only accept change but make changes when necessary. We have come a long way, but there is still more that needs to be done, not only within ourselves but for our communities and society overall. This episode touches on a few different scenarios and how this is applicable.

Sep 04, 202020:48
MOTIVATION

MOTIVATION

This episode is meant to reflect on your personal goals and think about what motivates you. What is it that gets you going, and why do you do the things you do. This is an important stage in everyone's life when we are driven and are working towards something for personal growth. If you haven't reached this stage yet, that is fine, you have a lifetime to get the level of motivation you need for your own personal success.
Aug 28, 202013:34
When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade....

When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade....

This episode is about finding and accepting your passion, or passions and being what you desire. In order to be happy and have a healthy soul, you have to be pleased with yourself and your life desires. Being innovative and proactive in your own life is needed to reach your personal goals. Be open to getting out of your comfort zone. 

Aug 21, 202013:09
Gain closure and take back control of your life

Gain closure and take back control of your life

This episode is about how you can gain closure from a situation for yourself and the benefit of that in order to live the life you want to live. It is important to take things step by step so that you can achieve what you want in order to move forward. Be open-minded to take that leap of faith.

Aug 07, 202018:03
Relationships should have...

Relationships should have...

This episode is meant to highlight some important aspects of relationships. It's not a crime to have high expectations for your partner, but it is important to remember you are both human and bound to make mistakes sometime. In this episode, you will hear some basic criteria of what relationships should have and maybe a good idea of what you may want for you and your partner in order to engage in healthy relationships.

Jul 31, 202016:19
Not all bad decisions are mistakes...

Not all bad decisions are mistakes...

This episode taps a lot into my personal life but can be very helpful to some for guidance on accepting your poor decisions and not beating yourself up every time something goes wrong.  Be brave and courageous, keep your head up, and try to be your strongest self even when you feel like you've fallen over the deep end.

Jul 17, 202015:39
It is okay to be alone...

It is okay to be alone...

Being alone can be beautiful. As people, we take being alone as being a negative thing when there is so much more about it we can enjoy. Having other people around you can have a positive influence,  but when it comes to personal growth and mastering healing, being alone is a necessity. 

Jul 10, 202012:37
How much can you handle?

How much can you handle?

This episode is to highlight the fact that we all take on more than we can bear, especially when we are already halfway to our lowest point. The purpose of this podcast is to reflect and grow. In this episode, you may be reminded of a similar time in your life and also think about how it made you feel and how difficult it was. It is okay to be selfish sometimes.

Jul 03, 202014:59
Its okay to not be okay

Its okay to not be okay

This episode is shedding light on the idea that happiness is not achieved 100% in everyone's life. Sometimes we are stuck between a rock and a hard place and happiness just seem so far away. Note to self that nobody can force you to be happy if you aren't already feeling that yourself. Accepting when you are not in a good place is one of the first steps to accomplish your self-healing process.

Jun 26, 202012:34
Who can you run to?

Who can you run to?

This episode is highlighting the fact that with identity comes beliefs, morals, values, personal opinions, and space for arguments with others. It is crucial to examine those around you and determine what you need in a relationship. friendship, or any other partnership in order to feel supported and loved. This episode will discuss who are those that are safe to run to and rely on and who of those in your life you should remove in order to enjoy positivity. Your soul relies on peace in order to live healthily, those who bring negativity bring unhappiness.

Jun 19, 202009:18
Depression stole my happiness...

Depression stole my happiness...

This episode is about depression and how it can prevent individuals from wanting to heal. Sometimes depression can block one's ability from healing themselves because they are stuck in such a dark place. It is okay to be depressed and not be happy, but life can't be that way forever. This talk touches on a few ways to get you out of the funk and some steps you can consider in order to heal. Remember to open your mind and heal your soul. 

Jun 12, 202015:03
Why do we need to heal our soul?

Why do we need to heal our soul?

When we go through traumatic times in our lives, our first heartbreak, the loss of a loved one, we tend to give up on ourselves. This episode will unlock some truths about why we feel the need to continue to stay broken, as opposed to seeking healing when we know we need it the most. It's okay to be sad, it's okay to be depressed, but it is also okay to seek light at the end of the tunnel.
Jun 05, 202011:36