Hello, Good Bis!

• Bisexual Podcasts 
• Huffpost LGBT History Month: Bisexual History video panel 
• ‘Celebrate Bisexuality Day’ Exists Because of These Three LGBT Activists 
• Bivisibilityday.com
• Brooklyn Community Pride Center 
• Our Opinions are Correct 
• Benjamin Alire  Sáenz 
• Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe  
• Black Lives Matter
• Ex-Florida gubernatorial candidate Andrew Gillum says he identifies as bisexual 
• Javicia Leslie Says It Feels 'Powerful' to Be the First Black Batwoman 
• Marvel Just Revealed This Iconic X-Men Character Is BisexualMarvel Just Revealed This Iconic X-Men Character Is Bisexual 
• Almost half of Britons don’t want their children to learn it’s OK to be gay, disturbing study finds 
• Love, Simon author Becky Albertalli forced to come out as bisexual after weathering criticism for telling queer stories 
• William Shakespeare was undeniably bisexual, researchers claim 
• Rugby star Levi Davis comes out as bisexual: ‘I want people to feel they can be who they are’ 
• Disney Announced Its First Bisexual Lead In A TV Show And I'm Cuffing My Jeans In Excitement 
• Confirm your voter registration: https://www.usa.gov/confirm-voter-registration
• Mail-in Ballot 
• States with early voting
• Become a poll worker 

• Dr. Mimi Hoang http://drmimihoang.com/index.html https://www.facebook.com/DrMimiHoang/ https://www.instagram.com/drmimihoang/
  
• Los Angeles Bi Task Force https://labitaskforce.org/
  
• Fluid at UCLA https://www.facebook.com/fluiducla/
  
• BiNet USA http://www.binetusa.org/
  
• Ambi on Meetup https://www.meetup.com/pro/ambi
  
• Ambi https://www.ambi.org/
  
• Los Angeles Bi Taskforce https://labitaskforce.org/
  
• 2013 White House Bisexual Community Roundtable.https://www.glaad.org/blog/white-house-holds-bisexual-leaders-roundtable
  
• An Empirical Study into the Relationship between Bisexual Identity Congruence, Internalized Biphobia and Infidelity among Bisexual Women  https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2011.545285
  
• Robin Ochs, the definition of bisexuality https://robynochs.com/bisexual/
  
• Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781573227889
  
• Bi On Life http://www.drmimihoang.com/events-resources.html
  
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Because identity, trauma, and grief are often discussed on this show, and because we so often advocate for communication as a healthy method for expressing emotions, we wanted to open our airwaves to Black members of the LBGTQ community, to say what you need to say in this moment. If you have something to say to us and/or the bisexual community that listens to this show, send an MP3 or wav audio file to hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com.

Stay strong and safe.

There’s nothing hotter than talking about research and data! Annie and Rose get steamy and talk about how attraction is measured, how it’s funded, and why it matters. Spoiler alert: the data that exists about bisexual people might impact you more than you think. Did we miss something or you want to compliment us? Write to us at HelloGoodBis42069@gmail.com or on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

*Note: this episode was recorded before the stay at home orders.

Timestamps

Measuring Sexual Attraction 3:37 - 9:23
Bisexuality in Animals 9:23 - 16:19
What It Matters 16:19 - 30:20
Funding 30:20 - 34:33
Media Coverage 36:40 - 37:30
Resources 37:30 - 43:53
Bilights 44:04 - 54:19
Bising Stars 54:19 -56:20
Call for Adbice 56:20

References

Conceptualizing and measuring perceptions of sexual attractiveness: Are there differences across gender and sexual orientation? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886914007077#!

Why the Census Needs to Ask People About Their LGBTQ Identity https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/d75gpj/why-the-census-needs-to-ask-people-about-their-lgbtq-identity

Queering the Census https://www.thetaskforce.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Guide-to-the-2020-Census-An-Introduction.pdf

Accessing the US census from abroad using a US VPN https://protonvpn.com/

Eva Bloom (What’s My Body Doing) bi-weekly newsletter for $3 a month https://www.patreon.com/WhatsMyBodyDoing

Journal of Bisexuality https://www.tandfonline.com/toc/wjbi20/current

Genetics and Bisexuality, Nature https://serval.unil.ch/resource/serval:BIB_2EEA1639DF3B.P001/REF.pdf

Homosexual Activity Among Animals Stirs Debate, National Geographic https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/2004/07/homosexual-animals-debate/

Bisexual Species: Unorthodox Sex in the Animal Kingdom, Scientific American https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/bisexual-species/

https://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/bisexual 

The American Institute of Bisexuality http://www.americaninstituteofbisexuality.org/

BiNet USA http://www.binetusa.org/

Bisexual.org https://bisexual.org/

Bisexual Resource Center (BRC) https://biresource.org/

Bi Visibility Day http://www.bivisibilityday.com/ 

The Unicorn Scale: The Bold Type https://bi.org/en/articles/the-unicorn-scale-the-bold-type

‘Love is Blind’ star Carlton Morton sparks suicide fears after bisexuality backlash https://thegrio.com/2020/03/05/love-is-blind-carlton-morton-instagram/

National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255

Zoe Kravitz Is a Hot Bisexual Mess in “High Fidelity” — and That’s Revolutionary https://www.autostraddle.com/zoe-kravtiz-is-a-hot-bisexual-mess-in-high-fidelity-and-thats-revolutionary/

Out bisexual runner at

• Likerealproper.com
• https://open.spotify.com/artist/07fRiLziB7HEpoJippeKdK
• https://twitter.com/likerealproper
• https://www.youtube.com/c/Properlikerealproper
• https://www.instagram.com/likerealproper/
• https://www.facebook.com/likerealproper

Erik's Shoutouts:

• Mint Green https://mintgreenma.bandcamp.com/
• Alfred. https://classicalfredosauce.bandcamp.com/
• Cloudwalker https://www.facebook.com/Cloudwalker-Music-Group-314958550437/
• Party Fridge https://partyfridge.bandcamp.com/releases

Are you super confused by Super Tuesday? We've got your back. We review the LGBTQ rights voting history of US Presidential hopefuls, how you can research candidates, and getting involved Email us ahellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or follow us on Instagram at @HelloGoodBis.

• Here's Every 2020 Democrat's History on LGBTQ Rights https://splinternews.com/heres-every-2020-democrats-history-on-lgbtq-rights-1833721959
• Rep. Gabbard apologizes, again, for past anti-gay views https://www.aol.com/article/news/2019/01/17/rep-gabbard-apologizes-again-for-past-anti-gay-views/23645741/?guccounter=1
• Tracking administration / candidates https://www.glaad.org/tap/donald-trump https://www.plannedparenthoodaction.org/congressional-scorecard https://www.hrc.org/resources/congressional-scorecard https://www.aclu.org/scorecard/
• Candidates’ voting record here: https://justfacts.votesmart.org/ or https://ballotpedia.org/
• Current Congress person https://www.govtrack.us/
• Opinions / actions https://www.ontheissues.org/
• Campaigns’ financial records: https://www.fec.gov/data/
• Local issues: https://www.vote411.org/ballot or https://www.ballotready.org/
• LGBT political news: https://www.lgbtqnation.com/
• Register to vote https://vote.gov/ 
• 1 in 5 LGBTQ adults isn’t registered to vote https://www.marketwatch.com/story/1-in-5-lgbtq-adults-isnt-registered-to-vote-despite-high-2020-stakes-2019-10-11
• Tennessee allows adoption agencies to ban gay & lesbian parents https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/01/tennessee-passes-bill-allow-adoption-agencies-ban-gay-lesbian-parents/
• Changes to LGBTQ-related web content under the Trump Administration https://sunlightfoundation.com/2019/11/21/new-web-integrity-project-report-documents-changes-to-lgbtq-related-web-content-under-the-trump-administration/
• House Democrats call for ICE to release transgender detainees https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/01/house-democrats-call-ice-release-transgender-detainees-inhumane-facilities/
• A Trump advisor on conversion therapy https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/01/trump-advisor-told-lesbian-teen-considering-suicide-get-conversion-therapy/ 
• Evelyn Mantilla https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evelyn_Mantilla 
• Vaneet Mehta https://www.instagram.com/nintendomad888/

- Website https://www.twobiguys.com/

- Instagram https://www.instagram.com/twobiguys/

- Twitterhttps://twitter.com/twobiguys

Bi Request NYC http://www.birequest.org/

Slutever episode about bisexual men https://video.vice.com/en_us/video/bisexual-men-1-774/5c0a974ebe407728f37431ce

They Both Die at the End by Adam Silvera https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780062457806

Looking for the perfect song to subtly hint to your crush that you’ve caught feelings takes on an added challenge when you don’t know any queer tunes! Rose and Annie toiled all night working on the perfect mix just for you. In this episode, we talk about why bisexual representation in music matters and some of our favorite bisexual musicians and songs. Did we miss anything vital? Send us a tune to hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or on Instagram to @HelloGoodBis. 

References and show notes were too long to fit in this description! Here you go: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nR-cJTQKK-DHHap4Abn5nD8gs2TnEEks6BzZdm22obw/

TIMESTAMPS

BiSexual Artists 21:00
Bilights 1:02:46
Bi History 1:15:45
Bising Stars 1:18:46
Call for AdBice1:22:16

Did we miss something? Wanna share your resolution? Email us at hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis. 

REFERENCES 

• History of New Years Resolutions https://www.history.com/news/the-history-of-new-years-resolutions 
• Some Stats on Effectiveness of Resolutions https://www.inc.com/peter-economy/10-top-new-years-resolutions-for-success-happiness-in-2019.html 
• Yup, people vote the most during the presidential election https://www.fairvote.org/voter_turnout#voter_turnout_101 
• Our coming out episode is #3 called The Good The Bi and the Ugly https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/The-Good--The-Bi--The-Ugly-Coming-Out-e4so7t 
• Sober Pride Resources https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/7xgevd/how-to-party-at-pride-if-youre-sober https://myslutbox.com/out-proud-sober-how-to-have-fun-at-pride-without-liquor/ 
• Straight Edge https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straight_edge 
• Our episode about finding someone to love is #10 called Dating Bi-os https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/Dating-Bi-os-e9ad2k 
• When Brooklyn Was Queer (the book Annie forgot the name of) https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781250169914 
• Clementine Morrigan, physical consent https://www.instagram.com/clementinemorrigan 
• Figure skater Amber Glenn comes out as bisexual/pansexual: ‘I don’t want to hide who I am’ ’https://www.outsports.com/2019/12/17/21024753/amber-glenn-figure-skating-bisexual-pansexual-olympics-texas-team-usa 
• Former MMA Fighter Jason Ellis: Let Bi Men Like Me Into the Community https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2019/12/10/former-mma-fighter-jason-ellis-let-bi-men-me-community 
• Saying Bi, Bi, Bi to a Decade of Increased Bi+ Visibility https://www.hrc.org/blog/saying-bi-bi-bi-to-a-decade-of-increased-bi-visibility 
• Vaping ads often target bisexual women of color, study finds https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/vaping-ads-often-target-bisexual-women-of-color-study-finds-130533558.html 
• Quit Like a Woman, Holly Whitaker https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781984825056 
• The UK has elected the ‘gayest parliament in the world’: 8% say they’re gay or bisexual https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/the-uk-ha-elected-the-gayest-parliament-in-the-world-8-say-theyre-gay-or-bisexual 
• What you need to know about the Olivia Nicole Duffin TikTok biphobia drama https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a30292626/olivia-nicole-duffin-tik-tok-biphobia-ex-boyfriend-liam-casey/ 
• Julie d’Aubigny https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julie_d%27Aubigny 
• Two Bi Guys https://www.twobiguys.com/ 
• Jen Winston http://instagram.com/jenerous 

TIME STAMPS 

Our Resolutions 00:49
How to Set Resolutions 9:13
History of Resolutions 12:08
Uh, Do Resolutions Work? 14:55
How to Keep On Track 15:49
Queer Resolutions 19:11
Listener Mail 39:56
Bilights (Bisexual News) 41:18
Bi History 46:04
Adbice 50:18

Have you ever Googled “how to do sex?” If the answer is yes, have we got a podcast for you! In this episode, Rose and Annie explore getting consent, having pleasurable sex, and the public school system that failed to teach them how to do either. Together, they discuss what constitutes sex and share some explicit sex acts you can do with your partner (and how to make sure everyone's consenting). Want to tell us about the sex acts we missed (but in a totally non-pervy way)? Email us at HelloGoodBis42069@gmail.com or slide into our DMs over on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

TIMESTAMPS

Consent 17:30
Sex Education 25:00
EXPLICIT SEX ACTIONS 38:10
Protection and STI Testing 1:12:15
Bilights (Bisexual News) 1:20:23
Bising Stars 1:24:47
Adbice 1:28:27

There comes a time in every bisexual’s life when you’ll ask yourself: what do I normally do with my hands and are they always this sweaty? This my friends is called a crush. Join Annie and Rose as they talk about all things attraction, flirtation, and dating! From matching online to meeting IRL, saying “I love you” to ending things--we answer some of the questions you had about how to pursue the one you want. Did we get anything wrong? Let us know by emailing us at HelloGoodBis42069@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

RESOURCES

• A Smart Girl’s Guide to Boys https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Boys/dp/1584853689
• Stevie Boebi, “How to Compliment Girls” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByGp5e6RVoc
• Old Guard apps: Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, Hinge, Match
• Queer Apps: Grindr, Her, Scruff, Chappy
• About angel shots: https://www.businessinsider.com/angel-shots-help-women-on-bad-dates-2017-1
• Dear Therapist: I’m Afraid My Boyfriend’s Sexuality Will End Our Relationship https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/11/im-worried-my-boyfriend-is-gay/601231/
• Regan Gascoigne, son of football legend Paul Gascoigne, just came out as bisexual https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/04/regan-gascoigne-paul-gascoine-bisexual-coming-out-football/
• Ad appearing to attack Democratic City-County Council candidate draws ire on social media https://www.indystar.com/story/news/politics/elections/2019/10/28/election-2019-ad-appears-to-attack-lgbtq-council-candidate/2485034001/
• Director Desiree Akhavan Is Flipping the Script on Coming-Out Stories https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/j538gy/desiree-akhavan-the-bisexual-interview
• Kori Michele, Let’s Talk About Bisexuality https://korimichele.myportfolio.com/lets-talk-about-bisexuality
  

TIMESTAMPS

How do I approach someone IRL? 28:06
Knowing when they aren’t interested 32:04
How to spot a queer in the wild / How to show off that i’m queer 35:00
Connecting online 37:35
Taking it offline 45:11
Ending a date 51:31
Rejecting someone and getting rejected 1:00:31
What if everything works out? 1:09:31
Weekly Bilights (bisexual news) 1:12:38
Bising Stars (queer people we like) 1:17:09
Call for AdBice 1:19:55

TV and movies surround us from a young age, shaping our understanding of the world and our expectations of others. Annie and Rose explore their first exposure to bisexual characters, the history of bisexuality on the bi screen, why representation matters, and what TV and movies get right (er… more often wrong). Tell us who we missed by writing to hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

SPOILERS

Sex and the City | 5:39 - 12:03, 19:40 - 20:18
Dr. Who | 14:10 - 17:40
Grey’s Anatomy | 36:14 - 36:56
Madame Secretary | 37:56 - 38:20
Buffy the Vampire Slayer | 38:28 - 40:25
Broad City | 40:31 - 43:58
I Might Regret This - Abbi Jacobson | 42:25 - 43:05
Insecure | 44:00 - 46:00
A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila | 46:00 - 47:15
The OC | 47:15 - 48:40
Brooklyn 99 | 48:53 - 49:09
The Good Wife | 49:09 - 49:37
House of Cards | 49:37 - 49:49
Insatiable | 49:49 - 50:27
The Politician | 50:27 - 50:53
Crazy Ex Girlfriend | 50:53 - 52:05
Game of Thrones | 52:05 - 52:15
Killing Eve | 52:15 - 52:43
The Bisexual | 52:43 - 53:16
Big Mouth | 53:16 - 53:25
True Blood | 53:25 - 53: 45
House | 53:25 - 54:00
Bones | 54:00 54:28
Orange is the New Black | 54:28 54:46
Friends | 54:46 - 55:12
How I Met Your Mother | 55:12 - 55:30
The Good Place | 55:30 - 55:28
Chilling Adventures of Sabrina the Teenage Witch | 55:28 - 55:43
Sakura Cardcaptors | 55:43 - 55:59}
Family Guy | 55:59 - 56:09
Bob’s Burgers | 56:09 - 56:48
Thor: Ragnorok & The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo | 57:57- 58:00
Atomic Blonde | 58:00 - 58:45
Rocky Horror | 58:45 - 58:53
500 Days of Summer | 58:53 - 58:57
Scott Pilgrim vs. the World | 58:57 - 59:04
Chasing Amy | 59:04 - 1:00:25
Cabaret 1:00:25 - 1:00:55
The Comedian | 1:01:04
Jennifer’s Body 1:01:04 - 1:03:35

RESOURCES

Jenny Bick’s twitter for you to get at her https://twitter.com/JennyBicks
Podcast About Matthew Shepard
GLBTQ Archive History of Bisexuality of Cinema http://www.glbtqarchive.com/arts/bisex_film_A.pdf
This podacast helped form Rose’s opinion of Jennifer’s Body https://anchor.fm/girls-guts--giallo/episodes/Jennifers-Body-2009-e5148r/a-ankm3m

TIMESTAMPS

Our First Times & Why Representation Matters 5:00
Brief History of Bisexuality in Cinema 26:56
Traps & Troupes 30:13
Examples of Bisexual  36:14
Rampant Speculation of Bi Characters 1:03:40
Bi-lights (Bi news) 1:06:17
Bi-sing Stars (Queer people we like) 1:10:34
AdBice (Advice) 1:15:32

It’s Mental Health Awareness Week! Join Annie and Rose while they share statistics about the mental health struggles bisexuals face, the methods they use to triage and maintain mental health, tips for finding and talking to a mental health professional, and their personal experiences with mental illness and binge drinking. Want to tell us what we got right, wrong, should talk about next? Email us at hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or leave us a voice message anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message. 

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SHOW NOTES

• Human Rights Campaign, Health Disparities Among Bisexual People https://assets2.hrc.org/files/assets/resources/HRC-BiHealthBrief.pdf?_ga=2.53224940.598958789.1570762481-844289680.1566911533 
• Lack of support among LGBTQ people who lose a partner https://www.lgbthealtheducation.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Suicide-Risk-and-Prevention-for-LGBTQ-Patients-Brief.pdf 
• Homeslessness among LGBTQ population https://biresource.org/caring-for-bisexual-homeless-youth/ 
• NYC’s Mental Health First Aid Training https://www1.nyc.gov/site/doh/health/health-topics/mental-health-first-aid.page 
• UC Davis list of LGBTQ hotlines https://lgbtqia.ucdavis.edu/support/hotlines 
• Gay and Lesbian National Hotline 1-888-843-4564 Mon–Fri, 4 pm–12 am EST 
• Trevor Suicide Prevention Hotline 1-800-850-8078 
• National Runaway Hotline 1-800-231-6946 
• Bisexuality-Aware Professional Directory https://www.bizone.org/bap/baplist.php?category=Therapists
• https://www.pridecounseling.com 
• Psychology.com use their sexuality filter 
• National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) https://www.nami.org/find-support/lgbtq 
• A Teenager Killed Himself After Being Outed as Bisexual. His Family Wants Justice. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/30/us/channing-smith-suicide-bisexual-tennessee.html 
• Jeffrey Gibson https://www.jeffreygibson.net/ 
• Nobody Promised You Tomorrow: Art 50 Years After Stonewall https://www.brooklynmuseum.org/exhibitions/stonewall 
• Monstrous Regiment Publishing https://www.monstrous-regiment.com/ 

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TIMESTAMPS

Hot stats 1:31
Annie’s personal mental health triage 13:44
Reddit user’s tips for mental health maintenance 19:52
Talking to someone who is struggling 23:23
Where to seek help (hotlines and resources) 29:50
Finding and vetting a therapist 31:30
How to approach therapy 39:30
Rose stops drinking (on sobriety) 47:25
Listener shoutouts 57:50
Weekly Bilights (Bisexual News) 58:29 B
ising Stars: Queer People We Like 1:01:45
Call for Adbice 1:04:54

Have you ever wondered what it's like to date a bisexual person? We sure did, so we invited our significant others to talk about what it's like, how they learned we're bi, what their communities think, and to share advice for folks learning their partner is bisexual. Send us your questions and comments to hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or leave us a voice memo https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message

Shownotes

• Test Buddies podcast (with Annie and Dylan) https://testbuddies.myportfolio.com/
• This Checklist will Determine your “Straight Number” https://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/how-straight-are-you-you-get-one-point-for-each-o
• How gay are you? https://www.buzzfeed.com/tomphillips/how-gay-are-you
• What is “hang loose?” https://media.giphy.com/media/ceK5e0DXc7Zh6/giphy.gif
• Terminology Episode, where we mention other scales/tests https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/BiLingual-e51od7
• Bisexuality Week (I can’t find documentation that it’s month) https://www.glaad.org/biweek2019
• Bivisibility Day http://www.bivisibilityday.com/
• Ryan Russel’s coming out letter https://www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/id/27484719/no-distractions-nfl-veteran-opens-sexuality
• Bella Thorn’s biphobic boyfriend https://www.latintimes.com/bella-thornes-italian-boyfriend-would-welcome-third-party-bedroom-439977
• Mae Martin https://www.maemartin.net/
• The Bisexual Chair, Ma Matiazi & Israel Walker https://www.facebook.com/israel.walker.90475/posts/191655611831394
• Blake Moran on Madam Secretary http://greginhollywood.com/blake-moran-comes-out-as-bisexual-to-his-boss-in-touching-scene-on-madam-secretary-144815
• Lil’ Nas X https://pitchfork.com/news/lil-nas-x-comes-out-as-gay/
• Allyship episode https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/BiStanders-e58gp2
  

Timestamps

Sexuality Quizzes 4:15
Q&A: Dating a bisexual person 10:30
Bisexual Visibility Month & Day 37:30
Weekly Blights (bisexual news) 39:35
Bising Stars 43:55
Call for Adbice 50:15

• All your subs are belong to us: https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexual/, https://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/, https://www.reddit.com/r/ainbow/, https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/, https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexualadults/, https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLGBT/, https://www.reddit.com/r/queer/, https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBTQ/ 
• Autostraddle https://www.autostraddle.com/ 
• Pink News https://www.pinknews.co.uk/ 
• Pride Media https://www.pridemedia.com/ 
• Other LGBTQ news Outlets https://lmgtfy.com/?q=lgbtq+news+outlets 
• @JessicaOutOfTheCloset https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDdi0yUyGW1PKzYXaIACnuA 
• Stevie Boebi https://www.youtube.com/user/SassiBoB 
• Bihistory instagram https://www.instagram.com/bihistory/ 
• PFLAG General https://pflag.org/ Advocacy 101 https://pflag.org/advocacy-101 Tips for parents https://pflag.org/blog/parents-quick-tips-supporting-your-lgbtq-kids-and-yourself-during-coming-out-process 
• Voting Check that you’re registered https://www.vote.org/am-i-registered-to-vote/ Register to vote https://www.vote.org/register-to-vote/ Election reminders https://www.vote.org/election-reminders/ Find your polling place https://www.vote.org/polling-place-locator/ Registered somewhere that you aren’t physically? Know the absentee rules and deadlines https://www.vote.org/absentee-voting-rules/
• Professor Ken Yoshino's Epistemic Contract of Bisexual Erasure http://www.kenjiyoshino.com/articles/epistemiccontract.pdf

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How do I respond when someone comes out to me? 5:45
How can I show support when I think someone is queer, but they haven’t come out to me? 13:50
How can I learn about the queer experience in general? 18:50
Letter from an ally 24:34
Can I ask about someone's personal experiences? 28:50
How can I support my people every day? 30:30
How to take down the haters 36:00
Get involved / support community / resources for allies 42:30
I think I messed up. What do I do? 50:05
Shout out to listeners 54:50
BiLights (bi news) 56:10
History and Bising Stars 60:14
Call for AdBice 65:12

In this very special episode, Rose and Annie share their coming out stories. What did they do well and what did they totally mess up? What would they do differently if they could do it all again? They share facts and tips about coming out as bisexual, highlight bisexual history, discuss queer people they like, and ponder if Hilary Duff could be next week’s Bising Star. Email us your coming out story, questions, suggestions, comments, and shit we got wrong at HelloGoodBis42069@gmail.com.

1. Pew Research on Bisexuality and Coming Out 
2. Bisexual Resource Center 
3. Murder Mystery Parties you can adapt for your own coming out party 
4. PLFAG 
5. @BiHistory Instagram 
6. Bi News - Valkyrie is Bi 
7. Tessa Thompson on sexuality and Janelle Monáe 
8. For your viewing pleasure, Janelle Monáe’s Make Me Feel music video, featuring Tessa Thompson (a bisexual anthem and hot video) 
9. It’s Radish Time, Taylor Behnke 
10. Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution, Shiri Eisner 
11. Hilary Duff is straight, but opened-minded
12. Megan Fox is Bisexual, thank the lord 

Timestamps

Facts about Coming Out 2:10
Rose’s Coming Out 11:57
Annie’s Coming Out 22:12
Tips for Coming Out 34:29
Bisexual History & News 39:06
Bising Stars! 41:06
Hello, Goodvice! 43:35

• Car Seat Headrest’s Bandcamp
• Kate Leth’s instagram
• Rose’s formative ice skating video
• Revolutionary Girl Utena intro

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