#HopeWall Podcast
By #HopeWall Podcast
#HopeWall brings you conversations “Behind Closed Doors”, in a safe, non judgmental environment where others share their stories of love, hope and inspiration to overcome adversities in this journey called life. 💛 “You Are Not Alone”. 💕 Proudly bought to you by The Solitude Project.
#HopeWall PodcastOct 21, 2021
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EP:27 " I Grew Up Living In A Shed " – Anonymous
➡️ Introducing our anonymous guest who has a background in criminology, psychology and she works in mental health.
She was 5 yeas old when her parents divorced.
Her father lived in a shed in rural Brisbane. A shed that was filled to the brink as her father was a hoarder. 😳
The property was deemed unliveable by the local council, so they weren't able to open windows and do things like make noise or play outside although they had friends living on the same street. They had to live in the shed in secrecy. 😔
Life was not easy at all, with a mentally unstable father who would have outbursts often and a mother who was physically abusive. 😢
A legal contract to save the property would see things become even more difficult with a legal battle that would soon ensue with her father. ⛔
His parting words after being evicted were:
" All the time I spent looking after you and your brother, I could've been out there screwing other woman! " 👈
Tune in to hear more of Anonymous journey. 🎙
“ There Is Hope & You Can Overcome It " – Anonymous
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Oct 21, 202124:18
EP:28 I Had To Deconstruct My Own Belief Systems - Dr. Faafetai Faaleava
➡️ Introducing Dr. Faafetai Faaleava who was born in Moto'otua, Samoa. He comes from the villages of Vaiusu, Lano, Samata-i-Tai and Fagaloa. He attended Papatoetoe High School and lived in South Auckland prior to moving to America in 2006. He received his doctorate degree in clinical psychology (Psy.D.) from Alliant International University in San Francisco and now works as a psychologist at Mule Creek State Prison in California.
He has lived in multiple countries including Samoa, Jamaica, New Zealand and now America. 👍
When Dr. Faaleava attended high school, you would often find Dr. Faaleava on some form of report that required him to check in with teachers on a daily basis and was also no stranger to detentions either. 👊
Having finished high school his exposure really shaped the direction he took next. Seeing that alot of Samoans would either go down the pathway of professional sports or they worked in a factory. He landed his first role earning $12 an hour and thought he was set for life! 🙌
He eventually went to Auckland Uni and was excited to receive a student allowance whilst eating butter chicken on the regular however, unfortunately he failed miserably when it came to his grades. 😔
When a young family member passed away, Dr. Faafetai stood at the funeral and heard a message that hit home and literally shifted his entire trajectory making the decision to go back to school. 👈
Dr. Faafetai realised upok returning to school that the school work wasn't what he was up against, he was battling his own thoughts associated to his identify. 💯
There was no one that looked like me at school which made it harder to see this in my reality. 🤔
Tune in to hear more of Dr. Faafetai Faaleava's journey. 🎙
“ Embrace Your Journey " – Dr. Faafetai Faaleava
💙 “You Are Not Alone”. 💙
He has lived in multiple countries including Samoa, Jamaica, New Zealand and now America. 👍
When Dr. Faaleava attended high school, you would often find Dr. Faaleava on some form of report that required him to check in with teachers on a daily basis and was also no stranger to detentions either. 👊
Having finished high school his exposure really shaped the direction he took next. Seeing that alot of Samoans would either go down the pathway of professional sports or they worked in a factory. He landed his first role earning $12 an hour and thought he was set for life! 🙌
He eventually went to Auckland Uni and was excited to receive a student allowance whilst eating butter chicken on the regular however, unfortunately he failed miserably when it came to his grades. 😔
When a young family member passed away, Dr. Faafetai stood at the funeral and heard a message that hit home and literally shifted his entire trajectory making the decision to go back to school. 👈
Dr. Faafetai realised upok returning to school that the school work wasn't what he was up against, he was battling his own thoughts associated to his identify. 💯
There was no one that looked like me at school which made it harder to see this in my reality. 🤔
Tune in to hear more of Dr. Faafetai Faaleava's journey. 🎙
“ Embrace Your Journey " – Dr. Faafetai Faaleava
💙 “You Are Not Alone”. 💙
Sep 23, 202146:48
EP:26 " My Boys Found Their Father Hanging " – Anonymous
⚠️ ** Trigger Warning ** ⚠️
➡️ This particular interview with our anonymous speaker is very raw, emotional, honest and real. A mother of five beautiful children, who received a heart breaking call to advise that her ex-partner had passed away from suicide and sadly it was her two young sons who found their fathers body. 😭
In the aftermath the boys:
🔰 Couldn't sleep
🔰 They'd have nightmares
🔰 They were afraid of the dark and would stay up until early hours of the morning.
🔰 Left with anger, hurt and so many unanswered questions
My boys now wonder why they weren't enough for their father to have made a different choice. Something that will continue to haunt them for the rest of their lives. 😭
I still carry guilt, wondering if their father would still be here if I had of called or sent him a message or asked the question "are you okay?". 😔
Although you may want the pain to end, it will still continue through your family and loved ones. 😢
I believe that love conquers all and one day I can only hope that my love will penetrate through their anger straight to my boys hearts. 💜
Tune in to hear more of this heartbreaking interview from Anonymous. 🎙
“ The World Needs You, The World Is Better With You In It " – Anonymous
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
➡️ This particular interview with our anonymous speaker is very raw, emotional, honest and real. A mother of five beautiful children, who received a heart breaking call to advise that her ex-partner had passed away from suicide and sadly it was her two young sons who found their fathers body. 😭
In the aftermath the boys:
🔰 Couldn't sleep
🔰 They'd have nightmares
🔰 They were afraid of the dark and would stay up until early hours of the morning.
🔰 Left with anger, hurt and so many unanswered questions
My boys now wonder why they weren't enough for their father to have made a different choice. Something that will continue to haunt them for the rest of their lives. 😭
I still carry guilt, wondering if their father would still be here if I had of called or sent him a message or asked the question "are you okay?". 😔
Although you may want the pain to end, it will still continue through your family and loved ones. 😢
I believe that love conquers all and one day I can only hope that my love will penetrate through their anger straight to my boys hearts. 💜
Tune in to hear more of this heartbreaking interview from Anonymous. 🎙
“ The World Needs You, The World Is Better With You In It " – Anonymous
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Sep 09, 202142:43
EP:25 " I'm Waiting For A Transplant To Save My Life " – Steven Davies-Dawson
➡️ Introducing Steven who is 39 years who currently lives on the Gold Coast with his partner and fur baby. Steven is no stranger to illness with multiple diagnosis that started from a very young age and sadly this has continued to follow him as an adult.
Steven has had diabetes since he was young, and went from being overweight to 79kg. He was also diagnosed with Celiac Disease which saw him drop weight even further to 49kg at one point. 😳
Nearly 6 years ago he had kidney failure and his kidneys have slowly been deteriorating him. His kidneys are currently running at 2-3% capacity and he's become very sick because of this. Steven is currently on dialysis 4 times per day to drain fluid in and out of his body to help control it. Steven is also on the waitlist for pancreas and a kidney that could potentially save his life. 🙏
I got a phone call from the Westmead Hospital about a transplant and it was all lights go and then something happened... 😱
I just wanted to wrip the drip out of my arm when they told me! 😢
Tune in to hear more of Steven's journey. 🎙
“ Don't Be Afraid Of The Unknown " – Steven Davies-Dawson
If you would like to support Steven in his journey please click here: 👉 gofundme.com/hope4steven
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Steven has had diabetes since he was young, and went from being overweight to 79kg. He was also diagnosed with Celiac Disease which saw him drop weight even further to 49kg at one point. 😳
Nearly 6 years ago he had kidney failure and his kidneys have slowly been deteriorating him. His kidneys are currently running at 2-3% capacity and he's become very sick because of this. Steven is currently on dialysis 4 times per day to drain fluid in and out of his body to help control it. Steven is also on the waitlist for pancreas and a kidney that could potentially save his life. 🙏
I got a phone call from the Westmead Hospital about a transplant and it was all lights go and then something happened... 😱
I just wanted to wrip the drip out of my arm when they told me! 😢
Tune in to hear more of Steven's journey. 🎙
“ Don't Be Afraid Of The Unknown " – Steven Davies-Dawson
If you would like to support Steven in his journey please click here: 👉 gofundme.com/hope4steven
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Sep 02, 202131:26
EP:24 " My Mother Could See Straight Through My Arm " – Alexx de Beer
➡️ Introducing Alexx de Beer who is a mother of two beautiful children and a wife. Originally from South Africa, Alexx grew up in and around the land. She is one determined woman who is able to preserve no matter the circumstances.
Alexx was on their family potatoe farm playing as you do in and around her mother as a young child. 🙈🙊🙉
She reached up to grab something on the conveyor belt and her clothing got caught up in the clogs of a huge machine. This machine would continue to pull her clothing through its large teeth like clogs and would start chomping on Alexx' little four year old arm like it was nothing... 😱
Her mother stood their torn unsure whether to leave her child to get help, yet at the same time she knew if she did her little girl wouldn't make it. 😢
I was losing conciousness and blood spots were appearing on my body, I was choking to death... 😰
Tune in to hear more of Alexx's journey. 🎙
“ Be Strong, You Will Make It Through This " – Alexx de Beer 💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Alexx was on their family potatoe farm playing as you do in and around her mother as a young child. 🙈🙊🙉
She reached up to grab something on the conveyor belt and her clothing got caught up in the clogs of a huge machine. This machine would continue to pull her clothing through its large teeth like clogs and would start chomping on Alexx' little four year old arm like it was nothing... 😱
Her mother stood their torn unsure whether to leave her child to get help, yet at the same time she knew if she did her little girl wouldn't make it. 😢
I was losing conciousness and blood spots were appearing on my body, I was choking to death... 😰
Tune in to hear more of Alexx's journey. 🎙
“ Be Strong, You Will Make It Through This " – Alexx de Beer 💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Aug 26, 202131:06
EP:23 " They Formed A Human Chain Trying To Find Me " – Greg Keily
➡️ Introducing Greg Keily who comes from a military background as an Australian Navy Clearance Diver and then went on to be an integral part of Queensland’s Emergency Services First Response Team.
Over his 15 years of service Greg experienced and NDE and saw alot of things during his time with Queensland’s Emergency Services. 👈
These experiences resulted in many years of enduring PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, Self Worth, Self Confidence, Self Love and Self Sabotage challenges. 😔
Today Greg Keily is a Fully Licenced Clinical Mental Health Hypnotherapy Practitioner and Mind Coach offering Hypnotherapy, Coaching and ongoing development for clients all over the world. ✅
Greg grew up in Sydney and had a fairly normal childhood with no major events he found he was able to excel very quickly at different tasks he was given in different roles. 👊
He was only young when he enlisted in the Navy, it wasn't something he always wanted to do he kind of fell upon the opportunity when it was introduced by someone and thought I'll give it a go. 🙌
Things were going great in the service, he made life long friends and then one day whilst his ship was out at sea they got woken up at 3am in the morning. It was pitch black, freezing and they had a a mission to complete. 👍
The first lot of individuals had made it safely down and now it was Greg's turn, as he threw out the rope and did a manoeuvre he had done plenty of times before the unthinkable happened. 😱
Before he knew it, he was being dragged alongside this huge ship, in the dark of the morning, the seas were rough and he could feel himself being pulled towards the propellers. 🥶 Tune in to hear more of Greg's journey. 🎙
“ We Each Have The Ability To Heal Ourselves ” – Greg Keily 💙
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You can learn more about Hows Your Headspace here: 👉 howsyourheadspace.com.au/
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Over his 15 years of service Greg experienced and NDE and saw alot of things during his time with Queensland’s Emergency Services. 👈
These experiences resulted in many years of enduring PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, Self Worth, Self Confidence, Self Love and Self Sabotage challenges. 😔
Today Greg Keily is a Fully Licenced Clinical Mental Health Hypnotherapy Practitioner and Mind Coach offering Hypnotherapy, Coaching and ongoing development for clients all over the world. ✅
Greg grew up in Sydney and had a fairly normal childhood with no major events he found he was able to excel very quickly at different tasks he was given in different roles. 👊
He was only young when he enlisted in the Navy, it wasn't something he always wanted to do he kind of fell upon the opportunity when it was introduced by someone and thought I'll give it a go. 🙌
Things were going great in the service, he made life long friends and then one day whilst his ship was out at sea they got woken up at 3am in the morning. It was pitch black, freezing and they had a a mission to complete. 👍
The first lot of individuals had made it safely down and now it was Greg's turn, as he threw out the rope and did a manoeuvre he had done plenty of times before the unthinkable happened. 😱
Before he knew it, he was being dragged alongside this huge ship, in the dark of the morning, the seas were rough and he could feel himself being pulled towards the propellers. 🥶 Tune in to hear more of Greg's journey. 🎙
“ We Each Have The Ability To Heal Ourselves ” – Greg Keily 💙
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You can learn more about Hows Your Headspace here: 👉 howsyourheadspace.com.au/
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Aug 19, 202159:29
E22: " There Must Be Something Wrong With Me - Racquel Todor
➡️ Introducing Racquel Todor who is a sport, trauma and youth counsellor who has lived experience with suicide and self harm, complex trauma, PTSD, depression, borderline personality disorder and bulimia.
There are many parts of Racquels life she is unable to recall although she does remember as a child her make believe friends she had created because of the experiences she was suffering from. It was her brains way of coping. 👈
On one occasion Racquel remembers being invited to a party, she was so excited to attend. Got all ready and went to the address only to find... 🙌
That there was no party and the whole thing had been set up. 🤷♀️
This would set the scene for intense bullying from being different, a journey that would have Racquel continuously asking herself what was wrong with her, why did no one choose her or when they did she would simply be the laughing stock. 😪
I always wanted to be a part of something, I always wanted to belong and wanted friendship so badly... 😔
“ Everyone Is Hurting & Everyone Doesn't Know WTF They're Doing ” – Racquel Todor
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Aug 05, 202152:16
EP:21 " They Called Me Frankenstein " – Andrew Lee
➡️ Introducing Andrew Lee who is a Strength and Conditioning coach based in Virgina who works with young athletes who are ready to go Faster, so they can play their chosen sports better and have more fun with their friends on the field instead of being stuck on the sidelines.
Andrew was born with a form of a disease called Fibrodysplasia Myositis Ossificans at its extreme most people with this disease die between the ages of 30-40 as it turns the body to stone.
Andrew's form of the disease had doctors telling his parents that he may require surgical intervention and that he could lose his sight and so much more. 😔
Tormented from the words of children who would often call him freak or Frankenstein, this bullying would continue throughout his schooling and would have long lasting effects. 🥺
When his parents got divorced Andrew found himself travelling down a path of anger and rage and would often lash out due to this. 🤬
Until he found wrestling, which was a great outlet and Andrew had a great coach to look up too. One day Andrew couldn't control the rage inside him and all the years of anger and torment spilled out... 👈
“ What People Say To You Is Based On Them Internally Not You ” – Andrew Lee
Tune in to hear more of Andrew's journey. 🎙
To checkout Draft Day Athletics click here: 👉 getfasterfaster.com/
Check out the Podcast here: 👉
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Andrew was born with a form of a disease called Fibrodysplasia Myositis Ossificans at its extreme most people with this disease die between the ages of 30-40 as it turns the body to stone.
Andrew's form of the disease had doctors telling his parents that he may require surgical intervention and that he could lose his sight and so much more. 😔
Tormented from the words of children who would often call him freak or Frankenstein, this bullying would continue throughout his schooling and would have long lasting effects. 🥺
When his parents got divorced Andrew found himself travelling down a path of anger and rage and would often lash out due to this. 🤬
Until he found wrestling, which was a great outlet and Andrew had a great coach to look up too. One day Andrew couldn't control the rage inside him and all the years of anger and torment spilled out... 👈
“ What People Say To You Is Based On Them Internally Not You ” – Andrew Lee
Tune in to hear more of Andrew's journey. 🎙
To checkout Draft Day Athletics click here: 👉 getfasterfaster.com/
Check out the Podcast here: 👉
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Jul 29, 202116:39
EP:20 " I Am A Sex Trafficking Survivor " – Mary Elizabeth
➡️ Introducing Dr. Mary Elizabeth Dean who is a serial entrepreneur and teacher who uses her intuitive abilities, knowledge of spiritual principles, and past experiences to help others receive the messages their souls need to heal.
As a teenager she was sex trafficked as she was seen as an easy target due to her mother suffering from a drug addiction. This left her open and vulnerable to the world. 🥺
By the time she was 16 years old she was a mother of two young children who was determined to raise her babies as she didn't want them to go into foster care. 💯
She chose to stay in this environment because it meant she could keep her children, however the moment she turned 18 years old, Mary made a choice that would change her entire story. 👊
“ Walk In Love, Not Fear ” – Mary Elizabeth
Tune in to hear more of Mary's journey. 🎙
To checkout Moon Over Medium click here: 👉 www.moonovermedium.com
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
As a teenager she was sex trafficked as she was seen as an easy target due to her mother suffering from a drug addiction. This left her open and vulnerable to the world. 🥺
By the time she was 16 years old she was a mother of two young children who was determined to raise her babies as she didn't want them to go into foster care. 💯
She chose to stay in this environment because it meant she could keep her children, however the moment she turned 18 years old, Mary made a choice that would change her entire story. 👊
“ Walk In Love, Not Fear ” – Mary Elizabeth
Tune in to hear more of Mary's journey. 🎙
To checkout Moon Over Medium click here: 👉 www.moonovermedium.com
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Jul 29, 202133:11
EP:19 "My Father Didn't Think That I was His" - Hads Te Huia
➡️ Introducing Hads Te Huia who is originally from the West Coast of New Zealand and the Founder of BomblifeNZ which encourages followers to live the Bomblife!
Hads wasn't planned and his father wasn't impressed with his arrival because he didn't believe that he was his. 😔
His father was a mentally and physically abusive person towards him and his mother. Never showing an ounce of love towards Hads. 🥺
He was bought up in a "Once Were Warriors" lifestyle that saw him become anxious as a child as he also witnessed events he should never have seen. 👈
Although he loved his father, he also hated him at the same time. When his father passed Hads took it upon himself to keep things going with his mother as she wasn't strong enough mentally. This would see Hads going to parties to steal the meat out of the freezers so they had food to eat. 👊
Despite this Hads knew there had to be so much more to life than this. 💯
“ There Was Something Inside Me, That Knew I Was Here For A Reason ” – Hads Te Huia
Tune in to hear more of Had’s journey. 🎙
To follow Hads on instagram for content that will crsck up click here: 👉 bit.ly/3xIu2wX 💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Hads wasn't planned and his father wasn't impressed with his arrival because he didn't believe that he was his. 😔
His father was a mentally and physically abusive person towards him and his mother. Never showing an ounce of love towards Hads. 🥺
He was bought up in a "Once Were Warriors" lifestyle that saw him become anxious as a child as he also witnessed events he should never have seen. 👈
Although he loved his father, he also hated him at the same time. When his father passed Hads took it upon himself to keep things going with his mother as she wasn't strong enough mentally. This would see Hads going to parties to steal the meat out of the freezers so they had food to eat. 👊
Despite this Hads knew there had to be so much more to life than this. 💯
“ There Was Something Inside Me, That Knew I Was Here For A Reason ” – Hads Te Huia
Tune in to hear more of Had’s journey. 🎙
To follow Hads on instagram for content that will crsck up click here: 👉 bit.ly/3xIu2wX 💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Jul 15, 202139:56
EP:18 " My Identity Is Not In My Jersey – Kirby Sefo
➡️ Introducing Kirby Sefo who is the Founder of Subbed which creates initiatives for young females to overcome barriers and hardships that may prevent them from playing their chosen sport.
Kirby is highly passionate about mental health sharing the journies of high profile sportswomen around the highs and lows of professional sport. 👌
Her own personal experiences found her battling with anxiety, depression and imposter syndrome which she found was masked by her athletic abilities representing at state level and nationally for both Australia and NZ. 👈
Although Kirby was presented with some amazing opportunities as a professional athlete, it wasn't all that it seemed to be... 💯
Unfortunately Kirby suffered a concussion that could've taken her sight. This event would change the direction of her career entirely and impact her day to day life. 😔
“ I'm Not Going To Stop Taking Part In Society, Because Of A Fear That Something Will Happen ” – Kirby Sefo
Tune in to hear more of Kirby’s journey.🎙
To learn more about Subbed click here: 👉 www.subbed.com.au
Kirby is highly passionate about mental health sharing the journies of high profile sportswomen around the highs and lows of professional sport. 👌
Her own personal experiences found her battling with anxiety, depression and imposter syndrome which she found was masked by her athletic abilities representing at state level and nationally for both Australia and NZ. 👈
Although Kirby was presented with some amazing opportunities as a professional athlete, it wasn't all that it seemed to be... 💯
Unfortunately Kirby suffered a concussion that could've taken her sight. This event would change the direction of her career entirely and impact her day to day life. 😔
“ I'm Not Going To Stop Taking Part In Society, Because Of A Fear That Something Will Happen ” – Kirby Sefo
Tune in to hear more of Kirby’s journey.🎙
To learn more about Subbed click here: 👉 www.subbed.com.au
Jul 08, 202143:34
EP:17 “ F*** It, I Need Help "– Callum Mellor
➡️ Introducing Callum Mellor, who is a son, a friend and most importantly in the driver's seat of his own life.
As a child Callum always felt like something was missing. He was scared of the world and would avoid venturing out. 🙁
You could often find him indoors watching The Simpson's. The Simpson's planted some ideals around drinking and the culture of this environment and at the age of 12, Callum had his first drink. 🍺
He found he was more confident in being himself, was comfortable venturing into the world now he had found this new way of living. 🙌
Soon after he would find himself trying to get his hands on the drink anyway he could, whether it meant buying it or stealing it etc. 👈
This would take him on a pathway of destruction and although he knew something needed to change, he wasn't sure where or how to get support. 😔
“ Take The First Step To Find Recovery, It Won't Be Easy But It's Worth It! ” – Callum Mellor 💙
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
If you'd like to learn more about Alcohics Anonymous click here: 👉 aa.org.au/
As a child Callum always felt like something was missing. He was scared of the world and would avoid venturing out. 🙁
You could often find him indoors watching The Simpson's. The Simpson's planted some ideals around drinking and the culture of this environment and at the age of 12, Callum had his first drink. 🍺
He found he was more confident in being himself, was comfortable venturing into the world now he had found this new way of living. 🙌
Soon after he would find himself trying to get his hands on the drink anyway he could, whether it meant buying it or stealing it etc. 👈
This would take him on a pathway of destruction and although he knew something needed to change, he wasn't sure where or how to get support. 😔
“ Take The First Step To Find Recovery, It Won't Be Easy But It's Worth It! ” – Callum Mellor 💙
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
If you'd like to learn more about Alcohics Anonymous click here: 👉 aa.org.au/
Jul 01, 202159:15
EP:16 “ They Didn't Think I Was Going To Make It “– Natasha Davies
➡️ Introducing Natasha Davies who is a wife, mother of two and CEO and Founder of Uincourage based in Papamoa, New Zealand.
It was the 29th of October 2019, a day like any other and Natasha and her cousins decided to walk up Mauao. 🏞
She was on a natural high after a recent trip to Bali, however, on the return trip down the mountain she collapsed and would soon be fighting for her life. 😭
I was only 33 at the time and was pretty young you know and otherwise in good health. You just don't expect these things to happen to you. 👈
Tune in to hear more of Natasha’s journey. 🎙
“ When U Come Into Courage, U Naturally Incourage Others ” – Natasha Davies 💛
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
If you'd like to learn more about Uincourage click here: 👉 bit.ly/3jayiB1
It was the 29th of October 2019, a day like any other and Natasha and her cousins decided to walk up Mauao. 🏞
She was on a natural high after a recent trip to Bali, however, on the return trip down the mountain she collapsed and would soon be fighting for her life. 😭
I was only 33 at the time and was pretty young you know and otherwise in good health. You just don't expect these things to happen to you. 👈
Tune in to hear more of Natasha’s journey. 🎙
“ When U Come Into Courage, U Naturally Incourage Others ” – Natasha Davies 💛
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
If you'd like to learn more about Uincourage click here: 👉 bit.ly/3jayiB1
Jun 24, 202128:24
EP:15 “ My Brother Lost His Life to Mental Illness “– Tom Augustsson
➡️ Introducing Tom Augustsson who is originally from parts of Northern Europe who is very passionate about speaking about mental illness, educating others on recognizing signs, and helping to break the associated stigma. ✅
When Tom arrived at work, he noticed a lot of his colleagues had arrived late that morning, not thinking too much of this he continued his day.
🤔 At 9.45 am he received a phonecall from his father and was met with the sound of heavy breathing as he could not speak. Eventually, his mother jumped on the line and uttered eight words…
We’re very sorry, your brother John has died. 😭 Tom’s stomach dropped, he was in shock and grief and would soon learn that the impact of his brother’s passing had not only affected him and his family, but it had rippled out to so many others on that day.
😢 Much later I would often think to myself if this were preventable if we could’ve helped John in some way the first responders, the staff, the patrons they would not have been impacted by the trauma of being at that event on that day.
💯 Tom is now an advocate for GROW which is a 12-step program mental health support program based on lived experience which helps people recovering from mental illness based on similar principles of AA. 👍
After utilising their services for himself, they really helped educate Tom with strategies, tools, and understanding more about people and the reasons they might abuse substances or similar. You can check them out here: https://grow.org.au/
👈 Tom also advocates for Arafmi who provides quality support, education, and advocacy services to people with mental illness, their families, and carers. If you are interested in the services, they offer please feel free to check out their link: www.arafmi.com.au
👈 Tune in to hear more of Tom’s journey. 🎙
“ Respond With Love & Compassion ” – Tom Augustsson 💙
Jun 17, 202149:42
EP:14 “I Was Using Alcohol To Drown Out My Emotions ” - Alan Howle
➡️ Introducing Alan Howle who is a Video Coach and Founder of Triple Effect which is based on the Central Coast, NSW and has a team based all around Australia. Alan is also married to his beautiful wife Jessica and has two adorable children. 💛
Working for yourself has its benefits, you’re able to schedule things so they work for you and if you’re offered a alcoholic drink at 8am you can have it. 🍺
When this offer was made by a client, the older versions of Alan would’ve taken to this drink offer like a moth to a flame, without any hesitation at all however this time it was different. 👈
This time, Alan thought about whether or not he actually needed that drink. Considering how it would impact his already busy schedule for the day. 🤔
This conversation would be a pinnacle point for Alan which would send him on a journey through conversations with friends and a great book he read called “The Alcohol Experiment” by Annie Grace 📖
Tune in to hear more of Alan’s journey. 🎙 “ I Told Myself I’m Going To Give Up Alcohol For 30 Days” - Alan Howle 💙
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
👉 If you'd like to connect with Alan Howle please click here: bit.ly/3ohqoWJ
Working for yourself has its benefits, you’re able to schedule things so they work for you and if you’re offered a alcoholic drink at 8am you can have it. 🍺
When this offer was made by a client, the older versions of Alan would’ve taken to this drink offer like a moth to a flame, without any hesitation at all however this time it was different. 👈
This time, Alan thought about whether or not he actually needed that drink. Considering how it would impact his already busy schedule for the day. 🤔
This conversation would be a pinnacle point for Alan which would send him on a journey through conversations with friends and a great book he read called “The Alcohol Experiment” by Annie Grace 📖
Tune in to hear more of Alan’s journey. 🎙 “ I Told Myself I’m Going To Give Up Alcohol For 30 Days” - Alan Howle 💙
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
👉 If you'd like to connect with Alan Howle please click here: bit.ly/3ohqoWJ
May 14, 202118:13
EP:13 “They Came In With Guns And Started Shooting Everyone” - Ghazal Sallouha
➡️ Introducing Ghazal Sallouha who is originally from Iraq and has migrated not once but twice to two different countries for the safety of her family and a brand new start.
🔰 Could you imagine being disliked because of your religion?
When it is taken so far that many are killed for this reason alone. 😢
Ghazal has seen what most of us will only ever see on the movies, bodies laying on the ground covered in blood. Images that stay with you no matter where you in life... 😭
Imagine hiding out with a family of 20 or so people keeping away from the windows because of glass and hoping and praying that the bomb won’t hit where you are. 🙏
This was her reality as a child and that of her family until one day they received a message that her brother was going to be next.. 😱
Tune in to hear more of Ghazal’s journey. 🎙
“Love All People, People Are People And We’re All The Same ” - Ghazal Sallouha 💛
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
🔰 Could you imagine being disliked because of your religion?
When it is taken so far that many are killed for this reason alone. 😢
Ghazal has seen what most of us will only ever see on the movies, bodies laying on the ground covered in blood. Images that stay with you no matter where you in life... 😭
Imagine hiding out with a family of 20 or so people keeping away from the windows because of glass and hoping and praying that the bomb won’t hit where you are. 🙏
This was her reality as a child and that of her family until one day they received a message that her brother was going to be next.. 😱
Tune in to hear more of Ghazal’s journey. 🎙
“Love All People, People Are People And We’re All The Same ” - Ghazal Sallouha 💛
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Apr 29, 202115:52
EP:12 ”I Looked Like I Had Eaten A Small Man” - Jamie Milne
➡️ Introducing Jamie Milne who is the owner of Jamie Milne Training. He is a father, partner, Hypnotherapist, CBT Practitioner, NLP & Time Line Therapy specialist.
Some of Jamie’s achievements include:
🔥 World Record Title Holder for: 🔥
🔰 Most Burpee Broadjumps - 4,267 (22.5 hours)
🔰 Most Double Unders - 22,222 (12 hours)
🔰 Many Miles for Mary (320km)
🔰 Run 2x Length of the North Island, NZ (80km per day)
🔰 Running from Melbourne to his gym on the Sunshine Coast (2,000km)
It wasn’t always like this for Jamie who was raised by his father, as a child you could often find Jamie on the handle bars of his fathers push bike. 🚴
He finished school with no formal qualifications and at the age of 16 he enlisted into the Navy to follow in his fathers footstep. He eventually became a qualified chef and ships diver. 🚢
Jamie earned a thirst whilst in the Navy and was eventually given an ultimatum at the age of 19 on his last warning to attend Rehab or AA as a result of this. ⚠️
Once he left the Navy he went overseas for 9 months and returned looking like an entirely different man. 😳
My grandfather looked at me and said;
🗣 “Jamie you look disgusting man, I can’t even see my grandson. Where is my grandson?”.
It was the message he needed to hear, although it hurt him to the core. 😔
“My Life Will Never Ever Be The Same, I Will Never Treat Myself The Way That I Have” - Jamie Milne 💙
Tune in to hear more of Jamie’s journey. 🎙
👉 If you would like to learn more about “Jamie Milne” click here: https://bit.ly/32mtkY2
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Apr 16, 202129:53
E11: “My Brother Was Murdered On My Daughters 5th Birthday” - Lindsay Mustain
➡️ Introducing Lindsay Mustain who is the CEO of Talent Paradigm which has helped over 15,000+ individuals land jobs around the world.
Before she founded Talent Paradigm she was also responsible for hiring over 10,000 individuals for Amazon. 👌
Lindsay is also the author of “7 Critical Resume Mistakes to Avoid” and she is a mother of two beautiful children. 💕
Lindsay’s speciality is helping people to land their 6 figure dream job! 🙌
It wasn’t always like this...
20 years ago you could find Lindsay on the streets, homeless but grateful just to have shoes on her feet. 🙏
Leaving her job at Amazon to pursue her own business with nothing but a hope and a dream with a family was scary as hell. 💭
Sadly, she would find that the worst was yet to come... 😢
It was her daughters 5th birthday. 🥳
I received a text from my aunt and all it said was:
⚠️ EMERGENCY, call me ASAP! ⚠️
As I talked to my uncle, my heart sank.. 💔
All I wanted to know was...
🔰 Is he okay?
🔰 Where do I need to go?
🔰 What do I need to do?
What her uncle said next would tare Lindsay’s whole world apart in an instant. 😭
“I Looked Into Her Eyes And I Told Her I Forgave Her” - Lindsay Mustain 💜
Tune in to hear more of Lindsay’s journey. 🎙
👉 If you would like to learn more about the “Lindsay Mustain” click here: bit.ly/3sDnpcL
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Before she founded Talent Paradigm she was also responsible for hiring over 10,000 individuals for Amazon. 👌
Lindsay is also the author of “7 Critical Resume Mistakes to Avoid” and she is a mother of two beautiful children. 💕
Lindsay’s speciality is helping people to land their 6 figure dream job! 🙌
It wasn’t always like this...
20 years ago you could find Lindsay on the streets, homeless but grateful just to have shoes on her feet. 🙏
Leaving her job at Amazon to pursue her own business with nothing but a hope and a dream with a family was scary as hell. 💭
Sadly, she would find that the worst was yet to come... 😢
It was her daughters 5th birthday. 🥳
I received a text from my aunt and all it said was:
⚠️ EMERGENCY, call me ASAP! ⚠️
As I talked to my uncle, my heart sank.. 💔
All I wanted to know was...
🔰 Is he okay?
🔰 Where do I need to go?
🔰 What do I need to do?
What her uncle said next would tare Lindsay’s whole world apart in an instant. 😭
“I Looked Into Her Eyes And I Told Her I Forgave Her” - Lindsay Mustain 💜
Tune in to hear more of Lindsay’s journey. 🎙
👉 If you would like to learn more about the “Lindsay Mustain” click here: bit.ly/3sDnpcL
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Apr 01, 202131:57
EP:10 “In March 2020, I Weighed Over 372 Pounds” - Kyle Segarra
➡️ Introducing Kyle Segarra who is a teacher and a change agent who aspires to inspire the leaders of tomorrow.
In March 2020 Kyle weighed over 372 pounds! 👊
In 2016 over 1.9 Billion adults worldwide were overweight of which 13% were obese (WHO). 👈
I was in the “morbidly obese” range and I was suffering a multitude of signs and symptoms which accompanied this. 😔
🔰 It was a struggle and it was a quiet struggle.
🔰 No one knew what I was experiencing except for my wife.
🔰 A walk that may seem simple for many, was excruciating for me.
🔰 You don’t want to tell anyone that you can’t even remove your own socks, due to swelling.
🔰 You don’t want to tell anyone because you feel embarrassed.
A horrific family loss would change the direction of Kyle’s life. 😢
“I Told My Wife I Want To Be Here For You Now And In The Future Too” - Kyle Segarra 💙
Tune in to hear more of Kyle’s journey. 🎙
Kyle created the “Happy Strides Project” so he could continue to inspire others outside of the classroom. 💯
👉 If you would like to learn more about the “Happy Strides Project” click here: linktr.ee/happystridesproject
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
In March 2020 Kyle weighed over 372 pounds! 👊
In 2016 over 1.9 Billion adults worldwide were overweight of which 13% were obese (WHO). 👈
I was in the “morbidly obese” range and I was suffering a multitude of signs and symptoms which accompanied this. 😔
🔰 It was a struggle and it was a quiet struggle.
🔰 No one knew what I was experiencing except for my wife.
🔰 A walk that may seem simple for many, was excruciating for me.
🔰 You don’t want to tell anyone that you can’t even remove your own socks, due to swelling.
🔰 You don’t want to tell anyone because you feel embarrassed.
A horrific family loss would change the direction of Kyle’s life. 😢
“I Told My Wife I Want To Be Here For You Now And In The Future Too” - Kyle Segarra 💙
Tune in to hear more of Kyle’s journey. 🎙
Kyle created the “Happy Strides Project” so he could continue to inspire others outside of the classroom. 💯
👉 If you would like to learn more about the “Happy Strides Project” click here: linktr.ee/happystridesproject
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Mar 18, 202134:32
EP:9 “Nothing Can Prepare You For The Loss Of A Baby” - Dominique Ropiha
➡️ Introducing Dominique Ropiha who is a beautiful friend who provides spiritual guidance to help hundreds of people through her business Ora Mystic. 💗
When her trainer said: “Dom, you’re bleeding... I cant be though I’m pregnant”... 😥
Her whole world changed in an instant. 💯
Today she shares her story on the loss of her baby and the journey that followed. 😭
Carrying guilt because she felt like her body had failed her... 😔
Sadly 10-20% of woman have and will continue to experience this worldwide (Wikipedia). 🌍
But what happens when that woman is you? 👈
There is no advice that I could give to prepare you for the loss of a baby, but sometimes you just need to be around love. 💕
“Don’t Forget To Love Yourself On This Journey” - Dominique Ropiha 💛
Tune in to hear more of Dominique’s journey. 🎙
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
When her trainer said: “Dom, you’re bleeding... I cant be though I’m pregnant”... 😥
Her whole world changed in an instant. 💯
Today she shares her story on the loss of her baby and the journey that followed. 😭
Carrying guilt because she felt like her body had failed her... 😔
Sadly 10-20% of woman have and will continue to experience this worldwide (Wikipedia). 🌍
But what happens when that woman is you? 👈
There is no advice that I could give to prepare you for the loss of a baby, but sometimes you just need to be around love. 💕
“Don’t Forget To Love Yourself On This Journey” - Dominique Ropiha 💛
Tune in to hear more of Dominique’s journey. 🎙
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Mar 11, 202123:00
EP:8 “My Grandad Sexually Abused Me” - Perry Power
➡️ Introducing Perry Power who is a courageous young man who has used his voice to share his story to help thousands around the world.
Perry is the author of: “Breaking The Silence” which hit #1 in the UK just days after it was released. 🏆
Sharing his own in-depth story and untold stories of other victims at the hands of sexual abuse. 📝
👉 You can check it out here: bit.ly/breakingthesilencebook
Perry has also founded “We Rescue Kids” which is a charity that provides therapy and family-life safe homes for children that have been rescued from sexual abuse/ trafficking. 🙏
An everyday family visit, doing something as simple as dropping a cigarette... 😞
It was the alarm that Perry’s stepmom was alerted too that something wasn’t right.. 💯
A mastermind for growth would become the first platform that Perry used to set himself free. 👌
The momentum behind that one choice would help to pave the way forward for thousands of others around the world. 🌍
“I Wanted To Forgive My Grandad, Not For Him... For Me!” - Perry Power 💙
Tune in to hear more of Perry’s journey. 🎙
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Perry is the author of: “Breaking The Silence” which hit #1 in the UK just days after it was released. 🏆
Sharing his own in-depth story and untold stories of other victims at the hands of sexual abuse. 📝
👉 You can check it out here: bit.ly/breakingthesilencebook
Perry has also founded “We Rescue Kids” which is a charity that provides therapy and family-life safe homes for children that have been rescued from sexual abuse/ trafficking. 🙏
An everyday family visit, doing something as simple as dropping a cigarette... 😞
It was the alarm that Perry’s stepmom was alerted too that something wasn’t right.. 💯
A mastermind for growth would become the first platform that Perry used to set himself free. 👌
The momentum behind that one choice would help to pave the way forward for thousands of others around the world. 🌍
“I Wanted To Forgive My Grandad, Not For Him... For Me!” - Perry Power 💙
Tune in to hear more of Perry’s journey. 🎙
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Mar 04, 202154:22
E7: “Inside The Depths Of Depression” - Renay Casini
➡️ Introducing Renay Casini who is a beautiful soul who reached out to me to ask to be interviewed on the Podcast.
She wanted to share what it’s like for her in the depths of a depressive state so people could see and feel how overwhelming and tiring it can be when you’re in this space. 😢
When you reach out to people and they’re unable to help you shift from the space you’re currently in, what do people do? 🤔
They turn to substances and other things to give them the relief they’re seeking to give them a break from the noise inside their head. 💯
Although the interview starts in this space, Renay has also provided some amazing tools that you can implement to prepare yourself and those around you if you find yourself in this space again in the future. 💛
Tune in to hear more of Renay’s journey. 🎙
“What If The Fight Of Leaning Into It, Accepting & Surrendering To The Depressive State Is The Journey To Success?”. - Renay Casini 💜
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Feb 25, 202154:30
EP:6 “When The Tools Don’t Work For You” - Peter Brown
➡️ Introducing Peter Brown who is a father of two, has a beautiful partner who works in construction and he’s also an ambassador for “A Chance for Change”.
The only way I knew about mental health was because of a friend. 🙎♂️
I’m just a bloke, a mate who was helping him battle through his demons. I never realised what I was doing at the time. 🙅♂️
I was the annoying mate, who was calling and texting, doing the 1% that everyone wants and craves although they don’t realise it at the time. 💯
He went from the dark to the light. He beat it! 💙
From this experience I recognised some of the signs to be aware of. ✅
I eventually became an ambassador for “A Chance for Change”, so I could help other blokes. 🔥
The thing was, I didn’t recognise the signs as I started to walk down a dark pathway myself even though I knew what to look out for... 🤷♂️
Tune in to hear more of Peter’s journey. 🎙
“Speaking Up, Is Manning Up” - Peter Brown 💙
👉 achanceforchange.org.au
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
The only way I knew about mental health was because of a friend. 🙎♂️
I’m just a bloke, a mate who was helping him battle through his demons. I never realised what I was doing at the time. 🙅♂️
I was the annoying mate, who was calling and texting, doing the 1% that everyone wants and craves although they don’t realise it at the time. 💯
He went from the dark to the light. He beat it! 💙
From this experience I recognised some of the signs to be aware of. ✅
I eventually became an ambassador for “A Chance for Change”, so I could help other blokes. 🔥
The thing was, I didn’t recognise the signs as I started to walk down a dark pathway myself even though I knew what to look out for... 🤷♂️
Tune in to hear more of Peter’s journey. 🎙
“Speaking Up, Is Manning Up” - Peter Brown 💙
👉 achanceforchange.org.au
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Feb 18, 202133:23
EP:5 “Surviving Without My Girls” - Anonymous
➡️ Introducing our first anonymous guest who is a mother that has been separated from her girls for 2 years and 9 months.
Trying to protect her children the best way she was able too as advised by the professionals.⚖️
Turned out to be a decision she now regrets. 😔
What do you do, when it feels like your reason for living no longer exists? 🥲
Tune in to hear this heartbreaking story of a mother’s love and the hope she holds for the day when they finally come home. 🙏
“Every Day Is A Day Closer” - Anonymous 💕
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Trying to protect her children the best way she was able too as advised by the professionals.⚖️
Turned out to be a decision she now regrets. 😔
What do you do, when it feels like your reason for living no longer exists? 🥲
Tune in to hear this heartbreaking story of a mother’s love and the hope she holds for the day when they finally come home. 🙏
“Every Day Is A Day Closer” - Anonymous 💕
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Feb 11, 202115:53
EP:4 “There Is Hope” - Mark Forbes
Introducing Mark Forbes who is the Founder of EndED along with his wife Gay they provide support and services for those with Eating Disorders based on the Sunshine Coast. 💜
Mark is all too familiar with the pain associated with Eating Disorders. 😔
He has watched two daughters go through this debilitating journey. 😢
And through this pain and suffering was able to provide a light of hope for others going through similar. 💛
“There was no support available for those suffering or their families, so we set out to change that”. - Mark Forbes 💙
If you know someone who needs support in this space please checkout: www.ended.org.au
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Mark is all too familiar with the pain associated with Eating Disorders. 😔
He has watched two daughters go through this debilitating journey. 😢
And through this pain and suffering was able to provide a light of hope for others going through similar. 💛
“There was no support available for those suffering or their families, so we set out to change that”. - Mark Forbes 💙
If you know someone who needs support in this space please checkout: www.ended.org.au
💜 “You Are Not Alone”. 💜
Feb 04, 202138:60
EP:3 “I Defied The Odds, Not Once But Twice”. - Trish Turner
👉 I thought this is just the worst case scenario.
But you know, these things happen to everyone else...
I'm a glass half full person. 🥛
And I'm also a nurse, so I know all about these things you know. 👩⚕️
What he said next would change everything. 💯
Not only that but my husband at the time, also had Bi-Polar. 😳
All I asked God was "just keep me alive, so I can raise my child"... 🙏
What was different the second time around you ask? 🤔
My son had reached adulthood and was independant. 👏
And if I was to die, I knew I'd be okay. 😢
My job as a mother was done. 💜
But you know, these things happen to everyone else...
I'm a glass half full person. 🥛
And I'm also a nurse, so I know all about these things you know. 👩⚕️
What he said next would change everything. 💯
Not only that but my husband at the time, also had Bi-Polar. 😳
All I asked God was "just keep me alive, so I can raise my child"... 🙏
What was different the second time around you ask? 🤔
My son had reached adulthood and was independant. 👏
And if I was to die, I knew I'd be okay. 😢
My job as a mother was done. 💜
Jan 29, 202131:01
EP:2 “I Am Proof That Life Gets Better” - Nathan Taylor
⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️
Introducing Nathan Taylor who is an advocate for suicide prevention based on the Sunshine Coast. 💜
After a breakdown in a relationship, Nathan fell into depression. 😔
👉 I was in so much pain
👉 I just didn’t have the strength
👉 I didn’t want to go on anymore
Nathan shares his story of his darkest hour and the tools he has used to to find his way out. 🙏
I feel it’s very important to be open, to be honest and there is real strength in vulnerability. 💯
I think by sharing your story it’s a great way to connect with others, so they know they’re not alone. - Nathan Taylor 💙
Introducing Nathan Taylor who is an advocate for suicide prevention based on the Sunshine Coast. 💜
After a breakdown in a relationship, Nathan fell into depression. 😔
👉 I was in so much pain
👉 I just didn’t have the strength
👉 I didn’t want to go on anymore
Nathan shares his story of his darkest hour and the tools he has used to to find his way out. 🙏
I feel it’s very important to be open, to be honest and there is real strength in vulnerability. 💯
I think by sharing your story it’s a great way to connect with others, so they know they’re not alone. - Nathan Taylor 💙
Jan 21, 202131:03
EP:1 “Lessons Learned From Life's Challenges” - Dr. Lois Sonstegard
Introducing Dr. Lois Sonstegard who shares her story that defies the odd's, going up against the advice of Doctors, Parents and many critics along the way. 💛
Dr. Sonstegard’s belief and pure determination just shows what is possible when you don't lose hope. 💜
Even if the outcome didn't change, at least I'd l know that I did all that I could - Dr. Lois Sonstegard 💜
Dr. Sonstegard’s belief and pure determination just shows what is possible when you don't lose hope. 💜
Even if the outcome didn't change, at least I'd l know that I did all that I could - Dr. Lois Sonstegard 💜
Jan 15, 202129:25