I Believe Your Abuse
By Brandy Fuller Anderson
A recovery podcast for those who are or have experienced the trauma of narcissistic abuse, focusing more on those in a romantic relationship with a narcissist. Gain insight, acceptance and support as you move forward to a life free from narcissistic abuse.
16 - Why did I fall for it?
On this episode we discuss those early stages of the relationship, and what took place to suck you in, and trap you there. Love bombing. Trauma bonding. And how to start to heal from this narcissistic abuse.
September 11, 2022
15 - When to Talk About It
On this episode, Brandy answers a listeners question about the do’s and dont’s of telling your story while healing from narcissistic abuse.
February 16, 2022
14 - Moving Forward: Going No Contact
Have questions about how to going no contact, or utilizing the gray rock method? It may be the only way you break free. On this episode, we discuss how to best use both methods to help you fully break free and recover from narcissistic abuse.
May 23, 2021
13 - NPD and Bipolar Disorder
Bipolar Disorder and NPD are frequently mistaken for each other. Can someone have both? Why is it important to know? Tune in to episode 13 for this discussion.
May 01, 2021
12 - Do Narcissists Love Their Children
Continue to heal through narcissistic abuse by understanding how little they have to offer in any relationship...to anyone.
May 08, 2020
Red Flag Episode - 106
Continue healing from narcissistic abuse by learning the red flags that you likely ignored, so that you can learn to avoid them in the future. Food for thought in today’s episode where we discuss narc habits/qualities including boredom, lack of integrity, and ability to make you feel utterly lonely.
April 27, 2020
11 - Trauma Bonding
How do I know if I'm trauma bonded? What makes the trauma bond so strong? How can I heal from the trauma bond? Answers to these questions and more as we continue to heal from narcissistic abuse. Todays show is all about the trauma bond.
March 26, 2020
10 - The Role of the Narcissist's Partner
Continue healing from narcissistic abuse in this episode where we hear from a survivor's experience, discuss the role of the narcissist's partner, and answer a listeners question regarding emotions.
February 14, 2020
9 - Physical Abuse w/ guest author Natasha Tolbert
Continue your recovery from narcissistic abuse. Today we explore the physical abuse that may be occurring in your toxic relationship with the narcissist, and hear from survivor and author, Natasha Tolbert. Be forgiving of today’s sound quality, as we recorded from two separate studio locations.
January 30, 2020
8 - Narcissistic Sexuality
Continue your recovery from narcissistic abuse while learning about the atypical sexuality often exhibited by narcissists while in romantic relationships.
January 28, 2020
Red Flag Episode - 105
Continue your recovery from narcissistic partner abuse by discussing some of the often missed red flags, or interesting details about your narcissistic partner.
January 27, 2020
7 - Lies and Gaslighting
Continue your recovery from narcissistic abuse. This episode discusses the many lies and damaging gaslighting that occur when in a romantic relationship with a narcissist.
January 16, 2020
Red Flag Episode - 104
Continue educating yourself on the warning signs of narcissistic partners...but today, we discuss a narcissistic coworker.
January 13, 2020
6 - Children Feel the Abuse Too
If you have children with a narcissist partner...it isn't just you that you have to consider when choosing to stay or leave the abuse. On this show, we speak with 13yo Delaney about what it was like for her when living with a narcissistic step-father.
January 09, 2020
Red Flag Episode - 103
Join us as we continue the recovery from narcissistic abuse and explore more of the red flags that might clue you in to a toxic relationship with a narcissist. Today, we discuss the narcissist's shallow connections with others.
January 06, 2020
5 - Being The Scapegoat
Continue the journey to recovering from narcissistic abuse while discussing many ways in which the narcissist keeps up appearances by making you the scapegoat. This show provides education regarding narcissistic personality disorder, and focuses on what it's like being in a romantic relationship with a narcissist. Education and understanding are key to healing from this insidious abuse. Never stop telling your story...I believe you.
January 02, 2020
4 - Nobody Believes Me
Have you ever wondered how you will ever heal when nobody believes the story you have to tell? In this episode, we continue our journey of recovery from narcissistic abuse, and address ways to surpass the inevitable invalidation that survivors will be met with. Self worth comes from within, and you are stronger than you will ever know! Say no to the narcissist, and anyone who follows the narcissist's lies...you don't need them! I believe you.
December 26, 2019
Red Flag Episode - 102
Join us as we continue the recovery from narcissistic abuse and explore more of the red flags that might clue you in to a toxic relationship with a narcissist. Today, we discuss more secrets, lies and addictions.
December 23, 2019
3 - Does he treat everyone this way?
Narcissistic abuse feels very targeted...a convenient result of this incredibly isolating experience...but does the narcissist treat only one person poorly? Learn more about the narcissist in this week's episode...and gain a clear understanding of their actions all the time, so that you can accept their ability to change (or not change), and move forward.
December 19, 2019
Red Flag Episode - 101
Bonus! Let's talk about some of the red flags that might tip you off to a relationship with a narcissist as we continue our journey in healing from, and helping to spread awareness for, narcissistic abuse.
December 16, 2019
2 - How does he know how to do what he does?
In this episode, we dive into the narcissistic abuse cycle and why the narcissists all seem to act so similar. Just how does he know how to do what he does?
December 12, 2019
1 - The First Episode: Dangerous Secrets
Recover from narcissistic abuse by becoming informed, gaining insight, embracing the support of other survivors and finding the courage to move forward in peace. This experience will shape you...it will not define you.
December 05, 2019