I love you too much to argue!

Harmonic Groups are another trio within the Enneagram that help us discover how we respond to loss and disappointment. Holly + Bec discuss each of the Harmonic Groups and each number within those

No, no, no! Holly + Bec share some stories and laughs which will inspire you to ask yourself why you are saying no.

Holly + Bec revisit one of their most downloaded episodes - 5. Game Changer for toddlers, tantrums & toilet training. But don’t be fooled, this episode is helpful for everyone, not just those with toddlers.

I love you too much to argue is ONE, Happy Birthday to us!

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Holly + Bec chat to a very special guest, Ruth, about Baby Led Weaning and other food choices.  What is it, why would we do it and some helpful tips to get started!

Life, relationships and parenting is HARD! How can we deal with these harder moments in our parenting journey when things go wrong?

Have you ever felt like when your loved one apologises for something they have done that hurt you, the apology just doesn’t quite hit the mark. Holly + Bec discuss the five Apology Languages.

Communication is an essential part of everyday life. Holly & Bec discuss tips for each Enneagram type

What if Holly isn’t a 2 & Bec isn’t a 6? Have you ever wondered if you are a different Enneagram type? Holly & Bec discuss their possible mistypes

Holly and Bec's debut interview on an international podcast 🥳🥳🥳

Holly + Bec share a funny story from a listener and follow her up with some questions about her situation. 

This is the fifth and final episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat to Emma about 'Words of Affirmation'. If your love language is Words of Affirmation or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

In the last of this week's Lockdown Tips series, Holly + Bec chat about tips for people looking for work. 

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for housemates, plus share a meet-cute from Holly's sister and some stories from when Holly and Bec were housemates! 

This is the fourth episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat about 'Physical Touch'. If your love language is Physical Touch or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the quiz here https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

Holly + Bec answer a listener's question about Empathy. This is a 'must listen' for anyone who has relationships  

Triads or Centre of Intelligence is a grouping within the Enneagram that helps us to understand how we filter or receive information from the world around us. Join Holly + Bec as they discuss the basics of the Triads

This is the third episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat about 'Quality Time'. If your love language is Quality Time or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

Holly & Bec chat about the things that push the buttons of each Enneagram type. Listen to see how you could be pushing the buttons of your loved one and let us know what else pushes your buttons! Thanks to @ninetypesco on Instagram for the inspo for this episode.  

What is the Misbehaviour Cycle? How do adults contribute to the cycle and how can we disrupt it?

Following on from our deep dive into Receiving Gifts, Holly & Bec chat about 'Acts of Service' as a Love Language. If your love language is Act of Service or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

Following on from the episode about Consequences, Holly & Bec discuss the difference between discomfort and danger when it comes to allowing our kids to experience consequences.

In this episode, Holly & Bec do a deep dive into the 'Receiving Gifts' Love Language. If your love language is gifts or you have a friend or loved one with Gifts as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

The Enneagram has so many facets. Holly & Bec discuss the wounding message that each type heard or thought they heard as a child. Have a listen and let us know if you relate to the wounding message of your type. 

Why it is so important to have our kids contribute to the family? Do you pay your kids to do chores? Holly and Bec chat about all things chores.

Love Languages is a universal tool to help us speak love the loudest to those we are in relationships with. Holly & Bec talk about how to identify the love languages of teenagers.

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Holly & Bec answer an emailed question from a listener and share a success story from another listener.

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Welcome to the first episode for 2021! Are you having trouble working out which Enneagram number you are? Understanding the Stances of the Enneagram may help to narrow it down. Holly and Bec discuss each of the three stances, the Aggressive, Withdrawn and Dependant stances. 

Do you have questions about Stances?. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at

We have a confession....! We love F.r.i.e.n.d.s and we love the Enneagram. Also, Holly shares a controversial and embarrassing secret!

A person's predominant love language is how they hear love the loudest. Holly and Bec discuss things to avoid for each love language to help you show love the loudest to your loved ones.

In this episode, Holly and Bec chat to Kathy, a mum of 2 kids who uses Love and Logic techniques in her home. Find out what happened when Kathy's daughter had a problem.

It's the most wonderful time of the year! Is November too early to put up your Christmas Tree? Holly and Bec chat about Holly's favourite time of the year and share some clever Christmas hacks you might want to use yourself! 

Each of us has a primary enneagram type. Each type has stereotypical behaviour BUT that doesn't mean we always have that behaviour. We can all still exhibit behaviour from each type. 

This episode is dedicated to our friend Chris and his gorgeous late wife Amanda, we love you ❤️

Check out this fun episode where Holly and Bec do an experiment! What happens when they commit to saying 'YES' for a week??

Are you prepared to accept the #yeschallenge too?

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