Skip to main content
I’m Not Gay My Wife Is

I’m Not Gay My Wife Is

By I'm Not Gay, My Wife Is

I’m a bad lesbian- I don’t fit the mold of what the picture perfect lesbians on social media have set for me & it took me a hot minute to figure out that that is okay so I want to help you figure it out too.
Available on
Apple Podcasts Logo
Google Podcasts Logo
Pocket Casts Logo
RadioPublic Logo
Spotify Logo
Currently playing episode

Pay them no mind

I’m Not Gay My Wife IsNov 09, 2021

00:00
15:39
Pay them no mind

Pay them no mind

Build your community based on your needs, not anyone else’s!
Nov 09, 202115:39
LDR Lesbians

LDR Lesbians

HAPPY WEEK 2 OF PRIDE MONTH! I’m fascinated by LDR Lesbians. So much so that Sara & I have decided to try it out *explanation in episode🤪*
Jun 07, 202113:12
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!🏳️‍🌈

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!🏳️‍🌈

Happy Pride month everyone! For this month I want to dive into the history of Pride! This episode covers a brief history of where June as LGBTQ Pride Month originated
Jun 01, 202107:18
Let us Love

Let us Love

Mother’s Day was just a bit ago which got me thinking a lot about the issue that many people have with same sex couples being parents. In this episode I rant a lot about how I think that that is just dumb and how I don’t get it - enjoy my heated-ness
May 24, 202113:59
Religion is Hard

Religion is Hard

This week, I had the opportunity to sit down with Rebecca Inman of "A Different Officiant" to talk about the journey of discovering religion and spirituality. 

May 17, 202125:11
Ep 14 - The Diversity Panel

Ep 14 - The Diversity Panel

This past week I had the opportunity to be on a diversity panel. I battled some insecurities and learned a lot throughout the process. Overall, I’m so glad that I was able to be a part of such an amazing event.
Mar 01, 202110:14
Ep 13 - One Piece At A Time

Ep 13 - One Piece At A Time

We preach love is love in the lgbtq community and while it relates to our right love each other it also mean loving yourself. It won’t happen all at once but if we start piece by piece eventually we will be complete.
Feb 08, 202106:22
Ep 12 - who am I?

Ep 12 - who am I?

Who am I? Someone who is trying to kick insecurity’s ass an be myself & I encourage you to do the same!
Feb 01, 202107:19
Ep 11 - 22 Jokes about Lesbians

Ep 11 - 22 Jokes about Lesbians

In this week's episode, I found an article titled "22 Jokes About Lesbians That Ya Gotta Admit Are 100% Accurate". I pulled the birthday card and had my lovely wife join me for this episode as we read through them together! Check out the article here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/lyapalater/jokes-about-lesbians-that-ya-gotta-admit-are-100-accurate

Jan 25, 202130:31
Ep 10 - Lesbian Labels
Jan 18, 202107:23
Ep 9 - Things not to say to a lesbian
Jan 11, 202109:02
Ep 8- 2020 was like coming out..??

Ep 8- 2020 was like coming out..??

2020 was like coming out..? YES! Well, in this podcast it is! There are so many emotions that you go through when you're coming out, similar to the emotions that 2020 has put us all through. 

Jan 04, 202104:12
Ep 7 - Straight Talk

Ep 7 - Straight Talk

This week, I chat with my best friend, Julia about being on the straight side of molds.
Dec 21, 202023:12
Ep6: Happy Holigays!

Ep6: Happy Holigays!

It’s officially the holiday season! This can be a really tough time for a lot of people. Sara & I went through it ourselves so in this episode we have a chat about our own struggles with the holiday season in the past & the things we are looking forward to this year!
Dec 14, 202013:09
Ep 5- Some People Just Don’t Listen

Ep 5- Some People Just Don’t Listen

Some people just don’t listen... but love is love regardless so keep preaching babe!
Dec 07, 202006:43
Ep4- Love is Love, “Ya’ll”

Ep4- Love is Love, “Ya’ll”

I’m finally married!! Ep 4 is about appreciation, education and love. Show love everywhere, people.
Nov 30, 202004:44
Ep3- How I Met My Wife - WEDDING WEEK

Ep3- How I Met My Wife - WEDDING WEEK

In honor of wedding week, I’ve invited my wife to be to join me in telling the story of how we met.
Nov 16, 202014:50
Ep 2: Coming out!

Ep 2: Coming out!

We come out everyday with every new place we go and and every new face we see but nothing beats the first time. Here’s the story of my first time!
Nov 09, 202011:42
Ep 1 - F*** the mold

Ep 1 - F*** the mold

On the first episode of “I’m not Gay, My Wife Is” I talk about living your own life and my own struggles with trying to visualize myself in a mold that isn’t meant for me.
Nov 02, 202011:19