INFP Introvert Daydreamer

We all have introverted and extraverted parts to us. Even us most in-our-head-daydreamers need to interact with and be impacted by the external world. But what I have noticed for me is that not all extraverted activities are created equal, and some of them nourish me, whilst others drain me.

In this episode I speak to Four ways I extravert as an introvert in a way that nourishes me as an INFP.

Let me know your thoughts.

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This is a bit of a follow on from the last episode where I reflected on some of the things I have learned by starting a business.

So if you haven't listened to that I highly recommend you jump back and have a listen.

And a funny thing happened after I recorded that podcast. So what I was doing after recording the podcast was I wanted to find some welcome information that used to be on my old blog for my landing page. But the funny thing was down the bottom of the page was a link to my last blog post. And it caught my attention. It was titled…

and that's what I share with you in this episode. The thoughts, beliefs and what I felt I would find challenging about starting a business, knowing my INFP and introvert tendencies. 

I hope you enjoy the episode.

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Some of you may know that I started my coaching business 6 months ago and it had taught me so much during that short time. In today's episode I share with you: Five things I’ve learned about starting a business as an introvert.

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I need your help and feedback! Keep reading for my questions at the end of the show notes. 

A bit of a rant and ramble today! Join me as I flesh out my thoughts as I speak to them. In this episode I tried to speak to the topic of:

Giving up Facebook? My thoughts on the noisy world of social media as an INFP

• Every now and then I get the urge to step away.
• Why I feel that way.
• Fomo and worrying if it’s the right thing.
• Groups. The thing that has kept me resisting deleting.
• What instead?
• How can I nurture a community off fb?
• Social media I enjoy. Instagram
• The desire to use YouTube but the stage fright. So I go with podcasts.
• Long form vs short form and wondering what introverts and infp/j prefer.

I need your help. Please email me or DM me on IG

email: elegantdaydreamer@gmail.com  Insta handle @positivelyvicky_

• Where do you like to receive your content?
• Email newsletter? Social? Where?
• Looking at exploring Patreon? Is that something you would utilise (this is how we spell it in Australia)?
• What are your thoughts on Zoom catch-ups or trainings?
• Do you prefer audio or video?
• Do you enjoy long form content? Do you like blogs?

Today I speak about what I feel be to the ingredients or elements in sticking to a project. For an INFP or ENFP sticking to a project long term can be so hard. We lose interest so fast, we feel energized when we have new ideas and are in the "newness" of an experience. Over time, if we get bored or don't have enough variety in our lives we can begin to feel fatigued, lacklustre and resentful.

So how do we remain "on" when it comes to a project? Well I feel there at least 5 ingredients. In this episode I just quickly touch on each of these, but might flesh them out in future episodes, especially around how to tap into or cultivate each of the ingredients.

>>> Hey! I'm Vicky. INFP, introvert, KPOP and KDrama lover, Daydreamer, Ocean view lover, and serial project starter. This podcast is all about my personal experience as an INFP and introvert. I am from Australia - yes I have an Aussie accent, and I would love for you to be part of the INFP Daydreamer community.

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In Episode 19 I am sharing a FB video I shared in the INFP/J Facebook Group.

I reflect on and share my experience on embracing systems and procedures, and how they are helping me stay on track with getting things done as an INFP.

I hope you enjoy! And I would love for you to share with me any tips or your experience in embracing systems and procedures in your life.

Drop me an email at elegantdaydreamer@gmail.com

Hi everyone! I’m taking a short break from the podcast so that I can restore my energy and creative juices, and will be back in approx 2-3 wks.

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Episode 17 - 20 Things that drain me as an introvert

In todays episode I share with you 20 things that drain my mental and physical energy.

This episode will resonate with INFP, INFJ and other introverted or Highly sensitive individuals.

I'd love to know which points resonated with you most. You can email me at hello@elegantdaydreamer.com

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In this episode I speak to 3 perceived weaknesses or challenges many of us INFPs feel.  I am here to challenge you to reframe your perception! Listen in as I flip the script on some of the INFP “challenges” many of us experience. 

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Want to know what an INFP and INFJ couple talk about? Well in this episode I share 3 interesting conversations (what I remember of them) that my husband and I had recently. I touch on: How he can observe his own mind, and the way he solves problems. How I don’t like surprises. Him coming to the conclusion why I don’t like surprises and what he knows he needs to do to have a surprise run smoothly. That he can tell before he takes action how much energy, time and attention it will need AND how it will impact all the things he is already doing. I talk about how I don’t have that mechanism and I need to do the thing before I know how much time and energy it takes or how it will impact the other areas of my life. 

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This infp daydreamer has lost her voice and so I wanted to invite you to join my email list to so that you can be notified of new episodes and other musings I’d love for you to read. As you can see, I’m not much of a batcher which is how I’ve been led to publishing this super quick update instead. 

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Today I talk about some of the things that give me energy as an introvert INFP. 

I am so excited to announce that I am starting a Facebook group for INFP and INFJ women who are looking to create life their way. I am so blown away with the incredible response to this podcast and I want to take things one step further and create a community for us introvert women.

Join the INFP & INFJ Women - Creating Life Your Way FB Group

Hello fellow INFPs,

I am excited to announce i am back with a new season INFP daydreamer. We kick of in a few days and we will be covering topics such as what i learned about myself as an INFP during lockdown, how my introverted sensing has evolved as I am getting older, INFPs and exercise, starting a business as an INFP, parenting as an INFPand more.

I hope that you will joining me.

I have also started a new Instagram account @elegant.daydreamer and I would love for you to come over and connect.

Welcome! I am INFP (mostly sure) and in this first Eppy I talk a little about why I want to podcast, a sneaky look at my distaste for lists, and a desire to feel belonging and connection to other IXFPs.