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New Mindset, New Perspective. A Podcast for the 5%.
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Ep. 46 | You're Insecure & Have No Friends 💔

Thrive DailySep 11, 2019

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Ep. 46 | You're Insecure & Have No Friends 💔

Ep. 46 | You're Insecure & Have No Friends 💔

 [Ephesians 4:16]

"from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love."

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Have you ever thought about what it means to connect with others? This skill that CAN be developed, is crucial to your relation with man & with Christ. 

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Listen all the way through… and as always, make sure to subscribe to the #ThriveDailyPodcast & The Climb Podcast too!

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*Riley Eshbach* 

Instagram: @lil_rilesal


*Jaben Starnes* 

Instagram: @jabenstarnes

YouTube: @jabenstarnes

Facebook: @jabenstarnes

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This week’s #MakeItHappen Challenge is to be intentional with SOMEONE to spill the beans if you're at ground zero, & if you’re more advanced, have a conversation with someone and just listen. Ask questions & don't talk about yourself. Be okay with it. Be genuine.  Eliminate the need to feel “heard" in every conversation. 👎 


DM me something you implemented this week along with any observations you’ve made with how it’s affect you & your surroundings & I may mention it on a future episode!




Sep 11, 201948:35
Ep. 45 | I Got Interviewed

Ep. 45 | I Got Interviewed

" *5*Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; *6*in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight..” -Proverbs 3:5-6

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The interviewer gets interviewed! On this week’s episode, I take a back seat and let someone else do the asking… “The Climb” with Ed & Riley, is a podcast built around business development/real estate & personal growth. They brought me on for an episode to answer some questions on how I got started with real estate, videography, youtube, podcasting, etc and just analyze my growth in general. I’m really excited about this episode & can’t wait for you to listen.

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Listen all the way through… and as always, make sure to subscribe to the #ThriveDailyPodcast & The Climb Podcast too!

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*Ed Byler* 

Instagram: @hairfails101

Facebook: @Edwin Byler

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*Riley Eshbach* 

Instagram: @lil_rilesal

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*Jaben Starnes* 

Instagram: @jabenstarnes

YouTube: @jabenstarnes

Facebook: @jabenstarnes

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This week’s #MakeItHappen Challenge is to cultivate a new willingness to operate in the Lord’s will & not yours. Spend 15 mins a day prayer journaling & let the Lord speak direction into you. Eliminate the the fear of asking. The worst they can say is NO. 👎 


DM me something you implemented this week along with any observations you’ve made with how it’s affect you & your surroundings & I may mention it on a future episode!

Sep 04, 201928:55
Ep. 44 | How to Get Confidence the Right Way

Ep. 44 | How to Get Confidence the Right Way

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.”

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How do you get confidence? If you’re not careful, you’ll end up letting the world speak this lie of “Self-Confidence” over you. Sure, cultivating confidence in yourself is important, but it’ll still be lacking. Where does TRUE confidence come from? Let’s talk about it. 

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Listen all the way through… and as always, make sure to subscribe to the #ThriveDailyPodcast too!

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*Jaben Starnes* 

Instagram: @jabenstarnes

YouTube: @jabenstarnes

Facebook: @jabenstarnes

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This week’s #MakeItHappen Challenge is to cultivate a new spirit of POWER & Confidence through Christ. Spend 15 mins a day prayer journaling & let the Lord speak proper identity into you. Eliminate the self-confidence mentality. 👎 

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DM me something you implemented this week along with any observations you’ve made with how it’s affect you & your surroundings & I may mention it on a future episode!

Aug 28, 201918:13
Ep. 43 | Foundations to Success | How to Intentionally Set Goals

Ep. 43 | Foundations to Success | How to Intentionally Set Goals

“Your biggest regrets are the things you never try .”

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Sure, we all can think of things we want to achieve, but how many of us are intentionally setting & taking action on goals? On this week’s episode of the #ThriveDailyPodcast, Ed Byler, a recurring guest on the show, walks us through how to practically set, execute, and achieve our goals. 

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Listen all the way through… and as always, make sure to subscribe to the #ThriveDailyPodcast too!

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Make sure to show Ed some major love! Here’s how you can connect with us:

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*Ed Byler* 

Instagram: @hairfails101

Podcast: The Climb (all platforms) 


*Jaben Starnes* 

Instagram: @jabenstarnes

YouTube: @jabenstarnes

Facebook: @jabenstarnes

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This week’s *”Make It Happen” Challenge* is to eliminate the “I CAN’T afford it” mentality 👎 & cultivate the “How CAN I afford it?” mentality. 👍 

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BONUS Challenge: Write down at least ONE goal you desire to achieve and use the Lead/Lag method to execute on it.

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DM us something you implemented  this week along with any observations you’ve made with how it’s affect you & your surroundings. ✌️ 



Aug 21, 201938:30
Ep. 42 | 30k Subscribers & Quit His Full-Time Job

Ep. 42 | 30k Subscribers & Quit His Full-Time Job

“If you’ve ever wanted to start a YouTube channel, don’t.” 

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Have you ever wondered what it actually takes to become a successful content creator? On this week’s episode, Taylor Martin, Founder of Best Damn EDC & Carry Commission, hops on to walk us through his process of going full-time as a content creator. SUPER dope journey and I learned a lot during our interview. 

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Listen all the way through… and as always, make sure to subscribe to the #ThriveDailyPodcast too!

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Make sure to show this man some luv! Here’s how you can connect:

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*Connect with Taylor*: 

YouTube: Best Damn EDC

Instagram: @caspertek | @bestdamnedc 

Discord: Best Damn EDC

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*Connect with Jabe*: 

YouTube: Jaben Starnes

Instagram: @jabenstarnes

Facebook: Jaben Starnes

Aug 14, 201956:32
Ep. 41 | The Conversation We Should've Had *pleasure*

Ep. 41 | The Conversation We Should've Had *pleasure*

- This is the conversation we should've had from square one... the goal for this episode is to shed light on an area where people are afraid to go. Raw, transparent, unfiltered. 

- Listen all the way through... and as always, make sure to subscribe to the #ThriveDailyPodcast too!

- Connect with us! Victoria: @vrichtown (insta)

Jaben: @jabenstarnes (everywhere)

Aug 07, 201929:59
Ep. 40 | She Had Sex at 15 & I was Addicted to Pornography

Ep. 40 | She Had Sex at 15 & I was Addicted to Pornography

"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." 1 John 1:9 | NIV

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Raw, Transparent, Shameless. You know what separates the mediocre from the extraordinary? It's complacency. Becoming complacent in your ways and never feeling the need to confess sin is the quickest road to destruction. When we hold in our secrets, it hinders us from accessing one of the greatest sources of power over temptation & sin, which is confession. 

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This week's episode is pretty in your face... and for good reason. Kind of by accident, Victoria and I stumbled on the topic no one likes to talk about (sexual sins) and really just sinning in general. 

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Listen all the way through... and as always, make sure to subscribe to the #ThriveDailyPodcast too!

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Connect with us!

Victoria: @vrichtown (insta) 

Jaben: @jabenstarnes (everywhere) 

Jul 31, 201954:04
Ep. 39 | How to Experience Success w/o Compromise

Ep. 39 | How to Experience Success w/o Compromise

What does living a FULL life look like? How can you harness that POWER of POSITIVITY? What does it mean to use BUSINESS as a TOOL to your advantage? How can we be more proactive about encouraging those around us and helping the less fortunate? Is balancing work and life a realistic goal, especially as an entrepreneur? And how does GOD fit into all of that? 


This week's episode explores these questions with special guest, Joran Flair! He's a highly successful business owner, real estate broker/investor, with a background in construction building. 


Let's talk about it!


Connect w/ me: @jabenstarnes

Connect w/ Jordan: @listwithflair

Jul 24, 201954:52
Ep. 38 | How To Make New Habits That STICK

Ep. 38 | How To Make New Habits That STICK

Forming effective, long lasting habits isn't easy and often times takes months... how can you quickly & efficiently form habits that STICK? Let's talk about it.

Connect with me @jabenstarnes on Instagram

Jul 10, 201915:15
Ep. 37 | Luck Isn't Real?

Ep. 37 | Luck Isn't Real?

So much success in our society gets accredited to "luck". But what REALLY is luck? How can we cultivate it? Let's talk about it. 


Connect with me @jabenstarnes on Instagram

Jul 03, 201925:53
Ep. 36 | Crappy Realities 💩 & Golden Expectations ⭐️ | Expectations VS. Reality

Ep. 36 | Crappy Realities 💩 & Golden Expectations ⭐️ | Expectations VS. Reality

Expectations are great, but reality can SUCK. How can you change that? Let's talk about it.  


Let's connect! @jabenstarnes

Jun 26, 201920:37
Ep. 35 | Sluggards SUCK | You're Wasting Your Summer

Ep. 35 | Sluggards SUCK | You're Wasting Your Summer

short, sweet, to the point, but BOY am I feeling this... let's hop into it. 

Connect w/ me on Instagram: @jabenstarnes

Jun 20, 201910:38
Ep. 34 | Suffocate Your BS
Jun 12, 201925:21
Ep. 33 | Don't Be A Crooked Shooter

Ep. 33 | Don't Be A Crooked Shooter

Pros and Cons of being a straight shooter...

Let's talk about it!

Connect w/ me on Instagram: @jabenstarnes

May 28, 201915:58
Ep. 32 | Quality Over Quantity & Starting A NEW PROJECT

Ep. 32 | Quality Over Quantity & Starting A NEW PROJECT

Ever worry about connecting deep in new relationships?? DON'T. Here's why... 


P.S. s/o to my good friend Papi for coming on the #ThriveDailyPodcast for another great episode. 


https://open.spotify.com/show/7bYRedtVK2QQG8K0iQElwy

May 18, 201923:24
Ep. 31 | So, You're Bisexual? | Equality of Sin

Ep. 31 | So, You're Bisexual? | Equality of Sin

Can you be gay & "Christian"? What does the Bible have to say about homosexuality & religion? I bring on a guest who happens to have very different beliefs about the world to have an open conversation about some ULTRA controversial topics that our culture has for some reason put on a pedestal. Let's talk about it!


Connect w/ me on Instagram: @jabenstarnes



Disclaimer: there are several things that I voiced, & after listening back, I realized I need to search the scriptures a little more about them. However; I TRULY believe that this podcast is going to shed light on some very important topics that people tend to shy away from. Please share this podcast. Much love, 

-Jabe

Apr 11, 201901:00:20
Ep. 30 | dang it, i'm single

Ep. 30 | dang it, i'm single

What does God have to say about SINGLENESS? Actually a lot... Let's talk about it. 


YouTube: Jaben Starnes | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7rZoX2jCbbUiNuewMFBnqg

Connect with me in the DMs @jabenstarnes

Mar 20, 201927:53
Ep. 29 | So You're A Slut?

Ep. 29 | So You're A Slut?

Yeah, just listen. 

Connect with Xenia on Instagram: xeniabfit

Connect with me on Instagram: @jabenstarnes

Mar 13, 201928:06
Ep. 28 | Pornography, Sex, Masturbation | The Fight Against Flesh

Ep. 28 | Pornography, Sex, Masturbation | The Fight Against Flesh

Why do we struggle with sexual temptations? A late night run to Starbucks turns into a deep conversation about one of the many reasons why we struggle to deny our flesh in sexul sin. *This is very opinion based, so keep an open mind, and understand that each person sees from a different perspective. I was hesitant to publish this but I feel like it can help someone have a better understanding of how to combat temptations. The more perspective you have, the easier it is to fight back.

Mar 08, 201911:01
Ep. 27 | Growth Mindset & Netherlands Update

Ep. 27 | Growth Mindset & Netherlands Update

How can you set yourself up for GROWTH? Let's talk about it... We're officially settled here in the Netherlands. Finally able to sit down and get back on it with the podcasts. Enjoy!

Mar 02, 201917:05
Ep. 26 | Is Jesus Your Spotter? "The 185 Mindset"

Ep. 26 | Is Jesus Your Spotter? "The 185 Mindset"

Are you letting ya boi Jesus keep His hand on the bar? Discovered a new revelation while "gyming" today. "The 185 Mindset". Let's talk about it.


CONNECT WITH ME: 


Instagram: @JabenStarnes


YouTube: @JabenStarnes


Facebook: @JabenStarnes



Feb 17, 201914:23
Ep. 25 | War Of The Jellies & The "Definition" Religion

Ep. 25 | War Of The Jellies & The "Definition" Religion

If your parents gave you strawberry, they didn't love you. On this episode, I bring in a guest with some intriguing questions to interview me and take over the podcast for a day. Let's get it. 


Instagram: @jabenstarnes

Feb 12, 201901:01:13
Ep. 24 | I'm No Longer Referring To Myself As A "Christian"

Ep. 24 | I'm No Longer Referring To Myself As A "Christian"

Say whaa?? Yeah, let me explain before you start making assumptions... 


Let's connect! 


Instagram: @jabenstarnes **Slide in my DMs** 

Feb 09, 201916:10
Ep. 23 | Waking Up At 4 AM Doesn't Make You More Productive

Ep. 23 | Waking Up At 4 AM Doesn't Make You More Productive

A returning voice hops on for an interesting conversation... | Ft. Edwin Byler. Why doesn't waking up at 4 AM make you more productive? Let's talk about it. 


Connect with me on Insta: @jabenstarnes

Connect with Ed on Insta: @hairfails101

Feb 06, 201949:43
Ep. 22 | How To Discover YOUR Passions, Breaking Down "Walls", & Fulfilment w/o Results

Ep. 22 | How To Discover YOUR Passions, Breaking Down "Walls", & Fulfilment w/o Results

After landing in LA, an immediate thought came into my mind when I arrived at the La Fit Expo... Passion. How do YOU discover passions? What about putting in the extra work and filling fulfilled even when the results, momentum, and/or money isn't showing? Let's talk about it... 


Connect with me on Instagram: @jabenstarnes


YouTube: @Jaben Starnes


Facebook: @Jaben Starnes


Twitter: @jabenstarnes

Jan 28, 201918:24
Ep. 21 | Pursuing YOUR Desires With The Father's Heart

Ep. 21 | Pursuing YOUR Desires With The Father's Heart

Have you ever wondered where those heart-burning desires inside of you came from? What if GOD birthed those desires inside of you for a purpose? Let's talk about it. 

Connect with me! 

Instagram: @jabenstarnes

Jan 22, 201914:05
Ep. 20 | Shame, YO Greatest Weakness & Giving YOSELF Permission For Anything???

Ep. 20 | Shame, YO Greatest Weakness & Giving YOSELF Permission For Anything???

You're motivated by shame or by unconditional love; one or the other. What does YOUR "Why" say about YOU? Shame, my greatest weakness permission to be messy, and living life abundantly. Let's talk about it. 


Instagram: @jabenstarnes / @hoffmanbethanne

Jan 19, 201947:14
Ep. 19 | I Know, It Burns... EMPATHY

Ep. 19 | I Know, It Burns... EMPATHY

You ever heard of the word EMPATHY? Yeah, if you wanna be a decent human, get used to it! The power of #Empathy in a world of relational creatures and how it can MOTIVATE you? Let's talk about it. 


Connect with me on Instagram: @jabenstarnes

Jan 15, 201913:14
Ep. 18 | JOY vs. HAPPINESS, Pursuing YOUR God-Given Desires, 2019 Travel Goals, & Why I REALLY Lift

Ep. 18 | JOY vs. HAPPINESS, Pursuing YOUR God-Given Desires, 2019 Travel Goals, & Why I REALLY Lift

A special listener provided Q + A episode strikes up some pretty interesting conversation! What does it mean to have TRUE JOY? Top travel goals for #2019? The REAL reason I started working out... let's hop into it! 


Connect with me in the DMs @jabenstarnes

Jan 12, 201932:48
Ep. 17 | Dear New Years Resolutioners... You Need To Hear This

Ep. 17 | Dear New Years Resolutioners... You Need To Hear This

Season 2 of the Thrive Daily Podcast is underway & what better way to start off the #2019 year than with a msg to the New Years Resolutioners? There is a stereotype, partually for good reason. Let's talk about it... 


Connect with me on insta @jabenstarnes


YouTube: Jaben Starne

Jan 08, 201915:38
Ep. 16 | Double Down, No More Resolutions, & Strength-Based Living

Ep. 16 | Double Down, No More Resolutions, & Strength-Based Living

My final thoughts for 2018. You NEED to grasp this going into #2019. Much love to all of you who consistently support the Thrive Daily Podcast. Make sure to subscribe & share your listens with me on insta so I can repost them! Happy New Years Everyone! 

Jan 01, 201912:59
Ep. 15 | Childhood In A War-Zone, Netflix Doesn't Activate Law of Attraction, & How To Sleep Better

Ep. 15 | Childhood In A War-Zone, Netflix Doesn't Activate Law of Attraction, & How To Sleep Better

What's on the radar for this episode of the #ThriveDailyPodcast... Untold truth of Bosnian refugee's upbringing, along with a solid discussion on the TRUE Importance of MINDSET & POSITIVITY as well as the GRATITUDE of an outsider coming to America to live out the "American Dream." Let's get it.
Dec 19, 201837:16
Ep. 14 | The GOAT Social Skill, Screw 1st Dates, Confidence Haters, & Hearing vs. Listening

Ep. 14 | The GOAT Social Skill, Screw 1st Dates, Confidence Haters, & Hearing vs. Listening

So. Freaking. Good. Throwing it back to another discussion w/ Ed about the skill of Socializing, the concept of Online Dating in a 2018 culture, confidence being a hated quality by those with LOW Self-esteem, and the breakdown of HEARING VS. LISTENING. Pheeww, long sentence. Let's get it. #ThriveDaily
Dec 13, 201829:56
Ep. 13 | Sex Before Marriage, Relation Not Religion, & Not Giving A Crap

Ep. 13 | Sex Before Marriage, Relation Not Religion, & Not Giving A Crap

This episode is a bit different from a normal Thrive Daily podcast. My boy Cameron Becht has me on as a featured guest on his podcast, and we get real deep and personal on some controversial topics like sex, religion, & parenting. Let's get it. DM me on Instagram @jabenstarnes.. let's connect! Make sure to follow Cameron on insta as well @cameronbecht
Dec 06, 201801:06:09
Ep. 12 | Bringing Dark Places To Light, Overcoming Adversity, & Deep Discussion On My Way To NYC

Ep. 12 | Bringing Dark Places To Light, Overcoming Adversity, & Deep Discussion On My Way To NYC

By far the deepest discussion I've ever aired on Thrive Daily... Edwin Byler and I get real personal about our dark pasts, overcoming life-threatening stuggles, & how to cope with pain.
Nov 30, 201801:03:22
Ep. 11 | Something EVERYONE Should Be Doing & If Not You're Killing Your Perspective

Ep. 11 | Something EVERYONE Should Be Doing & If Not You're Killing Your Perspective

There is something that you ALL of you should be doing right now, & it's probably one of the most important things you'll ever learn to do... I go super narrow and deep into four chosen questions sent in via DMs on my Insta (@JabenStarnes). Being a witness, creative process, & leadership. Let's get it.
Nov 25, 201827:19
Ep. 10 | Daughter of NFL Panther Legend, Abortion, Insecurities, & Life Being Blind. #Unfiltered

Ep. 10 | Daughter of NFL Panther Legend, Abortion, Insecurities, & Life Being Blind. #Unfiltered

In this #unfiltered episode of the Thrive Daily Podcast, Savannah Kasay & I get real deep about her life as a daughter of NFL kicker, John Kasay, & her struggles with abortion, insecurities, & life being blind. Let's hop into it. An IMMENSE amount of value in this podcast. Really internalize what is being said. Speaks volumes to me... Love yall.
Nov 17, 201841:40
Ep. 9 | Question of the Day // Does Drinking COFFEE Make You HIPSTER?? America Doesn't Run on Dunkin

Ep. 9 | Question of the Day // Does Drinking COFFEE Make You HIPSTER?? America Doesn't Run on Dunkin

The real discussion here... ft. Anthony A.K.A. Papi Terrell. Coffee use to be a "mom & pop" thing. Black. Every morning. But society has changed and coffee has become a cultural thing. Let's talk about it.
Nov 14, 201833:23
Ep. 8 | no, i can fix them

Ep. 8 | no, i can fix them

Why are you trying to fix them? The only thing you can control is yourself... let's talk about it.
Nov 06, 201821:11
Ep. 7 | My Thoughts On NYC & Upcoming Travels! Hey, Let's Talk About Relationship w/ God

Ep. 7 | My Thoughts On NYC & Upcoming Travels! Hey, Let's Talk About Relationship w/ God

Back from NYC & ready to pump out the podcasts again. Free flow episodes are my fav, so grab some coffee. Let's talk about relationship w/ God, my first experience in New York City, & upcoming travels to end out the year! - YouTube: Jaben Starnes Instagram: @jabenstarnes Twitter: @jabenstarnes
Oct 19, 201821:03
Ep. 6 | Big Booty On Your Terms

Ep. 6 | Big Booty On Your Terms

What does it mean to get a "Big Booty" on YOUR terms? Take 8 mins and level-up yourself.
Oct 06, 201808:22
Ep. 5 | Answering Your Questions

Ep. 5 | Answering Your Questions

Switching it up! Your time to interview me.

I love answering your questions, it brings me REAL joy and fullfilment. If you keep sending in questions, I'll keep answering. Let's connect in the DM's! Enjoy.
Sep 24, 201819:36
Ep. 4 | Being The Best Version of Yourself Daily

Ep. 4 | Being The Best Version of Yourself Daily

Maintaining the best version of yourself is a daunting responsibility. If you are in the 5% club, you've got what it takes to continually operate at that level. It's all about progress, progress, progress. Let's talk about it.
Sep 15, 201811:43
Ep. 3 | How Suicidal Thoughts Led Me To This Phrase...

Ep. 3 | How Suicidal Thoughts Led Me To This Phrase...

Suicidal Depression led me to who I am today. *8 mins of value-packed content. If you listen to any podcast I ever publish, let it be this one. Enjoy! -- If you take away something from this episode, please please please connect with me via Instagram @jabenstarnes & let's chat!
Sep 07, 201808:41
E.p 2 | Veganism, Liza Koshy, & Content Creation

E.p 2 | Veganism, Liza Koshy, & Content Creation

The Podcast legend Anthony Terrel hops on for a midnight chat. Is Veganism biblical, what's Liza up to, and how are you creating your Content?
Aug 30, 201847:54
Coffee VS Redbull & Thrive Daily's Intentions

Coffee VS Redbull & Thrive Daily's Intentions

Jabe talks coffee vs Redbull, what it means to thrive, and the intentions of this show.
Aug 11, 201814:01