A Black Girl's 20s
Take a breath...this is a safe space. We'll discuss the things we have experienced & learned in our early twenties with a splash of ways to better ourselves. Open your mind to different opinions. Good vibes live here. Come in. We have so much to talk about !!
September 07, 2022
Don’t Talk..Just Listen !
I think I’m learning to just shut up on a lot of shit because why keep trying to worry about stuff that ain’t got nothing to do with me.
August 30, 2022
These Mfs Ain’t Stopping Me !
These past few weeks have really tested me but I’m still here & I’m still going !
August 22, 2022
Your Past Is NOT An Excuse !
Everyone has a past & something personal they struggle with. We’re not perfect by far so please think about the way you treat others —- it’s not easy at times but at least try.
August 05, 2022
Black Joy is a thing.
July 01, 2022
"Fuck Brintey, Leave My Uterus Alone!"
Y'all know wtf going on here.
June 25, 2022
The Wounded Masculine Pt.1
I actually really do love black men and I want to see them happy and at peace.
June 10, 2022
Are They Proud Yet?
Family and others can put high expectations on you and have it stress you out more than you actually realize.
June 02, 2022
Guy Friends ??
I've come to the devastating conclusion that guy friends isn't a thing; and it possibly never was. (I know I owe yall my socials. I got you on the next one)
June 02, 2022
Jealousy & Insecurity !
Please stay away from girls who are visibly jealous of you and want to take your place. Keeping these types of people around will surely stop your blessings.
May 21, 2022
Raising That Vibration!
Today we touch on spirituality and the different ways your vibration can play a positive/negative role in your life.
May 06, 2022
YOU GOTTA PUSH IT !
I feel like I've hit a plataeu in my journey. I'm reminding myself to push it. Fuck how things look currently. Fuck if things don't look promising from where I'm standing. I have to push it... you have to push it. Don't let up. Nobody got you..like you.
May 05, 2022
Fuck Your Mama !
Discussing moms is a touchy subject; but let's finally be honest about these mothers.
April 30, 2022
Embracing Sensuality & Sexuality !
Let's unlearn the negative things we were taught as kids. Our body parts are nothing be ashamed of, we are not grown or fast just because we developed early. The black community has demonized sexuality long enough.
April 27, 2022
Privacy Please !
Privacy is important for everyone. Never as a weapon of course, but not being given privacy and safe space can lead to issues later. People have to remember that kids will grow up ..and remember certain things.
April 24, 2022
So Yall Broke Up...And?
When breakups happen we have to remember there's so much more to us than that person. Allow yourself to feel how you feel and keep it moving. You have so much more life to live.
April 20, 2022
Fuck Niggas, Get Money !
When I say Fuck Niggas, Get Money. I mean it's time to say fuck these lil boys and get to a bag !!! Realize that it's more to life than a relationship and validation. Too many smart, amazing women out here wasting they life running behind a ain't shit man. We ain't crying over they ass nomore !!!
April 16, 2022
Here are my personal favorite YouTube influencers that got me inspired and motivated! I hope they do the same for you.
April 14, 2022
Live Your Life For You! (My Story)
This episode is really all over the place so hopefully something I said helped or at least entertained you in a positive way.
April 06, 2022
Repair Your Relationships !
When you come out of hermit mode, don't forget to repair your relationships. People don't always know what's going on and maybe we shouldn't alwaya expect leniency.
April 03, 2022
"Fuck Being--I'm Sick"
Why be humble? We will not downplay ourselves because someone else might take offense to our light. The underlying competition some women come with is sickening and I refuse to participate.
March 25, 2022
The POVERTY Mindset
A lot of us are caught up in believing we don't deserve more, which leads to believing we can't achieve more. It needs to stop.
March 18, 2022
Your boundaries are NON-Negotiable
We can't keep allowing people to bypass our boundaries. Stop letting people disrespect you, when you allow it... you become responsible for your own discomfort. People will play in your face because you a nice person. Choose who deserves your kindness.
March 10, 2022
Masculinity vs Femininity
We discuss how just the right touch of masculinity can effortlessly bring forth the soft feminine black woman.
March 05, 2022
SELFISH is not a bad word !
A lot of people think of being selfish as a bad thing. Let's think about it from a self preserving perspective, a self loving perspective. Selfish doesn't always have to mean negativity.
February 25, 2022
Your comfort zone is your ENEMY !
Stop allowing your comfort zone to cost you ! Your comfort zone is holding you back. You deserve new experiences, you deserve to reach your goals. Step out on faith and just DO IT !
February 20, 2022
Please get out of depressed energy. We are pushing that darkness aside & choosing happiness. Choosing our best potential. I'm here for you on this journey because I'm on mine too.
February 18, 2022
Healing is MANDATORY!
We need to normalize healing. A lot of situations can be avoided by doing the work to heal past traumas. You can change the way you think & change your whole position in life.
February 13, 2022
Do We Really Want To Be Married?
Tonight we ask.. Is marriage really worth the hype? With all the goals and aspirations we have for ourselves? PLUS the inner work we need to do... Is marriage still the ultimate goal?
February 11, 2022
EP 1: OPEN UP THAT THROAT !
Learning to take up space & speak up for ourselves is a very important door we need to FLING open. I want my first episode to be all about feeling comfortable within yourself enough to speak up for YOU!
February 06, 2022