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Coaching with Jamee

Coaching with Jamee

By Jamee Andelin
I am a Lifecoach for women who are ready to say yes to a thriving marriage. You love your husband and you are ready for this to really show! You know that when your marriage is thriving then everything else in you life is figure-out-able and so I show you how to thrive!!

I show you how your thoughts and your feelings are creating the quality of the relationship you have with your husband and I teach you how to feel more deeply connected.
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E 53 How to do it all

Coaching with Jamee

E 53 How to do it all

Coaching with Jamee

E 127 Navigating a Hard Marriage and Divorce with Joy w/ my guest Coral Barajas
Coral is vulnerable and awesome as she is coached on this episode for all to hear! This episode will show you what being coached by me is like and how powerful coaching is in helping you overcome any challenge or reach any goal that you desire.⁣ ⁣ Topics in this episode:⁣ Hard marriages⁣ Divorce⁣ Dating after divorce⁣ Having the marriage of your dreams⁣ Finding joy whether you choose to stay in a hard marriage or to leave. ⁣ ⁣ Connect with Coral and get updates on the book she is writing “No Matter Want!” Whether you decide to stay in a hard marriage or leave, you can find JOY No Matter What!” ⁣⁣ ⁣ ⁣ From now until Feb 1 I am currently enrolling women into my private coaching program who are ready to say yes to strengthen their marriages. If this is you please message me on Instagram:⁣ ⁣ Or Facebook:⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣ Website:⁣ ⁣or send me an email at Email:⁣ ⁣we can set up a time to chat. I’m here to help you! ⁣
January 19, 2021
E 126 Postpartum Depression w/ Lizzie Langston
Lizzie is The Postpartum Coach. She specializes in coaching women through some of their darkest times after they have their sweet babies and step into motherhood for the first, second, third time and beyond. We talk about the signs of postpartum depression that aren’t obvious. “Suffering alone does more damage to your motherhood, marriage, and kids, which takes longer to recover from. My goal is to not just help you through this, but to teach you once-and-for-all how to have strong and healthy mental and emotional habits. If you do this, you’ll be more empowered to be the mom you want to be, the wife you want to be, and the woman you want to be.” Connect more with Lizzie on Lizzie’s website: & on her Instagram account You’re ready to say yes to yourself? But not sure where to go next? Message me and I’ll take care of the rest. Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
January 12, 2021
E 125 Seven Steps to Achieving Any Blessing
Goals and blessing are interchangeable and the same things to me. Wanting anything for ourselves is just wanting more blessings. And wanting more blessings just means we are ready to become the next version of ourselves. I have a practice that I use for my clients to say yes to anything they want and I’m sharing that 7 step process with you here in this episode today. I also have shared this process in my social media accounts and you can go back and watch those at your convenience. Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
January 5, 2021
E 124 How to Make Better Friends
In this episode I share an activity you can start implementing so you can make better friends. Deep and authentic friendships really add magic to our lives. But only if the friendships are enriching and not draining. Knowing how to make better friends (at any age!) is the secret sauce to a beautiful life. You’re ready to say yes to yourself? But not sure where to go next? Message me and I’ll take care of the rest. Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
January 1, 2021
E 123 The First, Second, and Third Arrows.
In Buddhism there is a teaching about a warrior who is hit with a first arrow. At this point he has the choice to properly care for that wound or to hit himself with second and third arrows. This may sound really silly for this warrior to do, but when I explain how we actually do this in our own lives you’ll see how we cause a lot of unnecessary suffering for ourselves. Work with me!! Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
December 29, 2020
E 122 The Bear Story
This story about when my family went camping and a bear came into our camp and destroyed all of our supplies is a perfect example of how our circumstances don’t have power over us but we have power over our circumstances. Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
December 22, 2020
E 121 How to Know You Aren’t Selfish
Acknowledging your strengths, loving yourself and saying yes to what you really want can feel selfish and/or vain. But you’re just confused. You don’t know how your brain and body work. I’ll show you: Whatever qualities you extend towards yourself- is what you are telling your brain you want more of. Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
December 18, 2020
E 120 BE not DO
Of course our actions are important. But it’s the energy behind our actions that matter more. Becoming a new version of yourself is what actually creates the success and goodness you want in your life. In this episode I will teach you how how you trying to achieve what you want by controlling the wrong things. And then I will show what it is you can control so that what you want comes to you faster!! Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
December 15, 2020
E 119 A Simple Way to Deal with Stress
Your relationship with stress can change everything in your life. First understand stress on a simple level and then practice a simple tool I teach my clients.
December 11, 2020
E 118 Elevate Your Life w/ Angie Hunter
“Not saying yes to what I wanted was actually selfish because I was spending a lot of time feeling resentment, guilty, and pressured. I thought I had to be the one to do everything. I never felt all in on any part of my life. I felt drained of energy and yucky often. Saying yes to myself and working with Jamee actually meant that I started loving the way I showed up in my life. I felt way more joy, I started a business, I had more time and energy. I started feeling more love towards the people in my life more often. Small things like making dinner became a nourishing joyful experience for me.” This is just some of the gems Angie shares with us about saying yes to herself! There’s more: her relationships depend and learning to listen to her body. Of course her family benefits from all of this but what Angie enjoys most is how she feels on a daily basis. She has more fun and looks forward to her life. Connect with Angie on Facebook at Message me about GROUP COACHING on Instagram: Website: Email: Find Deanna @thehealthycreative_
December 8, 2020
E 117 A World Without Walls
What if we had the power to create a world where there were no walls, no wedges, and no addictions? Well we do! And it all starts with the way we think about our emotions.
December 4, 2020
E 116 Stop Neglecting Yourself and Start Saying Yes To Yourself
This is a very special episode all about a clients experience with my group coaching program that I did with Deanna from @thehealthycreative_ What is possible for you? Love your body, learn to trust yourself deeply, find a wonderful balance emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Learn how to have difficult conversations. See how much of a gift you are to your family. And so much more. Group coaching starts in Jan 2021. Come join us!! You belong with us. FREE CALL DEC 2nd at 6pm PST: You will get an actual preview call of what our group coaching is like. You’ll get actionable tools on this free call and an opportunity to be coached and an opportunity to watch others be coached on anything. You totally belong here!!!! Link to call here:
December 1, 2020
E 115 Strengthening Relationships Through Disagreements
Opinions of others are just like different food options at food buffets. We choose them based off of our own goals and desired results. Once we realize this then we get to focus on accepting the beautiful truth that we all have agency to choose. Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
November 24, 2020
E 114 Understanding the Difference Between the Holy Ghost and Yourself.
I know you think about the gospel of Jesus Christ every single day and I know that one of the questions on your mind is what is the difference between the Holy Ghost and yourself. One way to understand this is to understand how your brain works, how your body works, and your spirit which is your highest most best self. Then to be able to separate all of these. Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
November 20, 2020
E 113 The Big Impact of Small and Simple Things
Elder Oaks said: “We need to be reminded that in total and over a significant period of time, seemingly small things bring to pass great things.” Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
November 17, 2020
E 112 How to Gain Energy not Drain Energy
Wherever we put all of our energy into is literally deciding if we are getting energy or being drained of it. When we figure out our top priorities based off of our values and then put all of our resources into those then we refuel ourselves. When we are putting all of our energy into priorities that are not our top priorities then we are drained of willpower, motivation, and energy. If we want to feel more energized and alive and fulfilled and happy with our lives then we will invest all forms of energy into the right areas. Message me on Instagram: Website: Email:
November 13, 2020
E 111 Something Really Wonderful is About to Happen
In this episode we talk about our relationship with progression and growth. A lot of people confuse the feelings of growth with guilt, fear, and doing something wrong. But I want to clarify this for you so you can move forward and progress in your life instead of feeling stagnant and guilty and just plain yucky. I promise, something wonderful is about to happen. Website: Email: Message me on Instagram:
November 10, 2020
E 110 Developing Christ-like Qualities Made Easy.
Becoming like Christ and devoting qualities that He envelopes doesn’t have to be very hard at all. We are taught that by small and simple things are great things brought to pass. If we really believe this then we will notice how easily and quickly we can become like Him. We can do this!!!!!
November 6, 2020
109 5 Ways to Increase Your Faith During Trails
There are hundreds of things you can do to increase your faith during trials. In this episode I will share 5 ways you can increase your faith during trials and then feel free to add to the list of things you do to increase your faith. But first we must normalize trials and I will show you that nothing is wrong with you ever.
November 1, 2020
E 108 True Self Compassion
True suffering is a part of being human. It’s true that there are many times that we experience challenges and suffering of all kinds. All humans do. You’re not alone in that-even though the temptation to believe you are is also part of being human. When you are experiencing any kind of suffering- having the ability to offer true self compassion towards yourself is a key component to thriving and feeling alive. In this episode I introduce you to what true self compassion is and give you the 4 steps to applying compassion towards yourself today. There is so much hope and peace to be experienced when you know exactly what to do with your suffering and when you understand it.
October 27, 2020
E 107 Becoming the Woman You Dream of Being
In order to get rid of drama in your life and to take every relationship you have up 10 levels, you need to understand how the brain wires qualities. What you focus on and what lens you see others through is a direct reflection of how you think about yourself. The qualities you extend towards yourself will be the qualities that are wired in your brain to see others through. Song reference: “I Get to Love You” by Ruelle Contact Jamee at schedule a phone call with me or message me at
October 20, 2020
E 106 Let’s Talk About Sex Baby
Special episode!! Do you want to take your marriage to the next level? Does sex feel like an issue in your life? Do you find yourself wanting more sex and also feeling obligated to have sex to keep your husband happy and your marriage strong? Do you struggle with confusion around understanding you lack of desire but then super inconveniently being turned on? Do you think life is too busy for sex? Do you think you’re just too tired and sex is hard? This episode will shift your thinking. Link to register for webinar: registration ensures that you will have access to a replay link if you need.
October 13, 2020
E 105 The Stories We Tell w/ Kristina Johnson
The story Kristina told herself about her adoption was that she wasn’t enough and that she was rejected. This story was creating a lot of suffering and this story showed up for her in her friendships, in her marriage, at church, at work, everywhere!!! However, it didn’t take a huge miracle to change things for her. It was a few simple words and things began to change. In this special episode, learn about the moment her “not enough” story started to evaporate and when she was able to open up to feeling loved. Continue to learn about your own stories that you tell yourself and get help with your own suffering by following Kristinajohnsoncoaching on Instagram at also connect with Kristina at and if you are wanting help with a story you are suffering with send me a message at to schedule a phone call with me or message me at
October 6, 2020
E 104 How to Stop Feeling Resentful Towards your Husband
Many women say yes to their husbands and no to themselves. Over time this creates a lot of resentment and creates a toxic marriage environment. Why is it so hard to say yes to ourselves? Because it’s the dang world that teaches women that saying yes to your self is selfish and that it’s more important to be accommodating to our husbands than to be ourselves. This is a lie and it’s also very harmful to your soul. Message me here: OR email me here:
September 29, 2020
E 103 S L O W D O W N to Speed Up
Knowing what is causing your actual problems is first a huge relief!!! Then you can actually start healing and moving in the right direction instead of feeling stuck and suffering. Message me here: OR email me at to schedule your consultation with me.
September 22, 2020
E 102 How to Fill Your Bucket as a Busy Mama
You’re already busy so I’m going to tell you some things you can do to rejuvenate as a busy mama! Things you can do right now and easily add them into your everyday life. Message me for personal coaching here: Or email me at
September 15, 2020
E 101 SECRETS to Connection in Marriage
In this episode I am going to share some secrets to feeling connected in your marriage. You cannot control your spouse but you can contribute to if they feel safe in your relationship or not. You cannot make your spouse love you more but you can become a more lovable person. You can spend your time wanting to be right or you can spend your energy on trying to connect and feeling a deep connection. You can worry if you’re spending enough time or thinking you’re not spending enough time together or you can learn the secret to ensuring that whatever time you do spend together is good. You can also learn the secret to having better sex. Sex is a fun and important part to connection in marriage. Learn all this and more when you register for my webinar that will be on Sept 14 at 9am PST. Here is the link to register:
September 7, 2020
E 100 What to do when God is Quiet
Sometimes it feels like God is quiet because well... He is! You’re not crazy. Waiting on Him to speak may make you feel a little crazy though. When God is quiet it’s because He trusts you and is waiting for you to make a decision.
September 1, 2020
E 99 How to Nourish a Relationship that is Lacking.
There are three things that make up a relationship. 1. Your thoughts about yourself. 2. Your thoughts about the other person. 3. What you think the other person is thinking. When you understand this then you have the power for any relationship to be whatever you want it to be. You have the power to strengthen any relationship you want to without the other person changing.
August 25, 2020
E 98 3 Ways You Can Strengthen Any Relationship Right Now
There are 3 things you can start doing right now that will strengthen any relationship. The first thing is that you are in charge of how you think and this will either create connect towards someone or disconnect towards someone. The second way is that love sometimes means no and has limits. Learning how to love yourself is just as important as loving someone else in a relationship. And the third way is to understanding what worrying about what others think of you means and what to do about that and people pleasing.
August 18, 2020
E 97 How to Fight w/ Your Spouse.
Fighting is totally going to happen in your marriage. Let’s just get that out there and not try to pretend it doesn’t. I also don’t want to anyone to think that fighting means you have a bad marriage. Because that isn’t true!! You can fight in healthy ways that will totally lead to more connection in your marriage. I give simple directions on how to do that in this episode.
August 11, 2020
BONUS EPISODE: How to Have More Control in Your Life Part 2!
Discomfort is a part of life. We get to celebrate the moment we realize that we are suffering in some way because then we have a choice. We can either stay in our current situation or we can choose to spend some money and time to get out of the suffering. You decide.
August 6, 2020
BONUS EPISODE: How to Have More Control in Your Life PART 1
Life is 50% uncomfortable. What most people don’t understand is that you are in control of the discomfort. In this episode I teach you how I do this. On the other side is the wonderful blessing of nourishing your whole soul and having soaring confidence- if that’s what you want.
August 5, 2020
E 96 Love Your Body and All Your Relationships- Group Coaching Program Details
In this episode we are giving you a taste of some of the things we will be working on in our Group Coaching Program starting August 2020. Some of the concepts are:Radical Self-love, Self-acceptance, The story of your past, Circumstances vs thoughts & Story vs fact, Processing emotions & urges, Meditation and mindfulness, Manifestation. Belonging and connection with yourself and others. Being in body and using all senses. How to receive when you are so busy giving so much to everyone. Pleasure & Self-care. Better Sex with your partner. Boundaries & People pleasing. Learning how to say no. How to have more time. How to stop yelling at your kids. Macronutrients & blood sugar balance. Dealing with illnesses and physical pain.
August 4, 2020
E 95 How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids and Laugh More
Deanna of @thehealthycreative_ and I teach our clients that the way to get anything you want is to be willing to feel uncomfortable. One of the first things we teach our clients is that what they perceive as a weakness, is actually a strength they have that is being overused. And the next thing we teach is that the more willing you are to feel uncomfortable, the more you achieve in your life. One of the best ways to practice this is in our families. Noticing what you are feeling before you react or yell at your kids is a good indicator of what you are not willing to feel for very long. We talk about our most uncomfortable emotions: embarrassment, shame, irritation, and feeling annoyed.
July 28, 2020
E 94 The Purpose of Prayer
The purpose of prayer is not to change other people and control their lives so you can feel better. The purpose of prayer is to connect to God. To feel His love and warmth.
July 24, 2020
E 93 How to be a Good Friend
A lot of times we focus on what isn’t working in our relationships and if our friends or partners are being good friends or not. In this episode I want to offer to you what does work in strong relationships and how you can be a good friend. Take your focus off what others are doing or not doing for a minute and focus on what you are thinking and doing instead.
July 21, 2020
E 92 The Truth About satan
Since the beginning, all satan has ever wanted was credit. Power. Glory. So when we give him credit and power then we are giving him exactly what he wants. In this episode I’ll teach you how to take the power back and stop giving satan what he wants.
July 20, 2020
E 91 Make Your Own Rules W/ Help From Professional Rule Breakers
Sometimes we feel guilty because we don’t fit into a box of rules that society or someone has made up. Ultimately what’s happening is we have thoughts and beliefs that we should be fitting into some kind of box and then if we don’t, we feel stressed or guilty or defeated. Deanna and I are professional rule breakers and rebels so we are here to help you feel better about not fitting in. Find Deanna @thehealthycreative of Facebook l. Find Jamee @jameeandelin on Instagram
July 17, 2020
E 90 How to stop judging yourself
Negative self talk and judgement is very common. Every human does it. In this episode we discuss a few skills you can develop that will help you handle the critical self talk and judgment in a healthy way. Connect with Deanna on Facebook. Her page is called The Healthy Creative. Our group coaching program starts the first week of August. We would love for you to join us. Email me at if you have any questions. Or come connect with me on Facebook or Instagram.
July 14, 2020
E 89 Developing More Love and Acceptance for Yourself.
We all have a critical voice in our minds that we have been living with our whole lives. The way we interact with this critic will determine whether we are adding more love into our lives or more rejection. In this episode I explain an activity I do with my clients that helps with handleing the critical voice in our minds and you can do it too!!
July 7, 2020
!!EXTRA EXTRA!! Bonus Episode: How to Love Your Body and Your Relationships
Rejecting certain parts of yourself is emotionally exhausting. I know, because I did it for years. I’ve also done the work to undo a lot of my emotionally unhealthy behaviors and have helped many woman fall in love with themselves and their lives as well. I’m starting a new opportunity for women who have been curious about coaching and desire some support and I share all about this new opportunity in this episode. For more details, email me at or come find me on Instagram @jameeandelin and send me a message. I’m also on Facebook as well.
June 30, 2020
Avengers Mini Series E 4: Perfection is an illusion
We all have an ideal in our minds: a perfect marriage, a perfect job, a perfect body or life. We can spend our lives trying to achieve this idea of perfection to realize that we don’t even like to spend our time doing the things that achieve that ideal or we can realize that who we are and what we have is actually what we want. And is that perfection? I think so. So maybe we all have actually reached perfection in the way we are going to in this moment...
June 23, 2020
Avengers Mini Series E 3: You Alone Are Worth Taking Care Of.
Taking care of ourselves and meeting our needs is sometimes easier to do if you believe that you have others to take care of and others need your help. But over time, it’s important to believe that you alone are worth caring of just because you are alive on this planet. Olivia and I share some ways in which we feed our own self confidence and take care of ourselves.
June 16, 2020
Avengers Mini Series E 2: Creating Stronger Relationships With Your Team
Members of our teams (or families) can get side tracked from the actual problem. Members of the families can be so focused on trying to be right and not allowing other members to play their role that it creates more problems than the ones that are already there. And we all know that there are already going to be problems in a family without trying, so why create more problems if we can help it? In this episode we talk about moms wanting everyone to clean 😂, everyone in the family having different goals and roles, keeping our end goals in mind, what happens when we lose sight of what we really really really want, and how stay amused as opposed to getting frustrated.
June 9, 2020
Avengers Mini Series E 1: How to Find Peace With Annoying People.
My daughter Olivia is joining us and sharing life lessons she has learned from the Avengers Movies. In this episode we learn how to find peace when we feel annoyed with other people and the decisions they are making, why we are judging others harshly and how to find more compassion for others. Olivia shares a personal story about when she judged someone recently and how she handled that.
June 2, 2020
E 88 Real Deep Connections With Others
As humans we were not created to always feel happy. We are not designed to always look on the bright side and to feel happiness all the time. Sometimes we cover up our negative emotions because they feel crappy and our brain doesn’t want to feel any discomfort so our brains offer us the idea that our emotions are bad. But nothing is wrong with any emotion. In this episode we will investigate how positivity can be toxic and what to do with any emotion. Seeking pleasure and avoiding pain leads to an unauthentic life. Others are less likely to connect with you and you will find it difficult to connect with others. Understanding and nourishing yourself with allowing emotions leads to deeper relationships. Starting with the one you have with you!
May 26, 2020
E 87 Love Your Body with Holistic Lifecoach Deanna from The Healthy Creative
Deanna is a holistic Lifecoach who specializes in helping people change their relationships with their bodies and with food from a place of radical self love. Some questions we answer in this episode are: •I’m not happy with my physical appearance (weight and strength) I know what I need to do to change it but I’m still not able to make myself do it. •What are some ways to deal with stress and anxiety and not letting stress control me? • Self care. What is this? • If I’m not hungry, then why am I eating? • People say I eat because of a deeper issue or problem but I think I just like to eat. And I am not aware of a deeper problem. • I’m not able to do active things right now because of the quarantine. This feels like a problem to me. What advise do you have? • How do I discover what I enjoy doing that doesn’t have to do with food? To connect more with Deanna find her on Facebook @TheHeathyCreative and on Instagram @thehealthycreative_
May 20, 2020
E 86 You Were Born Enough
Your brain has 3 functions when it comes to your survival. It only wants to keep you alive. It’s not concerned with your overall happiness. So every thought that your brain offers you can be categorized into one or all of the 3 functions. These functions are also called motivations because it is motivated to keep you alive by 1) Seeking Pleasure 2) Avoiding Pain 3) Conserving Energy. Your brain does not care about anything else but to do these three things for survival. Knowing this gives you power over your brain. When you have power over your brain then you can overcome the natural man. Woot woot!! That’s why we are here. To not just survive and live at the effect of our brains but to overcome our brains and thrive. This doesn’t mean our brains are wrong all the time. But we decide if we want to believe them or not. And no matter what you decide, you were designed this way which means that you are enough either way.
May 12, 2020
E 85 Feel Alive By Nourishing Your Sexuality W/ Sex Coach Danielle Savory
May 5, 2020
E 84 Change Your Relationship W/ Money w/ Money Mindset Coach Brittany Deer
Topics in the episode: • living paycheck • on the verge of divorce • wife and mom• working mom• the power one person has to change their marriage and finances •living in overwhelm • working for what you want • how Starbucks changed Brittany’s life • Don’t take marriage lightly •arguing about money • limiting beliefs about money • money is the source that we use to get what we need in life, why would we talk bad about that?• thoughts about money that serve. Connect with Brittany Deer on Facebook @BrittanyDeerCoaching
April 28, 2020
E 83 NOURISH Your Relationship w/ Your Teens w/ Joey Mascio of Firmly Founded
What is covered in this episode: •How do teens brains work? •Can I be a parent and a friend? Yes! •Rewards and consequences. What is necessary and what is optional? •Screens, screens, screens. •Enforce or not enforce? • How to keep from getting overwhelmed as a parent. Crucial Life Skills Program with Joey Mascio for Teens and Parents is found at Podcast for Teens- “The Firmly Founded Teen” Book mentioned in episode: “Atomic Habits” by James Clear. Podcast episodes mentioned in this episode: Coaching with Jamee E 25 “You think you can do these things but you just can’t Nemo”. (More on how teens think) Coaching with Jamee E 82 “The Spiritual and Sciencey Side of Shoulding”
April 21, 2020
E 82 The Spiritual and Sciencey Side of “Shoulding”
I am sure you have heard of someone saying the phrase, “don’t should on yourself.” I want to explain what that even means, what happens in our brain when we think the words should or shouldn’t, what happens in our bodies, and then spiritually. Applying this concept to our lives can ultimately reduce our stress by about 80%. But you don’t have to take my word for it. Try it out for yourself.
April 14, 2020
E 81 Overcoming Personal Struggles with Bre Rayner
I am very grateful to be able to visit with one of my clients, Bre Rayner!!! It’s a vulnerable thing to share your experience with struggle and reaching out for help- and being excited to invest in yourself!! Bre shares her story of going from working mom to stay at home mom and the struggle that was. The relationship developed between coach and client is very special and I hope you’ll be able to feel some of that in this episode. Bre has decided to become a coach herself and help other people who are also struggling. Her clients feel that working with her feels natural and they love her. ❤️ you can connect with her on Instagram @lifecoachingwithbre and her website Not every client becomes a coach and that isn’t even why most people hire me. However, sometimes the transformation that happens inspires others to help people in similar ways. Nonetheless everyone who goes through my coaching program does choose to go out and serve and help in many ways that were unknown to them before we started working together.
April 7, 2020
E 80 Amazing Meditation
Meditation strengthens different muscles in your brain so that it becomes natural to be present in your life, intentional, and to not give into urges for all those cookies that you’re trying not to eat because you want to feel better! In this episode I show you how easy meditation can be and how to get started.
March 31, 2020
E 79 When others DON’T take responsibility
In this episode we discuss what the purpose of taking responsibility for our own thoughts and feelings and action feels like and looks like. And this is IN FACT the purpose of the podcast. I teach you throughout all the episodes how to take full responsibility for your thoughts and actions. But what if others in your life don’t want to take full responsibility? What then? How does it feel waiting for others to take responsibility? How do you behave when they don’t? And is waiting for their to take responsibility taking responsibility for your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Very interesting topic.
March 24, 2020
E 78 YOUR Pleasure
Pleasure- including sexual pleasure- is for YOU. Nobody else can feel your pleasure. And something wonderful about pleasure is that when you intentionally soak it up, your brain stored up those pleasure hormones to be released later during times of stress. Imagine the impact of that? The pleasure hormones take the edge off of stress on a daily basis. There are other benefits too. Imagine the possibilities!!!
March 17, 2020
BONUS EPISODE: Finding Peace in Uncertain Times
In this episode I offer 4 tips that you can apply to your life during times of uncertainty to help you find some peace.
March 14, 2020
E 77 Self Value and Believing in Love with Fanny Gippa
My beautiful guest on this episode today comes to us from Switzerland. She tells us the story of being in a toxic relationship and then deciding that she was worth more. She traveled the world and worked on her own self worth and value. She teaches everyone she can about believing in love again, starting with yourself. She says the key to getting anything you want is to know that you are worth it. This episode is for the single and the married and in a relationship of any kind. No matter where you are at in your life, this episode will show you where to begin if you feel like you could use some more love in your life. If you want to connect more with Fanny, find her at and also find her on Facebook and Instagram @fannygippa_lovecoach
March 10, 2020
When you have the right mindset then your actions come so much more easily then if you’re trying to take action from the wrong mindset.
March 6, 2020
E 76 Accomplishment vs Staying Stuck
I love to help people move forward and accomplish anything!! Remember we are all learning and will be forever and ever AMEN!! In this episode I reveal the process by which you can accomplish anything you want.
March 3, 2020
E 75 “Thank you for those options Brain!”
Having choices and options and control is a good thing! All of our thoughts that our brain offers you is so nice of your brain. We don’t need to be mad. That would be like going to a food buffet and being mad at all the food options. How funny would that be?
February 25, 2020
E 74 Let’s Get Science-y
“Let’s gets science-y, science-y” and dig a little deeper into how our thoughts create our feelings.
February 18, 2020
E 73 Success in Business and Personal Life With Entrepreneur Coach Caryn Gillen
How important is your mindset when you are a business owner? Should you be working hard or having fun? How do I know what my customers want to buy? Why aren’t people buying from me? Why is it taking so long? What is a day in the life of a successful business owner? These and a few other questions are answered in this episode of Coaching With Jamee. Caryn is a successful coach for Entrepreneurs. She guides other entrepreneurs as they navigate the business world. Whether they’ve been at it for years or are just starting, Caryn has been there and done that and is here to help! She also shares how her personal life and business career are both strengthened as she is constantly improving in all areas. You can connect with her on all social platforms @caryngillen she is always providing service and working on something that can help you.
February 11, 2020
E 72 Jealousy is a Teacher
I love love love when a client says they are jealous of someone or something. What this means to me is we get to unpack the jealousy suitcase and find what they want for themselves. This isn’t meant in a competitive sense or to be prideful at all. Jealousy is a teacher that gives us insight into what we value and what we want to experience.
February 4, 2020
E 71 Sleep as Self Care with Brittany owner of Sleeper Teachers
Brittany is the owner of a sleep consulting business called The Sleeper Teachers. I have many consultations with people and I’m actually surprised how often lack of sleep (and all that comes with that) comes up in my calls. We are all affected by sleep for good and bad and sleep affects our life in so many ways. Sleep is a basic human need, yet it’s not as easy as it seems like it should be for a lot of us. Brittany doesn’t hold back in sharing tips and tools on this episode and on her social media. Find her @TheSleeperTeachers Her website: Http:// And here is a link to the UCLA body scan for sleep that Brittany refers to in the episode:
January 28, 2020
E 70 Do you Poo Poo on your choices too?
We as humans do this all the time. We think what we are doing isn’t good enough; that there is always a better choice. We do this in our day to day lives and it can cause us to feel unfulfilled and unsatisfied with the way things are and who we are.
January 21, 2020
E 69 The Lens of Love
Love is a gift and an emotion in which we operate at our highest selves. I believe because God is love and we are created in his image then when we are operating through love then we are being our best selves.
January 14, 2020
E 68 When Your Spouse is Uncomfortable
Often we feel that uncomfortable feelings like stress, worry, frustration, anger are bad and that if our spouse is feeling them it is our job to make that feeling go away. This comes from the idea that you don’t like feeling uncomfortable and you are unaware that you are choosing the discomfort as is your spouse. They want to feel what they are feeling because of values they have. Allowing your spouse to feel what they are feeling is a form of love without feeling the need to control them. What do you think of that?
January 7, 2020
E 67 The Truth About Confidence
Most people think that they want more confidence and that it feels amazing. They think confident people just feel really good about life and themselves most of the time. I’m here to teach you the truth about confidence.
December 31, 2019
E 66 On Forgiveness with Coral Barajas from Serving Celiacs
You get to be a fly on the wall and listen to Coral’s personal experience with forgiveness and how having the gift of forgiveness has enhanced the peace she feels in her life. You can connect more with Coral if you go to @servingceliacs on Instagram. She is such a huge resource for my gluten free friends who are living with celiac disease. You can also listen to her podcast called Gluten Free You and Me.
December 24, 2019
E 65 Other Peoples Negativity
Other people create their emotions with their thoughts and if they are feeling negative it’s because they want to. We can allow others to feel however they want to feel. Sometimes we want other to change- but ultimately this is so we can feel better. But you don’t have to wait for them to change in order to feel better. You can feel however you want to feel whenever you want to.
December 17, 2019
E 64 The Silly Little Problems
Solving the problems that your brain tells you are small and stupid and silly actually helps you when the problems arise that your brain tells you are big problems. Cause they do come. Those big problems. And when they do, you’ve been proactive and taught your brain how to solve problems- which are all just thinking problems by the way.
December 10, 2019
BONUS EPISODE: The SECRET to getting unstuck
I have had lots of people wondering lots of things about coaching and what signing up for coaching even looks like. So I recorded this podcast episode in order to answer those questions for everyone. Enjoy!!
December 5, 2019
E 63 Not A Problem
Some things just aren’t a problem for me. Some things are. But when they are it’s because of the thoughts and stories I’m believing that make it a problem. It’s what I’m making things mean that cause it to be a problem in my life.
December 3, 2019
E 62 Intro to Emotional Adulthood and Commitments
Do you want to reach every goal you have for yourself? Try in some of these thoughts to see if being an Emotional Adult sounds like something you want to do.
November 29, 2019
BONUS EPISODE W/ Monica Tanner from On The Brighter Side
In this episode, Monica and I (Jamee) invite you to listen in to part of a conversation we have about marriage. Let us know of any insights you have and come connect with us on Instagram. To connect more with Monica Tanner head over to her podcast called, On The Brighter Side.
November 26, 2019
E 61 Hard is NOT Bad.
Thinking that when something is hard it must be bad or wrong- just creates more resistance and intensifies the struggle. Which is ok. But I really enjoy just dropping the thought that hard isnt bad. Who would you be without this thought that hard is bad?
November 19, 2019
E 60 Perspective On Perspective With Lenaya Andersen
Lenaya Andersen joins me today. Lenaya is an English professor, Author, Mother, and Wife. In no particular order. She shares with us several stories in which our perspective on life will shift and the way we think may be different.
November 12, 2019
E 59 A Super Hero Team
You, your brain, your body, and God are all separate. But all of you are a team. You’re not against each other and your body, your brain, and God are all doing exactly what their supposed to do. Your Job is to see this as a superhero team and work together to achieve anything you desire.
November 5, 2019
BONUS EPISODE- The bad news about being a grown up.
The bad news is that there is no college for teaching grown ups how to be an adult- How to be in emotional adulthood. Bummer!! But I have good news too. The good news is that I can teach you. And we start with these podcast episodes .
November 1, 2019
E 58 Redefining
This concept is a great way to shift your mindset and perspective on anything. Where are you suffering in your life? Where are you offended or sad? Its probably coming from the definition that you give to your circumstance. Its fun to feel empowered and to redefine every word or quality.
October 29, 2019
E 57 How to change in one day
In this episode I will teach you how you can make some changes in your life rather quickly. You can change in a day! And each day you do this will add up to 365 changes in a year! You could be a completely different person one year from now.
October 22, 2019
E 56 On Suffering
In this episode I address the idea that we all choose to suffer. Sometimes we suffer because we want to, other times we suffer unnecessarily. Sometimes we don’t realize that we are choosing to suffer and we think the suffering is just happening to us. In what areas of your life do you choose to suffer because you want to and what areas do you not see that you are choosing to suffer?
October 15, 2019
E 55 Creating your own reality
Circumstances really are neutral you guys!!! We get to decide what we think about everything. There are very little facts to the circumstances of our lives and a lot I mean A LOT of thoughts and stories. Sometimes we confuse the thoughts for the circumstances but that is just not true. In this episode I tell you how you can see more clearly that the circumstances are neutral.
October 8, 2019
E 54 How to make the best decisions
In this episode I teach you how to make decisions. I also teach you how to know if coaching is even right for you. We also talk about magic. All the things you guys. All the things. Be inspired!!!
October 1, 2019
E 53 How to do it all
In this episode I will show you how to get it all done and feel productive and accomplished every single day. No joke!!!
September 24, 2019
Ever feel run down and exhausted from serving in the church? Have you ever wondered what it would be like to not feel obligated to participate in all the meetings and opportunities available? I hear you!! I’m a lot like you and have had thoughts that make me feel resentful and jealous of those who seem to be living quiet peaceful sabbath days without me. Listen to this episode for an experience I had today that changed my mindset. Mindset is everything. The way we think about everything is what creates our relationship with it.
September 22, 2019
BONUS EPISODE- We do it for the FEEL of it
Everything thing we want in life is because of the FEELING that we think we will feel when we have that thing.
September 18, 2019
E 52 Entitlement exercise
In this episode we dive a little deeper into entitlement and I provide an exercise for you to do if you so desire to be honest with yourself and see where you are holding yourself back from getting results in your life. Good luck!!!
September 17, 2019
BONUS EPISODE- Gratitude now instead of later.
I love bonuses. So here is a little nugget for you. Let’s talk about being grateful now. Not just after the fact, but actually now. Like when things feel kinda horrible.
September 16, 2019
E 51 How about that entitlement, eh?
In this episode I explain how entitlement might be sneaking into your life. I share a couple of daily examples of how choosing the opposite of entitlement can change your life for good!
September 10, 2019
E 50 The checklist
Do you feel overwhelmed with your ever growing checklist of things you should be doing? Do you feel like the people around you should be doing things better so your life would be easier? I have a simple solution for you in this episode.
September 3, 2019
E 49 How to achieve ANYTHING you want.
In this episode I show you how to break down your goals into real actionable steps that will lead you to any goal you desire to reach.
August 27, 2019
E 48 What is the actual problem here?
Do you have a goal or a problem that you are trying to solve for and you just feel like you’ve been exhausting yourself trying to solve it and feel like nothing is working? Well I have some awesome news for you!!! You probably are trying to solve for the wrong problem. This is good news!!!!!
August 20, 2019
E 47 Sexual Desire
Everyone has a different sexual desire. If you think there is something wrong with your sexual desire or your spouses sexual desire then listen up!! I’m here to tell you what the problem is and how to fix it!!!!
August 13, 2019
E 46 “As thou hast believed...”
Jesus said that “as thou hast believed, so be it done unto thee.” Jesus knows that whatever result we want in our life comes back to what we believe. Wherever you are in your life all comes back to you. Your beliefs. You have the power to create whatever experience you desire. In fact, whatever experience you are currently having all comes back to your own beliefs.
August 6, 2019
E 45 How to save time AND build confidence at the same time!
Owning your decisions and just deciding that every choice you make is the right choice will save you time, energy, brain juice, and build confidence.
July 30, 2019
E 44 Thoughts are stories
Thoughts are just stories l. They aren’t true facts. Can you sit with that for a while and just start recognizing that? And then can you tell yourself stories that help you instead of hurt you?
July 23, 2019
E 43 You don’t have to change your thoughts
The point to all of this work isn’t necessarily to change all of our thoughts. The point is to recognize that we are not our thoughts and that thoughts are options.
July 16, 2019
E 42 New thought options
When we decide that we want to feel better and we are practicing this work then we realize that we need to change our thoughts and beliefs in order to change our feelings. So here are a few tips that I use in my life in order to do that. It feels empowering.
July 9, 2019
E 41 You are not your feelings
Give it a try! Try separating yourself from your feelings. Cause you are not your feelings.
July 6, 2019
E 40 Layering Emotions
Sometimes we are mad and then we feel guilty about being mad. And that feels worse than just being mad. Do you want to feel better in your life? Then stop layering your emotions.
July 2, 2019
E 39 Part two with Hillary Hess- feeling confident and authentic
I do a little more coaching in the part two of my interview about being authentic with Hillary Hess. Find more about Hillary on her blog:
June 30, 2019
E 38 Part one with Hillary Hess- feeling confident and authentic.
This is part one of my interview with Hillary Hess of I do a little coaching and we do some talking. Hillary is awesome and I’m glad she was vulnerable and authentic with us as she is navigating confidence and serving others!
June 29, 2019
E 37 Believe in yourself
It’s never about the money. It’s always about your belief in yourself. When we order something online we believe it will be delivered on our doorstep and we don’t doubt. But when we decide to invest in our own mental and emotional wellbeing we doubt if we will get the results or not. What if you decided to believe and decided to give it a try and create some evidence that you can get the results you desire?
June 25, 2019
E 36 Are you lying more than you think you are?
People pleasing is lying. It’s deciding for other people how they will think and feel. It’s saying you want to do something even though you don’t want to. It creates resentment. It creates evidence that you don’t like something. It’s a lot of drama.
June 22, 2019
E 35 Maybe it’s you and not them
As you notice that sometimes you decide ahead of time what other are going to think and feel about something you can see that it’s possible those are your feelings and not theirs. Maybe?
June 18, 2019
E 34 Thinking for others
Do you find yourself thinking and feeling for your spouse or others in your life and making decisions for them before they have a chance to make it for themselves? It’s an interesting concept that can change your life when you decide to stop doing this.
June 15, 2019
E 33 The 5 minute relationship trick
Here is something you can do to increase your connection with your spouse. It takes 5 minutes. About the same amount of time that it takes to listen to this episode. Just saying.
June 11, 2019
E 32 PART 3 of my interview with Whitney Lundeen we discuss divorce, fear, failure and COURAGE
In this final part of my discussion Whitney shares her advice for divorced and single women in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and her thoughts on failing, fear and courage.
June 7, 2019
E 31 Part 2 Interview with Whitney Lundeen of Sonnet James and money beliefs
In this episode, Whitney breaks down the cost of her dresses and how it differs having a business in the USA as opposed to over seas. We also go into some thoughts and beliefs about money that we have. These thoughts make me feel happier and live a happier life.
June 7, 2019
E 30 PART 1 Interview with Whitney Lundeen of Sonnet James: The idea that started everything!
I had the honor of interviewing Whitney Lundeen of the company Sonnet James. In the episode she tells her story of starting a business as a single mother of two young boys and not knowing anything about business.
June 7, 2019
E 29 You are the driver not the car.
This is a small analogy I like to use when I’ve noticed that I’ve let my brain take over my life and I’m listening to the ideas and stories that my brain is telling me instead of me actively choosing the story I want that will lead me to the experience that I want.
June 4, 2019
E 28 Drama
Can you talk to your brain more than you listen to your brain? The thoughts and ideas and stories that your brain tells you are not TruFax they are just thoughts and sometimes they are lies.
May 31, 2019
E 27 Your Experience
If you can’t control your value, then what is the point to this life? I want to offer you the idea that the point of this life is to experience what you choose to experience-for the fun of it and for the joy of it.
May 28, 2019
E 26 You don’t control your value
Try letting go of the idea that you can control your value and your worth with things you say and do and think and don’t say or do or think.
May 25, 2019
E 25 You think you can do these things but you just can’t Nemo!
Humans are smart. And when we tell them that they can’t do things that people are actually doing in the world then it can be confusing. Especially for children. It helps to tell them that they can do those things and then teach them. It doesn’t ensure that they won’t do things that you don’t want them to do, but you will like who you are as a parent. The Family: A proclamation to the World-
May 21, 2019
E 24 “Brutiful”
Is it possible that all the qualities that make up YOU are what make you the most lovable character in your story?
May 16, 2019
E 23 Part 2 of Busyness
In this episode I share another activity you can do to help yourself see how many options you have, how empowered you are, and that busyness is only created in your mind.
May 14, 2019
E 23 Busyness
What do we really HAVE to do? Maybe everything we do in life isn’t because we have to do anything but because we want to.... maybe.
May 14, 2019
E 22 On being offended
We all pretty much realize that we choose to be offended and that others don’t have the power to make us feel anything. I dive a little deeper on this and a special guests joins me at the end.
May 10, 2019
E 21 I love you more than you love me
One of my greatest assets I let become a weakness and a limiting belief in my life. What are your beliefs about yourself that are holding you back from being the best version of you?
May 6, 2019
E 20 The Truth About Relationships
Most of us think that relationships are based off of what others say and do. But the truth is that all relationships with others are in your own mind. This is great news, right?! It means you are in charge of how you feel about everyone.
April 30, 2019
E 19 Dictionary of Emotions
So. Many. Emotions!!!! Did you know that? I’ll read some to you here. And then I remind you how feelings and emotions are created.
April 26, 2019
E 18 How to Feel More Joy
If you desire to feel more joy or happiness in your life then you need to start allowing uncomfortable feelings and processing them.
April 25, 2019
E 17 Processing Emotions Continued...
Don’t let the simplicity of this tool keep you from the powerful benefits!!!!
April 24, 2019
E 16 How to help kids (and you!) process an emotion
Our bodies are meant to process emotions. Most of us have not been taught this and how to process our emotions. In this episode I offer an example of how to process and why. And how to teach your kids!
April 23, 2019
E 15 The 50/50 Rule
There is opposition to everything in life including our FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS. In every thing turn.... turn.... turn... there is a season turn... turn ... turn.... THIS 50/50 rule sure does help me stay away from thinking that things have gone wrong. I’m just human!!!!!! And this is LIFE.
April 19, 2019
Bonus Episode- How to Rate and Review a Podcast and Why
Rating and Reviewing our favorite podcasts helps other people find the podcast easier. AND ALSO THANK YOU FOR RATING AND REVIEWING.
April 18, 2019
E 14 How I deal with PMS
In this episode I give 5 tips on dealing with PMS and all the stuff going on during “that time of the month”. Take what you like from these tips and let me know what works for you!
April 15, 2019
E 13 Own your feelings
You are most likely, like 99%, not a victim every single day. Things happen in the world and it’s what you think about those things that are creating your feelings. You get to own all your feelings. What are you thinking that is causing you to feel that feeling?
April 12, 2019
E 12 How to access love
This episode includes the simple way in which I have learned to access love so that I can be confident in all my decision making. Plus it just feels so amazing to feel love as often as I want to.
April 9, 2019
E 11 Where you look is where you’ll go
Whatever you are thinking about and looking for is what will become true for you. Your brain only wants to prove your thoughts right and doesn’t want to help you. Look for what you want your reality to be and that is what you’ll find. Practice this and you will see.
April 6, 2019
E 10 Don’t worry, you don’t have to be happy.
Being alive doesn’t mean trying to be happy all the time. It means feeling all the feelings. The more we allow ourselves to feel the uncomfortable feelings, the more our ability to feel the opposite and comfortable feelings expand. Uncomfortable feelings can be linked to a value or a belief that we have and we get to decide if we like that value or belief and then own our feelings. So empowering!
March 31, 2019
E 9 Geometry problems with guest Olivia Andelin
I interview my daughter and help her work through a problem she is having using The Model as a tool.
March 26, 2019
E 8 How to feel better AKA How to solve your problems!!!!
In this episode I introduce a tool to you called, The Model. I use this tool to help my clients (I am a Lifecoach) solve all of their problems.
March 26, 2019
E 7 Morning Brain
Your brain has the most energy in the morning. Most of us let our brain go on autopilot in the mornings and just let it offer us all kinds of thoughts. Sometimes those thoughts create feelings we don’t like. We don’t have to be in autopilot if we don’t want to. But being aware of this is the first step.
March 24, 2019
E 6 How these tools apply to EVERYONE
These tools that I share are meant to enhance and augment your experience on this earth and be applied to your own mental and emotional health no matter where you are at on that journey. Some of us have been diagnosed with mental illness of some kind whether it be clinical depression, anxiety, bi-polar, or anything else and these tools are meant for you to add to whatever medical regiment you are choosing to follow. I am 100% in support of therapy and medication. I am 100% in support of humans doing what they need to do to prioritize their mental and emotional health.
March 20, 2019
E 5 What is reality?
Your actions create your results. Your results are your reality. Your reality doesn’t have anything to do with anyone else’s experience because everyone can only create their own reality with their thoughts and feelings and actions. Your brain proves all of your thoughts true. Whatever thoughts you choose to believe, will become your reality because your brain will find evidence for that thought. Your brains job is t to help you, but to prove thoughts true. Your job is to choose the thoughts that you want your Brian to find evidence for- that will become your reality.
March 18, 2019
E 4 Feelings are fuel for our actions
The lasting way to make changes in your life is to change from the worlds view which is muster up a ton of self discipline and take some action, then get a result which will make you feel better. This view is not a lasting way to make any changes. We only have so much will power to continue on like this. In order to really take the actions we want to take in life we must first choose thoughts and beliefs that will create the feelings that will fuel the actions we want.
March 16, 2019
E 3 Intro to our feelings and emotions
We are just beginning to discover what feelings and emotions are. An emotion or feeling is what is felt in the body after you think a thought and the brain releases chemicals and hormones into the body. Your body was made to be able to handle ANY feeling and emotion. Everything you desire in life is because of a feeling you think it will give you. The worst thing that will ever happen to you is a feeling that you will feel. We create feelings to fuel our actions or inactions.
March 14, 2019
E 2 Thoughts create feelings.
Thoughts are created in your brain and then your brain creates chemicals that are sent into your body. Those chemicals in your body are called feelings and emotions. Circumstances such as the weather and things other people do or say do not have the power to give you feelings. You have all the power. You create your feelings with your thoughts. This is great news!!
March 9, 2019
E 1 You are not your thoughts.
Your brain is a tool you’ve been given but it is not you. You are not your thoughts.
March 7, 2019