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How To Say 'NO' Like Socrates

In today's fast-paced world, where societal pressures and expectations often dictate our actions, maintaining integrity and asserting ourselves with confidence can be challenging.

However, by drawing inspiration from the teachings of ancient philosophers like Socrates, we can learn valuable lessons on the art of saying "NO" authentically and reclaiming our power in challenging situations.

The Wisdom of Socrates.

Socrates, the renowned ancient Greek philosopher, is celebrated for his unwavering commitment to truth and integrity, even in the face of adversity.

His refusal to compromise his beliefs, as evidenced by his decision to drink hemlock rather than recant his teachings, serves as a timeless example of moral courage and ethical fortitude.

Asserting Yourself with Confidence.

Assertiveness is a key component of self-esteem and personal empowerment. By learning how to assert ourselves with confidence and clarity, we can effectively communicate our boundaries and preferences to others, thereby safeguarding our integrity and well-being.

Socrates' unyielding stance against societal pressures reminds us of the importance of standing firm in our convictions and refusing to acquiesce to unreasonable demands.

Practical Strategies for Saying "NO".

Saying "NO" authentically requires practice and self-awareness. Here are some practical strategies inspired by Socrates' teachings:

1. Know Your Values: Before saying "NO" to others, it's essential to clarify your values and priorities. Reflect on what matters most to you and use these principles as a guide when making decisions.

2. Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries in your personal and professional life to protect your time, energy, and well-being. Communicate these boundaries assertively and respectfully without apologising or making excuses.

3. Practice Self-Compassion: Saying "NO" may evoke feelings of guilt or anxiety, especially if you're accustomed to prioritising others' needs over your own. Practice self-compassion and remind yourself that it's okay to prioritise your own well-being.

4. Use "I" Statements: When expressing your boundaries or declining requests, use "I" statements to assert your perspective without assigning blame or judgment.

   For example, "I appreciate your invitation, but I've already committed to other priorities."

Personal Reflection.

As a Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, and Life Coach, I've witnessed firsthand the transformative power of refusing to compromise one's integrity.

In my journey, I've encountered moments when I've been asked to betray my values or sacrifice my authenticity for the sake of conformity.

However, by drawing inspiration from Socrates' example and embracing the principles of assertiveness and self-respect, I've learned to navigate these challenges with grace and integrity.

Embrace Your Power to Say "NO"

In conclusion, embracing the wisdom of Socrates can empower you to assert yourself with integrity and authenticity in all areas of your life.

By practising assertiveness and honouring your values, you can reclaim your power to say "NO" authentically and live with purpose and integrity.

Remember, your voice matters, and you have the power to shape your own destiny.

So, channel your inner Socrates, stand firm in your convictions, and embrace the freedom that comes from living with integrity.

How Counselling Helped Theseus Defeat The Minotaur

In the ancient city of Athens, there lived a young hero named Theseus, destined for greatness but unsure of his path.

As he prepared to embark on a perilous journey to defeat the monstrous Minotaur lurking within the labyrinth of Crete, Theseus sought guidance from a wise mentor, the renowned Athenian statesman and philosopher, Solon.

Solon, known for his wisdom and insight, welcomed Theseus into his home and listened intently as the young hero shared his doubts and fears about the daunting task ahead.

With compassion and clarity, Solon offered Theseus sage advice and timeless wisdom to help him navigate the challenges that lay ahead.

Inspired by Solon's words of encouragement, Theseus embarked on his journey with newfound confidence and determination.

For him, something had changed internally.

He now believed in himself!

Armed not only with his sword and shield but also with the wisdom of his mentor, he navigated the twists and turns of the labyrinth with purpose and resolve.

As he confronted the Minotaur in the heart of the maze, Theseus drew upon the lessons imparted to him by Solon, facing the fearsome creature with courage and cunning.

In the end, it was not just brute strength that ensured Theseus's victory but also the wisdom and guidance he received from his mentor.

Returning triumphant to Athens, Theseus honoured Solon as not only a mentor but also a friend and counsellor who had played a pivotal role in his journey to heroism.

And so, the legend of Theseus and the Minotaur became not just a tale of bravery and adventure but also a testament to the transformative power of receiving wise counsel and mentorship.

As we reflect on the story of Theseus and Solon, we are reminded of the importance of seeking guidance and wisdom from those who have walked the path before us.

Through counselling, life coaching, and mentorship, we can navigate the labyrinth of life with confidence and clarity, drawing upon the lessons of the past to forge a brighter future.

Join me as we delve into the timeless wisdom of Greek mythology and uncover the secrets to living a life of purpose, courage, and fulfilment.

My Best Wishes,

James

Unlock Your Potential: Conquer Fear, Embrace Your X Factor.

Welcome to Right Your Own Story, where I am dedicated to helping you unlock your true potential and achieve your goals.

In this podcast, I delve into the transformative journey of conquering the fear barrier and embracing your 'X Factor' - the innate strength within you.

Introduction: Are you ready to break free from the shackles of fear and step into your greatness? Join me as I explore the powerful interplay between the Fear Barrier and the X factor, and discover how you can tap into your full potential.

Understanding the Fear Barrier: The fear barrier—that internal obstacles that hold us back from pursuing our dreams—can seem daunting and insurmountable. However, by understanding the roots of our fears and acknowledging their presence, we can begin to dismantle this barrier brick by brick.

Conquering Your Fears: Conquering the fear barrier requires courage, determination, and resilience. I share practical strategies and actionable insights to help you confront your fears head-on and navigate through the discomfort to emerge stronger and more empowered on the other side.

Embracing Your X Factor: At the core of every individual lies an untapped well of true and real potential—the X factor. By harnessing this innate strength and resilience, you can unlock doors you never thought possible and achieve goals that once seemed out of reach.

Benefits of Embracing Your X Factor: Embracing your X factor isn't just about achieving external success—it's about cultivating inner happiness, confidence, and fulfillment. As you connect with your true self and unleash your potential, you'll experience a newfound sense of purpose and direction in life.

Welcome to Right Your Own Story, where we unveil the secrets to success.

In this episode, I introduce you to the transformative power of The 3G's: Get Serious, Get Smart, and Get Moving.

These three essential principles are your roadmap to achieving your goals and unlocking your true potential.

Join me as I delve each 'G', and explore how they can propel you forward in your personal and professional endeavors.

From cultivating a mindset of determination and focus to leveraging strategic thinking and taking decisive action, these are crucial tools and insights you need to turn your dreams into reality.

Hosted by James Taylor, Right Your Own Story is your go-to resource for actionable advice and inspiration.

Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, a career-driven individual, or simply someone hungry for personal growth, this episode is a must-listen.

Tune in now and embark on your journey to success with the 3G's by your side.

Box Breathe Like a Navy Seal, and Reduce Your Stress.

Unlock the secrets of elite mental and physical performance with the renowned technique of Box Breathing, as taught by the mastermind behind its application, Mark Miller. 🔵 What is Box Breathing? Box Breathing, also known as tactical breathing or square breathing, is a powerful mindfulness technique designed to enhance focus, reduce stress, and optimise performance. It follows a simple four-step process of inhalation, holding the breath, exhalation, and another pause – forming a "box" pattern. This rhythmic breathing practice has gained widespread recognition for its effectiveness in calming the nervous system and promoting mental clarity. 🔵 Mark Miller, the Creator: Mark Miller, a highly regarded expert in performance optimisation and stress management, is credited with adapting Box Breathing for the specific needs of Navy SEALs. With his extensive background in psychology and practical experience working with elite military units, Miller fine-tuned this technique to equip individuals with a tool that promotes resilience, sharpens focus, and improves decision-making under pressure. 🔵 Navy SEAL Training: Box Breathing has become an integral part of Navy SEAL training, where mental toughness and emotional resilience are paramount.

As a Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, and Life Coach, I help clients find solutions to their problems, or more accurately, I help equip clients with tools so they become a better and more capable version of themselves.

It occurred to me that it would be a great idea if I could help children develop these tools too, so I put my mind to work on how I could best do that.

I am pleased to announce that I have written a series of children's books (29 so far), which all follow a certain theme.

The main characters each have a problem that is either happening to them or around them. Either alone or with the help of others, they seek out a way to move forward and overcome the obstacle that is in their way.

In these books, I also include therapeutic questions for the story to pause and for the reader to explore what emotions the character in the book might be feeling at that moment, and what possible things or options they have available to them.

I will be releasing a new book every six weeks, and the illustrations are really beautiful too.

The first of the 29 books are now available on Amazon, and is called, 'The Squirrel That Lost Its Nut'.

This enchanting children's book invites young readers (ages 6-10) to join an excitable Grey Squirrel on an emotional rollercoaster through the woods. Faced with the challenge of a forgotten nut burial spot, the squirrel learns valuable lessons in patience, composure, and teamwork with the guidance of a wise Owl.

Why I Wrote It: As a therapist, I crafted this story to help children navigate the complex landscape of emotions and problem-solving.

The narrative not only engages young minds but subtly introduces therapeutic insights. The excitement, frustration, and joy experienced by our furry friend become stepping stones for children to become resilient problem solvers.

Therapeutic Elements: "The Squirrel That Lost Its Nut" is more than a bedtime story—it's a tool for parents and caregivers to spark conversations about emotions. By weaving therapeutic principles into the whimsical narrative, the book aims to guide children in developing crucial problem-solving skills.

Bonus: 10 Fascinating Squirrel Facts: As an added treat, the book concludes with ten intriguing facts about squirrels. This bonus section not only enhances the educational value, but also deepens the connection between young readers and the charming woodland characters.

Uncover the magic of "The Squirrel That Lost Its Nut" and foster a love for learning and problem-solving in your child.

Order your copy today and let the journey begin!

Join me in this special podcast episode as I bring the enchanting story of 'The Squirrel That Lost Its Nut' directly to your ears.

This is the first in a series of books I have specifically written for children, that will be released on Amazon.

Why I Wrote It: As a therapist, I crafted these stories to help children navigate the complex landscape of emotions and problem-solving. The narrative not only engages young minds but subtly introduces therapeutic insights.

All the books follow a theme - There is an issue that the main character has to face, such as fear, doubt, a limiting belief, lack of confidence, procrastination, frustration, etc.

Developing skills in these areas becomes stepping stones for children to become resilient problem solvers.

Immerse yourself in the heartwarming journey of a Grey Squirrel, guided by therapeutic insights to help young minds become resilient problem solvers.

What to Expect: In this episode, I read aloud the whimsical tale of our excitable protagonist and its quest for the elusive buried nut. The emotional highs and lows experienced by the squirrel become a gateway for children to explore their own feelings and learn essential problem-solving skills.

How To Order Your Copy If you enjoyed this narrated version of 'The Squirrel That Lost Its Nut', you can buy the physical version on Amazon.

Let this delightful tale become a cherished addition to your family's reading adventures.

The Pedlar of Swaffham.

In this podcast episode I talk about, 'The Pedlar of Swaffham'.

A pedlar was the name given to a medieval door-to-door salesman, and Swaffham is a market town in Norfolk.

This particular Pedlar was called John Chapman, and a recurring dream he had changed his entire life, and that of his family too!

As you listen to this episode, I would really invite you to think about how YOU could (and can), go for 'your dreams' too.

👉 Perhaps there are a few obstacles in your way though.

Learn how working with me could change that, either with counselling, life coaching, or hypnotherapy, and how it could actually be one of those stepping stones towards your success.

If this interests you, I offer a FREE 30-Minute consultation.

How To Save Money For This Time Next Year

This podcast channel is all about empowering you to live your best life.

In today's post, I'm excited to share a transformative savings challenge that could leave you with £1378 by the end of the year.

The technique is simple, flexible, and can be adapted to fit any budget.

You start by saving £1 in the first week, £2 in the second week, and so on. I've also provided alternative approaches to suit different budgets, ensuring that everyone can participate in this financial challenge.

But that's not all!

In the same spirit of positive transformation, (and a great gift idea for Christmas too) is my latest creation—The '1-Minute, 365-Day Appreciation Journal'.

This journal is more than just pages; it's a journey toward gratitude and self-improvement.

Packed with inspiring quotes and QR codes for exclusive video tips, it's the perfect companion for anyone looking to add a daily dose of positivity to their routine.

Embrace Your Journey: The Dangers of Comparison and the Power of Personal Growth.

In this episode, I talk about the impact of comparing ourselves to others. I also discuss the inherent dangers of the comparison trap and explore the empowering journey of personal growth. Key Insights: 👉 Pitfalls of Comparison: Uncover how comparing ourselves to others can lead to feelings of inadequacy and hinder our own progress. 👉 Shift Your Focus: Learn the art of shifting your focus from external benchmarks to your unique journey, finding inspiration within yourself. 👉 Power of Personal Growth: Explore the liberating power of personal growth by comparing yourself to an earlier version, acknowledging progress, and embracing self-acceptance. 👉 In a personal reflection on my own musical journey, particularly in learning to play the guitar, we'll explore how I came to terms with the fact that my guitar hero, Chet Atkins, was light-years ahead of me. Yet, this realisation became a source of inspiration rather than frustration, illustrating the beauty of embracing one's unique path. Join me on this transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

Watch and discover how you can revolutionise the way you view your personal growth.

If you need some help with this yourself, my contact details are below.

My best wishes, James

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📚 Want to journal your way to success? If so, I have something that you will love. Brand new, I have created 'The 1-Minute, 365-Day Appreciation Journal', but it is a journal with a difference.

Leadership Lessons from Captain Kirk: The Art of Delegating for Success.

In this insightful vlog post, I talk about the valuable lessons we can glean from the legendary Captain Kirk on effective leadership and delegation.

Discover how relinquishing control while maintaining authority can propel your team and business to new heights.

Key Takeaways:

1. Leadership Mastery: Insights into Captain Kirk's leadership style and how he balances control with delegation.
2. Real-World Analogies: Learn from everyday examples like car repairs and Henry Ford's management philosophy to understand the significance of effective delegation.
3. Building Your Star Team: Practical tips for assembling and leading a team that thrives in their roles.

Watch how to unlock the secrets of successful leadership through the eyes of Captain Kirk.

Take the helm of your life and your business with confidence!

If you need some help with this yourself, my contact details are below. 

My best wishes,

James

#106- Making Tough Choices: Prioritising Your Well-Being

In our journey through life, we often encounter challenges and difficulties. Sometimes, we find ourselves in situations where we've been dealing with a problem for far too long, just like the toothache I am presently experiencing.

This blog post is about the importance of making tough decisions to improve our lives.

Problem Identification:

Recognising our personal issues is the first step toward personal growth. Many individuals struggle with acknowledging their problems, unsure of how to address them.

The longer we put off addressing these issues, the more they can affect various areas of our lives.

Consequences of Inaction:

Procrastination and avoidance can have dire consequences.

Neglecting problems can lead to a cascade of negative impacts on our well-being and quality of life. It's vital to understand that the longer we wait, the harder it becomes to deal with the issue effectively.

Making Tough Choices:

I recently faced a difficult decision regarding my toothache. Although I don't want to have my tooth extracted, I recognise that it is the best decision for my long-term well-being.

If I do not do this, it will get worse, become more painful, and may even start to impact with other teeth or even my gums.

That 'not taking action' is just a path I am simply not willing to take.

Making such choices can be challenging, if it was easy it would not be a problem, but they are often necessary for personal growth and improvement.

Prioritising Long-Term Well-Being:

Prioritising long-term well-being is a fundamental aspect of personal development.

When we address our problems and make difficult decisions, we set ourselves on a path toward a better future. Remember, your well-being is worth the effort and discomfort in the short term.

Conclusion:

In summary, recognising and addressing personal issues is a crucial step in personal growth.

Making tough choices, despite initial apprehension, can lead to a brighter future and a higher quality of life.

Don't let problems fester; take action today for a better tomorrow.

If you have been dealing with a problem, and it is impacting various aspects of your life, remember that you have the power to make a change.

It all starts with acknowledging the issue and taking that first step towards a solution.

If you have a tough decision to make, and you are finding yourself feeling 'stuck', perhaps working together as a team would assist you?

Lessons We Can learn From Spiders.

A spider has been sitting outside my office window, and I have been seeing it each day, doing its thing.

Like most things in life, there is a lesson there for me, and in this episode, I talk about that.

Perhaps there is a lesson there for you too?

I hope you like this one.

Best wishes,

James

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What Is Unconditional Positive Regard? 

As a counsellor, hypnotherapist, and life coach, I am often curious as to what goals clients are setting or have set themselves. 

For some, it is many, whereas for others that space is very vague. 

Goal setting is such a huge area of exploration, and I believe it really is crucial for our own mental health. 

Without a goal, we drift, going from day to day without any progress, like a ship without a captain.

In this episode, I talk about the 3D's regarding goal setting, what this means, give examples, and more. 

I hope you enjoy this one. 

If you have any questions, please pop them in the comments. 

Best wishes, 

James 

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Psychological testing comes in many forms. They can be random, seemingly innocent questions or scenarios, but your answers or responses can betray your deepest darkest unconscious thoughts. In this episode, (and just for fun), I ask just two questions. What will your answers reveal? I hope you like this one. Best wishes, James

A Tip For Creating Success.

How To Turn On Your Superpower.

You have a superpower within you and I want to help you 'turn it on'.

But HOW?

I have created a journal to achieve this, but it is a journal with a twist.

The 1-minute, 365-Day Appreciation Journal.

You get rid of the dark by turning on the light. You get rid of the cold by turning on the heating. You get rid of negative thoughts by turning on your appreciation.

With just one minute each day, you can reflect on the good things in your life and express appreciation for them, leading to a whole host of benefits, like improved mood, better relationships, reduced stress and anxiety, and a greater sense of meaning and purpose.

It's like finding a compass that points you in the right direction - suddenly, you have a sense of purpose and clarity.

As an online Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, and Life-Coach, goal setting is something that features a lot in my client work.

Many want to either stop something or start something, sometimes it is both.

I would really encourage you to set yourself goals, either personal or professional, and then break the goal down into bitesize chunks so it becomes doable.

I also believe having a goal is great for your mental health too, as it gives you something to strive for, to head towards, and the opportunity for internal growth too.

A few top tips here:

• Make it a tangible goal, something you can see, feel, or experience, and identify the bullseye of the goal. If you are slightly off, you still hit the target.
• Work on it every day, even if you can only manage a few minutes, but more if possible.
• Identify why this goal is important to you. It does not have to make sense to others as it's not their goal, but it does need to make sense to you. A clear 'WHY' reason is fuel for your fire.
• Imagine what life will be like for you when you achieved it. What will change? What will it mean? How exactly?
• Act like the person NOW as if you have already attained it. For example, if it is an exercise regime, would the future version not bother exercising, or would they turn up for themselves no matter what? So begin behaving as that future version would behave.
• Can you get an accountability partner? Picking the right partner can really add to your success.
• Make an internal promise to yourself that this is your time now. This is your moment to shine. This is where you rise from the things that have been holding you back, that you are just not stopping and will do whatever it takes. When the 'internal you' gets on board with this, you are tapping into enormous energy, and it is like a superpower

Why Letting Go Is Good For Your Mental Health.

As a Counsellor, Life Coach, and Hypnotherapist a phrase I hear myself using a lot is, 'Let Go Or Get Dragged Along'.

That is the theme of this podcast episode - The power of 'letting go', and it truly is a thing that if you embrace it fully, can change your life.

There can be many reasons why you should (or could) 'let go' of something. Maybe it could be a pain you have felt about a situation, a grudge you are holding, or a limiting belief about yourself. There are many more.

When you 'release' yourself from it, it loses its power over you, and you then have power over it, and there is a big difference in that.

In my own private practice as a Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, and Hypnotherapy Supervisor, decisions play a big part. Generally, clients want to start something or stop something, sometimes it's a little bit of both. Well, I had to make a big decision myself recently. In this podcast, I talk about that, including the unexpected (and unwanted) thoughts that came up for me, and how I addressed them. I hope this video helps you with your own decisions. Best wishes, James

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#94 - Three Great Questions to Ask Yourself.

A lesson I once received from a mentor has really helped me grow both personally and professionally. This, in turn, has helped me help my counselling, hypnotherapy, and life coaching clients in a better way so their results improve.

Its simplicity is its genius!

I hope you enjoy this episode.

Best wishes,

James

#93 - How To Say NO, and a free gift.

What Happens In A Therapy Session?

As an online counsellor, hypnotherapist, and life coach, I see clients for many different reasons, and for some, it has been the first time they have ever had therapy.

In this podcast episode, I thought it may be an idea to explain what the process is like, what to expect, and how it generally goes.

What Does Seal Rescue And Therapy Have In Common?

As a Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach and Hypnotherapy Supervisor, I often hear about lots of difficult issues my clients are facing. Some initially feel lost, some feel angry, some frustrated, and some feel wounded by the things they have experienced, or are still experiencing right now.

There is a way out of this, and therapy is an excellent tool to facilitate it.

So you may be wondering what does this have to do with seal rescue. No, that is not a clickbait title.

A Thank You, and a Tip For Achieving Your Goals.

In this upload I want to begin by saying a big THANK YOU. My podcast channel has just reached 7,000 downloads, so THANK YOU for this. I literally could not have done it without you. I also give a tip on achieving your goals and do not let the simplicity of it fool you.

You are not creating a to-do list. Instead, you are creating a SUCCESS list.

Is this the secret to overcoming Procrastination?

Are you tired of procrastinating and struggling to get things done? If so, you're not alone. Procrastination can be a major obstacle to achieving our goals and can leave us feeling frustrated and unproductive.

But there is a simple technique that can help you overcome procrastination and take action towards your goals. It's called the "5-second rule," also known as the "54321" technique, and it was popularised by motivational speaker and author Mel Robbins.

Here's how it works: when you want to do something - whether it's going to the gym, starting a new project, or even just getting out of bed in the morning - you simply count down from five to one, and when you reach one, you take action.

By counting down and committing to taking action once you reach one, you're interrupting the cycle of procrastination and giving yourself a clear signal that it's time to get moving. And once you start taking action, you'll often find that it's easier to keep going than it was to get started.

Whether you're a chronic procrastinator or just looking for a simple way to get more done, this technique can help you overcome inertia and take action towards your goals, thanks to Mel Robbins' insights and research.

So why not give it a try and see how it works for you?

Hypnotherapy and Hollywood - The Surprising Connection With Sylvester Stallone

Are you curious about the benefits of hypnotherapy? Do you want to learn more about how it can help you reduce stress, break bad habits, and enhance your creativity and focus?

Hypnotherapy can help you learn to tap into the power of your subconscious mind and unlock your inner potential. Whether you're looking to improve your sleep quality, overcome anxiety, or boost your productivity, hypnotherapy can help you achieve your goals.

Don't just take my word for it though.

In this podcast episode I explain how even Hollywood icon Sylvester Stallone turned to hypnotherapy to help him write his blockbuster hit "Rocky". If it worked for him, imagine what it can do for you!

So why wait? Click on the link below to book your free, online, 30-minute consultation call and see if I can help you overcome your limitations and unlock your full potential.

Finding Strength in Seeking Help: Drew Barrymore's Mental Health Journey.

Drew Barrymore is a household name, but few people know the personal struggles she has faced throughout her life.

Growing up in the public eye, Drew experienced substance abuse, a tumultuous family life, and mental health challenges, including depression and anxiety.

Drew's journey to recovery started when she was only 13 years old when she was placed in a mental institution.

In a 2014 interview with People magazine, Drew spoke about this experience, saying, "I was in there for a year and a half. I was very rebellious. I started smoking cigarettes when I was nine, and I think I stole my first car when I was 12. I was going to clubs and not going to school and stealing my mom's car and, you know, I was out of control."

During her time in the institution, Drew received therapy and support from professionals who helped her confront her demons and start the healing process.

As she stated in a 2020 interview with Glamour, "I was really scared and really young, but I wanted to get better. And that was such a profound moment of my life."

After leaving the institution, Drew continued to work on her recovery and started therapy sessions with a new therapist. In a 2016 interview with InStyle, she shared, "I love therapy. I'm in therapy all the time... I believe that everyone can benefit from therapy."

Through therapy, Drew learned to confront her emotions, set boundaries, and cultivate healthy habits. As she stated in the same InStyle interview, "I'm very disciplined about therapy and about finding new ways of growth and healing."

Drew's journey to recovery hasn't been easy, but it has been worth it. She has used her experiences to inspire others and advocate for mental health awareness. In a 2018 interview with Today, she shared, "I think that everyone's life journey is about finding that courage and finding that strength to keep moving forward, and to keep acknowledging that there's stuff to work on and there's stuff to face."

Drew Barrymore's story is a powerful reminder that no matter what challenges you may face, there is hope for healing and growth.

Seeking therapy can be a vital tool in your journey towards mental and emotional wellness, just as it has been for Drew.

If you're ready to start or continue your own journey to recovery, I encourage you to book a therapy session with me. As a counsellor, hypnotherapist and life-coach I can provide a safe and supportive space for you to work through your challenges and achieve your goals.

My Embarrassing Fashion Faux Pas!

Following last week's theme of 'Give Yourself A Chance', here is another true story. This time it is about a big purchasing decision I made when I was younger, and how I have never regretted making it, BUT a huge fashion faux pas followed soon after. I am so glad there are no photos!! I hope you like this episode. Best wishes, James

In this podcast episode, I talk about one of those unexpected life lessons that came out of the blue, and how it inadvertently shaped my outlook ever since.

I also speak about a funny incident that happened to me years later when I was attending a night school, trying to learn a new skill.

I hope you like this episode.

Best wishes,

James

An Unusual Sight!

Recently, I was on a train travelling into London Victoria, when something unusual caught my eye. Me being me, I do like to go down the rabbit hole with my own thoughts, and the memory of it has stayed with me.

You see, there was a lesson for me to learn in that event, and it was a good one too, so I thought I would share it with you too.

I hope you like this episode.

Best wishes, 

James

David Goggins And The Cookie Jar.

In this podcast episode, I talk about a technique created by David Goggins which he calls 'The Cookie Jar', and it is extremely powerful.

David Goggins is the only U.S. soldier who has undergone Navy Seal, Army Ranger, and Air Force Tactical Air Controller Training.

His 'Cookie Jar' technique helps you defeat that negative voice that we all have at times, and David Goggins takes no prisoners with it either.

For more background on David Goggins, he has also written two books. 

His first book (which I have) is called 'Can't Hurt Me'. This is about his early life and the things that began to forge his willpower. 

The Gift. 

In this weeks podcast episode I talk about a gift that you may not realise you can claim, and how it could benefit you too. 

Best wishes, 

James

A Romantic Evening Gone Wrong!

A sincere and genuine 'Thank You', as the podcast channel has just reached 6000 plays. So as a break from the normal content on here, I wanted to share a true but funny story from my past.

I hope you like it!

Best wishes, 

James

#rightyourownstory #thankyou #truestory

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#79 - Tune In And Tune Out

We all operate on frequencies, either consciously or unconsciously, and these 'frequencies' can either be positive or negative. 

If you are unconsciously tuning into a negative frequency, you will feel .......... negative. 

Whereas if you are tuning into a positive frequency, you will feel positive. 

Yes, I know that is very obvious, yet so many do not actively decide what they are tuning into, to their detriment. 

So in this podcast episode, I talk about getting your control back regarding your frequencies, tuning into what you want, AND tuning out of what you need to tune out. 

That becomes a win-win, and if you are a regular listener on here you will know how I do like a win-win.

I hope you like this episode.

Best wishes, 

James

A Painful Mistake, And The Law Of Sacrifice

In this podcast episode, I talk about a painful lesson I learned, and a concept called 'The Law Of Sacrifice', which is a life-coaching concept. When you combine the two, you become very resilient. 

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Lessons We Can Learn From Trees.

In this podcast episode, I talk about lessons we can learn from trees, (and there are LOTS), but you have probably not thought of it in this way before.

We are actually more similar than you think!

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The Seven Whys. 

In this podcast episode, I talk about a discovery exercise called 'The Seven Whys', and how it can lead you to either continue a healthy habit or behaviour, or help you find the reasons to eliminate it.

Either way, it's a win-win scenario, but only IF you act on it.

It really helps you go down the rabbit hole with your own thoughts, (and there is treasure down there if you look for it!)

I hope you enjoy it.

Best wishes,

James

Making A Decision.

Making a decision can be really hard. Should you take option A or option B? Are they the only options? For many, the stress of it all makes them make no decision, but there is a huge error in this.

Making 'no decision' is still making a decision.

So in this podcast episode, I give a few ideas to help you with this.

I hope you enjoy it.

Best wishes, 

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd

In this podcast episode called, 'Let's Clean Up' I talk about a little revelation I made recently regarding a hoover of all things!

Me being me, I do like to go down the rabbit hole with these little discoveries and see how I can learn and then apply them to my life. 

I mention a few things in the podcast, so here are all the links as promised:

The Hall Of A Thousand Mirrors.

In this weeks podcast episode, I tell a wonderful story I heard recently called, 'The Hall Of A Thousand Mirrors'.

I also talk about the power of choosing to put some goodness out into the universe too. 

I hope you like this episode.

Best wishes, 

James