Mindset with Muscle
By Jay Alderton
Mindset with MuscleFeb 22, 2019
MWM112 - How to Scale a Successful Fitness Business with Phil Graham
In this episode, Phil Graham and Jay Alderton discuss the challenges and opportunities in the fitness industry.
They share their experiences building successful fitness businesses and provide valuable insights and lessons for fitness professionals.
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MWM111 - How to be Happy with Stephanie Harrison
In this episode, I’m speaking to Stephanie Harrison
Stephanie is an expert in the science of happiness and the creator of the New Happy philosophy. She has a master’s degree in positive psychology from the University of Pennsylvania,
Her company, The New Happy, has revolutionized the way that people understand and pursue happiness using Their artwork, newsletter, videos, podcast, and resources which reach millions of people around the world every month.
Check Out Stephanie's Website The New Happy
Takeaways
- Society has conditioned us to pursue the wrong things for happiness, such as success, material possessions, and external validation.
- True happiness comes from intrinsic motivation and being true to oneself.
- Capitalism, individualism, and dominance influence our beliefs about happiness and lead us astray.
- The pursuit of extrinsic goals often leaves us feeling empty, while finding intrinsic joy in our pursuits brings fulfillment.
- We are enough and deserving of happiness just as we are. Recognize your worthiness and separate it from external achievements.
- Ask for help and embrace the power of connection.
- Be mindful of the impact of social media on happiness and prioritize in-person connection.
- Start the journey to new happy by understanding your authentic self and taking small steps towards pursuing passions and serving others.
Chapters
00:00 The Pursuit of Happiness
02:59 The Wrong Path to Happiness
05:59 The Influence of Capitalism, Individualism, and Dominance
08:58 Transitioning to a New Way of Thinking
11:54 The Difference Between Happiness and Success
15:56 Intrinsic Motivation vs Extrinsic Motivation
25:08 Recognizing Worthiness
27:11 The Paradox of Self-Worth and Goal Pursuit
29:04 The Power of Asking for Help
32:42 The Importance of Connection
35:23 The Impact of Social Media on Happiness
40:27 The Power of In-Person Connection
43:21 Starting the Journey to New Happy
MWM110 - Phil Heath: Mindset, Discipline, and the Journey to Olympia
In this special episode, I sit down with 7x Mr Olympia Phil Heath to explore the depths of achieving greatness, the pivotal role of mindset and discipline, and take an exclusive look at his new documentary, "Breaking Olympia."
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Show Highlights:
Phil Heath on Overcoming the Fear of Success: Discover why the real challenge isn't always achieving success, but the fear of maintaining it. Phil shares his insights on navigating the mental hurdles that come with greatness.
The Power of Discipline: From his transformative experience in Basketball to the disciplined approach required in Bodybuilding, Phil reflects on how discipline has been a cornerstone of his success.
Training for Greatness: Learn about the dynamic nature of training for Mr. Olympia, the importance of continuous self-improvement, and how competition fuels growth.
Inside "Breaking Olympia": Phil Heath gives us a behind-the-scenes look at his documentary, sharing the emotional rollercoaster of reliving his journey and the gratification of documenting his legacy.
Key Takeaways:
- Success requires not just achieving goals but maintaining an unwavering mindset to preserve them.
- Discipline shapes character and is essential for personal and professional growth.
- Embracing challenges and competition is crucial for surpassing limits and achieving excellence.
- "Breaking Olympia" is not just a documentary but a testament to Phil Heath's journey. It showcases the highs and lows of his path to becoming a bodybuilding legend.
Closing Thoughts: Phil Heath's story powerfully reminds us that mindset and discipline are the bedrock of success.
Whether you're chasing your own version of Olympia or seeking to overcome personal barriers, Phil's journey offers valuable lessons and inspiration for all.
MWM109 - GETTING THE PERFECT BODY AND RELATIONSHIPS
In this episode, I share an incredible podcast I recorded last year with Mark and Curtis Tilbury on the Strike it Big Podcast.
We talk about how to get the "perfect" body, Relationships and how to build confidence.
Enjoy!
MWM108 - HOW TO GROW NEW BRAIN CELLS
In this episode, I talk about Neurogenesis.
Neurogenesis is the ability for adults to generate new brain cells.
I delve deep into neurogenesis and the daily habits and routines you can implement to help increase it.
MWM107 - WHY I'M GIVING UP BEER FOR A YEAR
In this episode, I share with you why I'm giving up beer for a year and some interesting life paradoxes.
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MWM106 - THE LIFE BLUEPRINT WITH SAHIL BLOOM
In this deeply reflective and insightful episode of the Mindset Muscle Podcast, host Jamie Alderton engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Sahil Bloom, exploring the transformative power of focused effort, the beauty of simplicity, and the significance of embracing life's paradoxes.
Through their dialogue, they delve into personal stories of failure, growth, and the profound changes that can occur in just one year of dedicated action.
The episode is rich with wisdom on the importance of asking the right questions, the impact of our closest relationships, and the concept of investing time wisely to yield compounding benefits in personal and professional life.
Transformative Power of Focused Effort: Understand how one year of concentrated effort can fundamentally alter your life's trajectory, emphasizing the importance of daily commitment.
Embracing Life's Paradoxes: Discover the paradox of effort, where the most effortless performances are a result of hard, gritty practice, and how intelligent people can sometimes fall into the trap of overcomplicating things for the sake of complexity.
The Importance of Simplicity: Learn why simplicity often trumps complexity in achieving long-term success and fulfillment.
Finding the Right Questions: Sahil Bloom shares a life-changing realization about the importance of asking the right questions to uncover the answers that already lie within us, rather than seeking external solutions.
Cherishing Relationships: A touching reflection on the significance of deepening bonds with loved ones and prioritizing these relationships above materialistic or superficial goals.
Investing vs. Spending Time: Gain insight into the difference between investing time in actions that compound positively over your life versus spending time on ephemeral or non-productive activities.
Learning from Mistakes and Regret: Both Jamie and Sahil share personal anecdotes on their "best mistakes" and how these perceived failures were actually pivotal moments leading to growth and better opportunities.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to inspire change in their life, understand the value of focused effort, and appreciate the simple yet profound elements that contribute to personal and professional growth.
Join Jamie and Sahil as they navigate the complexities of life, offering listeners invaluable lessons on resilience, purpose, and the art of living well.
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MWM105 - 6 HARSH TRUTHS TO HELP YOU DOMINATE 2024
In this episode of "6 Harsh Truths," Jay delves into the reality of life's challenges and the essential truths we often overlook.
Jay offers a blend of tough love and practical wisdom. He discusses how understanding and embracing these truths can lead to personal growth, better decision-making, and a more fulfilling life.
Each point is explained with real-life examples and actionable advice, making the episode both relatable and inspiring.
Show Notes
Life's Not Fair:
- Jay discusses how life circumstances vary for each individual.
- The importance of not comparing oneself to others based on age or apparent success is emphasised.
- The concept of life is like a game of poker, where strategy can overcome a bad hand.
Success Requires Sacrifice:
- The need to sacrifice comforts, time, and relationships for success.
- Focus on changing negative coping mechanisms and investing time wisely.
- Importance of reassessing relationships that may hinder personal growth.
Life is About Choices, Not Chances:
- The power of making decisions and how they shape our lives.
- Encouragement to make positive choices in daily habits and relationships.
- A reminder that private practices are often rewarded publicly.
You Will Face Rejection:
- How to handle and learn from rejection.
- Jay shares his personal method for dealing with failures and setbacks.
- A challenge to listeners to face uncomfortable situations and grow from them.
Not Everyone Has the Same Heart as You:
- Recognizing that people have different values and motivations.
- The importance of doing good without expecting anything in return.
- Advice on managing expectations in relationships.
You Have to Make Your Own Purpose:
- The concept that life doesn’t come with a set purpose; it's something one must create.
- Jamie talks about finding personal meaning and purpose through action and exploration.
- Encouragement to adopt a proactive mindset in life.
The episode concludes with Jay reiterating the importance of what we feed our minds and bodies, and how it shapes our lives.
MWM105 - 6 SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL MATURITY
In this episode, I discuss the six key signs that someone is emotionally mature.
Emotional maturity is sexy AF!
Nothing screams awesome than someone who looks like they have their sh*t together!
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MWM104 - HOW TO FIND YOUR PURPOSE - INSTAGRAM Q&A WITH JAY
This episode is from this week's Instagram Q&A session with many knowledge bombs dropped!
We speak about finding your purpose, how to be more productive and how to deal with anxiety and overwhelm
Enjoy!
MWM103 - 38 THINGS AT 38
Welcome to a special episode of "Mindset with Muscle"!
This week I celebrate my 38th trip around the sun
We will delve deep into 38 unique insights accumulated over the years, which have shaped my outlook and strengthened my mindset.
This episode is a testament to the belief that discipline, like a muscle, needs daily exercise. It celebrates the humbling experience of Jiu Jitsu and embraces the joys of moderation, whether it's wine, beer, or your chosen form of escapism. We'll talk about the transformative power of cold plunges and mindfulness, and the significance of stretching beyond the physical realm into the mental.
Join us as we navigate through real-life lessons on managing overwhelm, the importance of authenticity, and the power of participation. We'll discuss the art of making friends, the role of personal standards, and the need to embody the traits you seek in others.
In this episode, we debunk the fallacy of external validation and spotlight the power of actions over words. We'll share the usefulness of writing things down and debunk the myth of perfect control over life. The episode also underscores the importance of seeking discomfort, the calming effect of daily breathwork, and the influence of the company you keep.
This birthday episode is not just a celebration of age but a celebration of life's lessons, personal growth, and the wisdom that comes with the passing years. This episode has everything from appreciating what you have, wearing confidence, and making sacrifices to valuing a good night's sleep!
So tune in as we explore the dance between control and feelings, the physical versus the digital, and discuss why the most profound knowledge demands your attention. This is "Mindset with Muscle" - real, raw, and ready to challenge you to think deeper, push harder, and rise higher.
MWM102 - Your Ideal Day with Sahil Bloom
Today's guest on the Podcast is Sahil Bloom.
Sahil Bloom is an inspirational writer and content creator, captivating millions weekly through his social insights and bi-weekly newsletter.
In this episode, we speak about how to have your ideal day, harsh truths everyone needs to hear and how to get more focus, purpose and direction in your life.
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MWM101 - Exposing Yourself and Boiling Frogs
In this brand new mindset with muscle episode I dive into 4 things I've been thinking about this week
👉 Expose Yourself - If you avoid things you’re fearful of you’ll be more fearful of them. To get over this you need to expose yourself often to the thought and feeling.
👉 Boiling a Frog - Don’t get comfortable in an uncomfortable environment as the longer you spend there, the harder it is to leave.
👉 If We Were Wise - The antidote to perfectionism is to realise how imperfect we really are
👉 Negative Visualisation - Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Visualise often a life without the things you love and you’ll appreciate having them more.
MWM100 - Discipline and Backing Yourself - Instagram Live Q&A Session
This episode is from an epic live stream I did last week on Instagram.
Lots of golden nuggets to take away from this episode, enjoy!
MWM099 - 5 MENTAL MODELS FOR GROWTH
In this episode, I share with you five of my favourite Mental Models for Growth
👉 “The Map is not the Territory” The world we think we live in is not always the world we live in
👉 “The Anchoring Bias” Be careful to place too much of your decision-making based on the first piece of information you hear
👉 “The Confirmation Bias” Weight up all evidence when making big decisions; it’s not easy to disagree with your personal biases, but doing so will save you a lot of heartache and regret
👉 “Fundamental Attribution Error” Try and separate someone's behaviour from who they are. Empathy and Kindness Win every time.
👉 “The Curse of Knowledge” Never assume someone knows as much as you. Always try and simply down complex subjects. Doing so will give you a greater understanding of the subject too
MWM098 - 5 PARADOXES FOR PERSONAL GROWTH
In this episode, I break down five paradoxes and how they can help you with your growth and personal development.
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MWM097 - 10 LIFE PRINCIPLES TO LIVE BY
In this episode, I break down some of my favourite life principles to live by
- Embrace The Dip
- Master The Gap
- Don't Complain, Don't Explain
- Learn then Teach
- Focus on Fun
- Thoughts Become Things
- Overcome Obstacle
- Create more than you Consume
- Give and Forget, Receive and Remember
MWM096 - 5 LIFE LESSONS FROM DAVID GOGGINS
In this episode, I summarise five incredible quotes from David Goggins that get you to think.
Goggins is a decorated US Navy SEAL, world record holder, motivational speaker, endurance athlete and author.
In this episode, we discuss 5 of his best quotes/mental models
1. You don’t need six-pack abs if your mind is steel-plated.
2. 99% of the work done is unseen.
3. I’d rather you hate me and get better than like me and stay the same
4. Performance Without Purpose
5. Who’s gonna carry the boats?
MWM095 - The ULTIMATE Evening Routine
In this episode, I break down 5 key strategies for en EPIC Evening Routine
- Hot Shower 1hr Before Bed
- Journal/Brain Dump
- Read a Paper Book In Bed
- No Phones in the Bedroom
- Pink Noise
MWM094 - THE 5 SECRETS TO SELF-DISCIPLINE
In this episode, I discuss five game-changing strategies to help you improve your self-discipline!
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MWM093 - 5 STRESS BUSTING STRATEGIES FOR THE SENSES
Welcome to another episode of the Mindset with Muscle Podcast!
In this episode, we explore different strategies to help you reduce your stress levels using the power of your senses!
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MWM092 - Mindfulness Mastery - The 5 Benefits of Mindfulness
In this episode I talk all about Mindfulness and why it's so important for your physical and mental wellbeing!
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MWM091 - 6 Tips For an Incredible 2023
Super Excited to be back in the Game with my Mindset with Muscle Podcast!
In this episode, I give you six incredible tips to make sure you have the best start to 2023!
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MWM090 - Stoicism and Bananas with Dr Karan Rajan
In this episode, I speak to Dr Karan Rajan and talk about all things Instagram, Stoicism and why we are 70% Banana!
Being a surgeon, Dr Karan works long hours but has still managed to commit to content creation and grow and audience of over 5 million followers!
MWM089 - Kyle Creek (a.k.a The Captain) - Resistance to Change is an Invitation to Pain
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In this episode, we go deep on a host of things...
- How to deal with people stealing your work
- Quotes that have changed his life
- Dealing with The "Dark Times"
- How to get out of a "Funk"
- Why Hippos are Fucking Dicks
Such a fantastic episode with lots of knowledge bombs dropped!
MWM088 - Jordan Syatt - Facebook "Pokes" and Coaching Gary Vee
Welcome to a brand new episode of the Mindset with Muscle Podcast!
In this episode, I'm joined by the legend that is Jordan Syatt.
Jordan was Gary Vee's Personal Trainer for many years and has personally amassed millions of followers online with his No BS Approach to Nutrition and Training.
We go deep on a number of subjects including how to grow a social media following and what it was like to coach on of the biggest names in the world Gary Vaynerchuk.
MWM087 - The One Hour Business Challenge - Q&A With The Experts Episode 9
Welcome to the final episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This episode asks the experts "If you only had an hour a day to work on your business what would you do?".
My list of Guests Includes...
MWM086 - Expert Business Growth Tips - Q&A With The Experts Episode 8
Welcome to the eighth episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This episode asks the experts "What has been the biggest learning curve in growing your own business over the past 5 years?".
My list of Guests Includes...
MWM085 - Build a Name For Yourself - Q&A With The Experts Episode 7
This 7th episode asks the experts "What were the biggest fitness mistakes you made at the start of your journey??".
My list of Guests Include...
Alan Barratt
Ben Carpenter
Ben Haldon
Chris Williamson
Dan Osman
Diren Kartal
Dr Mike
Emilia Thompson
Emma Storey Gordon
Felicity Rosina
Graeme Tomlinson
James Smith
Lucy Davis
Lucy Lord
Mark Coles
Paul Mort
Phil Graham
Shaun Stafford
Shelly Mccoy
Sohee Lee
MWM084 - How to Deal with Stress - Q&A With The Experts Episode 6
Welcome to the sixth episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This sixth episode asks the experts "When you become stressed and overwhelmed what things do you do to help reduce it down?".
My list of Guests Include...
MWM083 - Life Changing Books - Q&A With The Experts Episode 5
Welcome to the fifth episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This fifth episode asks the experts "What book has had the biggest impact on your life in the past 5 years??".
My list of Guests Include...
MWM082 - I've Changed my Mind - Q&A With The Experts Episode 4
Welcome to the fourth episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This fourth episode asks the experts "What is a belief or behaviour that you've changed your mind on in the last 5 years??".
My list of Guests Include...
MWM081 - Biggest Fitness Mistakes - Q&A With The Experts Episode 3
Welcome to the third episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This third episode asks the experts "What were the biggest fitness mistakes you made at the start of your journey??".
My list of Guests Include...
MWM080 - Weight Loss Secrets - Q&A With the Experts Episode 2
Welcome to the second episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This first episode asks the experts "what advice would you give to someone who is looking to start a weight loss journey?".
My list of Guests Include...
MWM079 - Non-Negotiable Habits - Q&A with the Experts Episode 1
Welcome to the first episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This first episode asks the experts "what non-negotiable" habits do you do for your body each day to keep it fit, healthy and strong.
My list of Guests Include...
MWM078 - Jay Samit - Future Proofing You
Jay Samit is the former Independent Vice Chairman of Deloitte. An American digital media innovator, he has pioneered advancements in music and video distribution, social media, and eCommerce. He is the author of the bestselling book Disrupt You! Master Personal Transformation, Seize Opportunity and Thrive in the Era of Endless Innovation
In this episode, we talk about Jay's new book Future Proofing You.
Jay shares the key understandings and step-by-step process for becoming rich and never needing another job again. To prove the power of his 12 Truths, Samit also details the journey of how he mentored a broke millennial with these principles and empowered him to go from being on welfare to becoming a self-made millionaire in one year.
MWM076 - Monday Parables
In this episode, I share some interesting parables that will get you thinking about some of the things that life throws at you
MWM075 - What Gets Measured Gets Managed
In this episode, I talk about 5 things that you can measure and manage to keep you on track during this "Pandemic Period"
MWM074 - Optimist Prime
MWM073 - Personal Development and Growth
In this episode, I discuss 5 things to think about when it comes to Personal Development and Growth
1. What we can learn from Hermit Crabs
2. The 33% Rule (Frank Shamrock)
3. All or Nothing Approach and the right way about it (Art of Learning)
4. Big Fish, Little Pond
5. You can always get better (Disciplined Practice)
MWM072 - Netflix and FAD Diets
MWM071 - Discipline 101 with Jay
In this episode, I share with you 8 tips to have more discipline in your life...
1. Surround yourself in an environment that makes hard things easy to do
2. Have Non-Negotiables in your Day and in your week
3. Discipline is rarely enjoyable, but almost always profitable
4. Motivation gets you going but discipline keeps you growing - John Maxwell
5. Self-Discipline is when your conscience tells you to do something and you don’t talk back
6. Discipline is remembering what you want
7. Discipline becomes easier when you make a 30-day commitment to doing something and you see the result
8. The practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behaviour, using punishment to correct disobedience
MWM070 - Q&A With Jay
Back with another Q&A Ladies and Gents answering all of your Nutrition, Training and Mindset Questions
MWM069 - 6 Mindset Tips For Your Best Ever 2021
Back again for another episode of Mindset with Muscle
In this episode, I share with you six incredible mindset tips for you to have an incredible 2021
Enjoy!
MWM068 - 10 Tips for Fat Loss Success in 2021
Today on the Mindset with Muscle Podcast I'm going to be dropping 10 knowledge bombs on how to achieve successful fat loss in 2021
Tip 1 – Take Things Slow
Tip 2 – Measure and Manage (Steps, Nutrition, Mood)
Tip 3 – Don’t go KETO
Tip 4 – Join my 10 Day Tune Up Challenge
Tip 5 – Don’t expect it to be easy
Tip 6 – Don’t do it alone
Tip 7 – There’s more to fitness than how much you weigh
Tip 8 – No one is going to do it for you
Tip 9 – The Definition if Insanity…
Tip 10 – The Outcome is not the Outcome
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MWM067 - 10 Ways to get your shit together in 2021
In this episode, I share with you my list of 10 things you need to do to get your shit together in 2021!
1. Filter your newsfeeds
2. Get more sleep
3. Have Highly Accountable Commitments
4. It's hard to see the label when you're stuck inside the jar
5. Warren Buffet Quote
6. Stop Buying Shiny Shit
7. The Theory of Creeping Normality
8. Measure and Manager your Finances, Fitness and Relationships
9. Beat on a Craft and Become World Class
10. Become a better listener
MWM066 - Stoic Quotes with Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 10
In this episode I share with you some of my favourite quotes from the stoics
MWM065 - Q&A With Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 9
Back with another Q&A session.
This one was straight fire!
MWM064 - Q&A With Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 8
In this episode, I answer some of your best questions and go deep on a few of them
MWM063 - Bombs with Dr Banna - Lockdown Live Episode 8
In this episode, I chat to Dr Mike Banna who discusses the events that have happened over the past couple of weeks since he had the dreaded Coronavirus.