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Mindset with Muscle

By Jay Alderton

On a mission to get 1 Million people healthier, Happier, Fitter and Stronger
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MWM029 - The HAPPINESS Hypothesis

Mindset with MuscleFeb 22, 2019

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MWM112 - How to Scale a Successful Fitness Business with Phil Graham

MWM112 - How to Scale a Successful Fitness Business with Phil Graham

In this episode, Phil Graham and Jay Alderton discuss the challenges and opportunities in the fitness industry.

They share their experiences building successful fitness businesses and provide valuable insights and lessons for fitness professionals.

Want to know the boring steps every fitness coach needs to build a multi-six-figure (recurring) business?

Join us on 4th May for our FREE workshop

Register below

https://fitness-entrepreneur.com/legacy-event/

Apr 16, 202439:15
MWM111 - How to be Happy with Stephanie Harrison

MWM111 - How to be Happy with Stephanie Harrison

In this episode, I’m speaking to Stephanie Harrison

Stephanie is an expert in the science of happiness and the creator of the New Happy philosophy. She has a master’s degree in positive psychology from the University of Pennsylvania,

Her company, The New Happy, has revolutionized the way that people understand and pursue happiness using Their artwork, newsletter, videos, podcast, and resources which reach millions of people around the world every month. 

Check Out Stephanie's Website The New Happy

Takeaways

  • Society has conditioned us to pursue the wrong things for happiness, such as success, material possessions, and external validation.
  • True happiness comes from intrinsic motivation and being true to oneself.
  • Capitalism, individualism, and dominance influence our beliefs about happiness and lead us astray.
  • The pursuit of extrinsic goals often leaves us feeling empty, while finding intrinsic joy in our pursuits brings fulfillment.
  • We are enough and deserving of happiness just as we are. Recognize your worthiness and separate it from external achievements.
  • Ask for help and embrace the power of connection.
  • Be mindful of the impact of social media on happiness and prioritize in-person connection.
  • Start the journey to new happy by understanding your authentic self and taking small steps towards pursuing passions and serving others.


Chapters

00:00 The Pursuit of Happiness

02:59 The Wrong Path to Happiness

05:59 The Influence of Capitalism, Individualism, and Dominance

08:58 Transitioning to a New Way of Thinking

11:54 The Difference Between Happiness and Success

15:56 Intrinsic Motivation vs Extrinsic Motivation

25:08 Recognizing Worthiness

27:11 The Paradox of Self-Worth and Goal Pursuit

29:04 The Power of Asking for Help

32:42 The Importance of Connection

35:23 The Impact of Social Media on Happiness

40:27 The Power of In-Person Connection

43:21 Starting the Journey to New Happy



Mar 29, 202450:36
MWM110 - Phil Heath: Mindset, Discipline, and the Journey to Olympia

MWM110 - Phil Heath: Mindset, Discipline, and the Journey to Olympia

In this special episode, I sit down with 7x Mr Olympia Phil Heath to explore the depths of achieving greatness, the pivotal role of mindset and discipline, and take an exclusive look at his new documentary, "Breaking Olympia."

To watch Phil's Brand New "Breaking Olympia" Documentary, Click Here


Show Highlights:

  • Phil Heath on Overcoming the Fear of Success: Discover why the real challenge isn't always achieving success, but the fear of maintaining it. Phil shares his insights on navigating the mental hurdles that come with greatness.

  • The Power of Discipline: From his transformative experience in Basketball to the disciplined approach required in Bodybuilding, Phil reflects on how discipline has been a cornerstone of his success.

  • Training for Greatness: Learn about the dynamic nature of training for Mr. Olympia, the importance of continuous self-improvement, and how competition fuels growth.

  • Inside "Breaking Olympia": Phil Heath gives us a behind-the-scenes look at his documentary, sharing the emotional rollercoaster of reliving his journey and the gratification of documenting his legacy.

Key Takeaways:

  • Success requires not just achieving goals but maintaining an unwavering mindset to preserve them.
  • Discipline shapes character and is essential for personal and professional growth.
  • Embracing challenges and competition is crucial for surpassing limits and achieving excellence.
  • "Breaking Olympia" is not just a documentary but a testament to Phil Heath's journey. It showcases the highs and lows of his path to becoming a bodybuilding legend.

Closing Thoughts: Phil Heath's story powerfully reminds us that mindset and discipline are the bedrock of success.

Whether you're chasing your own version of Olympia or seeking to overcome personal barriers, Phil's journey offers valuable lessons and inspiration for all.




Mar 22, 202401:06:00
MWM109 - GETTING THE PERFECT BODY AND RELATIONSHIPS

MWM109 - GETTING THE PERFECT BODY AND RELATIONSHIPS

In this episode, I share an incredible podcast I recorded last year with Mark and Curtis Tilbury on the Strike it Big Podcast.

We talk about how to get the "perfect" body, Relationships and how to build confidence.

Enjoy!

Feb 28, 202401:54:41
MWM108 - HOW TO GROW NEW BRAIN CELLS

MWM108 - HOW TO GROW NEW BRAIN CELLS

In this episode, I talk about Neurogenesis.

Neurogenesis is the ability for adults to generate new brain cells.

I delve deep into neurogenesis and the daily habits and routines you can implement to help increase it.



Feb 22, 202421:48
MWM107 - WHY I'M GIVING UP BEER FOR A YEAR
Feb 16, 202423:27
MWM106 - THE LIFE BLUEPRINT WITH SAHIL BLOOM

MWM106 - THE LIFE BLUEPRINT WITH SAHIL BLOOM

In this deeply reflective and insightful episode of the Mindset Muscle Podcast, host Jamie Alderton engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Sahil Bloom, exploring the transformative power of focused effort, the beauty of simplicity, and the significance of embracing life's paradoxes.

Through their dialogue, they delve into personal stories of failure, growth, and the profound changes that can occur in just one year of dedicated action.

The episode is rich with wisdom on the importance of asking the right questions, the impact of our closest relationships, and the concept of investing time wisely to yield compounding benefits in personal and professional life.

  1. Transformative Power of Focused Effort: Understand how one year of concentrated effort can fundamentally alter your life's trajectory, emphasizing the importance of daily commitment.

  2. Embracing Life's Paradoxes: Discover the paradox of effort, where the most effortless performances are a result of hard, gritty practice, and how intelligent people can sometimes fall into the trap of overcomplicating things for the sake of complexity.

  3. The Importance of Simplicity: Learn why simplicity often trumps complexity in achieving long-term success and fulfillment.

  4. Finding the Right Questions: Sahil Bloom shares a life-changing realization about the importance of asking the right questions to uncover the answers that already lie within us, rather than seeking external solutions.

  5. Cherishing Relationships: A touching reflection on the significance of deepening bonds with loved ones and prioritizing these relationships above materialistic or superficial goals.

  6. Investing vs. Spending Time: Gain insight into the difference between investing time in actions that compound positively over your life versus spending time on ephemeral or non-productive activities.

  7. Learning from Mistakes and Regret: Both Jamie and Sahil share personal anecdotes on their "best mistakes" and how these perceived failures were actually pivotal moments leading to growth and better opportunities.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to inspire change in their life, understand the value of focused effort, and appreciate the simple yet profound elements that contribute to personal and professional growth.

Join Jamie and Sahil as they navigate the complexities of life, offering listeners invaluable lessons on resilience, purpose, and the art of living well.


Sahill Bloom on Twitter

Sahil Bloom on Instagram


Feb 08, 202401:34:13
MWM105 - 6 HARSH TRUTHS TO HELP YOU DOMINATE 2024

MWM105 - 6 HARSH TRUTHS TO HELP YOU DOMINATE 2024

In this episode of "6 Harsh Truths," Jay delves into the reality of life's challenges and the essential truths we often overlook.

Jay offers a blend of tough love and practical wisdom. He discusses how understanding and embracing these truths can lead to personal growth, better decision-making, and a more fulfilling life.

Each point is explained with real-life examples and actionable advice, making the episode both relatable and inspiring.

Show Notes

  1. Life's Not Fair:

    • Jay discusses how life circumstances vary for each individual.
    • The importance of not comparing oneself to others based on age or apparent success is emphasised.
    • The concept of life is like a game of poker, where strategy can overcome a bad hand.
  2. Success Requires Sacrifice:

    • The need to sacrifice comforts, time, and relationships for success.
    • Focus on changing negative coping mechanisms and investing time wisely.
    • Importance of reassessing relationships that may hinder personal growth.
  3. Life is About Choices, Not Chances:

    • The power of making decisions and how they shape our lives.
    • Encouragement to make positive choices in daily habits and relationships.
    • A reminder that private practices are often rewarded publicly.
  4. You Will Face Rejection:

    • How to handle and learn from rejection.
    • Jay shares his personal method for dealing with failures and setbacks.
    • A challenge to listeners to face uncomfortable situations and grow from them.
  5. Not Everyone Has the Same Heart as You:

    • Recognizing that people have different values and motivations.
    • The importance of doing good without expecting anything in return.
    • Advice on managing expectations in relationships.
  6. You Have to Make Your Own Purpose:

    • The concept that life doesn’t come with a set purpose; it's something one must create.
    • Jamie talks about finding personal meaning and purpose through action and exploration.
    • Encouragement to adopt a proactive mindset in life.

The episode concludes with Jay reiterating the importance of what we feed our minds and bodies, and how it shapes our lives.


Jan 24, 202430:15
MWM105 - 6 SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL MATURITY
Aug 17, 202331:11
MWM104 - HOW TO FIND YOUR PURPOSE - INSTAGRAM Q&A WITH JAY

MWM104 - HOW TO FIND YOUR PURPOSE - INSTAGRAM Q&A WITH JAY

This episode is from this week's Instagram Q&A session with many knowledge bombs dropped!

We speak about finding your purpose, how to be more productive and how to deal with anxiety and overwhelm

Enjoy!

May 25, 202329:27
MWM103 - 38 THINGS AT 38

MWM103 - 38 THINGS AT 38

Welcome to a special episode of "Mindset with Muscle"!

This week I celebrate my 38th trip around the sun

We will delve deep into 38 unique insights accumulated over the years, which have shaped my outlook and strengthened my mindset.

This episode is a testament to the belief that discipline, like a muscle, needs daily exercise. It celebrates the humbling experience of Jiu Jitsu and embraces the joys of moderation, whether it's wine, beer, or your chosen form of escapism. We'll talk about the transformative power of cold plunges and mindfulness, and the significance of stretching beyond the physical realm into the mental.

Join us as we navigate through real-life lessons on managing overwhelm, the importance of authenticity, and the power of participation. We'll discuss the art of making friends, the role of personal standards, and the need to embody the traits you seek in others.

In this episode, we debunk the fallacy of external validation and spotlight the power of actions over words. We'll share the usefulness of writing things down and debunk the myth of perfect control over life. The episode also underscores the importance of seeking discomfort, the calming effect of daily breathwork, and the influence of the company you keep.

This birthday episode is not just a celebration of age but a celebration of life's lessons, personal growth, and the wisdom that comes with the passing years. This episode has everything from appreciating what you have, wearing confidence, and making sacrifices to valuing a good night's sleep!

So tune in as we explore the dance between control and feelings, the physical versus the digital, and discuss why the most profound knowledge demands your attention. This is "Mindset with Muscle" - real, raw, and ready to challenge you to think deeper, push harder, and rise higher.

May 17, 202348:34
MWM102 - Your Ideal Day with Sahil Bloom
May 06, 202301:44:39
MWM101 - Exposing Yourself and Boiling Frogs

MWM101 - Exposing Yourself and Boiling Frogs

In this brand new mindset with muscle episode I dive into 4 things I've been thinking about this week


👉 Expose Yourself - If you avoid things you’re fearful of you’ll be more fearful of them. To get over this you need to expose yourself often to the thought and feeling.

👉 Boiling a Frog - Don’t get comfortable in an uncomfortable environment as the longer you spend there, the harder it is to leave.

👉 If We Were Wise - The antidote to perfectionism is to realise how imperfect we really are

👉 Negative Visualisation - Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Visualise often a life without the things you love and you’ll appreciate having them more.

Apr 26, 202320:10
MWM100 - Discipline and Backing Yourself - Instagram Live Q&A Session

MWM100 - Discipline and Backing Yourself - Instagram Live Q&A Session

This episode is from an epic live stream I did last week on Instagram.

Lots of golden nuggets to take away from this episode, enjoy!


Apr 19, 202322:40
MWM099 - 5 MENTAL MODELS FOR GROWTH
Mar 09, 202332:02
MWM098 - 5 PARADOXES FOR PERSONAL GROWTH
Mar 01, 202329:15
MWM097 - 10 LIFE PRINCIPLES TO LIVE BY

MWM097 - 10 LIFE PRINCIPLES TO LIVE BY

In this episode, I break down some of my favourite life principles to live by

  • Embrace The Dip
  • Master The Gap
  • Don't Complain, Don't Explain
  • Learn then Teach
  • Focus on Fun
  • Thoughts Become Things
  • Overcome Obstacle
  • Create more than you Consume
  • Give and Forget, Receive and Remember


Feb 23, 202335:50
MWM096 - 5 LIFE LESSONS FROM DAVID GOGGINS

MWM096 - 5 LIFE LESSONS FROM DAVID GOGGINS

In this episode, I summarise five incredible quotes from David Goggins that get you to think.

Goggins is a decorated US Navy SEAL, world record holder, motivational speaker, endurance athlete and author.

In this episode, we discuss 5 of his best quotes/mental models

1. You don’t need six-pack abs if your mind is steel-plated.

2. 99% of the work done is unseen.

3. I’d rather you hate me and get better than like me and stay the same

4. Performance Without Purpose

5. Who’s gonna carry the boats?


Feb 15, 202322:18
MWM095 - The ULTIMATE Evening Routine
Feb 08, 202327:19
MWM094 - THE 5 SECRETS TO SELF-DISCIPLINE
Jan 25, 202333:50
MWM093 - 5 STRESS BUSTING STRATEGIES FOR THE SENSES
Jan 18, 202326:55
MWM092 - Mindfulness Mastery - The 5 Benefits of Mindfulness
Jan 11, 202346:35
MWM091 - 6 Tips For an Incredible 2023
Jan 04, 202331:47
MWM090 - Stoicism and Bananas with Dr Karan Rajan

MWM090 - Stoicism and Bananas with Dr Karan Rajan

In this episode, I speak to Dr Karan Rajan and talk about all things Instagram, Stoicism and why we are 70% Banana!

Being a surgeon, Dr Karan works long hours but has still managed to commit to content creation and grow and audience of over 5 million followers!

Sep 27, 202245:18
MWM089 - Kyle Creek (a.k.a The Captain) - Resistance to Change is an Invitation to Pain

MWM089 - Kyle Creek (a.k.a The Captain) - Resistance to Change is an Invitation to Pain

My Guest today is Kyle Creek (a.k.a The Captain) on Instagram
Follow Kyle Here
In this episode, we go deep on a host of things...
- How to deal with people stealing your work
- Quotes that have changed his life
- Dealing with The "Dark Times"
- How to get out of a "Funk"
- Why Hippos are Fucking Dicks
Such a fantastic episode with lots of knowledge bombs dropped!
Aug 09, 202201:22:13
MWM088 - Jordan Syatt - Facebook "Pokes" and Coaching Gary Vee

MWM088 - Jordan Syatt - Facebook "Pokes" and Coaching Gary Vee

Welcome to a brand new episode of the Mindset with Muscle Podcast!

In this episode, I'm joined by the legend that is Jordan Syatt.

Jordan was Gary Vee's Personal Trainer for many years and has personally amassed millions of followers online with his No BS Approach to Nutrition and Training.

We go deep on a number of subjects including how to grow a social media following and what it was like to coach on of the biggest names in the world Gary Vaynerchuk.

Jul 29, 202239:30
MWM087 - The One Hour Business Challenge - Q&A With The Experts Episode 9
Apr 28, 202218:51
MWM086 - Expert Business Growth Tips - Q&A With The Experts Episode 8
Apr 27, 202224:54
MWM085 - Build a Name For Yourself - Q&A With The Experts Episode 7

MWM085 - Build a Name For Yourself - Q&A With The Experts Episode 7

Welcome to the seventh episode of a 9 part series where I ask 20 experts at the top of their fields in fitness, health and business the same 9 questions.
This 7th episode asks the experts "What were the biggest fitness mistakes you made at the start of your journey??".
My list of Guests Include...
Alan Barratt
Ben Carpenter
Ben Haldon
Chris Williamson
Dan Osman
Diren Kartal
Dr Mike
Emilia Thompson
Emma Storey Gordon
Felicity Rosina
Graeme Tomlinson
James Smith
Lucy Davis
Lucy Lord
Mark Coles
Paul Mort
Phil Graham
Shaun Stafford
Shelly Mccoy
Sohee Lee
Feb 27, 202225:41
MWM084 - How to Deal with Stress - Q&A With The Experts Episode 6
Feb 23, 202227:25
MWM083 - Life Changing Books - Q&A With The Experts Episode 5
Feb 18, 202228:13
MWM082 - I've Changed my Mind - Q&A With The Experts Episode 4
Feb 18, 202223:27
MWM081 - Biggest Fitness Mistakes - Q&A With The Experts Episode 3
Feb 01, 202220:57
MWM080 - Weight Loss Secrets - Q&A With the Experts Episode 2
Jan 21, 202217:20
MWM079 - Non-Negotiable Habits - Q&A with the Experts Episode 1
Jan 06, 202210:47
MWM078 - Jay Samit - Future Proofing You

MWM078 - Jay Samit - Future Proofing You

Jay Samit is the former Independent Vice Chairman of Deloitte. An American digital media innovator, he has pioneered advancements in music and video distribution, social media, and eCommerce. He is the author of the bestselling book Disrupt You! Master Personal Transformation, Seize Opportunity and Thrive in the Era of Endless Innovation

In this episode, we talk about Jay's new book Future Proofing You. 

Jay shares the key understandings and step-by-step process for becoming rich and never needing another job again.  To prove the power of his 12 Truths, Samit also details the journey of how he mentored a broke millennial with these principles and empowered him to go from being on welfare to becoming a self-made millionaire in one year.

Mar 12, 202150:00
MWM076 - Monday Parables

MWM076 - Monday Parables

In this episode, I share some interesting parables that will get you thinking about some of the things that life throws at you

Mar 08, 202118:29
MWM075 - What Gets Measured Gets Managed

MWM075 - What Gets Measured Gets Managed

In this episode, I talk about 5 things that you can measure and manage to keep you on track during this "Pandemic Period"

Feb 12, 202121:10
MWM074 - Optimist Prime

MWM074 - Optimist Prime

In this episode, I talk about some of my best tips to be a little more optimistic during this difficult time
Feb 05, 202125:26
MWM073 - Personal Development and Growth

MWM073 - Personal Development and Growth

In this episode, I discuss 5 things to think about when it comes to Personal Development and Growth

1. What we can learn from Hermit Crabs

2. The 33% Rule (Frank Shamrock)

3. All or Nothing Approach and the right way about it (Art of Learning)

4. Big Fish, Little Pond

5. You can always get better (Disciplined Practice)

Jan 27, 202131:48
MWM072 - Netflix and FAD Diets

MWM072 - Netflix and FAD Diets

In this episode, I close the case on ketones and discuss why deciding what you want to do with your life is a little like deciding what to watch on Netflix
Jan 21, 202121:56
MWM071 - Discipline 101 with Jay

MWM071 - Discipline 101 with Jay

In this episode, I share with you 8 tips to have more discipline in your life...

1. Surround yourself in an environment that makes hard things easy to do

2. Have Non-Negotiables in your Day and in your week

3. Discipline is rarely enjoyable, but almost always profitable

4. Motivation gets you going but discipline keeps you growing - John Maxwell

5. Self-Discipline is when your conscience tells you to do something and you don’t talk back

6. Discipline is remembering what you want

7. Discipline becomes easier when you make a 30-day commitment to doing something and you see the result

8. The practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behaviour, using punishment to correct disobedience

Jan 19, 202125:53
MWM070 - Q&A With Jay

MWM070 - Q&A With Jay

Back with another Q&A Ladies and Gents answering all of your Nutrition, Training and Mindset Questions

Jan 13, 202137:39
MWM069 - 6 Mindset Tips For Your Best Ever 2021

MWM069 - 6 Mindset Tips For Your Best Ever 2021

Back again for another episode of Mindset with Muscle

In this episode, I share with you six incredible mindset tips for you to have an incredible 2021

Enjoy!

Jan 12, 202113:32
MWM068 - 10 Tips for Fat Loss Success in 2021
Jan 04, 202139:38
MWM067 - 10 Ways to get your shit together in 2021

MWM067 - 10 Ways to get your shit together in 2021

In this episode, I share with you my list of 10 things you need to do to get your shit together in 2021!


1. Filter your newsfeeds

2. Get more sleep

3. Have Highly Accountable Commitments

4. It's hard to see the label when you're stuck inside the jar

5. Warren Buffet Quote

6. Stop Buying Shiny Shit

7. The Theory of Creeping Normality

8. Measure and Manager your Finances, Fitness and Relationships

9. Beat on a Craft and Become World Class

10. Become a better listener 

Dec 31, 202035:47
MWM066 - Stoic Quotes with Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 10

MWM066 - Stoic Quotes with Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 10

In this episode I share with you some of my favourite quotes from the stoics

Nov 29, 202033:34
MWM065 - Q&A With Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 9

MWM065 - Q&A With Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 9

Back with another Q&A session.


This one was straight fire!

Nov 28, 202026:44
MWM064 - Q&A With Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 8

MWM064 - Q&A With Jay - Lockdown Live Episode 8

In this episode, I answer some of your best questions and go deep on a few of them

Nov 27, 202028:54
MWM063 - Bombs with Dr Banna - Lockdown Live Episode 8

MWM063 - Bombs with Dr Banna - Lockdown Live Episode 8

In this episode, I chat to Dr Mike Banna who discusses the events that have happened over the past couple of weeks since he had the dreaded Coronavirus.

Nov 26, 202030:43