The Jer&Bee Podcast

In this episode we talk about the infamous relationship guru extraordinaire Derrick Jaxon, give y’all some behind the scenes info on the marketing team we’re working with to help promote our website and talk about our recent search for a house! Enjoy!

Hey! Press for an update on what’s been going on!

Brit and I talk about our mediation with the kids birth mom and conflict ensues. Press play.

Hey! This episode we talk about how our goals as a couple evolved into family goals and how we made that transition (3:00) how culture worships the lone prodigy who sacrificed relationships (family and otherwise) for success (20:00) and how Britney has used reverse psychology on Jacob to help him grow. Enjoy my friends!

My co-host turned 32 on Oct.21! So we discuss how much birthdays change when you get older (1:20), the way she celebrates versus how I celebrate and how we fought over how to celebrate early in marriage (18:00) and we reminisce through the years on how much she’s changed (33:00) Press play!

Hey ladies and gents! In this episode we talk about the value of having friends of the opposite sex that has no ulterior motive when you’re married (4:00), how some beauty is almost objective and admitting it to one another isn’t offensive to us (35:00), how it’s nice knowing people find you attractive even after you’re married (45:18) how you didn’t become blind as soon as you said “I do” (50:00) and our celeb crushes! Enjoy this candid convo and don’t judge us! 🤣

In this episode we talk about doing family yoga with the kids (5:30) our potential upcoming ideas for Marriage/Dating merch (ie date night digital downloads etc) (15:00) and how Brit’s wardrobe has changed since Covid (34:00)! Press play!

Hey! In this episode Brit and I talk about our 16 year relationship status as friends, dating and marriage partners (1:20), what celebrating during Covid was like for us (21:00), what we appreciate about one another (27:00), how I started pulling my hair out (literally) since Rona made came into our lives and other quirks we developed over the years (32:00), and why she wants 5 kids to my 3 kids (46:00) Enjoy!

Brit and I give our thoughts on our longtime friends Will and Jada’s recent Red Table Talk.

Whaddup! We just got back from vacation so we spend the first part talking about that (1:19), we do more Covid talk (18:00) Britney talks about Floyd from a moms perspective (30:00) then we talk about how racism, injustice, Covid and literally everything that’s happening having to do with relationships from a large scale to a small scale (49:30) then I talk about how support doesn’t have to be impressive to be significant (54:00). Enjoy!

Hey in this episode, with everything going on with da Rona, we decided to try Anchor’s new quarantined feature so we called in with our friends Brent and Crissi Rice but there were A LOT of tech issues so be forewarned! Brent and Crissi were on separate devices and Brit and I had to share one device. But it was definitely a good episode nonetheless! We discussed da Rona and how it was affecting them (2:50) how they first met (8:24) the myths they had about marriage (21:55) their enneagram numbers (41:20) the Crissi Curly hair brand (48:27) and stigmas that revolve around creatives and how they balance their creative lives with their work lives (54:00). Press play!

In this episode we do more corona talk and discuss why you may be with who you’re with for a reason during this time and to consider that and how moments of crisis can show your partners true colors.

Yep, we recorded 2 episodes in one day....in this one we talk about Brits surgery, how I could never be a single dad and what “in sickness and in health” really means.

Yeah, nah....we didn’t quit.

Hey guys this episode we talk about the journey Britney has had dealing with the loss of her father 10 yrs ago, how she deals with funerals now, how to support your grieving spouse, how grief changes over time and what she learned about the 5 stages of grief. Press play!

Hey! In this episode, Brit talks about the process of changing her name and what she learned as a result of it (2:20), how we had to “earn” the right to be called “mom” and “dad” with our foster kids, (19:00) Brit realizing that she couldn’t do “stay at home” mom duties like her mom and how she is carving out her own path as a mom (30:00) , how petty things can get on your nerves about your partner why it’s best to just let go of it (51:00) and finally the difference in our cleaning styles (55:00) Enjoy!

In this episode we talk to our good friend Jennifer (she was featured on the Cubicle Rebellion podcast recording the same day) in a special doubleheader (FYI i had to get creative with 2 mics and 3 people so you’ll hear me in the left ear). Anyway, we discuss how she stays flexible in relationships (3:55) using exercise on a date as a way to get to know someone (9:00) how every woman has a list and what is on hers (12:10) how she meets men (18:44) dating apps (20:20) how she wants to “fail fast” in relationships as a way of not wasting time, (22:50) treating yourself like a business when your single (31:20) and balancing selfishness and selflessness when in and out of dating relationships (36:30). We had to rush through this episode before the kids woke up but we had fun on this one! Enjoy!

In this episode we talk about the enneagram personality test and briefly about its origin, give a quick overview of the nine personality types. She talks about the 2/9 combo which is the Helper/Peacemaker (11:09) and she breaks down the difference between being Nice vs being Kind (36:30) and I take up the second half to talk about the 5/4 wing combo which is the “Investigator/Individualist” and I break down how I equate knowledge with safety and self protection and how i find my own form of peace through being cynical. It’s a long one! Enjoy!

Hey in this episode we had some technical difficulties so bare with us! (Brit will sound like she’s in the background) but anyway we discuss the myths about marriage, what we heard growing up versus what we actually experienced, how we each viewed conflict and society’s images of black marriages, how to trust each other’s intentions even when you don’t understand them, the fact that we have to see each other as teammates and how we define what “submission” means to us (I can hear all the women rolling they eyes now) but I promise it won’t bite! 😂 Press Play!

Welcome to the “When Dating Goes Too Far” Podcast! In this first episode we talk about ideas on commitment (not the plan B pill lol) , the finality of marriage and how you have to constantly renegotiate what your marriage looks like and the plans you have moving forward. Enjoy!