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Head to Heart

By Jenny Marcum

Head to Heart podcast is a bi-weekly podcast designed to be a safe space to admit what we truly believe in our hearts. There's a huge difference between just having Biblical knowledge floating around in our heads & actually believing that it’s true. There is a mix of solo episodes & interviews with friends who have experienced the freedom that comes when head knowledge becomes heart knowledge. No topic is off limits - you can overcome any lie or struggle through Christ and a community who loves Him.
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S2E9: Can I Be a Depressed Christian? Mental Health Meets the Gospel

Head to HeartAug 27, 2021

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S5E7: How To Share Your Faith Without Being Weird About It

S5E7: How To Share Your Faith Without Being Weird About It

Mar 29, 202431:06
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Mar 22, 202409:30
S5E6: How To Navigate a New Relationship Like a Pro + Listener Q&A

S5E6: How To Navigate a New Relationship Like a Pro + Listener Q&A

Danielle Hanlon was brought back on the show for a 2nd time because we weren't going to just leave you hanging! Our 1st episode was all about how to START dating. Now, we're talking about:

- When do I share with my boyfriend about my struggles with porn and masturbation?


- When do I share about my past sexual sin?


- When do I bring up the mental illness I struggle with?

- Around what time frame is it normal to say "I love you"?


- How fast is too fast? Is there such a thing as "too fast"?


- If my boyfriend tells me he has already had sex in previous relationships, should I be concerned?


- How do I start viewing my boyfriend more romantically if we've been platonic friends for a long time beforehand?


Resources:


Danielle & I's first episode, "How To Start Dating Without Being Weird About It + Listener Q&A": https://open.spotify.com/episode/3iuMXsMtx6I82FLWHL0m8e?si=QaiHraGhSVqOp0ckPeCVSA


My husband & I's episode, "Responding To Your Partner's Porn Addiction + Listener Q&A": https://open.spotify.com/episode/5pnk9G0E5XrElAgNB8dmbM?si=IiN5Q2x8T3asu_ggYcN4fw

Your Two Best Friends Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourtwobestfriendspodcast/


Your Two Best Friends Podcast:

https://open.spotify.com/show/4robaAsALwoLy5mVy2eox6

Loveology by John Mark Comer: https://www.amazon.com/Loveology-Love-Marriage-Never-Ending-Female/dp/0310337267


Love In Every Season by Debra Fileta: https://debrafileta.com/love-in-every-season/

Winter 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5sGl1tPuQ8jnCx8QkEmjfy?si=9baeffc3e0594cd5


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Mar 15, 202444:04
S5E5: Is Self-Love Biblical? Positive Affirmations vs. True Confidence

S5E5: Is Self-Love Biblical? Positive Affirmations vs. True Confidence

MacKenzie Ryder has been set free from self-hatred. As she was discipled throughout high school, she knew in her head that God loved her, but the thoughts she would daily think about herself did not match up with His Truth and His feelings for her. In the process of getting to know God on a deeper level, she realized how badly her thoughts needed to change.

We talk about:

- What is the difference between self-hatred and self-discipline?

- Is self-love Biblical?

- What is the difference between positive affirmations and believing the Truth about yourself? Is there a difference at all?

- How can you overcome self-hatred when it's all you've ever known?


Resources:

MacKenzie's Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4if89g4a5HzRGFjNipu1jN?pi=u-zeiQftevTOSH&fbclid=IwAR00UFqRv1TTAtTXAtA0xVSe8lUbtJ-_c1GtOtZZhIJzVdu9pUJZa3VBXpk Want my FREE training to learn to minister to someone who is same-sex attracted? https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63f55469dfb67d493413dac6


Your Two Best Friends Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourtwobestfriendspodcast/


Your Two Best Friends Podcast:

https://open.spotify.com/show/4robaAsALwoLy5mVy2eox6


Winter 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5sGl1tPuQ8jnCx8QkEmjfy?si=9baeffc3e0594cd5


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Mar 01, 202437:37
S5E4: Are My Desires Good, Godly or Selfish? How To Discern Which Ones To Pursue

S5E4: Are My Desires Good, Godly or Selfish? How To Discern Which Ones To Pursue

Is one of your 2024 goals to SLOW DOWN? Get 10% off Maryellen’s new book, Slowliloquies, with the code HEADTOHEART10 here:

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How do you know if a goal/dream is from God or from yourself? If it is "from yourself", does that mean it's inherently bad?

Maryellen Hacko joined me for a 2nd time on the podcast - she is a BRAVE soul because we tackled such a complicated & layered topic! So many of us overthink our dreams to death because we're so afraid it's not "from God". We may chalk it up to being a selfish desire and give up. We talked about how to discern your desires, where they come from, and which ones to go after.


Resources:


Maryellen's First Episode, Feeling Behind In Life? How To Stop Measuring Your Life By Your Accomplishments:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/63Ykq9WsHDF9i3Duvq4RBo?si=WElN4WVvQL-FOWsnKPr-Zw


Your Two Best Friends Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4robaAsALwoLy5mVy2eox6 Your Two Best Friends Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourtwobestfriendspodcast/ Want my FREE training to learn to minister to someone who is same-sex attracted? https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63f55469dfb67d493413dac6

Winter 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5sGl1tPuQ8jnCx8QkEmjfy?si=9baeffc3e0594cd5


Winter Worship 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ndNeErAlbsHlFy98LojFQ?si=f48a531d0af14f9a


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Feb 16, 202435:51
S5E3: What Do I Do With My Sex Drive As a Single?

S5E3: What Do I Do With My Sex Drive As a Single?

Is one of your 2024 goals to SLOW DOWN? Get 10% off Maryellen’s New Book, Slowliloquies, with the code HEADTOHEART10 here:

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I need to tell you something. This episode is an absolute dream come true for me!

There are currently very few Biblical resources about sexuality that are targeted towards singles. This issue has been getting better in recent years, but there is still a huge discrepancy in the comparison of resources targeted towards marrieds.

Carlie & I are here to help this problem.

Carlie is known as the Christian Sex Educator (what a cool title!). As a gender & sexuality researcher, she studied desire, arousal, relationships & gender AND guess what? She got that degree while she was still single.

We answer the questions that no one seems to talk about:

- Is it okay for singles to be learning sex ed? How much is okay to learn? Where is the boundary?

- Everyone says 'what not to do', but what are some practical things singles actually CAN do when they feel aroused?

- How can singles eliminate shame & choose to honor how God created their libido?


We also answered every listener question that was sent in, so if you asked it, we answered it!


If I can put it bluntly: If you're horny but want to be holy, this is the episode FOR YOU!


Resources: Carlie's Resources: https://thechristiansexeducator.com/ Want the FREE Burnout Prevention Training? Here it is: https://beautiful-cake-88037.myflodesk.com/fene7ejbus

Winter 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5sGl1tPuQ8jnCx8QkEmjfy?si=9baeffc3e0594cd5

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Feb 02, 202447:19
S5E2: Unhurry Your Life in 2024: How Busyness Is Killing Your Connection To God

S5E2: Unhurry Your Life in 2024: How Busyness Is Killing Your Connection To God

Want 10% off Maryellen Hacko's perspective-shifting book, Slowliloquies? Here's the link: http://maryellenhacko.com.au/slowliloquies Let's be honest: Being busy can feel really good! Your mind is occupied, you're checking items off a to-do list & you feel as if you are self-sufficient. WELL, GET READY FOR A RUDE AWAKENING. Bethany Hall has been sitting at the feet of Jesus for years, seeking His wisdom for how to walk at His pace through life. She has found that EVEN IF you think you're coping well with an overcrowded schedule, the cost is much greater than you realize. We pray you leave the unnecessary stress behind in 2023, reconnect with God in the present & delight in the TODAY He has gifted you with! We cover: - how busyness and sin have the same exact effect on our spiritual lives - the true cost of keeping yourself busy EVEN IF you feel like you're coping pretty well - finding the real reason you keep your mind and body so preoccupied - how to stop viewing exhaustion and self-reliance as a badge of honor - how to Sabbath well on a weekly basis Resources: Want my FREE Burnout Prevention Training? Here it is: https://beautiful-cake-88037.myflodesk.com/fene7ejbus

Gentle and Lowly by Dane Ortlund - https://www.daneortlund.com/gentle-lowly

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer - https://johnmarkcomer.com/new Jess Connolly - https://www.jessconnolly.com/link-in-bio The Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster - https://www.brethrenpress.com/ProductDetails.asp?ProductCode=0060628391

Winter 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5sGl1tPuQ8jnCx8QkEmjfy?si=9baeffc3e0594cd5

Winter Worship 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ndNeErAlbsHlFy98LojFQ?si=f48a531d0af14f9a

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Jan 19, 202441:46
S5E1: How Single Life Can Be Your Best Life From a Celibate, Gay Christian

S5E1: How Single Life Can Be Your Best Life From a Celibate, Gay Christian

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Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to be fulfilled relationally as a single? What if you’re single for life? Do you really, deeply believe God has the very best in mind for you? Art Pereira talks about how to create a beautiful, quality community around you & how to deeply believe that God's plans are for YOUR BEST INTEREST, whether you're same-sex attracted or straight. Fulfillment does not come from marriage. It only comes from Christ. Art's story is rich with insight for every person, no matter what your relationship status is.

We covered so much in this episode like:

- How to trust that whatever God calls you into is actually what is best for you

- How singleness and marriage both have burdens to bear and joys to celebrate

- How "being healed from homosexuality" does not always result in the removal of same-sex attraction

- How to address the normal, human needs beneath longing for marriage

- How to cultivate and fight for a thriving, authentic community


Resources: Revoice 2024 Conference: https://www.revoice.org/conference Revoice - https://www.revoice.org/

Winter 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5sGl1tPuQ8jnCx8QkEmjfy?si=9baeffc3e0594cd5

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Jan 05, 202457:12
S4E21: How To Respond to Your Partner’s Porn Addiction + Listener Q&A

S4E21: How To Respond to Your Partner’s Porn Addiction + Listener Q&A

Tell me what you want to hear in 2024! Take my short, anonymous feedback survey: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1k oI0F9JrTPIa_RQHI3zYTuI4HUY72eHtO9YS6CFagA/edit (DM me to get a FREE sticker!) Joseph is back (by popular request!) and while we recorded an episode a while back about breaking free from pornography, we noticed a need for an episode for the partners of those who have struggled with porn. We answered ALL the listener questions that were sent in: - How should you respond when your partner sins? - If you forgive them, will they even feel remorse or the need to change? - How much should my partner be sharing with you if you’re dating? Engaged? Married? Domestic Violence Hotline in the U.S.A. - 800-799-7233 Resources: S4E1: How To Live Life Driven by Love, Not Fear with Laura Krause - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1qVTbQZwM3a1iXJAPcnoE4?si=c380547cc5324154 S3E15: How Porn Makes You Sexually Illiterate & How to Break Free - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6eZGjvc4fgDR6tdj5IKuyy?si=9fd5fdf2562e4709 Letters to a Romantic On Dating by Sean Perron - https://www.prpbooks.com/book/letters-to-a-romantic-on-dating Conversations with John & Lisa Bevere: How to Get Free From Porn Use (Parts 1 & 2) - https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QP6e2am6OAidEpmxVhlVR?si=CfBq8NVwRoav4B4WeuvnuQ https://open.spotify.com/episode/3QXTdLWI9zgmzvpgP36T2i?si=edf9bea4a7f44e19 Bare Marriage Podcast - https://baremarriage.com/ Death to Porn by Ray Ortlund - https://www.crossway.org/books/the-death-of-porn-tpb/ Video & Quote of John Piper - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3OkUPc2NLrM - “Now that's one kind of situation. Just a word on the other kind. If it's not requiring her to sin but simply hurting her, then I think she endures verbal abuse for a season, and she endures perhaps being smacked one night, and then she seeks help from the church.” - John Piper Winter 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5sGl1tPuQ8jnCx8QkEmjfy?si=9baeffc3e0594cd5 Winter Worship 2023/24 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ndNeErAlbsHlFy98LojFQ?si=f48a531d0af14f9a Leave a Review: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/reviews/new/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/headtoheart_podcast/ Website: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/
Dec 22, 202348:16
S4E20: How To Thrive at Home for the Holidays + Listener Q&A
Dec 08, 202329:05
S4E19: How To Heal From Disordered Eating

S4E19: How To Heal From Disordered Eating

Nov 24, 202344:20
S4E18: Answers To All The Sex Questions You’re Too Afraid To Ask

S4E18: Answers To All The Sex Questions You’re Too Afraid To Ask

Ashlyn R. Watkins, the host of Spiced Wife podcast, joined me for a 2nd time on the podcast! This time, we answered ALL the anonymous questions about sex sent in by listeners. We covered:

- how God views sex

- what is allowed & not allowed in the bedroom

- how to improve your sex life

- pornography recovery

- healing from the past

- sexuality in singleness

We pray this episode wipes shame off of you and that you will bring every area of your life under the lordship of Christ, including sex.


Episodes Referenced:

Is Masturbation a Sin? Answers for Singles & Marrieds - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7pzo48XVmbUUGSCRGTXRkv?si=h0UUrmWpSRa8m7G0E-Mc2g What Type of Sex Is Allowed? - https://open.spotify.com/episode/72ISHEqZoGVhIFi8oseAsE?si=0bYdtWocQkueRhi8ZIyfoA S3E17: Same-Sex Attraction Meets the Gospel: How To Respond, Love & Care For the LGBTQ+ Community https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Fp34yezFLmLEDCEpXrJ50?si=8WA3szFcSyezukpMUsVoUA S4E11: He/She/They: How To Handle Pronouns + Listener Q&A https://open.spotify.com/episode/3QyAzQhanoU6UoRnLzaNH7?si=65jqz2I8Rs-HdB6dtFSt0w

Resources:

Spiced Wife -  https://www.spicedwife.com/ Jackie Hill Perry - https://jackiehillperry.com/

Autumn 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1yYBAIRftYGNBkpJTLRSXM

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Nov 10, 202301:08:52
S4E17: How To Start Dating Without Being Weird About It + Listener Q&A

S4E17: How To Start Dating Without Being Weird About It + Listener Q&A

Danielle Hanlon has been set free from several lies that used to hinder her dating experience.

Exhibit A: “Men are sexually weak & I will always be the one fending them off and trying to have integrity.”

WOW, that's far from the Truth!

It is rarely taught HOW to date well, but we have good news for you: We are here for you! You won’t figure this out alone. We want to take away all fear from your mind so that you can stop over-spiritualizing, overthinking, and overanalyzing & have fun while you date! We answer ALL the listener questions that were sent in, so we cover: - some reliable dating podcast & book recommendations - how much do you need to be emotionally or spiritually healed/ready to start dating? - how to start dating when you’ve never dated before - how to date casually as a Christian - good questions to ask on dates - how sure do you need to be about someone before you start dating them? - what does it mean to “go slowly” in dating & what are the pros/cons - how to date within your own friend group - can you date someone who has a different “calling” as you? Resources: She Is Safe - Home - She Is Safe Heart of Dating Podcast - Heart of Dating Podcast Featuring Host Kait Warman | Heart of Dating Love + Relationships with Debra Fileta - Love + Relationships Podcast - True Love Dates Love That Lasts - Love That Lasts: How We Discovered God's Better Way for Love, Dating, Marriage, and Sex by Jefferson Bethke, Alyssa Bethke, Paperback | Barnes & Noble® (barnesandnoble.com) Loveology by John Mark Comer - Loveology (John Mark Comer) - Study Gateway

Autumn 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1yYBAIRftYGNBkpJTLRSXM

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Your Two Best Friends Podcast coming soon in January!


Oct 27, 202356:52
BONUS: How To Make New Friends: Start With Hello
Oct 13, 202332:27
S4E16: Does God Want Me To Be Happy or Holy?

S4E16: Does God Want Me To Be Happy or Holy?

Does God care if you’re happy at all? Is His goal to make you holy or happy? Does He care about your desires? Even the ones that won’t necessarily “sanctify” you? Am I an accidental Buddhist!? SO. MANY. QUESTIONS. Kristina Garza & Mackenzie Ryder interviewed me about asceticism, which I lived in for a very long time. I essentially believed that the more I suffered, the holier I became.

Have you ever heard phrases like, "Don't pray for patience because then God will make you wait." or "God wants to make you holy, not happy."? These and more are phrases that misconstrue the character of God in our minds. It's very difficult to trust the person who you think is both harming and helping you.

And is it possible that your desires were placed in you by God for a reason? We seem to always want a "yes" or "no" answer from Him directly instead of just learning how to adult.


Resources:

Bare Marriage Podcast - Untwisting Toxic Views of Suffering -  https://baremarriage.com/2023/09/podcast-untwisting-toxic-views-of-suffering-feat-rebecca-davis/

Verity Podcast - https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/womens-issues-motherhood-and-asceticism/

FREE Resource for You -Grab FREE 20 Minute Training to Minister into LGBTQ+ Issues: view.flodesk.com/pages/63f55469dfb67d493413dac6

Autumn 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1yYBAIRftYGNBkpJTLRSXM

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Sep 29, 202344:30
S4E15: How To Define Gender: The Danger of Stereotypes & Unbiblical Assumptions

S4E15: How To Define Gender: The Danger of Stereotypes & Unbiblical Assumptions

Are there any gender stereotypes you genuinely believe? Do you ever wrestle with the thought, "Am I woman enough?"

Bonnie Pue & I had an amazing conversation about what God defines as feminine and masculine (and it doesn’t have anything to do with axe-throwing or shopping or cooking). The Bible is actually very broad in defining what masculine and feminine are. David danced and wrote music.

Deborah led a nation as a warrior.

Nehemiah wept for his destroyed city.

Jesus longed to gather Jerusalem under His wing like a mother hen.

Jael drove a tent peg through Sisera's temple.

Junia was an apostle in the early church.


Reflection Questions:

- Are there any gender stereotypes I've been believing that have been informed by hurt or bitterness?

- Repent of that judgement & ask the Holy Spirit to speak His Truth over your mind and heart.

- Do you feel comfortable in the body God has given you? Express your insecurities to Him.

- Ask Jesus how He views your identity in Him. Write down what you sense He is saying.


Resources:

Bonnie Pue & The Union Movement - https://www.theunionmovement.com/

FREE Resource for You -Grab FREE 20 Minute Training to Minister into LGBTQ+ Issues: view.flodesk.com/pages/63f55469dfb67d493413dac6

Autumn 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1yYBAIRftYGNBkpJTLRSXM

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Sep 15, 202340:27
S4E14: Why Christians Have Excluded The Undocumented (& How To Change The Narrative)

S4E14: Why Christians Have Excluded The Undocumented (& How To Change The Narrative)

How do you think the Kingdom of God works? Who do you believe is invited to the table? Is the undocumented asylum seeker welcome too?

Tess Clarke runs a grass-roots organization called We Welcome, which seeks to mobilize and equip women of faith to build and cultivate a welcome movement from their tables at home to the halls of Congress.

In our conversation, we answer questions like:

- is seeking asylum illegal?

- do we have enough resources to go around? Should we open our borders to more people?

- how do we enter into conversation with those who have opposing views on immigration with grace and truth?

- how can each of us discern what our role is in helping refugees?

- how can we prevent ourselves from burning out when surrounded with such difficult stories?


Resources:

We Welcome's Better Conversations Guide: https://www.wechoosewelcome.com/better_conversations_guide

Listen to our first episode about immigration: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5lO0QcZ82pHuf9sA4VSLZE?si=BAaQ9ncjT_ajvEeGfJ2FEA Follow We Welcome on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wechoosewelcome/

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Sep 01, 202325:44
S4E13: How To Thrive as a Female in a Male-Dominated & Marriage-Focused Culture

S4E13: How To Thrive as a Female in a Male-Dominated & Marriage-Focused Culture

Have you ever been disqualified because you’re a female? Or maybe because you’re not married? Do you wrestle with what God intended when He designed woman? Do we have different roles than men? Nina lives in the Middle East, but whether you live in Midwest America or find yourself in a Muslim context, you’ve probably come into contact with a male-centric or marriage-focused culture. Nina & I had a hilarious and encouraging conversation about: - how God moves through single women, not just men or married people - how to not internalize messages about being less than - how you can prevent yourself from becoming bitter towards men - what men can practically do to support the women in their lives Resources: The Making of Biblical Womanhood by Dr. Beth Allison Barr - https://bethallisonbarr.com/books/the-making-of-biblical-womanhood/ Hunt for the Wilderpeople - https://www.netflix.com/title/80096995 Summer 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/05R9lmKit27denOSOi26wq Summer worship 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1AGzVnXzivDFsxk3bA7kzV Leave a Review: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/reviews/new/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/headtoheart_podcast/ Website: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/ FREE JOURNALING PROMPTS TO CULTIVATE CONTENTMENT: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/644afe08a15cc2e3944db516
Aug 18, 202342:56
S4E12: How To Break Unhealthy Generational Patterns and Cycles

S4E12: How To Break Unhealthy Generational Patterns and Cycles

Madeline Peña has been set free from mental health issues, addiction, an eating disorder, and self-harm. And the most beautiful thing is that since Jesus has ended these unhealthy cycles in her life, her entire generational line benefits from it! When we break generational patterns & cycles in our lives, it does not just impact us, but also everyone in our lives. Christ’s desire is always to heal the root cause of unhealthy patterns in us. In this episode, we answer questions like: - what is cycle breaking & reparenting? - can you go to therapy and fully trust Jesus at the same exact time? - how can you change the trajectory of your life by changing your thoughts? - can you fully heal if you do not know Christ yet? Prayer Prompts: (I apologize for not putting these questions into the recording) 1. Ask the Lord to highlight any generational patterns or unhealthy cycles in your family line. 2. Ask Him "What is the root cause of this pattern in my life?" 3. Ask Him to minister to you & show you the Truth. Ask "What do You say about this?" 4. Ask Him to show you the next step in the healing process. Resources For You: The Body Keeps The Score - https://www.besselvanderkolk.com/resources/the-body-keeps-the-score Madeline’s Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wholemamawholebaby/ Summer 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/05R9lmKit27denOSOi26wq Summer Worship 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1AGzVnXzivDFsxk3bA7kzV Leave a Review: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/reviews/new/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/headtoheart_podcast/ Website: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/ FREE JOURNALING PROMPTS TO CULTIVATE CONTENTMENT: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/644afe08a15cc2e3944db516
Aug 04, 202326:36
BONUS: How To Reach Beyond Your Limits
Jul 28, 202325:24
S4E11: He/She/They: How To Handle Pronouns + Listener Q&A

S4E11: He/She/They: How To Handle Pronouns + Listener Q&A

Laurie Kreig has been equipping the church with a Gospel-centered approach to gender and sexuality for nearly a decade. She joined me for the 2nd time on the show to discuss how to handle the pronoun conversation. Many Christians are simply afraid. Afraid to get it wrong. Afraid to offend someone. Afraid to dishonor Jesus. Afraid to accidentally encourage sin. Afraid to come off as a jerk. - Is calling someone by their preferred pronouns the same thing as affirming sin? - What is 'pronoun hospitality'? - How do we respect someone's unbiblical decisions without encouraging them? - How do we be uncompromisingly truthful and loving at the same time? We even include Listener Q&A on this episode, where Laurie advises how to handle specific situations asked by our listeners! Resources for you: Laurie & I's first episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Fp34yezFLmLEDCEpXrJ50?si=19g4IoZiQqaUhHz6USyrtQ Laurie & Matt Kreig's Book: https://www.centerforfaith.com/resources/recommended-resources/an-impossible-marriage Hole In My Heart Podcast: https://lauriekrieg.com/podcast/Preston Sprinkle's Book, Embodied: https://www.prestonsprinkle.com/books/embodied Grab FREE 20 Minute Training to Minister into LGBTQ+ Issues: view.flodesk.com/pages/63f55469dfb67d493413dac6 Summer 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/05R9lmKit27denOSOi26wq Summer worship 2023 playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1AGzVnXzivDFsxk3bA7kzV Leave a Review: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/reviews/new/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/headtoheart_podcast/Website: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/
Jul 21, 202359:50
S4E10: How To Love The Lord Your God With All Your Mind: Taming Intrusive Thoughts, Lies & Anxiety
Jul 07, 202335:45
TOP #1: Same-Sex Attraction Meets The Gospel: How To Respond, Love & Care For The LGBTQ+ Community ft. Laurie Kreig

TOP #1: Same-Sex Attraction Meets The Gospel: How To Respond, Love & Care For The LGBTQ+ Community ft. Laurie Kreig

There are so many questions about gender and sexuality demanding answers in our culture today. Does the Bible affirm same-sex marriages or not? What do you do if you're just not attracted to the opposite gender? Who do you talk to about your same-sex attraction? What should you say when your sibling comes out? How should the church respond to the LGBTQ+ community? Laurie Krieg is an author, speaker, and host of Hole In My Heart podcast whose mission is to train the church with a Gospel-centered approach to gender and sexuality. She shares her story of experiencing same-sex attraction from a young age, yet feeling unsafe to talk about it in any church setting. After graduating from a Christian university, her life was interrupted when she encountered God's love.  In this episode, Laurie explains: - how God designed the mystery of marriage to be - how to be a safe person - why we should not compare our different brands of sexual brokenness - the advise she would give her 22 year-old self & anyone else who is struggling with same-sex attraction - that God loves LGBTQ+ people just the way they are Resources: Website - https://lauriekrieg.com/ An Impossible Marriage by Matt and Laurie Krieg - https://www.amazon.com/Impossible-Marriage-Mixed-Orientation-Taught-Gospel/dp/0830847936/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32EIQ3FAD5SYH&keywords=impossible+marriage+krieg&qid=1641316967&sprefix=impossible+marriage+krieg%2Caps%2C87&sr=8-1 The Center for Faith, Gender, and Sexuality with Preston Sprinkle - https://ondemand.centerforfaith.com/ Hole In My Heart Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/7lanhpj9eRbEoVpt13G7dI
Jun 23, 202344:41
TOP #2: How To Live An Abundant Single Life ft. Christine Ramirez

TOP #2: How To Live An Abundant Single Life ft. Christine Ramirez

If Jesus truly does promise abundant life for all who love Him, then you do not have to wait until you’re married to enjoy it! Christine Ramirez is 39, single & loving it. She’s been set free from having to know if she’ll be married one day or not. The mystery is beautiful and not something to be feared. Marriage is not the goal of life; Jesus is. So, what will you do with your one wild & precious life? We also answered all the questions that listeners sent in about this topic, so if you asked one, it’s in here!  If you want more tips on how to enjoy your single life, here is another episode about it: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0bwFvAPrkFxRt0ekxdt5tw?si=63GUFhJiT1KOgI8WnvAk4A Follow Head to Heart on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/headtoheart_podcast/ Here's our website: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/
Jun 09, 202334:58
TOP #3: Is Masturbation a Sin? Answers For Singles & Marrieds ft. Ashlyn R. Watkins

TOP #3: Is Masturbation a Sin? Answers For Singles & Marrieds ft. Ashlyn R. Watkins

Since masturbation is not directly mentioned in the Bible, is it sin or not? What if you're able to masturbate without lusting?  Ashlyn R. Watkins, the host of Spiced Wife Podcast, joined me to discuss this topic. It would be so much easier if this was just a simple yes or no, but it's actually a lot more complex than that. The Word does not directly mention masturbation, but it does give us a roadmap for how to evaluate our own hearts and James 1:5 tells us that if we lack wisdom, we can ask God and He will give it to us. Ashlyn walked us through questions like: - Is masturbation wrong if I'm single? - Is masturbation wrong if I'm married & I have my spouse's consent? - how do I get out of the habit/addiction to masturbation? All of our discussion was rooted in the Word, not just in our own opinions and experiences. Find me on Instagram: @headtoheart_podcast Here's our website: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/ Ashlyn's corner of the Internet: Spiced Wife: https://www.spicedwife.com/
May 26, 202350:48
TOP #4: How To Live Life Driven By Love, Not Fear ft. Laura Krause

TOP #4: How To Live Life Driven By Love, Not Fear ft. Laura Krause

Are you living in fear of sin? 

This may not be easy to pinpoint in your own life right away, so here are some questions to ask yourself:

- are you terrified that your spouse will look at porn?

- does the possibility of your children being exposed to various sins keep you awake at night?

- do you find yourself spending a lot of energy trying to control other people's choices?

Laura Krause is a wife, mom, prayer warrior & church planter who has been set free from fear's grip on her life by the perfect love of Christ. She shares the story of how the Lord completely changed her perspective: Our goal is not to build sin-proof marriages. Our goal is not to prevent our kids from being exposed to anything immoral. 

The goal should be to create such safe and loving relationships, that sin will not destroy them.

When we live in anxiety and fear of sin, we elevate sin itself instead of Christ and His redemptive work on the cross. Redemption is better than perfection. When we sin, we have an Advocate in heaven who is abounding in steadfast love, ready to forgive and restore. 

1 John 2:1 says, "My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous."

Heart of Man movie - http://heartofmanmovie.com/

If Jesus Were a Parent by Hal Perkins - https://discipledbyjesus.org/


May 12, 202328:60
S4E9: How To Cultivate Contentment In The In Between Spaces

S4E9: How To Cultivate Contentment In The In Between Spaces

BOOK YOUR FREE DISCOVERY CALL WITH KATE TODAY: https://www.katepetry.com/coaching Do you feel as if you're in an in-between space right now? You've come a long way, but you're not where you want to be yet? Do you ever struggle with FOMO & feel a lack of purpose in the everyday grind? Cassie Goossen has been set free from a mindset that devalues the present. You can have huge dreams for the future and receive many prophetic words, but your focus cannot be stuck in a future destination that does not exist yet. There is beauty, purpose, and importance in the present. In fact, if you lean into what God is doing right now in your life, He will set you up to develop the character you need to sustain your calling in the future. Right now is a very beautiful place to be. The grass is not greener on the other side. The grass is greener where you water it. FREE JOURNALING PROMPTS TO CULTIVATE CONTENTMENT: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/644afe08a15cc2e3944db516 Find Cassie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cassiegoossen/ Resources: Where Are You, God? by John Bevere - https://store.messengerinternational.org/products/god-where-are-you I Dream Big by Havilah Cunnington - https://havilahcunnington.com/books Every Moment Holy - https://www.everymomentholy.com/
Apr 28, 202331:32
S4E8: How To Heal From Sexual Trauma

S4E8: How To Heal From Sexual Trauma

Book your FREE coaching call with Kate today: https://www.katepetry.com/coaching


DISCLAIMER: We talk about sexual assault and the traumatic effects of it. Please use discretion before listening.

When sexual assault happens, whether if it is one incident or repeated over a long time, how do you heal afterwards?

What if you don't know the details of the assault? Do you fear you're 'just being dramatic'?

I have great news for you: You are able to heal from trauma and the lies that may come with it even if you do not know the details of the traumatic event(s). In many ways, healing through trauma can feel unfair. You may feel like it is a debt you've been given and now it is your responsibility to figure out how to heal from it. Jody Goldie (yes, that is her real name) is a therapist who works with people who suffer from complex trauma. She shares her own personal experience and puts language to the confusing messages your body may be telling you after it experiences trauma. Your body remembers what happened to you, even if your brain cannot piece a story together. Your future does not have to look like your past.

Resources: The Body Keeps the Score by Besser van der Kolk - https://www.besselvanderkolk.com/resources/the-body-keeps-the-score

Your Resonant Self by Sarah Peyton - https://www.yourresonantself.com/

Deb Dana - https://www.rhythmofregulation.com/

Dr. Dan Siegel - https://drdansiegel.com/

The Huberman Lab - https://hubermanlab.com/

Apr 14, 202335:23
S4E7: Feeling Behind In Life? How To Stop Measuring Your Life By Your Accomplishments

S4E7: Feeling Behind In Life? How To Stop Measuring Your Life By Your Accomplishments

Do you ever fear that you're falling behind in life? Are you comparing your life pace & accomplishments to your friends or the people younger than you with 1M followers on Instagram? Maryellen Hacko graduated university with a degree in law, yet is now a freelance writer & illustrator. How did that happen? The Lord set her free from equating her worth to what she accomplished. She used to feel as if she was only valuable when she was producing something, but she has learned her identity as a child of God and has been set free from the fear that she is behind in life. The Truth is that everyone goes at their own pace. When you graduate from school, there is no longer a set program you need to follow. It is normal and natural that everyone will go on different paths. The world may tell you that you need to be married, own a home, and have your dream job by age 30 (which is a lot of pressure!). That isn't what God says, though. His expectations of you are vastly different. If you fear you are not accomplishing enough or will get left behind as your friends' lives progress, listen to this episode. Maryellen's heart and testimony will break that fear off of you so you can be free to deeply enjoy your life, no matter where you're at! Ready to get clear & confident in walking in your purpose? BOOK YOUR FREE DISCOVERY CALL WITH KATE TODAY: https://www.katepetry.com/coaching Maryellen's Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@MaryellenCreative Maryellen's Website: https://www.maryellencreative.com.au/
Mar 31, 202334:46
S4E6: How To Have Better, Healthier, Longer Friendships

S4E6: How To Have Better, Healthier, Longer Friendships

Yohonna Smith is a wife, mom, encourager, and the host of Girls Talking Life podcast. She values relationships to her core, which is why I was so excited to pick her brain about how we can each have better, healthier, longer friendships. - How can you prevent comparison from entering your friendships (especially in a world of social media)? - What if you're struggling with loneliness? How can you reach out to create new friendships? - How do you end a friendship well? (Friendships break-ups - OUCH.) Want to know how to make new friends in your post-grad life? Yohonna explains how in the extended part of this episode, Post-Grad Life: How To Make Friends As An Adult - You can become a subscriber & listen to it today: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jenny-marcum/subscribe  Yohonna's Podcast, Girls Talking Life: https://girlstalkinglife.com/
Mar 17, 202323:56
S4E5: The Sex Ed You Always Needed, But Never Got

S4E5: The Sex Ed You Always Needed, But Never Got

Disclaimer: You may want headphones for this episode if you're around little ears. We talk about sex. Many evangelical, Christian women did not receive adequate sexual education growing up and the conversation was not encouraged. Holly Ward shares what you should know before starting your sex life with your spouse. Sex is a gift from God and was in the world before sin entered. It is God's idea, so our conversation is geared towards removing lies or shame you have felt in the past from inaccurate information you've received (of lack thereof). We answer questions like:  - what do I think about while having sex?  - how can I set healthy expectations for my first time?  - what if my partner has a history of pornography addiction? - when is the right time to read resources about sex? - which resources are helpful & which are unhelpful or even damaging? Resources: Loveology by John Mark Comer - https://www.amazon.com/Loveology-Love-Marriage-Never-Ending-Female/dp/0310337267 The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Ray Gregoire - https://baremarriage.com/the-good-girls-guide-to-great-sex/ The Bare Marriage podcast - https://baremarriage.com/ Our Sponsor: Life in Order - https://www.lifeinorder.shop/
Mar 03, 202336:07
S4E4: Is Jesus a Feminist? Biblical Femininity Vs. Toxic Feminism

S4E4: Is Jesus a Feminist? Biblical Femininity Vs. Toxic Feminism

Avanle Ribeiro has been set free from gender confusion and toxic feminism. She used to call herself a feminist, believing women had to prove themselves to have a seat at the table and be given fair opportunities. The Lord completely changed her perspective & she realized she had actually been agreeing with the cultural norm of devaluing women and seeing them as unequal to men. The truth is feminism is not the same as toxic feminism. And no one has to fight for their seat in the Kingdom of God. Toxic feminism feels the need to overbear, overrule, and fight to get opportunities. The American culture has capitalized on this, but the church will end up divided and ineffective if women succumb to this mindset. Galatians 3:28 says, "There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.” Jesus always championed women. We see proof of this in the New Testament with Pheobe, Junia, Priscilla, Joanna, Mary and so many others who gave their gifts, talents, finances, and lives to support Jesus's ministry. He simply loves all people, male and female. We do not need to kick down doors for ourselves. If we truly believe the Lord and the intrinsic value He has given us, we can trust Him to open the right doors for us at the right times. Resources: Jackie Hill Perry - https://jackiehillperry.com/ The Junia Project - https://juniaproject.com/ Our Sponsor: Life in Order
Feb 17, 202328:51
S4E3: How To Live An Abundant Single Life

S4E3: How To Live An Abundant Single Life

If Jesus truly does promise abundant life for all who love Him, then you do not have to wait until you’re married to enjoy it! Christine Ramirez is 39, single & loving it. She’s been set free from having to know if she’ll be married one day or not. The mystery is beautiful and not something to be feared. Marriage is not the goal of life; Jesus is. So, what will you do with your one wild & precious life?

We also answered all the questions that listeners sent in about this topic, so if you asked one, it’s in here! 

If you want more tips on how to enjoy your single life, here is another episode about it: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0bwFvAPrkFxRt0ekxdt5tw?si=63GUFhJiT1KOgI8WnvAk4A

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Feb 03, 202334:34
S4E2: How To Become a Strong & Free Leader: Grow in Your Confidence & Identity in Christ

S4E2: How To Become a Strong & Free Leader: Grow in Your Confidence & Identity in Christ

Do you doubt your own leadership abilities? Do you struggle with imposter syndrome or feeling like your unqualified to lead? Kate Petry is our very first international guest on the show! She lives in Ontario, Canada and served as a pastor for 5 years before becoming a coach & feels passionate about cultivating a healthy church. Our church leaders need to be strong & free so they can serve others well. Sometimes, we can unintentionally ask our teams to meet our needs instead of asking ourselves how we can serve them. Kate leads us through identifying this tendency, overcoming imposter syndrome, learning who we are in Christ, and operating in confidence instead of insecurity. Your voice is valuable. It’s too valuable to waste hiding in insecurity. Your team will benefit from your input, service & love. Kate Petry - www.katepetry.com Our sponsor: Life In Order - www.lifeinordershop.com
Jan 20, 202325:58
S4E1: How To Live a Life Driven By Love, Not Fear

S4E1: How To Live a Life Driven By Love, Not Fear

Are you living in fear of sin? 

This may not be easy to pinpoint in your own life right away, so here are some questions to ask yourself:

- are you terrified that your spouse will look at porn?

- does the possibility of your children being exposed to various sins keep you awake at night?

- do you find yourself spending a lot of energy trying to control other people's choices?

Laura Krause is a wife, mom, prayer warrior & church planter who has been set free from fear's grip on her life by the perfect love of Christ. She shares the story of how the Lord completely changed her perspective: Our goal is not to build sin-proof marriages. Our goal is not to prevent our kids from being exposed to anything immoral. 

The goal should be to create such safe and loving relationships, that sin will not destroy them.

When we live in anxiety and fear of sin, we elevate sin itself instead of Christ and His redemptive work on the cross. Redemption is better than perfection. When we sin, we have an Advocate in heaven who is abounding in steadfast love, ready to forgive and restore. 

1 John 2:1 says, "My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous."

Heart of Man movie - http://heartofmanmovie.com/

If Jesus Were a Parent by Hal Perkins - https://discipledbyjesus.org/

Welcome to season 4, dear listeners! 

Jan 06, 202329:13
S3E26: How To Thrive In a Waiting Season

S3E26: How To Thrive In a Waiting Season

Are you where you thought you'd be at this point in your life?

Do you ever fear that you are unworthy of receiving good gifts from God?

Carissa Krey shares her story of miscarriage, and has been in a waiting season for 5 years. She wrestled with fears, wondering if she was good enough to receive an answer to her prayers, but realized that is a lie the enemy uses to deceive people. She now lives her life to the fullest, even though her prayer hasn't been answered yet. She teaches that your identity in Christ cannot be changed no matter what you have or don't have. If you're waiting on graduating, a career, a spouse, or a baby, you can still enjoy your life right now, knowing that God is not cruel, but kind. 

Whatever you may find yourself waiting for in life, God is not holding out on you! He is not keeping good things from you in order to "teach you a lesson". Psalm 84:11 says, "For the Lord God is a sun and shield; the Lord will give grace and glory; no good thing will He withhold from them who walk uprightly." 

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Dec 23, 202226:23
S3E25: How To Gain Clarity & Confidence In Your Calling

S3E25: How To Gain Clarity & Confidence In Your Calling

Do you know what's next for you? 

Do you wrestle with feeling unsure if you're discerning God's voice or leading correctly?

Do you suffer from analysis paralysis? In a world where you could do anything, it can be difficult to just choose 1 thing as a next step. 

Bailey Stone is a certified life coach who specializes in helping women discover what God has created them to do and become confident in pursuing it. She has a gift of bringing clarity and diffusing the temptation to overthink, which can stop us in our tracks from choosing anything or truly going after the passions the Lord has placed in our hearts. If you need more direction or confidence in your calling, Bailey is the most encouraging and inspiring person to learn from.

I highly recommend this episode for all seniors and anyone going through a life transition. Life is too short to be anyone other than who God has called you to be. 

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Here's where you can find Bailey:

Website - https://baileystonecoaching.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/baileystonecoaching/

Dec 09, 202225:39
BONUS: Your Personal Gift Giving Guide ft. Jennifer Albright

BONUS: Your Personal Gift Giving Guide ft. Jennifer Albright

Do you have trouble finding gifts for your loved ones? What about your dad? I think dads are the hardest to shop for. Lucky for all of us, the Lord created Jennifer Albright. Jennifer is literally the best gift giver I know! In this episode, she shares all her methods and tips for a stress-free holiday season so you can feel confident about the gifts you choose, even for the trickiest people. I’m going into Christmas with a newfound hope this year and we hope you will too!
Dec 02, 202233:54
S3E24: How To Ditch Comparison & Cultivate A Healthy Body Image

S3E24: How To Ditch Comparison & Cultivate A Healthy Body Image

How can you maintain a healthy body image when your body goes through some changes? How do you stop comparing yourself to how you looked before? How can you start to feel at home in your own body? Our culture is starting to step away from advertising only one type of body, but it also sends out the message that "You're perfect. Love yourself!" Without fail, though, this ideology doesn't withstand the difficult circumstances or life's seasons when our bodies confirm to us that we live in a fallen world. We cannot even begin to appreciate our bodies without God's perspective of us first. Rebekah Olson is a wife, mother & lingerie designer who is dedicated to encouraging women to ditch the comparison game. She owns Ginger & Peach Lingerie, which is a model-free lingerie company, so that you only ever see the pieces on yourself. She teaches us how to see our bodies as the Lord sees them, that they are wonderfully made, and that they are God's gift to us. All of life's changes will inevitably take a toll on our outward appearance, but God doe snot want us to see ourselves with disgust or discontentment. 

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Nov 25, 202239:38
S3E23: Can I Trust My Emotions? How To Recognize & Change The Stories You Tell Yourself

S3E23: Can I Trust My Emotions? How To Recognize & Change The Stories You Tell Yourself

We recognize emotions are given to us by God, but can we trust them? In certain denominations, you may hear that emotions are untrustworthy and will always lead you astray. In others, you may see emotions as evidence that God is moving. Is there a happy medium we can live out?  Trevor Olesiak is an executive coach and pastor who is passionate about helping others understand and become emotionally intelligent. In this episode, he teaches: - how to become emotionally self-aware - how to manage your emotions in a healthy way - how to change the stories you tell yourself about your own life - how to practically take your thoughts captive and teach them to obey Christ (2nd Corinthians 10:5) The good news is that wherever you start in your EQ, you can grow. It's a skillset you can learn and practice.  Resources: The EQ Edge - Steven Stine & Howard Book - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/603804.The_EQ_Edge Developing Emotionally Mature Leaders - Aubrey Malphurs - https://www.amazon.com/Developing-Emotionally-Mature-Leaders-Intelligence/dp/0801019443 Why Emotions Matter - Tristen & Johnathan Collins - https://www.amazon.com/Why-Emotions-Matter-Intelligence-Spirituality/dp/1091497907 You can get in contact with Trevor on Instagram or through email: @trevolesiak / trevor@tackandjibecoaching.com Follow me on Instagram: @headtoheart_podcast Visit the website: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/
Nov 11, 202248:55
S3E22: Why You Can't Change You: How To Cultivate Your Prayer Life No Matter What Season You're In

S3E22: Why You Can't Change You: How To Cultivate Your Prayer Life No Matter What Season You're In

Do you feel like the verse to "pray without ceasing" is unattainable? Or just sounds exhausting? Do you fear God is disappointed in the cobwebs in your prayer closet? Or maybe you feel a lack of faith when you pray? Erica Renaud is a wife, mom, author, and speaker who gives us such practical steps to cultivate an active prayer life, take the pressure off, and teaches us to not overthink it. She encourages you for moments when you're wondering: - What to do in dry seasons where your faith is struggling or you're filled with doubts - How to look back and remember God's care and faithfulness - What to do when you don't have the emotional or mental capacity to make space for prayer Resources: Pray With Me by Erica Renaud- https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/pray-with-me-erica-renaud/1142143633 The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence - https://www.amazon.com/Practice-Presence-God-Brother-Lawrence/dp/1614279683 Prayer by Timothy Keller - https://timothykeller.com/books/prayer The Power of a Praying Woman - https://www.stormieomartian.com/product/the-power-of-the-praying-wife-paperback/ Praying Through the Bible by Donald Whitney - https://www.christianbook.com/praying-the-bible-donald-whitney/9781433547843/pd/547843 Transforming Prayer by Daniel Henderson - https://store.strategicrenewal.com/products/transforming-prayer Find Erica Here: Website - https://www.ericarenaud.org/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/erica.renaud/

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Oct 28, 202246:25
S3E21: How To Break Free From Lies & Ungodly Beliefs

S3E21: How To Break Free From Lies & Ungodly Beliefs

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Do you have trouble believing that the promises in the Bible apply to you? Maybe you believe it for everyone else, but not yourself.

Do you find yourself stuck in the same, destructive thought patterns, but don't know how to change them?

This solo episode is one of my personal favorites because I share my testimony of how the Lord taught me to discern and break partnership with lies that had been eating at me for a long time. And now, I get to teach others how to do this through this podcast about connecting the Truth from our heads into our everyday lives. This is such an essential skill that we need to use to make sure we are not taking the bait the enemy throws at us.

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Oct 14, 202231:41
S3E20: Is Masturbation a Sin? Answers For Singles & Marrieds

S3E20: Is Masturbation a Sin? Answers For Singles & Marrieds

Since masturbation is not directly mentioned in the Bible, is it sin or not?

What if you're able to masturbate without lusting? 

Ashlyn R. Watkins, the host of Spiced Wife Podcast, joined me to discuss this topic. It would be so much easier if this was just a simple yes or no, but it's actually a lot more complex than that. The Word does not directly mention masturbation, but it does give us a roadmap for how to evaluate our own hearts and James 1:5 tells us that if we lack wisdom, we can ask God and He will give it to us. Ashlyn walked us through questions like:

- Is masturbation wrong if I'm single?

- Is masturbation wrong if I'm married & I have my spouse's consent?

- how do I get out of the habit/addiction to masturbation?

All of our discussion was rooted in the Word, not just in our own opinions and experiences.

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Sep 30, 202247:01
S3E19: Will You Be Eternally Rewarded or Suffer Loss?: How To Steward Your Life Well

S3E19: Will You Be Eternally Rewarded or Suffer Loss?: How To Steward Your Life Well

Want to learn how to create your own stewardship map? You can become a subscriber and get access to every locked episode here: https://anchor.fm/jenny-marcum/subscribe Do you ever wonder if what you do matters?  In this solo episode, I told the story of the specific season in my life where the Lord taught me about stewardship. Everything I thought about success used to be results driven, but now it's driven with an eternal perspective. I answered questions like - Is God going to judge me even though I'm saved? - How do I steward what God has placed in my life well? - How do I resist comparison and stop giving into a scarcity mindset? Your success is measured by your obedience to God. Not by other people's reactions to that obedience. My prayer is that this episode will fill you with both relief and a sense of urgency. Your life matters. Today matters. The only moment that you have any control over is the present, so make it count! Verses & Links: Psalm 90:12, 2 John 1:8, Revelation 22:12, Matthew 16:27, Matthew 10:42, Revelation 11:18, Matthew 25:14-30, Luke 16:9, Colossians 3:23-25 Driven by Eternity by John Bevere - https://store.messengerinternational.org/products/driven-by-eternity Every Moment Holy - https://www.everymomentholy.com/ Find us on Instagram: @headtoheart_podcast Here's our website: https://www.podpage.com/head-to-heart/
Sep 16, 202233:28
S3E18: How To Not Care What People Think (Without Becoming a Sociopath)

S3E18: How To Not Care What People Think (Without Becoming a Sociopath)

Is it possible to truly not care what other people think of you? How do you overcome shame if you’ve lived with it your whole life? Victoria Hedger is on the show for a 2nd time & we talked about something pretty much everyone wants to achieve in life - not caring what others think. That’s a nice phrase, but we also don’t want to live in complete disregard of how you affect others. What we really mean is how to not live in fear of man. Victoria defined what the fear of man is, shared her process of overcoming shame in huge ways, and how Cognitive Behavior Therapy is a simple and timeless way to replace anxious thoughts with truth. Only one thing gets to sit on the throne of your heart, so it is either God or people’s perceptions of you. There’s also an immense amount of laughter in this episode as well, so if you’re opposed to giggling - BEWARE

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Sep 02, 202252:29
S3E17: Same-Sex Attraction Meets The Gospel: How To Respond, Love & Care For The LGBTQ+ Community

S3E17: Same-Sex Attraction Meets The Gospel: How To Respond, Love & Care For The LGBTQ+ Community

There are so many questions about gender and sexuality demanding answers in our culture today. Does the Bible affirm same-sex marriages or not? What do you do if you're just not attracted to the opposite gender? Who do you talk to about your same-sex attraction? What should you say when your sibling comes out? How should the church respond to the LGBTQ+ community? Laurie Krieg is an author, speaker, and host of Hole In My Heart podcast whose mission is to train the church with a Gospel-centered approach to gender and sexuality. She shares her story of experiencing same-sex attraction from a young age, yet feeling unsafe to talk about it in any church setting. After graduating from a Christian university, her life was interrupted when she encountered God's love.  In this episode, Laurie explains: - how God designed the mystery of marriage to be - how to be a safe person - why we should not compare our different brands of sexual brokenness - the advise she would give her 22 year-old self & anyone else who is struggling with same-sex attraction - that God loves LGBTQ+ people just the way they are **This is not Laurie and I's FULL conversation! You can listen to the rest of it where we discuss conversion therapy next week by becoming a subscriber today using this link - https://anchor.fm/jenny-marcum/subscribe  Resources: Website - https://lauriekrieg.com/ An Impossible Marriage by Matt and Laurie Krieg - https://www.amazon.com/Impossible-Marriage-Mixed-Orientation-Taught-Gospel/dp/0830847936/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32EIQ3FAD5SYH&keywords=impossible+marriage+krieg&qid=1641316967&sprefix=impossible+marriage+krieg%2Caps%2C87&sr=8-1 The Center for Faith, Gender, and Sexuality with Preston Sprinkle - https://ondemand.centerforfaith.com/ Hole In My Heart Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/7lanhpj9eRbEoVpt13G7dI

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Aug 19, 202239:56
S3E16: Listener Q&A: Motivation, Relationship With God, Definition of Success & So Much More

S3E16: Listener Q&A: Motivation, Relationship With God, Definition of Success & So Much More

I answered all the questions I received from listeners, so this is quite a fun episode! While I fight through jet lag, I talked about what motivates me, my quiet time routine, my favorite plants, celebrity crushes, defining success, my most prized possession, my weirdest habits & a lot more. If you want to become a subscriber, use this link to join the community & get a new episodes every single week! https://anchor.fm/jenny-marcum/subscribe

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Aug 05, 202230:38
S3E15: How Porn Makes You Sexually Illiterate & How To Break Free

S3E15: How Porn Makes You Sexually Illiterate & How To Break Free

Is pornography really every man's battle? 

Should you be dating in the midst of struggling with a pornography addiction?

How do you support a friend who is trying to recover from this addiction?

What are the differences between porn vs. real intimacy? 

How can you shift your mindset after an inadequate sexual education?

We answer all these questions and more in this episode where Joseph shares his testimony of overcoming an addiction to pornography. He teaches how to actually break free instead of listening to shame. Every addict can rationalize why they can stop whenever they want to, but the people who truly overcome addictions recognize that they cannot do it alone. 

This episode is not geared towards just men - It's for EVERYONE. There are endless ways to access pornography & men and women everywhere are found trapped in it's deception without any idea of how to break free. We want to encourage you that there is HOPE and HEALING for you!

Resources:

Covenant Eyes - https://www.covenanteyes.com/

Accountable2You - https://accountable2you.com/

The Death of Porn by Ray Ortlund - https://www.crossway.org/books/the-death-of-porn-tpb/

Jul 22, 202242:35
S3E14: How To Express Anger In a Healthy Way: Addressing The Aggressive, Passive & Passive-Aggressive
Jul 08, 202246:45
S3E13: How To Be An Advocate: Know Your Story, Avoid Savior Complex & Love The Marginalized

S3E13: How To Be An Advocate: Know Your Story, Avoid Savior Complex & Love The Marginalized

Did you know the majority of trafficking victims are in the LGBTQ+ community or people of color? Many people say they want to help fight against the injustice of human trafficking, but when they realize what victims look like, they no longer want to be part of the conversation.

Wendy J. Olson is a healing coach and the founder of Grit Plus Gumption Farmstead, an organization that helps women walk through healing after the trauma of sexual exploitation and domestic violence. Wendy is a survivor herself and encourages women to pursue holistic healing from trauma and prevent burnout in anti-trafficking work by knowing their own stories well. She helps people understand:

- what trafficking actually is vs. the common misconceptions

- how to avoid having a savior complex 

- why many people say they want to help, but then change their minds

- how you can be an advocate, not just loud noise

**TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses the topics of rape and sexual exploitation**

National Hotline for Human Trafficking: 1-888-373-7888


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Book:

To Be Told - Dan Allender https://theallendercenter.org/store/products/to-be-told/


Anti-Trafficking Organizations:

The Abolitionist Collective, Abigail Eernisse. https://www.theabolitionistcollective.com/

Twelve 11 Ministries, Kathy McGibbon. Survivor led. https://www.twelve11.org/

The Entity Haven, Dasia Richardson. Survivor led. https://www.theentityhaven.com/

Jesus Said Love, Brett and Emily Mills. https://jesussaidlove.com/

Blackout Trafficking. https://blackouttrafficking.org/

Grit + Gumption Farmstead. gritplusgumption.org Follow them on Instagram: @gritplusgumption

Jun 24, 202232:49