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Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault

Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault

By D.J. Burr

1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men have been sexually abused or assaulted. Hear survivor stories filled with hope, resiliency, and recovery. You are not alone.
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A Journey Through Layers of Trauma feat David Lorenz - S2E3

Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & AssaultOct 15, 2017

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A Journey to the End

A Journey to the End

This is the last episode of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse and Assault. It's with a heavy heart that I make this decision. I wish all of my past guests and all of my listeners nothing but love and healing. I know that you will continue to pursue your life goals and continued healing from sexual abuse. You deserve healing. I'll still be around. Email me if you need additional support. Take care. -- D.J. Burr

Mar 29, 202107:01
A Journey Out of The Family Secrecy Program w/Janitta Nichols

A Journey Out of The Family Secrecy Program w/Janitta Nichols

In this episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with Janitta Nichols, former police officer and author of "The Secrets of My Mother." In this book, Janitta explores what she calls "the family secrecy program" and details her harrowing survival from 300 sexual abuse experiences by family members! Janitta is a survivor! Follow and Subscribe to see more of Janitta's journey: Instagram and Youtube.

Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Mar 04, 202133:50
Journey On the Path of Trauma Recovery w/Dr. Matt Jaremko

Journey On the Path of Trauma Recovery w/Dr. Matt Jaremko

On this episode of Journey On, DJ talks with Dr. Matt Jaremko, a clinical psychologist who co-wrote a book with Beth Fehlbaum, a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, called Trauma Recovery: Sessions with Dr. Matt, Narratives of Hope and Resilience for Victims with PTSD. Dr. Matt. DJ and Dr. Matt take a deep dive into the roots of trauma and how survivors can navigate the complex healing process. You can view their conversation along with power points on Youtube.

Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Mar 01, 202146:53
A Journey Forward w/Andre Bisquera

A Journey Forward w/Andre Bisquera

In this episode of Journey On, DJ welcomes back friend and past guest Andre Bisquera (Previously on S1E6) to get caught up on Andre's quest to right the wrongs of the legal system when it comes to survivors' rights and statutes of limitation for reporting sexual abuse/assault. Andre lives in Hawaii and has amassed a strong following from the survivor community there. His online men's survivor group has grown exponentially in the last year or so. He shares what it's like to see the journey ahead unfold. Follow Andre on Twitter or email him to learn about his group at malesurvivorhi@gmail.com.

Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Feb 03, 202135:55
Journey On Survivors Are Resilient People w/Rick Huttner

Journey On Survivors Are Resilient People w/Rick Huttner

On this episode of Journey On, DJ talks with author Rick Huttner. Rick discusses sexual abuse as an infant and a teen, and the impact that has had on his life. He also discusses about the resiliency of survivors. Make sure to check out Rick’s foundation, Resilient People, and his book, Resilient People: A Journey from Abuse to Healing & Love - Available on Amazon. Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Jan 03, 202140:23
On An Accidental Journey with Dr. Jason Newsome

On An Accidental Journey with Dr. Jason Newsome

On this episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with Dr. Jason Newsome, author of Finding Peace In An Imperfect World: Applying God's Principles to Calm Real-Life Chaos, and director of Day Spring Counseling Service in Dunbar, WV. Jason shares about his experience of healing from physical, emotional, and sexual abuse by five different perpetrators. In his private practice, Jason works with both sexual perpetrators and sexual abuse survivors. He talks about forgiveness as a debt, which opens up an enlightening conversation with D.J. that aids in additional healing for him. 

Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse and Assault is hostedby D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega - Follow on Instagram

Dec 13, 202041:29
Journey On to Forgive But Never Forget w/Mykahl Battin

Journey On to Forgive But Never Forget w/Mykahl Battin

In this episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with fellow podcaster, Mykahl Battin, of the “What If” podcast, about his experience as a male survivor. Mykahl shares about incest, the pain of not being heard, and learning to forgive, but not forget. Follow Mykahl on Twitter @MykahlBat. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc.
Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.
Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega
Nov 29, 202045:17
Journey On Ruhls of Engagement

Journey On Ruhls of Engagement

Author Larry Ruhl joins D.J. for another riveting episode of the podcast. Larry discusses his book, Breaking The Ruhls, what it was like to grow up in a home with a mother whom suffered with mental illness, and a father who sexually abused him. Larry maneuvered through his tragedy with relationships, and drugs, but emerged as someone willing and able to survive. Learn more about Larry and his fantastic memoir at www.breakingtheruhls.com.

Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse and Assault is hostedby D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega - Follow on Instagram

Nov 15, 202037:02
Journey On Through A Global Epidemic w/Ben Black
Nov 01, 202046:45
Season 3 Trailer
Oct 12, 202001:06
"15 Minutes" feat /Evie Warner - S2Bonus2

"15 Minutes" feat /Evie Warner - S2Bonus2

In this mini bonus, D.J. talks with film producer Evie Warner regarding her latest project, "15 Minutes," which highlights male sexual assault. To learn more about the film and Evie, check out her Facebook page.
Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.
Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.
Music
Dec 12, 201706:35
"Me Too" and the Journey After - S2E8
Dec 01, 201714:03
A Journey Through Sexual Abuse Within a Relationship feat Liz -S2E7
Nov 30, 201723:42
A Journey Off The Record feat Neil Jaffee -S2E6

A Journey Off The Record feat Neil Jaffee -S2E6

In this week's episode, D.J. Burr talks with Neil Jaffee, distinguished filmaker and lawyer, about his two documentaries: Off The Record: Justice Denied to Child Sex Abuse Survivors(Best in Show - Rosebud Film Festival) and Pursuit of Truth. Neil and his co-producer, Valerie Gibson, are advocates for survivors and they work tirelessly to educate the public about the injustices survivors endure when coming forward to report their sexual abuse experiences.
Neil talks with D.J. about how to navigate the complex judicial system; how to identify the proper resources to help pursue legal justice, either through criminal or civil prosecution; and some of the additional challenges survivors might face on the road to justice. D.J. and Neil also discuss the recent #Metoo movement.
Check out
Off The Record -
www.offtherecordfilm.com | Trailer - vimeo.com/183590177 | Purchase on Vimeo on Demand
Pursuit of Truth - www.pursuitoftruthfilm.com
Email Neil/Valerie @ thejustice101@gmail.com

Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.
Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.
Music
Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755
Nov 21, 201730:50
Our Similar Journey feat Author+Advocate Eddie Kedge -S2E5
Oct 30, 201745:48
A Journey On Uncharted Waters feat Dan Quenneville (Alter Pain) - S2E4

A Journey On Uncharted Waters feat Dan Quenneville (Alter Pain) - S2E4

On this week's episode, D.J. talks with author Dan Quennevile, otherwise known as Alter Pain, about his book The Heartest Story Finally Told: Jesus's Glory Divinely Bold. Dan shares what it was like for him growing up; experiencing molestation at a very young age; and living with a man he considered like a father who tormented him emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Grab a copy of Dan's book today! You can email Dan Quenneville at alter@hearteststory.com.
Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.
Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.
Music
Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike (3.0) license. dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake
Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755
Oct 22, 201741:04
A Journey Through Layers of Trauma feat David Lorenz - S2E3
Oct 15, 201752:12
A Journey Toward Self-Compassion feat David Lohman DeVore - S2E2
Oct 08, 201756:21
A Journey Through Denial feat Nanette Kirsch - S2E1 - Part Two

A Journey Through Denial feat Nanette Kirsch - S2E1 - Part Two

In part-two of the premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her personal experience as a survivor. Nanette states early on in the interview that this is her first time publicly sharing about the emotional and physical abuse she endured in her young life. Nanette also shares how her own story helped her write her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed which she talked about in part-one of this interview. Thank you Nanette for giving us the gift of your journey. Nanette is offering 15% off Denial for Journey On listeners. You can purchase the book at www.denialbook.com and enter promo code: JourneyOn at check out. Proceeds will benefits organizations supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault.   About D.J. Burr D.J. Burr is a survivor in long-term recovery. He is a psychotherapist practicing in Seattle, WA. D.J. is also the author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. His mission is to provide support to those who are still suffering and help them understand that they are not alone. You can learn more about D.J. at www.djburr.com. Follow D.J. on social media: Instagram Facebook Twitter Newsletter   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755
Oct 04, 201725:36
"We could not do this journey without God beside us" feat Nanette & Craig S2Bonus
Oct 04, 201716:52
A Journey Through Denial feat Nanette Kirsch - S2E1 - Part One

A Journey Through Denial feat Nanette Kirsch - S2E1 - Part One

In part-one of the two-part premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed. Nanette had the privledge of writting Denial, which is about a dear friend, David Wagner, and his childhood sexual abuse and subsequent struggles with sexual addiction and mental health problems. David unfortunatley took his on life, but Nanette is here to tell what she knows about his journey. Come back on Wednesday, October 4 for Part Two of D.J's interview with Nanette. She will be back to share her personal story of survival. Nanette is offering 15% off Denial for Journey On listeners. You can purchase the book at www.denialbook.com and enter promo code: JourneyOn at check out. Proceeds will benefits organizations supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault. About D.J. Burr D.J. Burr is a survivor in long-term recovery. He is a psychotherapist practicing in Seattle, WA. D.J. is also the author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. His mission is to provide support to those who are still suffering and help them understand that they are not alone. You can learn more about D.J. at www.djburr.com. Follow D.J. on social media: Instagram Facebook Twitter Newsletter   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755
Oct 01, 201728:53
Journey On: Season Two Trailer

Journey On: Season Two Trailer

This season on Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, you will hear more inspiring stories of hope, resiliency, and recovery. Men and women are coming together to help one another heal from the abuse and trauma of their past. Our stories are different, but our paths are similar. Join us October 1 for Episode One of Season Two featuring Nanette Kirsch, survivor and author of Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed.  Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr, abuse survivor, psychotherapist, behavioral addiction specialist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent Sex and Love Addict. D.J. is on a mission to bring healing to survivors who may suffering in silence. Hear our stories and share your own; you are not alone.    Music Ethereal Space (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2011 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/34151 Ft: snowflake
Sep 21, 201703:30
Journey On from Street Patrol to Social Media Advocacy for Survivors w/Patrol Officer Mike Steven - S1E11
May 21, 201743:13
Journey On from Personal Shame to Victim's Advocate - S1E10

Journey On from Personal Shame to Victim's Advocate - S1E10

Listener discretion is advised.  In this episode, D.J. goes off script a bit to talk with James Reyes' mom, Earlene. James' story of early childhood molestation and subsequent predatory behavior was featured on Episode Eight. Earlene insisted on giving her side of the story, as well as accounts of her experience dealing with various systems that are preventing James from getting the proper care he needs. D.J. offers Earlene the space to dive deep into her own hurt and pain and she recounts what it has been like for her to relive her own battle with sexual abuse as a child; managing her emotions as she fights for her son's rights; and moving toward acceptance of her son's emotional and mental health needs. This episode is truly heartbreaking, yet inspiring.  

Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  

DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable

Music   Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu   

May 14, 201756:38
Journey On from Sexual Abuse Survivor to Sexual Offender - A Story That Must Be Told w/James Reyes - S1E9
May 07, 201701:04:10
Journey On from Sexual Abuse and Sexual Addiction to Long-term Recovery - S1E8
May 01, 201701:08:23
Journey On from Lifetime Secret to Open Healing w/ Gino - S1E7
Apr 24, 201701:05:22
Journey On from Incest Survivor to Legal Advocate w/Andre Bisquera - S1E6
Apr 17, 201701:02:12
Journey On from Innocents Robbed to Acceptance of Strength w/Joe Braxton - S1E5

Journey On from Innocents Robbed to Acceptance of Strength w/Joe Braxton - S1E5

Listener discretion is advised.

In this episode, D.J. talks with Joe Braxton. Joe is an author and advocate. His new book, Still Breathing: How to Regain Your Life After Being Robbed, chronicles Joe's struggle with realization and acceptance that he is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. Joe was groomed by a family friend, someone Joe has known almost his entire life and molested and sexually assaulted him for over 24 years. Joe describes what it has been like for him as he is coming to grips with the reality that the man who molested him, was also a man he fell in love with.

Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.

Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.

DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable

Music: peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu

Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755

Apr 10, 201701:02:34
Journey On from Serial Killer's Victim to Renowned Speaker and Advocate - S1E4
Apr 03, 201701:10:03
Journey On from Abused Foster Child to National Speaker and Advocate w/ Loren Michaels Harris - S1E3
Mar 27, 201753:32
Journey On from Spiritual Abuse to Spiritual Healing w/ John - S1E2
Mar 20, 201701:06:45
Journey On from Shame to Grace w/ D.J. Burr - S1E1

Journey On from Shame to Grace w/ D.J. Burr - S1E1

Listener discretion is advised.  In the premiere episode, Journey On host, D.J. Burr, shares his story of childhood sexual abuse and the journey he took to heal from the hurt and pain. D.J. is a psychotherapist in Seattle, WA; best-selling author of the memoir, I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict; and he is the owner of ABLE Counseling Services in WA state.

Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  

Music peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 Follow #JourneyOn Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram

Mar 20, 201754:01
Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault - Trailer

Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault - Trailer

Journey On is a podcast for survivors of sexual abuse and assault. We are survivors. Here our stories and share your own; you are not alone. First episode premieres Monday, March 20, 2017. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. 

DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable

 Music : peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 

Feb 07, 201703:14