Just Chatting
By Jaclyn & Faran
Just ChattingOct 10, 2020
GET TO KNOW US: Life Updates & Silly Tangents
SELF: Boundaries
SELF: Our Sober Curious Journey
DATING: The Apps
INTRO: How We Met & Finding Your People
OUTRO: Back to Dick Pics & Big Changes for Just Chatting Pod
In this last episode of Season 1, you’ll hear the big change coming to Just Chatting! Get to know our new cohost in a short recap of some of our favorite topics - dick pics, red flags, and how you know you have a MAN (not a fuckboy). We hope you’ll keep listening as we start Season 2 on a new foot!
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SELF: Ego Work & Not Taking Everything Personally
In this episode, Jaclyn breaks down what she means by the “ego” and “ego work” that she often references in episodes. Jaclyn & Chantel vulnerably share how their ego can impact friendships, relationships, and even motherhood. Jaclyn leaves you with some solid advice to start your own ego work! Mantras: “That has nothing to do with me.” and “That’s none of my business.”
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RELATIONSHIPS: He Did WHAT! & The Purpose in Staying Single
Jaclyn & Chantel share juicy details about their recent dating experiences, including some cringe-worthy moments (didn’t these boys listen to our episode about dick pics?!)...but quickly dive into the purpose in staying single. Chantel gives Jaclyn some tough love, and, together, we talk about healthy boundaries and approaches to being single/dating.
BLACK LIVES MATTER
In lieu of an episode this week, we would like to elevate the voices of Black people that are needed right now. We highly encourage you to listen to, click on, read, follow, and learn from Black people sharing their experiences, as well as advice. #blacklivesmatter
Listen:
NPR Code Switch - A Decade of Watching Black People Die
We Talk Different - What Does it Mean to be White
The Breakdown with Shaun King - Are You Racist?
The Breakdown with Shaun King - Knowing How It’s Built, So That We Can Tear it Down
Speaking of Racism - Living Into the Work with Myisha T
Follow:
Read:
Mapping Police Violence (website)
This Book Is Anti-Racist: 20 Lessons on How to Wake Up, Take Action, and Do The Work (book)
Me and White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor (book)
So You Want to Talk About Race (book)
White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism (book)
Take action:
Sign the Grassroots Law Project petition to get Justice for George Floyd
Sign the Color of Change petitions to get Justice for George Floyd and Breonna Taylor
SPIRITUALITY: Why We Left Religion
In this episode Jaclyn and Chantel are just chatting about why they left the Christian faith, and do not subscribe to any particular religion anymore. They share their respective experiences within the Christian faith specifically, and explain why they decided to leave. They dive into how they are raising their sons to be open-minded to all religions and walks of life.
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GET TO KNOW US: 20(ish) Questions with Jaclyn & Chantel
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RELATIONSHIPS: Ignoring Red Flags & Realizing Your Values Too Late
Jaclyn is “just chatting” about the juicy details leading to the end of her 3 year relationship. She shares the red flags they both ignored, as well as how she came to this hard decision to basically break her own heart. Jaclyn & Chantel both share noteworthy relationship advice, so grab a pen!
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DATING: Green Flags & How You Know You've Found A MAN
DATING: Red Flags, Pet Peeves & Shirtless Selfies
Jaclyn and Chantel tackle the subject of red flags in the initial stages of starting to develop a romantic relationship, as well as pet peeves they both have. While they dive into the matter with their typical sense of humor and witty banter, they recognize the importance of setting your own personal boundaries -- red flags are something to be taken seriously, and they can even save you from entering into an abusive relationship. Trust your intuition when you start talking to someone new... it's usually always right! Slide into @justchattingpod's DMs with your cringey red flags and biggest pet peeves!
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RELATIONSHIPS: When We Knew Our Marriages Were Over
OPINION: Dating Apps, One-Night Stands & Monogamy
SELF: Pull Yourself Out of Victimhood
INTRO: Dick Pics - Yay or Nay?!
We get into why this has been such a collective grieving experience for all, including those of us who are fixers and obviously cannot do anything to fix our current situation. We'll dive into some of the pros and cons of both being co-dependent (Jaclyn) and being too independent (Chantel), and what that means in a relationship.
Later in the episode, we'll talk about DICK PICS! Do we like them? Are they ever ok? What are the boundaries? Has Chantel ever sent nudes? Are Jaclyn's nudes on porn website somewhere? You'll have to listen to find out!
Thanks for joining us as we try our best to navigate a world where no one know what fucking day it is.
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