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Just Call Me J Nicole: The Podcast

Just Call Me J Nicole: The Podcast

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Just a little peek into my life. Just Call Me J Nicole is not scripted. I give you raw and uncut moments of my life. Most are while I'm in the car, alone. 😝 But all moments are real and honest. Join me... Teacher, mother, wife, student, but most importantly just me!
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Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder... But who's holding the value of your beauty?

Just Call Me J Nicole: The PodcastJul 14, 2022

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Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder... But who's holding the value of your beauty?

Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder... But who's holding the value of your beauty?

Lean in and listen as I talk about colorism, beauty, and generational curses. What do these 3 very sensitive and important topics have in common? You'll have to press play to learn!
Jul 14, 202232:04
The 5 Love Languages aren't JUST for ROMANCE

The 5 Love Languages aren't JUST for ROMANCE

Lean on and listen! I thought the 5 love languages was only for those in romantic relationships. Well, to my surprise, you can apply them to EVERY relationship. Listen to how my application of my lesson on love languages has helped to improve all of my relationships.
Jul 01, 202222:58
Are you worthy?

Are you worthy?

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

Are you worthy? Absolutely! You were born with wealth that you have yet to tap into. If you follow me on social media, you would've seen the posts I made to remind you of how worthy you truly are and that some of the reason you may not believe that you are worthy is because you are focusing on the wrong things. Focus on the positive... let go of the negative. It's not worth the time!

I will be bringing you more content on a bi-weekly basis, starting 2021. So be sure to stay tune!

Listen in, weigh in... Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms.

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Visit me at www.justcallmejnicole.wordpress.com. Chat with me by contacting me via email at justcallmejnicole@gmail.com or on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/justcallmejnicole/message.

Special Shout Out to LiLBoots for the new intro!

12 year old superstar!

Find him on IG (@prodlilboots) and YouTube (prod.lilboots).

Check out his websites: www.prodlilboots.beatstarts.com or shoot him an email (prodlilboots@gmail.com).

Feb 01, 202117:54
How Full is Your Bucket?

How Full is Your Bucket?

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

Happy New Year everyone! I still cannot believe we have weathered through a pandemic for nearly a year. What I have learned during the time is how to gain a better balance of my life. It will never look, feel and be perfect but being aware is just as important. Here's a little peek at what I wanted to share AND how balance will sometimes lean further in one direction than the other. But with awareness, you can feel balance even in times when the world around you is not!

I will be bringing you more content on a bi-weekly basis, starting 2021. So be sure to stay tune!

Listen in, weigh in... . Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms.

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Visit me at www.justcallmejnicole.wordpress.com . Chat with me by contacting me via email at justcallmejnicole@gmail.com or on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/justcallmejnicole/message.


Special Shout Out to LiLBoots for the new intro!

12 year old superstar!

Find him on IG (@prodlilboots) and YouTube (prod.lilboots).

Check out his websites: www.prodlilboots.beatstarts.com or shoot him an email (prodlilboots@gmail.com).

Jan 10, 202120:05
Platforms: Not all are for you

Platforms: Not all are for you

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

So we have #Tikitok, #Instagram, #Facebook, #SnapChat, and a host of other platforms that our friends and family members have launched. We wanna be down... wanna support or feel connected. But, in my Iyanla Vanzant voice, beloved, not every platform is for you. Sometimes, we must recognize that and be at peace with it. Some platforms are for seasons... reasons and forever. But that's SOME and not ALL.

I love to support the homies but I also know that there are several ways to support the homies... on and off their platforms. We must truly recognize this because there are several of us compromising ourselves JUST to belong. You can't fit a square peg into a round hole! 

Listen in, weigh in... . Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms.

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Visit me at www.justcallmejnicole.wordpress.com . Chat with me by contacting me via email at justcallmejnicole@gmail.com or on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/justcallmejnicole/message.

Sep 24, 202020:44
Getcho Life Exploring Mental Health thanks to Tamar Braxton

Getcho Life Exploring Mental Health thanks to Tamar Braxton

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

Prayers going up for Tamar (Tay Tay). But I thank her for being transparent even when she didn't realize (nor did others) that she was doing so. She did everything to bring attention to the fact that she needed help.

As a black woman who has and struggles with depression (a mental condition that most don't want to say is a mental condition), I understand her struggles. As a mother I understand them even more. My kids are hands down the reason I have not quit on life, outside of my faith. But there were days that I wanted to throw in the towel... Nothing positive would come from my actions. My kids wouldn't have their mother... and my actions could have easily created issues for them, leading them down the road to depression and much more.

If you need help with depression, suicide or any other mental health conditions, get help. Don't suffer in silence. Hit me up... I am serious!

I have friends and close associates who are licensed therapists... I know people who know people.... GET HELP and know that you are loved and that someone cares.

Listen in, weigh in... . Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms.

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Sep 16, 202016:38
You are Enough!

You are Enough!

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

I have missed you all so much! I took a much needed break to work on me and took on a new venture that is near and dear to my heart; Life Coaching. I know, I know... they come a dime a dozen, huh? I am a bit different. My focus is on our youth and young adults. I feel that they are oftentimes omitted from such guidance and they need ME most. :o)

Listen in on a very powerful and meaningful message that I will also share during my bible study session tonight. I know a few people who need to hear this... I know that I did. 

Listen in, weigh in... . Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms.

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Visit me at www.justcallmejnicole.wordpress.com . Chat with me by contacting me via email at justcallmejnicole@gmail.com or on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/justcallmejnicole/message.

Sep 09, 202013:42
BEWARE: Spirit Stealers

BEWARE: Spirit Stealers

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

So guys, I dropped the ball a bit but it was meant to happen. Instead of an episode on EDUCATION, I pivoted and decided to release that episode in a few weeks as part of the BACK TO SCHOOL EDITION. 

But thanks for listening in! This week, I talk about spirit stealers.  Yes, spirit stealers are real. They are NEGATIVE moments that we become so fixated on that we cannot move away. We are transfixed and hyperfocused which holds us hostage to the bad things that are associated with that moment. Instead, we should be move on or look for the silverlinings. THEY ARE THERE TO BE HAD AND SEEN! The energy that we put into the universe is what we boomerang back. What type of energy do you want to receive? Tell me!

Listen in, weigh in... . Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms.

IG: https://www.instagram.com/justcallmejnicole/

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Twitter: https://twitter.com/CallMeJNicole

Visit me at www.justcallmejnicole.wordpress.com . Chat with me by contacting me via email at justcallmejnicole@gmail.com or on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/justcallmejnicole/message.

Jul 08, 202027:59
The Evolution of Celebration: Juneteenth

The Evolution of Celebration: Juneteenth

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

Thanks for listening in as I continue the discussion on the Evolution series. This week I talk about the evolution of celebration... and JUNETEENTH! Celebrating this year feels a bit different and difficult. With all that has transpired, it has become increasingly difficult to be BLACK in America and enjoy living. I have spent the past months talking, in depth, with my grandmothers, listening to their stories of racism, prejudice, inequality, what life was like (back) then and how they thought that we (America and the world) would have moved so much farther than where we are today. It made me think about my own progress, what I would like to see within my lifetime and even within my kids' lifetime.

Listen in, weigh in... . Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms. 

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Visit me at www.justcallmejnicole.wordpress.com . Chat with me by contacting me via email at justcallmejnicole@gmail.com or on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/justcallmejnicole/message.

Jun 24, 202019:46
The Evolution of Relationships: Show Us Who You Are!
Jun 17, 202022:10
The Evolution of Relationships: Blacks and Colorism

The Evolution of Relationships: Blacks and Colorism

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

Thanks for listening in as I continue the discussion on the Evolution of Relationships. This week I speak on how the relationships between blacks and colorism. Why in 2020 are blacks still divided amongst themselves? Why do we hate one another totally because of our skin tone, hair and they way we talk, walk and dress? We give the world fuel to continue to treat us they way that they do. We stand divided so they don't see us as one. When we say #BLM, they don't see this and so we are literally laughed at, dismissed and denied the right to what is our God given right; equality.

Listen in, weigh in...

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Jun 10, 202020:47
The Evolution of Relationships: Blacks and the World

The Evolution of Relationships: Blacks and the World

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole!

Thanks for listening in as I continue the discussion on the Evolution of Relationships. This week I speak on how the relationships between blacks and world. Why in 2020 are blacks still the "black sheep" of the world but the most admired, at the same time? Why is it that the world LOVES our culture but hates our skin? Recently, we have witnessed the deaths of black men and women at an alarming rate. Yet, the world would rather save the whales, elephants and all the starving children of the world before they do as much as spit on us if we were burning.

I talk about my own fear, as I am the mother to not 1 but 2 black boys. I talk about how as a teacher, even the textbooks have yet to evolve to tell the true and up and coming story of blacks.

Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms.

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Jun 03, 202020:01
The Evolution of Relationships: Food and Emotios

The Evolution of Relationships: Food and Emotios

Hey, hey, hey! It's ya girl, Just Call Me J Nicole! 

Thanks for listening in as I continue the discussion on the Evolution of Relationships. This week I speak on how the relationships between you and food can be determetial to your life, as well as a learned behavior. Did you know that you train and condition yourself to NEED food?! Food is much like any drug. Once you reach the peak of how high that one food can take you, you crave to get that feeling time 10! That requires that you consume more and more.... and more!

I talk about my own addiction to food, especially BLUE RASPBERRY JOLLY RANCHERS! (don't judge). So hit play and take a seat because we are about to evolve!

Make sure you are following me on all of my social media platforms. 

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May 27, 202027:54
The Evolution of Relationships: Fathers and Daughters
May 20, 202020:27
The Evolution of Relationships: Mothers and Daughters
May 13, 202019:54
The Evolution of Relationships: Friendships
May 07, 202020:11
The Evolution of Relationships: Praying for Your Spouse
Apr 29, 202025:43
The Evolution of Relationships: 401k vs DNA
Apr 22, 202019:33
In Sickness and In Health...
Apr 15, 202023:35
Evolution of Relationships Pt 2
Apr 08, 202022:28
Evolution of a relationship

Evolution of a relationship

I discuss how people change creating change in a relationship. How evolving as a person can create a breakdown in a relationship. Should it happen like this? How to move forward or should you move forward. Chime in and let me know what you think!
Apr 01, 202016:49
Corona in My Mind

Corona in My Mind

My 2 cents about this virus and how we're treating one another during such a time of uncertainty.
Mar 24, 202012:57
Balancing Act

Balancing Act

I talk about the act of balancing life as a mother, Christian, wife, employee... Hell as a human. As well as how the lack of balance has affected me.
Mar 11, 202015:37
Power of the Tongue

Power of the Tongue

Let's talk about how your tongue has the ability to speak life into and destroy everything around you.
Mar 04, 202017:06
Trust... Another way to rest!

Trust... Another way to rest!

Listen in as I talk about trust can allow you to rest... Mind, body and soul.
Feb 26, 202022:01
Learning to Rest

Learning to Rest

I talk about how it's important to rest and the difference between sleeping and resting. Most importantly, I talk about how grieving can create a reason to rest.
Feb 19, 202027:37
Grieving... He never gives us more than we can bear.

Grieving... He never gives us more than we can bear.

This episode discusses coping with grief and touches on the recent death of Kobe and GiGi Bryant.
Feb 12, 202013:29
Recognizing Spiritual Warfare

Recognizing Spiritual Warfare

Chime in and listen as I talk about Spiritual warfare...
Feb 06, 202015:34
You've Changed!

You've Changed!

People see what they want to see and try to inflict it upon you... Don't allow that mess! Aht-aht!
Jan 30, 202017:06
Reactivate the Village

Reactivate the Village

We've lose our way of the need and purpose of the village. Let's reactivate it, properly. We need it more now than we've ever have.
Jan 16, 202025:23
Addictions

Addictions

Addictions come in all forms and fashions. just because one person has one does not mean that you do not suffer from another. Listening as I talk about me and my family and our addictions.
Jan 08, 202018:13
Happy New Year 2020! Welcome to season 3!

Happy New Year 2020! Welcome to season 3!

Happy New Year!
Jan 01, 202012:06
Cleaning House

Cleaning House

Cleansing your spirit sometimes means getting rid of the very ones who are closest and as a parent, protecting your children's energy.
Oct 28, 201921:60
Check on you strong friends...

Check on you strong friends...

Just as the title suggests, check in on them. I talk to y'all about my experience and how someone simply asking how am I nearly crippled me.
Oct 15, 201922:52
Publicly Private

Publicly Private

Social media... Private life... But exposed! How can one be publicly private?
Oct 15, 201924:44
Ride or Dies

Ride or Dies

Marriage for the decades. Can our generation withstand the test of time like those of our parents and grandparents?
Oct 07, 201922:00
Let's talk about sex pt2

Let's talk about sex pt2

The convo on sex continues...
Oct 07, 201926:14
Spirit Part 2

Spirit Part 2

So the horror movie called Spirit Airline continues...
Sep 30, 201924:47
Spirit Part 1

Spirit Part 1

Customer service is almost like common sense... Barely exists... Especially if you fly Spirit Airlines!
Sep 30, 201935:16
Lessons

Lessons

Sometimes we continue to go through the same things in life because we have yet to learn the lesson. Sometimes we're studying for the lesson in a completely different way than our study partner so we both fail. But there's a lesson in the mess. Listen in and learn about the lesson!
Sep 28, 201916:07
18 years ago

18 years ago

A tribute to one half of my Bookends; my oldest son.
Sep 24, 201922:33
Practicing for war.

Practicing for war.

You have to prepare for war... Even if it's only an argument. Take 2 on me listening to my own advise on how to win an argument.
Sep 24, 201924:58
Mindset

Mindset

Mindset can take you anywhere.... And no where if you don't have it fixed properly!
Sep 15, 201941:26
Winning arguments

Winning arguments

Learn how to win a fight/spat with your SO. It's not brain surgery nor ticket science.
Sep 10, 201927:38
Money and Advice

Money and Advice

Listen in on how I've been bombarded with advice on how to manage my son's bonus and such... Momager ain't a real job (right now) but momma bear I'll always be!
Sep 07, 201926:47
Relationships...

Relationships...

I discuss the dynamic of the father son relationship, as it relates to relationships in general.
Aug 31, 201934:41
Labels... We so wear them but we don't have to be them.

Labels... We so wear them but we don't have to be them.

I discuss how we label EVERYTHING and how labels affect us... Especially those who have children who happen to be different.
Aug 27, 201930:22
Communication is Key

Communication is Key

Listen in as I discuss how communication is so very important and how I nearly goofed at communicating with a parent about a student.
Aug 24, 201922:21
Slide into My DM...

Slide into My DM...

Listen in as a discuss how social media and folks who don't understand the sanctity of marriage should never collide. What started as a meme got me to thinking about how folks really view marriage.
Aug 20, 201927:37
Blended family!

Blended family!

Huge shout out to the Edwards family and congrats to TJ as he starts his journey as a college student. Also hear my spin on blended families and how I grew up in a household that was blended.
Aug 14, 201918:57