During the summer of 1984 my father became employed by the northwest Texas conference of the United Methodist Church and his first assignment in the northwest Texas conference was a small little Methodist Church and groom texas. My father was an ordained united Methodist minister in the united Methodist denomination. It was in Amarillo and Groom Texas that my parents perpetrated a sex crime against me by dragging me with codeine to sedate me.
This is a voicemail that my mother left when she was dying of kidney failure and asked me to come and take care of her even though she had confessed to drugging me so that my father could molest me. This was the same woman who my ex husband allowed around our two little boys even though he knew that my mother had confessed to participating in a sex crime against me her own daughter when I was six or seven years old.
This is a recorded conversation demonstrating how verbally abusive my ex mother-in-law is and the fact that she would call me derogatory names in front of my son. This also shows how unstable and unpredictable she is which is the reason why I wanted to have a witness or have law-enforcement witnessing the exchange of the children.
This is a recorded phone call where I was calling to talk to my older son and unfortunately it did not sound like there was anybody there with him. I really did not know if My ex mother-in-law was there who has a hit-and-run on her record. I also did not know if my ex-husband had my mother there taking care of her son who admitted to drugging me so that my father could sexually assault me while I was a child. Unfortunately during that phone call I did not hear the presence of any adult looking out for the well-being of our child.
This is another recorded phone call where my ex-husband immediately starts yelling at me and being verbally abusive regarding the exchange of our older son. The unpredictable behavior and impulsive behavior of my ex-husband and his mother is the exact reason why I needed witnesses for the exchange of the kids because they could not be trusted. I did not feel Feel that it was safe for our children to interact with my ex-husband and his mother without someone present and I did not feel it was safe for myself either.
This is a recorded phone call where I’m calling to talk to Alex and then the very beginning of the call it is obvious how unstable and unpredictable Carl’s mother is. She responded in aggressive and impulsive manner when I simply tell her that I was recording the phone call. Unfortunately my ex husband would rather someone who is an as unstable as he is take care of our children which also includes anyone who has a past of abusing children like my mother did.
This is a recorded conversation where my ex-husband is asking to speak to her toddler and he was asleep at the time I did offer to wake him up so that he could speak with him and instead my ex-husband proceeded to become verbally abusive and threatening me again. when he could not get his way and we get very angry with me he would resort to threats and becoming even more verbally hostile and even name calling. This is another valid reason why I have refused to meet him at the park in the past year.
This is a recorded conversation where I’m calling to talk to Alex. on the previous recording is a recorded phone call where my ex-husband had showed up at my apartment late at night to confront me In front of our toddler. I told him he needed to leave or I was going to call the police. He showed up to confront me that night because he failed to show up in time to pick up our younger son for his visitation. I had been in communication with my family law attorney that evening and I had waited several hours and it was time to get dinner for our toddler and she told me to leave because I had waited long enough. During this phone call my ex husband is playing games with me once again because he did not get his way. He is threatening to not give me the opportunity to speak to our son among other threats he has used in the past.
This is a recording where I’m calling to talk to Alex. Harrison Fisher an attorney I had consulted with advise me to announce that I was recording the phone call. I’ve heard attorneys say that it’s important to announce that you’re recording the phone call but then I’ve also heard attorneys say it doesn’t really matter. My ex mother-in-law would also say we are recording the phone call to but she didn’t really understand that I could’ve cared less if she was recording me or not because I was not going to say anything inappropriate or out of line.
My ex has been allowed her older son to play video games that he was too young for and my ex-husband had a habit of playing first person shooter games which is why he allowed our older son to play video games that he was too young for.
This is a recording of my ex-husband admitting to calling CPS six times. Each time he would call I would show evidence to CPS and explain Carl’s abuse of past and he would also have my mother call CPS. they made up accusations they said I hit the kids and there was no evidence of that. My ex-husband and his mother and my mother told CPS that I was mentally ill and that I was delusional.
This is a recording where I am setting a boundary with my ex-husband that he is not allowed to approach me under any circumstance anywhere. I needed him to meet me at a police station where there were cameras because his behavior was unpredictable and there was a history of domestic violence and his mother had also been physically aggressive with me and so I felt for For the safety of the children and myself it was best to have cameras around because it was difficult for me to get witnesses. My ex-husband also told the court that I was mentally ill without a psych evaluation being ordered and without any proof or evidence of his assumption of my mental health. If I think someone is unpredictable or not trustworthy I do not have any desire to go near them especially since I have experienced severe trauma as a child and survived a serious crime that was perpetrated on me by my parents including my father who is employed as a united Methodist minister by the Texas annual conference. My Ex-husband has told everyone I’m crazy and so if he thinks I’m crazy there’s absolutely no reason for him to want to approach me. I also have them on recording saying he doesn’t want to come anywhere near me so if that is the case then why would he approach me in a parking lot? Being a survivor of a crime I think your head and I know I have been through enough trauma and enough chaos that I am going to think ahead and protect myself and there’s absolutely nothing wrong knowing that I have survived a crime and survive domestic violence with wanting to ensure that the transition between exchanging children goes smoothly even if it means meeting where there are law enforcement around.
In this recording I stated I had two attorneys and I did have two attorneys at one time. I did not pay for these attorneys and the reason why I had to attorneys is one attorney is the attorney I had hired to file a lawsuit against the Texas annual conference of the United Methodist Church because they employed my abuser who was also my father who sexually assaulted me as a child. His name was Harris and Fisher and the other attorney I hired was Elsie Martin Simon and I consulted with Elsie Martin Simon also on a pro bono basis. I was able to obtain two attorneys without paying for it because of who I knew but the hardest lesson I’ve learned in life is that who you know it’s not always beneficial. It depends on what you’re going up against and in this battle I was not just going up against a battle with my ex-husband but I was also taking on a battle with a multibillion dollar administration that had a history of employing united Methodist minister‘s who are sexual predators of children. In this recording you also hear my ex-husband acknowledge that he should not have said that he really wished I did not exist anymore and he did say that on multiplications and I have multiple recordings of him saying that to me. It’s interesting that he felt it was acceptable to tell me that he really wishes I didn’t exist anymore considering the fact that he tells everyone and told the court that I was mentally ill. It seems to me that possibly if someone is mentally ill or you’re telling people that this person is mentally ill that you might not want to tell them that you really wish they didn’t exist anymore. I don’t really think that this is something you should say to anyone for any reason but unfortunately my ex-husband’s mother that lives with him I guess was too busy to teach him that it could also be because his mother did not raise him his father did.
This is a recorded conversation of my ex-husband forcing me to leave my children in the care of my ex mother-in-law who was also very unstable emotionally and very unpredictable. There are recordings of her in this podcast yelling at me and screaming at me over the phone and laughing at inappropriate times when I would ask her legitimate questions.
This is another recording where my ex husband is not cooperative in meeting me at the police station. I tried to get him to meet me or have law enforcement as a witness as much as possible because his behavior was in pretty unpredictable.
This is another recording where my ex-husband is not being cooperative and having a witness there for the exchange of the kids. He has stated in the past and he’s told many people that I am mentally ill and unstable and then I’m a horrible person and yet he never wanted to have a witness there whenever I showed up to pick up the kids.
When it came to exchanging the kids my ex-husband wanted to turn it into a social hour. He divorced me because he said he wanted to get rid of me and yet when we exchange the kids he wanted to stick around and I don’t really understand why you wanted to stick around if he hated me so much I mean after all I have a recording of him telling me he really wished I didn’t exist so it doesn’t make sense why he would want to stick around when we’re exchanging the kids.
This is a recorded conversation and another example of the games that my ex-husband played. He was very abusive and played a lot of head games. He has also been involved in gaslighting and telling me that I’m crazy and telling me what he thinks is wrong with me. He has also told many people including my family that I am mentally ill and he told the court that I was mentally ill and a psychiatric evaluation was never ordered. In this conversation he also brings our older son into the conversation trying to get our older son to choose sides.
This is another recording of my ex-husband refusing to cooperate in meeting at a police station to make sure everything goes smoothly because he had unpredictable behavior and my concern where are the safety of our children and myself.
This is a recorded conversation where I’m trying to get my ex-husband to meet me at a police station because I felt safer exchanging the kids at a police station because his behavior was unpredictable and there was a history of domestic violence and history of my ex-husband getting violent with me.
This is a phone call that I made to Cypress United Methodist Church and Cypress Texas because I had told him on multiple occasions that my father had been employed with the Texas annual conference and had also molested me as a child. After the conversation that my mother and I had on March 7 where she had acknowledge to dragging me so that my father could molest me I began to send that recording to a number of churches including the conference administration of the United Methodist Church in Houston Texas. One of the places that I emailed that recording to wurst Cypress United Methodist Church in Cypress Texas and they told me they had sent it to clergy excellence in the conference office in Houston Houston Texas. at some point I had also been told by the secretary of the church at Cypress United Methodist Church that the pastor and other people on the staff had met with my mother and my and they revealed to my mother that I had called on a number of Occasions and revealed to her everything that I shared with them.
I was asking my ex mother-in-law what she did with her kids during the day since my ex-husband preferred that she take care of our kids rather than me even though I’m their mother. I also wanted to know because it in April it had been brought to my attention by Patrice who lived across the street from my ex-husband that my mothers car had been over at the house because my ex-husband and my ex mother-in-law were allowing my mother who admitted to perpetrating a sex crime against me with my father to watch my older son.
This recorded conversation as an example of the games that my ex mother-in-law and my ex-husband would play with me when I would ask him a simple question and they were inappropriate responses like my ex mother-in-law laughing at inappropriate times when I’m trying to have a rational conversation with her about the children and who is watching the children. This shows their mental state and their mental instability. I was asking because I already knew that they had my mother over there and allowed my mother to be alone with the kids knowing that my mother had admitted to dragging me so that my father could sexually assault me. It seems to me that anyone who chooses to have someone around children who would admit to participating in a sex crime against a minor would not want that person around their children.
This is a recorded conversation where I am calling the secretary of the Texas annual conference administration of the united Methodist church that is housed in Houston Texas. I was calling to inform the bishop secretary that I will be holding them legally accountable for employing my father who was one of my abusers who also sexually assaulted me as a child.