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Chats with my daughter!

Chats with my daughter!

By Chats with my daughter!

This is a podcast about the conversations you have with your daughter. We have been through a lot this year, and have decided to create a podcast about everything that has changed and what subjects need to be brought up. We cover things like boundaries, drama, school, racism, dogs, and just about everything you can talk about as a mother-daughter duo!
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S2E20: Sinkering

Chats with my daughter!Jun 05, 2023

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S2E20: Sinkering

S2E20: Sinkering

This week the ladies wrap up season two with updates of their past 72 episodes! Find out what’s changed, grown, or improved since they last broached the subject and let’s cheers to a wonderful season!
Jun 05, 202347:56
S2E19: Fun Summer

S2E19: Fun Summer

Todays episode is pretty light and fluffy as Kathy and Ela get excited about the summer!! Summer cannot come fast enough for these two and they have major plans as they work through their bucket lists.
May 22, 202333:02
S2E18: Maycember

S2E18: Maycember

It’s Asian American Pacific Islander Heritage month and this week the ladies are going to discuss some history (a little late, but better than never!). Take a listen and get informed!
May 10, 202325:25
E2S17.5

E2S17.5

Oh no Ela!!
May 08, 202300:26
S2E17: One Hundred and One Year

S2E17: One Hundred and One Year

This week Kathy and Ela are in an uproar about the increasing number of books that are being banned in our state, and across the country!! Listen in to see how this phenomenon is taking place!
Apr 24, 202337:07
S2E16: A Big Pooey Chaos

S2E16: A Big Pooey Chaos

This week’s episode erupted organically after Ela got HACKED on Snapchat! Hacking is ever-present and scary so listen in to learn more about how to prevent falling victim to online scams.
Apr 10, 202345:58
S2E15: Persuassing

S2E15: Persuassing

S2E15: we are taking a brain break on this episode and pulling out TableTopics: Inspiring Women for Girls. This week we’ll talk about our personal thoughts and feelings on a variety of topics.
Mar 25, 202335:15
S2E14: That’s a Basic Name

S2E14: That’s a Basic Name

It’s Womens’s History Month! Ela and Kathy are ready to deep dive into some very impressive women who’ve done some very impressive things! Listen in to hear about Allyson Felix, Anne Marshall, Lucy Hobbs Taylor and more!
Mar 13, 202332:20
S2E13: Not Abraham Lincoln!!

S2E13: Not Abraham Lincoln!!

This week Ela and Kathy were inspired by The Fiddler on the Roof, to delve into Judaism and learn more about another culture and religion. Listen in for all they discovered.
Feb 27, 202331:45
S2E12: I Get Ya Girl!

S2E12: I Get Ya Girl!

It’s Black History Month and on this episode, Kathy and Ela discuss two sources that have affected them: the book Running While Black and the movie The Help. Take a listen!
Feb 14, 202333:43
S2E11: Skinfluencer

S2E11: Skinfluencer

This week is lighthearted as Kathy and Ela dive into the world of skincare! Should we be believing everything we see on TikTok? Is natural better? Let’s explore!
Jan 30, 202346:01
S2E10: Tricho-something

S2E10: Tricho-something

It’s a new week and a new episode: this one is pretty serious and pretty deep. Listen in as Kathy and Ela discuss self-harm. What is it? Why do people do it? Does it lead to suicide? Be forewarned that this episode could be a trigger for some individuals.
Jan 16, 202338:19
S2E9: …But Not Leastly

S2E9: …But Not Leastly

This week Ela and Kathy welcome in 2023 with a discussion about their own traditions, and traditions of others around the world!
Jan 02, 202330:04
S2E8: 3 am

S2E8: 3 am

Season 2: Episode 8: this week the girls dive into superstitions! Where do they come from? Why do we have them? Are YOU superstitious?
Dec 19, 202234:10
Season 2 Episode 7 Too Much Anxiety for That

Season 2 Episode 7 Too Much Anxiety for That

This week, Ela and Kathy tackle a delicate subject as they attempt to discuss human trafficking and the scary situations that can occur if you aren’t aware. Listen without delicate ears around!
Dec 05, 202229:04
S2E6: Can we Crop This Out..?

S2E6: Can we Crop This Out..?

Welcome to episode six of season two where Ela and Kathy discuss private vs public school and the pros and cons of each situation. It’s not easy picking a high school!!
Nov 21, 202243:20
S2E5: ASMR

S2E5: ASMR

S2E5: it’s National Native American Heritage Month and this week the girls discuss Native American women who have inspired and impressed them.
Nov 07, 202239:32
S2E4: PSA

S2E4: PSA

Happy Halloween!! This week we delve into ghosts and ghost stories. Are they true? Are they coincidences? You be the judge.
Oct 24, 202243:20
S2E3: I’d Give it a C

S2E3: I’d Give it a C

This week’s episode is a special episode about Hurricane Ian and all of the experiences Kathy and Ela have had surrounding this major natural disaster. Fort Myers was impacted especially hard last week and is working relentlessly to rebuild.
Oct 10, 202238:28
Season 2, Episode 2: Helicopter Parent

Season 2, Episode 2: Helicopter Parent

Warning: this week’s episode has a serious tone and may be triggering for some listeners. September is Suicide Prevention Month, so on this episode, Ela and Kathy discuss suicide and how it weaves its way into the teenage mindset.
Sep 19, 202233:34
Season 2 Episode 1: Season Deuce

Season 2 Episode 1: Season Deuce

We are back!! Welcome to season two of Chats with my Daughter! This week Ela and Kathy will discuss everything that’s been going on in their lives, along with the importance of a growth mindset.
Sep 05, 202231:11
Episode 52: Trustable Child

Episode 52: Trustable Child

We did it! 52 episodes in 52 weeks! In this finale, Kathy and Ela discuss Pride Month and terminology associated with the LGBTQ+ community. We hope you enjoyed season 1 of Chats with my Daughter and keep your eyes and ears open for season 2!
Jun 13, 202231:38
Episode 51: Henry the 8th or Shakespeare?

Episode 51: Henry the 8th or Shakespeare?

Ela and Kathy decided to have a little fun this week and delve into conspiracy theories. Why do people believe them? Which ones have gained traction? Listen in on this fun discussion
Jun 06, 202232:46
Episode 50: Furry Cars

Episode 50: Furry Cars

It’s the fiftieth episode for Chats With My Daughter!! Ela and Kathy are taking it back to the 1950’s in celebration of this monumental episode. Join them in looking back at how it used to be…
May 30, 202229:29
Episode 49: Idk what that means!

Episode 49: Idk what that means!

Ready for a personality test? Kathy and Ela are. Listen in as they go over their enneagram results and whether they are buying them or not…
May 23, 202226:04
Episode 48: Heartstopper

Episode 48: Heartstopper

May is Mental Health Awareness Month so Kathy and Ela delve into the teen brain and why teens are so vulnerable to mental health issues. This is a more serious episode.
May 16, 202236:49
Episode 47: She Came to The Canada

Episode 47: She Came to The Canada

It’s Asian and Pacific Islander Heritage Month and Kathy and Ela are going to delve into some female figures who really inspire them.
May 09, 202230:07
Episode 46: Tell Me Something Good

Episode 46: Tell Me Something Good

There’s a lot of bad news out there, so this week, Kathy and Ela found GOOD NEWS to share with the listeners! It may not be well researched, but it won’t make you mad!
May 02, 202231:44
Episode 45: Pranked Ya!

Episode 45: Pranked Ya!

Are pranks good? And they bad? Could it be more of a spectrum? Listen in as Kathy and Ela discuss a very common occurrence among teens and tweens.
Apr 25, 202229:17
Episode 44: Cloudy and Puffy

Episode 44: Cloudy and Puffy

This week’s episode focuses on climate change and Earth Day! Listen up and Kathy and Ela discuss the impact of climate change and the evolution of Earth Day!
Apr 18, 202235:13
Episode 43: Grammies, Emmys, Oscars

Episode 43: Grammies, Emmys, Oscars

This week’s episode is all about manners and bad behavior. Why has there been such an uptick in intolerance and rudeness? Why are manners important in society? Take a listen.
Apr 11, 202232:38
Episode 42: Jam It Out!

Episode 42: Jam It Out!

This week Ela and Kathy play with the music that has affected them throughout their lives. Enjoy listening to the tunes that they love so much.
Apr 04, 202231:39
Episode 41: First Testament

Episode 41: First Testament

Watching Jesus Christ Superstar inspired the ladies to learn more about Jesus, and find out who he really was. Listen it as they learn more than they thought they would!!
Mar 28, 202232:01
Episode 40: Does it Always Come Down to Snapchat?!

Episode 40: Does it Always Come Down to Snapchat?!

Secrets and Honesty: always a point of contention between parents and their kids. Listen in as the girls chat about when and if, it’s ok to keep a secret.
Mar 21, 202232:45
Episode 39: Evil Word

Episode 39: Evil Word

It’s back to the book for Ela and Kathy this week as they dive into Chapter 10 (Technology) from Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen. This discussion may not be what you think and part of it does get a little uncomfortable, but it’s an important part of adolescence.
Mar 14, 202235:20
Episode 38: Making Up a Soup

Episode 38: Making Up a Soup

It’s time for the talk! This episode may be a bit too explicit for sensitive ears. This week Kathy and Ela are discussing reproduction and puberty - a very important mother-daughter chat!
Mar 07, 202224:20
Episode 37: I Don’t Know Any Of These Words

Episode 37: I Don’t Know Any Of These Words

This episode is kind of a hot mess, but listen closely as Kathy and Ela attempt to discuss helping others and the importance of exploring empathy.
Feb 28, 202228:10
Episode 36: No, That’s Helen Keller

Episode 36: No, That’s Helen Keller

It’s February so we are highlighting Black History Month! There is so much to learn about Black History. Listen in as the girls discuss parts of American History that we should all be aware of.
Feb 21, 202229:34
Episode 35: Talking and Stalking

Episode 35: Talking and Stalking

Happy Valentine’s Day! It’s time to talk about LOVE! This is a big word, with a lot of feelings that come along with it. Listen in as Kathy and Ela dig into what to expect from falling in love.
Feb 14, 202232:24
Episode 34: It’s Getting Deep

Episode 34: It’s Getting Deep

This week Ela and Kathy discuss the new movie “The Fallout” from HBOMax. Warning: this episode details school shootings which may be too sensitive for some listeners!!!
Feb 07, 202226:14
Episode 33: Chats With My Yoda

Episode 33: Chats With My Yoda

This week Kathy and Ela delve into jealousy - a very common emotion at every age.
Jan 31, 202222:25
Episode 32: DOGs, UGGs, DUGs!

Episode 32: DOGs, UGGs, DUGs!

This week, Kathy and Ela discuss all the latest in the news - or at least what has caught THEIR interests! Listen into their chatter on a whole array of subjects, from pop culture, to inflation, and yes, dogs!!
Jan 24, 202232:12
Episode 31: Acceptful

Episode 31: Acceptful

This week’s episode has Kathy and Ela discussing Self-Care, but maybe not in the way either one of them has thought! It’s back to the book: Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen, for insights on weight gain, sleep, and even suicide….
Jan 17, 202228:37
Episode 30: Unforgettable Experiment

Episode 30: Unforgettable Experiment

Listen in to this week’s unique episode about elephants. Kathy and Ela had a special experience this weekend with elephants, which prompted them to devote an episode to these special creatures.
Jan 10, 202228:17
Episode 29: Stumbling Snowball

Episode 29: Stumbling Snowball

Listen in as Kathy and Ela get a little serious about the #MeToo movement. Unfortunately, girls need to recognize the gravity of rudeness, harassment, and even assault.
Jan 03, 202228:23
Episode 28: Ten Percents

Episode 28: Ten Percents

Listen to Kathy and Ela fumble through their retellings of numerous chapters in the book “Teen Trailblazers: 30 Fearless Girls Who Changed the World Before They Were 20”. They may be tripping over their words, but they are inspired!!
Dec 27, 202131:35
Episode 27: How You Do…

Episode 27: How You Do…

This week we welcome a very special guest, Megan Dhar, a master in education and a fascinating friend of the pod.
Dec 20, 202130:24
Episode 26: Party at my Funeral

Episode 26: Party at my Funeral

The ladies are going to have some fun this week and ask each other some hard-hitting and no-so-hard-hitting questions. Enjoy the interview episode.
Dec 13, 202136:27
Episode 25: Save, Spend, Share!

Episode 25: Save, Spend, Share!

This week we go back to the book: reviewing Chapter 13 in Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen. We’ll discuss money and the emotions surrounding money. Listen to the very end for a special guest!!
Dec 06, 202134:22
Episode 24: Bougie bougie!!

Episode 24: Bougie bougie!!

This week Kathy and Ela chat about what they’d like for Christmas, as well as ideas for loved ones on your list. Their lists may be a little unattainable, but it’s a fun time of year to dream a little.
Nov 29, 202128:34