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Thick & Thin

Thick & Thin

By Katy Bellotte

The musings of a millennial girl living in New York City about life, love & everything in between.
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The revenge dress

Thick & ThinFeb 13, 2020

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The revenge dress

The revenge dress

In this extra special Valentine's Day special of Thick & Thin I answer some light-hearted questions about love & also discuss the story of Princess Diana's 1994 "revenge dress." Valentine's Day can really stir up our emotions so I hope this episode will leave everyone feeling confident and hopeful. // Try Gladskin: http://gladskin.com/ // Follow me on Instagram: @katybellotte

Feb 13, 202044:54
The power of words, black history month & Toni Morrison

The power of words, black history month & Toni Morrison

This episode of Thick & Thin is all about the power of WORDS, books & written thought. I explore the life of Toni Morrison and the waves she made in literature, particularly in black American literature. We pay homage to Toni, her courage and her talent, as well as discussing my own personal experiences surrounding the power that books & words have in our world. // My keynote talk in South Carolina details: https://allevents.in/columbia/usc-fashion-week-keynote-speaker-katy-bellotte/200018950288036 // Gladskin Eczema cream: http://us.gladskin.com/ // Follow me on Instagram: @katybellotte

Feb 06, 202042:04
Let’s talk about the good stuff

Let’s talk about the good stuff

On this episode of Thick & Thin I share some uplifting, positive stories submitted by listeners in hopes that it will brighten our week. 2020 has been quite rough so far and so I think it's very important to remember, and stay focused on, the "good stuff." So, I'm devoting this week's episode of Thick & Thin to this concept. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Jan 30, 202037:04
An honest sexy time chat

An honest sexy time chat

On this episode of Thick & Thin I opened the floor for some juicy listener questions! Nothing was too invasive or off limits. I chat honestly about sex, dating apps, leaving my job, tattoos, etc. // Follow me on Instagram: @katybellotte 

Jan 24, 202045:05
When we don’t know what we’re doing

When we don’t know what we’re doing

Today on Thick & Thin I talk about the times when we admit to ourselves: "I don't know what I'm doing." I chat about the true power in not having all the answers and the room it truly makes for creativity & growth. Also mentioned: Refinery29 founder, Piera Luisa Gelardi, and the story of Hedy Lamarr, Hollywood actress turned inventor. // Follow me on instagram: @katybellotte // shop my temporary tattoos: https://www.inkedbydani.com/collections/new-designs/products/kb 

Jan 16, 202044:42
Ghosting & the SLOW FADE

Ghosting & the SLOW FADE

In this episode of Thick & Thin I once again discuss ghosting and dive into a new concept: the slow fade. I chat about how to cope with unrequited feelings and gaps in communication. // Check out my temporary tattoos, in partnership with Inked by Dani: https://www.inkedbydani.com/collections/new-designs/products/kb // Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katybellotte/ 

Jan 09, 202043:16
Tough love & seasons of retreat

Tough love & seasons of retreat

In this episode of Thick & Thin I welcome 2020 by chatting through my resolutions and the ways I hope to grow this year (and years to come!). I chat about subjects like tough love, seasons of retreat, Lyme disease, moving apartments and more. // Follow me on IG: @katybellotte

Jan 03, 202043:11
Trying scary, new things & imposter syndrome

Trying scary, new things & imposter syndrome

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the anxiety surrounding trying scary, new things and how to carry on despite initial failure. Specifically I chat about my recent calligraphy class venture as well as a new photography gig. I also tell the stories of J.K. Rowling, among other greats with rough starts in their careers. // Follow me on Instagram: @katybellotte

Dec 23, 201945:29
Work stress & date stories

Work stress & date stories

On tonight's episode of Thick & Thin I discuss a recent date I went on, some fizzled-out flirtationships, some recent work stress and reflecting back on 'why I started.' I unearth a repressed memory from Elementary school and overall just share all the happenings from this month! // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Dec 14, 201940:60
The truth about holiday stress

The truth about holiday stress

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss holiday stress & anxiety! I attempt to crack WHY we feel it so profoundly during the holiday season, amongst our families and people from our past. I reflect on my high school reunion and New Year's Eve, among other things. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Dec 04, 201943:13
The truth about quitting my 9-5

The truth about quitting my 9-5

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss my recent career change, quitting my 9-5 job to pursue my own brand, as well as answering listener questions. I get very raw and honest with my decision to not only quit my job but choose MYSELF - unearthing my innermost fears surrounding failure, people pleasing and financial insecurity. // Follow me on Insta: @katybellotte

Nov 21, 201948:01
I 'like-like' him

I 'like-like' him

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concept of 'like-liking' people and 'what that does to a person,' as the iconic Sex and the City quote goes. I chat about all of the anxieties surrounding crushes, flirtationships and situationships (a new word I discuss as well). No one teaches you how to combat the insecurities and terror surrounding new crushes in school, so here we are - talking about it on the pod! // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Nov 14, 201945:51
Truth or dare & juxtaposition

Truth or dare & juxtaposition

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss my upcoming trip to London, the games my friends and I play when we go out, AS WELL as more serious topics surrounding juxtaposition & the highs + lows of life. I share my current insecurities surrounding a new romantic interest as well.. ;) // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Nov 06, 201942:23
Feeling hopeless & redefining yourself

Feeling hopeless & redefining yourself

In tonight's episode of Thick & Thin I reflect on my 24th birthday, discuss hopelessness and redefining who we are as we age. I offer some advice on how to feel less hopeless and find the courage to ask others for help in the process. We also chat about getting out of our own heads and accept that we are different now than we used to be, and that we eventually WILL be, down the road... // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Oct 30, 201945:39
People pleasing & life choices

People pleasing & life choices

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concepts of people pleasing, instant gratification, & how we rush through our lives when it comes to making choices. I also chat about my upcoming 24th birthday party and the ways I'm working on my stubbornness and obsessive planning tendencies in order to make moments more enjoyable! A lotta good stuff in this episode. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Oct 24, 201945:04
The loneliness epidemic

The loneliness epidemic

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the loneliness epidemic; how and why the most connected humankind, in the realms of social media, can also be the most lonely. I talk about my own experiences (and internal battles) with loneliness and how I've learned to combat it - ultimately finding a home within myself and learning to give other people a chance. // Follow me on instagram: @katybellotte

Oct 11, 201942:20
Whiskey shots & commitment

Whiskey shots & commitment

In this almost-not-released episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss the concept of 'not being everyones' cup of tea,' but with a spicy, sweet little twist. I also discuss a past story about commitment (or the lack thereof) and how obsessed we become with preserving our egos in romantic situations. // Follow me on Insta: @katybellotte

Sep 24, 201941:07
The truth about influencers

The truth about influencers

In this episode of Thick & Thin I get REAL and spill some tea about influencers, influencer culture and the in's and out's of being a paid content creator online. I answer listener questions & assumptions as well as dish my own opinions on the evolution of the influencer industry. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Sep 17, 201946:05
The truth about hustle culture

The truth about hustle culture

On tonight's episode of Thick & Thin, I do a deep dive into hustle and burnout culture, identifying what it is and why it's so detrimental to our health. I discuss the motivations we have for hustling and working hard, and how we should rethink our priorities. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Sep 09, 201944:48
Losing can be sexy

Losing can be sexy

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concept of, 'you have to lose to win,' and what this looks like it my life. I share an embarrassing event that happened to me at the 2017 Golden Globe award show along with some other instances of loss in my life, and how, despite the loss, I truly won. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Aug 31, 201945:44
Bad days & bad dates

Bad days & bad dates

In this episode I get real about a recent bad day I experienced, a bad DATE I experienced and some unexpected moments that happened along the way. I also unpack the life of Vincent Van Gogh, the world famous artist who only sold 1 painting during his lifetime, and how success truly is around the bend for each of us - we just have to stick around long enough to see it happen. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Aug 21, 201946:47
Where has the magic gone?

Where has the magic gone?

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss magic, or the lack thereof, in our lives as we age.. or so we think! I talk about the magic I experienced when I first visited Manhattan, the lack of magic I've felt in my romantic relationships as well as how to look for magic in new places by doing things that scare you. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Aug 13, 201941:58
Dealing with criticism & taking things personally

Dealing with criticism & taking things personally

In this episode of Thick & Thin I detail the many ways that we deal with criticism on a daily basis, and how its SO hard *not* to feel an immense blow to your ego while dealing with it. I tell some stories from my childhood and my earliest recollection of criticism, as well as debunking the reasons we feel this way. Finally I offer some advice and learnings on how to take criticism less personally, professionally and just in LIFE. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Jul 30, 201943:58
The truth about loving yourself

The truth about loving yourself

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the difficulty of loving yourself in all of your forms, and the struggle of being a protagonist in your own story. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Jul 22, 201946:02
Breakups & mercury in retrograde

Breakups & mercury in retrograde

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss MERCURY IN RETROGRADE as well as "uncuffing season," and this 'season of moving on.' I discuss break-ups and how to never stop settling, never accept completion and abandoning the obsessive lists that we create for our lives and our relationships. // follow me on instagram: @katybellotte

Jul 09, 201941:56
Feeling Fat

Feeling Fat

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the "I feel fat" epidemic that plagues many of us, despite the fact that I've tried REALLY HARD not to talk about it, for risk of sounding cliche or whiny. I chat about ways to confront this insecurity, and deal with the many ways that we criticize ourselves on a daily basis. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Jun 26, 201942:50
POST-GRAD STRESS & finding happiness

POST-GRAD STRESS & finding happiness

In this episode of Thick & Thin I chat about post-grad stress, as well as the highly popular Korean trend of "small but certain happiness" and ways to practice it in your daily life. I also chat a little about my scary experience with Lyme disease. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Jun 14, 201943:54
FEAR OF MISSING OUT

FEAR OF MISSING OUT

This episode of Thick & Thin is all about the Fear of Missing Out, or FOMO, and alternatively, the Joy of Missing Out. I discuss finding balance, managing your time & finding peace with missing out and focusing on yourself. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

May 17, 201942:35
Red lipstick & femininity

Red lipstick & femininity

On this episode of Thick & Thin I take a crack at describing the concept of femininity and how we can fully rock ours - or what it means to us. I discuss Hazel Bishop, a chemist who created a long-wearing lipstick, as well as some other pioneers in the discussion of femininity. // insta: @katybellotte

May 13, 201941:22
The fear of change in your twenties

The fear of change in your twenties

This episode of Thick & Thin unpacks the fear of CHANGE that we experience in our twenties. I talk about the importance of infusing your life with small moments of discomfort and facing our fears, telling stories about times where I've encountered pain with change & timing. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

May 03, 201943:28
Love letters & face masks

Love letters & face masks

On this special episode of Thick & Thin I answer a variety of listener questions! / follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Apr 27, 201943:56
When things aren't "right"

When things aren't "right"

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the feeling when things, in a relationship, friendship, etc., aren't "right." I also talk about how we tend to fantasize about elements of our lives, resulting with us feeling unsatisfied with who we're with. // Follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Apr 23, 201933:00
Is college ACTUALLY the best four years?

Is college ACTUALLY the best four years?

On this episode of Thick & Think we tackle the topic of AGING and sometimes feeling like we're wasting our time in certain moments of life. I discuss the life of Iris Apfel and some misconceptions that come with defining older people. / follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Apr 17, 201940:15
How to deal with stress

How to deal with stress

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss STRESS and how to deal with it in its many forms. I also discuss the concept of: "hot water hardens the egg but softens the potato." It's about what we're made of - not the circumstances. This & more! // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Mar 29, 201940:53
My fake life

My fake life

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the way we portray ourselves - online, and in 'real life' - and how that story might conflict with who we truly are. I also discuss the work of René Magritte, Ngozi Adichie, & Oprah Winfrey. / follow me on instagram: @katybellotte

Mar 22, 201941:48
The truth about being selfish

The truth about being selfish

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss a past toxic friendship and how I realized that I needed to choose myself. I also discuss a recent article written by Taylor Swift & the difficult concept of being selfish. // follow me on insta: @katybellotte

Mar 12, 201939:17
The truth about love

The truth about love

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss LOVE in its many forms. I discuss my bad relationship with love and intimacy in college, as well as my new-found relationship with self-love. / Follow me on instagram: @katybellotte

Feb 14, 201946:07
When being tired isn't "cool"

When being tired isn't "cool"

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss burnout culture & living in a society where working to the point of extreme exhaustion is glorified and worn as a badge of honor. I also talk about 'one hit wonder,' Harper Lee. / Follow me on insta: instagram.com/katybellotte

Jan 31, 201942:56
Vodka soda hangovers & marilyn monroe

Vodka soda hangovers & marilyn monroe

On tonight's episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concept of seeking escape through indulging in the vices -- including one too many vodka sodas (or in my case, gin & tonics.. lol. vodka soda just sounded better in the title TBH..). I also chat a bit about the late marilyn monroe. // follow me on insta: instagram.com/katybellotte

Jan 18, 201945:05
Falling in love with the idea of love & comparing yourself

Falling in love with the idea of love & comparing yourself

On this episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss the constant 'comparison game' that we play and how we can fight through the fantasy, societal pressures, etc. and find our purpose. / Follow me on Instagram: @KatyBellotte - DM me your Q's!

Jan 11, 201942:01
The fear of being lonely

The fear of being lonely

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss my fears along with the Enneagram test, human resilience and the reason why people fear loneliness. 

Dec 31, 201843:19
Toxic relationships & zelda fitzgerald

Toxic relationships & zelda fitzgerald

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concept of toxic relationships (along with other topics) while discussing the life story of Zelda Fitzgerald. | instagram.com/katybellotte
Dec 20, 201846:24
Being "too much"

Being "too much"

In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concept of being "too much," and the feelings associated with it, also touching on why we feel the need to water ourselves down for the comfort of others. I also tell a story about a woman named Sara Murphy, the rumored muse of Pablo Picasso, Ernest Hemingway & F. Scott Fitzgerald. All of this and MORE on tonight's episode!
Dec 13, 201844:34
When life isn't pretty & perfect

When life isn't pretty & perfect

On this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss the concept of 'stumbling into the florescent lighting of life' & read some excerpts from Bianca Sparacino's book, The Strength in Our Scars. // PS Follow me on insta : @katybellotte
Dec 08, 201841:15
Dating déjà vu & beer goggles

Dating déjà vu & beer goggles

In Episode 13 of Thick & Thin I read a diary entry from college and answer listener questions! I also discuss the 'he's the full package but isn't that cute' dilemma and why we go back to our exes.
Nov 29, 201842:22
How my parents met & other juicy stories

How my parents met & other juicy stories

On Episode 12 of Thick & Thin I interview my MOM (aka my first ever guest on the podcast!). I ask her all sorts of deep questions and she gives us some valuable advice :)
Nov 26, 201838:44
Am I settling?

Am I settling?

In Episode 11 of Thick & Thin I discuss the question we often ask ourselves: "Am I settling or just being realistic?"
Nov 17, 201845:21
College guys... thank u, next.

College guys... thank u, next.

On Episode 10 of Thick & Thin I reflect on a recent trip back to college + the memories that it brought up from the past. I talk about the first time I experienced the college hook-up culture and what I learned from it. Among other things ;)
Nov 08, 201846:46
The secrets I keep...

The secrets I keep...

In Episode 9 of Thick & Thin, I talk about some things I've learned in my 23 years on this planet as well as an epiphany that I had while analyzing my grey hairs. lol.
Oct 31, 201842:21
It's ghosting season

It's ghosting season

In Episode 8 of Thick & Thin I discuss GHOSTING in full detail. I answer questions such as: why do people ghost us? What to do after being ghosted? and even-- why have I ghosted?
Oct 25, 201847:15