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Pursue HER

Pursue HER

By Kelley J Bell
Pursue HER podcast is for women who live by biblical principles and are on the journey of marriage and/or motherhood. If that's you, you are in the right place!
Your host Kelley Bell is a wife, mom of 4, Certified Life Coach, Elder, and full-time Educator. In each episode, she empowers women to Pursue HER: to be Heroic, Empowered, and Resilient as Mothers and Wives. Not only will Kelley share her personal journey of marriage and motherhood, but she will also give women effective tips and strategies to apply to their personal journey of marriage and motherhood.
It's time for a little talk!
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S2 Ep10: Moms - The key to minimizing moments of frustration Pt. 2
In today's episode, Kelley will be giving mothers detailed steps on how to create systems for day-to-day tasks. With this outline, mother's will be able to apply it to several areas. Having systems (being organized) does not just benefit moms but also teaches children the skills they need to be successful adults.
13:03
June 15, 2022
S2 Ep 9: Wives - Your marriage won't survive without practical relationship skills!
So much focus in the church setting when it comes to marriage is solely on biblical principles. Often you don’t hear the need to combine biblical principles and relationship skills. On my journey to becoming a good wife, I learned how to combine both to create a thriving marriage. In today’s episode, I will share with you the importance of focusing on relationship skills in your God-centered marriage. 
10:22
June 01, 2022
S2 Ep8: Moms - The key to minimizing the moments of frustration.
In today's episode, Kelley shares with mom's the importance of being organized and creating systems for their children. The mothers' actions at home are indicators of the steps their children will emulate when they grow up. Getting organized may take time initially, but it will save more time in the long run. Tune in as Kelley shares how you can create efficient and effective systems for you and your children.
08:51
May 18, 2022
S2 Ep 7: Wives - How to apply biblical principles in my marriage.
To create a thriving marriage, individuals must apply both biblical principles and practical relationship skills within their marriage. In today's episode, Kelley will focus specifically on biblical principles. Tune in as Kelley shares tips and strategies on how to apply biblical principles in your marriage or soon to be marriage,
10:53
May 04, 2022
S2 Ep6: Moms- Are you monitoring your child’s technology usage?
The days of allowing your child complete freedom on technology should be over. There are so many dangers with technology that our children are not aware of. As parents, we are to do our due diligence to protect them from as many dangers as possible in this world. In today’s episode, Kelley shares why parents should monitor their child’s technology usage and she gives 5 tips on how parents can effectively monitor.
09:29
April 18, 2022
S2 Ep 5: Marriage is Ministry
Marriage is more than being able to put #relationshipgoalsmet under your pictures on social media. Marriage is ministry. It’s a tool and avenue that allows you to spread your faith and love of God towards your spouse. Tune in to today’s episode as Kelley shares how marriage is ministry.
05:47
April 01, 2022
S2 Ep4: Moms- Displaying God’s Love Towards Your Children
Are you sure that you are emulating God’s love towards your children?  What have you been using as your guide as an indicator that you are emulating God’s love towards your children? In today’s episode, Kelley takes the time to use scriptural references to support how mothers can emulate God’s love towards their children.
07:33
March 16, 2022
S2 Ep3: Wives - Making God the Foundation of your Marriage
What does it mean to make God the foundation of your marriage? Does that mean you just pray? Does it mean that you and your husband should always go to church together? Tune in to today’s episode as Kelley shares what it means to make God the foundation of your marriage.
06:56
March 02, 2022
S2 Ep2: Moms - God Chose you to be a Mother
As children of God, we believe and know that God is in control. If you are responsible for taking care of a child, God chose you to be an intricate part of that child’s life. Whether you have biological children, you are a step-parent or foster parent, God chose you. Tune in to today’s episode as Kelley shares the significance of God choosing you!
07:38
February 16, 2022
S2 Ep. 1: Wives - Marriage is a Journey
Marriage is evolving. Why is that? Because the individuals in the marriage are evolving. The individuals in the marriage are also learning a new way of doing life as they have now committed to being with someone for better or worst. Marriage is a journey that should be embraced in every season. I’m here to show you how!
05:43
February 02, 2022
Ep. 17 - Wives: Having fun in your marriage!
Marriage brings its challenges, but marriage also should be enjoyable! Don’t allow the individual and collective work that has to be done in marriage to deter you from having fun with your spouse. Tune in to today’s episode to learn some tips on how you can have fun in your marriage!
07:53
May 19, 2021
Ep. 16 - Moms: Our children are under attack!
Our children our under attack! Raising Kingdom minded children is probably more challenging now than ever before. While it is challenging, it doesn’t mean that it is impossible! Are you truly doing your part to make sure you are equipping your child to be able to withstand the attacks of the enemy? To be able to withstand the influences of society? To be able to stand for God when others around them don’t want to? Tune in to today’s episode as Kelley discusses how you can protect/cover your child(ren). Download the self- reflective questions and tips discussed in this episode at www.kbconsultingforher.com
10:04
May 05, 2021
Ep. 15 - Wives: Who taught you how to be a wife?
What has shaped your views and actions as a wife? Are you aware of the influences that have impacted you through your journey of life and marriage? In order to sustain a healthy marriage, it is important that you are aware of the things, experiences and/or people that have inadvertently and adverts fly impacted your role as a wife. Tune in to today’s episode as Kelley shares one of the intricate components needed in learning how to be a wife.
07:31
April 21, 2021
Ep. 14 - Moms: Can prayer make my child’s mental health issues go away?
For those who follow and believe in the use of applying biblical principles with their parenting skills; this episode is for you! As a parent, prayer is an imperative aspect of the journey of parenthood. But what do you do if you are praying for your child and you aren’t seeing the manifestation of what you are declaring and praying about? Tune in to today’s episode as Kelley shares how to apply the power of prayer in your journey of parenthood.
10:13
April 07, 2021
Ep. 13 - Wives: I feel defeated as a wife.
As wives, have you ever felt defeated? As if everything you have been trying to do is just not working? Tune in to today’s episode as Kelley shares tips and strategies on what to do when you are feeling defeated.
09:18
March 17, 2021
Ep 12- Moms - (Self Harm) Cutting amongst our youth!
Self-harm: A topic that isn’t discussed that much but should. 90% of individuals who cut started in their teens or pre-teen years. As parents, we need to be knowledgeable of such things so we can be proactive when it comes to such topics with our children. Tune in to today’s episode to learn how self-harming acts are impacting youth in our society. Find out what you can do to help bring awareness to such topics. Links to statistics shared:  https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/medicine-and-dentistry/coping-strategies https://www.crisistextline.org/topics/self-harm/#what-is-self-harm-1 https://evolvetreatment.com/parent-guides/cutting/
14:14
March 03, 2021
Ep. 11 - Wives - What to do if your husband seems distant?
Have you ever felt that there is distance between you and your spouse? Does it feel like you and your spouse are living two separate lives? In this episode Kelley shares 5 tips and strategies that she implemented to work on building a closer connection with her husband. Tune in to find out what those strategies were so you may also implement these strategies if your husband feels distant. Kelley Bell Consulting Website: www.kbconsultingforher.com
10:20
February 17, 2021
Ep 10 - Moms - Suicide Amongst Children
Why is it that more youth are resulting to suicide? Would you know what to do if you found out that your child didn’t want to live anymore? In this episode, Kelley shares some personal encounters she has had with this topic and with children from different age ranges. Tune in to today’s episode to learn how you can respond to your child if they deal with suicidal ideations. Also learn how you can equip your children to respond to such issues with their peers. Links for all statistics shared: https://www.mentalhealth.gov/basics/what-is-mental-health https://www.insider.com/cdc-suicide-rate-in-young-people-10-24-continues-climb-2020-9) https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-09-11/suicides-among-u-s-kids-and-young-adults-have-been-soaring) https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2020-09-11/suicide-rate-keeps-rising-among-young-americans Kelley Bell Consulting Website: www.kbconsultingforher.com
11:29
February 02, 2021
Ep 9 - Wives: Unspoken Expectations
In today’s episode Kelley talks about unspoken expectations that husbands and wives bring into marriage. In order to create a thriving marriage and a marriage that is pleasing to God, honest and open communication must take place. Tune in to see how you can identify any unspoken expectations you have and learn the steps to take to share those concerns with your husband.
14:47
January 26, 2021
Ep 8 - Moms - Is my child comfortable talking to me?
In this episode, Kelley starts a series on mental health topics amongst children. She reminds us in this episode the importance of building a close relationship with our children and creating a safe space for them to share their feelings. As an educator, she has developed a close relationship with students and they share with her their true feelings: the things they are scared to tell their parents. Many parents think they have a close relationship with their child, but does their child think the same? Tune in to this episode to make sure you have truly created a safe space for your child to communicate their true feelings.
13:36
January 19, 2021
Am I really a good wife? - With my husband D. Bell
Ladies, I can say I’m a great wife all day, but if my husband doesn’t agree is it really a valid statement? On today’s episode we will hear my husbands view on our marriage as well as his thoughts on my book “God’s Marriage or My Marriage.” He will also share light on some topics from a males perspective! You have got to hear this for yourself!
31:25
December 23, 2020
Announcement
Tune in for a few updates on our Podcast schedule.
01:38
December 17, 2020
Moms - Keep Going!
In today’s episode, Kelley takes the time to encourage mothers on a job well done! Each mother is going through their own journey and they must learn not to compare their success to other women. Kelley will share a few tips on how to help change or keep your mindset on positive things. If you are in need of an encouraging word, this episode is for you!
06:23
December 03, 2020
Wives - You can only control you!
In today’s episode, Kelley shares with women the perspective on how to focus on themselves within their marriage. Wives must understand and be okay knowing that they cannot control their husbands. While husbands and wives are one, they are on two journeys to become the best versions of themselves. Wives cannot rush their own personal journey, nor can they rush the journey of their husbands. Ladies, are you trying to be his helpmate or his mother? Tune in!
10:08
November 20, 2020
Is politics impacting my child?
In today’s episode, Kelley talks about the influence of politics on children. While as parents, we may not realize or see how our children are being impacted by political matters, but it is our job as parents to teach our children how to approach such topics. Tune in to today’s episode to learn some tips on how you can teach your child how to approach political issues.
08:32
November 06, 2020
What is marriage?
In today’s episode, Kelley deals with the question “What is marriage?” As she opens her heart to share some personal information on her truths and harsh realities she faced in the beginning of her marriage, she also addresses God’s view on marriage. What is it that women must truly understand about the foundation of any thriving marriage?
09:41
October 30, 2020
What does it mean to be a mother?
In this episode Kelley talks about what it means to be a mother. Mothers’ must understand that there is an undeniable bond between a mother and child. No matter if women have a good relationship with their moms or if they have not been able to be around someone they would desire to emulate (their mothering skills), it is up to each mother to make a decision to decide what kind of mother they desire to be for their child. Being a mother is a lifelong commitment that mother’s should approach with an open mindset and flexibility. Subscribe to podcast Follow on IG and FB @kbconsultingforher Visit our website at www.kbconsultingforher.com
09:48
October 21, 2020
What is Pursue HER about?
In this episode you will learn some information about the host Kelley Bell, also known as “Kells”. Kelley’s passion is to help women navigate the challenges that arise on the journey of marriage and motherhood. Rather you identify as a mother or a wife she has strategies to share for everyone! Tune in as Kelley shares what it means to be Heroic, Empowered, and Resilient as mother’s and wives.
09:40
October 15, 2020
Trailer - Intro
Tune in  a for a brief breakdown on what's to come!
00:31
October 06, 2020