Kimology 411

When parents do not live together and have children who are young, I tell everyone do not talk crap about your ex because eventually your kids will grow up and see people for who they truly are.

So I watched two movies this weekend. One movie was about an 18-year-old who was infatuated with her older teacher. The other one was a middle-aged mom who started dating a 20 something pop star.

I normally don't unfriend people on social media but going forward and now realize that I do not need that kind of negativity in my life. If want to know all the cool things I do they can watch that from the outside. They just don't get the privilege to make the comments anymore.

So we're finally getting to the final determination of what will make you a 1099 versus a W-2 employee. It's been over a year and they have been tweaking it. And now I hear that people believe that our government is taking away your "side hustle" which they're not taking it away they're only changing how you get paid. When you spend a year complaining about not making any money they're going to pretend as if they care and make you think that they're going to make it so that you will be making money. When in reality all they're doing is trying to figure out how the government can make more money.

Is anyone else feeling like their brain isn't able to focus? Are you having struggles with getting things done? I know that this is going to be a good year but so far it has been tough!

One of my favorite places to come is branson! There's so much to do! But once again this trip was for business and an adventure with my brother.

I have always loved to work since I was a young child. In fact I never really looked at it as a bad thing I looked at it as just helping. In today's world everyone is so focused on how horrible work is I don't get paid enough to work blah blah blah! The way I look at life is I don't work I live life. And I do what I want when I want and most of what I'm doing involves work. But I am responsible for making my life the best I can which has to include doing something that makes the money to live the life.

How many people had to take state and local government in high school? How many people paid attention? How many people even took it in college? Yet we still don't understand how government works. And if we can't understand how our governments work then why would we even understand our foreign countries governments. The moral of the story is learn the laws before you travel inside or out of the United states. It could save you 12 years of your life.

On my podcast I like to talk about things that are actually going on in my life. I don't really hold too much back sometimes I do just because I want to protect other people not necessarily myself. But it is nice when people do come up to you and tell you thank you for putting the stuff that I put out. So many people have come up to me and said that it has helped them get through a hard time and that my vulnerability was such a positive thing to them. So at the end of the day no I am not embarrassed.

As much as everyone wishes that everyone had enough money to live the life that they dream of having the government raise minimum salaries is not as easy and going to be as fun as you think. You can't tell a business to give someone a mandatory $10,000 a year raise without price is going up or jobs being eliminated. But yet people are excited and believe that this is going to happen and that they're going to make more money and they do not understand how something like this is going to affect them, the economy, and their job. Why do we think that the government has any idea how to run a good business? How do we just tell businesses what they need to pay their employees and what each job is valued at? And why do we pretend when we say salary that it's kind of all the same. I guess we'll see if this actually happens or if it's taken back to court like they did when Obama tried this.

Everyday the universe or your spirit Angels give you a little tap telling you that this isn't right this isn't going to work or this is good. The question is are you listening to the Taps because if you aren't then you're going to get a push and if you don't listen to the push you will get a shove. And we never really want to get to the shove.

We have masculine energy and we have feminine energy when we are in a relationship. And we continually talk about the masculine energy and what is expected of a masculine man. However many women have attempted to take on both parts. As a single mom I know I had to do that to raise my kids in a house without a man. But we're able to lay out what we expect from a man but what are we supposed to expect from the woman?

The one thing everyone on this planet has in common is that we will all die. So that's why I'm saying you just need to do it now.

A lot of people say that they wish that they could go back and change something in their past, but I truly believe that our past made us who we are today. Whether you like who you are or not you are who you are because of your past and you are the only one writing your future. Everything else are just lessons that you're learning. You've been given a handbook you just need to pay attention.

I know we've talked about this before but Tick Tock was just reminding me how finding a new relationship is almost impossible today because of social media. Social media gives people access it's too easy to find the next branch.

It's very hard to not realize all the different things that you have to go through when you're grieving the end of a relationship. The biggest part is of course the relationship part and knowing that your present and your future are not going to be what you had imagined. But what I wasn't focusing on are all of the unanswered questions and things that we were dealing with while in a relationship / friendship. And how my empathy is still wanting to make sure that he is okay. And that me holding on to those final answers is probably not a good thing. So with this podcast I will release all of that energy to the universe so that I can move on and even though I do care I cannot wait to close that chapter so it's going to be closed without answers.

I kept asking myself how does your ex just move on to another person so fast. Move them into the house that you guys were living in and just act like everything is just fine. Well today on tick tock I came across a video that kind of resonated with me.

Today I heard on tick tock that once you get to sobriety the good thing about it is that you're going to live the best life you've ever had. Which means that leading up to alcoholism you were going through a lot of different things and you weren't able to deal with them on your own. So using alcohol to self medicate made you fall asleep believe things were better. But when you get to the other side you now have learned how to deal with life without using alcohol. And this is probably going to be the best life you've ever had. It's not easy but you're worth it.

I've walked in my neighborhood for over 30 years and have never had a time where I felt something was not right. But on Sunday I had that feeling and it's not a good feeling that women have to carry around all this caution because there are so many things out there that could be a threat to us. I would rather listen to my gut and be wrong than to ignore it and something bad happened.

So now there's a trend on Tick Tock with a bunch of women saying that you don't have to forgive. That it's okay that you like to carry around all the feelings and I would say the darkness I'm not sure what they say. We all know this is not a good way to live life. Yet here we are having people say, Young people, say it's okay if you're wronged you don't need to work on forgiveness.

This isn't the first time I got blamed for something I didn't do. And it will not be the last. But I'm okay if I have to be the bad guy it's not the first time and of course it's not going to be the last time. So blame away

I had so much fun last night going to movie night/comedy/karaoke! It's fun to be

Simply said you are responsible for you. And just because society says one thing doesn't mean you have to listen. But we're going to talk about stay-at-home moms and a couple other things I saw on tiktok.

Just because you forgive someone or something doesn't mean it's necessarily fixable.

For years I have been carrying around this wall! Something that protects your heart because we know when you give out your heart you have a very high potential of getting that heart hurt. But now I know I no longer need this wall. I know that I can get through anything that is handed to me so I no longer have to take the weight of this wall.

Today on Tick Tock videos a young woman who graduated from college with two degrees and a certificate was talking about how she was only being offered entry-level jobs.

There's a song on Tik Tok that is very popular right now. And of course Dax at the Grand Ole Opry talked about his struggle with addiction. This is very serious but it's even more serious when doctors decide to give you a pill without giving you other things to work on to make your life better. Or for people to think it's just easy enough to take a pill or take a shot to help them cope with life. That is not the healthy way to fight the darkness

I definitely have more work to do. It's not easy when someone you trusted lies and cheats to you the entire time. It really makes you rethink a lot of stuff.

So I woke up too early this morning and scroll through Tick Tock to try to find something interesting to talk about. Here's some random topics that really aren't that interesting but it's all I got. California $20 minimum wage, eclipse, discipline your kids, narcissist, and more.

2024 is going to be a great year but before it can be a great year we've got a lot of things that are going to happen. People with high energy have been working overtime and it's time for other people to find their energy to help make this place a better place. Evil is all around us and it's just going to keep coming but there are more good people than there are bad and we need to make that shown.

Time lets you reflect back on why you did certain things. And I know that after my second divorce I went a little crazy and needed to fix some things that I felt were not correct. However that behavior allowed me to justify other people's current behavior which of course is not good. So in this podcast we're going to talk about why I was able to allow bad behavior in a relationship and how I was able to justify it or convince myself that it was okay. And just to be clear it was not okay.

I was so excited to go tonight to our chamber and your meeting where Tiffany was our guest performer! I always wanted to be a mall singer and I idolized Debbie Gibson and Tiffany. Today was busy but it ended with a lot of fun.

Today on Tick Tock we were watching about why some people are never single and other people it takes forever to find someone.

Scrolling through Tick Tock today I came across a video of a woman finally speaking the words I say. Why do we not hate the person that we used to love?

The scrolling through Tick Tock and I came across a video that asked if I had ever just taken a look at myself and how I viewed myself. The answer to that was yes I have and so that is what is in this podcast. Plus the other tick tock this guy said if they're the person with all the friends then they have no friends well we'll talk about that too.

2024 has been very stressful and full of anxiety. I believe we are finally getting to the endpoint to switch our brains back to what are normal reality is supposed to be. We all all social creatures and it is time that we get back out and start living our life.

I cannot believe that it is almost april. Which is exciting because that means that tax season is almost over. And this one has been a very stressful one! You don't need anything extra in your life during tax season but here we are. However I am kicking ass.

Sometimes it's better just to have a fake boyfriend in your head. Because the real one seem to bring on real pain sometimes. But actually going back to try to find where the trauma started is always a good thing. And then tracing it through your entire life to find out how you're going to stop the trauma from repeating itself is also very important.

Today's episode is sponsored by ADD! Join me as we take a ride through what is going on after Kim's energy download yesterday. We are going to talk about the walls that we have built around us to keep us safe from love. And a lot of other things.

I woke up early again today and started scrolling tick tock. Tick Tock likes to repeatedly tell you things and so today Tick Tock was talking narcissist and crazy.

Well the day finally came or I went to Omaha and I got all my stuff from Ron's house. Now I have to figure out what to do with all the crap!

Well we are more than halfway through tax season and so here are just a couple tips for people that have not filed their taxes or waiting or have questions.

I don't care what anyone says the first person and the most important person that you should love is yourself. If you can't find love for yourself then more than likely the people you find to be in your life are only going to add to the destruction of you. And when good people come into your life you're going to push them away because it makes the darkness around you uncomfortable.