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Man In The Mirror

Man In The Mirror

By Kingdom Mayeza

Welcome to the Man In The Mirror podcast, a space where we reflect together on our different journey’s in life. I know you have read many books, listened to audio programs, attending conferences and seminars, participated in workshops; but sometimes this is just information which is difficult to convert into usable knowledge. Hence we go back deciphering the life lessons and practical advise from stick situations and material we’ve all been through; translating it into golden nuggets of wisdom.

Life cannot be all about action, we have to stop and think about how certain activities make us fe
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Episode 34 Motivated By Movement

Man In The Mirror Feb 12, 2019

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Challenges of Being a Black Female in Corporate

Challenges of Being a Black Female in Corporate

Introducing our first episode Man in the Mirror in the new format interviewing Ntswaki Gouwe, MBA. 

This episode will be discussing the challenges of being a black South African female in corporate.

Feb 16, 202133:54
54: Are You Coping?

54: Are You Coping?

Never in the history of the world has man been this connected and disconnected at the same time
Jul 30, 201918:41
53: What Could You Do?

53: What Could You Do?

All you know until now is based on conventional wisdom. It's time to go against all you know.
Jul 16, 201916:59
52: What Were You Taught?

52: What Were You Taught?

The only way you can move to the next level, is to unlearned what you already know, and learn what you need for that new level. But what did you know that brought you this far?
Jul 09, 201919:35
51: What Are You Afraid Of?

51: What Are You Afraid Of?

I use to have fear of rejection and worry about losing the people I love the most. What are you afraid of? Is an opportunity for you to look at what is holding you back from living to the max...
Jun 25, 201917:52
50: Are You Happy?

50: Are You Happy?

We have been conditioned to postpone our happiness, and now it's time to prioritize it.
Jun 18, 201909:40
49: What's Holding You?

49: What's Holding You?

The development of reason, single your focus and overcome your fears, you'll be on your way to reach your potential.
Jun 04, 201920:37
48: Take Back Your Power

48: Take Back Your Power

Who have you given your power to? What words are you using to describe your situation? What to do next? In this episode we explore these questions
May 28, 201920:12
47: Oh "Poor Me"

47: Oh "Poor Me"

When the odds are against you, do you feel self-pity or self-esteem? I use to wallow is self-pity until I learned the three steps I share in this episode.
May 21, 201922:44
46: What Paradigm (s) Control You?

46: What Paradigm (s) Control You?

You and I are controlled by something called a paradigm. Therefore 95% of our actions are really not ours until we decide consciously to fill our mind with new information. The paradigm that got you to where you are now will not take you to the next level. I see leaders and entrepreneurs wanting to move to the next level, but held back by their paradigms all the time. In this episode I share three strategies to reprogram your subconscious mind.
May 14, 201922:37
Episode 45: Mamma Made It

Episode 45: Mamma Made It

I am of the view that we appreciate our mother's but don't really understand the impact they have in our lives
May 07, 201921:41
Episode 44: Challenge of Choice

Episode 44: Challenge of Choice

Everyday millions of choices have to be made. And they create the path of life you walk on. How can you sharpen your choice making capability? Find three steps to do this in today's episode.
Apr 30, 201919:28
Episode 43: How Well Do You Know Yourself Part 2

Episode 43: How Well Do You Know Yourself Part 2

The world loves a winner, and to be one you have to know yourself.
Apr 23, 201917:12
Episode 42: How Well Do You Know Yourself?

Episode 42: How Well Do You Know Yourself?

You will not reach your full potential if you do not know yourself. This episode digs into the four elements of self-awareness and how you can enhance these to be the person you are meant to be.
Apr 16, 201927:53
Episode 41: Who's In Your Corner?

Episode 41: Who's In Your Corner?

I've always wondered, what makes successful people that way. After two decades of searching, I've found the answer. There are ingredients to the recipe and today I talk about one of the constituents. Tune in!
Apr 09, 201919:43
Episode 40: What Have You Denied?

Episode 40: What Have You Denied?

You may have been denied, love, an opportunity, a business deal, a new job. But what you were denied prepared you to take advantage of the current opportunities you have.
Apr 02, 201917:04
Episode 39: What Is My Biggest Problem?

Episode 39: What Is My Biggest Problem?

The problems you currently face, hold the opportunities you are looking for.
Mar 26, 201908:22
Episode 39: The Blame Game

Episode 39: The Blame Game

I've been asked to say something more on blame from last week's podcast. Tune in and indulge.
Mar 19, 201912:51
Episode 38 Own Up!

Episode 38 Own Up!

What do you do when the project fails? What do you do when your relationship hits turbulence?
Mar 12, 201910:37
Episode 37 Man To Man

Episode 37 Man To Man

Man have been socialized to believe that they have control over their partners. We see woman and child abuse at home. Women face it in the business world. But there are still man of integrity and high standards. As man what are doing to help our brothers, colleagues and friends?
Mar 05, 201915:03
Episode 36: Why Is This Happening?

Episode 36: Why Is This Happening?

I've always been fascinated by human behaviour and as I dig deep into research and observation, I am finding gems into why we do what we do. Why do colleagues have conflicts? Why do directors have unresolved disputes? Why do marriages end in divorce? Could it be something that can be stopped or changed? Let's reflect...
Feb 26, 201911:47
Episode 35 Parenting Style Becomes Leadership Style

Episode 35 Parenting Style Becomes Leadership Style

Whatever style our parents used in our upbringing, goes with us in life, work, and marriage. To have a better understanding of your life and why you do what you do. Take a look at your parent's style.
Feb 19, 201907:31
Episode 34 Motivated By Movement

Episode 34 Motivated By Movement

Are you competitive, energetic and charming? Red people are action people. Let's build
Feb 12, 201906:04
Episode 33 Are You Blue

Episode 33 Are You Blue

Blue people account for 15% of the population and all they really want is HARMONY. Are you one of them?
Jan 29, 201905:24
Episode 32 Where Are My Diamonds?

Episode 32 Where Are My Diamonds?

You stand right in the middle of your own acre of diamonds, can you see them?
Jan 15, 201903:39
Episode 31 What's My Attitude?

Episode 31 What's My Attitude?

One ingredient that the greats use is attitude. I have a personal connection with this ingredient because I was on the negative end while growing up and I learned the hard way. So in 2019, take a look at your attitude.
Jan 08, 201906:03
Episode 30 Am I Living or Surviving

Episode 30 Am I Living or Surviving

Almost the whole population is living in s vicious circle, save for a few. As we wrap up the year it's critical to take this question into stock, am I living?
Dec 04, 201802:01
Episode 29 What Am I Becoming Here?

Episode 29 What Am I Becoming Here?

Always take a look.
Nov 13, 201803:11
Episode 28 What Am I Feeding My Mind?

Episode 28 What Am I Feeding My Mind?

You and I are products of our thoughts.
Nov 06, 201803:01
Episode 27 How far have I stretched myself?

Episode 27 How far have I stretched myself?

The master teacher gave an important lesson of doing more than we are rewarded for, check yourself against this principle.
Oct 30, 201802:48
Episode 26 Where Is My Creativity

Episode 26 Where Is My Creativity

No one is more creative than another. We are all made in God's image, therefore we are creative
Oct 23, 201802:40
Episode 25 What IDEA?

Episode 25 What IDEA?

All we see that is man made was once an idea. So what idea are you working on?
Oct 09, 201802:59
Episode 24 What Does Your Space Say?

Episode 24 What Does Your Space Say?

We are constantly in one space or another and we never really observe what it says about us. Let's reflect on this.
Oct 02, 201802:36
Episode 23 Have You DECIDED To Be Happ?

Episode 23 Have You DECIDED To Be Happ?

Happiness is your birth right, so let's go within and bring it to the world
Sep 25, 201802:32
Episode 22 What Vision Do You Have For Your Life?

Episode 22 What Vision Do You Have For Your Life?

Are you using your visualization power to the full or squandering it?
Sep 18, 201801:59
Episode 21 What Am I Thinking?

Episode 21 What Am I Thinking?

Sometimes we drift into negative mode without being aware, it is important to have a from time to time. So ask the question.
Sep 11, 201802:44
Episode 20 How Do You Deal With Change?

Episode 20 How Do You Deal With Change?

They say change is the only constant but most of us find it difficult to change when necessary. So take a moment to explore your attitude towards change.
Aug 28, 201802:36
Episode 19 Do You Trust The Process?

Episode 19 Do You Trust The Process?

We all know that we want to do better and we have an idea of what we want. But we neglect the process and try to do things with our own might. So this is a reminder that there is a process and we have to trust it.
Aug 21, 201802:40
Episode 18 What's Season Is It?

Episode 18 What's Season Is It?

Just like our planet goes through different seasons, so do our lives. Sadly we usually like one season and have difficulty with the other three, and it's the same with our lives, we love it when its good. And there are those amongst us who like difficult times only. So let's take a closer look.
Aug 14, 201802:38
Episode 17 What Mental diet am I on?

Episode 17 What Mental diet am I on?

Our mind needs nourishing food just like our body. So check the food you feed the mind with because it will determine the results you get
Aug 07, 201803:11
Episode 16 Am I On Autopilot?

Episode 16 Am I On Autopilot?

Habits are like mathematical formulae that we depend on so we don't have to figure out a sum. Hence we have timetables memorized and in the same sense our habits are memorized. Dive in and check if you aren't on autopilot.
Jul 31, 201803:53
Episode 15 What Would They See?

Episode 15 What Would They See?

Do you remember a time when you were walking in your neighbourhood and saw a home with a well nurtured garden, what came to mind? And do you recall seeing a home with a neglected garden, what came to mine then? Our minds are like a garden they need nurturing. Tune in and let's reflect...
Jul 24, 201802:55
Episode 14 What Kind of Person

Episode 14 What Kind of Person

Whether we are still building our dreams or have accomplished them its important to take a look at the kind of person we are more than what we have achieved. Especially if we are successful. Tune in and lets reflect.
Jul 17, 201803:27
Episode 13 How Did I Get Over It?

Episode 13 How Did I Get Over It?

We all have times when we feel like we'll never make it. But we actually do make it. It's important to look to how we made it, to find our 'how to mechanism'. Lets ponder together as we move to the second half of the year we want to know what works for us.
Jul 10, 201803:01
Episode 12 If I Sold My Life Today...

Episode 12 If I Sold My Life Today...

How am I living my life is a question that comes across as simple, but we never really can provide the answer to it. And today we raise it in a new perspective so you can step aside and evaluate as a third party and provide the answer. It's time to reflect!
Jul 03, 201804:04
Episode 11 What if I must pay for your mistake?

Episode 11 What if I must pay for your mistake?

We sometimes find ourselves in a compromised position when we have to pay for a mistake we did not make. That is our focus today!!!
Jun 26, 201802:41
How Do I Handle Character Pressure?

How Do I Handle Character Pressure?

Character is who we are, and we are evaluated (not judged) by it. Am I a person of character who stands up for it, or am I a willy nilly and bend to please others at the expense of character? In a moment of pressure when I am put in a corner and can compromise a promise made in confidence the question is, 'what would a wise man/woman do?'
Jun 19, 201804:33
Character Counts

Character Counts

Companies are destroying their reputations because some of their leaders compromised their character. Companies are running out of money because some of their leaders compromised their values. It is always important to take a look at our character.
Jun 12, 201804:14
What Is Your Work Philosophy

What Is Your Work Philosophy

We lives in a society that values entertainment more than enrichment. Due to difficulty of living many have succumbed to a comfort zone. To impact society how do we help them if we are already successful? And if we are stuck how do we rise?
Jun 05, 201806:21
How Do You Handle Losing

How Do You Handle Losing

At one point or another in our lives we lose something or some. How we handle it says a lot about us and that is how others read us. Let us reflect on this as we all face these trials in our lives
May 29, 201806:35