Kingdom Sexuality
By Kingdom Sexuality
From interviews, to "sex-timonies", and everything in-between- this is the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
Kingdom SexualityMay 09, 2022
182: Super Mom vs The Mental Load
Ever feel like you're drowning trying to do it all? Drink enough water, get exercise, be a good wife and mother, and still get some sleep? Join the KS team as they unpack whether or not you have to try to get it all done!
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- HER TURN Sex Challenge: use the code HERTURNPOD to get it 50% off
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181: PATRON'S CHOICE! Healthy Marriage Habits
Whether we're aware of it or not, what we do forms us. For better or worse. So what habits are forming you? Tune in to hear the KS team share some healthy habits you can implement TODAY! Links from today’s episode: Practicing The Way Join Unite & Ignite
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180: Pregnancy & Postpartum Q&A!
After being freshly pregnant and now in the postpartum season Alana, and the KS team, answer YOUR questions on pregnancy and postpartum! Links from today’s episode:
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
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179: Unlocking God's Plan For Your Sexuality (with Purpose Podcast)
Get ready for a spicy conversation where Rachel & Zach interviewed the KS team about intimacy in marriage and what the word of God has to say about sex! Time to experience the fullness of God's design for marriage and intimacy!
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178: Ask A Pastor: with Ben Hilson
The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing pastor Ben Hilson in today's episode! We had compiled a list of questions you guys had sent us and we bombarded him with them all!
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177: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
Does your desire for sex happen suddenly, or does it take your body a bit of time to warm up to the idea? It turns out both are normal! Tune in to hear more!!
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176: PATRON'S CHOICE! Modesty After Marriage?
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Does modesty look difference once we're married? Do boundaries and rules we had while we were dating/engaged still stand? Tune in to find out!
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175: How To Have The Sex You Want
Is there a type of sex you'd like to try but you're not sure how to go about asking your spouse for it? Maybe you'd like to try something a bit more rough or passionate, or slow and sensual- what does that conversation look like?? Tune in to find out!
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174: Types Of Sex
Ever wondered what types of sex are out there? Slow sex, quickies, passionate sex, and more- the KS team chats through what each kind is and how to initiate that type of sex! Links from today’s episode: Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Rundown Scheduled vs Spontaneous Sex episode Intimacy Without Intercourse Foreplay Episode Awaken Love book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
173: Unscripted Q&A! Swallowing, Positions, Increasing Desire, & more!
Join the KS team as they answer questions rapid fire as they come in on Instagram! They cover topics like "how do i get my wife to swallow?", "how do i increase my desire for sex as a busy mom?", and more!
Links from today’s episode:
- Fellatio Episode
- Foreplay Episode
- Intimately Us app
- 31 Nights of Intimacy Ebook
- Awaken Love book
- The Penis Book
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172: PATRON'S CHOICE! Pubic hair: What To Do Down There?
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Ever wonder what should be done with your hair... down there?? Tune into this highly requested episode where the KS team chats through: what you can do with your pubic hair, do you have to do anything with it, and can going bare be linked to watching porn?
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171: How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex with Birds & Bees
Struggle to know how to have those conversations with your kiddos? The KS team got to sit down with Mary Flo and Megan, owners of the company Birds & Bees, which is an online course all about equipping you as a parent to tackle the talk of the birds and bees! If you have kiddos, you need to tune in!
Link from today's episode:
- Birds & Bees Course (KINGDOM20 for 20% off!)
- Guys Stuff book
- Care & Keeping of You book
- Birds-bees.com
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170: Have A Red Hot Valentine's Day
Ready to spice up your Valentine's Day?? We, the KS team, have just the thing to help! With the sex challenge beginning on Valentine's Day, our desire is to bring fun, exploration, and pleasure to new heights as you journey through these 14 days of turning up the heat!
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- Red Hot Valentine’s Sex Challenge: use code REDHOTPODCAST to get it 50% off!
- Got Questions BDSM Link
- Day 5 position
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169: Little Things That Are Big Things
There are times when our spouse does something small and simple and it means the WORLD to us. Likewise, sometimes little things can be a big thing in a negative way! Tune in as the KS team shares both sides AND some intimacy examples as well!
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168: PATRON'S CHOICE! Period Sex
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Join the KS team as they tackle a big topic: period sex. Do you have questions around the topic of sex while the woman is on her menstrual cycle? The team answers questions like: doesn't the Bible say period sex is bad? How do you keep things less messy? Are there risks to it?
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- GotQuestions .org link
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- Splash Blanket
- BeLoved Fertility (if you have questions for Tiera)
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167: Birth Control Chat with Tiera!
Buckle up for this incredibly insightful episode where Tiera takes the lead and gives us the run down of numerous birth control options! If you're in the process of deciding what's right for you- hopefully this will help!
*disclaimer: we are not medical professionals, you should consult your doctor for more information*
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- BeLoved Fertility (where you can contact Tiera with questions)
- TempDrop Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 11% off!
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- Daysy code DaysyUS+835 for $20 off!
- Take Charge of Your Fertility book
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166: Initiating 101
Struggle to initiate sex in your marriage? Or are you the spouse that is always initiating?? Tune in to hear Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about some practical ways you can learn to initiate and what ways women vs men prefer when it comes to this! Links from today's episode: Awaken Love The Flirtation Experiment Better Help: Counseling Get on the waitlist for February’s Unite & Ignite membership!!
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165: Finding Pleasure In Our Sexuality with Francie Winslow
You're not going to miss this incredible interview Alana and Tiera had with Francie Winslow. She get's vulnerable and shares her journey towards healing from purity culture, how husbands can help their wives desire intimacy, and how we can experience pleasure everywhere.
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164: Communication Reset!
Is it time to do a check-in on your communication? Wanting to take your communication to the next level? Tune into this episode and start the new year off with some killer skills in this area!
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2024 Marriage Resolution Guide
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163: Giving & Receiving
Merry Christmas from all of us on the Kingdom Sexuality team! Tune in as we chat all things giving and receiving! Are you a cheerful giver? Do you receive gifts well? Or compliments?? Listen to the episode to hear more!
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162: Meet Me Under The Mistletoe
Join the KS team as they chat all things making out. What if my spouse doesn't like making out? Is it possible for making out to not lead to sex? What if my spouse has bad oral hygiene? They tackle those questions and MORE!
Links from today's episode: Better HelpBirds & Bees code KINGDOM20 for 20% off! Truly Lip Salve!!! code KS15 for 15% off! Lip stuff Kyle mentioned from Sephora Lip stuff Kyle mentioned (but a gloss) from Sephora
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161: Have A Holly Jolly Sexmas
The KS team is so excited to bring you another sex challenge episode!! This is the 2nd Sexmas episode, but this one comes with an exciting resource and a special discount for you!! The 12 Days Of Sexmas: use the code HOLLY for 50% off!! (discount expires Dec 15)
Links from today's episode: 2022 Sex Challenge episode Intimately Us App
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160: PATRON'S CHOICE! Christmas Love Language Gift Guide
Huge THANK YOU to our incredible Patreon pals for choosing this weeks episode! Want to know more about Patreon and the perks?? Tap here! Have you ever thought about planning your spouse's Christmas gift around their love language?? Tune into this episode to hear some great ideas of how you could do this! Links mentioned it today's episode:
Every Love (code KS69 to get $30 off!)
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Coconu (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off)
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159: Let's Talk FOREPLAY
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Not sure what to do when it comes to foreplay? Wondering questions like: "What can/can't we do?" or "How long should we do foreplay for?" and "What do our spouses even want us to do??" Tune in and the KS team will answer those questions for you!
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- Oral sex episodes
- Anatomy episode
- Anal sex article
- Coconu Lubricant (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY gets you 15% off!)
- Sex Toy episode
- Keeping Score episode
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158: Kinks, Masturbation, Squirting, and more! Spicy Unscripted Q&A
The KS Team did something new this week- you might have seen it on Instagram! During the episode, the created an Instagram story asking for questions that they would be answering LIVE during the recording episode! Nothing pre-planned, they just answered whatever questions came at them... and they were spicy ones!
*the foreplay episode mentioned is going to be releasing next week!
Links from todays episode:
- Awaken Love
- Grief episode
- Intimacy and kids episode
- Birds and Bees Course (code KINGDOM20 gets your 20% off!)
- Good Pictures Bad Pictures
- The Penis Book
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157: What If I Don't Feel Attractive?
How do we navigate the seasons of our life when we're not feeling our best? Whether it's due to stress, weight gain, hair loss, or if you're in a time of postpartum healing- we all struggle with this at times. Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about ways to combat these feelings when they come! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of December is all about Sexual Intimacy! Don't wait!!
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156: Duty Sex vs Loving Sex with Ruth Buezis
You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana and Tiera did with author of Awaken Love, Ruth Beuzis! They tackle topics of duty sex, sex as a need vs want, and more!
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155: PATRON'S CHOICE! Lingerie & Boudoir Photography
Special thanks to today's podcast sponsor: Mentionables! Use the code KINGDOM20 to get 20% off!! Have questions around the topic of lingerie and boudoir photography? Prepare to have them answered in this hilarious and casual chat with Alana, Kyle, and Tiera!
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154: Is Prayer More Intimate Than Sex? with Aaron and Jennifer Smith
Keeping in with the Spiritual Intimacy theme, Alana had the pleasure of interviewing Aaron and Jennifer Smith! Authors of The Marriage Gift, Aaron and Jennifer chat about their journey of spiritual intimacy and prayer and how intimate but necessary it is.
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153: The Power of a Praying Couple
A successful marriage involves more than just two individuals; it’s a partnership with each other and with God. This partnership is fortified through prayer! So join Alana, Tiera, and Kyle as they discuss the importance of prayer in a Christian marriage!
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152: The Practical Side of Spiritual Intimacy
Attending church together is a priority for many couples, and is an important one. But how else can you up your spiritual intimacy? Join the KS Team as they dive into really practical ways that you can have more spiritual intimacy in your marriage!
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151: Spiritual Intimacy? What Even Is That??
Spiritual intimacy is one of the most important, yet least talked about, aspects of marital health! Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what spiritual intimacy is, what is a Christ-centered marriage, and what roadblocks try to keep couples from cultivating this in their marriage.
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150: PATRON'S CHOICE: Intimacy Through Grief
Trigger warning: the KS team talks about miscarriage during this episode and wanted to disclose that and send love to those who have experienced loss or those currently going through it.
Shout out to the patrons who chose this weeks episode! Want to become a patron and get all the sweet perks? Tap here! This episode is a tough one, but one that's been requested for a long time. Praying that it's helpful in whatever you've walked through, or can help in the future.
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149: Ask Us Anything: Candid Sex Q&A
You asked and they answered!! Alana, Tiera, and Kyle answer an assortment of questions sent in by YOU, their listeners and followers! You won't want to miss it!
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148: The INs & OUTs of Sex Toys
Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
Been itching to hear more of our thoughts on the topic of sex toys?? Then this is the episode for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the topic more in depth and build off of last weeks episode.
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147: DOs and DON'Ts of Sex Toys
Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
The KS Team is going through the Do's and Don'ts of Sex Toys in this part 1 of the 2 part series! The goal of this series is not to persuade you to use toys, or shame you out of using them, but rather to educate on both sides!
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146: PATRONS CHOICE! Flirting?? But we're married!
Flirting seems to be so important at the beginning of a relationship- pursuing one another, heightened excitement, and so much passion! But once we get married some of that starts to change, tune into the episode to hear why and how to get the fun and passion back! Links from today's episode: The Flirtation Experiment Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out!
145: A Gym Membership for Your Marriage!
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144: Your Assumptions About Us!
Want to get to know the KS Team better? They put a questions box over on Instagram asking "what are some things you assume about us, individually and as a team?". So in this hilarious episode Kyle's wife, Samantha, presents the assumptions to each team member and they share whether or not it's accurate or not! This episode is a hoot, so tune in!
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143: Painful Sex? Vaginismus? Interview with Jessica Seitz
Is pain during sex normal? What is vaginismus? How can husbands support their wives in this journey? Alana and Tiera chat with Jessica Seitz and they blast through those those questions and more in this incredible interview!
Jessica's Instagram: @painfree.intimacy
Jessica's website: painfreeintimacy.com
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142: PATRON'S CHOICE! Let's Talk About Sexting, Baby!
Shout out to our incredible Patrons who picked this weeks topic!! If you're interested in becoming a patron or learning more about Patreon go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality!
Ever wondered how to go about sending spicy text messages to your spouse?? Curious what to say, or if there's a secure place to even do that? Tune into the episode to find out!!
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141: PATRON'S CHOICE! Talk Dirty To Me
Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month!
As Christians we can sometimes find it difficult to navigate certain things in our marriage. We see things in the movies but wonder "is this okay for our marriage?". So if you've ever wondered that when it comes to "talking dirty" in the bedroom, you're going to want to tune into this episode!
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140: Keeping Score
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We all seem to do it sometimes... so let's talk about keeping score. Is there any benefit to this in a marriage? Is it a useful tool? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat all about it- tune in now!
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139: Spontaneous Sex VS Scheduled Sex
The great debate is finally happening. The Kingdom Sexuality Team finally discusses the pros and cons of scheduling sex vs keeping sex spontaneous! You won't want to miss it!!
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Episode 133: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids
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138: The Female Cycle & Pleasure
Ladies, do you notice your energy or mood change throughout your cycle? Did you know there are certain times in your cycle your body is more "ready" to be intimate?? Tune into this casual chat with Alana and Tiera as Tiera guides us through the female cycle and how it impacts pleasure! Links from today's episode: - Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book - Beloved Fertility use the code KSFOLLOWER to get $50 off any package! - TempDrop Fertility Tracker Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more? Come hang out with us!
137: God, Sex, & Your Marriage with Dr. Juli Slattery
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You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, there are common issues like a lack of intimacy and communication and that being "sexually active" isn't the same as being "sexually intimate." Juli explains how, to build intimacy, couples can talk openly and seek help if needed. And how, in a Christian marriage, it's about finding a balance of passion and pleasure, not just ticking off "marital duty" boxes. God cares about our sexual growth and maturity, focusing on respect, understanding, and having fun along the way! You won't want to miss this one!
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Juli Slattery's website: authenticintimacy.com
136: Creating a Radical Relationship with Kim and Darlene Unrau
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You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana did with Kim and Darlene Unrau. Combining all of the training these two have creates this incredible Jesus-loving, marriage-equipping, and very wise couple! So tune in and enjoy the wealth of knowledge that Kim and Darlene bring!
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Books mentioned on today's episode:
The 5 Love Needs of Men & Women
Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
135: A Clinical Psychologist Answers YOUR Questions! with Dr. Josh Kruse
Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! In this Dr. Josh Kruse, a Registered Psychologist at Dr. Josh Kruse & Associates Counselling & Consulting, and Pastor at Village Church (@thisisvillagechurch) in Surrey, Canada, answers all of these questions and more! Kyle and Alana bring the questions that YOU asked over on Instagram. Dr. Josh is a wealth of knowledge, you're not going to want to miss this one!! - What is counseling actually like? (5:30) - When to go to counseling? (8:00) - What if one spouse wants to go and the other refuses? (9:20) - What should/does premarital counseling look like? (14:00) - How to set up the wedding night for sexual success? (17:40) - What to do when one of the couple has previous sexual experience and the other doesn’t? How much to disclose to your spouse about your sexual past? (20:40) - If my marriage is in a good place, what purpose does it serve to see a counselor? (24:55) - How to rebuild connection when I feel like it’s gone? (28:40) - How to manage emotions and stay present during conflict/tough conversations? (31:15) - How to be a supportive wife when I feel like his work and projects take up all his time? (35:55) - How to get over resentment towards my spouse from unmet expectations? (38:35) - What to do when you feel like you can’t bounce back after an argument? Or when neither person will back down and it’s a stalemate? (40:45) - How to maintain the marriage when your spouse is battling depression? (45:00) - How to feel loved when my spouse won’t love me by my love language? (47:35) - What is the biggest difference you see between couples that are doing great vs those that are struggling? (51:15) - How to handle when one spouse wants something but the other doesn’t? (54:00) - How to manage when one spouse has a much higher sex drive than the other? Or when it seems like one spouse is apathetic towards sex? (58:55) - How can women turn their mind off and just enjoy sex? (1:02:25) - How to talk about past sexual trauma with my spouse? (1:06:25) Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Links from today’s episode: Dr. Josh Kruse: Website Instagram Podcast
134: Can You Affair-Proof Your Marriage? with Unrelenting Pursuit
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Unrelenting Pursuit
133: PATRON'S CHOICE: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids
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In this episode, Alana, Tiera, and Kyle explore ways to maintain intimacy when you have young kids. From feeling "touched out" to co-sleeping dilemmas, they've got you covered. Discover whether it's acceptable to have a romantic encounter while the little ones are in the room and learn how to spark desire even when you're utterly exhausted. They also tackle the awkward scenario of kids walking in at the wrong moment and how much PDA is acceptable around your kids! With practical advice like scheduling date nights, flirty texts, shared hobbies, and creative use of spaces, you'll find plenty of inspiration to keep the romance alive amidst the chaos of parenting.
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
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