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Kinky AF Podcast

By The Reverend
A show where we talk about Kinks, Fetishes and the lifestyle that goes along with it. Hosted by The Reverend!

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Season 4 Episode 10: Collaring Part 2!
Hello Kinksters! Way back in Season 1 The Reverend released Collaring Part 1 and then promptly forgot to make a part 2...  So in this episode we talk about what types of collars there are out there, what collaring means, when to collar and much more.  The Reverend also talks about what cause the gap in episodes as life has been getting in the way... Also, we apologize for a second ad space but if you enjoy the podcast you can help us out by sponsoring us through Anchor or our Patreon! Sponsored by:
January 10, 2022
Season 4 Episode 9: DomCon in the Covid Age!
Hello Kinksters! Before we begin, we wanted to give you an update on and their KickStarter! As of the recording of this episode they are over $49,000 toward their goal of $54,000! They only have a couple more days before their KickStarter closes! Lets help them get there or else KickStarter returns ALL of the money that they have raised and they don't get a penny! Very important to show support so we can finally have proper representation in the main stream media. Now onto the episode! The Reverend is joined by Vee as they discuss DomCon LA 2021. They discuss how they had been approached by friends of the podcast and got to know them and their Kink journey. We talk about how The Reverend has finally felt secure enough to come out and celebrate Their truth and announce that They are Non-Binary. They talk about the classes, performers, the inclusion, the love and the community that is DomCon. The Live Steam of the Opening Ceremonies for DomCon LA 2021 that was recorded and mentioned has been either deleted or set to subcribers of that chanel only. Sorry for that.  Links:
September 05, 2021
Season 4 Episode 8: Welcome to Kinkyville!
Hello Kinksters! This week on the podcast we have the hosts of the new show, Welcome to Kinkyville! They talk to us about how they are crowdfunding for this wonderful new project where the two animated hosts come in and save the day while educating the world about BDSM, Kink and much more!  The hosts are Creator extraordinaire, Emily Blake and Sex Educator, Javay De Bae (also known as the Millennial Sexpert). They chat with The Reverend about how they came into the Kink scene, how this project began and share some funny stories about the creative process that will hopefully give us a new Kinky Playground to explore (once they gather the funds and snag that production deal!). Links! Twitter: @TheEmilyBlake @JavaydaBAE  Trailer: Teaser voiced by TheReverend: Sponsors:
August 11, 2021
Season 4 Episode 7: Kinksters in the Wild
Hello Kinksters! We come to you today discussing BDSM and Kink in Public! While, yes, there is a time and place for your kinks... Maybe a public street with children isn't the best time or place??? Sponsored by:
July 28, 2021
Season 4 Episode 6: Mindfucking Mindfully
Hello Kinksters! This week The Reverend sits down again with Sir Ezra who talks about his new book, Mindfucking Mindfully!  From "This text is the first guide book for erotic mindfucking. In it you will learn about common practices, how to distinguish between ethical, consensual and erotic mindfucking and mindfucking that is not all three. You will also hear hot and informative minducking stories from Sir Ezra and many more in the BDSM Community." Order your copy from gumroad or Book release party May 21st: This episode is sponsored by:
May 08, 2021
Season 4 Episode 5: Daesha with UPRISE Welcome to the Dawn!
Hello Kinksters! This week The Reverend sits down with the lovely Daesha, the Ambassador Team Director for the upcoming three day event, UPRISE! Welcome to the Dawn. This three day event will be a celebration of People of Color in Leather & Kink featuring presenters from across the United States! 21 Session Presentations 25+ Presenters 26 Hours of Programming  Get your tickets now! Follow Daesha! Sponsored by:
May 02, 2021
Season 4 Episode 4: Getting Back To It!
Hello Kinksters! The Reverend and Vee are back with another AMAZING episode of the KinkyAFPodcast! The world is starting to reopen and we wanted to talk to you all about "Getting Back To It" or for those who are just joining the Kink Community, "Getting To It." We talk about Frenzy, Vetting, Burnout, and all sorts of things in this almost 2 hour episode (what can we say...? We missed you all.) Sponsored by: Send us questions! Send us Comments! Send us funny stories! Just come say hello! or @KinkyAFPodcast on social media
April 10, 2021
Driving Thoughts 2! What are you looking forward to?
The Reverend's schedule has sucked these last few weeks with the new job but didn't want to leave you hanging! So what are you looking forward to post covid? Play? Munches? Conventions? Play parties? Send us a tweet @KinkyAFPodcast or email
March 18, 2021
Season 4 Episode 3: Gags!
Hello Kinksters! We are back with another great episode where we focus on Gags! The types of gags, safety of gags, materials... Etc.  Also! Here is the link to the Save Sanctuary:  Make sure to check out Sponsored by:
February 27, 2021
Season 4 Episode 2: Putting in the Work!
What is a Dominant supposed to do? What is a submissive supposed to do? How does a dynamic work best?! What happens when a Dynamic role is just too much for a member of that dynamic? How do you navigate a relationship when the dynamic ends? Join the Reverend and Vee as they discuss the importance of Putting in the Work for your dynamic. Our home dungeon is in trouble! They have had to make changes to how they run events, classes, and sessions since COVID-19 forced massive shutdowns and although they are still providing amazing virtual services for our community the basic operational costs are still piling up! Please take a moment to check out their GoFundMe at and give what you can OR share with others. Every little bit helps keep this amazing community resource alive!
February 04, 2021
Season 4 Episode 1: Brats!
THE KINKY AF PODCAST IS BACK!!!!!! The Reverend and Vee kick off Season 4 with an episode on Ethical and Non-Ethical Bratting.  We all have met those fun loving Brats that are just fun and cheeky... We also have met those Brats that are PITA (Pain In The Ass) Brats... We talk about Navigating, Negotiating and Communicating through Brat scenes and Brat space. If you and yours have a different view or experience with Brats and would like to share, email us at
January 19, 2021
Season 4 Teaser!!!!
Hello Kinksters! We're coming back!!! 2020 was...... Shit. Lets hope that 2021 will be approached with a new positive and constructive energy.  Season 4 will have some changes like we will be having an episode every other week. Covid has changed the life of everyone including The Reverend. With a new career and only being home for 1 and 1/2 to 2 days a week, we are going to slow down the production to prevent burn out. We will see you soon!!!!
January 02, 2021
Season 3 Episode 5: Where is Your First Aid Kit?
Hello Kinksters! In this week's episode we talk about the importance of having a First Aid kit in your toy bag! We also suggest you go and take CPR and First Aid classes! As promised, here are some links that I have found due to Covid canceling most in person classes... Online Classes!!!!!! We also talked about our upcoming comedy show for Sanctuary LAX called The Comedy Dungeon! Tickets available here: Sponsored by:
August 08, 2020
Season 3 Episode 4: The Comedy Dungeon!
Hello Kinksters! We just wanted to come tell you about a new exciting project that we are doing called, "The Comedy Dungeon" The Reverend and House Algos were supposed to team up and do a comedy night at Sanctuary LAX back in April..... Fucking COVID... The Reverend has decided to do a Virtual Comedy Night instead!  Friday August 14th! Mark your calendars!!! If you are interested in performing contact us at, Stay tuned for more information about this show! Sponsored by:
July 11, 2020
Season 3 Episode 3: A Little Something Funny from Last Night's ChamPAIN Room
Hello Kinksters!  The Reverend was apart of ChamPAIN Room's first ever Online Party! There were still sexy performances, raffle prizes and a lot more. The Reverend submitted a comedy performance as the wonderful Miss Ana Algos from House Algos hosted! Follow House Algos on EventBrite for upcoming classes and parties: YouTube Link for The Reverend's Comedy Set: Sponsored by:
June 27, 2020
Season 3 Episode 2: Sub's Subtle Hints
Hello Kinksters! WE'RE BACK! Thank you for all your notes of encouragement and well wishes during the two weeks that we were dark. More details on all that to come. WE'RE BACK!e are focusing on Subtle hints... and how they don't work. The title is Sub's Subtle Hints but thats just because it made for a good title. WE ALL DO THIS SOMETIMES! Subtle hints, passive aggressive comments or actions, and plenty more. We talk about being mindful, being thankful and COMMUNICATING with your partner. The show that The Reverend references here is Lost Girl Season 2 Episode 3: Scream a Little Dream Sponsored by:
June 20, 2020
Season 3 Episode 1: The New and more!
Good afternoon Kinksters! Welcome to season 3!!!!!!! We are so excited about this new season, even though we do not know what to expect because of Covid.... This episode we talk about the new kinky social media outlet,  Not quite Fetlife, Facebook, instagram or Twitter.... Its its own thing and its easy to use. Yes, you will have to learn to use another media site but you'll get it super quick! We also talk about the Virtual Play Party happening Saturday May 30th at 8pm PST. This is a collaboration from,,,, and You must be a member of one of these sites to go!  Register now! Get your tickets! Sponsored by:
May 30, 2020
Season 2 Episode 36: Season 2 Wrap Up!
Kinksters,  It is with immense pride that we release the end of season 2. It has been a crazy two years with incredible memories, new friends, a ton of new knowledge, a collaring/proposal, a wedding, The Reverend becoming a covered Master and so much more. We discuss the memories, we bring back wonderful people from past interviews and we just take this moment to celebrate with you. Big thanks to everyone that dropped by to say hello! Master Kuldrin of Kuldrin's Krypt, Ms Monday Jones, Goddess Charlie Cake, Goddess Moon, Miss Cassie, Mistress Mia Darque, Shiny from and of course our one and only Vee! We encourage all of you isolating at home to raise a glass with us as we toast the end of Season 2 and the start of Season 3! Sponsored by:
May 16, 2020
Season 2 Episode 35: Quarantine Goggles!
Hello Kinksters! Welcome back to the Kinky AF Podcast! The Reverend is recovering well from breaking his toe is now off the pain meds, so its time for a new episode! This week we are talking about Quarantine Goggles! This is similar to Graduation Goggles where you may feel a false nostalgia and loss for people that you may not actually like. We have all been in isolation for about 90 days and haven't seen our Kinksters in a hot minute. We are aching to go out and play! So we need to look out for Frenzy and not just jump into scenes when the dungeons open. Remember to negotiate and remember that we haven't played in a while so we probably won't be the same bad ass Kinksters that can take 9 scenes in one night for a while. We also have a new sponsor! Use promo code, "KinkyAF" for 15% off your order! Sponsored by:
May 08, 2020
Sorry Kinksters, The Reverend broke his toe...
No episode this week kinksters :-( unfortunately the Reverend broke his toe and is on pain meds so he can't really think straight.
May 02, 2020
Season 2 Episode 34: Our New Weekly Zoom Munch!
Hello Kinksters! We are proud to say that our first Zoom Munch was a HUGE SUCCESS! That being said, we will go ahead and just make this a weekly thing for the next little while!  Join us every Wednesday at 6pm PST for some online Kinky Camaraderie!  Zoom room number: 433-688-0112 Sponsored by:
April 18, 2020
Season 2 Episode 33: Praise vs Criticism with Vee!
Hello Kinksters! We hope this finds you well and you are not going too crazy being stuck at home. This week we talk with Vee about the effects that Praise and Criticism have on people as well as Dynamics and how changing the way you say things will help improve your success! We use examples from the Netflix Original Series, 100 Humans.  *We do not speak for the show or are in anyway affiliated with Netflix. (Legal Jargon we need to add.... lol)* Sponsored by:
April 10, 2020
Season 2 Episode 32: Sir Ezra and Sanctuary's Kinky Online Classes!
Hello Kinksters! This is the audio of our first YouTube video call!  This Episode we talk with Sir Ezra of House Algos about how Sanctuary LAX is moving from in person classes to online classes!  The Coronavirus will not keep us Kinksters down!    April 11th will be a wonderful cluster of classes starting at 1pm PST going all the way until probably about 9pm! There will be breaks in between teachers. More information on the classes will be in the episode and the Eventbrite page.  I will post the link to the Eventbrite when it is available!   Sponsored by:
April 04, 2020
Season 2 Episode 31: Building your Dynamic and Protocol
Hello Kinksters! The Reverend Talks about building Dynamics and Protocols that will fit your new relationship as it develops. As always, Start Low and Go Slow when building your new Power Exchange Relationship. Communicate, be honest with yourself and make sure that things that you want are realistic and attainable. Stay safe out there Kinksters! If you are self Isolating, stay busy and pick up a hobby! Get that cleaning done that you've been putting off! Keep your normal schedule and we will get through this together! Sponsored by:
March 28, 2020
Season 2 Episode 30: Self Bondage
Hello Kinksters! With everyone being asked to self isolate and self quarantine, a lot of people have been saying that they will finally have time to do some self bondage! ***WAIT!!!*** The Reverend talks to you about the dangers of self bondage, and how to make this a little bit safer. Sponsored by:
March 21, 2020
Season 2 Episode 29: Kink and the Coronavirus
Hello Kinksters! The Reverend is here talking about how the Coronavirus (COVID-19) is affecting the Kink world and how to keep yourself safe. Clean your toys! Clean your play space! WASH YOUR DAMN HANDS!!!! :-) A lot of events and conventions are being cancelled or postponed this year, but if you decide to go out, practice some common sense! If you're sick, stay home! The Reverend personally thinks that we should avoid pick up play with new partners for the next little while.  Stay safe out there Kinksters!  Sponsored by: (Cancelled this month!)
March 13, 2020
Season 2 Episode 28: Negotiating Your Scenes!
Hello Kinksters! The Reverend is sick and raspy, so we apologize if the vocal quality is not the norm. :-( This week The Reverend is going to talk to you about Negotiating Your Scene!  We realize that we have talked about negotiating in almost every episode but we haven't had a full episode dedicated to it. We cover Safe Words/Gestures, Hard Limits and Soft Limits, Aftercare, the Medical, the Psychological... We tried to cover EVERYTHING! Let us know if we forgot anything! Sponsored by:
February 28, 2020
Season 2 Episode 27: Different Types of Love (Happy Valentine's Day)
Hello Kinksters! This week The Reverend does a quick note about different types of love. We talk briefly about toxic relationships and then The Reverend talks about how we should spread some love around because it could help someone more than you know. The Reverend ends the episode by asking, "My Kinky Congregation, will you be my Valentine?" Sponsored by:
February 14, 2020
Season 2 Episode 26: Taking Care of Your Mental Health
Hello Kinksters! This week on the podcast we have Vee come into the studio as we talk about taking care of your mental health and why its so important. We also talk about ALL the different resources that are available to ALL of us regarding our mental health. Here are the resources that we talked about over this episode: Suicide Prevention Lifeline & Veterans Crisis Hotline: 1-800-273-8255 available for phone call or chat on desktop or mobile devices Remember, we love you all and want nothing but the best for you. If you ever feel like you need some help, reach out! What would the world be like without you? Also! #SelfCare challenge! Post photos of you doing your self care! Self Care is SEXY!!! Sponsored by:
February 08, 2020
Season 2 Episode 25: AVN, Positive Conduits and DROP!
Hello Kinksters! The Reverend is back from another Kinky Adventure! We went to AVN again this year and hung out with all the Kinky people of The LAIR. We also met up with Building Blocks group at Hamburger Mary's. Such an amazing time! The Reverend also talks about being a Positive Conduit in the scene and in general as well as the dreaded DROP that comes from scenes, events and just... life. Sponsored by:
January 31, 2020
A quick note from AVN 2020!
WiFi here is..... Shit 🥴 So this is just a quick note with some shenanigans from housemate, Star!
January 24, 2020
Season 2 Episode 24: New Educational Series at Sanctuary LAX and more!
Hello Kinksters! This week The Reverend sits down with House Algos (Sir Ezra and Miss Ana) to talk about an exciting new 201 and 301 Edu-Kink-tional series at Sanctuary LAX simply called, "The Course". The Course will have different teachers from all walks of life in our scene talking on a number of topics! Don't miss out on these new classes that are happening on the 1st, 3rd and 5th Sunday of the month! We also talk with Sir Ezra and Miss Ana about the ChamPAIN Room and Club Inferno as well as chat with Miss Ana (Your 2020 Ms Sanctuary Leather) about her plans in her title year.  Sponsored by: Links to the events talked about on the show! The Course! -Sunday 1/19/2020 The Art of Negotiation by Sir Ezra: -Sunday 2/2/2020 Subspace Theory with Sir Nick -Sunday 2/16/2020 Defining Dynamics with Master Gabriel House Algos Flyers! ChamPAIN Room! -Saturday 2/29/2020 Neon Mardi Gras: -Friday 5/29/2020 -Saturday 8/29/2020 -Saturday 10/24/2020 Club Inferno! -Saturday 4/11/2020 -Friday 6/5/2020 -Saturday 9/12/2020 -Saturday 10/10/2020
January 17, 2020
Season 2 Episode 23: Effective Leadership
Hello Kinksters! Welcome to the first episode of 2020! This episode, The Reverend, discusses effective leadership inside and out of dynamic. The Reverend talks about the quickest way to be a leader instead of a "Boss" as well as bringing back, "Please" and "Thank you". Sponsored by:
January 10, 2020
Season 2 Episode 22: Kink and the Holidays
Hello Kinksters! This episode of the Podcast is all about Kink and the holidays! How do we navigate dynamic when family is around? Do we suspend the dynamic while family is around? Do we switch honorifics around? Sponsored by:
December 28, 2019
Season 2 Episode 21: "Proper Poly"
Hello Kinksters! "Proper Poly" ????  This episode is about how to make poly work for you and your relationships. To make it "Proper" for you. This is not The Reverend teaching the, "One Twue way" to do it lol The Reverend talks about how to dip your toe into poly after you and your primary partner have talked and made sure your relationship is solid enough to start adding on different relationships. Sponsored by:
December 07, 2019
Season 2 Episode 20: ChamPAIN Room
Hello Kinksters! We hope you all had a wonderful thanksgiving and a wonderful start to your holiday season! This episode we will be talking about a charity strip club style event called, ChamPAIN Room! This event has wonderful people of all Genders, Identities and walks of life get up on that stage and strut their stuff for a charity of their choosing! As we promised, here are all the links to get in touch with House Algos and our Etsy page! Sponsored by:
December 01, 2019
Season 2 Episode 19: The Bastille Toys!
Hello Kinksters! This week we have a couple toys sent to us for review from our friends at The Bastille! Check out their store and use KinkyAF to get 10% off by December 31st. Sponsored by:
November 16, 2019
Season 2 Episode 18: A Message to the Subs
Hello Kinksters! This week's episode is a follow up with last week's, "A Message to the Dominants" as this week we talk to the bottoms, submissives, slaves, littles.... etc.  The Reverend hands the mic over to Vee as she uses her expertise as both a psych professional and a collared slave to talk to you all about how to communicate your needs and that you are not any less of a S type for It! Sponsored by: KinkyAFStore!!!!
November 08, 2019
Season 2 Episode 17: A Message to Dominants
Happy Friday Kinksters! This week on the podcast we talk to Dominants about the fear of looking, "Less Dominant" because of things like self care and/or wanting to indulge in different things that aren't traditionally, "Dominant Behavior" The Reverend discusses that you are not a dominant because you never get sick or wear certain types of clothing... You are a Dominant because, you are! You've been trained, it is your headspace, it is your dynamic....  Sponsored by:
November 02, 2019
Season 2 Episode 16:'s The Tenuto!
Hello Kinksters!  The Reverend had the pleasure (pun intended) to be able to take the, not yet released, Tenuto for a spin!  The Tenuto is by and is a bluetooth enabled male vibrator that wraps around the penis, scrotum and also has a wonderful vibrator snug up against the paranium. These three areas at the same time make for an amazing session with a partner or for solo play. Check out the episode for more information. Sponsored by:
October 26, 2019
Season 2 Episode 15: How to come back after a breakup.
Good Afternoon Kinksters! WE'RE BACK!!! Thank you for all your patience as we were getting ready for the wedding! We are back and in full swing! This week, The Reverend, was inspired by a couple friends to have an episode all about how to rejoin the community after a breakup. There will be a lot of soul searching and time to heal, but we (The Community) will be here when you're ready! Sponsored by:
October 18, 2019
Hello and we miss you from Kauai
Will be back this Friday!
October 13, 2019
Season 2 Episode 14: Cathartic Scenes
Hello Kinksters! As the wedding is coming up, The Reverend apologizes for the inconsistent posting of the podcast. Things will be better in October once he comes back from the Honeymoon! This episode is all about Cathartic Scenes! This is not a 101 style of play and should only be performed by an experienced top who has negotiated the scene. A cathartic scene can happen unintentionally too and if this happens, we hope this episode helps navigate the scene in a healthy way. :-) Sponsored by:
September 13, 2019
Season 2 Episode 13:
Happy Friday Kinksters! This week we review Sassamon Leather out of New England! Even before we put out the net to vendors about donating to the Community Fund, Sassamon Leather messaged us to see if we wanted them to send us a flogger for auction. The product was beautiful when it arrived.  Check out a picture of the flogger here on our Instagram Page! A giant thank you to Sassamon Leather for their donation and for being an all around wonderful person to talk to! Sponsored by: Sanctuary Marketplace!
August 30, 2019
Season 2 Episode 12: Torture Garden LA!
Hello Kinksters! Sorry for the tardiness but this weekend has been JAM PACKED with stuff that we have plenty of material for... Equus, a Leather Title Judge Bootcamp AND we got together with Mistress Cyan and Paul Faust to talk about the upcoming Torture Garden Los Angeles! Sponsored by:
August 13, 2019
Postponed! Talk to you soon!
As I said in the note, so many amazing things are happening that I hope get to focus on the podcast and community more but I have to get through these changes first... Love you all!
August 09, 2019
Season 2 Episode 11: Community Fund Auction and Finding Your People
Hello Kinksters! Welcome to another amazing episode of the Kinky AF Podcast. We discuss the AMAZING RESPONSE to the Auction and Raffle for the Community Fund as well as the importance to finding your community and your people! Sponsored by:
August 02, 2019
Season 2 Episode 10:
Happy Friday Kinksters! This week is the long awaited full review of Kink Crate is a monthly subscription where they send you a box full of kinky toys that you get to explore with your partner. This is a highly recommended product for people looking to spice up their sex lives or just starting out in the Kinky Lifestyle. Sponsored by:
July 26, 2019
Season 2 Episode 9: Soft Leather Club
Hello Kinksters! Just a reminder that our Community Fund Auction and Raffle at Gentlemen In Charge is NEXT WEEK!!!! Help us raise funds for a great cause! Cant be there? Join our Patreon for Kinky AF Swag and member only posts! This week we are covering our time at Soft Leather Club here in down town Los Angeles. What's Soft Leather Club? Glad you asked! Soft Leather Club was a fun Dance/Night Club that featured a Goth/Industrial/BDSM/Fetish dress code as well as wonderful tasters from professional Kinksters! Sponsored by:
July 19, 2019
Season 2 Episode 8: Primal Play and Packs!
Hello Kinksters!  This week The Reverend gets to learn about Primal Play from a new Primal Pack here in the Inland Empire. We are joined by Alpha Wolf BardaWulf765,  Omega Wolf Shadow and returning guest MzHyde! We talk about Primal Play and how it is different than BDSM play.  We also announce our upcoming KinkyAF Community Fund Auction at this month's GIC! Sponsored by:
July 12, 2019
Driving thoughts: Are you, "Living The Scene?"
Reverend had some random thoughts as he was driving to work today and listening to, The Loving Dominant.
July 11, 2019
Happy Fourth of July!!!
Just a quick note telling you all to be safe and have a wonderful fourth of July! Be safe out there Kinksters!
July 04, 2019
Season 2 Episode 7: The Vice from Locked In Lust!
Hello Kinksters! This week the Reverend does our very first product review! We have none other than The Vice from The Reverend goes over the company, the product, the assortment other products and services offered and much more! We also announce our Community Fund Auction that will be held at Gentlemen In Charge on July 26th! Mark your calendars! Sponsored by:
June 28, 2019
Season 2 Episode 6: The Ultimate Guide to Kink Edited by Tristan Taormino!
Hello Kinksters!  Its finally here! The very first Kinky AF Book Review!!!!  We asked you to vote on Twitter and you wanted The Ultimate Guide to Kink! This was an incredible book that talked about a large range of topics from introduction all the way to taboo, mind fucks and fisting! This book is a compilation of many different writers, educators and speakers in the BDSM, Leather and Fetish scenes from all over the United States.  We highly recommend this book and would like to remind you that it is available in paperback, ebook and audio versions! Sponsored by: Support the Podcast!
June 21, 2019
Season 2 Episode 5: LA Pride 2019!
Hello Kinksters! The Reverend is finally feeling better and was happy to be able to get to LA Pride this year. Especially because we went to Erotic City! "Our little slice of Kinky Heaven inside of LA Pride." The Reverend talks about Erotic City, The Tom of Finland Foundation, the performances and much much more!
June 14, 2019
Season 2 Episode 4: Imposter Syndrome and other BS!
Hello Kinksters! This week The Reverend and Vee talk about something that seems to have been in the air for a couple weeks... Imposter Syndrome and other silly stuff that gets into ones head to spread doubt. We talk about how to ride the wave of doubt and get back to the truth. Your truth! We discuss techniques such as mimicking the dark thought you just had with a silly voice... Sounds strange but it works... Trust The Reverend :-) We also announce the fact that starting this month we will be doing a book review as well as a product review! In two weeks we review The Ultimate Guide to Kink. The last week of the month we will have our first product review with Locked in Lust's, The Vice! Sponsored by:
June 08, 2019
Season 2 Episode 3: Switching!
Hello Kinksters! The Reverend is still not feeling well but he wanted to make sure he put out an episode this week. So please excuse the raspy voice!  This week The Reverend sits down with Vee and PinkyPunk to discuss being a switch! Why we do it, what we get out of it, and so much more! Check out Pinky Punk's Misfits Munch here in the Inland Empire, Ca! Sponsored by:
May 31, 2019
Season 2 Episode 2: Behavior Modification 2 - Shit from days gone by...
Hello Kinksters! The Reverend is out with Bronchitis and that means he has unleashed the Vee!  Vee sits down with you today for Season 2 Episode 2: Behavior Modification 2 - Shit from days gone by! There are a lot of 2s in that title and we didn't even mean to do it too lol. Vee talks about what to do if your dynamic has hit a lull and how to bring that spark back and so much more! Vee is an accomplished professional in the field of Applied Behavior Analysis and brings her expertise to the Kink world with amazing results. Check out Season 1 Episode 9: Behavior Modification with V for more on this topic! Sponsored by:
May 24, 2019
Season 2 Episode 1: DomCon 2019 and SO MUCH MORE!!!
Hello Kinksters! WE MADE IT!!!!!!! Season 2! YAY!!!!! We went to DomCon 2019 and expeirienced everything there is to see! The sights, sounds, classes, performances, after party.... So much more including receiving my Cover at the Opening Ceremonies. Sponsored by:
May 18, 2019
Episode 49 Season 1 wrap up
The Reverend is in a place with inferior wifi so he sits down without his fancy editing software and just talks to us about how proud he is that season 1 is finished and looking towards the future to season 2 and beyond. He also apologizes for his lack of words but during the opening ceremonies of DomConLA he was presented with his Master's Cover by his long time friend and Mentor Master Gabriel. Surrounded by the friends and family of DomCon and the stage filled with House RavynBlood and Mistress Cyan, The Reverend, was and continues to be..... speechless.
May 11, 2019
Bonus: Ms Monday Jones!
So... As soon as we stopped the recording of the episode we found out that we wanted to talk about a couple more things! Oops... I attempted to edit it all together but, alas, I could not.  So here is the VERY FIRST BONUS EPISODE of the Kinky AF Podcast, Bonus: Ms Monday Jones!
May 03, 2019
Episode 48: Ms Monday Jones!
Happy Friday Kinksters! This week on the podcast we sit down via video chat and talk with the AMAZING Monday Jones! Ultra Runner, Fetishist, Model, and Shaman-atrix? Find out what that is and a lot more about the incredible Ms Monday Jones! Sponsored by:
May 03, 2019
Episode 47: What if I'm new!?
Hey Kinksters!  Thank you for spending another Friday with us here at the Kinky AF Podcast! We have been getting a lot of questions and concerns from new people in the scene lately and even though we have talked a lot about how to get started as a newbie in past episodes we have never had a full episode dedicated to just that. Until now... :-) Sponsored by:
April 26, 2019
Episode 46: Funny Stories from Season 1!
Hello Kinksters! This week on the podcast we tell you some funny stories from Season 1 instead of a traditional blooper reel... We simply do not have the space to hold bloopers on our computer.  If someone out there wants to sponsor us with a external hard drive, we wouldn't say no lol. Please enjoy the following funny/awkward/weird stories from Season 1! Sponsored by:
April 19, 2019
Episode 45: Thank you and More to Come!
Hello Kinksters! This is going to be a short thank you episode due to The Reverend feeling a little under the weather still. Something is going around... Take care of yourselves... We here at the Podcast did find out AMAZING NEWS though!!!! The Reverend was speechless and a little teary eyed when he found out!  Sponsored by:
April 12, 2019
Episode 44: Q & A Part 3!
Hello Kinksters! You have been sending in your questions and its time to answer them with your guest host, V!!! Sponsored by:
April 05, 2019
Episode 43: Balancing Life and Lifestyle!
Good day Kinksters! This week on the podcast I bring in my girl V to represent the s-type role in balancing life and lifestyle. We talk about how Kink and Dynamics are not to fix your broken life and how to create your own balance with work, family, daily chores, Kink and so much more! Sponsored by:
March 29, 2019
Episode 42: NoGrey App with AfFlux!
Hello Kinksters! This week we travelled all the way to Melbourne Australia!...... We wish! We did, however, did the next best thing! We got on a video conference with one of the founders of a brand new Kink app, NoGrey! This is a social media app that focuses on negotiating a scene! It also has the community aspect of uploading pictures and adding status updates. So to quote The Reverend in this episode, "This app is like if Fetlife, Facebook and Instagram came together and made an illegitimate child called NoGrey and that app is starting to show them all up." Check out the episode and then check them out at  Sponsored by:
March 22, 2019
Episode 41: Tease and Denial
Hello Kinksters! This week The Reverend talks to you about tease and denial! We talk about the different ways it is done, how it is beneficial as well as detrimental, depending on how you do it. We bring up ways to negotiate, how to know if your version of tease and denial is even on the same page as your partners and so much more! Join us on our Fetlife group! KinkyAFPodcast! Sponsored by:
March 15, 2019
Episode 40: BDSM and Disability - Adjusting your Kink to include EVERYONE
Happy Friday Kinksters! In this week's Episode of the Podcast we talk about Kinksters with new or preexisting disabilities. We talk about owning and celebrating who you are as well as trying to help fight Disability "Blindness". We also walk through different examples of how to change your dynamic or play around new limitations and what steps you should add to your negotiation. Sponsored by:
March 08, 2019
Episode 39: Mz Hyde and the Inland Empire TNG "The Next Generation"
Hello Kinksters! This episode we sit down with, Mz Hyde, the new leader of Inland Empire TNG "The Next Generation" We discuss the importance of a TNG group as well as their plans for the next year! Sponsored by: 
March 01, 2019
Episode 38: Ms Madyson DeLaRough Mistress of Ceremonies for DomCon LA 2019
Hello Kinksters! Got a short one, but a great one for you today. We got together with Ms Madyson DeLaRough who was on Episode 36: FemDom Events! Shortly after that episode was recorded, Ms Madyson was named one of three of your Mistresses of Ceremonies of DomCon 2019! She explains what goes into being a Mistress of Ceremony as well as reveal the brand new all inclusive Non Binary MX Transfolks Social! Sponsored by:
February 22, 2019
Episode 37: Club F.U.K. Females United in Kink!
Last week, The Reverend, caught up with the wonderful Ladies of Club FUK for their two year anniversary of running the event. We talk about what Club FUK is and what you can expect as well as how Club FUK turned into the SMASHING play party it is today. Thank you Goddess Moon, Miss Cassie (your 2019 Ms Sanctuary Leather) and Mistress Mea! Sponsored by:
February 17, 2019
Podcast dropping tomorrow due to Valentine's day!
We hope you had a wonderful Valentine's day. The Reverend sure did. 😉 Catch you tomorrow!
February 16, 2019
Episode 36: FemDom Events!
While The Reverend was in Las Vegas for AVN, he popped out of The Lair and joined the Ladies of FemDom Events before their intimate private party. I sat down with the event's founder, Madam Navia O'Kink, to get the history of the event as well as the event's structure. I was also able to sit down with the wonderful Dommes of the night Miss Madyson DeLa Rough, Mistress Mia Darque, Goddess VLou and Lady Khiya! Sponsored by:
February 09, 2019
WHOOPS!!!!! My Bad....
Hey Kinksters! Its been that kind of week for The Reverend and he accidentally uploaded the unedited version of the podcast with the *Tap Tap*s and the "Let me do that again"s..... For the six people who listened before we discovered the error... Our bad! The Reverend will be flogged for his mistake.... Anyway! Have a fantastic weekend!
February 03, 2019
Episode 35: AVN P. 2!
The Reverend is back from AVN and he got his voice back! Apparently he packed it in the wrong suit case...  This week we recap AVN with Part 2! Featuring Natalie Mars, Goddess Lilith, Tawan Leather, Geeky and Kinky Pins, Greg Wolf and more! Sponsored by:
February 03, 2019
Episode 34: AVN Part 1
This week The Reverend is in Las Vegas for the AVN Expo! We have so much content going on right now we are splitting this episode into two parts. We run into old friends Sexy Raven Rae, Justin Sayne Leather, Deviant Leather, Ms Lola Smiles with Sub Sensuals and our new friends Building Blocks! Building Blocks is Las Vegas's educational group that hosts classes a BDSM Library and much more... If you are in Vegas for AVN, we'll see you tonight in Hard Rock Hotel's Festival hall at 10pm for the Fetish After Party. If you aren't, stay tuned for AVN Part 2! Sponsored by: Mistress Cyan and Sanctuary LAX
January 25, 2019
Episode 33: Master Gabriel and The Hall of Kink!
This week The Reverend sits down with Master Gabriel, Head of House RavynBlood, to talk about their new project called The Hall of Kink! This will be an immersive museum style piece going through the History of Kink from the ancient Sumerians, all the way to current day. We will also be showing off different items of interest as well as revealing The Wall of Remembrance. We also give a big shout out to the Inland Empire Leather Ambassador for having us out last week to their cigar social and leather night at the Menagerie in Riverside. An amazing event... If you weren't there, you MISSED OUT! Catch the next one February 10th at 8pm! Sponsored by:
January 18, 2019
Episode 32: Pushing Limits
This week on the KinkyAFPodcast we talk about pushing limits. We talk about the positive and negative ways to push limits, how to start walking through limits with your partner, how to deal with aftermath and finally when you should stop trying to push that limit. Sponsored by:
January 11, 2019
The Reverend is calling out Sick
Sorry Kinksters but The Reverend has been slammed with the Flu and needs to bow out of this week's episode. I hope you have a wonderful weekend and The Reverend shall return next week! ❤️
January 04, 2019
Episode 31: 2018 Review, Special Thanks and Happy New Year!
The Reverend sits down to say thank you to the listeners and sponsors as he reviews 2018 and all the wonderful shenanigans this year has brought.
December 28, 2018
Episode 30: Goddess Charlie Cake and Goddess Nova
The stars aligned this week as we were able to both Goddess Charlie Cake and Goddess Nova all the way from Phoenix AZ to talk about their story; their dynamic together; The Den of Indomitus and much more! Sponsored by:
December 21, 2018
Episode 29: Goddess V and Pinkie Present new Events in the I.E. California!
This week we sat down with Goddess V from IE Leather Ambassador and R.O.P.E.S. and Pinkie from the I.E. Misfits Munch to talk about new and exciting events coming to the Inland Empire California! Sponsored by:
December 14, 2018
Episode 28: Question and Answer Part 2!
Happy Holidays to everyone! We just noticed that we have been doing this now for a little over 6 months! OH MY GOD!!!! Half way through Season 1!!!!!!!! Over the past few months you have been sending in questions over Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Fetlife, youtube and our email and it is time to answer them on the air with special guest host, V! Sponsored by:
December 07, 2018
Episode 27: Protocol and Gentlemen In Charge
Welcome back to another AMAZING episode of the Kinky AF Podcast! This week we are in the studio again with my girl V! We talk about building protocol as well as talk about Gentlemen In Charge's 5 year anniversary happening TONIGHT at Sanctuary LAX! Sponsored by:
November 30, 2018
Episode 26: Kink Talk hosted by Pride Alliant and TheTSpot!
Its finally here! A couple months ago The Reverend had the immense pleasure of traveling down to San Diego to be apart of Kink Talk hosted by Pride Alliant and the TheTSpot! We talk about a variety of important topics such as fighting the stigma brought on with Mental Health issues as well as finding a trusted mental health provider who is knowledgeable about the Kink, LGBTQ+, Leather, Poly and other Alternative lifestyles. Kinky AF Podcast is sponsored by:
November 23, 2018
Happy Thanksgiving!
From all of us at the KINKYAFPODCAST we are wishing you and yours a wonderful Thanksgiving with friends and family.
November 22, 2018
Technical difficulties again...
Sorry about this guy's but we are having some technical difficulties this week on the KinkyAFPodcast. We hope to get this fixed as soon as possible and get it posted hopefully tonight.
November 16, 2018
Episode 25: Taking Care of Yourself and Event Wrap Ups!
This week The Reverend.... is Sick! After a busy October with Folsom, DomCon, Marketplace and so much more.... The Reverend is feeling sick and bleh. What a more appropriate time to talk about the importance of taking care of yourself than now? Sponsored by:
November 09, 2018
Episode 24: Sanctuary Marketplace and Mistress Cyan's Thanksgiving Slave Auction
This week, the we talk about TOMORROW'S Sanctuary Marketplace and Mistress Cyan's Thanksgiving Slave Auction! Don't miss out on tomorrow's (November 3rd 2018) Sanctuary Marketplace and Mistress Cyan's Thanksgiving Slave Auction! Sponsored by:
November 02, 2018
Episode 23: The Dreaded Drop and what to do about it!
This week The Reverend brings back, by popular demand, the one and only V! They sit and talk shop about Drop. Convention Drop, Event Drop, Sub Drop, Top Drop or what ever you want to call it. Sponsored by:
October 26, 2018
Episode 22: DomCon New Orleans!!!!
We had so much fun at DomCon NOLA 2018... Seeing old friends, making new friends, classes, vendors, Play Parties, the Second Line Parade sponsored by FetPros, Goddess Phoenix and Simone Justice and MUCH MORE!!! Sponsored by:
October 19, 2018
Episode 21: Folsom Street Fair 2018
This week on our tour we found ourselves in San Francisco for the 2018 Folsom Street Fair. We had a blast walking around taking in the sights and meeting our new friends at the San Francisco Aids Foundation, MXD Magazine, The Ask First Campaign, Monterey Stay and Play, Eagle Plaza and more! Sponsored by:
October 12, 2018
Technical difficulties with Episode 21 😥
We are on tour here in New Orleans and unfortunately the Reverend cannot find a good Wi-Fi signal. We're going to try to upload this again this afternoon but please be patient and we will talk to you soon!
October 05, 2018
Episode 20: Getting Ready for Folsom and DomCon New Orleans 2018!
Hello Kinksters! Just a short episode this week because we are getting ready to be on the road to Folsom Street Fair and then DomCon New Orleans 2018! The Reverend completely derps out and shows just how excited he is about the upcoming week by sharing some of the upcoming plans and events.
September 28, 2018
Episode 19: Madame Margherite and her Elite Pets, Club Submit and DomCon New Orleans!
This week we had the absolute pleasure to sit down with the Pet Play Monarch, Madame Margherite! We sit down during Club Submit and chat about the club night as well as get into Pet Play with her Elite Pets! We finish the episode about talking about DomCon New Orleans and some of Madame Margherite's patented #DommeJokes Sponsored by: Enter into our monthly giveaway!
September 21, 2018
Episode 18:
Happy Friday Kinksters! In this episode we sit down with Shiny from and talk shop about his site and the new adventures coming down the pipeline! We also announce our new monthly give away when you pledge $5 or more to our Patreon Sponsored by: Special thanks to Sanctuary LAX for allowing us to use their space for the interview!
September 14, 2018
Episode 17: All Leather Weekend!
We had so much fun going out and learning a bit more about the Leather lifestyle this past weekend starting with the Mister and Miss Sanctuary Leather 2018 Mingle and BDSM Sampler event and ending with the Inland Empire Leather Ambassador Competition! We pull Pinky, a judge and former IE Leather Ambassador, to clear up some questions we had from the competition and SO MUCH MORE! This Episode is sponsored by:
September 07, 2018
Episode 16: Service
Inspired by the hard working volunteers from the Inland Empire California, The Reverend sits down to talk about Service. How to serve and receive service with grace! Episode Sponsored by: (Promo code: KinkyAsFuck for 25% off)
August 31, 2018
Episode 15: Mistress Cyan
This week I sat down with the face of DomCon LA and NOLA, the Head Mistress of Sanctuary LAX and all around amazing person: Mistress Cyan! We talk about the upcoming DomCon NOLA, the Slave Auctions at Sanctuary LAX and much more!
August 24, 2018
Episode 14: Question and Answer Time!
We have been getting so many questions sent to us via email and FetLife that I thought I would just sit down and answer them on the show!
August 17, 2018
Episode 13: Master Gabriel and the Path to the Cover
It seems only fitting that this episode is number 13 because this week we sit down for the LONG AWAITED interview with Master Gabriel. Master Gabriel is a Covered Master in the BDSM scene as well as being the Head of House RavynBlood, The Voice of DomConLA, Co Creator of Gentlemen In Charge, Mastermind behind RavynBlood Leather and much more... We sit down with Master Gabriel this week to talk about the different types of Masters there are in the scene, the path to being Covered and we share some funny memories...
August 10, 2018
Episode 12: Club Heathen with Natalie Mars, Allysa Etain, Rocky Emerson, Rick Fantana and more!
This week on the KinkyAFPodcast, The Reverend went down to San Diego for the grand opening of Club Heathen! Loved the experience so much that The Reverend went back down the following week for Club Heathan's Trans Strip Event called Transfixiated! The Reverend was able to sit down and interview some amazing people! Photographer mentioned: Episode Sponsored by:, @Sanctuary_IE, and @ClubHeathen
August 03, 2018
Episode 11: Damon Pierce and
This week The Reverend was able to sit down with a legend of the BDSM and Adult community, Damon Pierce. Damon has worked on, InSex, Evil Angel and has worked with Hollywood on movies, tv shows and commercials. We sit and talk about his history and his new project You do not want to miss this amazing episode!
July 27, 2018
Episode 10: Chastity!
We made it to Episode 10! Double digits! Thank you for listening! In this Episode The Reverend talks about how he is getting ready to teach a class on chastity at Sanctuary Inland Empire and how fascinating this Kink is. From its history to its modern uses and how chastity is one of The Reverend's long standing fetishes both as a Key Holder and one who is Chaste. Big thanks to for helping The Reverend prepping for his class this week. HUGE thanks to our sponsors and Sanctuary Inland Empire!
July 20, 2018
Episode 9: Behavior Modification with V!
In this episode of the Kinky AF Podcast The Reverend sits down with ABA Specialist, V, to talk about how to identify your sub's motivation and how to assist with modifying their behavior. Masters, slaves, brats and Kinksters alike will all find something to learn in this weeks episode!
July 13, 2018
Episode 8: Collaring Part 1, Kinky AF LIVE and much MORE!
This week we have a short episode for you because we have been focusing on tomorrow's LIVE show on YouTube called, Kinky AF LIVE! We are also going to be talking about Collaring because this week, The Reverend collared his girl of five years as well as proposed!
July 06, 2018
Episode 7: Phoenix Dawn, The Dr Susan Block Show and more!
This week I sit down with the wonderfully sexy and Kinky, Phoenix Dawn to talk about the Dr Susan Block Show, SESTA, FOSTA and MUCH Much more.... ***Editor's Note!*** The Reverend was apparently TIRED and misspoke the dates for upcoming events! 6/30 - Dr Susan Block Show! 7/7 - Kinky AF LIVE! 7/8 Kink Talk at Alliant International University This episode is sponsored by: as well as Sanctuary IE!
June 29, 2018
Episode 6: Sir Bito, San Diego and Shibari!
In this episode of the Kinky AF Podcast The Reverend sits down in BEAUTIFUL San Diego with Sir Bito to talk about Shibari, the community and all things ROPE!
June 22, 2018
Episode 5: LA Pride 2018!
In this episode of the Kinky As Fuck Podcast, The Reverend heads out to LA Pride with Mistress Cyan and the Sanctuary LAX crew to be apart of Erotic City! Erotic City is the Kinky section of LA Pride where The Reverend gets to interview the wonderful people of The Puppy Mosh Pit, and performer Fox!
June 15, 2018
Episode 4: Sanctuary Inland Empire, Sir Pent and DorkyLauren
In this week's episode we interview two of the owners of the BRAND NEW Dungeon, Sanctuary Inland Empire! We give you a brief audible tour of what the dungeon is like and talk to Sir Pent and Dorky Lauren about their experience in the scene. This was a funny episode full of hysterical stories and a wealth of knowledge about the Inland Empire's newest play space!
June 08, 2018
Episode 3: Porcelain Midnight, The Midnight Manor and San Diego
This week the Reverend was fortunate enough to take the Kinky AF Podcast on tour to San Diego! After partaking in San Diego's sights and stockpile of breweries we sat down with the one and only; Mistress Porcelain Midnight. Porcelain is head Mistress of the Midnight Manor as well as being a Pro Domme, Model and much more. Tune in to hear about Mistress Porcelain's adventures in Kink!
June 01, 2018
Episode 2: All About Feet!
In this episode of the Kinky AF Podcast, I sit down to interview the one and only Renee Adams ( and Russell Peter ( about Foot Fetishism and what makes feet sexy and also taboo!
May 25, 2018
Episode 1 The Reverend and DomCon 2018
Hello and welcome to the very first episode of the Kinky AF Podcast! In this episode we will discuss "Who is the Reverend?" and the "DomCon 2018 Review" I apologize for my voice being more raspy than usual. I seem to have gotten the "Convention Flu". I hope that you still enjoy as I take you on this Kinky Adventure.
May 20, 2018