Kink Your Way

Are you ready to transform your mid-career skills into a thriving entrepreneurial venture? Imagine the endless possibilities that await as you leverage your expertise to create a successful business that aligns with your passions and goals. Let's embark on this exciting journey together and unlock the full potential of your skills in the world of entrepreneurship.

Today, I'm going to talk about how you can leverage your mid-career skills to transition into entrepreneurship and create a successful business.

In this video, I want to talk about 3 things.

1. Common Career Skills that can give you a competitive edge in the entrepreneurial world

2. How to Monetize those skills

3. Some steps to help you effectively turn your skills into a profitable business venture

1. Common Career Skills:

Many professionals in mid-career have developed a wide range of valuable skills such as leadership, communication, problem-solving, and project management. These skills are essential for running a successful business and can give you a competitive edge in the entrepreneurial world.

2. How to Monetize:

So, how can you monetize your mid-career skills? One way is to identify a niche market that aligns with your expertise and experience. You can offer consulting services, online courses, coaching programs, or digital products based on your unique skill set.

Another option is to start a service-based business where you can offer your skills to clients on a freelance or contract basis. This allows you to leverage your expertise while maintaining flexibility and autonomy.

3. Here are some steps to help you effectively turn your skills into a profitable business venture:

• Identify Your Unique Selling Proposition (USP)
• Validate Your Business Idea
• Create a Business Plan
• Build Your Online Presence
• Offer Value-Based Services
• Diversify Your Revenue Streams
• Network and Collaborate
• Continuous Learning and Adaptation

By following these steps and leveraging your mid-career skills effectively, you can successfully monetize your expertise and build a thriving business that aligns with your passions and goals. Remember to stay focused, persistent, and customer-centric in your entrepreneurial endeavors.

Transitioning from a mid-career professional to an entrepreneur is an exciting journey that requires courage, determination, and a willingness to learn and adapt. By leveraging your skills and experience, you can create a fulfilling and successful business that aligns with your passions and goals.

Thank you for watching! Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more tips on entrepreneurship and personal development. See you in the next video!

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Ready to Elevate Your Business to New Heights? Discover the Game-Changing Strategies in Our Exclusive YouTube Video!

Leveling Up Your Business

1. Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business

2. The benefits of working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success

In this video, I discuss:

• Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business
• Continual education
• Set Clear Goals
• Develop a Strong Brand
• Embrace Technology
• Focus on Customer Experience
• Diversify Revenue Streams
• Build a Strong Team
• Monitor Performance
• Stay Agile
• The benefits of working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success:
• Clarity and Focus
• Accountability
• Personalized Strategies
• Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
• Enhanced Self-Awareness
• Improved Communication Skills
• Work-Life Balance
• Accelerated Growth

1. Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business

Continual education is a powerful tool for leveling up your business in many ways.

Here are some key benefits:

• Stay Relevant
• Enhance Skills
• Expand Network
• Boost Confidence
• Adapt to Change
• Increase Innovation
• Build Credibility

Overall, continual education is a strategic investment in yourself and your business that can lead to long-term success and fulfillment. Keep learning, growing, and evolving to unlock your full potential!

In addition to continual education, there are several other strategies you can implement to level up your business and achieve greater success.

Other strategies for leveling up your business and achieving greater success:

• Set Clear Goals
• Develop a Strong Brand
• Embrace Technology
• Focus on Customer Experience
• Diversify Revenue Streams
• Build a Strong Team
• Monitor Performance
• Stay Agile

By combining these strategies with continual education, you can create a solid foundation for leveling up your business, achieving your goals, and realizing your full potential. Keep evolving, iterating, and pushing boundaries to drive sustainable growth and success!

2. Working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success.

Working with a Life Coach can be a transformative experience that accelerates your path to success in business.

I offer a Hybrid – of Life Coaching and Business Coaching.

Here are some key benefits of partnering with a Life Coach to achieve greater success faster:

• Clarity and Focus

• Accountability
• Personalized Strategies
• Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
• Enhanced Self-Awareness
• Improved Communication Skills
• Work-Life Balance
• Accelerated Growth

Working with a Life Coach can be a valuable investment in yourself and your business, enabling you to navigate challenges, seize opportunities, and realize your aspirations with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Are you a new entrepreneur looking to unlock the secrets to financial freedom? Imagine earning money while you sleep, simply by leveraging your expertise. In this YouTube video, I reveal five powerful passive income strategies to help people just like you. Get ready to transform your knowledge or side hustle into additional income for your small business and pave the way to a more prosperous future. Stay tuned to discover how to turn your passion into profit with these game-changing strategies!

In this video, I will talk about 4 things.

1. What exactly is passive income

2. The benefits of passive income

3. Passive income opportunities

4. How I benefit from having multiple passive income streams

In this video, I discussed:

• What exactly is passive income

• The benefits of passive income

• Break free from the traditional 9-5 work model

• Sense of financial security by diversifying your income streams

• Potential for scalability

• Freedom to design your ideal lifestyle

• A powerful tool for personal growth and self-improvement

• Passive income opportunities

• Creating and selling digital products

• Affiliate Marketing

• Creating a YouTube Channel or Podcast

• Dropshipping or E-commerce

• Automated Online Business

• How I benefit from having multiple passive income streams

Today, we're diving into the exciting world of passive income and exploring how it can unlock the door to financial freedom.

Join me as we explore different passive income strategies, uncover insider tips for success, and embark on a journey toward a brighter, more prosperous tomorrow. Together, we'll unlock the secrets to financial freedom and pave the way for a life of limitless possibilities.

If you want to learn more about:

• Major Decision by a Small Business Entrepreneur
• What Happens When You Pivot
• What is Affiliate Marketing
• Leveling Up Your Business

Unveiling the Significant Business Choice Made by a Budding Entrepreneur. Explore the major decisions made by successful entrepreneurs. Get started on kinkyourway.com now!

In this episode, I will talk about:

1. About Me and My Business

2. Why This Business Decision

3. The Major Business Decision

1. About Me and My Business

I started my Finding Resilience with Leann Coaching Business in June 2022.

I'm Leann Herron a full-time Certified Personal Development Coach and the proud owner of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way. I'm also the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap podcast and Kink Your Way podcast.

1:49 20 Months of Self Education

Self-education is everything. I focused on acquiring quality FREE or Low-Cost education from quality sources.

Marketing

SEO

Email List

Social Media

Branding

Content Creation

Mindset

Storytelling

Confidence

Canva – media design

Zoom – meetings and interviews

AI

5:41 I created and developed:

2 websites

6 Social Media pages (Facebook and Instagram) 2 personal, 4 business

Host a thriving women’s circle

Created a YouTube Channel with over 100 videos and shorts

Created and Host 2 podcasts (Happiness On Tap and Kink Your Way) - over 140 subscribers, launched on YouTube, Spotify, Audible, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio

Positive Impact Community of entrepreneurs and small business owners

2 Blogs

Business After Hours events and Gallery shows for local artists

11 Digital Printable Products and Lead Magnets and tons of FREE products and resources

2 Email Lists, both with over 600 subscribers

2 Linktrees

8 Affiliate Partnerships for passive income

Created multiple resource links to other educators and referral partners

7:44 Coaching & Summits

Coached amazing clients (men & women) in person and virtually.

Presenter at multiple Summits

8:34 Podcasts

Guest on other podcasts

Show Up Everyday – Consistency is key

Do the Work – It’s hard but so fulfilling

Lead with my Heart

9:47 2. Why This Business Decision

9:55 The best advice I received – “Tend to the land you own”

What do you own?

Websites (including blogs)

Email Lists

Podcasts – yes they are hosted on platforms I don’t own, but they are mine.

11:35 Email List:

I recently launched a weekly health newsletter to provide valuable resources for better health and a more balanced life.

“Health Harmony: Your Weekly Wellness Guide” which includes:

Health & Wellness Tips

Success Stories

Ask The Coach

Mindful Moments

Book & Podcast Recommendations

12:27 Focusing on a Content Calendar including:

Blogs – including improving my open rate

Newsletters – including improving my open rate

Podcasts episodes – quality guests who bring tons of value to my listeners and grow my YouTube channel subscribers

Events – more educational

Networking – meet more amazing people and potential podcast guests, increase clients

Updating my LinkedIn and Google Business Pages and other pages that feature my content.

13:45 Too much time on Social Media – I don’t own Facebook, Instagram, or Threads

On March 5th Facebook, Instagram and Threads were down for up to 2 hours – people were losing their minds. What would you do if these platforms were gone tomorrow? Do you have a way to continue connecting with people? EMAIL LIST is your #1 way to continue connecting.

Terrible analytics – 5-7% of your followers actually see your content.

Content not being shared even though I have no violations of community standards

Focus on bringing people to my website by providing quality value, building my Know, Like, and Trust, and converting subscribers and followers into clients.

15:42 3. The Major Business Decision

FARM THE LAND I OWN

Reduce my Social Media distractions (scrolling)

Focus on only posting value that brings people to my websites and YouTube Channels

Episode Resources:

Websites:

Unveiling the Secrets of Love and Sensuality: A Conversation with Red Phoenix.

Step into a world of passion, desire, and unbreakable bonds as we sit down with Red Phoenix, the award-winning romance author who has captivated readers with her tantalizing tales of love and BDSM. Join us as we explore the secrets behind her irresistible characters, the art of crafting sizzling scenes, and the enduring power of love that permeates every page of her bestselling novels.

Red Phoenix is an award-winning romance author who became known for her series about Brie's introduction to the sensual world of BDSM. As Brie's story illustrates, Red is a big believer in the idea that love can truly conquer all, and her over 30 years of a happy marriage proves that she speaks from experience. It's that very experience she uses to write relatable characters we can't help but cheer on, pit them against trials and challenges that leave our hearts in our throats, and reward her characters and readers alike with wonderfully stimulating scenes of sensual pleasure. Red is also a submissive in real life and wrote the series because she wanted readers to know how much fun it can be! When Red is not writing, she can be found online interacting with her readers.

We discussed: 3:12 About Red Phoenix and how writing the Brie’s Submission series has impacted her marriage.

7:46 How I found Red Phoenix - The very first book I read by Red Phoenix was Blissfully Undone. On page 4 of Chapter 1: Blissfully Snowbound, Dan and Jenny were killing time waiting for their partners to arrive at Dan’s cabin for a nice vacation, enjoying a nice fire, munching, and listening to music. “Both of them were Blue October fans, so she decided to indulge in the emotionally potent lyrics as they munched”…OMG that was it, that was the moment I fell in love with Red Phoenix. Those of you who know me, know Blue October is my favorite band. After that moment, reading this story…I was hooked and now own 40 books by Red Phoenix, and have a small shrine to Brie’s Submission. Huge fan, huge!

12:51 Red’s inspiration behind her series about Brie's introduction to the sensual world of BDSM. School\eduction, 40 ish after kids, experimenting, personal development, self-exploration. 19:33 Love conquering all is a recurring theme in her books. How she infused this belief into her characters and their journeys. Personal experience (All of Us and Experience True Love), the joy of BDSM, life lessons. Her muses provided each character. Sir Thane Davis, The Russian, Lea, Mary, Tono.31:13 Communication is the cornerstone of BDSM and it will change your entire life. 34:14 Her books often feature trials and challenges that keep readers on the edge of their seats, how she approached creating these obstacles for her characters, and what she hoped readers would take away from them. Muse inspired and created, and the intersection of personal experiences in her life. We are all going to have difficult situations but how we get through it and you can help others. 40:23 Sensual pleasure plays a significant role in her stories. BDSM takes simple things and makes them sensually erotic. 51:57 Tips or advice for aspiring romance authors who want to explore themes of love, sensuality, and BDSM in their writing. Go to the source, do your research, be educated, self-experience, respect, safety protocols, the tools, the dynamic. 59:52 How she handles misconceptions about the genre she writes in. Episode Resources:

Author Red Phoenix:

Discover the fascinating journey of The Twisted Monk, a business that started as a personal passion and grew into a renowned provider of handcrafted rope for rope bondage enthusiasts worldwide. This episode is part of our Entrepreneur Series. 1:09:04 The Twisted Monk was originally founded in 2004 when Monk began experimenting with rope bondage and made a batch of rope for his own use. The response was so positive that he started making more for others, eventually forming a business and processing hemp in his backyard. In the spring of 2005, after outgrowing the capacity of his garage-based workshop, Monk moved the operation into its current home. "The Abbey" is the workshop where Monk and his growing team of dedicated artisans cut and finish every order by hand. During my healing and growth journey, I wanted to learn how to tie rope bondage on myself and my mannequins Nikko and Marsha. Sir and I attended Rope Bondage for Beginners Sensual Restraint Play and Rope Bondage Intensive at Self-Serve, a local sex-positive alternative to the old-school adult store. I had been following The Twisted Monk, watching their amazing tutorial videos and wanted to purchase quality rope. We purchased my favorite Raspberry Hemp and love it. We discussed: 5:21 1:09:04 The story behind how The Twisted Monk came to be (right place at the right time 1:10:00)

7:10 54:58 Mentors (Midori, James Mogal, Lee Herrington)

9:27 Education/Mechanics of rope tying (Midori 40:00 1:30:35)

6:37 54:45 1:03:57 Evolution of the rope bondage community over the last 20 years (communication and education)

17:09 Rope - There is no wrong way to do it

22:46 Reality vs. perception in photos

24:03 Demystifying kink - Make it yours

4:21 Seattle kink community and small business opportunities

6:03 12:17 1:02:53 1:14:55 1:29:34 Conventions and Conferences

25:42 Dungeons

27:34 47:18 52:50 1:30:35 Language and communication

31:09 Soft skills (negotiations, green flags, mental health, physical health, limitations, disabilities

31:57 Safety - Cut the rope

33:44 Best Advice for someone starting out in rope bondage

35:21 Casting and Receiving

26:26 40:53 45:30 Intent and Desire (Why)

47:18 Negotiations and planning for a scene

53:38 1:48:55 Who buys rope

1:21:56 Sexual shame

1:37:42 Be your true and authentic self

1:40:14 Gatekeeping vs sharing education and knowledge (YouTube)

1:42:06 Inclusion and Representation

1:52:14 1:54:10 Advice for Entrepreneurs

1:49:42 Measure of a business success

2:05:53 Business struggles and successes Episode Resources:

Discover the extraordinary journey of Nikki, from a retired Mistress to a Spiritual Advisor, as she empowers others to live authentically and align with their soul's purpose.

I’m talking with Nicole “Nikki” Brunton-Phillips. Nikki, is a Spiritual Advisor/Psychic Medium, Mother, Author, Business Owner, and Retired Mistress. It took her years to come out of the spaces society once deemed taboo, dark, and built on the foundations of ill or traumatized minds. After retiring her leathers over a decade ago and a whole lot of rebirthing to fall madly in love with herself she now uses all of her life's experiences and wisdom in conjunction with her many divine gifts to help her clients align with their soul's purpose to live authentically. She has discovered a strong connection between the work she once did with what she does now as she fulfills her own soul's purpose.

Whether it was being a Dominant in the bedroom or owning who she is as a Spiritual Advisor, Nikki is here to be a guardian for the sacred spaces that allow the seeker to connect with their truth.

We discussed:

2:54 Nikki’s journey of being a retired Mistress, Spiritual Advisor and Psychic Medium.

How she helps your clients align with their soul's purpose and live authentically,

How she discovered and rediscovered her voice

Having a supportive community

Spiritual peaking

1:03:27 The role self-love and self-acceptance plays in the process of aligning with one's soul's purpose.

Boundaries - They are for you, about you.

Need/Want

Safe Space

Resentment

1:06:48 How she combines her life experiences, wisdom, and divine gifts to support her clients in their spiritual growth.

1:19:19 Need/Want

Who are you? Who do you want to be? (Women in their 40's)

Dream, Purpose, and Adventure

Getting Real (Women at/around 45)

1:52:07 Advice for individuals who are seeking to discover their own soul's purpose and live a more authentic life.

Know when you are not living in your purpose

2:03:47 Practices or techniques that she recommends for listeners who want to deepen their spiritual connection and alignment with their soul's purpose:

1. Write down 3-5 things that bring you joy (know your value and worth),

2. Write down 1-5 things that bring you peace,

3. Write down 3-5 things that you are grateful for.

Episode Resources:

Join us as we dive into the captivating world of romance writing with USA Today Best-Selling Author Nikki Rome. Discover her passion for storytelling, her love for all things smut, and the community she has built around it.

USA Today Best-Selling Romance Author Nikki Rome has been a romance junky since a young age. As a girl she reached for book after book, looking for that happily ever after she always believed in. She loves all forms of romance, and you can find her latest read not far from her reach.

Nikki writes contemporary romance with a touch of danger and kink. Her love of realistic characters who face real problems provides a story that touches the hearts of many. As a writer, reader, and lover of words, it only made sense that she publish her stories.

Now years later she owns and manages Smut Lovers: The Community. A group of like-minded individuals that come together to talk about their love of all things smut. You can find her hosting Smut Lovers: The Podcast or running Smut Lovers: The Conference. Either way, you know she’ll always be talking about her love of books.

We discussed:

2:43 - A little about Nikki and what she does.

4:45 - Nikki's journey of becoming a romance author? What inspired her to write in the genre.

6:55 - Your books are known for their contemporary romance with a touch of danger and kink. What draws her to the elements of danger and kink, and how she incorporates them into your storytelling

10:20 - Smut Lovers: The Community. How did it come to be, and what role does it play in connecting romance enthusiasts.

19:13 - Smut Lovers: The Conference. Some highlights or memorable moments from these endeavors. 21:05 – Impact Scene, 22:40 – Shibari Scene

30:18 - How she approaches the writing process.

34:22 - Advice to aspiring romance authors who are looking to make their mark in the industry.

38:37 - How she balances incorporating steamy and intimate scenes in her books while still maintaining a strong emotional connection between the characters.

45:03 - The importance of representation of inclusivity and diversity in romance novels, and how she strives to incorporate these elements.

1:02:33 - Exciting projects, upcoming releases, and other exciting things happening for Smut Lovers. Mastermind retreats, more releases in series.

Episode Resources:

Step into the world of kink with us as we embark on a thought-provoking journey alongside Alesandra Madison, a passionate advocate and educator in the realm of alternative lifestyles. Join us as we explore Alesandra's personal path of self-discovery, acceptance, and empowerment within the world of kink. In this episode, we'll delve into the importance of education, consent, and destigmatization, and how Alesandra is breaking barriers to create a more inclusive and understanding society.

Alesandra Madison is a renowned BDSM educator and kink advocate, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra helps new and experienced kinksters overcome vanilla frustrations by creating a thrilling Dom/sub dynamic that makes BDSM a way of life. She is a 24/7 submissive and has over a decade of experience in the lifestyle. She is OBSESSED with teaching new and experienced Doms and subs how to make their lives more fulfilling through BDSM, and over 7,000 students have taken her online courses and trainings.

We discussed:

3:23 About Alesandra and why she created Dom Sub Living.

7:27 How she got started in the BDSM lifestyle and what drew her to become an educator and advocate for it.

12:29 Community (munches, dungeons, events)

16:11 How she identified the need for BDSM education and what motivated her to fill that gap.

22:29 Some of the most rewarding experiences she’s had as an educator, and how she’s seen BDSM positively impact people's lives.

29:23 Strategies she has found most effective in reaching and connecting with "her people". - Meet people where they are, self-acceptance, authentic.

38:09 What role technology plays in her business, and how she leverages it to reach a wider audience.

44:26 Circle (Community platform, virtual events, and courses)

51:49 Challenges she faced when starting her business in the BDSM education industry, and how she overcame them.

58:14 Advice for aspiring entrepreneurs who are interested in starting a business in adult education. - Long game, be authentic, show up, keep going, celebrate your wins.

1:04:36 Dom Sub Living News – Podcast launch of the Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast.

In February 2023, I was invited to participate as a student of Dom Sub Living, as a Kink & BDSM Educator, and as a Kink Aware Professional Certified Life, Relationship, and Health Coach in Dom Sub Living's Dom Sub Dynamics Summit.

Episode Resources:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/domsubliving

Instagram: domsubliving

Website: https://www.domsubliving.com

Having a Morning Routine to Wake Up in a Submissive Mindset Workbook

https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/having-a-morning-routine-for-waking-up-in-a-submissive-mindset-workbook

Overcoming Mindset Hurdles in Your D/s Journey https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkyourway/episodes/Overcoming-Mindset-Hurdles-in-Your-Ds-Journey-e26ahmg

Affiliate Resources (if you purchase from my links below I will earn a commission at no cost to you):

If you want to find the perfect partner for your BDSM lifestyle, watch Alesandra’s workshop here. 4 Steps to Finally Find Your Perfect Partner here https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/find-partner/

5 Ways to Help Your Partner Be More Dominant, Submissive, or Kinky.

Welcome to the Kink Your Way podcast where guests share stories, experiences, education, and information regarding all things Kink and BDSM. I’m Leann Herron, Kink Aware Professional Certified Health and Life Coach, Kink and BDSM Practitioner, Educator, honored as a collared submissive to my husband and Sir, and creator, and host of this podcast.

This episode is part of our Lifestyle & Entrepreneur Series.

Thank you for joining us for Building a Successful Kink Education Business with Mister, a/k/a Mike Hartman.

Mike Hartman, known as "Mister," is the visionary behind Kinkslayer and TheKinkCommunity.com. Hailing from Charlotte, NC, he's dedicated to destigmatizing BDSM, ethical non-monogamy, and alternative relationships through these empowering platforms. Mister invites open, non-judgmental conversations and education, allowing individuals to embrace their true selves. Beyond his digital brands, he's a writer, gaming enthusiast, and festival-goer.

Through his weekly Monday Munch podcast and growing library of websites, Mister has made it his personal mission to bring once-taboo discussions of non-traditional relationships and sexuality out of the shadows and into the light. Spending quality time with his partners and chosen family is also integral to Mike's self-care and living a balanced life. He values investing in intimate connections as much as his professional mission to educate and empower.

2:44 A little about Mike/Mister and Kinkslayer (2021).

Kink Your Way is a shame-free educational podcast made for information and education purposes only. 

I met Mister around the beginning of 2023 when I started attending Monday Munch, a virtual sex-positive podcast. I was looking to get back to the lifestyle community and was welcomed and supported with open arms. 

Description: In this episode, we sit down with a kink educator entrepreneur who has successfully turned their passion for kink education into a thriving business. Our guest shares his journey, insights, and practical tips for aspiring kink educators looking to build their own successful ventures. Join us as we explore the unique challenges and opportunities in the world of kink education entrepreneurship and uncover strategies for creating a sustainable and impactful business.

In this episode, we discussed:

9:37 Mister’s journey as a kink educator and how he became involved in this field.

 11:40 How he identified the need for his services in the market.

 12:35 Referral partner community concept within the community.

 20:00 Strategies he found effective in reaching and engaging your target audience.

 22:58 What happens when your content is taken down.

31:38 How individuals who are new to kink or BDSM can find reliable resources and communities to support their exploration.

38:20 The importance of inclusivity and diversity within the kink community, and how it contributes to a more enriching experience for everyone involved.

40:45 Insights and tips on building a strong online presence and community, leverage social media and other platforms to connect with your audience. Don’t give up & play by the rules!

 42:55 Advice for aspiring kink educator entrepreneurs who are looking to start their own businesses in this field.

You can find Mister/Kinkslayer:

Welcome to the Kink Your Way podcast where guests share stories, experiences, education, and information regarding all things Kink and BDSM. I’m Leann Herron, Kink Aware Professional Certified Health and Life Coach, Kink and BDSM Practitioner, Educator, honored as a collared submissive to my husband and Sir, and creator, and host of this podcast.

This episode is part of our Lifestyle & Entrepreneur Series.

Thank you for joining us for Behind the Scenes: Insights from a Male Entrepreneur in the Sex Industry with Nate “Diggz”.

Nate “Lil Daddy Diggz” is a 50-year-old, engaged hardworking man. He works as a full-time collision repair technician, entrepreneur, hobbyist model, actor, and retired fitness competitor. Originally from Boston Massachusetts, Nate has been in the Lifestyle for 15 years, having dabbled in kink most of his adult life, and in the Sex Worker industry for 9 years.

So let’s get behind the scenes with Nate:

1:51 8:37 His journey of how he got started in the sex industry and how it has evolved over time.

3:30 Acting/films and misconceptions

12:36 What inspired him to become an entrepreneur in the sex industry.

12:55 How he navigates the unique challenges and opportunities that come with it.

15:19 41:43 Mentoring and educating (no faking it)

18:54 Mindset

20:52 22:13 45:02 Read the room

21:33 Competition vs. referral partners

23:09 Money is money

24:09 It’s a business, make sure the client is having fun and getting what they paid for.

24:30 38:46 1:08:30 Don’t limit yourself or your business

27:23 33:05 How he balances his personal life with his professional life in the sex industry and what strategies he uses to maintain boundaries and protect his well-being.

28:15 32:15 Advice for someone considering entering the sex industry as an entrepreneur, entertainer, model, or actor. – Keep it professional

40:17 Consent in everything

43:18 Common misconceptions about the sex industry.

52:12 Communication in Kink

52.50 55:10 You customize your Kink

59:40 Misconceptions people may have about kink and BDSM?

51:07 52:12 How he balances the kinky lifestyle with other aspects of your life, such as work, family, and social circles.

58:08 Lessons learned

1:14:32 Tips and suggestions (Boundaries and limits, Communication, Consent, Promote yourself aggressively)

Resources: Talent Testing/STD testing status (48:08)

New Mexico Strippers (1:32:45) John Maez

You can find Nate here:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nate.diggz.5

Phone: 808-315-2866

Kink Your Way podcast is available on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, and Google Podcasts.

Kink Your Way is a shame-free educational podcast made for information and education purposes only.

Our mission is to provide value to our listeners by providing education, and information from Kink and BDSM Educators for people who are curious, new to the lifestyle, or living it.

Subscribe to my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here:  

Welcome to the Kink Your Way podcast where guests share stories, experiences, education, and information regarding all things Kink and BDSM. I’m Leann Herron, Kink Aware Professional Certified Health and Life Coach, Kink and BDSM Practitioner, Educator, honored as a collared submissive to my husband and Sir, and creator, and host of this podcast.

This episode is part of our Education Series.

Thank you for joining us for Ever Wonder about DISC Theory with The Rabbi. Dominance, Inducement, Submission, and Compliance. The Rabbi is a Kink Educator. He holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling (including coursework in Human Sexuality) and is working on certification as a Sex Therapist.

Kink Your Way is a shame-free educational podcast made for information and education purposes only.

Kink Your Way’s mission is to provide value to our listeners by providing education, and information from Kink and BDSM Educators for people who are curious, new to the lifestyle, or living it.

I was first introduced to The Rabbi in April 2022 through the Thrive BDSM and Mental Health Conference.

You will learn about:

4:30 - What is DISC Theory, and a brief history 4:52 - Wonder Woman Comics (rope bondage, polyamory, chain bondage, pony play) 6:20, 6:48 - How does DISC Theory fit into BDSM 9:20 - Interpretation for Power Exchange (P/E) Relationships 10:18 - What a "Healthy' P/E looks like - nNWw 11:56 - Transactional Theory 12:32 - The 5 Love Languages (Acts of Service, Gift Giving, Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time) 21:25 - Getting educated in kink and BDSM as a couple 23:10 - Communicating limits and boundaries 24:03 - Finding the kink community, finding a play partner, finding events, educating self (different philosophies in different geographic locations) 30:36 - Being a presenter at a kink conference 33:14, 38:11 - Therapy and sharing your story/truth with a therapist 35:45 - Teaching in the community 42:29 - Kink and BDSM removed from the DSM-5 as a mental illness 50:01 - How sex therapy differs from other forms of therapy 48:16 - What inspired him to become a sex therapist? 49:35 - Advice for individuals or couples who may be hesitant or nervous about seeking sex therapy.52:10 - Permission Giving, It's OK to talk about ... 56:45 - How DISC Theory fits into business

You can find The Rabbi here:

Website:  https://sinagoguebdsm.com  (events)

Instagram: @sinagoguekink

Facebook: SINagogueBDSM

In February 2023 I was invited to participate as a student of Dom Sub Living, as a Kink & BDSM Educator, and a Kink Aware Professional Certified Life, Relationship, and Health Coach in Dom Sub Living's Dom Sub Dynamics Summit. Here is my interview with Alesandra of Dom Sub Living. Do you want to go from #overwhelmed and #frustrated on your Dom Sub journey to feeling completely #confident in your dynamics? We discussed (1:14) My introduction to the D/s lifestyle, (5:41) Some of my mindset hurdles that I had to overcome on my journey, (12:11) My best tips for mastering your mindset as a Dom or sub, (18:13) Key action steps everyone can take to improve their D/s dynamic, (21:44) My Bonus Materials Resource (Having a Morning Routine to Wake Up in a Submissive Mindset Workbook)

You can grab a copy of my Having a Morning Routine to Wake Up in a Submissive Mindset Workbook here: