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Living Authentically Kinky: The Journey of HiThereCatsuit

What happens when a lifetime of hidden desires meets a microphone, a spandex suit, and 35 years of broadcasting experience? In this powerful episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann welcomes Jon—known in the kink world as HiThereCatsuit—for an inspiring and deeply human conversation about kink awakening, vulnerability, and the power of authentic storytelling.

Jon is the creator and host of Authentically Kinky (formerly What Women—and Other Wonderful Humans—Want), a podcast with nearly 300 episodes that has become a cornerstone in the kink community. With seven Emmy Awards and a TEDx talk to his name, Jon brings professional polish and heartfelt curiosity to every conversation he hosts—but this time, he’s the one opening up.

We discussed:

Breaking down perceptions and stigmas through TEDx education.

How his background in media shaped the respectful, nuanced tone of Authentically Kinky.

His childhood fascination with Catwoman and how it hinted at deeper desires.

The challenges of navigating kink while in a long-term vanilla marriage.

The power of words.

The beginning of HiThereCatsuit.

No doubts, 100% in his personal truth, after a lifetime journey to self.

Kindness classes at relationship conferences - Are you ready to be seen?

Leann's story of starting over, finding her identity, and finding kink and BDSM.

The emotional journey of stepping into his kink identity publicly—with a spandex suit and a mic.

Who do you see when you look in the mirror?

Nice guys do finish last.

Teaching kindness.

What it means to “reclaim your desires” later in life, and his message to others feeling unsure or afraid to explore their own. "Don't dream it, Be it. Give yourself the permission to be the person you always wanted to be" - HiThereCatsuit

Above all, Jon's story is a celebration of self-acceptance, transformation, and the courage to live your truth—no matter when you start.

🖤 Listen to this episode to hear how one man turned personal liberation into a platform for community connection, one respectful, real conversation at a time.

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Unlocking Sexual Enlightenment: Intimacy, Power & Tantra

In this transformative episode of Kink Your Way, we explore how your intimacy can be a gateway not just to better sex, but to your creativity, confidence, and deepest personal power. I was joined by the renowned Tantra teachers Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver, co-founders of the TantraNova Institute, authors of Sexual Enlightenment, and the visionaries behind National Intimacy Day.

Together, they unpack how ancient Tantric wisdom fused with modern neuroscience can awaken your sexual energy and direct it into all aspects of life. Their journey as a couple, both personally and professionally, offers a moving example of how intimacy and healing intersect.

We discussed:

Greetings and Introduction of Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver

How Freddy and Elsbeth came to share their life and their sexual enlightenment message, their story is beautiful

The power of self-love as the foundation for receiving love

What happens during altered sexual states, and how energy is circulated

The role of Tantra in balancing physical, emotional, and mental well-being through energy centers (chakras)

Circulated energy

How sexual energy relates to creativity, technology, innovation, and even leadership

Masculine/feminine dynamics in Tantric intimacy and rituals of giver/receiver

The sacred Yoni ritual as a path to reconnecting with feminine energy

Energetic connection example

Leann's journey into BDSM and finding safe, empowering spaces for sexual education

Breaking down misconceptions of Tantra as purely sexual, and reframing it as a spiritual and embodied path

Whether you're new to Tantra or curious about deepening your relationship with your body, this episode is a heart-centered, enlightening guide to reclaiming your sensual energy as a source of transformation and empowerment.

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Safe, Sane, Consensual: Safety in Play Starts Here

Today’s bonus episode is a foundational one. We’re talking about something that is absolutely essential in every corner of the kink world—Safety in Play.

This isn’t just about avoiding physical harm—although we’ll talk about that, too—it’s also about protecting your emotional and psychological safety. Because let’s be real: kink has the potential to be deeply healing or deeply harmful, depending on how we handle it.

So whether you’re brand new to this space or have decades of leather under your belt, I invite you to settle in and maybe even take some notes. Because today we’re talking about how to play smart, safe, and sexy.

In this bonus episode, I discuss:

• Quick Book Recs for the Curious Kinkster
• Trigger Warning
• Safety 101 – The Essentials
• Red Flags to Watch For

Kink isn’t just about domination, submission, or power. It’s about trust. Vulnerability. Intimacy. Transformation.

But none of that can happen without safety.

So here are a few journal prompts to reflect on after today:

• What does safety feel like in your body?
• What are your current boundaries—and do your play partners know them?
• What’s your plan for emotional safety—during and after a scene?

Benefits of Regular Check-In's

Regular check-ins are an essential practice within BDSM relationships that offer numerous benefits. Regular check-ins provide an opportunity to assess and address emotional well-being. Partners can openly discuss their feelings, concerns, and any emotional challenges they may be experiencing, fostering a supportive and nurturing environment.

In this bonus episode, I discuss:

• Key Benefits of Incorporating Regular Check-Ins into your BDSM Dynamics
• FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships

Risk, Kink, and BDSM: Embracing the Thrill While Staying Safe 

Risk-taking plays a unique role in kink and BDSM. For many, the allure of exploring power dynamics, pain, and taboo activities comes with a thrilling sense of adventure. However, unlike reckless or impulsive risk-taking in other areas of life, BDSM encourages participants to approach risk with intentionality, communication, and care.

In this bonus episode, I discuss:

• What Role Does Risk Play in BDSM?
• Understanding Risk in BDSM: Key Concepts
• Examples of Risks in BDSM Activities
• How to Navigate Risk in BDSM
• Balancing Risk and Reward in BDSM

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The documentary Touch Kink, directed by Todd “Max” Carey, explores the nuanced worlds of kink, BDSM, and fetishism, inviting audiences to see these communities through an intimate, authentic lens. Carey, a first-time director with global travel experience across 137 countries, brings a unique perspective to the film. His focus is on breaking down societal misconceptions and showcasing how consensual kink fosters trust, communication, and empowerment, especially for women reclaiming their desires and boundaries.

In Touch Kink, viewers get an insider’s view into kink communities, where practices center on consent, safety, and personal agency. This conversation highlights values such as body positivity, acceptance across age and body types, and the celebration of intimacy without shame. The documentary emphasizes that kink environments aren’t necessarily sexual but instead prioritize trust and openness, often involving structured practices like negotiation, play, and aftercare.

In an exclusive interview, Carey shared the challenges he faced in making this documentary, from connecting with communities to navigating sensitive topics as a first-time filmmaker. He also discussed how his travels influenced his vision and how the four featured participants illustrate the power of alternative lifestyles. Carey hopes Touch Kink will inspire audiences to view intimacy and sexual practices more openly, reshaping global conversations around kink. The interview also covers his advice for those curious about exploring kink themselves, underscoring a safe, informed approach to this world.

For those interested, an On-Demand Screening Event that's just around the corner is available via a link in the show notes below. Consider it my sizzling holiday gift to you!🔥 Episode Resources:

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Embracing Vulnerability in BDSM Relationships

In the realm of BDSM relationships, vulnerability plays a pivotal role in shaping the dynamics between partners. Contrary to popular belief, vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but rather a profound display of courage and trust. When individuals in BDSM dynamics embrace vulnerability, they open themselves up to a deeper level of intimacy, connection, and authenticity. 

In this episode, I discuss:

• Understanding Vulnerability in BDSM
• Deeping Intimacy Through Vulnerability
• The Power of Receiving in Vulnerability

Embracing vulnerability in BDSM relationships is a transformative journey that can lead to profound growth, intimacy, and connection between partners. By allowing oneself to be vulnerable, individuals create a space for authenticity, trust, and emotional depth to flourish. Through the act of receiving, individuals can explore new dimensions of pleasure, intimacy, and connection that can enrich their BDSM experiences and strengthen their bond with their partner. Embracing vulnerability is not always easy, but the rewards of deeper intimacy, connection, and fulfillment make it a journey worth embarking on in the realm of BDSM relationships.

Keep exploring and creating those beautiful moments.

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Ever wondered how you can deepen the emotional and sensory experiences in your BDSM practices? The secret lies in the art of mindfulness. Discover how being present can transform your kink journey into something truly extraordinary.

Welcome to a journey where passion, connection, and authenticity intersect. In the realm of Kink and BDSM, the art of being present and practicing mindfulness opens the door to profound experiences, deepening trust, and creating meaningful relationships. Let's dive into why integrating mindfulness into your BDSM practices can elevate your experiences to new heights.

In this episode, I discuss:

• Enhancing Emotional Connectivity
• Heightened Sensory Awareness
• Deepening Trust and Communication
• Enhanced Control and Submission Dynamics
• Managing Stress and Emotions
• Creative Exploration

Integrating mindfulness into your BDSM practices is not just about enhancing pleasure; it's about cultivating a deep connection with your partner, fostering trust, and exploring your desires in a safe and consensual way. So, embrace the moment, be present, and let mindfulness guide you to a richer, more fulfilling experience in your kink and BDSM journey.

Remember, the essence of these practices lies in the mutual respect and understanding shared with your partner. Stay connected, stay present, and enjoy the beautiful dance of connection and pleasure.

Keep exploring and creating those beautiful moments.

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Today, let's dive into an important and often discussed aspect of BDSM—aftercare. Whether you're an experienced participant or just beginning to explore this world, understanding and implementing aftercare is crucial for building strong, respectful, and positive relationships. 

In this video, I discuss:

• What is Aftercare?
• Why is Aftercare Important?
• Suggestions for Effective Aftercare

Aftercare is more than just a follow-up—it's an integral part of the BDSM experience that ensures all participants feel respected, understood, and cared for. Implementing effective aftercare practices can profoundly enhance trust and emotional connection, making future scenes even more fulfilling and enjoyable.

Remember to always prioritize aftercare in your BDSM practices. It's a beautiful way to show love, respect, and consideration for your partners and yourself.

Until next time, take care and continue living your passion!

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Did you know that 57% of people have kinks they want to explore but never do? It's a staggering statistic, and it's probably because talking about kinks with our partners can be super intimidating.

In this video, I’ll cover the importance of discussing kinks with your partner, common fears and misconceptions, and practical tips for initiating the conversation.

The Importance of Discussing Kinks with Your Partner

Healthy communication about sexual desires, including kinks, is fundamental to building a trusting and fulfilling relationship. It's essential for mutual understanding, consent, and emotional intimacy. By discussing your kinks, you foster openness and honesty in your relationship, paving the way for a more satisfying sexual experience for both partners.

Discussing kinks with your partner is a crucial part of any healthy relationship. It's essential to create a safe space where you both feel comfortable sharing your desires, no matter how unusual they may seem. But why is it so important? Well, for starters, it allows you to connect on a deeper level, build trust, and even spice up your sex life.

Common Fears and Misconceptions

We've all been there - we want to talk about our kinks, but we're held back by fear. Fear of judgment, fear of rejection, or fear of being seen as weird or abnormal. We worry that our partner will think we're perverted or that they'll never look at us the same way again. And then there's the misconception that kinks are only for people in the BDSM community or those who are into extreme stuff. But the truth is, kinks are a natural part of human sexuality, and everyone has them, whether they realize it or not.

So, how do you initiate the conversation?

First, choose a comfortable and private setting where you both feel safe and relaxed. It could be during a romantic dinner, a quiet evening at home, or even during a walk in nature. The key is to find a place where you both feel connected and comfortable. Next, start with an open-ended question like "What do you find most arousing?" or "What's something you've always wanted to try?" This allows your partner to open up and share their desires without feeling judged or pressured.

Another great tip is to share your own desires first. This shows your partner that you're vulnerable and willing to take the first step. It's essential to be honest and authentic in your approach, and to create a safe space where your partner feels comfortable sharing their desires. Remember, this is a conversation, not an interrogation, so make sure to listen actively and respond with empathy.

Practical Tips for Initiating the Conversation:

• Choose the Right Time and Place
• Use Positive Language
• Be Honest and Clear
• Be Respectful and Understanding
• Seek Mutual Consent
• Educate and Share Resources
• Take it Slow

Initiating a conversation about kinks can be empowering and bring you closer to your partner.

Honesty and vulnerability are key components of any successful relationship, and discussing kinks is no exception. When you're willing to be open and honest about your desires, you create a deeper level of intimacy and trust with your partner. It's about being willing to take the leap of faith and being vulnerable, even if it feels uncomfortable. This is where the magic happens, and you can build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

Stay kinky, my friends, and explore your way!

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When negotiating boundaries in a power exchange dynamic, how do you ensure that your personal limits are respected and honored?

I'll be exploring the importance of 4 practices in creating a safe and consensual BDSM experience.

1. Understanding Negotiations in Power Exchange

2. Establishing Limits: Safety and Well-being

3. The Role of Safewords

4. Ensuring Safety in Power Exchange

1. Understanding Negotiations in Power Exchange

Negotiation is the cornerstone of any power exchange dynamic—whether you’re engaged in BDSM, dominance and submission (D/s), or any other form of consensual power exchange. Negotiations should always be thorough, open, and honest, allowing both parties to express their needs, desires, and boundaries clearly.

During the negotiation process, it’s crucial to cover the following:

• Roles and Expectations
• Activities and Interests
• Limits and Limitations

2. Establishing Limits: Safety and Well-being

Setting clear limits and boundaries before engaging in BDSM activities is vital. It allows partners to understand each other's desires, limitations, and fears, creating a safe and consensual environment. By establishing boundaries, partners can avoid activities that might cause harm or discomfort, ensuring a positive and enjoyable experience.

• Hard Limits
• Soft Limits

Always communicate openly about your limits and take the time to understand your partner’s. Respect and empathy are crucial in ensuring that both parties feel safe and valued.

3. The Role of Safewords

A safeword is a powerful tool that allows partners to stop a scene immediately, ensuring their safety and comfort. It's a word or phrase that, when spoken, signals to the other partner that they need to stop the activity or adjust their approach. A safeword can be a lifesaver in situations where a partner feels overwhelmed, uncomfortable, or even scared.

Choosing a Safeword: Select a word that's easy to remember and doesn't blend into the natural dialogue of a scene. Common choices include “red” for stop and “yellow” for slow down or check-in.

In addition to the primary safeword, some dynamics also use a secondary safeword or signals (verbal and non-verbal) for different levels of discomfort or to communicate when verbal communication isn't possible.

4. Ensuring Safety in Power Exchange

The foundation of a successful power exchange relationship is built on mutual trust, respect, and the commitment to each other’s well-being.

Here are some additional tips to ensure safety:

• Communication
• Education
• Physical and Emotional Care
• Environment.
• Equipment Safety

By adhering to these guidelines, you can create a power exchange dynamic that is not only thrilling and fulfilling but also safe and respectful for both parties involved.

Make sure you head over to my Kink Your Way Resources page for free resources, links to quality education, and videos on How to Stay Safe While Exploring BDSM. For even more make sure you check out my Our-Partners page for links to more education and quality sex toys from my amazing affiliate partners. With any of “Our Partners”, I am an Affiliate Partner so if you purchase anything from any of these partners using my link I will receive a commission at no cost to you.

10 Reasons Why People Love BDSM

Today, we're exploring the ten compelling reasons why people are drawn to the world of BDSM. Get ready to unmask the desires, benefits, and beautiful community dynamics that make BDSM a fascinating and fulfilling lifestyle.

Whether you're a seasoned player or a curious newbie, these insights will illuminate the allure and the advantages of diving into this diverse and dynamic world.

1. Exploration of Deep Desires

One of the primary reasons people are attracted to BDSM is the freedom to explore their deepest desires and fantasies. Unlike vanilla relationships, BDSM encourages you to acknowledge and act on these desires in a safe and consensual environment.

2. Enhanced Emotional Connection

Engaging in BDSM dynamics often requires a high level of communication, trust, and emotional vulnerability, leading to deeper connections. These relationships frequently foster an unparalleled sense of intimacy and understanding.

3. Increased Self-Awareness

BDSM can be a journey of self-discovery. By experimenting with different roles and scenarios, individuals learn more about their boundaries, preferences, and needs. This process can be incredibly empowering, contributing to greater self-awareness and confidence.

4. Stress Relief and Catharsis

For many, BDSM serves as a powerful form of stress relief. The physical and emotional intensity can provide a cathartic release, akin to the effects of a highly intense workout or meditation session, leaving participants feeling rejuvenated and at peace.

5. Community and Belonging

The BDSM community is often tight-knit, supportive, and welcoming. For many, being part of this community provides a sense of belonging and acceptance. It's a space where you can be open about your interests without judgment.

6. Learning and Growth

BDSM often involves continuous learning and personal growth. Skills such as negotiation, patience, empathy, and problem-solving are frequently developed and honed within these dynamics. This ongoing learning can be deeply satisfying and beneficial in other areas of life.

7. Enhanced Pleasure and Sensation

Let's not forget the enhanced sensory experiences. From the sting of a flogger to the constriction of ropes, BDSM can heighten physical pleasure, leading to intense and memorable experiences that push the boundaries of conventional intimacy.

8. Role Play and Escapism

For those who love to indulge in role play, BDSM provides an excellent outlet for imagination and escapism. Adopting different personas and scenarios can be incredibly exciting and liberating, offering a break from the day-to-day routine.

9. Power Exchange Dynamics

The power exchange between Dominant and submissive can be highly fulfilling. Whether you're an Alpha who enjoys taking control or a Beta who finds release in submission, these dynamics can satisfy profound psychological needs.

10. Validation and Acceptance

Many find validation and acceptance within the BDSM lifestyle. Being seen and appreciated for your true self, including your kinks and fetishes, can be immensely validating and lead to a healthier self-image and greater life satisfaction.

The world of BDSM offers a plethora of reasons for its allure, stretching far beyond the surface. From deeper connections and emotional growth to enhanced pleasure and stress relief, BDSM is a multifaceted lifestyle that can bring profound benefits to those who embrace it.

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13 Secrets to an Awesome BDSM Lifestyle

Join me as I take on the challenge of uncovering and sharing 13 Secrets to Living Your Best BDSM Lifestyle!

Are you ready to unlock the secrets to an exhilarating BDSM lifestyle?

So, what is BDSM? BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism.

It's an umbrella term that encompasses a wide range of practices, from sensual bondage to intense sensation play. At its core, BDSM is about exploring power dynamics, intimacy, and human connection. It's a journey of self-discovery, growth, and evolution.

BDSM is a consensual, ethical, and mutually beneficial practice that can bring immense joy, empowerment, and fulfillment to those who embrace it.

BDSM is about exploring trust, communication, and emotional connection. It's about pushing boundaries, exploring desires, and finding empowerment through vulnerability.

When it comes to BDSM dynamics, communication, trust, and consent are essential. It's crucial to discuss boundaries, desires, and limits with your partner. You need to establish a safe, respectful, and empathetic environment where both parties feel heard, seen, and valued. This means exploring different roles, activities, and safety measures that work for you and your partner.

In BDSM, communication is key. It's not just about negotiating scenes or activities; it's about creating a deeper understanding of each other's needs, desires, and boundaries. It's about fostering a sense of trust, respect, and empathy. When you communicate effectively, you can build a strong foundation for your relationship, and that's when the magic happens.

One of the most transformative aspects of BDSM is the sense of personal growth and self-discovery. As you explore your desires, needs, and boundaries, you'll uncover new aspects of yourself. You'll develop a deeper understanding of your values, beliefs, and passions. You'll become more confident, more self-assured, and more empowered.

So, what are the 13 secrets to an awesome BDSM lifestyle?

• First, communicate openly and honestly with your partner.
• Second, establish trust, respect, and empathy.
• Third, prioritize consent and boundaries.
• Fourth, explore your desires, needs, and limits.
• Fifth, create a safe, respectful, and empathetic environment.
• Sixth, foster a sense of community and connection.
• Seventh, embrace your authenticity and individuality.
• Eighth, prioritize personal growth and self-discovery.
• Ninth, explore different roles, activities, and safety measures.
• Tenth, negotiate scenes and activities effectively.
• Eleventh, prioritize aftercare and self-care.
• Twelfth, create a sense of ritual and ceremony.
• Thirteenth, keep learning, growing, and evolving.

Embracing a BDSM lifestyle can be a transformative, empowering, and fulfilling experience. It's not about the practices themselves; it's about the connections you make, the growth you experience, and the freedom you discover. Remember, your choices, desires, and needs are valid. Keep exploring, keep learning, and keep growing.

Letting Go of Expectation and Reframing Disappointment

Have you ever been crushed by unmet expectations or felt like the weight of disappointment was too much to bear? Today we're uncovering powerful strategies to let go of those expectations and transform disappointment into personal growth. Imagine turning every setback into a stepping stone for resilience—sounds empowering, right?

In this video, we discuss the importance of letting go and reframing disappointment. Learn key strategies from a resilience and growth mindset coach to help you overcome setbacks and achieve your goals. Join our community for more personal development tips and networking opportunities!

Stay tuned, because this episode might just change the way you see life's challenges.

Letting Go of Expectations:

Let's talk about expectations. We all have them – whether it's about our careers, relationships, or even everyday events. But sometimes, holding too tightly onto these expectations can set us up for disappointment.

So, how do we start letting go?

• Recognize and Acknowledge
• Embrace Flexibility
• Focus on the Present Moment
• Learn to Accept Uncertainty

Reframing Disappointment:

Now, what happens when things don’t go as expected? Here's where reframing disappointment comes in. How can we turn a setback into an opportunity for growth?

• Shift Your Perspective
• Practice Gratitude
• Set Realistic Goals
• Use Positive Affirmations

I share my story about my expectations, frustrations, and disappointments on my journey as an entrepreneur as well as how I am working on reframing my expectations and disappointments into personal growth.

Remember, letting go of expectations and reframing disappointment isn’t about lowering your standards or ignoring your feelings. It’s about finding balance and learning to flow with life’s ebbs and flows. By recognizing and adjusting our expectations and viewing disappointments through a lens of growth, we can cultivate a more resilient mindset.

Celebrating Your Wins is the Key to Success

Join me in a challenge to celebrate every win, big or small, and discover how it can unlock the path to success in your life! In this video, we delve into the power of celebrating your wins and how it can be the key to your success. Learn why acknowledging your achievements, no matter how big or small, plays a crucial role in boosting your motivation, confidence, and overall productivity.

Join us as we explore the benefits of embracing a positive mindset and rewarding yourself for your accomplishments. Watch now and discover how celebrating your wins can propel you towards reaching your goals and living a more fulfilling life. Do you often overlook your achievements? Today, we're diving into the powerful concept of celebrating your wins and how it can truly pave the way for personal growth and success. Celebrating your wins is crucial for your personal and professional growth. It helps you acknowledge your achievements, no matter how big or small, and boosts your confidence and motivation. Celebrating your wins reinforces positive behavior and creates a sense of accomplishment. This positive reinforcement can lead to increased productivity, creativity, and overall well-being. Moreover, celebrating your wins allows you to reflect on your progress and appreciate the effort you have put into reaching your goals. It helps you stay focused on your journey and reminds you of your capabilities and strengths. Recognizing and celebrating your wins also helps you build resilience and a positive mindset, which are essential for overcoming challenges and setbacks. In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in the never-ending cycle of chasing goals and striving for success. We often forget to pause, take a step back, and celebrate our wins, no matter how big or small they may be. But did you know that taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate your achievements can profoundly impact your well-being and overall success?

It's common to fixate on our failures rather than basking in our achievements. This mindset can easily lead to feelings of demotivation and hinder our progress. But here's the kicker – taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate even the smallest victories can have a profound impact on our mental well-being. By recognizing our successes, we boost our self-esteem, motivation, and overall happiness. Let's dive into 8 incredible benefits of celebrating your wins: 1. Acknowledging Your Progress 2. Cultivating a Positive Mindset 3. Motivating Yourself to Keep Going 4. Builds Confidence 5. Reinforces Positive Behavior 6. Enhances Team Morale and Cohesion 7. Provides a Sense of Clarity and Perspective 8. Embracing Joy and Fulfillment Celebrating your wins is not just a frivolous act of self-indulgence; it is a powerful tool for personal growth and transformation. So, the next time you achieve a goal, no matter how small, take a moment to celebrate.

Acknowledge your progress, cultivate a positive mindset, motivate yourself to keep going, and embrace the joy and fulfillment that comes with celebrating your wins. You deserve it! So, let's make a pact to embrace our victories, big and small, and watch how it transforms our mindset and propels us towards our goals.

Entrepreneur Advice: Boss Yourself Get ready to kickstart your day with me as I challenge you to wake up, take charge, and boss yourself like never before! Designed for entrepreneurs and business owners, this video will inspire you to take control of your life, set ambitious goals, and conquer your dreams. The action steps I will be discussing in this video aren’t just for entrepreneurs and business owners, they can help anyone ready to take control of their life. It's time to wake up, take charge, and boss yourself to success. Are you ready to unleash your full potential and dominate your future? Entrepreneur motivation – watch now and let the motivation flow. Are you ready to take control of your life and become your own boss? Are you tired of feeling like life is just happening to you? Ready to grab the reins and take control of your own destiny? Well, you're in the right place because today we're going to talk about how you can wake up and boss yourself! Let's face it, we all face obstacles that hold us back from truly owning our lives. Whether it's fear, self-doubt, or external pressures, these challenges can make us feel like we're not in control. But here's the thing - overcoming these obstacles is possible. By shifting our mindset and adopting empowering strategies, we can start bossing ourselves. It's all about taking small steps every day toward our goals and believing in our ability to make things happen. It's time to stop being a passenger in your own life and start being the boss. Here are 7 actionable steps to help you wake up and turn yourself into the boss of your own life: 1. Set Clear Goals 2. Create a Morning Routine 3. Prioritize Your Tasks 4. Develop Self-Discipline 5. Stay Positive and Optimistic 6. Reflect and Adapt 7. Learn Continuously Implementing these steps can gradually transform your mindset and habits, leading you to take control of your own destiny. It's crucial to remember that self-motivation and determination are key ingredients in the recipe for success. By bossing yourself, you're not only taking control of your life but also paving the way for a brighter future.

Are you ready to take control of your time, reduce stress, and achieve work-life harmony? Join us as we explore the transformative benefits of hybrid coaching and how it can empower you to succeed in both your business and personal life.

Today, we're diving into the crucial topics of work-life balance and time management for entrepreneurs and business owners. These are common pain points that many of us face, but the good news is that there are effective solutions available.

At Kink Your Way/Finding Resilience with Leann, I offer Hybrid Life and Business Coaching. You can't always separate yourself from your business, or career. I can work with you to help you achieve personal development while also focusing on professional growth, self-care, reducing stress, and honoring your calendar.

Imagine a life where you can excel in your business endeavors while also nurturing your personal growth and well-being. This is not just a dream – it's a reality that can be achieved through the power of hybrid coaching.

Finding work-life balance and managing your time effectively are essential for sustainable success in both your professional and personal life. A business coach specializing in hybrid coaching can provide you with the tools, strategies, and support needed to thrive in all areas of your life.

Hybrid coaching combines elements of life coaching and business coaching to create a holistic approach that addresses your professional goals, personal development, self-care, stress management, and time management.

In this video, we discussed how hybrid coaching can help you:

1. Achieve Professional Growth

2. Prioritize Self-Care

3. Optimize Time Management

And I’m going to provide you with 5 strategies for each and insights on how hybrid coaching can help you succeed.

• Achieve Professional Growth
• Goal Setting and Clarity
• Strategic Planning and Execution
• Personal Development and Self-Care
• Time Management and Productivity
• Adaptability and Resilience
• Prioritize Self Care
• Establish Healthy Boundaries
• Practice Mindfulness and Stress Management
• Prioritize Physical Health and Well-Being
• Invest in Personal Development
• Celebrate Achievements and Practice Gratitude
• Optimize Time Management
• Set Clear Goals and Priorities
• Create a Structured Schedule
• Implement Time-blocking and Focus Sessions
• Delegate and Outsource Tasks
• Practice Time Management Strategies

Remember, your success is within reach – all you need is the right guidance and support. Stay tuned for more valuable insights and tips on achieving your business and personal goals. See you in the next video!

With a 20-year background in accounting, experience in both for-profit and non-profit sectors, and 13 years as a Legal Assistant and Paralegal, I offer a unique blend of expertise and experience to help entrepreneurs and small businesses develop a vision or establish company growth goals.

My experience as an entrepreneur provides unique skills, education, and knowledge needed for business formation (start-up roadmap and checklist), developing a comprehensive business plan that outlines business goals and strategies for achieving these goals, and the resources required, marketing and advertising, developing a social media presence, networking, branding, and website optimization.

I am committed to leveraging my diverse skills and experiences to help you achieve your business goals. Let's work together to create a thriving, successful business.

How I Increased My Passive Income with Digital Products Today, I’m excited to showcase our range of digital products designed to support your journey toward self-discovery and personal growth.

In a few of my previous “business series” videos, I talked about passive income as an avenue for entrepreneurs and everyday people to create streams of revenue that generate money for you with minimal effort on your part. Passive income requires upfront effort to create the products or systems, but once set up, they can generate income with minimal ongoing work. Passive income opportunities can be a great way to supplement your income and create more financial stability.

In this video, I will share one of my passive income revenue streams. Creating and Selling Digital Products. Make sure you go back and check out my 5 Passive Income Strategies for Entrepreneurs video.

This presentation will not include all my digital products but will include my best sellers and my favorites. I have invested a lot of time into creating these products, with a focus on providing education and information to help people live a happy, healthy, fulfilling life. Today, I finally created a business Pinterest account to pin my digital products, one more place to bring people to my website.

Free Products:

1. 10 Daily Habits for a Life You Love Checklist

2. 10 Ways to Build Resilience Checklist

Paid Planners:

1. Self Love Planner

2. Self Care Planner

3. Medical Planner

Paid Journals:

1. Find Your Passion Journal

2. My Flow Daily Manifestation Journal

Thank you for joining us on this journey of self-discovery and resilience. Explore our range of digital products to support your growth and transformation. Visit our website today to access these resources and start building a life you love. Remember, resilience begins with you. Embrace it, nurture it, and thrive. Until next time, stay resilient!

Are you ready to transform your mid-career skills into a thriving entrepreneurial venture? Imagine the endless possibilities that await as you leverage your expertise to create a successful business that aligns with your passions and goals. Let's embark on this exciting journey together and unlock the full potential of your skills in the world of entrepreneurship.

Today, I'm going to talk about how you can leverage your mid-career skills to transition into entrepreneurship and create a successful business.

In this video, I want to talk about 3 things.

1. Common Career Skills that can give you a competitive edge in the entrepreneurial world

2. How to Monetize those skills

3. Some steps to help you effectively turn your skills into a profitable business venture

1. Common Career Skills:

Many professionals in mid-career have developed a wide range of valuable skills such as leadership, communication, problem-solving, and project management. These skills are essential for running a successful business and can give you a competitive edge in the entrepreneurial world.

2. How to Monetize:

So, how can you monetize your mid-career skills? One way is to identify a niche market that aligns with your expertise and experience. You can offer consulting services, online courses, coaching programs, or digital products based on your unique skill set.

Another option is to start a service-based business where you can offer your skills to clients on a freelance or contract basis. This allows you to leverage your expertise while maintaining flexibility and autonomy.

3. Here are some steps to help you effectively turn your skills into a profitable business venture:

• Identify Your Unique Selling Proposition (USP)
• Validate Your Business Idea
• Create a Business Plan
• Build Your Online Presence
• Offer Value-Based Services
• Diversify Your Revenue Streams
• Network and Collaborate
• Continuous Learning and Adaptation

By following these steps and leveraging your mid-career skills effectively, you can successfully monetize your expertise and build a thriving business that aligns with your passions and goals. Remember to stay focused, persistent, and customer-centric in your entrepreneurial endeavors.

Transitioning from a mid-career professional to an entrepreneur is an exciting journey that requires courage, determination, and a willingness to learn and adapt. By leveraging your skills and experience, you can create a fulfilling and successful business that aligns with your passions and goals.

Thank you for watching! Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more tips on entrepreneurship and personal development. See you in the next video!

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Ready to Elevate Your Business to New Heights? Discover the Game-Changing Strategies in Our Exclusive YouTube Video!

Leveling Up Your Business

1. Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business

2. The benefits of working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success

In this video, I discuss:

• Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business
• Continual education
• Set Clear Goals
• Develop a Strong Brand
• Embrace Technology
• Focus on Customer Experience
• Diversify Revenue Streams
• Build a Strong Team
• Monitor Performance
• Stay Agile
• The benefits of working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success:
• Clarity and Focus
• Accountability
• Personalized Strategies
• Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
• Enhanced Self-Awareness
• Improved Communication Skills
• Work-Life Balance
• Accelerated Growth

1. Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business

Continual education is a powerful tool for leveling up your business in many ways.

Here are some key benefits:

• Stay Relevant
• Enhance Skills
• Expand Network
• Boost Confidence
• Adapt to Change
• Increase Innovation
• Build Credibility

Overall, continual education is a strategic investment in yourself and your business that can lead to long-term success and fulfillment. Keep learning, growing, and evolving to unlock your full potential!

In addition to continual education, there are several other strategies you can implement to level up your business and achieve greater success.

Other strategies for leveling up your business and achieving greater success:

• Set Clear Goals
• Develop a Strong Brand
• Embrace Technology
• Focus on Customer Experience
• Diversify Revenue Streams
• Build a Strong Team
• Monitor Performance
• Stay Agile

By combining these strategies with continual education, you can create a solid foundation for leveling up your business, achieving your goals, and realizing your full potential. Keep evolving, iterating, and pushing boundaries to drive sustainable growth and success!

2. Working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success.

Working with a Life Coach can be a transformative experience that accelerates your path to success in business.

I offer a Hybrid – of Life Coaching and Business Coaching.

Here are some key benefits of partnering with a Life Coach to achieve greater success faster:

• Clarity and Focus

• Accountability
• Personalized Strategies
• Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
• Enhanced Self-Awareness
• Improved Communication Skills
• Work-Life Balance
• Accelerated Growth

Working with a Life Coach can be a valuable investment in yourself and your business, enabling you to navigate challenges, seize opportunities, and realize your aspirations with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Are you a new entrepreneur looking to unlock the secrets to financial freedom? Imagine earning money while you sleep, simply by leveraging your expertise. In this YouTube video, I reveal five powerful passive income strategies to help people just like you. Get ready to transform your knowledge or side hustle into additional income for your small business and pave the way to a more prosperous future. Stay tuned to discover how to turn your passion into profit with these game-changing strategies!

In this video, I will talk about 4 things.

1. What exactly is passive income

2. The benefits of passive income

3. Passive income opportunities

4. How I benefit from having multiple passive income streams

In this video, I discussed:

• What exactly is passive income

• The benefits of passive income

• Break free from the traditional 9-5 work model

• Sense of financial security by diversifying your income streams

• Potential for scalability

• Freedom to design your ideal lifestyle

• A powerful tool for personal growth and self-improvement

• Passive income opportunities

• Creating and selling digital products

• Affiliate Marketing

• Creating a YouTube Channel or Podcast

• Dropshipping or E-commerce

• Automated Online Business

• How I benefit from having multiple passive income streams

Today, we're diving into the exciting world of passive income and exploring how it can unlock the door to financial freedom.

Join me as we explore different passive income strategies, uncover insider tips for success, and embark on a journey toward a brighter, more prosperous tomorrow. Together, we'll unlock the secrets to financial freedom and pave the way for a life of limitless possibilities.

If you want to learn more about:

• Major Decision by a Small Business Entrepreneur
• What Happens When You Pivot
• What is Affiliate Marketing
• Leveling Up Your Business

How I Increased My Passive Income with Affiliate Marketing

Unveiling the Significant Business Choice Made by a Budding Entrepreneur. Explore the major decisions made by successful entrepreneurs. Get started on kinkyourway.com now!

In this episode, I will talk about:

1. About Me and My Business

2. Why This Business Decision

3. The Major Business Decision

1. About Me and My Business

I started my Finding Resilience with Leann Coaching Business in June 2022.

I'm Leann Herron a full-time Certified Personal Development Coach and the proud owner of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way. I'm also the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap podcast and Kink Your Way podcast.

1:49 20 Months of Self Education

Self-education is everything. I focused on acquiring quality FREE or Low-Cost education from quality sources.

Marketing

SEO

Email List

Social Media

Branding

Content Creation

Mindset

Storytelling

Confidence

Canva – media design

Zoom – meetings and interviews

AI

5:41 I created and developed:

2 websites

6 Social Media pages (Facebook and Instagram) 2 personal, 4 business

Host a thriving women’s circle

Created a YouTube Channel with over 100 videos and shorts

Created and Host 2 podcasts (Happiness On Tap and Kink Your Way) - over 140 subscribers, launched on YouTube, Spotify, Audible, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio

Positive Impact Community of entrepreneurs and small business owners

2 Blogs

Business After Hours events and Gallery shows for local artists

11 Digital Printable Products and Lead Magnets and tons of FREE products and resources

2 Email Lists, both with over 600 subscribers

2 Linktrees

8 Affiliate Partnerships for passive income

Created multiple resource links to other educators and referral partners

7:44 Coaching & Summits

Coached amazing clients (men & women) in person and virtually.

Presenter at multiple Summits

8:34 Podcasts

Guest on other podcasts

Show Up Everyday – Consistency is key

Do the Work – It’s hard but so fulfilling

Lead with my Heart

9:47 2. Why This Business Decision

9:55 The best advice I received – “Tend to the land you own”

What do you own?

Websites (including blogs)

Email Lists

Podcasts – yes they are hosted on platforms I don’t own, but they are mine.

11:35 Email List:

I recently launched a weekly health newsletter to provide valuable resources for better health and a more balanced life.

“Health Harmony: Your Weekly Wellness Guide” which includes:

Health & Wellness Tips

Success Stories

Ask The Coach

Mindful Moments

Book & Podcast Recommendations

12:27 Focusing on a Content Calendar including:

Blogs – including improving my open rate

Newsletters – including improving my open rate

Podcasts episodes – quality guests who bring tons of value to my listeners and grow my YouTube channel subscribers

Events – more educational

Networking – meet more amazing people and potential podcast guests, increase clients

Updating my LinkedIn and Google Business Pages and other pages that feature my content.

13:45 Too much time on Social Media – I don’t own Facebook, Instagram, or Threads

On March 5th Facebook, Instagram and Threads were down for up to 2 hours – people were losing their minds. What would you do if these platforms were gone tomorrow? Do you have a way to continue connecting with people? EMAIL LIST is your #1 way to continue connecting.

Terrible analytics – 5-7% of your followers actually see your content.

Content not being shared even though I have no violations of community standards

Focus on bringing people to my website by providing quality value, building my Know, Like, and Trust, and converting subscribers and followers into clients.

15:42 3. The Major Business Decision

FARM THE LAND I OWN

Reduce my Social Media distractions (scrolling)

Focus on only posting value that brings people to my websites and YouTube Channels

Episode Resources:

Websites:

Step into a world of passion, desire, and unbreakable bonds as we sit down with Red Phoenix, the award-winning romance author who has captivated readers with her tantalizing tales of love and BDSM. Join us as we explore the secrets behind her irresistible characters, the art of crafting sizzling scenes, and the enduring power of love that permeates every page of her bestselling novels.

Red Phoenix is an award-winning romance author who became known for her series about Brie's introduction to the sensual world of BDSM. As Brie's story illustrates, Red is a big believer in the idea that love can truly conquer all, and her over 30 years of a happy marriage proves that she speaks from experience. It's that very experience she uses to write relatable characters we can't help but cheer on, pit them against trials and challenges that leave our hearts in our throats, and reward her characters and readers alike with wonderfully stimulating scenes of sensual pleasure. Red is also a submissive in real life and wrote the series because she wanted readers to know how much fun it can be! When Red is not writing, she can be found online interacting with her readers.

We discussed: 3:12 About Red Phoenix and how writing the Brie’s Submission series has impacted her marriage.

7:46 How I found Red Phoenix - The very first book I read by Red Phoenix was Blissfully Undone. On page 4 of Chapter 1: Blissfully Snowbound, Dan and Jenny were killing time waiting for their partners to arrive at Dan’s cabin for a nice vacation, enjoying a nice fire, munching, and listening to music. “Both of them were Blue October fans, so she decided to indulge in the emotionally potent lyrics as they munched”…OMG that was it, that was the moment I fell in love with Red Phoenix. Those of you who know me, know Blue October is my favorite band. After that moment, reading this story…I was hooked and now own 40 books by Red Phoenix, and have a small shrine to Brie’s Submission. Huge fan, huge!

12:51 Red’s inspiration behind her series about Brie's introduction to the sensual world of BDSM. School\eduction, 40 ish after kids, experimenting, personal development, self-exploration. 19:33 Love conquering all is a recurring theme in her books. How she infused this belief into her characters and their journeys. Personal experience (All of Us and Experience True Love), the joy of BDSM, life lessons. Her muses provided each character. Sir Thane Davis, The Russian, Lea, Mary, Tono.31:13 Communication is the cornerstone of BDSM and it will change your entire life. 34:14 Her books often feature trials and challenges that keep readers on the edge of their seats, how she approached creating these obstacles for her characters, and what she hoped readers would take away from them. Muse inspired and created, and the intersection of personal experiences in her life. We are all going to have difficult situations but how we get through it and you can help others. 40:23 Sensual pleasure plays a significant role in her stories. BDSM takes simple things and makes them sensually erotic. 51:57 Tips or advice for aspiring romance authors who want to explore themes of love, sensuality, and BDSM in their writing. Go to the source, do your research, be educated, self-experience, respect, safety protocols, the tools, the dynamic. 59:52 How she handles misconceptions about the genre she writes in. Episode Resources:

Author Red Phoenix:

Discover the fascinating journey of The Twisted Monk, a business that started as a personal passion and grew into a renowned provider of handcrafted rope for rope bondage enthusiasts worldwide. This episode is part of our Entrepreneur Series. 1:09:04 The Twisted Monk was originally founded in 2004 when Monk began experimenting with rope bondage and made a batch of rope for his own use. The response was so positive that he started making more for others, eventually forming a business and processing hemp in his backyard. In the spring of 2005, after outgrowing the capacity of his garage-based workshop, Monk moved the operation into its current home. "The Abbey" is the workshop where Monk and his growing team of dedicated artisans cut and finish every order by hand. During my healing and growth journey, I wanted to learn how to tie rope bondage on myself and my mannequins Nikko and Marsha. Sir and I attended Rope Bondage for Beginners Sensual Restraint Play and Rope Bondage Intensive at Self-Serve, a local sex-positive alternative to the old-school adult store. I had been following The Twisted Monk, watching their amazing tutorial videos and wanted to purchase quality rope. We purchased my favorite Raspberry Hemp and love it. We discussed: 5:21 1:09:04 The story behind how The Twisted Monk came to be (right place at the right time 1:10:00)

7:10 54:58 Mentors (Midori, James Mogal, Lee Herrington)

9:27 Education/Mechanics of rope tying (Midori 40:00 1:30:35)

6:37 54:45 1:03:57 Evolution of the rope bondage community over the last 20 years (communication and education)

17:09 Rope - There is no wrong way to do it

22:46 Reality vs. perception in photos

24:03 Demystifying kink - Make it yours

4:21 Seattle kink community and small business opportunities

6:03 12:17 1:02:53 1:14:55 1:29:34 Conventions and Conferences

25:42 Dungeons

27:34 47:18 52:50 1:30:35 Language and communication

31:09 Soft skills (negotiations, green flags, mental health, physical health, limitations, disabilities

31:57 Safety - Cut the rope

33:44 Best Advice for someone starting out in rope bondage

35:21 Casting and Receiving

26:26 40:53 45:30 Intent and Desire (Why)

47:18 Negotiations and planning for a scene

53:38 1:48:55 Who buys rope

1:21:56 Sexual shame

1:37:42 Be your true and authentic self

1:40:14 Gatekeeping vs sharing education and knowledge (YouTube)

1:42:06 Inclusion and Representation

1:52:14 1:54:10 Advice for Entrepreneurs

1:49:42 Measure of a business success

2:05:53 Business struggles and successes Episode Resources:

Discover the extraordinary journey of Nikki, from a retired Mistress to a Spiritual Advisor, as she empowers others to live authentically and align with their soul's purpose.

I’m talking with Nicole “Nikki” Brunton-Phillips. Nikki, is a Spiritual Advisor/Psychic Medium, Mother, Author, Business Owner, and Retired Mistress. It took her years to come out of the spaces society once deemed taboo, dark, and built on the foundations of ill or traumatized minds. After retiring her leathers over a decade ago and a whole lot of rebirthing to fall madly in love with herself she now uses all of her life's experiences and wisdom in conjunction with her many divine gifts to help her clients align with their soul's purpose to live authentically. She has discovered a strong connection between the work she once did with what she does now as she fulfills her own soul's purpose.

Whether it was being a Dominant in the bedroom or owning who she is as a Spiritual Advisor, Nikki is here to be a guardian for the sacred spaces that allow the seeker to connect with their truth.

We discussed:

2:54 Nikki’s journey of being a retired Mistress, Spiritual Advisor and Psychic Medium.

How she helps your clients align with their soul's purpose and live authentically,

How she discovered and rediscovered her voice

Having a supportive community

Spiritual peaking

1:03:27 The role self-love and self-acceptance plays in the process of aligning with one's soul's purpose.

Boundaries - They are for you, about you.

Need/Want

Safe Space

Resentment

1:06:48 How she combines her life experiences, wisdom, and divine gifts to support her clients in their spiritual growth.

1:19:19 Need/Want

Who are you? Who do you want to be? (Women in their 40's)

Dream, Purpose, and Adventure

Getting Real (Women at/around 45)

1:52:07 Advice for individuals who are seeking to discover their own soul's purpose and live a more authentic life.

Know when you are not living in your purpose

2:03:47 Practices or techniques that she recommends for listeners who want to deepen their spiritual connection and alignment with their soul's purpose:

1. Write down 3-5 things that bring you joy (know your value and worth),

2. Write down 1-5 things that bring you peace,

3. Write down 3-5 things that you are grateful for.

Episode Resources:

Join us as we dive into the captivating world of romance writing with USA Today Best-Selling Author Nikki Rome. Discover her passion for storytelling, her love for all things smut, and the community she has built around it.

USA Today Best-Selling Romance Author Nikki Rome has been a romance junky since a young age. As a girl she reached for book after book, looking for that happily ever after she always believed in. She loves all forms of romance, and you can find her latest read not far from her reach.

Nikki writes contemporary romance with a touch of danger and kink. Her love of realistic characters who face real problems provides a story that touches the hearts of many. As a writer, reader, and lover of words, it only made sense that she publish her stories.

Now years later she owns and manages Smut Lovers: The Community. A group of like-minded individuals that come together to talk about their love of all things smut. You can find her hosting Smut Lovers: The Podcast or running Smut Lovers: The Conference. Either way, you know she’ll always be talking about her love of books.

We discussed:

2:43 - A little about Nikki and what she does.

4:45 - Nikki's journey of becoming a romance author? What inspired her to write in the genre.

6:55 - Your books are known for their contemporary romance with a touch of danger and kink. What draws her to the elements of danger and kink, and how she incorporates them into your storytelling

10:20 - Smut Lovers: The Community. How did it come to be, and what role does it play in connecting romance enthusiasts.

19:13 - Smut Lovers: The Conference. Some highlights or memorable moments from these endeavors. 21:05 – Impact Scene, 22:40 – Shibari Scene

30:18 - How she approaches the writing process.

34:22 - Advice to aspiring romance authors who are looking to make their mark in the industry.

38:37 - How she balances incorporating steamy and intimate scenes in her books while still maintaining a strong emotional connection between the characters.

45:03 - The importance of representation of inclusivity and diversity in romance novels, and how she strives to incorporate these elements.

1:02:33 - Exciting projects, upcoming releases, and other exciting things happening for Smut Lovers. Mastermind retreats, more releases in series.

Episode Resources:

Step into the world of kink with us as we embark on a thought-provoking journey alongside Alesandra Madison, a passionate advocate and educator in the realm of alternative lifestyles. Join us as we explore Alesandra's personal path of self-discovery, acceptance, and empowerment within the world of kink. In this episode, we'll delve into the importance of education, consent, and destigmatization, and how Alesandra is breaking barriers to create a more inclusive and understanding society.

Alesandra Madison is a renowned BDSM educator and kink advocate, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra helps new and experienced kinksters overcome vanilla frustrations by creating a thrilling Dom/sub dynamic that makes BDSM a way of life. She is a 24/7 submissive and has over a decade of experience in the lifestyle. She is OBSESSED with teaching new and experienced Doms and subs how to make their lives more fulfilling through BDSM, and over 7,000 students have taken her online courses and trainings.

We discussed:

3:23 About Alesandra and why she created Dom Sub Living.

7:27 How she got started in the BDSM lifestyle and what drew her to become an educator and advocate for it.

12:29 Community (munches, dungeons, events)

16:11 How she identified the need for BDSM education and what motivated her to fill that gap.

22:29 Some of the most rewarding experiences she’s had as an educator, and how she’s seen BDSM positively impact people's lives.

29:23 Strategies she has found most effective in reaching and connecting with "her people". - Meet people where they are, self-acceptance, authentic.

38:09 What role technology plays in her business, and how she leverages it to reach a wider audience.

44:26 Circle (Community platform, virtual events, and courses)

51:49 Challenges she faced when starting her business in the BDSM education industry, and how she overcame them.

58:14 Advice for aspiring entrepreneurs who are interested in starting a business in adult education. - Long game, be authentic, show up, keep going, celebrate your wins.

1:04:36 Dom Sub Living News – Podcast launch of the Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast.

In February 2023, I was invited to participate as a student of Dom Sub Living, as a Kink & BDSM Educator, and as a Kink Aware Professional Certified Life, Relationship, and Health Coach in Dom Sub Living's Dom Sub Dynamics Summit.

Episode Resources:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/domsubliving

Instagram: domsubliving

Website: https://www.domsubliving.com

Having a Morning Routine to Wake Up in a Submissive Mindset Workbook

https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/having-a-morning-routine-for-waking-up-in-a-submissive-mindset-workbook

Overcoming Mindset Hurdles in Your D/s Journey https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkyourway/episodes/Overcoming-Mindset-Hurdles-in-Your-Ds-Journey-e26ahmg

Affiliate Resources (if you purchase from my links below I will earn a commission at no cost to you):

If you want to find the perfect partner for your BDSM lifestyle, watch Alesandra’s workshop here. 4 Steps to Finally Find Your Perfect Partner here https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/find-partner/

5 Ways to Help Your Partner Be More Dominant, Submissive, or Kinky.

Welcome to the Kink Your Way podcast where guests share stories, experiences, education, and information regarding all things Kink and BDSM. I’m Leann Herron, Kink Aware Professional Certified Health and Life Coach, Kink and BDSM Practitioner, Educator, honored as a collared submissive to my husband and Sir, and creator, and host of this podcast.

This episode is part of our Lifestyle & Entrepreneur Series.

Thank you for joining us for Behind the Scenes: Insights from a Male Entrepreneur in the Sex Industry with Nate “Diggz”.

Nate “Lil Daddy Diggz” is a 50-year-old, engaged hardworking man. He works as a full-time collision repair technician, entrepreneur, hobbyist model, actor, and retired fitness competitor. Originally from Boston Massachusetts, Nate has been in the Lifestyle for 15 years, having dabbled in kink most of his adult life, and in the Sex Worker industry for 9 years.

So let’s get behind the scenes with Nate:

1:51 8:37 His journey of how he got started in the sex industry and how it has evolved over time.

3:30 Acting/films and misconceptions

12:36 What inspired him to become an entrepreneur in the sex industry.

12:55 How he navigates the unique challenges and opportunities that come with it.

15:19 41:43 Mentoring and educating (no faking it)

18:54 Mindset

20:52 22:13 45:02 Read the room

21:33 Competition vs. referral partners

23:09 Money is money

24:09 It’s a business, make sure the client is having fun and getting what they paid for.

24:30 38:46 1:08:30 Don’t limit yourself or your business

27:23 33:05 How he balances his personal life with his professional life in the sex industry and what strategies he uses to maintain boundaries and protect his well-being.

28:15 32:15 Advice for someone considering entering the sex industry as an entrepreneur, entertainer, model, or actor. – Keep it professional

40:17 Consent in everything

43:18 Common misconceptions about the sex industry.

52:12 Communication in Kink

52.50 55:10 You customize your Kink

59:40 Misconceptions people may have about kink and BDSM?

51:07 52:12 How he balances the kinky lifestyle with other aspects of your life, such as work, family, and social circles.

58:08 Lessons learned

1:14:32 Tips and suggestions (Boundaries and limits, Communication, Consent, Promote yourself aggressively)

Resources: Talent Testing/STD testing status (48:08)

New Mexico Strippers (1:32:45) John Maez

You can find Nate here:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nate.diggz.5

Phone: 808-315-2866

Kink Your Way podcast is available on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, and Google Podcasts.

Kink Your Way is a shame-free educational podcast made for information and education purposes only.

Our mission is to provide value to our listeners by providing education, and information from Kink and BDSM Educators for people who are curious, new to the lifestyle, or living it.

Subscribe to my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here:  

Welcome to the Kink Your Way podcast where guests share stories, experiences, education, and information regarding all things Kink and BDSM. I’m Leann Herron, Kink Aware Professional Certified Health and Life Coach, Kink and BDSM Practitioner, Educator, honored as a collared submissive to my husband and Sir, and creator, and host of this podcast.

This episode is part of our Education Series.

Thank you for joining us for Ever Wonder about DISC Theory with The Rabbi. Dominance, Inducement, Submission, and Compliance. The Rabbi is a Kink Educator. He holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling (including coursework in Human Sexuality) and is working on certification as a Sex Therapist.

Kink Your Way is a shame-free educational podcast made for information and education purposes only.

Kink Your Way’s mission is to provide value to our listeners by providing education, and information from Kink and BDSM Educators for people who are curious, new to the lifestyle, or living it.

I was first introduced to The Rabbi in April 2022 through the Thrive BDSM and Mental Health Conference.

You will learn about:

4:30 - What is DISC Theory, and a brief history 4:52 - Wonder Woman Comics (rope bondage, polyamory, chain bondage, pony play) 6:20, 6:48 - How does DISC Theory fit into BDSM 9:20 - Interpretation for Power Exchange (P/E) Relationships 10:18 - What a "Healthy' P/E looks like - nNWw 11:56 - Transactional Theory 12:32 - The 5 Love Languages (Acts of Service, Gift Giving, Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time) 21:25 - Getting educated in kink and BDSM as a couple 23:10 - Communicating limits and boundaries 24:03 - Finding the kink community, finding a play partner, finding events, educating self (different philosophies in different geographic locations) 30:36 - Being a presenter at a kink conference 33:14, 38:11 - Therapy and sharing your story/truth with a therapist 35:45 - Teaching in the community 42:29 - Kink and BDSM removed from the DSM-5 as a mental illness 50:01 - How sex therapy differs from other forms of therapy 48:16 - What inspired him to become a sex therapist? 49:35 - Advice for individuals or couples who may be hesitant or nervous about seeking sex therapy.52:10 - Permission Giving, It's OK to talk about ... 56:45 - How DISC Theory fits into business

You can find The Rabbi here:

Website:  https://sinagoguebdsm.com  (events)

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In February 2023 I was invited to participate as a student of Dom Sub Living, as a Kink & BDSM Educator, and a Kink Aware Professional Certified Life, Relationship, and Health Coach in Dom Sub Living's Dom Sub Dynamics Summit. Here is my interview with Alesandra of Dom Sub Living. Do you want to go from #overwhelmed and #frustrated on your Dom Sub journey to feeling completely #confident in your dynamics? We discussed (1:14) My introduction to the D/s lifestyle, (5:41) Some of my mindset hurdles that I had to overcome on my journey, (12:11) My best tips for mastering your mindset as a Dom or sub, (18:13) Key action steps everyone can take to improve their D/s dynamic, (21:44) My Bonus Materials Resource (Having a Morning Routine to Wake Up in a Submissive Mindset Workbook)

You can grab a copy of my Having a Morning Routine to Wake Up in a Submissive Mindset Workbook here: