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Kiss and Tel Aviv

Kiss and Tel Aviv

By Margot Touitou

The first and only podcast about dating, sex, and relationships in the White City, hosted by Margot Touitou.
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Kiss and Tel AvivFeb 14, 2021

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Why are Israelis SO DAMN HAPPY? (VLOG)

Why are Israelis SO DAMN HAPPY? (VLOG)

Israel was recently ranked the 5th happiest country in the world, despite the unthinkable hardships we've faced over the last year. What makes Israelis so happy despite war, internal unrest and a geographical location surrounded by enemies?


Join me for this vlog style episode where we explore Purim in Tel Aviv to see happy Israelis firsthand, followed by an in-depth discussion about why we keep landing at the top of the list of happiest countries.

Mar 28, 202426:12
Purim in Tel Aviv: My WILDEST uncensored stories! (VIDEO)

Purim in Tel Aviv: My WILDEST uncensored stories! (VIDEO)

Although this year, Purim feels a bit subdued, we're going back in time to relive some of my wildest Purim's of the past. Join me for our first ever vlog style episode live from the streets of Tel Aviv.

Mar 21, 202428:48
Who Does Weddings Better: Israelis or Americans?

Who Does Weddings Better: Israelis or Americans?

Delve into the intriguing differences between Israeli and American weddings, focusing on gifts, bridal parties, and more. How do cultural variances influence everything from the planning process to the party itself? Tune in for a fascinating journey through the traditions that define and differentiate these celebrations.

Mar 14, 202434:23
Tomer vs. Josh: The Biggest Differences Between Israeli & American Guys

Tomer vs. Josh: The Biggest Differences Between Israeli & American Guys

In this episode, we're spotlighting the ultimate question: Israeli guys vs American guys.


Why do Americans seem to fall so hard for Israeli men? We explore the allure of Israeli machismo and exotic charm that seems to captivate hearts.


The battle of Josh versus Tomer. From jorts to Jordans and hand-rolled cigarettes to Juuls, we dissect the stereotypes and realities of dating preferences and approaches.


Are Josh's 2 AM Snapchat really all that different from Tomer's spontaneous late-night Whatsapp messages? We're unpacking the similarities and differences in their approaches to romance and connection. Tune in to uncover if they're all just speaking the same language.

Mar 07, 202439:11
Traits of Israelis You Need to Copy in Dating (and a Few Not to)

Traits of Israelis You Need to Copy in Dating (and a Few Not to)

We're unpack the nuances of Israeli culture in this episode, highlighting which traits to adopt and which to avoid in your own dating life. From the art of being 'tachles' and avoiding becoming a 'frier,' to embracing the 'lizrom', go with the flow, spontaneous approach, we'll delve into when these characteristics can benefit your dating experiences and when you should avoid them altogether.


Feb 29, 202425:55
How to Handle Inconsistent Communication in the Tel Aviv Dating Scene
Feb 22, 202430:09
How to Be Single AND Happy in Tel Aviv
Feb 16, 202429:12
Love is a battlefield: How to deal with dating during the war

Love is a battlefield: How to deal with dating during the war

This week's episode tackles some hard truths and some funny stories.

  • Healing Emotional Trauma: Practical ways to deal with trauma and rebuild emotional connections.
  • A Tough Reality: A straightforward discussion on the impact of facing Hamas's rape of Israeli women and how that impacts our sex lives.
  • Straight Talk Q&A: Direct answers to your Instagram questions, including my take on Taylor Swift's silence on Israel.

Tune in for an unfiltered exploration of these difficult topics.

Feb 08, 202441:43
Rediscovering Life After October 7

Rediscovering Life After October 7

Welcome to our first episode since the October 7. This comeback episode explores:

  • Moving Forward: Strategies for finding motivation post-tragedy.
  • Dating in Conflict: Insights on navigating sex & dating during uncertain times.
  • Changing Desires: Why we're shifting away from emotionally unavailable people in 2024.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of life and love with hope and resilience.


Feb 01, 202433:03
How Long Should You Wait to Sleep with a Guy?
Oct 06, 202336:23
3 Ways to Spot & Avoid a Shady Israeli Guy
Sep 28, 202339:48
How to Date Better in Tel Aviv
Sep 21, 202342:08
Stop freaking out about being in your 30s.

Stop freaking out about being in your 30s.

In this special 35th birthday episode, we'll explore how to up your game in the bedroom and even tackle the burning question of whether you should ask a guy's height on a dating app.


Join me for a lively conversation that not only helps you master the art of being better in bed but also shows you how to rock your 30s without any fear because, hey, you're not old!


It's a birthday celebration filled with insights, humor, and a whole lot of youthful wisdom.


Got a question: shoot me a DM at @margotexplainsitall on Instagram or email me at info@margottouitou.com.

Sep 14, 202330:36
How to Deal With Feeling Lonely During the High Holidays
Sep 07, 202335:16
Tongue Tied: How to Date in Israel When There's a Language Barrier
Aug 31, 202326:38
Listener Q&A: Why He's Not Actually a "Nice" Guy
Aug 24, 202329:56
Hell Aviv: 3 Steps to Take When It Feels Like Everything's Falling Apart
Aug 10, 202335:14
She's Not a Girls Girl: How to Deal with Toxic Female Friends feat. Ariana Grande
Aug 03, 202334:30
Too Israeli for America and Too American for Israel
Jul 20, 202323:22
The Ultimate Guide to First Dates in Tel Aviv

The Ultimate Guide to First Dates in Tel Aviv

Join us on this special episode as we revisit the inaugural episode of Kiss and Tel Aviv in celebration of my feature on Kan 11.


Take a nostalgic trip down memory lane as we explore the timeless advice on first dates, uncovering the essential do's and don'ts for a successful experience in Tel Aviv. From sharing insider tips on the most romantic date spots to discussing the intricacies of navigating intimacy on the first date, this episode is a delightful journey back to the beginning of our podcast and a reminder of the valuable insights we've gained along the way.


Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @margotexplainsitall to watch the segment in case you missed it live, airing on Kann 11, Friday, July 14 at 19:55.







Jul 13, 202347:47
The Do's & Don't of a Having F*ck Buddy in Tel Aviv

The Do's & Don't of a Having F*ck Buddy in Tel Aviv

Discover the secrets to maintaining a friends with benefits relationship in the vibrant city of Tel Aviv. We'll explore the nuances of this modern connection style, from setting boundaries to navigating the city's lively dating scene, gain practical insights and tips for successfully navigating the realm of having a f*ck buddy in Tel Aviv.

Jul 06, 202347:15
Navigating Aliyah: A Comprehensive Guide to Moving to Israel

Navigating Aliyah: A Comprehensive Guide to Moving to Israel

Join us for an informative episode as we sit down with Orly Tamir (@orlyttamir328), my dear friend and trusted Nefesh B'Nefesh Aliyah advisor.


Orly will be answering all your questions about the process of making Aliyah, providing valuable insights and heartfelt advice.


Discover the essential steps and considerations involved in making Israel your home, from navigating paperwork to finding housing, employment, and community connections. Orly's expertise and firsthand experiences will inform and empower you as you embark on this exciting journey.


During the episode, we discuss the following Facebook groups and resources:


Facebook Groups:

"Making Aliyah This Year"

"Nefesh B'Nefesh Community"

"Secret Tel Aviv"

"Secret Jerusalem"


Resources:

  • MedEx (Email: medpro@nbn.org.il) - for medical professionals interested in transferring their medical certifications
  • Lone Soldiers Program (Email: lsp@nbn.org.il) - for lone soldiers serving in the IDF
  • For comprehensive guidance throughout your Aliyah journey, visit https://www.nbn.org.il/.




Jun 29, 202335:20
How to Choose the Right Israeli City: Your Ultimate Guide

How to Choose the Right Israeli City: Your Ultimate Guide

If you're considering making Israel your new home, this episode is a must-listen. We dive into the distinctive features, lifestyle options, and cultural nuances of Israeli cities like Tel Aviv, Jerusalem, Haifa, and more. Discover valuable advice to help you navigate factors such as infrastructure, job opportunities, cost of living, social scenes, historical significance, and religious influence. Tune in and find the perfect Israeli city to start your new chapter in life.


Jun 22, 202337:04
How to Cope and Adjust When Friends Leave Tel Aviv

How to Cope and Adjust When Friends Leave Tel Aviv

In this episode, we discuss how to cope when friends move away from Tel Aviv. We'll explore practical strategies, share personal stories, and offer valuable insights on how to navigate the challenges of maintaining connections in a city that experiences constant change. From embracing new opportunities to nurturing existing friendships, we uncover effective ways to cope with departures and keep our social circles thriving. Tune in to discover valuable tips on finding resilience and creating lasting bonds in the face of transitions in Tel Aviv.


Jun 15, 202322:27
It's Tomer Season: A Summer Survival Guide to Dating in Tel Aviv

It's Tomer Season: A Summer Survival Guide to Dating in Tel Aviv

In this episode, I'll share essential tips for steering clear of creepy encounters with Israeli guys. Plus, I'll reveal why maintaining a roster of guys you're dating can be a game-changer.

Jun 01, 202326:26
VIDEO: An Exclusive Interview with Cindy from Netflix's "Jewish Matchmaking"

VIDEO: An Exclusive Interview with Cindy from Netflix's "Jewish Matchmaking"

Embark on a captivating journey into the world of love, tradition, and faith with Netflix's 'Jewish Matchmaking,' star Cindy! The hit series has captured hearts around the globe and I got the amazing opportunity to sit down with Cindy to hear about her experience on the show.


With the help of skilled matchmaker Aleeza, Cindy navigated the complexities of modern dating while staying true to her cultural heritage. Join us as we dive deep into Cindy's personal experiences, uncovering the challenges, surprises, and emotional highs and lows that come with the pursuit of love in front of millions of Netflix viewers.


From blind dates to the exploration of Jewish traditions, 'Jewish Matchmaking' explores the timeless quest for a soulmate. Discover the power of faith, community, and the human spirit as we delve into Cindy's heartfelt story that unfolded in this remarkable Netflix series.


And don't forget to follow Cindy on Instagram and TikTok at @israelwithcindy!

May 18, 202342:12
The #1 Red Flag To Look Out For When Dating Israeli Guys

The #1 Red Flag To Look Out For When Dating Israeli Guys

After watching Netflix's new show Jewish Matchmaking, one character in particular stood out as displaying a glaring red flag common among many Israeli men. Listen to learn what happens when a guy's relationship with his mother is TOO close and how to recognize when a guy has a "Nasich shel ema" (Mommy's Prince) syndrome.



May 09, 202331:38
Translating Men's Dating App Preferences
Apr 27, 202330:18
Life in Israel: 5 Hard Truths You Need to Accept to Thrive

Life in Israel: 5 Hard Truths You Need to Accept to Thrive

In this episode, we're talking about the hard truths to accept about living in Israel, and how once you do, life can become much easier.


Living in Israel can be a challenge, whether you're a local or an expat. From cultural differences to bureaucracy, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and frustrated. But by embracing the hard truths and accepting them as part of the experience, you can develop a deeper understanding and appreciation for this beautiful country. From learning the language to navigating the war and conflict, we'll discuss practical tips and insights to help you overcome the difficulties of life in Israel.


So if you're living in Israel or considering making the move, this episode is a must-listen.

Apr 13, 202330:50
 Maybe You're the Problem: 5 Reasons You're Struggling to Make Friends

Maybe You're the Problem: 5 Reasons You're Struggling to Make Friends

In this episode, we take a candid look at why you might be struggling to make friends and offer five possible reasons why you could be the problem. We'll explore common habits that sabotage your ability to make friends and provide tips and strategies for building lasting friendships, not just in Tel Aviv, but anywhere you go.


Mar 30, 202330:18
Dating Israelis: The Biggest Differences You Need to Be Aware Of
Mar 16, 202347:03
He’s not a “dom”. He just wants to hurt women: a tough conversation about toxic BDSM culture in TLV
Mar 02, 202348:20
Relationship Status with Israel: It's Complicated
Feb 16, 202341:20
Traits of a Fuckboy You Need to Copy

Traits of a Fuckboy You Need to Copy

Get ready to delve into the traits and behaviors that make someone a "fuck boy" and examine how you can adopt some of these characteristics in a positive way to improve your dating game. From confidence to assertiveness, we'll cover it all. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking episode that will have you rethinking your approach to relationships. 

Jan 19, 202342:28
Are We Fucked? Addressing Your Biggest Frustrations With Dating in Tel Aviv

Are We Fucked? Addressing Your Biggest Frustrations With Dating in Tel Aviv

I asked you guys what frustrates you the most about dating in Tel Aviv. But I couldn’t help but wonder, is Tel Aviv the problem or is it universal? From ghosting to the expectation of casual sex to people not wanting serious relationships, I'll be discussing some insight to help you understand how to handle these common dating frustrations.

Jan 05, 202343:58
Why Does Society Have a Problem with Childfree Women?

Why Does Society Have a Problem with Childfree Women?

In this episode, we will be diving into the societal stigma surrounding childfree women. Many people feel pressured to have children, and those who choose not to often face judgment and criticism. We will be discussing the various reasons why some women choose to be childfree, as well as exploring the underlying societal expectations and biases that contribute to this stigmatization. We will also be talking about  the challenges that childfree women experience in a society that often prioritizes motherhood above all else. Join us as we seek to better understand and challenge the negative attitudes towards childfree women.

Dec 22, 202226:12
How to Improve Your Body Image feat. Rebecca Sigala
Dec 08, 202251:04
5 Ways to Handle Being the Only Single One in the Friend Group
Nov 24, 202231:32
What's Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men?
Nov 10, 202232:32
Why Your Dating Life Sucks (and How You Can Fix It)

Why Your Dating Life Sucks (and How You Can Fix It)

Does your dating life suck? Are you going on disappointing dates that seem to lead nowhere?  Then you need to listen to this episode to learn what might be causing it and what you can do to improve the situation. 


Oct 27, 202228:42
The Only Aliyah Advice You'll Ever Need

The Only Aliyah Advice You'll Ever Need

I recently celebrated my 34th birthday and as my gift to you, I'm sharing 34 of the best pieces of life advice I can offer. Everything from managing Aliyah to surviving when you don't speak Hebrew to navigating dating in Tel Aviv. 

Oct 13, 202242:15
Dating While Jewish: Does Your Partner Have to Be the Same Observance Level as You?

Dating While Jewish: Does Your Partner Have to Be the Same Observance Level as You?

In this episode, we'll discuss the real-life challenges that arise when dating someone who is a different religious observance level. Is it possible? Does love win over spirituality? Tune in to find out! 

Sep 29, 202245:54
Introducing...Homeland: Ten Stories, One Israel

Introducing...Homeland: Ten Stories, One Israel

This week, I'm proud to be showcasing a very special episode of the latest podcast from Unpacked (@jewishunpacked on IG & TikTok)

When a bus breaks down off an Israeli highway and leaves its passengers stranded, Emily, an American journalism student, decides to put her skills to the test...much to the chagrin of her fellow travelers. As she eventually coaxes each person to share their story, Emily uncovers the rich and complex history that every Israeli holds. Each episode is a deep dive into a new character’s world; from Morocco to Russia, all paths lead to Israel in this narrative style podcast brought to you by Unpacked.

Be sure to listen to Homeland: Ten Stories, One Israel wherever you listen to podcasts! We'll be back in two weeks with a new episode of Kiss and Tel Aviv.

Sep 01, 202241:10
The Do's & Don'ts of Getting Dumped: 5 Rules to Follow

The Do's & Don'ts of Getting Dumped: 5 Rules to Follow

Believe it or not, there IS a right way and a wrong way to get dumped. Trust me, I know because it just happened to me. We're discussing how to get through getting dumped without losing your dignity.

Aug 18, 202238:22
How to Get a Job in Israel

How to Get a Job in Israel

Want to nail your next job interview? Dreaming of working in Tel Aviv's thriving tech ecosystem? Well, you better work, bitch! In this episode, we're covering the most important things you need to know about how to succeed professionally in Israel from someone who's been working in tech for a decade. I'm spilling my tips on the fundamental cultural differences in the Israeli work environment you need to be aware of and the most important question you can ask in an interview. You're going to want to know this!

Jul 14, 202244:30
Friendship Red Flags: What to Do When a Friend Ditches You For a Guy
Jun 30, 202231:38
Beige Flags: How to Tell if a Guy is Boring

Beige Flags: How to Tell if a Guy is Boring

We've all heard of red flags, but what about beige flags? We'll identify the key ways to tell if a guy is just plain BORING and get into some of the examples that are uniquely specific to Tel Aviv.

Special shout out to @itscaito on TikTok for inspiring this episode.
May 26, 202230:50
How to Make Friends in Tel Aviv

How to Make Friends in Tel Aviv

In this episode, we'll discuss the best ways to make friends if you’re new to Tel Aviv or if you’ve been here for many years.
May 05, 202243:18
What to Do If You Get The Ick

What to Do If You Get The Ick

In this episode, we're discussing the ICK—what it is, how you know you have it, my recent experience with it and if you can ever get rid of it once you've felt it.
I also answer some questions from the audience on how to deal with friends who share or like Anti-Israel content on social media.  

Apr 20, 202240:32
Confessions of a Former "Pick Me" Girl

Confessions of a Former "Pick Me" Girl

This week, we're breaking down the concept of a "pick me", what the term means, some classic examples of famous pick me's in movies and TV, signs you might me a "pick me" and even some VERY embarrassing examples of when I, myself acted like a pick me in the past.  Warning, it's cringey AF. 

Apr 07, 202249:45