Kiss and Tel Aviv
By Margot Touitou
Kiss and Tel AvivFeb 14, 2021
Why are Israelis SO DAMN HAPPY? (VLOG)
Israel was recently ranked the 5th happiest country in the world, despite the unthinkable hardships we've faced over the last year. What makes Israelis so happy despite war, internal unrest and a geographical location surrounded by enemies?
Join me for this vlog style episode where we explore Purim in Tel Aviv to see happy Israelis firsthand, followed by an in-depth discussion about why we keep landing at the top of the list of happiest countries.
Purim in Tel Aviv: My WILDEST uncensored stories! (VIDEO)
Although this year, Purim feels a bit subdued, we're going back in time to relive some of my wildest Purim's of the past. Join me for our first ever vlog style episode live from the streets of Tel Aviv.
Who Does Weddings Better: Israelis or Americans?
Delve into the intriguing differences between Israeli and American weddings, focusing on gifts, bridal parties, and more. How do cultural variances influence everything from the planning process to the party itself? Tune in for a fascinating journey through the traditions that define and differentiate these celebrations.
Tomer vs. Josh: The Biggest Differences Between Israeli & American Guys
In this episode, we're spotlighting the ultimate question: Israeli guys vs American guys.
Why do Americans seem to fall so hard for Israeli men? We explore the allure of Israeli machismo and exotic charm that seems to captivate hearts.
The battle of Josh versus Tomer. From jorts to Jordans and hand-rolled cigarettes to Juuls, we dissect the stereotypes and realities of dating preferences and approaches.
Are Josh's 2 AM Snapchat really all that different from Tomer's spontaneous late-night Whatsapp messages? We're unpacking the similarities and differences in their approaches to romance and connection. Tune in to uncover if they're all just speaking the same language.
Traits of Israelis You Need to Copy in Dating (and a Few Not to)
We're unpack the nuances of Israeli culture in this episode, highlighting which traits to adopt and which to avoid in your own dating life. From the art of being 'tachles' and avoiding becoming a 'frier,' to embracing the 'lizrom', go with the flow, spontaneous approach, we'll delve into when these characteristics can benefit your dating experiences and when you should avoid them altogether.
How to Handle Inconsistent Communication in the Tel Aviv Dating Scene
This episode dives into the heart of Tel Aviv's dating scene, offering straightforward advice on what to say if you're getting ghosted or breadcrumbed plus we'll boldly respond to your most controversial opinions.
We'll navigate the nuances of the city's social life, providing you with the tools you need to tackle inconsistent communication head-on, while also engaging with the vibrant going out scene that defines Tel Aviv's unique dating landscape.
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How to Be Single AND Happy in Tel Aviv
This week's episode is all about navigating the single life in Tel Aviv with confidence:
- Single Life Uncovered: We're debunking the myths about being single, showing you the upsides and freedoms it offers.
- Dating Diaries: Catch up on the latest dating updates, from the wins to the lessons learned along the way.
- Hot Date Night Tip: Plus, don't miss the sexy date night tip guaranteed to keep things heated and interesting.
PLUS Get your tickets for Match Madness, Tel Aviv's first live dating show in English, March 5 at Bar Giora.
Love is a battlefield: How to deal with dating during the war
This week's episode tackles some hard truths and some funny stories.
- Healing Emotional Trauma: Practical ways to deal with trauma and rebuild emotional connections.
- A Tough Reality: A straightforward discussion on the impact of facing Hamas's rape of Israeli women and how that impacts our sex lives.
- Straight Talk Q&A: Direct answers to your Instagram questions, including my take on Taylor Swift's silence on Israel.
Tune in for an unfiltered exploration of these difficult topics.
Rediscovering Life After October 7
Welcome to our first episode since the October 7. This comeback episode explores:
- Moving Forward: Strategies for finding motivation post-tragedy.
- Dating in Conflict: Insights on navigating sex & dating during uncertain times.
- Changing Desires: Why we're shifting away from emotionally unavailable people in 2024.
Join us as we navigate the complexities of life and love with hope and resilience.
How Long Should You Wait to Sleep with a Guy?
This week, we're answering the age old question that many of you asked over on Instagram: how long should you wait to sleep with a guy? Is there a perfect number of dates? Does it doom the relationship to put out after a first date? Plus, we're talking about how p*rn impacts our sex and dating lives and I'm telling the story of when I shamed two dudes on the train.
Studies mentioned in this episode:
1. Devastatingly pervasive: 1 in 3 women globally experience violence
2. Aggression and sexual behavior in best-selling pornography videos: a content analysis update
3. Porn can foster sexist attitudesÂ
If you want to submit a question, email me at info@margottouitou.com or shoot me a DM on Instagram at @margotexplainsitall
3 Ways to Spot & Avoid a Shady Israeli Guy
Is the Israeli guy you met 5 minutes ago who just invited you to meet his mother being genuine or not? We’re breaking down all of the things you need to know so you can spot insincerity early on and avoid some of my personal mistakes when it comes to dating Israeli dudes.
We’ll also be giving some helpful tips for oral in this week's segment of "Don't Tell my Rabbi", so be sure and tune in if you hate performing a particular...job.
Got a question you want answered on the podcast? Email me at info@margottouitou.com or shoot me a message on Instagram @margotexplainsitall
If you or someone you know has suffered from or is currently a victim of domestic abuse, help is available
Call 118 in Israel or in the US call 1-800-799-7233.
How to Date Better in Tel Aviv
This week, we're diving into the secrets of cultivating a better mindset around dating in Tel Aviv. Say goodbye to dating frustrations because it doesn't have to be a downer.
Plus, I'll spill the beans on my recent boudoir photoshoot with the talented Rebecca Sigala (@rebeccasigalaboudoir). And, we'll address a listener's email about a friend who's always one-upping her.
Want your question answered on the show? Drop me a line at info@margottouitou.com.
Stop freaking out about being in your 30s.
In this special 35th birthday episode, we'll explore how to up your game in the bedroom and even tackle the burning question of whether you should ask a guy's height on a dating app.
Join me for a lively conversation that not only helps you master the art of being better in bed but also shows you how to rock your 30s without any fear because, hey, you're not old!
It's a birthday celebration filled with insights, humor, and a whole lot of youthful wisdom.
Got a question: shoot me a DM at @margotexplainsitall on Instagram or email me at info@margottouitou.com.
How to Deal With Feeling Lonely During the High Holidays
This week we address the common struggle of feeling lonely during the Jewish holidays, particularly for Olim. We offer valuable tips on how to combat that loneliness and make the most of this meaningful time.
Discover local events and holiday services designed to bring our Olim community closer together, ensuring you have a joyful experience, even when far from home.
We'll also share text scripts for what to say to a guy who ghosts you then rises from the dead, plus some spicy advice about why having a "roster" is beneficial to your dating life.
Tune in for insights, support, and a sense of belonging as we navigate these holidays together.
Links to information about holiday events:
- Rosh HaShana Together for Those Alone in Israel hosted by Natalie & Dor
- Tribe Tel Aviv High Holiday Services: Inspiring -English Friendly
- Chabad on the Coast
- Ben Yehuda 126 Services
- Frishman 23 Dinners & Services
- Secret Tel Aviv Guide for Rosh Hashanah Events and Parties
- Secret Tel Aviv Guide to Olim Friendly Synagogues
- Olim Friendly Synagogues
Tongue Tied: How to Date in Israel When There's a Language Barrier
Join us as we dive into the colorful world of dating in Israel when there's a language barrier. Discover firsthand accounts, hilarious mishaps, and heartwarming successes as we explore the challenges and triumphs of connecting with someone when you're tongues get tied.
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Listener Q&A: Why He's Not Actually a "Nice" Guy
This week, we're diving into YOUR questions.
We'll hear from a woman in search of "closure," a "nice guy" grappling with the complexities of the friend zone, and a woman navigating her partner's liberal Tel Aviv lifestyle while still trying to stay true to her more conservative background.
Have questions or dilemmas of your own? I'm here to listen! Feel free to email me at info@margottouitou.com with your questions for upcoming episodes.
Additionally, we're addressing a pressing concern. If you've encountered instances of gender-based discrimination while using public transit, there's a crucial resource available. Reach out to Israel Hofsheet on WhatsApp at 039674292, and make sure to follow @israel_hofsheet on Instagram to discover their initiatives in combating gender-based harassment and discrimination on Israel's public transit system.
Hell Aviv: 3 Steps to Take When It Feels Like Everything's Falling Apart
Listen to this episode if life's chaos and uncertainty is getting to you and challenges feel overwhelming — a situation that might resonate with you if you live in Israel and are navigating trying times.
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She's Not a Girls Girl: How to Deal with Toxic Female Friends feat. Ariana Grande
We're delving into the complex world of toxic female dynamics and explore the subtle signs of a "not-girl's girl." Join us as we uncover the recent behavior of pop-star Ariana Grande and how her new relationship with Ethan Slater has her labeled "not a girls girl" . What undermines support and unity among women and how can we shed light on the impact such relationships can have on mental health and personal growth?
Discover how to spot the warning signs, navigate these challenges, and foster genuine, uplifting connections that empower and strengthen sisterhood.
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Too Israeli for America and Too American for Israel
During a recent visit to my hometown of Denver, I couldn't help but wonder: "Am I too Israeli for America and too American for Israel?"
In this episode, we'll dive deep into the complexities of dual identity and the challenges of feeling caught between two cultures.
Drawing from my own experiences, I offer practical strategies and heartfelt insights on how to navigate these struggles and find a sense of balance, uniqueness, and connection.
Come join me for an intimate and thought-provoking exploration of embracing our individuality, finding our place, and celebrating the intricate dance between being too Israeli for America and too American for Israel.
Watch my segment on Kan Israel here: https://www.kan.org.il/content/kan/kan-actual/p-11894/445418/
The Ultimate Guide to First Dates in Tel Aviv
Join us on this special episode as we revisit the inaugural episode of Kiss and Tel Aviv in celebration of my feature on Kan 11.
Take a nostalgic trip down memory lane as we explore the timeless advice on first dates, uncovering the essential do's and don'ts for a successful experience in Tel Aviv. From sharing insider tips on the most romantic date spots to discussing the intricacies of navigating intimacy on the first date, this episode is a delightful journey back to the beginning of our podcast and a reminder of the valuable insights we've gained along the way.
Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @margotexplainsitall to watch the segment in case you missed it live, airing on Kann 11, Friday, July 14 at 19:55.
The Do's & Don't of a Having F*ck Buddy in Tel Aviv
Discover the secrets to maintaining a friends with benefits relationship in the vibrant city of Tel Aviv. We'll explore the nuances of this modern connection style, from setting boundaries to navigating the city's lively dating scene, gain practical insights and tips for successfully navigating the realm of having a f*ck buddy in Tel Aviv.
Navigating Aliyah: A Comprehensive Guide to Moving to Israel
Join us for an informative episode as we sit down with Orly Tamir (@orlyttamir328), my dear friend and trusted Nefesh B'Nefesh Aliyah advisor.
Orly will be answering all your questions about the process of making Aliyah, providing valuable insights and heartfelt advice.
Discover the essential steps and considerations involved in making Israel your home, from navigating paperwork to finding housing, employment, and community connections. Orly's expertise and firsthand experiences will inform and empower you as you embark on this exciting journey.
During the episode, we discuss the following Facebook groups and resources:
Facebook Groups:
"Making Aliyah This Year"
"Nefesh B'Nefesh Community"
"Secret Tel Aviv"
"Secret Jerusalem"
Resources:
- MedEx (Email: medpro@nbn.org.il) - for medical professionals interested in transferring their medical certifications
- Lone Soldiers Program (Email: lsp@nbn.org.il) - for lone soldiers serving in the IDF
- For comprehensive guidance throughout your Aliyah journey, visit https://www.nbn.org.il/.
How to Choose the Right Israeli City: Your Ultimate Guide
If you're considering making Israel your new home, this episode is a must-listen. We dive into the distinctive features, lifestyle options, and cultural nuances of Israeli cities like Tel Aviv, Jerusalem, Haifa, and more. Discover valuable advice to help you navigate factors such as infrastructure, job opportunities, cost of living, social scenes, historical significance, and religious influence. Tune in and find the perfect Israeli city to start your new chapter in life.
How to Cope and Adjust When Friends Leave Tel Aviv
In this episode, we discuss how to cope when friends move away from Tel Aviv. We'll explore practical strategies, share personal stories, and offer valuable insights on how to navigate the challenges of maintaining connections in a city that experiences constant change. From embracing new opportunities to nurturing existing friendships, we uncover effective ways to cope with departures and keep our social circles thriving. Tune in to discover valuable tips on finding resilience and creating lasting bonds in the face of transitions in Tel Aviv.
It's Tomer Season: A Summer Survival Guide to Dating in Tel Aviv
In this episode, I'll share essential tips for steering clear of creepy encounters with Israeli guys. Plus, I'll reveal why maintaining a roster of guys you're dating can be a game-changer.
VIDEO: An Exclusive Interview with Cindy from Netflix's "Jewish Matchmaking"
Embark on a captivating journey into the world of love, tradition, and faith with Netflix's 'Jewish Matchmaking,' star Cindy! The hit series has captured hearts around the globe and I got the amazing opportunity to sit down with Cindy to hear about her experience on the show.
With the help of skilled matchmaker Aleeza, Cindy navigated the complexities of modern dating while staying true to her cultural heritage. Join us as we dive deep into Cindy's personal experiences, uncovering the challenges, surprises, and emotional highs and lows that come with the pursuit of love in front of millions of Netflix viewers.
From blind dates to the exploration of Jewish traditions, 'Jewish Matchmaking' explores the timeless quest for a soulmate. Discover the power of faith, community, and the human spirit as we delve into Cindy's heartfelt story that unfolded in this remarkable Netflix series.
And don't forget to follow Cindy on Instagram and TikTok at @israelwithcindy!
The #1 Red Flag To Look Out For When Dating Israeli Guys
After watching Netflix's new show Jewish Matchmaking, one character in particular stood out as displaying a glaring red flag common among many Israeli men. Listen to learn what happens when a guy's relationship with his mother is TOO close and how to recognize when a guy has a "Nasich shel ema" (Mommy's Prince) syndrome.
Translating Men's Dating App Preferences
Studies mentioned in this episode:
www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-digitally/202209/the-importance-humor-in-long-term-relationships
Life in Israel: 5 Hard Truths You Need to Accept to Thrive
In this episode, we're talking about the hard truths to accept about living in Israel, and how once you do, life can become much easier.
Living in Israel can be a challenge, whether you're a local or an expat. From cultural differences to bureaucracy, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and frustrated. But by embracing the hard truths and accepting them as part of the experience, you can develop a deeper understanding and appreciation for this beautiful country. From learning the language to navigating the war and conflict, we'll discuss practical tips and insights to help you overcome the difficulties of life in Israel.
So if you're living in Israel or considering making the move, this episode is a must-listen.
Maybe You're the Problem: 5 Reasons You're Struggling to Make Friends
In this episode, we take a candid look at why you might be struggling to make friends and offer five possible reasons why you could be the problem. We'll explore common habits that sabotage your ability to make friends and provide tips and strategies for building lasting friendships, not just in Tel Aviv, but anywhere you go.
Dating Israelis: The Biggest Differences You Need to Be Aware Of
In this episode, we dive into the unique and sometimes challenging world of Israeli dating culture. From the importance of family and community to the role of religion and politics, dating in Israel can be vastly different than in other parts of the world. But fear not! We'll share tips and tricks for successfully navigating the Israeli dating scene. Whether you're a local looking for love or a foreigner trying to understand Israeli dating customs, this episode has something for everyone. So sit back, relax, and join us as we explore the biggest differences between dating in Israel and anywhere else.
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He’s not a “dom”. He just wants to hurt women: a tough conversation about toxic BDSM culture in TLV
Relationship Status with Israel: It's Complicated
Join me as I delve into the ups and downs of living in Israel. Â I'll be sharing my personal experiences with the country I call home. From the current political situation to the challenges of dating in the Middle East, I'll be discussing it all.Â
Despite these difficulties, I'll also be highlighting the things I love about living here, like the warmth of the people, the food, my pride in living in the Jewish State and hot Israeli men.
A huge thank you to Veg-It-Out, for sponsoring this episode. For those who lead busy lives and struggle to find time to cook healthy meals, Veg-It-Out offers a convenient solution with their weekly subscription plans or one-time orders.
Order your meals today and use code KISS10 at checkout to receive a 10% discount on your first order. Â https://vegitout.com/?ref=5100
Traits of a Fuckboy You Need to Copy
Get ready to delve into the traits and behaviors that make someone a "fuck boy" and examine how you can adopt some of these characteristics in a positive way to improve your dating game. From confidence to assertiveness, we'll cover it all. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking episode that will have you rethinking your approach to relationships.Â
Are We Fucked? Addressing Your Biggest Frustrations With Dating in Tel Aviv
Why Does Society Have a Problem with Childfree Women?
In this episode, we will be diving into the societal stigma surrounding childfree women. Many people feel pressured to have children, and those who choose not to often face judgment and criticism. We will be discussing the various reasons why some women choose to be childfree, as well as exploring the underlying societal expectations and biases that contribute to this stigmatization. We will also be talking about  the challenges that childfree women experience in a society that often prioritizes motherhood above all else. Join us as we seek to better understand and challenge the negative attitudes towards childfree women.
How to Improve Your Body Image feat. Rebecca Sigala
Boudoir photographer and body image coach Rebecca Sigala joins this episode to discuss how she helps women ditch diet culture and embrace their bodies as they are. In this honest and authentic conversation, you'll learn tips for improving your body image and how stripping down for the camera might be just the thing to help you do that.Â
Since recording this episode, Rebecca has also launched her own podcast, "The Body Image Revolution" so go listen! To learn more about boudoir photography or book a coaching call with Rebecca, follow Rebecca on Instagram @rebeccasigalaboudoir
Thank you to Thought Leaders for hosting us and  letting us record this episode in your studio.
5 Ways to Handle Being the Only Single One in the Friend Group
Being single isn't a condition you have to fix. In this episode, I'll share my tips on how to survive, or rather thrive, as one of the last remaining single ones in your friend group. Spoiler alert,: it starts with not feeling sorry for yourself for being single.
Check out the inspiration for this video from the Financial Diet.
What's Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men?
In this episode, we address why dating opportunities for heterosexual men are diminishing as relationship standards rise and how they can address skills deficits to meet healthier relationship expectations. I'll also discuss a few of my own dating updates at the top of the show.Â
Articles cited:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886920302555
Why Your Dating Life Sucks (and How You Can Fix It)
Does your dating life suck? Are you going on disappointing dates that seem to lead nowhere? Â Then you need to listen to this episode to learn what might be causing it and what you can do to improve the situation.Â
The Only Aliyah Advice You'll Ever Need
I recently celebrated my 34th birthday and as my gift to you, I'm sharing 34 of the best pieces of life advice I can offer. Everything from managing Aliyah to surviving when you don't speak Hebrew to navigating dating in Tel Aviv.Â
Dating While Jewish: Does Your Partner Have to Be the Same Observance Level as You?
In this episode, we'll discuss the real-life challenges that arise when dating someone who is a different religious observance level. Is it possible? Does love win over spirituality? Tune in to find out!Â
Introducing...Homeland: Ten Stories, One Israel
This week, I'm proud to be showcasing a very special episode of the latest podcast from Unpacked (@jewishunpacked on IG & TikTok)
When a bus breaks down off an Israeli highway and leaves its passengers stranded, Emily, an American journalism student, decides to put her skills to the test...much to the chagrin of her fellow travelers. As she eventually coaxes each person to share their story, Emily uncovers the rich and complex history that every Israeli holds. Each episode is a deep dive into a new character’s world; from Morocco to Russia, all paths lead to Israel in this narrative style podcast brought to you by Unpacked.
Be sure to listen to Homeland: Ten Stories, One Israel wherever you listen to podcasts! We'll be back in two weeks with a new episode of Kiss and Tel Aviv.
The Do's & Don'ts of Getting Dumped: 5 Rules to Follow
Believe it or not, there IS a right way and a wrong way to get dumped. Trust me, I know because it just happened to me. We're discussing how to get through getting dumped without losing your dignity.
How to Get a Job in Israel
Want to nail your next job interview? Dreaming of working in Tel Aviv's thriving tech ecosystem? Well, you better work, bitch! In this episode, we're covering the most important things you need to know about how to succeed professionally in Israel from someone who's been working in tech for a decade. I'm spilling my tips on the fundamental cultural differences in the Israeli work environment you need to be aware of and the most important question you can ask in an interview. You're going to want to know this!
Friendship Red Flags: What to Do When a Friend Ditches You For a Guy
This week, we're discussing the most common friendship red flags that you guys submitted to me over on my Instagram, @margotexplainsitall. How should you handle a friend who ditches you for a guy, never initiates plans and isn't supportive? I'm here to break it all down.Â
Special thanks to this week's sponsor TCS Telecom who is offering Kiss and Tel Aviv listeners 50% off when you select a bundle deal at tcsisrael.com.
Beige Flags: How to Tell if a Guy is Boring
Special shout out to @itscaito on TikTok for inspiring this episode.
How to Make Friends in Tel Aviv
What to Do If You Get The Ick
In this episode, we're discussing the ICK—what it is, how you know you have it, my recent experience with it and if you can ever get rid of it once you've felt it.
I also answer some questions from the audience on how to deal with friends who share or like Anti-Israel content on social media. Â
Confessions of a Former "Pick Me" Girl
This week, we're breaking down the concept of a "pick me", what the term means, some classic examples of famous pick me's in movies and TV, signs you might me a "pick me" and even some VERY embarrassing examples of when I, myself acted like a pick me in the past. Â Warning, it's cringey AF.Â