Spark Faith Podcast Faith & Health, guilt & shame-free. Christian women are at their best for God
By Kris Sargent
I help women shift mindset & soul, while we heal their gut and address whole body health issues, to become all that God made them to be. Tired of all the guilt and shame that goes along with the way "healthy" is portrayed? I have a unique take on faith and health. As a physician, I have practiced alternative medicine for almost 30 years. *Monday Mindset "The Why" - why would you want to take care of your body? *Wednesday, What's Up?- What I do to serve you as a coach and functional medicine practitioner. *Foodie Friday - We talk about all kinds of food and food related topics
Are all Carbs the Same?
Quick answer is NO! Ultraprocessed foods that don’t look anything like the original form of food. Think sausage vs a piece of protein; or bread vs whole grain quinoa or rice; or ultra processed fat vs clean extra virgin olive oil; veggies vs no veggies whatsoever… Most nuggets of anything, fried, stuffed, breaded, These kinds of foods - mostly carbs very little protein or anything else - the worst - actually suck nutrients out of your body as your body has to work extra hard to detox them , and these foods feed your inflammation, so your body is busy making inflammatory chemistry instead of healing you. Complex Grains Legumes Squash Root veggies - potatoes, carrots, rutabagas, turnips parsnips, sweet potatoes Less Complex/ Lower Carb The rest...broccoli cauliflower,
June 23, 2022
The Challenge: Feel Different in 5 Days
When was the last time you challenged yourself and won? What if you had all the best conditions to win? Would you want that information? Do you need motivation? Are you super frustrated with a certain thing in your health? You know you need accountability, but not judgement. I am the Judgement free zone This challenge is going to be set up so you can learn the absolute maximum amount in 5 days. You will make changes you never knew and will have a new level of awareness…that will propel you to continue to make the changes you’ve started. The first thing I’m going to put out there for all of you who join us is a free one hour call…Once the challenge is over, you will need a personalized plan Well, thats exactly what I’m up to in my Facebook Group: Spark Yourself: Body For God https://www.facebook.com/groups/sparkyourself I’m planning a challenge in my group to get your summer started off right and show you exactly what confidence feels like. For Five Days we are going to do some hard things.
June 21, 2022
Which is Harder? Pain of Regret or Discipline?
The last three Mondays we talked about making and keeping promises to ourselves, what happens when we don’t and the fact that our self confidence/esteem/value all goes down when we don’t keep promises to ourselves . So, Which is harder? *Keeping the promise or living with in your current pain? *What do you want your life to look like? *WHAT DO YOU think GOD wants your life to look like? *Is NOT keeping promises to yourself interfering in your relationships? *Are those around you starting to not trust what you say you're going to do for yourself because you always flake on yourself? What needs to change? Where is the pain? Weight loss, ending a relationship, staying in a relationship, There is a technical term for this - delayed gratification…we should all be learning to delay gratification. This is a skill developed between the ages of 8 and 13. So, you may be running programs about delaying gratification that you were taught or caught from your parents during that age. I talked extensively about this in another podcast.
June 21, 2022
Going Gluten Free? Overwhelmed with where to start???
Overwhelmed with where to start your Gluten Free journey 1. What is your main health goal. For many it’s weight loss. However, if you’ve been sick for a while that might not happen. Your body has to heal first. It’s in survival mode and isn’t going to release any weight until it’s sure it’s healthy 2. Most clients try substitution first; GF doesn’t equal carb free 3. Best way is to substitute veggies. Lettuce wraps for sandwiches and burgers; fall squash, sweet potatoes, Yukon gold potatoes vs pasta; spaghetti squash, hearts of palm noodles zucchini noodles for pasta. 4. The basic diet…
June 21, 2022
To Be Right OR Love and Be Loved?
BONUS EPISODE The Process… then the Solution Resentment: Pool of emotions that have never really been looked at; manifests as Negative self talk; anger/anxiety/depression/gut: constipation/diarrhea/IBS; You’ve convinced yourself of all your negative thoughts Resistance: The gap between what is in reality and what we think it should be or what we expect it to be: Defend your position, Feel disconnected, lack intimacy, holding people at arms length; our immune system can start to turn on ourselves as we hold in the toxic emotions Revenge: You no longer can identify your dreams, you feel flat, your health has probably spiraled to a low point Honest Self Responsible Communication - we have to own our own behavior - whatever it is - from overeating, to being the victim Acceptance - must give up being right Self Forgiveness
June 09, 2022
Committed to Yourself or Not?
What are you committed to? So, if you’re like I was - I kept promises to myself way less thanI kept my word to others - For so long I hid behind people pleasing, traffic, getting busy, got overwhelmed, the inevitable “something happened and I…” It’s like having a cloud over your head though right? What does it feel like when you let yourself down? - I’d love to know how it makes you feel... Proverbs 25:13-14Reliable friends who do what they say are like cool drinks in sweltering heat—refreshing! Like billowing clouds that bring no rain is the person who talks big but never produces. If you’re unsure what your typical excuses or what may also be described as a well designed lie to yourself…. **Ask your self a different question…. ***What is consistently more important than keeping your word to yourself? ****Who else do you think this is affecting in your life? I can tell you - all those excuses - were affecting my parenting. Your kids do what you do - not what you say - they will also learn to self sabotage and not keep their word to themselves. So much more...
June 08, 2022
Is Gluten Really THAT Bad for You?
Is Gluten that Bad For You? The short answer is: it depends… Do you have celiac disease? This is an autoimmune reaction to gluten that causes long term digestive issues and prevents your body from being able to absorb the nutrients it needs Gold standard is biopsy; blood tests are not totally accurate. Interestingly the associated disorders include low thyroid - Hashimoto’s - AI thyroid; malabsorption, B-12 and iron deficiency Gluten sensitivity? This is a blood test for the antibodies to the gluten - this is different than an allergy - IBS, brain fog, headaches, neurological symptoms, tremors, vertigo, anxiety, depression, fatigue, muscle and joint pain Any other Auto-Immune disorder or symptoms of AI? Positive ANA - and maybe other AI? Do you have leaky gut?? Check out my last two Wednesday podcasts to learn more...
June 06, 2022
Do You Have Leaky Gut? 10 factors...
Let's get to the root of the problem - that's what it's all about in Functional Medicine! 🧐How did you end up with a Leaky Gut and a Leaky Brain in the first place?? There are about 10 basic factors that lead to a Leaky Gut. Of course, there are many more but this covers the main ones. Here are the links I promised, just copy and paste: I'm here to serve you...and we will have FUN! Let's keep you out of the overwhelm, and create a personal path to get you healthy! Here's a link to schedule a convenient time for us to chat. https://drkrissargent.as.me/SPARKCall Gut Healing Protocol: Specific supplement protocol designed to start healing MOST people's Leaky Gut. https://us.fullscript.com/protocols/drkrissargent-jump-start-gut-healing-protocol Replay of Cultivating a Mind for God: 3 Foundations for Mental Health https://dr-kris-sargent.mykajabi.com/pl/2147590135
June 03, 2022
Do You Let Your Friends Down or Yourself Down?
How often do you flake on your friends? How often do you flake on yourself? I’m going to continue on this path of mental/soul/gut health. I believe that when we get these three parts on the right path, we can really start to transform all the parts our life for God. And my guess is, if you're really honest, and like I was - you rarely flake on your friends - you rarely let them down. However, you let yourself down regularly and then beat yourself up for it! So, as important as it is to get help when you need it. There’s also a time to do the work, and start getting real with yourself. Biblical - Galatians 6: 2-5 2 Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. 3 If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. 4 Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, 5 for each one should carry their own load.
June 02, 2022
Food For Your Heart, From My Heart
This episode is for your heart, from the heart. My heart is heavy today with everything that has happened this week and I am here to encourage you.... *I believe that our mental, emotional, physical and spiritual health are the cornerstones to living the BIGGEST life God has planned for us. *I believe that we are to get and stay healthy FOR God, not out of guilt and shame but love and gratitude. *If we persevere and stay uncomfortable, I believe our world will change when we step into THAT GIANT God-sized life. You can all do a little better everyday, with everything. *You can be more kind to ourselves FIRST. *You can learn that your validation, self confidence and self worth is from God, not things you do, or your job, or anything else in this world. *God put you here for a purpose, ON purpose and knows everything - the good, the bad, and the messy about you! *AND He LOVES YOU! Psalm 139:14-16 Jeremiah 29:11
June 01, 2022
How to Heal a Leaky gut and a Leaky brain
The 6 Steps to Healing a Leaky gut and a Leaky brain. Bad News: If you have one, you probably have the other. Good News: I offer a free 1 hour consultation to get your questions answered, and give you a Personalized Health Map of the steps you need to take to start healing. Besides you Personalized Plan - you will also receive my Mini-eBook to teach you how to shift from Self Sabotage to Self Worth. My signature process to understand your self worth. Below you will find a link to my Mental Health and Gut Healing Jumpstart Supplement protocols I discussed. Just copy and paste the link, put in your email and choose a password. Gut Healing: https://us.fullscript.com/protocols/drkrissargent-jump-start-gut-healing-protocol Mental Health: https://us.fullscript.com/protocols/drkrissargent-basic-mental-health-protocol Free One Hour consultation: Copy and paste the link, pick your time zone and choose a convenient time. Besides you Personalized Plan - you will also receive my Mini-eBook to teach you how to shift from Self Sabotage to Self Worth. My signature process to understand your self worth. https://drkrissargent.as.me/SPARKCall
May 26, 2022
Shalom: Soul Wellness Strategies
SHALOM:Forming your own mental health strategies Means complete wholeness and wellness - not just peace - inner peace 800 days of hard KA shared traumatic reality Body keeps score NS has taken a hit Empathy is low We need a team: Not the time to go it alone! Jeremiah 29 tells the exiles to find shalom…to the exiles, they were sent to Babylon for 70 years - we all may feel like exiles in our own hometown. He told them to settle down in a home, plant gardens, and eat the food they produce For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. 12 In those days when you pray, I will listen. 13 If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me. 14 I will be found by you,” says the Lord. “I will end your captivity and restore your fortunes. I will gather you out of the nations where I sent you and will bring you home again to your own land.” Empathy is low People we normally count on don’t have the bandwidth. We need a team: Not the time to go it alone! Researchers and professionals tell us we need 4-7 people on our mental health team. Inner circle friends, Psychiatrist, Psychologist, social worker, therapist, counselor, pastor/priest, spiritual director, Life Coach. Radical Grace: For yourself and others - perspective, slow down to see that Radical Boundaries - you have to slow down to say no so you can make margin in your life for what will heal your soul Radical Rest - you have to slow down to get good SLEEP, yes, and naps, Radical Adventure - you have to slow down to stay in the moment of play
May 26, 2022
The "HowTo" of Good Fats: Incorporating good fats into your diet
Y'all had lots of questions about fats from last week - I'm so happy to answer them!! Tune in to learn the easiest way to incorporate GOOD FATS into your every day diet.
May 20, 2022
Soul Care Strategy
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗹? I don't have it all figured out... I was reminded yesterday and this morning, I must have a strategy to fill my soul and 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗺 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 (𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝗻𝘅𝗶𝗲𝘁𝘆, 𝗱𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻) 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗲. 4 things: 1. Dive into Bible study and other positive mindset reading. 2. Move my body!! Run, walk, listen to uplifting music, praise and worship or country are my choices. 3. Garden 4. Bake. But only if Cooper is in the house to eat all the extra calories. *^𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂? MORE INFO AND SIGN UP: https://dr-kris-sargent.mykajabi.com/pl/2147590135 SUBSCRIBE, (so you know when I post a new episode)SHARE, COMMENT, LIKE, REVIEW - Your friends are going to be upset that you might know something they don't!
May 20, 2022
I ate Donuts! Guess what happened...
I ate donuts this weekend! Just so you know I’m not perfect. Every once in a while I splurge - big time! Not even going to kid you, those donuts were no joke YUMMY! However… How about you? Did you stick to your plan and totally nail it this weekend? Or did you slide down the slippery weekend slope? This is where I see so many clients really self sabotage. They do great during the week. But…then Friday and one glass of wine and by Saturday night all bets are off and they’re totally off plan!! Only to be frustrated on Monday because they gained the three pounds they lost the week before. And then I remember WHY I only do it periodically: 1. Physically, I feel gross today!! Mild headache, kinda bloated, a little sluggish and less productive 2. Mentally and emotionally, my anxiety is higher, the sugar highs and lows leave my blood sugar unstable 3. I’m craving again - I don’t like any of those feelings. Now I could really beat myself up - which happens to a lot of you and the slippery slope gets longer - and this certainly used to be my pattern until I figured it out. (Learn HOW I figured it out on my upcoming Masterclass - link for info below) ALL that reminds me of my ultimate WHY! Because I grasp God’s enormous live for me - as best as humanly possible, I know I love myself, so I can love on you… I know I deserve to feel good everyday. You don’t have to be the victim of your own choices and live in that shame. I know that when I make the healthy choices, I feel topnotch I can do more for God and my family. God gave me His best, He deserves my best. Masterclass INFO LINK: https://dr-kris-sargent.mykajabi.com/pl/2147590135
May 18, 2022
FATS, Inflammation and Brain Health
Did you know that eating bad fats actually changes the types of bacteria in your gut - and not in a good way? Did you know that Omega 6 Bad fats are the building blocks of many INFLAMMATORY substances in you body? The connection between the brain, your gut and inflammation are staggering! Listen in to learn: what foods to eat to increase Omega 3 good fats How to avoid the bad fats. More about supplementation Types of good fats to add to your diet and more... Below you will find links for the two protocols I mentioned, along with information link to sign up for my MasterClass on May 21 at 10-11am CT. Just copy, paste and create your account... FOR Omega 3's click here Brain Health: https://us.fullscript.com/protocols/drkrissargent-basic-mental-health-protocol Gut Health: https://us.fullscript.com/protocols/drkrissargent-jump-start-gut-healing-protocol Masterclass Information: https://dr-kris-sargent.mykajabi.com/pl/2147590135
May 14, 2022
Basic Brain Health Supplements
Ever wonder what basic supplements are good for your brain? Check out my latest podcast! 🥳Like Subscribe and give me a little love on Apple so your friends aren't left in the dark. You would be mad if they knew something you didn't!🤣 https://youtu.be/qMf3G3aHKF4 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spark-faith-weaving-faith-health-to-become-our-best/id1531048009 Below you will find links for the two protocols I mentioned, along with information link to sign up for my MasterClass on May 21 at 10-11am CT. Just copy, paste and create your account... Brain Health: https://us.fullscript.com/protocols/drkrissargent-basic-mental-health-protocol Gut Health: https://us.fullscript.com/protocols/drkrissargent-jump-start-gut-healing-protocol Masterclass Information: https://dr-kris-sargent.mykajabi.com/pl/2147590135
May 11, 2022
My Top 5 Mental Health Hacks
This is my top 5 mental health hacks. Drop yours in the comments, I'd love to hear from you! For more information about my upcoming Mental Health Masterclass, click the link below. Click: More Info About my upcoming Masterclass: Cultivating a Mind For God Cultivating a Mind For God: Three Foundations for Mental Health The Gut:Brain:Immune Connection Values: Understand where your Self Worth really comes from. Ditch the Self Hate and Shame Model for the Self Love Model. Weed out Negative Spinning Thoughts and Emotions. Better Results: Crush Self Sabotaging Behaviors. How to FEED YOUR GUT for a healthier Mind and Body to follow God's plan.
May 10, 2022
Foodie Friday: Food Sensitivity vs Allergy; Gluten
As we connect Gut Health and Brain Health this month, Food sensitivities and allergies are always a big question from clients. I address the differences and a short answer about gluten!!
May 10, 2022
Gut:Brain Connection; Gut Health Strategies #mentalhealthawareness
The Gut:Brain Connection may seem like a new concept. Did you know those of us in Functional Medicine have known for over 20 years? Your gut produces more neurotransmitters, like serotonin, than the brain. The bacteria in your gut can play a role in your moods, happy and depression, calm and anxious. The food you eat can change those bacteria in as little as 3 days, for better or worse. Your thoughts can influence your gut function. Diarrhea/Constipation/IBS 70% of your immune system is in your gut. Stress influences gut:brain:immun
May 04, 2022
May is Mental Health Awareness Month: I Used to Hate Asking for...
I Hated Asking for ... 3 THINGS in my latest Podcast Episode... (scroll for links) 1. May is Mental Health Awareness Month - Please check in with yourself and with your friends. People who you haven't heard from in a long time, or maybe someone randomly crossed your mind and you haven't reach out yet...Check in with them. They may have the same issue I had with asking for help! 2. In this episode I discuss how I used to hate to ask for help. The way it made me feel just played right into my own insecurities...Does this happen to you?? 3. God is GIGANTIC! He made you PERFECT! And because of Jesus, He still sees us this way and we can have an amazing relationship with the One True God. 3 Quick Action Items 1. Don't Miss all the fun!! This is episode 16!! NO WORRIES If you're a little behind - SUBSCRIBE, Hit The Bell for Notifications on YouTube, Show me a little LOVE on Apple Podcasts... 2. SAVE THE DATE: Masterclass Cultivating Your Mind For God May 21 10am CT! 3. And PLEASE! If you're struggling with your mental health, reach out to me, JUST REPLY TO THIS EMAIL, or a friend. You don't have to do this alone.
May 02, 2022
Foodie Friday! Why Protein??
God made our body’s so amazing! Yet, if we don’t put the right ingredients into them, things can go awry pretty quick. From energy, moods to diabetes, toxicity and poor brain health. We need protein!! Also, Since He made us each unique, we each need a unique solution to our health issues. This is where I excel as your Health Coach, with 30 years of Functional Medicine experience. I can customize your diet and supplements. See Wednesday's episode. Like, Subscribe, Give me a little love on Apple podcasts so your friends can find me too!
April 29, 2022
What's Up? Wednesday's...Are you Sick Yet? Are you Sure?
What’s Up? Wednesday Are You Sick Yet? Are you sure? If my labs are “normal” why do I feel bad? Fatigued? Hormonal?Anxious? Depressed? Stressed? Inflamed? And how do I know what supplements to take? How do you measure health? There is another way entirely! LABS! Ah, your doctor said your labs were “fine”. But does that mean your healthy? Are you sure? Today I talk about how your labs can tell you more than you think. Are you looking at Optimal as a standard of health or just average, mediocre? How far away from Optimal health are you? Your Labs are the basis for your personalized supplement plan when you see me as a client. No more supplement guesswork… Reach out to me and get started today! But first Like, Subscribe, give me a little Apple love and review.
April 27, 2022
Mindset Monday: Do NOT Let THIS Win!
We know that any time we are attempting to get closer to God and God’s plan for our life - there may be an intervention!! By Resistance - not the Star Wars kind, but the Satan kind. Steven Pressfield in his book the Art of War says Resistance may be defined as…just listen to get his definition. So how might those Resistance behavior patterns surface? Most commonly they surface as 1. Hunger 2. Feeling Deprived 3. I don’t feel like eating healthy 4. “I deserve a treat” Let’s walk through each of these to come up with a new strategy 1. Are you actually hungry OR is there something going else going on? Did you know that 40% of the time, your may just be thirsty?? Not actually hungry...SO let’s try water, LaCroix, something without sugar! 2. Feeling deprived and I deserve a treat may have a common cause. Ask yourself: Is this need to make a poor choice in reaction to something else going on? Do you deserve the treat OR do you deserve to live a longer healthier life for God Please Like, Share and Subscribe and show me a little LOVE on Apple reviews so your friends can find me easier! Thank you!
April 25, 2022
Foodie Friday!! Let's Figure out where to start with FOOD!
This is the FIRST place you need to start with your food. How can we be our best for God when the Holy Spirit is eating JUNK? It’s easy and it can increase your energy and decrease your brain fog quickly! Taking care of the Temple requires more than a healthy mindset! Let's start with FOOD!! It's Friday! Food is Fun! Healthy choices ARE DOABLE! It Doesn't HAVE to be HARD! In todays episode I give you the first step to start a new way to look at food. 80% of our health outcome is related to the food we eat! It's all in the statistics - 70% of Americans are overweight and obese. Half are diabetic. And SORRY, Christians are more at risk than the rest of the population. How can we be our best for God when the Holy Spirit is eating JUNK? This is all about our food choices. Subscribe, Like, Share and Show me some LOVE on Apple, so all your friends can find me easier!
April 25, 2022
Part 7 Shame and Guilt: Confessions and Encouragement
If your health is getting in the way of living out the amazing plan God has for your life, you are in the right place. I talk about my our guilt and shame, how I ran from God and the outcome. You need to know 3 things: 1. Jesus is the only one who EVER gets to be perfect, so He expects you to be messy! 2. Jesus knew how to handle distractions. He did what He had to do in the face of a lot of opposition. So, you CAN too! 3. Listen to all the way to the end for a great new skill to handle guilt, shame and actually, all the challenges, no, opportunities your life brings.
April 20, 2022
Part 6 Guilt and Shame: My top tip for stopping on self sabotage
Today I share my top tip for stopping on self sabotage. It starts with this one thing…It's super uncomfortable for many of you, yet your self esteem, and self worth hinge on it. Start slow. Baby steps. Use a journal. No judgement, of others or yourself! You can do this! Reach out if you want more insight or have questions. Check out my first 2-3 podcasts for all of my own challenges. You're not alone.
April 19, 2022
Part 5 Shame and Guilt: Let's Start Unraveling the Guilt and Shame. SKILLS!! What if it all hinges on Love and Gratitude?
We’re going to start unraveling all this Guilt and shame and give you some skills to work through all this. So that you can take care of the temple, free from self sabotage behaviors, and free of guilt and shame. What if it all hinges on Love and Gratitude?
April 15, 2022
Part 4 Shame and Guilt: Into The Light: Crawling out of the Guilt and Shame Rabbit Hole
Wait!! Why are we talking about guilt and shame? We’ve gone pretty far down the rabbit hole of guilt and shame. What does this have to do with taking care of the Temple again? Why do I need to take care of the Temple anyway? What’s Health got to do with it? What’s Love got to do with it?
April 15, 2022
Guilt and Shame: Part 3 Wearing my heart on my sleeve. Discussing the root of poor self esteem, self sabotage, anxiety, people pleasing, and depression.
I WAS completely incongruent and inauthentic. Jesus changed everything for me...Guilt, hyper-responsibility and shame are all emotions I’ve wrestled with over time. I WAS an expert at people pleasing and self sabotage! Inside I felt anxious and depressed. On the outside, no one knew, I looked happy and positive. I don’t live like that any longer, and you don’t have to either. I am whole again I’m the same on the inside and the outside. Are you more likely to… Be a people pleaser Have Anxiety Be Depressed? Self sabotage? Be Inauthentic/Incongruent? You don’t have to live like that any more! Jesus offers you a perfect place to leave all the negativity. Check out my podcast to start the journey!
April 12, 2022
Guilt and Shame: Part 2 Where do those thoughts come from?
Did you know that up 95% of your value system is programmed into your neural pathways before the age of 18!!?? No wonder we act like kids and throw tantrums when we're 35, ok 58 😎. Thoughts precede emotions, emotions in motion lead to behaviors. But, where do the thoughts start? Where do they come from? Your thoughts originate from your value systems and programs. Your values and programs were instilled from other humans in your life - your mothers, fathers, teachers and preachers. In addition to the humans in your world, how and where you grew up, the messages you were told, the events - negative and positive, ultimately influence your thoughts, now. Interestingly: 95% of your values are instilled before you’re 18!!! 0-4 years old - 50% 5-8 years old - 30% 9-18 years old - 15% =====> 95% Before the age of 10-12 years old, your brain is really a sponge. You don’t really have the framework necessary to make rational thoughts out of the information you're taking in. You create stories to make the information make sense. Many of these stories no longer serve you as an adult, and are the root of self sabotaging behaviors, guilt and shame. The good news is - You don’t have to live with what was programmed. You can change your programming. I’m going to go into this on the next few podcasts! So, please, LIKE and SUBSCRIBE! And I’ll have a BONUS episode with some skills I learned to help unravel the unhelpful programs that lead to self sabotage, guilt and shame.
April 10, 2022
Guilt and Shame Part 1: Thoughts, Emotions, Actions
Thoughts become emotions, emotions in motion become actions - this is where the self sabotage starts… What thoughts do you have that precede the emotions? DO you feel...not good enough, not enough? Do you compare yourself to others? Are you sad, disappointed, angry? DO you have fear and/or anxiety ruling your life? Any of these can trigger emotions that can lead to self sabotaging behaviors. Then what??? Subscribe and Like - you'll be the first to know!
April 06, 2022
S2E4 Are you Sinatra?
So, let’s get this straight. God wants, no, He commands you to take care of HIS temple. Mr Sinatra was certainly fine with doing it his way - “he sings that he “took the blows” Are firmly planted in Frank Sinatra-land, “I’m doing it MY way’. Are you taking the blows? That’s completely fine. No judgement. However, before you scroll on, 2 questions: If you're being honest, how is Your energy level? Your mental/emotional/spiritual health? Your weight management? Your ability to cope with life’s ups and downs? Again, honest, how’s it going on your own? Okay, let’s assume you figured out that MAYBE your way isn’t working so well. Which of these is/are your biggest challenge(s)? Not staying motivated. Feeling deprived after a couple days. Feeling like you “deserve”…. Feeling hungry all the time. Don’t really have a plan. Get overwhelmed with trying to make changes. I'd love to hear about your challenges! Find me on Facebook! Join my FREE Facebook group and get access toall of my ebooks, food plans and more!
April 04, 2022
Dismantled: Resistance cannot live in the presence of Jesus
Okay, so God gave us a temple to house the Holy Spirit. Cool. However, He also tells us that the temple actually belongs to Him and commands us to take care of the temple. I don’t know about you, but when someone “commands“ me to do anything it gets my hackles up, gets my knickers in a knot, and causes Resistance to rise up and stand strong. I get so prideful. And haughty in spirit. And how does this serve me? I get to be right! I get to live exactly the way I want to! I get to make the choices I want to make! Yep, sounds like a 4 year old! And I got to feel empty and incongruent with how I was showing up in my life. Optimistic on the outside, dying on the inside. SPOILER ALERT: Proverbs 16:18 Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Proverbs tells us exactly what’s going to happen. Yet, we’re usually surprised when life starts to unravel. My life certainly unravelled. Not just my health at certain times, also my relationships, finances, and my faith. Yes, it’s a longer story. You can find it on my earlier podcasts and the links to the Global Leadership Summit (Part 1 and Part 2) story about my journey. Beware, it’s ugly! It was ugly for a long time. I’ve been running from God for over 15 years. However, the fall and destruction followed. Maybe God is causing part of your destruction, to get your attention. Maybe that health scare was for your benefit. Maybe your summer clothes that don’t fit are a warning. God uses circumstances we understand to communicate His message, loud and clear. God slowly stripped me of all my external validation. All the “things” I had created and accumulated that defined “who I was” were slowly dismantled. Until, HE was the only “thing” I could see and the only thing left for me to grab. Resistance cannot live in the presence of Jesus. I was humbled. I got to the place where I had no choice but to look at the price Jesus paid for me. I was reminded that I get to have a relationship with the God who kept chasing after me. And the benefits of that life over the me, me, me and more of me. When I was “all about me”, so was He! He was after the me He created, not the one I created. Ultimately, I was overcome by gratitude. It’s so much easier to follow from a place of gratitude and love, than that of duty, obligation, fear or shame. It’s a journey understanding God’s unconditional love for me, my value and self esteem. I’ll be walking you through all of that in upcoming podcasts…However, how are you going to respond to His relentless pursuit of YOU? You can keep slogging through life or you can create a new one? How are you going to respond? Is your current response serving you? Are you going to keep running? Or are you going to allow God into your heart and life in a new way. Romans 8:1 So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. God loves you!
April 02, 2022
Do you believe your health is holding you back from doing something you REALLY want to do? Do you believe your health is holding you back from living the life God created for you? Or your health is in such a place you're not even sure you have the clarity to discern what God wants for you? I have definitely been there at 185 pounds, carrying baby weight and Cooper was 4 or 5 years old already! I was still eating for two! Maybe you’ve tried so many times before to get healthy. And, now you feel frustrated, angry, and full of guilt and shame. Then, one day it hit me like a ton of bricks. I was reading in 1 Corinthians that our bodies are the temple for the Holy Spirit! WOW! My temple needed a radical renovation! Do you feel like your temple needs renovating or at least an update? Or are you so frustrated and full of guilt and shame about your health journey, you’ve given up? I’ve learned a new way! You don’t have to do this with guilt and shame. Remember 2 things: 1. Health is a journey 2. God has you exactly where He wants you and he loves you Psalm 48:9 Within your temple, O God, we meditate on your unfailing love. YES!~ In YOUR temple! He loves you!
April 01, 2022
Doing a new thing?
Hey hey y’all Today we’re going to talk about… What happens to you when you're going to do a new thing? Is 43:19 See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. FIRST Welcome - Quick update before I move on - 2 yes’s Yes, I moved to a new state; Yes, I still have a virtual practice. www.DrKrisSargent.com What happens to you when you are going to try a new thing? Most of you don’t really like change. You like it while it’s exciting and new, yet, when the new wears off, it gets discarded and you're on to the next thing. But, what if the new thing is BIG, like a career move? Or location change? Or relationship status change? What do you do? 3 different responses that I’ve seen You hit it head on. You're a bull in the china closet, leaping before you look, only assessing the consequences down the road. Maybe you go on your “gut feeling or intuition”, maybe you know the voice of the Holy Spirit so well, you Just Do It. OR maybe You freak out, get anxious and procrastinate? You may not know this, most procrastination is usually the result of Resistance, per Steven Pressfield in the War of Art, feigning as perfectionism and insecurity. OR Do you hide, lack honesty and vulnerability? This is me. I go underground, avoidance behavior. I attempt to hide from God - 😂 This of course is just another form of Resistance. Afraid of what other think, I hide. Psalm 139 tells us that we cannot hide from God. He knows not only everything about us, including all our insecurities and doubts, He formed us exactly the way we are for His purposes. And this is where I landed a few days ago. Smack dad in the middle of one of my favorite Psalms. So, I’m leaping, taking the big step. Every time I try something new, I’m reminded of the scene in Indiana jones where he must cross a chasm that has no bridge. He figures out by the clues he’s given, he must take a step first, then the stepping stone appears. Our action must come first This podcast is the first of my new format. Shorter, to the point. I will include everything from what to eat and drink to how to move, sleep, think feel and have faith. So you’ll want to stay in touch and subscribe to learn more about my BIG, SCARY project. I’d love to hear about your forms of resistance. Will you just stay stuck and justify your position OR will you take the leap into the exciting adventure God has planned for you?
March 28, 2022
Danielle Morrison on Love and Grace in This Crazy World
Danielle is a passionate grace-filled entrepreneur, adventurous mom of 4, and wife of her best friend, Daniel. Yes - Daniel and Danielle - So Cute! We went all over the place talking about being a mom and and entrepreneur, and how hard parenting can be. We spoke at length about having grace and creating non-judgmental spaces for people in this crazy world. Sseko Designs is creating opportunities for women globally. Through your purchases we are funding dignified employment and scholarships for women in Uganda and Ethiopia. Crowned Free is creating awareness to Human Trafficking and providing resources and recovery for survivors. We partner with a different non-profit every month where 15% off our profits are donated and over 50% of our pieces are made by survivors. Making an impact and an income has become a passion of mine and I’m open to sharing any and all things for this to be an opportunity for you too. You can find Danielle... Www.ssekodesigns.com/?u=danielle_morrison Facebook
January 15, 2021
Is your food wreaking havoc or creating health?
Annette and I discuss how food can wreak havoc or create health. Eating healthy doesn't have to be hard, and it can change the trajectory of your health, faith and life. Annette Licitra is passionate about FOOD! Not just any food, but making food look and taste amazing without it being difficult. She specializes in helping busy professionals restore their energy, alleviate digestive distress, and simplify nutrition with easy & nourishing recipes so that they can keep powering through on their journeys. I'm passionate about providing encouragement, support, and education to others as they invest in their health so that their bodies can shine for them! If you're not sure where or how to get started, we'll work together to outline a road map of your individual health goals and create actions according to your specific needs. You can find Annette at http://passionettepalate.com and on Facebook Passionette Palate and Instagram @passionettepalate I want to thank Jill at Jeans and a Cute Top Shop for my adorable top today! https://www.facebook.com/cutetop And you can find me at https://www.RestorYou.com or reach out on social @drkrissargent
November 27, 2020
Why Women Don't Speak Up
Join Karen and I for a fascinating conversation about why women don't speak up for themselves. When you don't share your ideas, as a leaders in your company or in your home, the world misses out on your greatness. God made you amazing! Join us to learn where Karen doesn't have it all figured out, and learn from her story. You can find Karen at www.KarenLaos.com I want to thank Jill at Jeans and a Cute Top Shop for my adorable top today! https://www.facebook.com/cutetop And you can find me at www.RestorYou.com or reach out on social @drkrissargent
November 12, 2020
Mary Kay Neyland on overcoming food addiction and her mission for God
MaryKay is a sixty year old energetic visionary who believes that vibrant health is for all ages...from early years into a rich long life! As a young adult she struggled with emotional eating and overwhelming sweet cravings. Her weight went up and down, causing high stress and other health issues.She admits there are areas of her life she doesn't have figured out. Her passion and light shine in our interview. You can find Mary kay at www.MKShine.net I want to thank Jill at Jeans and a Cute Top Shop for my adorable top today! https://www.facebook.com/cutetop And you can find me at www.RestorYou.com or reach out on social @drkrissargent
November 02, 2020
Christy LaVine on her 100 pound weight loss, getting her husband healthy w/ congestive heart failure
Christy LaVine is passionate about helping people eat right! She lost 100 pounds! She also helped her husband regain and maintain his health after being diagnosed with stage 4 congestive heart failure. Christy has some serious GOLD tips about how to keep your mindset straight. She's got some amazing recipes and a cooking show as well. I want to thank Jill at Jeans and a Cute Top Shop for my adorable top today! https://www.facebook.com/cutetop To find Christy https://www.facebook.com/ChristyCooksforLife/
October 26, 2020
Catherine Gates on Attempting to "Do it All" as a Christian Woman? Feel like something's missing?
You're attempting to be the best employee, mom, wife friend and church member, yet you're feeling inadequate? Does the Bible seem to give mixed messages about our roles as women? In our lively conversation, Catherine Gates mashes up women in leadership from the Bible to the boardroom and is very open about what she her personal and marriage challenges. Catherine's new book, The Confidence Cornerstone: A Woman's Guide to Fearless Leadership lays out why companies profit more with women in leadership. It will also help you have clarity around the obstacles you're facing. Catherine is committed to creating a supportive community of women. You can find her on Facebook and her website is www.CatherineGates.com. Hi! I'm Dr Kris Sargent. Welcome! Have you ever felt like your inside self is different than your outside self? Do you look at others and think they must have it all together and what’s wrong with me? This podcast is where women can admit they don’t have it all figured out, and mash up conversations about faith, wellness, work, family and anything else that might spill out. I have a unique take on faith and health. I believe that your authenticity and spark glow when you take responsibility for your health - body mind and spirit. As a physician, I have practiced alternative medicine for almost 30 years. I understand how faith can be woven through our lives to create a healthy body, mind and spirit, so that we can live out God's purpose. I'd love to hear from you! Leave a positive review and some stars, if you would like to tell me how I can do things better, or that you love it - reach out on social... Facebook Instagram @drkrissargent YouTube
October 19, 2020
Julie Landi on "Why Life's Messes are Good"
Are you wondering why you have the messes in your life? Are you unable to see where your life is going? Julie Landi believes inside every one of you lies a unique set of strengths, values, and passions, and if you take the time to discover, develop and deploy them, you will make the world a better place. During our conversation we took a deep dive into where the "messes" in our lives intersect with God's purposes, her journey of helping women find their vision for their life, and the one area in her own life where she doesn't have it all figured out. You can find Julie at https://www.liveyourvision.us, and on Facebook. If you ever wondered if "she has it all together", I'm setting the record straight. I'm having conversations with some amazing women who are ready to admit they don't have it all figured out. We are talking about our messy lives, faith, health, relationships, parenting, significant others and whatever else spills out.
October 13, 2020
My 2020 Transformation More than Good Enough
Self sabotage, not good enough, workaholic, perfectionistic and emotionally shut down. Not that long ago, those are the words that I would use to describe myself. Most people would never believe that as I am generally a happy, optimistic person when you meet me, however, the inside and the outside didn't match. There was a pivotal moment when I realized I needed to change. Here's a piece of the story of how my insides and outside now match. I really believe we don't have time to waste racing through life. And, that our spark and authenticity for life glows when we take control of our health. I help women match their inside and outside so that you can have the body, mind and faith you crave and be, do and have the life you desire. If you would like to see what's it's like to work with me - copy and paste the link below for a FREE 30 minute Explore call. https://drkrissargent.as.me/ExploreCall
October 02, 2020
My Messy Life Lessons, part 2 Does God Hate Me or Have me?
Does God Hate Me or Does He Have Me? I learned several key lessons that answered this question for me... If you ever wondered if "she has it all together", I'm setting the record straight. This is the second in a series about my messy life, messy faith, messy relationships, messy parenting and the fact that I don't have it all together. I maintain a private Functional Medicine practice, Optavia Health coaching business, my SPARK Life coaching program. I'm a single mom with two teens, Kallan and Cooper, fifty percent of the time, my mom, 90, one hundred percent of the time, and 2 dogs Peanut and Mango. You can find me on Facebook, Instagram and my website www.RestorYou.com.
September 25, 2020
Full version, My Messy Life, part 1
If you ever wondered if "she has it all together", I'm setting the record straight. This is the first in a series about my messy life, messy faith, messy relationships, messy parenting. I talk about how my faith, optimism, countless Audible books, lots of personal development work, and prayer has brought me to this place of starting a podcast. I maintain a private Functional Medicine practice, Optavia Health coaching business, my SPARK Life coaching program. I'm a single mom with two teens, Kallan and Cooper, fifty percent of the time, my mom, 90, one hundred percent of the time, and 2 dogs Peanut and Mango.
September 25, 2020
My Messy Life, part 1
If you ever wondered if "she has it all together", I'm setting the record straight. This is the first in a series about my messy life, messy faith, messy relationships, messy parenting. I talk about how my faith, optimism, countless Audible books, lots of personal development work, and prayer has brought me to this place of starting a podcast. I also maintain a private Functional Medicine practice, Optavia Health coaching business, my SPARK Life coaching program. I'm a single mom with two teens, Kallan and Cooper, fifty percent of the time, my mom, 90, one hundred percent of the time, and 2 dogs Peanut and Mango.
September 18, 2020
Don't have it all figured out?
Have you ever felt like your inside self is different than your outside self? Do you look at others and think they must have it all together and what’s wrong with me? This podcast is where women can admit they don’t have it all figured out, and mash up conversations about faith, wellness, work, family and anything else that might spill out. I have a unique take on faith and health. As a physician, I have practiced alternative medicine for almost 30 years. I understand how faith can be woven through our lives to create a healthy body, mind and spirit, so that we can live out God's purpose.
September 09, 2020