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Surface Deep

By Surface Deep The Podcast

Welcome to Surface Deep! *formerly known as Ladies Night Podcast* Mary, Tawana, & Nette are back and MUCH better! We've elevated in life and have elevated the podcast. As our new title suggests, we aren't just staying on the surface this time, we're getting DEEP. With topics ranging from politics to POLYdick, we are talking about it all! Tune in every other week as we hash out the things going on with us and the world!
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07 | We’re Getting SKIDE Out! || Live Taping w/ Our Guest

Surface DeepApr 19, 2019

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39 | I Assertively… Stand On Business

39 | I Assertively… Stand On Business

What’s up y’all! We’re back with a new episode! Same vibes, new visuals 👏🏽👏🏽 We decided to record on video for the first time and it was a great episode to do it! https://youtu.be/sS6b9NFLCwI?si=mu1Sjj5Day7Le0MR We open up by checking in at the table - giving our personal updates. We then jump into the Scratching the Surface segment where we discuss and give advice on blow jobs & porn! 🫣 We slide over into Treading Lightly where we dive into the latest hot topics. Catching up on Keith Lee, Megan’s new song, and Keke Palmer. Our main topics lead us into talking about friendship therapy & communication styles. Dive in with us and enjoy the conversations! 💙🩵
Nov 16, 202355:42
38 | What’s That Smell?!

38 | What’s That Smell?!

What’s up y’all! We’re back in this thang and pickin’ up where we left off. We jump right into scratching the surface to discuss a Reddit thread of smelly privates! That conversation carries us over to discussing the differences of honesty and transparency. How honest are you with your spouse? Do they have your password to your phone or na?!
We get DEEP and break down the importance of security and love in a relationship (+more!). Which is more important to you?! Security or love? Chime in and let us know! We’d love to hear from you!
Sep 28, 202349:33
37 | But FIRST, Let Me See It 👀

37 | But FIRST, Let Me See It 👀

Happy Thursday, Deep Crew! We are back with a new episode! We start off by walking into the Carlee situation, of course we HAVE to talk the updates of the case. We also get into the hot topic of the Cisgendered woman debate. We then scratch the surface by talking about an episode of Seinfeld where FAKING IT is a thing! Have you ever faked it!? We leave that and dip into the topic of is it a such thing as TOO BIG down there?! 👀 We dive head first into the topic of when to leave well enough & PEOPLE alone! Chat with us on social media or in the comments about your thoughts on this episode! ♥
Aug 03, 202348:13
36 | It’s Not You, It’s Us…

36 | It’s Not You, It’s Us…

We’re back with a new episode. Using the platform audio to record virtually seemed like a great idea… at first*. Join the conversation as we discuss updates since last episode, the success of KiKi Palmer and Halle Bailey & the men they’re with, and somehow in between we discuss experiences with uncircumcised men! *bare with the audio on this one, your speakers may need adjusting
Jul 20, 202342:34
35 | Allow Us to reIntroduce Ourselves

35 | Allow Us to reIntroduce Ourselves

Hello, Hello! We are back like we never left, and starting from the beginning like we hadn't been here before. We get into the NEW of the podcast and dive into how we came about as a unit. We then get into our new segment, Scratching the Surface to discuss a HOT social topic. We carry that discussion over into the DEEP dive of the episode. Tune in as we get back into the groove of things and return to the normal scheduled program.
Jul 06, 202355:51
34 | We Minus Well Record…

34 | We Minus Well Record…

Dusting this thing off...
*Taps mic* What's up y'all! We're baaack! We've missed it so bad that we just jump right back into it! Discussing

Hot topics:
Drake / Meg / Pardi
- ni**as just acting light skin out here

Expectations for relationships, friendships, do you have them? We talk about what are ours and go behind why.
We also discuss boundaries and how they can kind of tie in together or meet at some point. Tune in and let us know what your thoughts are!
Nov 14, 202251:09
33 | What Are Your Heauxtales? 👀

33 | What Are Your Heauxtales? 👀

What’s up! We are BACK with a new episode to get you through the week! We jump into the have you heard topics with Wendy Williams news! Have you watched her movie or doc? We discuss the details of the MESSINESS of it all! That leads us to the topic of how deep do you go into YOUR truth when it involves other people? Do you have to name drop?! Do you hold old secrets after the friendship ends? Do you have any HEAUXtales?! Let’s discuss! We dive into these topics plus more! Tune in and reach out with your thoughts!
Feb 19, 202143:31
32 | What Kind of Homegirl ARE You?! 🤔

32 | What Kind of Homegirl ARE You?! 🤔

Have y’all heard about the DaniLeigh shenanigans?! We dive into those and comment on her “yellow bone” song. Is it really an issue to have a song for the light skin women? We also slide into gender roles. Should parents treat their sons and daughters the same? This leads us to speaking on the situation where a lady proposed to her boyfriend and things didn’t go as expected. She mentioned that her friend helped her plan and put things together which posed our title question! We discuss these topics and much more. Tune in NOW!! Chime in and let us know your thoughts!
Feb 06, 202133:38
31 | What’s Your Freak Threshold?! 😈

31 | What’s Your Freak Threshold?! 😈

It’s Hump Day and we’re back like we never left! We slide into this episode when trying to see if every had heard about the riots over at Capitol Hill! We then jump to a lighter note into our main topic of Freakiness! Are you a freak?! What makes someone a freak?! We give our takes on that plus discuss whether there is a struggle of the heart & mind - do we follow the heart of go with our first mind? We talk about this plus many other great things. Tune in NOW!
Jan 20, 202150:22
30 | We’re Just Figuring It Out || (Happy Anniversary To Us!👏🏽🎉🥳)

30 | We’re Just Figuring It Out || (Happy Anniversary To Us!👏🏽🎉🥳)

We pop it off celebrating our 2 year anniversary!! 🥳 Thank you so much for riding this wave with us. We truly appreciate you for it! ♥️
We slide into the topic of kinks! There are many kinks to address but we diving into the spitting and anal play kinks 😉. Are you into it?! We then flip the page entirely to discuss a headline in the news of a text thread that was leaked of some caucasian women talking about dating black men. We close out discussing mother wounds. We share our thoughts on these topics plus more!

Tune in NOW! Let us know what you think! Chime in in the comments or leave us a voice note on Anchor.

Thank you so much for listening! Follow and message us on these platforms:
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Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack

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Dec 24, 202045:41
29 | Where You Crying 😭 At?! That Hyundai or that Rolls Royce?!

29 | Where You Crying 😭 At?! That Hyundai or that Rolls Royce?!

(Quick note: We were so excited to be back together to record that things were lit! One of us was kind of loud (*coughmarycough*) so adjust your speakers accordingly! 😂 we also got cut off without ending due to time but you got the jest of the convo! We’d still love to hear your feedback! Contact us below!)
What’s up y’all! We are back with a NEW episode! We jump back into action with a Girl Have You Heard topic! We discuss the issue of Jayda and Lil Baby! Ish popped off his Bday weekend and we were on the side lines watching and commentating. This leads us to sliding into the topic of why women (or men) decide to stay after experiencing cheating. Shout out to our friend Q for also expanding on this topic on his podcast. Is cheating really grounds to dip?! Are gender roles really a thing?! We dive deep into these questions plus more! Listen in and give us your thoughts! Tune in NOW! Let us know what you think! Chime in in the comments or leave us a voice note on Anchor.
Thank you so much for listening! Follow and message us on these platforms:
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Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack
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**All of the rumored information are allegations until other wise confirmed by the party at hand. If any information was misspoke, we will gladly clear it up! These are only our opinions and interruptions of the situations mentioned.**
Dec 16, 202059:59
28 | Protect Black Women FRFR! ✊🏽

28 | Protect Black Women FRFR! ✊🏽

Happy Wednesday!! We are back to bless your hump day with a new episode! In this episode, we dive DEEP into protecting black women FRFR! We start by discussing the Megan vs Tory DRAMA which leads to us talking about other situations where black women should be protected. We also discuss the hot topic that was floating around about women forcing men into monogamy. Is that what it REALLY is?! We give our thoughts on this plus other things. Tune in NOW! Let us know what you think! Chime in in the comments or leave us a voice note on Anchor.
Thank you so much for listening! Follow and message us on these platforms:
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Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack
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Oct 28, 202023:43
27 | We’re Tappin’ Back In!!

27 | We’re Tappin’ Back In!!

What’s up!! We are BACK like we never left! Relaunching with a few changes but ready to press on and bring great content to your ears 👂🏽!! We kick off with a quick catch up of how things have been going since the pandemic. The coronavirus conversation then has us to dive into other hot topics of politics. Tune in and chime in! Leave us a comment or email your thoughts or topic suggestions to ladiesnightpod4@gmail.com.
Don’t forget to check us out on the Talk 2 Q podcast. We dive into even more politic topics and share some of our thoughts. We’d love to get your feedback! The link to Q’s podcast : www.talk2q.com/2020/10/what-women-think-vol-3-presidential.html?m=1
Tawana’s Boutique: Unapologetically Curvy www.shop-unapologetically-curvy.com
Mary’s Business : www.helloorganization.org
Thank you so much for listening! Follow and message us on these platforms:
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Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack
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Oct 21, 202026:38
26 | What Time Does Corona Come Out 🧐

26 | What Time Does Corona Come Out 🧐

*Disclaimer - this episode was recorded remotely. There may be an overlap in the conversation so please bare with us. Also, some events may have changed since the taping of the podcast.*
Welcome back! We are here with another GREAT episode! We welcome back our guest Al! (@wellstown). We dive into the topics with the discussion of the debbie downer for everyone, Coronavirus 😫 (Did you say it in Cardi B voice too?! 👀🤣). We give our takes on how we’re all coping with this quarantining process. How are you dealing with things? We also discuss how we have been social distancing, or lack there of 🥴 lol. We also give it up to the resources that are assisting families in need at this time. We leave this heavy topic to move onto our main topics. One of these topics comes from a post on FB which posed the question do women pick certain double standards to follow? This leads us to the next topic (question) from a post on Twitter of “do men settle the same or more than women?” Tune in to hear the stories and chime in with your thoughts! Our information is below! 💕
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Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack
Shannon: (FB) LaChelle Divinity \ (IG)@_magnolia_peach
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Apr 08, 202048:40
25 | Gettin No Action 😖

25 | Gettin No Action 😖

*Disclaimer - this was our first time recording a full episodes remotely. Due to COVID-19 (Coronavirus ~Cardi B voice 😆) we didn’t want to gather to record so bare with us. 😊 We hope you enjoy the episode* ♥️ It’s Hump Day and we have a new episode to help you get over it! We are joined by our second guest, Al Hull. We all discuss some headline topics in the Girl, Have You Heard segment- and Al chimes in too lol. We discuss Ciara finally giving the girls some insight into her prayer! We then move to the topic of being consistent. When it comes to a goal or even a relationship, is it really hard to be consistent? What does that look like? We then pose the question of having non-negotiables for relationships. We all give our deal breakers, what are yours? Let us know in the comments. We wrap things up by asking Al a few questions the ladies wanted to know, in particular about having a great bread! ☺️ Ladies who love guys with beards will want to tune in to hear about this good beard maintenance 😬! Chime in and share your thoughts. Contact is using the information below!
Thank you so much for listening! Follow and message us on these platforms:
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Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack
Shannon: (FB) LaChelle Divinity \ (IG)@_magnolia_peach
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Apr 01, 202034:51
24 | Is It Really Pink?! 🤨 (Let Me S👀 It)

24 | Is It Really Pink?! 🤨 (Let Me S👀 It)

We speak on the Coronavirus craziness and the changes we’re facing because of it. How is it impacting your day to day? We pose a question that was online. A lady divorces her husband for splitting the bills although he made wayyy more than her. Is that wrong? Listen to the full story and chime in with your thoughts! We then have the question posed of allowing your spouse to have a celebrity hall pass... Are you down? If so, who would you pick?! Tune in to hear who we picked 😆 Let us know your picks in the comments.
Chime in using our social media information below.
Thank you so much for listening! Follow and message us on these platforms:
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Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack
Shannon: (FB) LaChelle Divinity \ (IG)@_magnolia_peach
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Mar 25, 202030:29
23 | Play Stupid Games 🎡, Win Stupid Prizes
Mar 19, 202035:05
22 | Love Is Blind 😎
Mar 11, 202032:41
21 | Cuz I’m Pullin Up!
Feb 26, 202025:58
20 | Door Dash, & Then Some 🍑😜
Feb 19, 202044:52
19 | Wait a Minute Gayle 😒.... (Kobe Episode)
Feb 12, 202040:06
18 | Communicate & Know Your Role!
Feb 07, 202038:42
17 | You Won't Finesse Me

17 | You Won't Finesse Me

We’re back with another episode! We welcome our first guest Q to the show! 👋🏽😊 We tap in by first dedicating a moment of silence to Kobe Bryant and the passengers of the tragic flight. This leads us to the discussion of having people utilizing this situation to return to old situations. Do you allow people to double back? We then move into a discussion of friends - starting off with friends with businesses. Do you have to use their services or is it okay to “out source” things? Have you had this happen to you?! We stay in the friendship zone and wrap up with the topic of the “strong friend”. Have you or do you know someone who’s been THAT friend? Chime in and let’s talk about it!

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Ladies Night Podcast: (IG) @ladiesnightpod_ 

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Tawana: (IG) @t.lashun_|| FB: La’Shun Johnson  

Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack

Shannon: (FB) LaChelle Divinity \ (IG)@_magnolia_peach

Guest Information Quincy “Q” Talk2Q.com (Be sure to sign up for the news letter!♥️) 

Mary’s business : helloorganization.org Instagram : hello_organization 

Site for articles: Xonecole.com - great articles on friendship and mental health

 Need assistance finding a therapist? Try searching Therapyforblackgirls.com 

Information for tumblrs: Facebook: KayceeKreationz Like her page and support! ♥️

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Jan 31, 202045:59
16 | Jazz Hands & Spirit Fingers 😉 👐
Jan 22, 202038:10
15 | Anniversary Episode 🎉
Jan 15, 202033:34
14 | 2019 : "But did you die?!"
Dec 18, 201949:49
13 | It's Called... GROWTH! 😌

13 | It's Called... GROWTH! 😌

We’re bustin through the door on episode 2 with the discussion of Apryl & Fizz. Is this a code violation? This leads us to talking about dealing with conflict with friends / family. Listen in & chime in! How would you feel if your friend dated your ex? How have you dealt w/ conflict? Let us know your thoughts! Send us an email to ladiesnightpod@gmail.com. Or, if you’d rather send us a message on social media... Follow the host of the podcast :  Ladies Night Podcast: (IG) @ladiesnightpod_ Ladies Night Podcast: (FB) Ladies Night Podcast Nette: (IG) @ayo_ivanetta  Tawana: (IG) @t.lashun_ || FB: La’Shun Johnson  Mary: (IG) @_marytheemack Shannon: (FB) LaChelle Divinity \ (IG)_magnolia_peach **Disclaimer : WE DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO ANY MUSIC BEING PLAYED IN THIS EPISODE.**
Nov 13, 201946:15
12 | What It Do Baybeee!!
Nov 06, 201939:40
11 | Peace & Soul Grease! ✌🏽

11 | Peace & Soul Grease! ✌🏽

Hey y’all! It’s the final episode this season and we’re chopping it up about a few topics. From addressing conflict to sharing the worst thing we’ve heard about ourselves. Tune in & check us out! We will be back in September ready to hit the ground running! Topic suggestions? Email us! ladiesnightpod4@gmail.com | Don’t forget to follow us on social media during this break to keep up with us! Follow the host of the podcast :  Ladies Night Podcast: (IG) @ladiesnightpod_ Ladies Night Podcast: (FB) Ladies Night Podcast Nette: (IG) @ayo_ivanetta  Tawana: (IG) @t.lashun_ || FB: La’Shun Johnson  Mary: (IG) @_honestlymary  Shannon: (FB) LaChelle Divinity **Disclaimer : WE DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO ANY MUSIC BEING PLAYED IN THIS EPISODE.**
Jul 30, 201936:00
10 | PERIODT Pooh!

10 | PERIODT Pooh!

Happy Father’s Day!! ♥️ Hello good people! We are here with episode 10!! We jump right in and check in - how has everyone been?! It was hump day for us so we were relieved to be over the hump! 👏🏽😅 We then get into the business starting with the first topic - What is the craziest thing you’ve done to get into or keep a relationship!? This topic comes from a thread on twitter of #WorstThingsDone. We share our personal stories of doing crazy things we’d done to (try to) keep a man! Our next topic we discuss double standards on African American men vs women dating outside of the race. We discuss our thoughts as to why some people applaud the woman, but side eye the man. Why is that? Our topics wrap up by acknowledging Father’s Day! The question for this comes from a social media debate of gifting the father of your child(ren) while being in a new relationship. Is that okay to do? How do you handle that? Does co-parenting really work?! Chime in on these topics with us! Like, comment, and subscribe for future episode alerts!
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Nette: (IG) @ayo_ivanetta
Tawana: (IG) @t.lashun_ || FB: La’Shun Johnson
Mary: (IG) @_honestlymary
Shannon: (FB) LaChelle Divinity
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Jun 16, 201948:42
09 | Tripped & Slipped Into a SITUATIONship
May 23, 201931:34
08| Let Me Piggyback Off That! (Mother’s Day Episode)
May 12, 201951:36
07 | We’re Getting SKIDE Out! || Live Taping w/ Our Guest
Apr 19, 201944:23
06 | The Game Has Changed!

06 | The Game Has Changed!

In this week’s episode, we give you our highs and lows since the last episode. We move into a new segment of Listener Q&A where we respond to different topics submitted by viewers. We then move into our show topics of having OCD! One of us can’t stand ODD numbers, some others prefer organized chaos. We then move into the next topic of “dating to marry”. Do you date with a purpose, if so, is is ALWAYS to marry?! We move on out to our events which includes our very first podcast event! 

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To Support Tawana's cause for the pageant, click HERE to go to her page for the Mississippi Plus America Pageant. Please donate and make sure you mention that you're a listener of the podcast! 

For more information on Mary's personal organizing business, check out her website HERE!

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Ladies Night Podcast: (IG) @ladiesnightpod_

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Nette: (IG) @ayo_ivanetta 

Tawana: (IG) @t.lashun_ || FB: La’Shun Johnson 

Mary: (IG) @_honestlymary 

Shannon: (FB) LaChelle Divinity

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Apr 08, 201950:13
05 | Fifty Shades of Black
Mar 23, 201936:03
04 | Friendship Check In - What Friend Am I?
Feb 24, 201947:55
03 | You’n Know Nan!
Feb 24, 201944:59
02 | Starting 2019 Off Like...
Jan 19, 201959:05