Jalebiyan

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Just two fun loving Pakistani American friends talking about important life topics and trying to raise awareness of what really matters

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Jalebiyan Ep: 65 'Affirm your curiosity' *English episode

JalebiyanApr 03, 2020

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Jalebiyan Ep:127 'Beyond Besties'

Understanding the complexity of female friendship.

Today's episode explore the multifaceted nature of female friendships, including the dynamics of support, competition, vulnerability, and growth especially among young women. Our guest Layla and Nadia talked about their personal experiences and learning.

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Apr 12, 202433:54

Jalebiyan Ep:126 'Marriage and new generation'

An interesting inside scoop on what's going on in the minds of our new generation about relationships and especially marriage

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Dec 08, 202331:10

Jalebiyan Ep: 125 'Islam and depression'

Death of Tariq Jameel's son. A very sad incident that shook the Pakistani community and culture.
mental health is real and important. Do listen, share and give feedback. Available wherever you get your podcast from.
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Nov 24, 202326:52

Jalebiyan Ep: 124 'Can men and women be friends?'

The question of all questions. Can men and women be friends? This question has been debated and dissected and the answers are heavily influenced by ethnic backgrounds, family structure and of course personal experiences.
This conversation about cross-gender friendship is just our take on this topic. Do share your thoughts, opinions and experiences if you feel comfortable.
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Sep 15, 202326:20

Jalebiyan Ep: 123 'Let Them'

'Let them theory" Let's talk about peace of mind and more joy in life.

Are you ready?

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Sep 01, 202329:45

Jalebiyan Ep: 122 'Zindagi Tamasha'

Zindagi Tamasha is a movie of a guy who does something different one day and all of a sudden loses all respect in society. The movie talks about how general public around us categorize and place us in certain boxes. We are forced to lose our individuality to fit in a socially acceptable mold.

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Aug 18, 202323:56

Jalebiyan Ep: 121 'Toxic people'

What we forget when it comes to boundaries!

stop asking why they keep doing it and start asking why you keep allowing it?

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Jul 28, 202329:51

Jalebiyan Ep: 120 'Mujhe pankh lage armanoo ke'

What do dreams mean to you?

Do you think dreams are important for a joy filled life?

A discussion over dreams, how we often forget to fulfill our dreams and stay unhappy. Can that void be filled with something else?

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Jun 24, 202322:23

Jalebiyan Ep: 119 'Child free or Not?"

Our discussion is about child free lifestyle and what impacts that decision.

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Jun 10, 202328:29

Jalebiyan Ep: 118 'Nepotism and opportunity'

Today we talked about opportunities. These can come in the form of nepotism or in the form of an unplanned lucky chance. Our thoughts are an opportunity used wisely can change your life dramatically.

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Apr 28, 202325:01

Jalebiyan Ep: 117 'Weight management and wellbeing'

Weight management and wellbeing is about moving towards a healthy lifestyle that has a positive impact on your physical health; both inside and out. If you are not investing in your wellbeing, think again!!

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Mar 31, 202324:12

Jalebiyan Ep: 116 'Bothered enough to address or not?'

Do you express yourself objectively? State all facts of what happened and why you're bothered by it?
Or you don't share your opinion because you seek approval?
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Mar 10, 202314:28

Jalebiyan Ep: 115 'Empty Nest Syndrome - Dos and Don'ts'

Things are changing for parents as well as for children. As parents we try our best to teach our kids the art of living, then comes a time to believe in your teachings and to let your child go. Time to have faith in your teachings and upbringing, and above all time to learn the art of living for yourself without kids.

Feb 24, 202331:04

Jalebiyan Ep: 114 ‘No D*cks just Chicks!’

A very short discussion over celebrating Galentine's Day

Feb 12, 202311:03

Jalebiyan Ep:113 'Young American Pakistani progressive perspective'

There are many ways of parenting and most of them are probably right. But the real question is: Does your parenting style help your child grow into a better version of themselves or a version of how you perceive a ‘good child’? A passionate conversation with Nameer Khan! (Narjis’s son)

We have got to listen to our youth and modify our parenting styles. Let’s fill the gap and let our children express how they feel. I know you are going to love this conversation.

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Jun 24, 202237:52

Jalebiyan Ep: 112 'Keep moving forward' (English episode)

Women especially desi/brown women are still struggling with the stigma of divorce and starting over again. Permitted by God but not by society.
Talking with a Bengali friend about her journey of moving forward.
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Jun 17, 202246:06

Jalebiyan Ep: 111 'Every child is an artist' (English episode)

A conversation for our youth with dreams to make art, and for parents and society that does not give artists a break.
Arman is talking to us about his journey of passion and music.

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Jun 10, 202241:52

Jalebiyan Ep: 110 'Half year gone, Half to go!'

Sharing five key thoughts that inspire us to stay motivated to finish the year strong.

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Jun 03, 202222:23

Jalebiyan Ep: 109 'Pretty Privilege'

Is it real?
Something we all think about but usually are not willing to talk about.

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May 27, 202231:18

Jalebiyan Ep:108 'Goodbye tension, Hello pension' (English episode)

Talking about the chapter of life that you can design for yourself. When you have taken care of your responsibilities, what and how do you plan to enjoy?

Intimate girlfriend conversation with Julie P.

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May 13, 202244:57

Jalebiyan Ep: 107 'The productivity virus'

Productivity is a philosophy of life, a state of mind. But what does that mean for you? Do you live to check off things from a to do list or taking naps in sun and enjoying butterflies and hummingbirds are part of being productive.

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Apr 29, 202219:25

Jalebiyan Ep: 106 'Mashwara ya Naseehat'

A difference between advice and advise.

Seeking advice encourages information exchange, learning and meaningful connection between us and our friends. So who do you ask for advise and how do you implement.

Apr 22, 202219:52

Jalebiyan Ep: 105 'Desi men and spiritual transformation'

A fresh perspective from Jazz about learning emotional skills to live a purposeful life.

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Apr 15, 202230:07

Jalebiyan Ep: 104 'Perspective (Zaaviya)'

It's all about perspective (Zaaviya). Life is much simpler if we don't cling to what we think is right. Let us know what you think.

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Apr 08, 202225:54

Jalebiyan Ep: 103 'Ramadan Rediness'

Ramadan Mubarak!

Our take on Ramadan preparation; physically, mentally and spiritually. Setting intentions in the key to Ramadan.

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Apr 01, 202227:25

Jalebiyan Ep: 102 'Door of Awareness' NGO

Proud Pakistani moment! Drum roll

Conversation with Ruba Humayun, Founder and CEO of ‘Door of Awareness’. NGO that we trust and believe in. The amazing work this foundation doing is beyond words. 26 schools in Lahore slums, vocational school for women, girls and boys, matrimonial services, and thrift shop to raise money for the foundation.

She is making a difference in our society and we have a chance to help educate Pakistan.

How to make a contribution:

MCB Bank details :

Bank Address:

New Garden town Lhr

Account Title :

Door of Awareness

Branch Code:

1080

IBAN : PK94MUCB0562175981006739

SWIFT CODE:

MUCBPKKA

Account number

0562175981006739

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Mar 25, 202224:13

Jalebiyan Ep: 101 'Justice System for Women in Pakistan'

1000 honor killings in Pakistan, every year. Islami Jamhooria Pakistan. Jago Pakistan.

And that’s why We March!

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Mar 18, 202226:08

Jalebiyan Ep: 100 'Post Wedding Blues'

“Post wedding blues” yup that’s the topic this week. I know, I know no one talks about it, that’s why we are.
BTW watch “mr Charming” on YouTube for better understanding.

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Mar 11, 202233:44

Jalebiyan Ep: 99 'Emotionally absent parent'

Another episode relating to parenting. “Emotionally absent parents”. Just a suggestion to look within and around to notice the impact.

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Mar 04, 202231:54

Jalebiyan Ep: 98 'What is Romance?'

What is a romantic expression for you? Does it need to be something grand and expensive or something intimate and personal?

The word romantic was originated basically to describe imagination, but what does this word actually mean to you and has it changed overtime?

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Feb 18, 202227:41

Jalebiyan Ep: 97 'menu note vikha, mera mood bana'

An open and honest conversation about Money. It's about time!!

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Feb 11, 202237:45

Jalebiyan Ep: 96 'Islam aur Laundi'

Talking about a sensitive topic that has mixed point views presented by current Islamic scholars and moulvis. We are talking about the concept of slave girls known as Laundis (concubines).

We can't rule out common sense when we talk religion. Emotional attachment to ideas creates chaos.

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Feb 04, 202231:33

Jalebiyan Ep: 95 'Friendship is ageless'

One of the best things about friendship is that age doesn’t matter. Female friendships have many colors!

In today’s conversation we discuss Friendship is beyond age and many other factors.

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Jan 28, 202234:39

Jalebiyan Ep: 94 'Midlife Transformation'

I am sure you all have heard, talked, throw punches at others regarding midlife crisis. But these days, the old midlife crises is more likely to be called a midlife transformation and it's not all bad.
The term crises often doesn't fit because while it can be accompanied by serious depression, it can also mark a period of tremendous growth. A healthy and positive perspective.

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Jan 22, 202226:51

Jalebiyan Ep: 93 'Trust vs Mistrust'

Today's conversation is about how much faith and confidence we instill in our kids when we say we trust them.

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Jan 14, 202236:01

Jalebiyan Ep: 92 'Malala: Hamari beti'

Few words about recent uproar over Malala's recent interview with Vogue magazine. Some insightful aspects of how, what and why we think about our young adults. Available wherever you get your podcast from.
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Jul 02, 202124:34

Jalebiyan Ep: 91 'Parenting and Religion'

Talking about parenting and religion. As we now Ramadan is here, what are the ways we can make it easier for our youth to be a better human beings and Muslims.

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Apr 16, 202136:51

Jalebiyan Ep: 90 'Khan ye kya kiya?'

The recent uproar on the comments of PM of Pakistan Imran Khan over victim blaming and shaming women instead of resolving the real issue. 'Pardah' was meant to be for both genders, not just women. Available wherever you get your podcast from.
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Apr 09, 202115:59

Jalebiyan Ep:89 'Mothers of teenagers'

One of the hardest jobs in this world is to raise a teenager. But we forget they’re also going through their own struggles and it isn’t easy for them either. Which is why, us as parents, must learn to become a parent they can trust and lean on for their good, bad and ugly.

Just be their cheerleader, friend, mentor and secret keeper. I bet you won’t be disappointed!!

In conversation with two mothers of teenagers about their journey thus far.

A fun light hearted conversation that most parents can connect with.

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Mar 05, 202101:06:14

Jalebiyan Ep:88 'Unapologetically Ayman'

Such a hopeful conversation with Ayman. A rising professional makeup artist, LGBTQ influencer with a goal in mind to be the voice for community who are usually ignored, belittled and avoided in Muslim Pakistani community.
He can be found on IG, YouTube and Tiktok by the handle @thekillermonsta.
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Feb 05, 202140:40

Jalebiyan Ep 87: 'English Minglish'

Our two cents on the new viral video of two Pakistani female cafe owners, insulting their manager of 9 years over his broken English. Available wherever you get your podcast from.
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Jan 29, 202118:24

Jalebiyan Ep: 86 'Ishq Kameena'

The word Ishq and what meaning does it hold for us. How have we used and abused this word over the time. Available wherever you get your podcast from.
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Jan 08, 202135:15

Jalebiyan Ep: 85 '2020: Year of the off'

2020 will stay in books you guys!!
Resilience is accepting your new reality, even if it's less good than the one you had before.
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Jan 01, 202127:55

Jalebiyan Ep: 84 'Female Misogynist '

The image we have for freedom and liberation is our view and choice, and as a free woman you can rightfully have your own.
Let's not shatter each other and collectively support each other to be free and happy. Available wherever you get your podcast from.
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Dec 04, 202039:10

Jalebiyan Ep: 83 'Spreading germs all over the place'

Still in crises, we are shaming each other on wearing AND not wearing a mask.
Where do you stand on this?

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Nov 06, 202012:57

Jalebiyan Ep: 82 'Rape culture and Castration'

So after the unbelievable increase in rape cases in Pakistan (women, men, girls, boys and pets), the new bill is in draft form and being presented to assembly. how are we going to deal with this crises?
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Oct 30, 202027:04

Jalebiyan Ep: 81 'Men abuse other men too'

We don't realize men get physically abused too, 1 in 7 statistically speaking!! Unfortunately in south east Asia boys get regular beating from fathers, teachers and other elderly people because the system allows it to happen. It's taken as a form of discipline and is a norm. We have with us a courageous man who was kind enough to talk about his journey through physical abuse.

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Sep 25, 202034:57

Jalebiyan Ep: 80 'Election 2020' *English episode

Election 2020 approaching fast we must understand our civic duty. Today we are in conversation with Chelsey and Kelly about some really important information. Important dates ◦ October 9th-last day to register ◦ REQUEST AN ABSENTEE BALLOT - Tuesday, October 27, 2020 - 5:00 p.m. (deadline ◦ Mail in by Oct 20-USPS RUNNING 2 WEEKS BEHIND ◦ Early Voting OK Voter Portal- Okvoterportal.okelections.us 4 Levels of gov’t ◦ MUNICIPAL ◦ COUNTY ◦ STATE ◦ FEDERAL State Representative Kelly Albright: www.Albrightforok.com @Repkellyalbright State Representative Chelsey Branham: www.chelseybranham.com @Branhamforhouse

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Sep 18, 202053:12

Jalebiyan Ep: 79 'Rape in Pakistan'

The recent vicious motorway rape case in Pakistan has stir up a lot movement.

Talking to a young Pakistani woman Misbah, why women feel the need to be on the streets to demand justice.

We're so proud of our new generation. More power to you!

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Sep 14, 202037:55

Jalebiyan Ep: 78 ‘Bazurg aur bazurgi’

We wanted to discuss the role of Bazurgs (elderly) in our lives. The kinds we see in our Southeast Asian culture, along with their some love able and not so like able traits.

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Sep 04, 202026:49